What upsets me is how alot of single mothers are being judged all the same. THEY'RE ALL NOT THE SAME. And it's all because of them fucked up single mothers that makes them all being looked at as a problem. my bff was w/her husband for 7 years married 4 years but been together for 3. They had kid's after they got married. Sadly he passed away to an fatal illness and she's now a single mom. She didn't chose to be one. But she's being thrown into the category of fucked up single mom's. ENOUGH!
Montana is tripping (I haven't seen her clip but going off of your words). WOMEN should stop DRIVING MEN OUT OF THEIR CHILDREN'S lives. Men should get CUSTODY of their children at least 50% of the time, since the safest place for a child is with the biological father. Montana sounds like her children are toys, pets or pawns for child support (what it's usually about).
My personal view is "If I wasn't good enough to be the father of your children, then you sure as arn't good enough for me now. Look what happened to the last guy!" I don't belive wemen just have kids with assholes, I belive good men get played, and wemen throw them away, once they've got what they wanted out of them.
So dating leftover, used and abused thrash and dealing with some other guys rubbish and taking care of a loose vagina makes one a real man? great logic by the woman
agreed i refuse to take care of another mans sperm trophy. I mean its awkward, for both the child and u. I mean the child has to watch another man smack lips with his mother, and for the guy, I mean for christ sakes the women was fucked RAW.
Only a desperate dumb ass gets in a relationship with used single mothers.
THERE JUST WAY 2 MANY SINGLE NON CHILDREN HAVIN WOMEN !
This is crazy. Salad really . I understand why a man would prefer to be with a woman with out kids. But chicken at least you will be full. After the salad is long gone. It would be different if women were mean to be the head of the household. I do get what your saying but I dont agree
When women say stuff like that its called shame talk. They have no real argument so they resort to the only form of debate they know, calling names. They are the ones who are weak. We owe them nothing and can decide what is right for ourselves and our futures. I dont want to take care of anyone elses kids and thats my choice, deal with it single mothers. I will take care of my own children when the time comes and only them. Stop telling me I need to pay for YOUR kids shit, I dont want it!
these females act like men have special powers - i say if u choose to sleep wid a loser without a condom and when the baby comes he's gone u cant complain because BITCH U KNEW HE WAS A LOSER WHEN U SLEPT WITH HIM. at the end of the day females always get to choose who they sleep with - so its up to them to make better decisons - how does a female have multiple kids but ain't none of the father around lol -
I agree with you. What I find interesting is that I am a single mother who adopted. When I think of a "man" to me it takes a man to be clear about what he wants, what he is interested in having in his life, and being upright enough to say so. I, dated a man who had a child, it was drama with the child's mother. Do I want a man with children? Not after that. I prefer not to put myself in that position again. Do I write it off? No.
I have children (no longer with my husband) but I don't get angry at men who don't want to date a woman with kids that their choice. There are many men who will date a woman with kids. So women with kids shouldn't get angry, there is a man for you some where that will love you and your kids. Some men want to start a family with a woman with no kids, there's nothing wrong with that. To get angry about it, to me is silly. Its all about personal choices. Thanks
In all honesty I am a single mother of 1 and I have my limits on dating a man with more than 2 children. A person likes what they like! You can't get mad if a man makes that same choice on my situation because he is entitled to how he feels. As a woman if I know I can't handle dating a man with a trillion kids I would never put myself in that type of situation...period! This video is well put!
fellas, whenever you hear a single mother complaining about their dead-beat baby daddy not taking responsiblity for their child, ask her this simple question-who the fuck chose to get knocked up by that dead-beat motherfucker? that's right, she did, and now she wants some other guy to clean up his mess and pay for her mistakes.
@lilrog0909....keywords: WIFE and DEATH. I'm sure most ppl have a lil more sympathy for women who bore kids during MARRIAGE verses it being the first "accomplishment" she does immediately following high school...if she didn't do it while in high school. Most of these men/women made kids when they were youngins and now that they are in their late 20s/30s they want to desire marriage. DEATH...you would not be a constant reminder to the next man NOR show up every now and then as the "REAL" daddy.
Great video! From a female's point of view, I agree with this video 200%!!! I get soooo tired of these holy hypocrits saying men/women are selfish if they don't want to date them, their OOW kids, AND baby mama/daddy. No, brother, I don't want you if you are attached to a woman you NEVER considered marrying and she's STILL LIVING, mad at you, and got you on child support. Sisters, you don't need to focus on dating anyway! MANY men want your children NOT you, especially your daughters! SCARY!
How many men out there have greeted a random Black woman with a friendly "hello", and the girl looked at you strange? THEN forced out a "Hello" like you messed up her day? ANOTHER good reason (that a lot of men fail to admit). why men don't date single mothers is because every time you see that or THOSE children, they are a constant reminder of the last dude that fucked your woman. And he MAY not have even been the LAST one! New mothers, stick with your baby daddys and try to make the shit work.
I love how your videos are basically common sense. Common sense has gotten so forlorn in today's society that we have to be reminded of it through youtube videos. What's next? Having to go to a museum? lol
Some of the lamest,pathetic,ugliest guys I've ever known will NOT date a women with kids.Everyone no matter how low they are on the social scale has some kind of limits.
The point you made about women having a serious problem with rejection is spot-on. Some have been rejecting men since 14 years old and have a laundry list of standards that a guy has to meet before he can even say 'hi' to them. Lord help us for having a preference of what type of woman we want to date. It's as if we should be thankful a woman want to hang out with us no matter what the situation is but we have to have her entire checklist down pat before they go out wth us.
@ratesforless yes, this is why so many of them end up single when they are pushing 40 (like Chilli from TLC, who I discussed in my most recent video). It's not that there aren't any "good men" out here...the problem is that they spend age 13 to 38 rejecting these men for minor reasons like, "I don't like his dance steps," or "That shirt he has on (today) is corny," but don't let US REJECT THEM for any reason. They feel we are doing them wrong if we have an opinion or preference.
@ratesforless I agree with you 100%. Black women have all kinds of unrealistic standards when it comes to dating men. But lord forbid rejecting them for a having too many kids.
I think that many of these black women have been through enough? We are almost never seen with the good life and for the ones that do have one, its non believable. so yes we're picky and sadity.when we do have something good, it can get intimidating caz we always felt like nobody wants us. what about the men that raped us, degrated us, and cheated on their wives with us. they were picky. everybody needs a chance but do we care? only if they can give back-why? there's no more faith in this world.
@ZeroTo8 in sity seconds. No many women CANT tell b/c men lie. At first this bum was very spiritual appearing and into roots reggae and so on. Even someone I know said "he doesn't seem like the violent type". So what are U talking about? No, you cant always tell and lust plays a big role in the beginning b/c it clouds your judgment. So forgive me for being the only one in life that judged wrong.
I, personally, refuse to date a woman who has a child. I have a serious issue with the concept of being a man involved with a woman who's involved with another man because of the child they bore together. That being said, most men in my age range (30 somethings) who date single mothers concede to believing that there aren't any women in that age range that don't have children. Regardless, each man has to make the decision for himself as to what he wants. The hard part is sticking to it.
