On Being A Man 1/7

[MrlovaBhalla]

Your not David, your EBEN PAGAN !!!!!!!!!

[nobodysperfect06]

the reason why i think women have it easier than men is because women just have to be cute, pretty, hot, good-looking in order to be girlfriend material, but men have to be "perfect everything", all of these non-physical atributes, which is not an overnight process

[DiamondVision212]

@nobodysperfect06

dude you mm  must be 15?

they cant change their looks hardly.., we have to just change some attitudes.,.,

[nobodysperfect06]

i still think women have it easier

[nobodysperfect06]

@DiamondVision212 seriously, why is confidence the mother of all attractiveness that women find in men? it really frustrates me, pisses me off

[OnBeingAMan]

@nobodysperfect06 try using the mindset "a man who backs himself with his own integrity"

[nobodysperfect06]

@OnBeingAMan why is it always non-physical attributes, attitude, mental, verbal traits that what attracts women? thats what pisses me off, a guy can look like Brad Pitt, but if he has no "confidence", does not have these "Masculine" traits, he would be a virgin, be single still

[7Danny71997]

Whoever watches this stuff is a first class loser faggot.

[babyjdad]

@7Danny71997 so what does that mAke u..... VIRGIN

[OnBeingAMan]

@babyjdad Let's put a stop to this dialogue.

Danny. You are young and 14 years old. I will say that you are not old enough to appreciate the value of this material. If you get on the right path, this will make sense to you. Own the fact that your comments are completely immature and warrants disrespect.

Having said that, babyj, whenever a young man shows signs of immaturity, do not resort to taunts about his sexuality. See how you can raise the both of you towards manhood.

[gdbaradit]

This guy is great.

But the audience of this ... is just so sad.........

[Aphrocraft]

Hail DeAngelo-sensei.

[OnBeingAMan]

Hello men,

I uploaded these videos three years ago as a preparatory video for a seminar I was giving. I have not checked the channel for quite a while, and I was surprised with the amount of views and positive feedback.

I urge you to invest in the product (rather than stealing it!) and strive to cultivate your deep masculinity.

I will be expanding on these videos with my own in the next few weeks. Watch this space.

In the meantime...

Leadership, action, creativity, compassion.

Good luck.

[Cleric775]

@OnBeingAMan You MUST be.... Mr. D  ;D

[thebuddahmain]

"...what are you leaving with?" i thought at that point, im leaving with a dead boy >.>

[allenkvmusic]

14 people who don't get it

[EssThree]

Love this series. It really turned around my mind set. I'm not just succeeding with women now, but life in general :)

[fr0gspwn]

Ignore my friend kenfo0, he’s been trolling on the internet for years now, so he’s had plenty of practice. Although he’s a bitter xenophobic and homophobic man with an abrasive personality, he’s mostly harmless. He’s like the village idiot of Youtube. It’s best to ignore him and he’ll either get bored and go away or become frustrated and make more of a fool of himself.

Beware poor spelling, punctuation and grammar are his favorite foods.

Check his comment history or Google his name.

[TheGreenwoodfamily]

The boy must die.

[fr0gspwn]

Excuse kenfo0, he’s been trolling on the internet for years now, so he’s had plenty of practice. Although he’s a bitter misogynistic and homophobic man with an abrasive personality, he’s mostly harmless. He’s like the village idiot of Youtube. It’s best to ignore him and he’ll either get bored and go away or become frustrated and make more of a fool of himself.

Beware poor spelling, punctuation and grammar are his favorite foods.

Check his comment history or Google his name.

[kenfo0]

@1nqual what a fucking moron. You think someone does not dominate an interpersonal relationship? Wrong. Someone is always in the lead, and we are all clear that in NO situation are you qualified to be that person. "Riding a bike". Someone riding a bike is not a social interaction, dope. "Work". EVERYONE has a boss of one type or another, so you are wrong AGAIN. Among friends, there is a person who is looked to as a leader when everyone is together. Grow up, sissy boy.

[kenfo0]

@1nqual three posts of "my femininity and fear of competition is normal and yer uh poopie head". Spamming bullshit does not make it truth, goebbels. Stop your crybaby nonsense.

[Ihatemyusernamemore]

LIsten to courage wolf if you want to become a real man and not just some mediocre manifestation of all those metrosexual womenly impulses nature installed in our brains

[NumeralScientist]

Man I'll bet if this were required watching in school this is what would happen to society:

Economy: Improve

Domestic Violence: Down

Sense of Security and Safety: Up

Emotional Toxicity: Down

[airwave2oo8]

thanks OnBeingAMan for this !!!

