My Daughters name is Madison she lives with me and my wifein California. My 2 Sons are in Maryland their Mom is my 1st wife and she said I would never see them again. She still fights me to this day, we have Court in Simi Valley in the 19th. my sons are 18 & 15 now, we hardly know each other and their mom is still trying to prevent me from being in their life. She moved to MD without telling me or the Court they don't seemt o care for some reason. If it was me there would be an Amber Alert. True
It's me, Your daddy! I want you to know that your daddy loves you, misses you and thinks about you EVERY DAY! I miss your hugs and kisses and I promise your daddy will fix this honey, I PROMISE!
As well as SHARED PARENTING there must be SHARED HONESTY AND ACCOUNTABILITY for the choices that you make. IF YOU CHOOSE TO MAKE BABIES WITH 'CRAZY" PEOPLE DON'T ALWAYS EXPECT THE PUBLIC TO COME RUNNING WITH SUPPORT AND SYMPATHY WHEN YOUR SITUATION TURNS BAD!!!!
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As well as SHARED PARENTING there must be SHARED HONESTY AND ACCOUNTABILITY for the choices that you make. IF YOU CHOOSE TO MAKE BABIES WITH 'CRAZY" PEOPLE DON'T ALWAYS EXPECT THE PUBLIC TO COME RUNNING WITH SUPPORT AND SYMPATHY WHEN YOUR SITUATION TURNS BAD!!!!
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I think it is also important to note that this man CHOSE not only one but TWO women that he CLAIMS are emotionally unstable and unfit to be motthers. He says he comes from a great family and yet not himself OR ANYONE IN HIS FAMILY noticed that there may be something WRONG with these women before he DECIDED to make children with them.
LOL lets face it men r not that smart. i got my man the same way u got yours and eve got adam. i no madison she needs a father and there should be no denying her that
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The truth is being distorted greatly but I know there are many women out there who are selfish and callous and prevent dads from input into kids lives and also grab as much cash as poss. Bleugh! The majority of moms are living in isolation and poverty with their kids effectively abandoned by men and society. The tax-payers scapegoat. Most absent dads I know will not work and abuse substances daily. Most single-mums I know work their asses of with no rewards but I know theres many who don't.
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Kids need both parents input if that input is genuine love for the child. I know tons of dads who are hurt by not being around their kids much but they also make the most of it and party quite hard too. Mums are left to usually struggle to bring kids up alone because of the split, most dads who werent too keen on getting pregnant anyway, the majority imo,will not make any effort to be dads cos they are punishing the mum,mums have no choice but to raise the kids in poverty.
I happen to know this daddy and he is a good, kind, loving and fit parent who loves all children. Madison's mother on the other hand is a child abuser, that's right any parent who would make false allegations and deliberately keep a child from a willing and loving parent then fill that child's mind full of lies about her daddy is a child abuser. Parental alienation is child abuse. Our children need both parents, two parents equals twice the love, why would you deprive a child of that?
This mother grew up without a father in a house full of hatred, psychological, physical and sexual abuse, where violence and parental alienation were the norm. she had no father figure and was pregnant by an older man at 16. she is a product of her environment, what did you think would happen?. these are learned behaviors and she should not be held responsible for her actions. the courts should have protected Madison.
So perfectly said. During a divorce or seperation, parents please put your anger aside and always remember your chiilren first. They are usually the ones that get neglected without notice. Sometimes the wrong parent is the one that gets the children and usually for the wrong reason. Fathers should never be left out of a childs life, they are as important as the mother.
This video is a great idea for Dads (or Moms) to let their children know that you never stopped trying to see them after you were ripped away from them. I suggest you title the videos using your full name so as time goes by maybe your child will see it. Let them who have kept your kids away from you explain that down the road.
Damn this is so unnerving.I have been a single dad for nearly 7 years.I still have less rights than her.We have been dragged through the courts for years.My boys mom has been found neglectful 4 times.I have been brought to court for things like the mom couldn't give the boys a hug on her visitation day when she refused a visit.And she had a court order against me.I even been jailed and beat by cops in batavia ny.Why because she kept sendin me pics of our deceased daughter.I said what i thought.
Just remember before feminism came in a mucked up the whole system, 100 years ago, the divorce rate was 7%, only 10% of women were in the workforce because they had to work! They had no choice. There were no abortions!
Boy have times changed. Now women feel the need to compete with their own husbands, the divorce rate is 50% and women gain custody 90% of the time.
Your numbers aren't right. 7% of custodial parents who are fully employed are below the poverty line. The number is higher for custodial parents who don't work, but not that high. Please check your facts. Mine are from the US Census Bureau as of 2003.
