Sounds to me like you are not all that happy and are putting alot of pressure on yourself. Not sure where you get these ideas of "good" from but they dont seem to be helping you. In life you have to workout what whats, imo that means what you need, want, like and can do. You could try thinking about those things, listing them, need list first is the easist imo. Good luck :)
I feel the same, too! When I was 20, I thought I'd have 3 kids, great hubby, lots of pets. I'm 44 and have no kids, will never marry (only been in love once - go figure) and right now 1 small dog. I've accepted this. But I keep thinking - should I move, because I hear this place sucks? I should want more money, right? Great health? More discipline? I may have 30 more years left, at best, and I want to make them COUNT - but HOW????? I don't want to look back with regrets, either.
We're on the same page! I wish I could either just accept it all without regrets or make up my mind to DO something about it! But indecisiveness is one of my biggest flaws.
Every prize has a price. When i feel indecisive, it's because I can't decide if the reward will be worth the work. I love to eat, and a several years ago ate myself up to 246lbs.Once I found someone who taught me how to lose weight, I had to make the decision and to keep making it every moment of every day, and it's the hardest thing I've ever done, but I'm very close to my goal weight. I think the tough part is deciding if the price is worth it. It isn't always.
Kids are the meaning of our lives. If you have no kids, you should have at least one kid or two. Our life is empty without kids. This is why we were created - to keep the chain of life. This is our purpose and ultimate destination. Once you have kid or kids, you will see the life in a new light, in a different perspective. You will GET IT. There is so much more to life than just enjoying the moment. Because kids will make that moment to last forever!!!
and about kids- Just think of it this way...why would you want to bring little innocent souls into this fucked up world of ours?? I think about that all the time, because I also think about having another baby (and naming her after you); but then I think of the cons, and forget it! The idea is gone!!
OH NO...I saw "crisis" and I was like...OMG!! Don't feel so bad my darling, I'm the SAME EXACT way. If I had a can of Redbull on my bedside every morning, I'd be able to do everything like get up early, work out and cook that same evening...but that's just NOT gonna happen, but that's what I would need to be so diligent. I say stop stressing, and just enjoy life. What if that dam super volcano errupts in Yellowstone and we're all toast tomorrow??? ENJOY YOURSELF!!
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nassircholo 1 month ago
Sounds to me like you are not all that happy and are putting alot of pressure on yourself. Not sure where you get these ideas of "good" from but they dont seem to be helping you. In life you have to workout what whats, imo that means what you need, want, like and can do. You could try thinking about those things, listing them, need list first is the easist imo. Good luck :)
laurence1211 2 years ago
I feel the same, too! When I was 20, I thought I'd have 3 kids, great hubby, lots of pets. I'm 44 and have no kids, will never marry (only been in love once - go figure) and right now 1 small dog. I've accepted this. But I keep thinking - should I move, because I hear this place sucks? I should want more money, right? Great health? More discipline? I may have 30 more years left, at best, and I want to make them COUNT - but HOW????? I don't want to look back with regrets, either.
DasicalLacka 2 years ago
We're on the same page! I wish I could either just accept it all without regrets or make up my mind to DO something about it! But indecisiveness is one of my biggest flaws.
heyjkuhl 2 years ago
Every prize has a price. When i feel indecisive, it's because I can't decide if the reward will be worth the work. I love to eat, and a several years ago ate myself up to 246lbs.Once I found someone who taught me how to lose weight, I had to make the decision and to keep making it every moment of every day, and it's the hardest thing I've ever done, but I'm very close to my goal weight. I think the tough part is deciding if the price is worth it. It isn't always.
DasicalLacka 2 years ago
just do what you want, there are no rules
just try to be happy, some people don't even get that in life.
JERRYBOLAK 2 years ago
Dont worry be happy.
ronlbeyer 2 years ago
Kids are the meaning of our lives. If you have no kids, you should have at least one kid or two. Our life is empty without kids. This is why we were created - to keep the chain of life. This is our purpose and ultimate destination. Once you have kid or kids, you will see the life in a new light, in a different perspective. You will GET IT. There is so much more to life than just enjoying the moment. Because kids will make that moment to last forever!!!
alexgbn 2 years ago
Ok, ok, the Dalai Lama has a point too! :P
Zemfira25 2 years ago
Jeez, you guys. Now I'm really confused! Jokes! I worry about quite a bit but I think I'll be OK either way.
heyjkuhl 2 years ago
and about kids- Just think of it this way...why would you want to bring little innocent souls into this fucked up world of ours?? I think about that all the time, because I also think about having another baby (and naming her after you); but then I think of the cons, and forget it! The idea is gone!!
COULDA WOULDA SHOULDA
Luvs you musshhhh!!!
Zemfira25 2 years ago
OH NO...I saw "crisis" and I was like...OMG!! Don't feel so bad my darling, I'm the SAME EXACT way. If I had a can of Redbull on my bedside every morning, I'd be able to do everything like get up early, work out and cook that same evening...but that's just NOT gonna happen, but that's what I would need to be so diligent. I say stop stressing, and just enjoy life. What if that dam super volcano errupts in Yellowstone and we're all toast tomorrow??? ENJOY YOURSELF!!
Zemfira25 2 years ago