[glareofnight]

Hi Im David DeAngelo .. again

[ebmanii]

@everyone Grow up. Enjoy the knowledge that David D has spent years and countless books on. Thank you.

[TheChallenger1000]

@kenfo0

P.S. Fire away I won't be back to read it. I have better things to do than go back and forth with the typical Bible Thumper (Don't like that? Crying again?), who only sees the world through his narrow-minded view and can't accept that not everyone agree's with your narrow-minded view. Your type makes me sick, not just because of your arrogance and silly rhetoric, but because you do it all with such haughtiness as if you were ordained to have a higher moral position than everyone else.

[kenfo0]

@TheChallenger1000 "WAAAAAAAH! I'm gonna cry long and loud then put my fingers in my ears and scream!". What a pathetic, uneducated loser you are. You did not make A SINGLE POINT. "Yer tipe maykz mee sik, cuz uh....retorek an narow-minding...uh...hawty....­uh....WAAAAH! EYE KWIT AGIN!". Shove off, fruit.

[AllPro777]

@kenfo0

I see you like to argue too, and without intelligence to boot. Here's the deal bud, you're too sensitive. Maybe you don't know anyone who doesn't cry like a wet baby over something as trivial as "Bible Thumper" but then you probably surround yourself with cry babies who are just like you, so no surprise. You also like to put words in other people's mouths; Where are you getting "You only respect people who provide for you?"? Smh. I never said that. I'm done arguing with you, moron.

[kenfo0]

@AllPro "....where men who are good providers and strong leaders are necessary for survival....women no longer respect us....". YOUR words, dipshit. Maybe you can come back and cry some more. Women sure as hell respect me, because I am intelligent, tough and decent. I don't take crap from anyone, especially not some little crybaby like you. "WAAAAAAH! I can't back up a damned thing, so I'll call you dumb and run away.". Maybe if you watch some more vids, someone will respect you. Jackass.

[TheDistilledMan]

@kenfo0 mate, gotta be said, that was a superb smattering of condescension and truth. Pisses me off that I'm struggling to learn from some fruit on the net, when I bet you've stumbled arse backwards you're whole life into the very thing we're after. There is a word for naturals, I call them: bastards!

[kenfo0]

MEN don't take classes on "man-ness". Period.

[Wilfred2288]

@kenfo0 that's why they're there... to learn to become a man.

[pshaw951]

@kenfo0 No, real men buy the audio-tapes so they can hide away in the safety of their man-caves and work. There is nothing wrong with educating yourself about something that usually is never addressed in any conversation. There is some good shit in this audio series.. you can find it all over the net for free.

[kenfo0]

@ps No, real men don't use sitcom driven terms like "mancave".Real men address each other honestly.I don't need to find anything.Don't know where you got the idea I was unsure or unclear.If you think being a "man" relates to how many powertools you have, how many "self-help pop psych drivel" paperbacks and audio tapes you can choke down and vomit at others or how many "friends" you have, good luck. You'll be leading the empty, unexamined life of internal, quiet desperation so common today.

[pshaw951]

@kenfo0 So you are saying that a someone should not use anything to learn and should just rely on raw experience to become a man? If a person is unaware of certain trains of thought, should they stay ignorant until it "naturally" happens later down the road when it's too late? I can tell you have a strong disdain for self-help, but that doesn't mean that just because you don't see its utility doesn't mean there is none.. or that it makes you less of a man because you sought more knowledge.......

[kenfo0]

@pshaw951 Do you know right from wrong? Do you know the difference btwn honesty and self-serving meanness? Do you know how you want to be treated? Would it be right to expect to be treated differently than how you treat others? If you were being treated badly and could do nothing about it, would you want others to stand by and do nothing if they could help?Do money and things define manliness? Is "right" determined only by what is good for you?

[UpFrontWith]

I think that the number one problem that men have with women is putting a woman first in there life.So many men today act just like women. I saw a movie the other day that was so funny. At the end of the movie the man moved out of town to be with this woman and left his job.I think that most of the people making these movies are gay or women. Wake up men Take you power back in your own hands.Control your life not hers she will follow if not so what. There are so many women just looking for a man

[AaronTrutsJC]

get a bible gentlemen. God will mature you and make you the man you should be. Great video.