Poverty wage jobs are earing $10.00/hr. That is what 75% of women that work, earn! Most goes to taxes, and she is left with next to nothing. That is poverty wages!!! How are you going to raise a kid on that kindof money? If the man loses his job and can't pay child support, he is screwed!!!!
Not only that, but they are screwing up their love starved children they pretend to care so much about!!!
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I don't know this guy's story, if he's typical of many, I assume this much: He values his driver's license more than his own daughter. He's not willing to make the necessary sacrifices to be part of his daughter's life. He's allowing his daughter to be exploited by the court at the taxpayer's expense. His actions insure that the next generation will fall victim to these practices. When you look at it like that, the way it truthfully is, how can you possibly feel sorry for him.
Kevin, I wonder how you are in a position to make such sweeping generalizations about fathers caught up in divorce. Remember, there are two involved in every divorce, and today, often it is the woman who initiates it and seeks limitations in visitation. Sure, there are fathers who abandoned their families, but there are women who do that too. Obviously, this father didn't want to abandon his daughter or he wouldn't have had this piece put together.
I'd like to go into it but this discussion board is too limited. Being limited to 500 characters is a joke. Go to ANCPR if you like and I will try to explain my statement.
Hi Kevin. I'm not sure that I understand your initial comment after visiting the website you pointed to. The website appears to be in support of fathers who are prevented from enjoying the visitation they deserve. We can't condemn him without knowing the facts of the case.
Personally, I feel that many men and women take the divorce route when their true love for the children involved would be best demonstrated by working out their problems and coming together with a strategy that has separation as a last resort. Men and women are selfish in this regard. Many divorces occur as a result of selfish attitudes toward relationships and an unwillingness to compromise in marriage.
Oleary: I'll be blunt. Experts would argue that divorce is usually sought after by greedy mothers (at least 85% of time) who stand to gain everything from the "mother" take all mentality in our courts. If you have everything figured out, why ask for anyone's explanation of their opinion? Maybe you should start the "Dr. Oleary show". Good day.
Besides, I never asked for your or anyone else's opinion on the matter. You sound very defensive to me. Most experts would agree that the majority of divorces could be prevented in the first place if couples worked together through the hard times of their relationship rather than being self-centered stalwarts. You sound like a stalwart.
Experts would also argue that each case must be looked at separately on an objective basis. Past cases (even if there is an 85 percent record of "greedy" women involved) has nothing to do with the next case, which might actually involve an abusive husband. Or the next case, which might involve a woman who wants to leave because she is tired of supporting her beer drinking, out-of work husband.
There are 1 million false allegations of abuse and violence levied against men per year by divorcing wives! Which is the bigger crime, the abuser, or the false accuser.
Anyone interested in posting their comments with regard to this video, and many other topics relating to parental rights, can do so by going to ANCPR headlines.
Kevin. You're really confusing me. Your initial comment was anti-father, stating "He values his driver's license more than his own daughter. He's not willing to make the necessary sacrifices to be part of his daughter's life...how can you possibly feel sorry for him." If you read my comments, I am stating exactly what you eventually said in your last comment. Be careful how you communicate this issue, as you might confuse people.
Wow - powerful stuff Alan. I'll give my Madison an extra long hug tonight as I remember that some are still fighting the battle for equal parenting with their kids. Move aways are some of the most painful situations to deal with. What incredible damage spite can do to children!
Thanks Scott, This little girl stole my heart from her photos. This is my favorite video so far and hope Madison gets the message that her daddy loves her and misses her very much.
that 1 twat who disliked is a heartless ....
TheBadRobot112 1 year ago
My Daughters name is Madison she lives with me and my wifein California. My 2 Sons are in Maryland their Mom is my 1st wife and she said I would never see them again. She still fights me to this day, we have Court in Simi Valley in the 19th. my sons are 18 & 15 now, we hardly know each other and their mom is still trying to prevent me from being in their life. She moved to MD without telling me or the Court they don't seemt o care for some reason. If it was me there would be an Amber Alert. True
MGkings 2 years ago 2
Hi Madison,
It's me, Your daddy! I want you to know that your daddy loves you, misses you and thinks about you EVERY DAY! I miss your hugs and kisses and I promise your daddy will fix this honey, I PROMISE!
Love you,
daddy
DonaldTenn 2 years ago 3
great vid!