You keep missing the point in all of your videos. Great most men dont want to join in a semi made family!!! Women have to make hard choices to leave a violent situation and raise the children alone. What are they do to? Remain single? You keep talking about what is so obvious. We as women still need a second chance. We have learned. We know now that most men are scum and we are seeing with real eyes now, not fantasy eyes.
@ERIdeepthinker212 You keep missing the point, which is, there are still men out here who date and marry women with children. It see it all the time. I have never, in any of my videos said "ALL" however, you just said I miss the point in all of my videos. Have you heard "all" of my videos?
@ERIdeepthinker212 Um most of you CHOOSE these no good scum men and then when they do you wrong, you cry no fair and blame the man who had so many red flags a bull could spot his ass a mile away! I'm a black woman but I have no sympathy for irresponsible women who want to be victim all the time. Black women we need to wake up! After all these years of black women constantly complaining their are no good men, I'm convinced that we need to look at ourselves for once.
@ERIdeepthinker212 So why other men have to pay for the mistakes and games you had with the children's fathers? Life is a bitch and not fair, get used to it.
These broads are severely trippin. Where is the kids father. Why did she choose to have a baby by a guy who most likely was gonna leave her after he got what he wanted anyways. Huh "Real Men." Girl, a "Real Man" wouldn't waist his time, money or energy on you. I like what you said about the double standard. Women do find any cotton pickin reason to reject men. These broads are in "La-La" land to think that any guy with money and self confidence and respect would want anything to do with them.
Well if something was to ever happen to me since I am in the military. I would hope my wife eventually moves on & finds another good black man to start a second family & help raise my kids. I hope my wife feels the way about me if she was to ever past. Yeah I was once one of those bros that didn't won't to deal with sista with kids, but shit I can't talk I got a daughter & twin boys on the way. We are a community so we should help each other out anyway. The crackers do it! A white soldiers...
@lilrog0909 could die in battle but his white wife/kids will be supported by the white community often times they find another partner for her! Sad shit most niggas are going to categorizes my wife as ho because her man could be gone but because she got kids & no man she is a ho.... seriously that some bs. I guess when you get older you start to see life from a different perspective. So I want all you black men that marry a black women speaking that single mother bs just think about what happen
@lilrog0909 whens some terrible could happen to you & your wife is stuck taking care of your seeds alone & youngster calling her a bitch or whore. PEACE
Just going to keeping it real.Black women steps.1.Ignore the good guys.2.Find thugs she likes.3.Have unprotected sex with multiple thugs within a month.4.Have multiple kids.5.The thug leaves and make more kids with different women.5.Your tax dollars support her kids and welfare check.6.she takes no responsibility and blames everyone else saying there are no good bm.7.When she is 40 she wants a good man.8.Some desperate man will support her and her kids.9.Her girls grow up.10.Repeat.
Montana does not want to see herself as being used goods cause she has five kids. What she is trying to dud is "polish a turd" by saying that only REAL men date women with kids. With the way things are these days, you have to date women with kids by default because 8 out of every 10 women in Detroit got kids. What she should have said is that it takes a REAL women to choose the RIGHT man for the RIGHT reason to avoid being a single parent.
Hold up does this Montana chick have 5 kids by 5 different dudes? If true and not just "hypothetical" then that's sad, trifling and hoeish.
Chicks with kids: just smash and be out. If you engage in a relationship with these women then you are the fool and deserve every bad thing your way. It's like knowingly walking into a landmine and being surprised you got hit.
Dudes are blinded by beauty and booty. Dime pieces are side pieces.
I agree with this video 100%. I've been called "shallow" because I refuse to date men who already have children and I don't think that's fair. I don't know the first thing about raising a child, plus I'm undecided if I want to have children myself, so why would I take on someone else's children?
@ameshamonique Someone calling you }"shallow" is the same thing as someone telling a man he's not a "Real Man". People use personal attacks to get us to submit to their agenda. You are smart for not falling for it.
@JunebugObama Thanks for letting me know that. Don't get me wrong, hats off to any man/woman that can handle a situation like that and be successful. I didn't get to watch Montana Deleon's video (because it's private), but I definitely disagree that ALL men who date single mother's are "REAL MEN". There are so many pedophile's out here that take advantage of our single mother's. Making videos/statements like that hides the truth and can be dangerous. Love the videos! Keep 'em coming.
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The same men who "reject" these single mothers now, tend to go back to the same single mothers when they're old, unattractive and can hardly last a minute in bed. All the mud slingers seem to forget that nearly half or marriages end in divorce so some of you will be in that very situation one day. No one asks to be single regardless of whether it's the man or the women's "fault".
@Docpsyk Women go through the "Hard Head Soft Ass" syndrome and later they want the right man. Men, however, only date women with kids after a.) they have kids of their own and it don't work out or b.) there are no more options in his preferred age range.
Didn't see this Montana vid but this piece is bullshit!! Relationships end every day, whatever race or culture you come from. People seek people for relationships whether they have kids or not, everyone on the dating scene is looking for some emotional connection whoever it's with. common sense, personality, chemistry and personal conduct makes a person, not whether they have kids or not.
I hear single mothers say that all the time. "Real men only date single mothers" WTF! Women who say that are bitter as hell and usually strive hard for stability men. I can say,"Women are not Women because they can't do anything by themselves!" Oops, I just said that. Quit bitchin' INSECURE BAGGAGE carrying ladies! That's why they are all SINGLE.
I should've looked @ her video b4 commenting. I saw it b4 she took it down & I'm positive she was misunderstood b/c the title was worded wrong. Not dating a single mother is a preference, just like I prefer men taller than me (5'1"). I'm not bitter about men having this preference b/c: he's not making this decision based on my character, I also have preferences, & I get my MBA next month & my career is priority under my kids, not getting remarried soon.
Good video man I'm trying to figure out how in the hell she expect some else to carry a burden off her shoulder.its like saying ok I fucked up but to earn your real man title you need to help me first. WTF?
Her vid is no longer available. A week ago I submitted a commit that never passed approval. It questioned the the character of that mindset and never posted :]
I'm a single woman with no kids. I wouldn't go with that guy with 5 kids with 5 different women. He may take care of them but somethings wrong with his preferences and I would hope not to be one of them. He may be mentally ill and physically ill from not practicing safe sex. If it were 5 kids with 1 woman, that's different. Also, men are just as picky as we are. I've been turned down due to style and income. I'm not a buisness deal.
great video junebug, u created another unique one as always. i personally believe that the entire situation is just a question of how much u love the other person. am sure there is someone in everyones life with whom they d be willing to stay together even if that person had 25 kids... similarly, women really have a long long list of all the qualities they want in a man, but then we fall in love with someone and forget about all those things instantly:)))
I'm a single 31yr old blk women from Toronto. What a lot of men and women with children do not understand. Is when everyone participates in the dating game. Were all single, so were looking for other single people as well. When you have chidren. Your already seen as having a family already. Its not really desireable to many people not in this situation.
I tried to post a comment to Montana Deleon but rejected my post..its funny how she gives he advice and opinions but when you make a negative comment to her she rejects it..thats funny how she can dish out to but can't take it from people or certain people...junebug keep on doing what you doin bro...thats why i dont subscribe to her anymore...but oh well
@rodrush3769--yeah, know what you mean. When you drop a heavy logic bomb on Montana she won't approve it all. That vid's done anyway. I guess the strong 'HELL NO' responses made her rethink her opinion...