[AllPro777]

@AaronTrutsJC

Back to reality. The type of man the Bible will turn you into will be righteous, trustworty and reliable; The type of man women instantly friendzone and is one of the reasons videos like these even exist. Sad, but 100% true. So, unless you find a woman who believes like you do, you're going to be alone for a long time. But the sadder part is that even many of the women who claim to believe in those things, still go after men with no quality or character. Women are who they are.

[AaronTrutsJC]

@AllPro777 you don't have to be a sinner to have quality of character my friend. im not perfect but i believe in living by the bible. I highly doubt i will be alone lol. Im confident in myself bro.

[AllPro777]

@AaronTrutsJC

That doesn't negate my point. Since you're a Bible thumper you already know according to it that all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God. So we're all sinners, according to the Bible, you included. And no, you won't be alone IF you find that rare woman but don't think for a second that because she thumps a Bible too that it's going to be smooth sailing, because it will be anything but. See the 50%+ divorce rate for proof, and plenty are Bible thumpers just like you.

[AaronTrutsJC]

@AllPro777 good point. you seem to know your stuff. we do all fall short but not being saved and acting like a jerk will not help your cause in having a good relationship. Married couples who never had sex until they where married last longer than a couple who have been doing it already. I think. lol but i know Im on the right path.

[kenfo0]

@AllPro777 I certainly don't get your point at all. It appears you are saying if someone lives by the ideas espoused in the Bible, someone is an idiot, and that people who live by the Bible's teachings get divorced.  That's what the words on the page indicate. Is that what you meant?

[AllPro777]

@kenfo0

Hmmm, you'd have to explain how you came to that conclusion. I didn't say that at all. I'm merely pointing out that the men of the Bible were the opposite of what women look for in a man today, or at least until a woman has gotten much older and doesn't want to play games anymore. Let's face it, men of honor are not getting the same level of attention that the loud, rowdy, no-good, dishonorable men of our world get on a regular basis.

[kenfo0]

@AllPro777 "Hmmm, you'd have to explain how you came to that conclusion.">>easy, from this, for one "Bible thumper". which is a deragotory term. Your second post is far more clear. How do you think women get to admire and desire "loud, rowdy, no-good, dishonorable" men?

[AllPro777]

@kenfo0

I disagree on the correlation there that "Bible Thumper" equals idiot somehow. I think that's a pretty long reach, but that's off-topic really. How women got to this point is multi-faceted, and to be quite honest it's more a problem of the West than it is any many other cultures, where men who are good providers and strong leaders are necessary for survival. It used to be that way here, but feminism changed that. Women no longer respect us, and it's hard to love who you don't respect.

[Seano71]

Get to the point already

[genbukai123456789]

@MathLessonsForFree

No i don't think so, I want a woman better than the others.. But very very few girls improve themselvs kinda a shame

[IAmIntelligence]

growing up, my dad, sisters, and brothernlaw were extremely jealous

of me, and anything I did that was the least little bit manly, I got in trouble

for, I mean it was bad growng up, because my sisters, were so much

like men, that I got really confused about, who I was, I didn't know if I

needed to be, more sensitive, or manly, or both, or what, I still have this trouble today, it has gotten better.

[attila518]

Ahaha, luckily my dad was and still is the manliest person in my life. My friends use to look up to my dad more than their own because hes so manly. I couldnt imagine having a weak father.

[MrCharrrles]

What happens when I grow older and bigger without gaining the qualities of a man? I become my father.

[hm2k1113]

Russell Peters: Be A Man! Do the Right Thing!

[SpeedyJavve]

Is it just me or does this guy look a LOT like Dan Henderson?

[Fastbackt67]

r u mexican?  u certainly look like ur from honduras.

[ken107]

DD is quite a salesman, I have to admit. He researches extensively, creates a lot of material, and perhaps make a lot of $ out of them. But his material starts you in the right direction and is particularly good because it gives you a broad perspective of pickup. Rather than starting with pickup lines, techniques, negs, DHVs, and what-nots, he focuses more on the psychological foundations, which is of more importance. Pickup is not just about getting the girl, it's about being a better man

[5959512]

He may be able to hook up with a 10, but she will jump out the fucking window if she spends any amount of time with him. He does soo much talking with little substance.

[blackdigr]

@5959512 what makes you say that

[drpuki]

what a load of fucking shit. typical yankee bullshit. i haven't heard someone say so littlefor so long.  i'm up to the eight minute mark and he is still wanking on. how the fuck can so many people like this?