Jaunnield 2 years ago
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As well as SHARED PARENTING there must be SHARED HONESTY AND ACCOUNTABILITY for the choices that you make. IF YOU CHOOSE TO MAKE BABIES WITH 'CRAZY" PEOPLE DON'T ALWAYS EXPECT THE PUBLIC TO COME RUNNING WITH SUPPORT AND SYMPATHY WHEN YOUR SITUATION TURNS BAD!!!!
mrsatlazdrama 2 years ago
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As well as SHARED PARENTING there must be SHARED HONESTY AND ACCOUNTABILITY for the choices that you make. IF YOU CHOOSE TO MAKE BABIES WITH 'CRAZY" PEOPLE DON'T ALWAYS EXPECT THE PUBLIC TO COME RUNNING WITH SUPPORT AND SYMPATHY WHEN YOUR SITUATION TURNS BAD!!!!
mrsatlazdrama 2 years ago
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I think it is also important to note that this man CHOSE not only one but TWO women that he CLAIMS are emotionally unstable and unfit to be motthers. He says he comes from a great family and yet not himself OR ANYONE IN HIS FAMILY noticed that there may be something WRONG with these women before he DECIDED to make children with them.
mrsatlazdrama 2 years ago
LOL lets face it men r not that smart. i got my man the same way u got yours and eve got adam. i no madison she needs a father and there should be no denying her that
estrnillini 2 years ago 6
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The truth is being distorted greatly but I know there are many women out there who are selfish and callous and prevent dads from input into kids lives and also grab as much cash as poss. Bleugh! The majority of moms are living in isolation and poverty with their kids effectively abandoned by men and society. The tax-payers scapegoat. Most absent dads I know will not work and abuse substances daily. Most single-mums I know work their asses of with no rewards but I know theres many who don't.
smmeegal 3 years ago
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Kids need both parents input if that input is genuine love for the child. I know tons of dads who are hurt by not being around their kids much but they also make the most of it and party quite hard too. Mums are left to usually struggle to bring kids up alone because of the split, most dads who werent too keen on getting pregnant anyway, the majority imo,will not make any effort to be dads cos they are punishing the mum,mums have no choice but to raise the kids in poverty.
smmeegal 3 years ago
I happen to know this daddy and he is a good, kind, loving and fit parent who loves all children. Madison's mother on the other hand is a child abuser, that's right any parent who would make false allegations and deliberately keep a child from a willing and loving parent then fill that child's mind full of lies about her daddy is a child abuser. Parental alienation is child abuse. Our children need both parents, two parents equals twice the love, why would you deprive a child of that?
f4jmedia 3 years ago 30
This mother grew up without a father in a house full of hatred, psychological, physical and sexual abuse, where violence and parental alienation were the norm. she had no father figure and was pregnant by an older man at 16. she is a product of her environment, what did you think would happen?. these are learned behaviors and she should not be held responsible for her actions. the courts should have protected Madison.
estrnillini 3 years ago
So perfectly said. During a divorce or seperation, parents please put your anger aside and always remember your chiilren first. They are usually the ones that get neglected without notice. Sometimes the wrong parent is the one that gets the children and usually for the wrong reason. Fathers should never be left out of a childs life, they are as important as the mother.
ruthmoli 3 years ago 36
This video is a great idea for Dads (or Moms) to let their children know that you never stopped trying to see them after you were ripped away from them. I suggest you title the videos using your full name so as time goes by maybe your child will see it. Let them who have kept your kids away from you explain that down the road.
go4a24 3 years ago 43
great video our time will come and we will be there to say we fought for our kids.
woozilmusic 3 years ago 37
Damn this is so unnerving.I have been a single dad for nearly 7 years.I still have less rights than her.We have been dragged through the courts for years.My boys mom has been found neglectful 4 times.I have been brought to court for things like the mom couldn't give the boys a hug on her visitation day when she refused a visit.And she had a court order against me.I even been jailed and beat by cops in batavia ny.Why because she kept sendin me pics of our deceased daughter.I said what i thought.
pea8vey 3 years ago 2
the video is touching ang the message so important. Things must change, Family Court is corrupt.
PaulG849 3 years ago 37
Madison needs her Daddy. Our children need us EQUALLY! WHAT IS WRONG WITH THIS WORLD? MONEY ISNT WORTH DESTROYING THESE CHILDREN!!!!
CincyMommy 3 years ago 33
Very good video mate...keep the faith...our day will come..Fathers have rights too.
RadsVids 4 years ago 26
Just remember before feminism came in a mucked up the whole system, 100 years ago, the divorce rate was 7%, only 10% of women were in the workforce because they had to work! They had no choice. There were no abortions!
Boy have times changed. Now women feel the need to compete with their own husbands, the divorce rate is 50% and women gain custody 90% of the time.
Verlch 4 years ago 6
75% of single mothers are below the poverty line, despite getting 40 billion in child support.