A good mother (and I would NEVER bother with a bad mother) will always have a stronger relationship with her kids than with me and will will protect them as a lioness protects her cubs. This forces me into a second relationship in which I would take little part, and over which I will have even less say. As many men like to say "make better choices" to women, so I too make a better choice NOT to be forced into a relationship I cannot fairly be a part of.
Not to beat a down horse but you guys are ridiculous. In my life I take special pains to avoid this kind of stuff. Each and every one of you guys would gladly take that package deal if you qualified. And you all would be all for her standards then. Junebug you did the same thing to LisaRaye, I think you would get with LisaRaye in a minute. You know what I think, I think you guys just don't like women you can't have. She made a better video and guys are still fronting.
Junebug, of all the topics you've covered, this one on "real men" that Montana actually started, I have to say, you nailed her and all the "wifey type" with kids, to the wall brother!
What about the fact that these "wifey types w/kids", BEFORE the kids came, wouldn't and couldn't date an actual REAL MAN from the jump! But now that the "thug" type who fathered these kids is gone, oooh! Real Men shouldn't act small minded and little boyish. We need to open a forum and call them on this one.
@gentleall Thanks, bro! Some of these women (but not all of them) want a "Real Man" or a "Good Man" now that they have children, but when they were young they were not "real" or "good" themselves. They were certainly not looking for a "Real Man" back in the day! LOL!
@JunebugObama True blue, I spent 6 years helping my ex girlfriend raise her 2 kids working two full-time jobs to make sure we all had a nice place to stay & make money problems not ours, I never cheated on my ex and have taken her kids to many sunny destinations only to be told that I was not a god father and that I work to much. Oh and the real father has not seen his 2 children since they were born and he lived only 10 miles away from us
When these women were in their prime, they sought out men that they felt were most compatible for them, men they desired the most, men most like them; personally I don't see anything wrong with that.
My only gripe is that, after they've finished dating, courting or whatever they do with these suitors, they turn around and seek out more responsible men and fob all the blame and responsibility on to them.
It's obvious to me, the inherent lack of respect they harbour for more civilised and responsible men, thus it befuddles me that men (specifically black men) would entertain these women by listening to them.
Are black men so desperate for a "fine" black woman, that they'd begin dialogue with a woman that they know wouldn't have given them the time of day but for irreversible circumstances.
I don't see why she tries to put down guys for not wanting to be a father to somebody else's kids. She could've been an adult about it when she decided to have her kids. If this would've been the other way around. A guy with with kids, she'd drop em in a second without a second thought.
Honestly, I would not date a man who has children for 2 reasons: the first reason is that I will never be #1 in his life. Second, I can't stand baby mama drama. I don't want to deal with no jealous azz baby mama b**** who can't move on with her life and make it her mission to make him and my life miserable just because she can't have her baby daddy back. Why go through all that.
i can't believe someone just said get an abortion?...smh people don't even know the history of an 'abortion' much less what it does to a females body & how emotionally scarring it is...but i digress.
I also object to the basic view that Montana held. A guy should choose a situation that would work best for HIS life. Especially if a guy is a young guy on the rise. If a guy is like 21 years old and fresh out of college, he may be focused on trying to establish himself not engage in a relationship where kids are involved. He may want to meet a like minded woman and build something from scratch together.
@bkstyle82 No man or woman is compelled to date anyone just because they are available. Women and Men date to their preferences all the time and make exceptions when they feel like they should. I give props to the men who are willing to take on the mantle of father figure to children they did not sire, BUT, that doesn't mean those who don't wish to do so are any less of a man
I am not taking care of nobody's kids. They usually have their baby by the no good man for the wrong reasons then they want a good man. Cannot be stupid not to see this.
In my personal experience, men would rather date a single mother who has a lot of emotional problems, baggage, and other issues than to date me, a woman who is a career woman, educated, no relationship baggage just because I ain't puttin' out.
@mercyhurstchic Sex is a primary motivator for most men to get involved with women, if not the only motivator. The single mother at least has an obvious track record of "puttin' out," although it will lead to drama. Just like many women choose the more exciting "bad boys" over the stable, boring squares, even though that choice can lead to trouble.
@mercyhurstchic Well, why aren't you putting out ? Theres nothing wrong with putting out, Things just become blurred depending on how SOON you put out.
@BlaccBoii oh shut up! I don't put out because I have a lot of respect for myself not to give my body away like candy. I respect myself enough to hold out until marriage. Sluts are nothing more than insecure women (whether they be single moms or not) who seek self-esteem through multiple dickings when everyone knows that self-esteem comes from women keeping their legs closed. I have more power with my legs closed than open. So put that into your crack pipe and smoke it!!!!
That's what I suspected your complaint is more than the montana video, it's about how women treat men. I see alot of men who bring up manhood when manhood has nothing to do with the subject also. Are you blaming all this on Montana? I got your same beefs brothaa but don't take it all out on montana. You got other dudes making vids about her. That's how I found this one, he said he saw you make one.
Yo! Junebug if this was a personal conversation between you and Montana and you're trying to justify your reason for saying no to a physically fine black woman, just say so brother! We here for you! haha!
Now I have listening to the rest of your video I can say that men attack your manhood just as well as women do. Everybody throughs around that term real man and attack with it.
Haven't watched Montana's video but I agree we all have our preferences and if someone doesn't want to date you because you have children that doesn't mean there is something wrong with them they just chose not to. I happen to prefer men without children.
I would've rather she said that it takes a special man to raise children that are not biologically his than say that only "real men" do that. When you make a blanket statement like that, it sounds kinda like emotional blackmail. It seems to me similar to saying that only strong women can handle a relationship with a man who is shorter then her. Yes, some people might be surprised at the gems they have overlooked because of their preferences but that doesn't mean that preferences are wrong.
This is what happened, she asked the question only to men who are considering entering that type of relationship. She just told us to look within ourselves to determine if we have enough maturity to enter such a relationship. She never said ever man who doesn't go into such a relationship it is because he lacks the maturity. If a real man chooses not to do it she is fine with that but she did say that man was man enough to enter such a relationship if he wants to.
@WildL23 You are twisting what she said: In one section of the video, she said, "If you're a real man, you're able to look at woman with children and say, 'I wanna meet the kids and feel them out and see how they are' "I disagree with this because this has nothing to do with whether you are a "real man" or not. You could be a weak ass simp and say, "I wanna meet her kids and feel them out and see who they are." ALSO, you could be a "real man" and say, "No thanks, I'd rather not meet the kids."
@JunebugObama Maybe she is just saying a real man would ALWAYS say that. A simp may or may not say it but maybe the point is a real man will ALWAYS say it. I disagree, real men don't date women with kids and refuse a request to meet the kids. How you gone tell a woman I don't want to meet your kids and you are dating her? She should dump you immediately.
@JunebugObama She said you are "able to." All able means is that you have the qualifications to. It doesn't mean must. Able and must, 2 totally different words. You think in absolutes here. Able is the key word. So you could be a real man and say no thanks but as an able responsible minded man you still have the capacity and ability to meet the children.
