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  • okay so, i'm in my extra class and im new there, so my teacher gave all the students the test then she approach me and she asked me my name and i told her then she said... i like you and i was like, holyshit, LOL

  • 0.39 hey blinked 51 times lol

  • See doesn't have a boy friend when I write bf I mean best friend, I'm gonna ask her out on sunday

  • By far one of your best vids.

  • I don't want to have fun with her or play games/challenges. I want to have sex with her!

  • Oh and by bf I mean best friend (SHE IS SInGLE)

  • Hey I was wondering what u guys thought.

    I like this girl and I went with my choir (she is in it) to Disney land. We hung out all day. She kept looking at me and laughing at the stupid jokes. I mentioned ghost ing and then she would only do It to me and she would say ph I'm ghosting u and then laugh. Several times she purposely pit her boobs on my back. Right before the fireworks I was walking around and saw her sitting down with her bf(a guy) she yelled to me and asked me to sit down next to h

  • @OneObsessedGamer Man… she like you! You don’t need to wait for a bright sign to tell you that! :-P

    …of course, boyfriend complicates thing quite a bit. So, to be honest with you, SHE IS REALLY INSECURE ! All women are… it’s a software bug is their brains :-P

    So, before she leave the previous guy she wants to make sure she has found an other worthy man cause she is afraid to stay alone… I don’t know, maybe his her first or she never had a lot o B.F. relationships…

  • @OneObsessedGamer Oh… and don’t say something stupid like “I’ll wait for you baby”… but don’t force her either! Hint to her you find her cute… but also mention that you like other girls too and that you won’t be available for long! Don’t hang from her every action… show some indifference [pretend it] and if it’s possible, let her see you talking with other girls too. That will make her a bit jealous and will speed thing up in her mind.

  • @OneObsessedGamer If she respects you and has lost attraction for her ex, she’ll leave him… if she doesn’t DON’T SHOW HER YOUR HURT… It will be hard but know that if a woman sees that you have fallen for here BEFORE meeting her well enough ^^ …then she’ll loose the attraction she feels for you. Ok man? I wish you the best of luck! :-)

  • I would answer this question with one simple thing. See how she reacts when you get physically close to her. I'm not talking in a bar or club where that's the norm of course, but in any other more casual setting, try subtly drawing closer to her. If she doesn't take a step back and lets you 'invade' her personal space, that's a very good sign.

    From the information I gathered, men generally enjoy physical proximity with women wether they are attracted to that woman or not. They will be flattered

  • to be getting attention from any remotely decent-looking woman.

    Women are usually different. When a man we're not attracted to starts getting a little too close and personal, we don't feel flattered, we feel threatened. We know your thinking just switched to your downstairs brain, and the last thing we want at that moment is our pelvic being anywhere near yours!..so watch us take a step back.

    But when a woman does likes a man, the threat becomes fantasy, and no level of closeness is too close.

  • This guy is a quack

  • please thumbs up cause Stephan really has to see this !!!

    im like 12 i told her that i loved her but he just run away tomorrow i have to going to school but i dont know how to look in her eyes. please help

  • mate its about girls not jobs

  • @harnekthandi1 Hes using jobs as an example you douche.

  • I really like this advice and all and I clicked "Like" but damn ...get to the point already. You talk too much.

  • Am I really this desperate? Hahahaa

  • im 12 i like a girl in my class, I know that she likes me, but i cant tell her that cause the school bully likes her but she doesent like her back im not a nerd or anything but im not a superman as well what should i do?

  • im 15-going on 16 i was carious and im very naturally good with women i don't ask myself if she likes me...i have fun and if we vibe we'll make some more plans and vide a bit more get to know each other earn that kinda connection:)

  • i danced with this girl i like and she says she likes someone else but i think really think she likes me. wat should i do?

  • i was watching this vid and then the girl i liked just talked to me on facebook

  • really helped... Yes first person in my class to have a girlfriend before highschool...

    BOOYAH!