85% of all criminals come from single mother households!!
Verlch 4 years ago 7
Your numbers aren't right. 7% of custodial parents who are fully employed are below the poverty line. The number is higher for custodial parents who don't work, but not that high. Please check your facts. Mine are from the US Census Bureau as of 2003.
khawk13 4 years ago 3
Poverty wage jobs are earing $10.00/hr. That is what 75% of women that work, earn! Most goes to taxes, and she is left with next to nothing. That is poverty wages!!! How are you going to raise a kid on that kindof money? If the man loses his job and can't pay child support, he is screwed!!!!
Not only that, but they are screwing up their love starved children they pretend to care so much about!!!
Verlch 4 years ago 3
Kevin, as someone who was given further details on this issue, I'll just say this - You don't know the story. Enough with the faulty assumptions.
xvolatileheart 4 years ago 8
If you don't mind me asking, why weren't you granted partial custody?
xvolatileheart 4 years ago
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I don't know this guy's story, if he's typical of many, I assume this much: He values his driver's license more than his own daughter. He's not willing to make the necessary sacrifices to be part of his daughter's life. He's allowing his daughter to be exploited by the court at the taxpayer's expense. His actions insure that the next generation will fall victim to these practices. When you look at it like that, the way it truthfully is, how can you possibly feel sorry for him.
KevinMerck 5 years ago
Kevin, I wonder how you are in a position to make such sweeping generalizations about fathers caught up in divorce. Remember, there are two involved in every divorce, and today, often it is the woman who initiates it and seeks limitations in visitation. Sure, there are fathers who abandoned their families, but there are women who do that too. Obviously, this father didn't want to abandon his daughter or he wouldn't have had this piece put together.
theolearys 4 years ago 18
I'd like to go into it but this discussion board is too limited. Being limited to 500 characters is a joke. Go to ANCPR if you like and I will try to explain my statement.
KevinMerck 4 years ago
Hi Kevin. I'm not sure that I understand your initial comment after visiting the website you pointed to. The website appears to be in support of fathers who are prevented from enjoying the visitation they deserve. We can't condemn him without knowing the facts of the case.
theolearys 4 years ago 3
Personally, I feel that many men and women take the divorce route when their true love for the children involved would be best demonstrated by working out their problems and coming together with a strategy that has separation as a last resort. Men and women are selfish in this regard. Many divorces occur as a result of selfish attitudes toward relationships and an unwillingness to compromise in marriage.
theolearys 4 years ago 12
Oleary: I'll be blunt. Experts would argue that divorce is usually sought after by greedy mothers (at least 85% of time) who stand to gain everything from the "mother" take all mentality in our courts. If you have everything figured out, why ask for anyone's explanation of their opinion? Maybe you should start the "Dr. Oleary show". Good day.
KevinMerck 4 years ago
Besides, I never asked for your or anyone else's opinion on the matter. You sound very defensive to me. Most experts would agree that the majority of divorces could be prevented in the first place if couples worked together through the hard times of their relationship rather than being self-centered stalwarts. You sound like a stalwart.
theolearys 4 years ago 3
Experts would also argue that each case must be looked at separately on an objective basis. Past cases (even if there is an 85 percent record of "greedy" women involved) has nothing to do with the next case, which might actually involve an abusive husband. Or the next case, which might involve a woman who wants to leave because she is tired of supporting her beer drinking, out-of work husband.
theolearys 4 years ago 3
There are 1 million false allegations of abuse and violence levied against men per year by divorcing wives! Which is the bigger crime, the abuser, or the false accuser.
Neither gender has a monopoly on retards!!!
Verlch 4 years ago 12
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boo jerk!!
pea8vey 3 years ago
Anyone interested in posting their comments with regard to this video, and many other topics relating to parental rights, can do so by going to ANCPR headlines.
KevinMerck 4 years ago
Kevin. You're really confusing me. Your initial comment was anti-father, stating "He values his driver's license more than his own daughter. He's not willing to make the necessary sacrifices to be part of his daughter's life...how can you possibly feel sorry for him." If you read my comments, I am stating exactly what you eventually said in your last comment. Be careful how you communicate this issue, as you might confuse people.
theolearys 4 years ago
Wow - powerful stuff Alan. I'll give my Madison an extra long hug tonight as I remember that some are still fighting the battle for equal parenting with their kids. Move aways are some of the most painful situations to deal with. What incredible damage spite can do to children!
Scottf4j 5 years ago 26
Thanks Scott, This little girl stole my heart from her photos. This is my favorite video so far and hope Madison gets the message that her daddy loves her and misses her very much.
Alan
alanrusmisel 5 years ago