@JunebugObama A wifey type/real mother type is not going to date a man who refuses to attempt get to know her children. She is not going to waist her time with him, if she is a real mother.
@JunebugObama A man get a chance to date Montana and then tell her you don't want to meet her kids and see where it gets you. I think you would get the point after that.
@WildL23 Did you read what I just wrote? I went back to her video, put it on pause and quoted her word for word. She is equating not dating a woman with kids with not being real man and those things are not synonymous.
@JunebugObama I know what you mean but it seems to me like you are still twisting her message because she could have meant that making assumptions is boy thinking. I'll look at it.
Junebug you may have more experience then me but I'm a better listener than you. She never said men who avoid relationships like that are weak. She never ever said nothing about men who avoid those relationships. She made no comment as to whether they were weak or strong. All she said was if you are going to be in one then you have to be strong and if you really don't like the kids then don't get in it.
What video did you watch. All she said was it takes a mature man to be in that type of relationship. And she said if you have a shitty attitude about the kids then you should not date the mother. That's all she said. You putting words in her mouth. Every word she said was 100% correct.
@WildL23 Which video did YOU watch? In the one that I saw she specifically said that it was "little boy thinking" for a man to NOT date a woman with kids. I happen to disagree with that and I still disagree with it.
@JunebugObama What is the time, lol, give me the exact quote and time. I never heard her say "little boy thinking." In fact what she meant was that ALL real men have to qualifications of what it takes to be in the relationship. So if you are a real man who don't date women with kids fine but you still have the qualifications to do it if you want. Is what the woman meant man.
@WildL23 She said "little boy thinking" around 2:53. It's interesting how, out of all these text comments under my video and hers of people disagreeing with her, you are the only person who is trying (in vain) to change the message of her video.
@JunebugObama "In vain", you don't know that. That's a bold statement. And I am not trying to change the message of her video. I'm trying to give you my interpretation of the video. If I thought her video was waht you claim it is then I would never try to change that.
@JunebugObama It is not like she is trying to tell you that in order to be a real man you have to date the woman regardless of what her children are like. She is just saying that if you are not going to date the woman with kids don't refuse the relationship because of childish assumptions. What she is saying is real men don't give consideration to assumptions when making decisions.
@WildL23 Doing something "in vain" means unsuccessfully trying to do something. I merely stated to you that you are unsuccessfully trying to change the meaning of her video. I have not shown you any disrespect by saying "in vain" nor is it a derogatory term. If you want to stop watching my videos over something so trivial, then you are free to do so.
@JunebugObama The message of the video is what the title of the video says, DATING A "WIFEY TYPE" WITH KIDS. The title of the video is not how to be an f-buddy. The word wifey is in the title. It is an instructional video of what kind of man you have to be in order to date a decent woman with kids. That is the overall message.
@WildL23 I actually just watched that vid, & I must say, listening to her speak is rather painful. She has nothing of value to say, & Im quite certain that outside of sex she'd have nothing to offer to a man. Honestly, it's as if I was listening to a high school girl rant on & on about absolutely nothing. Oh well, I guess some women are just destined to be society's punchline....
@JunebugObama How you gone tell me somebody said something they didn't say and the evidence is on youtube. LOL. You must forgot who you was talking to.
I TAKE A DIRTY YELLOW BUBBLY PISS ON SINGLE MOTHERS!!!
Its from the result of feminism which is what they wanted!
fargonbastedge 1 week ago
Those 2 dislikes were women. I'm sure.
FRESHCOOLAIDE 2 weeks ago
What upsets me is how alot of single mothers are being judged all the same. THEY'RE ALL NOT THE SAME. And it's all because of them fucked up single mothers that makes them all being looked at as a problem. my bff was w/her husband for 7 years married 4 years but been together for 3. They had kid's after they got married. Sadly he passed away to an fatal illness and she's now a single mom. She didn't chose to be one. But she's being thrown into the category of fucked up single mom's. ENOUGH!
Brivonn2 3 weeks ago
Montana is tripping (I haven't seen her clip but going off of your words). WOMEN should stop DRIVING MEN OUT OF THEIR CHILDREN'S lives. Men should get CUSTODY of their children at least 50% of the time, since the safest place for a child is with the biological father. Montana sounds like her children are toys, pets or pawns for child support (what it's usually about).
prosedad1 1 month ago
My personal view is "If I wasn't good enough to be the father of your children, then you sure as arn't good enough for me now. Look what happened to the last guy!" I don't belive wemen just have kids with assholes, I belive good men get played, and wemen throw them away, once they've got what they wanted out of them.
mansuka1 1 month ago 2
I preffer not to carry excess baggage
capnhands 3 months ago
So dating leftover, used and abused thrash and dealing with some other guys rubbish and taking care of a loose vagina makes one a real man? great logic by the woman
dreamerstays 3 months ago 5
@dreamerstays
agreed i refuse to take care of another mans sperm trophy. I mean its awkward, for both the child and u. I mean the child has to watch another man smack lips with his mother, and for the guy, I mean for christ sakes the women was fucked RAW.
Only a desperate dumb ass gets in a relationship with used single mothers.
THERE JUST WAY 2 MANY SINGLE NON CHILDREN HAVIN WOMEN !
sorry but im just tired of this issue
YoungKnoccOut 1 month ago
This is crazy. Salad really . I understand why a man would prefer to be with a woman with out kids. But chicken at least you will be full. After the salad is long gone. It would be different if women were mean to be the head of the household. I do get what your saying but I dont agree
pudden3101 4 months ago
"When keeping it real goes wrong"
man, I wish Dave Chappelle could've gotten ahold of her video.
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RON PAUL 2012 in this muthafucka!
LT0WnWaRi0 5 months ago
Women CANNOT DEFINED MANHOOD. I don't want to take care of another man's mistakes.
tttkill 5 months ago
When women say stuff like that its called shame talk. They have no real argument so they resort to the only form of debate they know, calling names. They are the ones who are weak. We owe them nothing and can decide what is right for ourselves and our futures. I dont want to take care of anyone elses kids and thats my choice, deal with it single mothers. I will take care of my own children when the time comes and only them. Stop telling me I need to pay for YOUR kids shit, I dont want it!
onemansrage 6 months ago
The BEST video I've watched in a very long time.
RawTruthful 6 months ago
these females act like men have special powers - i say if u choose to sleep wid a loser without a condom and when the baby comes he's gone u cant complain because BITCH U KNEW HE WAS A LOSER WHEN U SLEPT WITH HIM. at the end of the day females always get to choose who they sleep with - so its up to them to make better decisons - how does a female have multiple kids but ain't none of the father around lol -
prince112233 6 months ago 3
I agree with you. What I find interesting is that I am a single mother who adopted. When I think of a "man" to me it takes a man to be clear about what he wants, what he is interested in having in his life, and being upright enough to say so. I, dated a man who had a child, it was drama with the child's mother. Do I want a man with children? Not after that. I prefer not to put myself in that position again. Do I write it off? No.