[Arcadius15]

@drpuki Why don't you go watch a video you enjoy instead of bothering people who are watching this?

[TheAlbatross62]

@drpuki Because, you dumbass, this might be just what some people need to hear.

[MathLessonsForFree]

Would women every do anything like this?

[climbingtothetop]

That's the problem these days. At the end when he says "What happens when you grow older, but not more mature?" Mature masculinity is, as far as I'm seeing, is being discouraged, discredited, defamed, punished, humiliated and down right tortured by pop culture anymore.

[theduke2020]

David D is a pimp!!!!! not my favorite of his materials but its still interesting

[DJ80s]

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He's too boring to follow the good message.

[TrivianiJoey]

David D rocks.. PUAs like him can walk into any bar pick ANY woman that they choose.. I've seen it happen.. u know the funny thing is? They can dress like complete chumps run game on perfect 10s and get girls you couldn't dream of - Check out Style on Jimmy K - he got Britney Spears' phone #.. that is the calibre of these PUAs..

ILoveBears86 - you are soooo outta ur league lil man!

[drpuki]

@TrivianiJoey

why don't you marry him?

[theacidjesus]

This is on some Fight Club shit

[shayne202]

some great advice here. but i want to smack his head in.

[powerballmine]

This is all nonsence. To really imagine that you can provide an audience of men with the skills to be attractive to women is make believe. Bottom line is its a combination of physical attraction, personal wealth and confidence. This so-called expert is making money out of peoples insecurities. Draggin it out with long pauses and repeating his nonsence as if its science. This snake oil selling. And how successful with women has he been, he doesn't say..

[ILoveBears86]

I read somewhere about "the 4 elements" earth(intellect) wind/air(emotions) water (social) fire(decisiveness), If those are all strong than anyone is attracted to you not just "women". I used to have some of his stuff and because I never really had dad I started to learn about myself and questioned why should this be applied to women and wtf makes them so special, at that point maturity took over.(continued)

[ILoveBears86]

I think the guys that are insecure about themselves just think girls are above them creating that mental barrier, thinking it's "us" vs. "them" when really it's us and us.

[hwyman703]

Too funny...you are in dire need of David D's materials. Women would be much more attracted to you if you hated them less, but you are too wrapped up in your own personal drama to see that.

[powerballmine]

hwyman703 'Too funny'? because I question all that you want to believe in? You say I hate women but you are one advocating treating them like objects, to which techniques can be employed. They are human, flesh and blood; indiviudals. Do you hate yourself? and wish to believe in a false prophet who peddles 'mystical' techniques to any man who rolls up and buys a ticket. You need to begin to believe in yourself. David D is a salesman expressing the 'American Dream'. dd, Sell insurance..its worthy

[LaharlD2]

@powerballmine Right!

[discharmingman]

This dude pauses too much. Is he being prompted what to say through an ear piece?

[moozadell]

he is probably trying to sell something too

[Lathox]

@discharmingman. I happen to know from reading his stuff, why he pauses. He has practiced this method of talking. Slowwer speech, deeper voice, pausing for effect. He has made a habit to sound manlier.

[dylanskriloff]

I like DeAngelo's other tape "How to Take a Shit" better, but this is good stuff too. It works, it triggers some latent potential, you get in touch with a part of yourself that women are interested in. It's different. Gotta give him credit. I still am not comfortable with the whole teasing girls thing, but it works it works it works. Girls sometimes give me their numbers now without mine even asking for it. A little surprise life has thrown my way.

[opaz79]

In sweden and soon most of europe the government is actively denying boys to grow up into men. The idea is that men and women as seperate genders doesnt exists, theyre only roles invented to supress and control women. Now from a very young age boys are given dolls to play with in kindergarten and girls are given toy hammers and cars. Teachers arent allowed to treat boys and girls differently or do anything that would lead boys or girls into the right path of their gender. Its fucked up!

[chandraiitk]

@opaz79

I appreciate your thought but you are ignoring a huge chunk of knowledge. Read about human personality in psychology. It assigns a lot of weight to your biology (your genes) in determining your personality. Your argument that put the girls in a same environment as boys and the will develop a boy-like personality is simply WRONG.

Nature has "designed" men and women differently. Read also about human evolution for a clear understanding. What you say is more emotional than a fact.