EnterprisingSidney 6 months ago
I have children (no longer with my husband) but I don't get angry at men who don't want to date a woman with kids that their choice. There are many men who will date a woman with kids. So women with kids shouldn't get angry, there is a man for you some where that will love you and your kids. Some men want to start a family with a woman with no kids, there's nothing wrong with that. To get angry about it, to me is silly. Its all about personal choices. Thanks
m0renachula704 6 months ago
THANK YOU JUNEBUG. It's a hypocrisy in full effect, point blank.
seand67 6 months ago
Thanks man, well said and helpful.
SuperDrumsforever 7 months ago in playlist Dating single mothers is a mistake
Very good commentary man.
I hope your happy all the time=)
hoghash78 8 months ago
In all honesty I am a single mother of 1 and I have my limits on dating a man with more than 2 children. A person likes what they like! You can't get mad if a man makes that same choice on my situation because he is entitled to how he feels. As a woman if I know I can't handle dating a man with a trillion kids I would never put myself in that type of situation...period! This video is well put!
chavascandy 8 months ago
@chavascandy Thank you. You are a very fair and sensible woman.
JunebugObama 8 months ago
yeahhhhhhhhhhhhh
mapadron1983 9 months ago
fellas, whenever you hear a single mother complaining about their dead-beat baby daddy not taking responsiblity for their child, ask her this simple question-who the fuck chose to get knocked up by that dead-beat motherfucker? that's right, she did, and now she wants some other guy to clean up his mess and pay for her mistakes.
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@lilrog0909....keywords: WIFE and DEATH. I'm sure most ppl have a lil more sympathy for women who bore kids during MARRIAGE verses it being the first "accomplishment" she does immediately following high school...if she didn't do it while in high school. Most of these men/women made kids when they were youngins and now that they are in their late 20s/30s they want to desire marriage. DEATH...you would not be a constant reminder to the next man NOR show up every now and then as the "REAL" daddy.
afamqueen05 9 months ago
Great video! From a female's point of view, I agree with this video 200%!!! I get soooo tired of these holy hypocrits saying men/women are selfish if they don't want to date them, their OOW kids, AND baby mama/daddy. No, brother, I don't want you if you are attached to a woman you NEVER considered marrying and she's STILL LIVING, mad at you, and got you on child support. Sisters, you don't need to focus on dating anyway! MANY men want your children NOT you, especially your daughters! SCARY!
afamqueen05 9 months ago
How many men out there have greeted a random Black woman with a friendly "hello", and the girl looked at you strange? THEN forced out a "Hello" like you messed up her day? ANOTHER good reason (that a lot of men fail to admit). why men don't date single mothers is because every time you see that or THOSE children, they are a constant reminder of the last dude that fucked your woman. And he MAY not have even been the LAST one! New mothers, stick with your baby daddys and try to make the shit work.
FRESHCOOLAIDE 1 year ago 4
I rather date a fat chick lol hell no single mom
philmo211 1 year ago
I love how your videos are basically common sense. Common sense has gotten so forlorn in today's society that we have to be reminded of it through youtube videos. What's next? Having to go to a museum? lol
eyeonwashparish 1 year ago 5
@eyeonwashparish Thanks for the compliment. I try to add some common sense, but I have also had plenty of moments were I'm deliberately being silly.
JunebugObama 1 year ago 2
I'd fuck single mothers all day. I'm just not taking care of their kids or wasting resources on them.
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gimireeta 1 year ago
I might've dated a woman with children, if she was fine enough; but i never would've married a woman with children, bruh...
glasscitadel12 1 year ago
Some of the lamest,pathetic,ugliest guys I've ever known will NOT date a women with kids.Everyone no matter how low they are on the social scale has some kind of limits.
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The point you made about women having a serious problem with rejection is spot-on. Some have been rejecting men since 14 years old and have a laundry list of standards that a guy has to meet before he can even say 'hi' to them. Lord help us for having a preference of what type of woman we want to date. It's as if we should be thankful a woman want to hang out with us no matter what the situation is but we have to have her entire checklist down pat before they go out wth us.
ratesforless 1 year ago 13
@ratesforless yes, this is why so many of them end up single when they are pushing 40 (like Chilli from TLC, who I discussed in my most recent video). It's not that there aren't any "good men" out here...the problem is that they spend age 13 to 38 rejecting these men for minor reasons like, "I don't like his dance steps," or "That shirt he has on (today) is corny," but don't let US REJECT THEM for any reason. They feel we are doing them wrong if we have an opinion or preference.
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@JunebugObama
thank feminism ;)
LT0WnWaRi0 5 months ago
@ratesforless I agree with you 100%. Black women have all kinds of unrealistic standards when it comes to dating men. But lord forbid rejecting them for a having too many kids.
southboy99 1 year ago 3
I think that many of these black women have been through enough? We are almost never seen with the good life and for the ones that do have one, its non believable. so yes we're picky and sadity.when we do have something good, it can get intimidating caz we always felt like nobody wants us. what about the men that raped us, degrated us, and cheated on their wives with us. they were picky. everybody needs a chance but do we care? only if they can give back-why? there's no more faith in this world.
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I was getting ready to hate on junebug about homegirl being 'beautiful', but he's right. She has some videos showing her body, god damn.
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@ZeroTo8 in sity seconds. No many women CANT tell b/c men lie. At first this bum was very spiritual appearing and into roots reggae and so on. Even someone I know said "he doesn't seem like the violent type". So what are U talking about? No, you cant always tell and lust plays a big role in the beginning b/c it clouds your judgment. So forgive me for being the only one in life that judged wrong.
ERIdeepthinker212 1 year ago
@ERIdeepthinker212
lol, should be having unprotected sex w/no birth control with someone whom you don't know completely?
That's not a mistake. That's poor judgment.
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letallylala 1 year ago
I, personally, refuse to date a woman who has a child. I have a serious issue with the concept of being a man involved with a woman who's involved with another man because of the child they bore together. That being said, most men in my age range (30 somethings) who date single mothers concede to believing that there aren't any women in that age range that don't have children. Regardless, each man has to make the decision for himself as to what he wants. The hard part is sticking to it.
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VaileAldom 1 year ago
You keep missing the point in all of your videos. Great most men dont want to join in a semi made family!!! Women have to make hard choices to leave a violent situation and raise the children alone. What are they do to? Remain single? You keep talking about what is so obvious. We as women still need a second chance. We have learned. We know now that most men are scum and we are seeing with real eyes now, not fantasy eyes.
ERIdeepthinker212 1 year ago
@ERIdeepthinker212 You keep missing the point, which is, there are still men out here who date and marry women with children. It see it all the time. I have never, in any of my videos said "ALL" however, you just said I miss the point in all of my videos. Have you heard "all" of my videos?
JunebugObama 1 year ago
@ERIdeepthinker212 Um most of you CHOOSE these no good scum men and then when they do you wrong, you cry no fair and blame the man who had so many red flags a bull could spot his ass a mile away! I'm a black woman but I have no sympathy for irresponsible women who want to be victim all the time. Black women we need to wake up! After all these years of black women constantly complaining their are no good men, I'm convinced that we need to look at ourselves for once.
nayar19 1 year ago
@ERIdeepthinker212 So why other men have to pay for the mistakes and games you had with the children's fathers? Life is a bitch and not fair, get used to it.
Junebug I love your videos, keep them coming :)
TheMrFappy 1 year ago
@ERIdeepthinker212 Do you know MOST men to call MOST of us scum?
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@ERIdeepthinker212 That sounds like something ripped from feminist theory.
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chayaweres 1 year ago
These broads are severely trippin. Where is the kids father. Why did she choose to have a baby by a guy who most likely was gonna leave her after he got what he wanted anyways. Huh "Real Men." Girl, a "Real Man" wouldn't waist his time, money or energy on you. I like what you said about the double standard. Women do find any cotton pickin reason to reject men. These broads are in "La-La" land to think that any guy with money and self confidence and respect would want anything to do with them.
lnpauling 1 year ago
Well if something was to ever happen to me since I am in the military. I would hope my wife eventually moves on & finds another good black man to start a second family & help raise my kids. I hope my wife feels the way about me if she was to ever past. Yeah I was once one of those bros that didn't won't to deal with sista with kids, but shit I can't talk I got a daughter & twin boys on the way. We are a community so we should help each other out anyway. The crackers do it! A white soldiers...
lilrog0909 1 year ago
@lilrog0909 could die in battle but his white wife/kids will be supported by the white community often times they find another partner for her! Sad shit most niggas are going to categorizes my wife as ho because her man could be gone but because she got kids & no man she is a ho.... seriously that some bs. I guess when you get older you start to see life from a different perspective. So I want all you black men that marry a black women speaking that single mother bs just think about what happen
lilrog0909 1 year ago
@lilrog0909 whens some terrible could happen to you & your wife is stuck taking care of your seeds alone & youngster calling her a bitch or whore. PEACE
lilrog0909 1 year ago
Just going to keeping it real.Black women steps.1.Ignore the good guys.2.Find thugs she likes.3.Have unprotected sex with multiple thugs within a month.4.Have multiple kids.5.The thug leaves and make more kids with different women.5.Your tax dollars support her kids and welfare check.6.she takes no responsibility and blames everyone else saying there are no good bm.7.When she is 40 she wants a good man.8.Some desperate man will support her and her kids.9.Her girls grow up.10.Repeat.
robertjosephgreen 1 year ago 5
Junebug..you are SO right.
Montana does not want to see herself as being used goods cause she has five kids. What she is trying to dud is "polish a turd" by saying that only REAL men date women with kids. With the way things are these days, you have to date women with kids by default because 8 out of every 10 women in Detroit got kids. What she should have said is that it takes a REAL women to choose the RIGHT man for the RIGHT reason to avoid being a single parent.
dznutz1971 1 year ago 3
MONTANA DELEON IS A SHALOW WOMEN WWITH 5 GODDAMN KIDS!
dznutz1971 1 year ago
great job junebug
Mroneofakind1 1 year ago
Good video. Women can choose whoever they want for whatever reasons, but that means men can choose whoever they want as well.
steviebdiesel 1 year ago
Dating women with kids brings nothing but problems, I did it, and drama, you like drama from the baby's daddy go ahead, but I wouldnt reccommend it!
miltonraiders 1 year ago 2
women's self-entitlement issues are simply unbelievable!
malarki5 1 year ago 7
Hold up does this Montana chick have 5 kids by 5 different dudes? If true and not just "hypothetical" then that's sad, trifling and hoeish.
Chicks with kids: just smash and be out. If you engage in a relationship with these women then you are the fool and deserve every bad thing your way. It's like knowingly walking into a landmine and being surprised you got hit.
Dudes are blinded by beauty and booty. Dime pieces are side pieces.
catonic 1 year ago 4
I agree with this video 100%. I've been called "shallow" because I refuse to date men who already have children and I don't think that's fair. I don't know the first thing about raising a child, plus I'm undecided if I want to have children myself, so why would I take on someone else's children?
ameshamonique 1 year ago 18
@ameshamonique Someone calling you }"shallow" is the same thing as someone telling a man he's not a "Real Man". People use personal attacks to get us to submit to their agenda. You are smart for not falling for it.
JunebugObama 1 year ago 7
@JunebugObama Thanks for letting me know that. Don't get me wrong, hats off to any man/woman that can handle a situation like that and be successful. I didn't get to watch Montana Deleon's video (because it's private), but I definitely disagree that ALL men who date single mother's are "REAL MEN". There are so many pedophile's out here that take advantage of our single mother's. Making videos/statements like that hides the truth and can be dangerous. Love the videos! Keep 'em coming.
ameshamonique 1 year ago
@JunebugObama YOu are so on point my brother!! I swear keep it up. I think all women need to hear your views before they get in any relationship!!!
CallieShabazz123 1 year ago
"Women cannot stand to be thrust face first into their own hypocrisy. It's like forcing a vampire to ingest holy water."
winnslaw 1 year ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
The same men who "reject" these single mothers now, tend to go back to the same single mothers when they're old, unattractive and can hardly last a minute in bed. All the mud slingers seem to forget that nearly half or marriages end in divorce so some of you will be in that very situation one day. No one asks to be single regardless of whether it's the man or the women's "fault".
Docpsyk 1 year ago
@Docpsyk None of this has anything to do with the video I made.
JunebugObama 1 year ago
@Docpsyk REJECT Single Mothers they're evil especially when they've children out of wedlock fucking whores
BlackPoisonxX 1 year ago
@Docpsyk Women go through the "Hard Head Soft Ass" syndrome and later they want the right man. Men, however, only date women with kids after a.) they have kids of their own and it don't work out or b.) there are no more options in his preferred age range.
dznutz1971 1 year ago
Didn't see this Montana vid but this piece is bullshit!! Relationships end every day, whatever race or culture you come from. People seek people for relationships whether they have kids or not, everyone on the dating scene is looking for some emotional connection whoever it's with. common sense, personality, chemistry and personal conduct makes a person, not whether they have kids or not.
Docpsyk 1 year ago
@Docpsyk Obviously you did not listen to my video at all.
JunebugObama 1 year ago 3
Only losers date single mothers
Tsugua21 1 year ago
I hear single mothers say that all the time. "Real men only date single mothers" WTF! Women who say that are bitter as hell and usually strive hard for stability men. I can say,"Women are not Women because they can't do anything by themselves!" Oops, I just said that. Quit bitchin' INSECURE BAGGAGE carrying ladies! That's why they are all SINGLE.
pulloutsange 1 year ago
I should've looked @ her video b4 commenting. I saw it b4 she took it down & I'm positive she was misunderstood b/c the title was worded wrong. Not dating a single mother is a preference, just like I prefer men taller than me (5'1"). I'm not bitter about men having this preference b/c: he's not making this decision based on my character, I also have preferences, & I get my MBA next month & my career is priority under my kids, not getting remarried soon.
WomanInTransition 1 year ago
Good video man I'm trying to figure out how in the hell she expect some else to carry a burden off her shoulder.its like saying ok I fucked up but to earn your real man title you need to help me first. WTF?
TrillCoop 1 year ago 2
Her vid is no longer available. A week ago I submitted a commit that never passed approval. It questioned the the character of that mindset and never posted :]
dariusdise 1 year ago
I'm a single woman with no kids. I wouldn't go with that guy with 5 kids with 5 different women. He may take care of them but somethings wrong with his preferences and I would hope not to be one of them. He may be mentally ill and physically ill from not practicing safe sex. If it were 5 kids with 1 woman, that's different. Also, men are just as picky as we are. I've been turned down due to style and income. I'm not a buisness deal.