[opaz79]

I never said I agree with it, I just say its state policy in sweden to deny the existance of set gender roles that differ from each other in any way. They have state funded gender bureaus that produce research and force their agenda on kindergartens, school, media and even in church. If I said ten years ago that this is what will happen in Sweden in the future eveyone wouldve laughed at me because its so fucked up, but now its the norm and people laugh at me for saying its insane.

[AlexanderValentino88]

wasup man! im from sweden and thats true! the boys in sweden are pussies,momma's boys etc! they wrote about it in the newspaper last week!

[MYOLDNEIGHBORHOOD]

@opaz79 i miss the 50s

[beninnesker]

@opaz79 Who told you this? I have 3 kids who have gone through daycare in Sweden, nothing like that ever happened. In fact, it's ridiculous! The kids choose what they want to play with. My youngest son is so truck mad it's a joke. He takes 4 of them to daycare with him every day.

[yared94]

@opaz79 It's not THAT extreme. Boys are not given dolls and girls are not given hammer and cars.

[snkaes251]

The boy must DIE...this is so true, I can't tell you how many women get turned off by a guy who acts like a 7th grader.

[ligyro]

being a man is about being a loving father and husband. it's about caring for your family.

there. i just saved you having to watch over an hour of video

[Taramriel]

you miss the point completely.

[omcxe]

wow, haha.. thank you man

[kockykunt]

i disagree with you. my father is extremely caring to my & my sister- but he is shy- passive & has 0 self-esteem- 7 my mom says he doesnt act like a husband- caring & being a fantastic husband is great & is needed- but what the hell does that have to do with a man's inner MANHOOD?

[kockykunt]

my father is extremely caring to me & my sister- yet inside of him- he is ultra shy-passive- acts like a 6 year old- & has zero self-esteem- so what does loving your family & being a great husband have to do with a man's inner manhood-self-esteem-autonomy?

[pukeachu]

Dave D's not insinuating that such a personality makes one less worthy as a human being. His point; mackin' da hunnies=contemplating whether or not your best served by remaining the man-child or evolution into Alpha Maleness.

[kockykunt]

you re absolutely right about the alpha maleness

[ricky5538]

I suppose just facing all your fears. Not a lion, cause it will eat you, but everything else that you need to do in life, like approaching a chick and getting rejected. Like a job interview or promotion. Like saving money ? I'm not sure but that's what I think.

[stalingrad66]

The Big Lebowski: What makes a man, Mr. Lebowski?

The Dude: Dude.

The Big Lebowski: Huh?

The Dude: Uhh... I don't know sir.

The Big Lebowski: Is it being prepared to do the right thing, whatever the cost? Isn't that what makes a man?

The Dude: Hmmm... Sure, that and a pair of testicles.

[Wolvenfire86]

I get annoyed that too much emphasis is placed on "girl power" and woman's rights and very little importance is placed on positive male role models or the good qualities of masculinity.

It is refreshing to see something like this on youtube.

[farhannius]

@Wolvenfire86 well said and very true.

[OnBeingAMan]

@Wolvenfire86 Glad to see you enjoy what you see. Both genders have had issues going back several generations. We cannot address one side's stories without listening to the other.

[TimpBizkit]

It's like in back to the future, when Marty goes back in time and as an interesting side effect, stops his father being a WUSSY. Nice to see the school bully Biff washing his car

[ricky5538]

I wish someone showed me this earlier. I am a boy and would have stayed that way my whole life if I didn't see this video. Now I will be a real man very soon. I didn't realise how this kept me back in life.

[y2joct7]

Grow him out of it. Ive had plenty of people call me an asshole to my face but I treat it as a compliment & Im proud of it. Im tryin 2 grow another co-worker out of his pussy stage.

[caveboy0000]

you cann't change people if they don't want to.

[RabidPelican]

@caveboy0000

@caveboy0000

Dude, my dad wasn't a good role model either, but this material wasn't there when they were around. It isn't like you would grow or improve the same way if no-one was there to teach you. The problem is, no-one taught our dad's in the first place. The reason our dad's didn't show us how to be good with women is because no-one taught them either.

[smartbomb33]

@caveboy0000

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

[drummer43210]

Wow amazing that you could dodge copyright infringment...

[GWHS10]

THX can u get Deep Inner Game on here thx

[dabanhfreak]

say pretty please :)

rather than doing that i might put up dr paul's section from OBAM because it is DIG in a nutshell.

[jack8891]

COOL