LadyLaurenful 1 year ago
great video junebug, u created another unique one as always. i personally believe that the entire situation is just a question of how much u love the other person. am sure there is someone in everyones life with whom they d be willing to stay together even if that person had 25 kids... similarly, women really have a long long list of all the qualities they want in a man, but then we fall in love with someone and forget about all those things instantly:)))
hangahermann 1 year ago
@hangahermann yes! exactly what I was going to say!! definitely depends on how much you love this person
Nicollie1062 1 year ago
I'm a single 31yr old blk women from Toronto. What a lot of men and women with children do not understand. Is when everyone participates in the dating game. Were all single, so were looking for other single people as well. When you have chidren. Your already seen as having a family already. Its not really desireable to many people not in this situation.
breakofdawn26 1 year ago 6
i feel you junebug...
tronxilla 1 year ago
I tried to post a comment to Montana Deleon but rejected my post..its funny how she gives he advice and opinions but when you make a negative comment to her she rejects it..thats funny how she can dish out to but can't take it from people or certain people...junebug keep on doing what you doin bro...thats why i dont subscribe to her anymore...but oh well
rodrush3769 1 year ago
@rodrush3769--yeah, know what you mean. When you drop a heavy logic bomb on Montana she won't approve it all. That vid's done anyway. I guess the strong 'HELL NO' responses made her rethink her opinion...
dariusdise 1 year ago
A good mother (and I would NEVER bother with a bad mother) will always have a stronger relationship with her kids than with me and will will protect them as a lioness protects her cubs. This forces me into a second relationship in which I would take little part, and over which I will have even less say. As many men like to say "make better choices" to women, so I too make a better choice NOT to be forced into a relationship I cannot fairly be a part of.
Mathman1ac 1 year ago
Not to beat a down horse but you guys are ridiculous. In my life I take special pains to avoid this kind of stuff. Each and every one of you guys would gladly take that package deal if you qualified. And you all would be all for her standards then. Junebug you did the same thing to LisaRaye, I think you would get with LisaRaye in a minute. You know what I think, I think you guys just don't like women you can't have. She made a better video and guys are still fronting.
WildL23 1 year ago
Junebug, of all the topics you've covered, this one on "real men" that Montana actually started, I have to say, you nailed her and all the "wifey type" with kids, to the wall brother!
What about the fact that these "wifey types w/kids", BEFORE the kids came, wouldn't and couldn't date an actual REAL MAN from the jump! But now that the "thug" type who fathered these kids is gone, oooh! Real Men shouldn't act small minded and little boyish. We need to open a forum and call them on this one.
gentleall 1 year ago
@gentleall Thanks, bro! Some of these women (but not all of them) want a "Real Man" or a "Good Man" now that they have children, but when they were young they were not "real" or "good" themselves. They were certainly not looking for a "Real Man" back in the day! LOL!
JunebugObama 1 year ago 10
@JunebugObama True blue, I spent 6 years helping my ex girlfriend raise her 2 kids working two full-time jobs to make sure we all had a nice place to stay & make money problems not ours, I never cheated on my ex and have taken her kids to many sunny destinations only to be told that I was not a god father and that I work to much. Oh and the real father has not seen his 2 children since they were born and he lived only 10 miles away from us
tierren 1 year ago
@gentleall
When these women were in their prime, they sought out men that they felt were most compatible for them, men they desired the most, men most like them; personally I don't see anything wrong with that.
My only gripe is that, after they've finished dating, courting or whatever they do with these suitors, they turn around and seek out more responsible men and fob all the blame and responsibility on to them.
rdokoye 1 year ago
@gentleall
It's obvious to me, the inherent lack of respect they harbour for more civilised and responsible men, thus it befuddles me that men (specifically black men) would entertain these women by listening to them.
Are black men so desperate for a "fine" black woman, that they'd begin dialogue with a woman that they know wouldn't have given them the time of day but for irreversible circumstances.
rdokoye 1 year ago 3
Junebug many brothers are avoiding black single mothers because of thier violent babydaddies. It's 2010 aint nobody trying to get shot out here.
whitebitchnigga 1 year ago 5
@whitebitchnigga true its to many niggas with violent bitch attitudes all they do is pull out a gun and shoot you because they can't fight.
goku27son 1 year ago 24
I don't see why she tries to put down guys for not wanting to be a father to somebody else's kids. She could've been an adult about it when she decided to have her kids. If this would've been the other way around. A guy with with kids, she'd drop em in a second without a second thought.
R1o05 1 year ago 3
True dat...
obe19900 1 year ago
Honestly, I would not date a man who has children for 2 reasons: the first reason is that I will never be #1 in his life. Second, I can't stand baby mama drama. I don't want to deal with no jealous azz baby mama b**** who can't move on with her life and make it her mission to make him and my life miserable just because she can't have her baby daddy back. Why go through all that.
mercyhurstchic 1 year ago 3
i can't believe someone just said get an abortion?...smh people don't even know the history of an 'abortion' much less what it does to a females body & how emotionally scarring it is...but i digress.
kr4l27 1 year ago 2
I also object to the basic view that Montana held. A guy should choose a situation that would work best for HIS life. Especially if a guy is a young guy on the rise. If a guy is like 21 years old and fresh out of college, he may be focused on trying to establish himself not engage in a relationship where kids are involved. He may want to meet a like minded woman and build something from scratch together.
bkstyle82 1 year ago
@bkstyle82 No man or woman is compelled to date anyone just because they are available. Women and Men date to their preferences all the time and make exceptions when they feel like they should. I give props to the men who are willing to take on the mantle of father figure to children they did not sire, BUT, that doesn't mean those who don't wish to do so are any less of a man
bkstyle82 1 year ago 2
I am not taking care of nobody's kids. They usually have their baby by the no good man for the wrong reasons then they want a good man. Cannot be stupid not to see this.
kizzmac 1 year ago
In my personal experience, men would rather date a single mother who has a lot of emotional problems, baggage, and other issues than to date me, a woman who is a career woman, educated, no relationship baggage just because I ain't puttin' out.
mercyhurstchic 1 year ago 3
@mercyhurstchic lOl..aaahhhaaaa i know what you mean
kr4l27 1 year ago
@mercyhurstchic Sex is a primary motivator for most men to get involved with women, if not the only motivator. The single mother at least has an obvious track record of "puttin' out," although it will lead to drama. Just like many women choose the more exciting "bad boys" over the stable, boring squares, even though that choice can lead to trouble.
laughingstalk 1 year ago
@mercyhurstchic Well, why aren't you putting out ? Theres nothing wrong with putting out, Things just become blurred depending on how SOON you put out.
BlaccBoii 1 year ago
@BlaccBoii oh shut up! I don't put out because I have a lot of respect for myself not to give my body away like candy. I respect myself enough to hold out until marriage. Sluts are nothing more than insecure women (whether they be single moms or not) who seek self-esteem through multiple dickings when everyone knows that self-esteem comes from women keeping their legs closed. I have more power with my legs closed than open. So put that into your crack pipe and smoke it!!!!
mercyhurstchic 1 year ago 3
@mercyhurstchic Well Said !
tierren 1 year ago
That's what I suspected your complaint is more than the montana video, it's about how women treat men. I see alot of men who bring up manhood when manhood has nothing to do with the subject also. Are you blaming all this on Montana? I got your same beefs brothaa but don't take it all out on montana. You got other dudes making vids about her. That's how I found this one, he said he saw you make one.
WildL23 1 year ago
Yo! Junebug if this was a personal conversation between you and Montana and you're trying to justify your reason for saying no to a physically fine black woman, just say so brother! We here for you! haha!
roadlesswandering 1 year ago
@roadlesswandering LMAO!
JunebugObama 1 year ago
Now I have listening to the rest of your video I can say that men attack your manhood just as well as women do. Everybody throughs around that term real man and attack with it.
WildL23 1 year ago
Haven't watched Montana's video but I agree we all have our preferences and if someone doesn't want to date you because you have children that doesn't mean there is something wrong with them they just chose not to. I happen to prefer men without children.
majormoviestar2008 1 year ago
I would've rather she said that it takes a special man to raise children that are not biologically his than say that only "real men" do that. When you make a blanket statement like that, it sounds kinda like emotional blackmail. It seems to me similar to saying that only strong women can handle a relationship with a man who is shorter then her. Yes, some people might be surprised at the gems they have overlooked because of their preferences but that doesn't mean that preferences are wrong.
peachy6969 1 year ago
@peachy6969 I agree..
bkstyle82 1 year ago
This is what happened, she asked the question only to men who are considering entering that type of relationship. She just told us to look within ourselves to determine if we have enough maturity to enter such a relationship. She never said ever man who doesn't go into such a relationship it is because he lacks the maturity. If a real man chooses not to do it she is fine with that but she did say that man was man enough to enter such a relationship if he wants to.
WildL23 1 year ago
@WildL23 You are twisting what she said: In one section of the video, she said, "If you're a real man, you're able to look at woman with children and say, 'I wanna meet the kids and feel them out and see how they are' "I disagree with this because this has nothing to do with whether you are a "real man" or not. You could be a weak ass simp and say, "I wanna meet her kids and feel them out and see who they are." ALSO, you could be a "real man" and say, "No thanks, I'd rather not meet the kids."
JunebugObama 1 year ago
@JunebugObama Maybe she is just saying a real man would ALWAYS say that. A simp may or may not say it but maybe the point is a real man will ALWAYS say it. I disagree, real men don't date women with kids and refuse a request to meet the kids. How you gone tell a woman I don't want to meet your kids and you are dating her? She should dump you immediately.
WildL23 1 year ago
@WildL23 She is not talking about an F-buddy she is talking about a relationship.
WildL23 1 year ago
@JunebugObama She said you are "able to." All able means is that you have the qualifications to. It doesn't mean must. Able and must, 2 totally different words. You think in absolutes here. Able is the key word. So you could be a real man and say no thanks but as an able responsible minded man you still have the capacity and ability to meet the children.
WildL23 1 year ago
@JunebugObama A wifey type/real mother type is not going to date a man who refuses to attempt get to know her children. She is not going to waist her time with him, if she is a real mother.
WildL23 1 year ago
@JunebugObama A man get a chance to date Montana and then tell her you don't want to meet her kids and see where it gets you. I think you would get the point after that.
WildL23 1 year ago
@WildL23 Did you read what I just wrote? I went back to her video, put it on pause and quoted her word for word. She is equating not dating a woman with kids with not being real man and those things are not synonymous.
JunebugObama 1 year ago
@JunebugObama I know what you mean but it seems to me like you are still twisting her message because she could have meant that making assumptions is boy thinking. I'll look at it.
WildL23 1 year ago
Junebug you may have more experience then me but I'm a better listener than you. She never said men who avoid relationships like that are weak. She never ever said nothing about men who avoid those relationships. She made no comment as to whether they were weak or strong. All she said was if you are going to be in one then you have to be strong and if you really don't like the kids then don't get in it.
WildL23 1 year ago
What video did you watch. All she said was it takes a mature man to be in that type of relationship. And she said if you have a shitty attitude about the kids then you should not date the mother. That's all she said. You putting words in her mouth. Every word she said was 100% correct.
WildL23 1 year ago
@WildL23 Which video did YOU watch? In the one that I saw she specifically said that it was "little boy thinking" for a man to NOT date a woman with kids. I happen to disagree with that and I still disagree with it.
JunebugObama 1 year ago
@JunebugObama What is the time, lol, give me the exact quote and time. I never heard her say "little boy thinking." In fact what she meant was that ALL real men have to qualifications of what it takes to be in the relationship. So if you are a real man who don't date women with kids fine but you still have the qualifications to do it if you want. Is what the woman meant man.
WildL23 1 year ago
@WildL23 She said "little boy thinking" around 2:53. It's interesting how, out of all these text comments under my video and hers of people disagreeing with her, you are the only person who is trying (in vain) to change the message of her video.
JunebugObama 1 year ago 2
@JunebugObama "In vain", you don't know that. That's a bold statement. And I am not trying to change the message of her video. I'm trying to give you my interpretation of the video. If I thought her video was waht you claim it is then I would never try to change that.
WildL23 1 year ago
@JunebugObama It is not like she is trying to tell you that in order to be a real man you have to date the woman regardless of what her children are like. She is just saying that if you are not going to date the woman with kids don't refuse the relationship because of childish assumptions. What she is saying is real men don't give consideration to assumptions when making decisions.
WildL23 1 year ago
@JunebugObama So what are you trying to imply? Speak your mind. What's so interesting about that?
WildL23 1 year ago
@JunebugObama Speaking of in vain, maybe watching your videos period is "in vain." Glad you mentioned it.
WildL23 1 year ago
@WildL23 Doing something "in vain" means unsuccessfully trying to do something. I merely stated to you that you are unsuccessfully trying to change the meaning of her video. I have not shown you any disrespect by saying "in vain" nor is it a derogatory term. If you want to stop watching my videos over something so trivial, then you are free to do so.
JunebugObama 1 year ago 2
@JunebugObama I thought you meant something else. Just checking.
WildL23 1 year ago
@JunebugObama The message of the video is what the title of the video says, DATING A "WIFEY TYPE" WITH KIDS. The title of the video is not how to be an f-buddy. The word wifey is in the title. It is an instructional video of what kind of man you have to be in order to date a decent woman with kids. That is the overall message.
WildL23 1 year ago
@JunebugObama Check out her latest video, she has made a clarification video. Peace!
WildL23 1 year ago
@WildL23 I actually just watched that vid, & I must say, listening to her speak is rather painful. She has nothing of value to say, & Im quite certain that outside of sex she'd have nothing to offer to a man. Honestly, it's as if I was listening to a high school girl rant on & on about absolutely nothing. Oh well, I guess some women are just destined to be society's punchline....
YoungGrizzly82 1 year ago
@JunebugObama How you gone tell me somebody said something they didn't say and the evidence is on youtube. LOL. You must forgot who you was talking to.
WildL23 1 year ago