  • you look gay in this video im not talking about gay like homo im saying you look happy in this video

  • This Help Me Now I Got my Fourth girl friend ;)

  • @TheGamepro360 great, if it made you take action, that's neat! S.

  • What really pisses me off is that I either always end up going after the wrong girls or the girls that I go after is already taken. In fact, there was almost an incident where a guy wanted to beat the shit out of me for talking to his girlfriend and since he was bigger than me, he thought he could push me around. I'm not gay or anything but I sort of gave up on getting girls because I never have luck. So fuck it, and fuck finding a girl.

  • THANK YOUU SOOO MUCH!!!!!!

  • @pyroslayer83 no worries! if you like it share it!

  • Ugh fuck my life .I like this girl and my sort of friend likes her too but I have no clue of she likes me . Help me

  • help me serious problem

  • @lmbeskovic599 Try talking to her. If she studders, or tries to run, she might be into you.

  • I'm not trying to be messed up but you blink A LOT

  • So if I lay down with my head looking behind staring at a hot girl and I lift both of my eye brows with a smile and she smiles back at me in an aerobics class. Does this mean she likes me?

  • i'm on the weird side of youtube again

  • @dethan221 this is not the weird side :D

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  • well bro im 15 and i have this problem does the rull aply the same

  • guys this is not true the only way u know is if we look at u alot or if we call u or smile and stuff if u want to know more come to my channel and ask more stuff

  • and omg

  • im just seeing if this realy is true cause im a girl

  • @97grimsta... Im exactly like you, except for the rock band thing, but im in thre exact same "situation" so to speak.

  • I like this Asian girl,my dum friend told her that I like her. She rejected me by saying..."sorry,your to short for me!" What should I do?

  • Well theres this girl in my class that I met a few days ago, and we had to be partners for math. She was really social, asking me what music I like, how my day had been, and so on.. I kind of like her but idk if shes just a social person or if she is interested in me.

  • Btw I really want to go out with her can someone please help?

  • @Penguin95abletofly if she knows you like her and now tries to avoid you or cuts conversations short she don't like you but if she still talks to you or does anything different than before she likes you so you should ask her out

  • I am 13 and I haven't had a girlfriend. There is this girl I like and my friend told her I like her which makes things awkward. I don't know if she likes me or not. What should I do?

  • @Penguin95abletofly , i have the same problem and age

  • @Penguin95abletofly I remember being in that situation in 7th... I didn't know what to do either at that time.

  • @Penguin95abletofly awkward huh i say move on

  • @Penguin95abletofly The worst thing she can say is no.

  • @Penguin95abletofly The same thing happened to me just do it.

  • @Penguin95abletofly tell your friend that he is an asshole

  • @Penguin95abletofly masturbate

    

  • @Penguin95abletofly Same here :/

  • @Penguin95abletofly u should ask her out tht happened to me.

  • @Penguin95abletofly Does she look at you or even talk too you?

  • @Penguin95abletofly first of all dont be shay cause she know allready that you like her

    and dont talk to her wait for her to talk to you

  • @Penguin95abletofly happened to me its not great but dont try to flirt with her just, ignore her or settle it down till she feels if she trusts you then flirt with her.

  • @Penguin95abletofly talk to her.

    or see that new will smith movie..

  • @Penguin95abletofly did u NOT just watch the vid -_-

  • @Penguin95abletofly show ur wieney

  • @Penguin95abletofly Get new friends. But seriously, if your not akward bout it, she won't be.

  • It's called low self esteem. Sometimes we need to grow some balls and take risks.

  • jesus crist mary mother of nazareth i neva seen sum1 blink so much! lol

  • i like seeing boys telling people advice about girls, you know, just to see if their right

    BTW im a girl..

  • Lol I get more ass then a toilet seat

  • Unfortunately I'm extremely shy, but I'm quite smart especially in the sciences. Also into guitar-been playing for 10 yes now. I've had adults say I'm handsome but whatever I'm not that outgoing

  • how to not get nervous when "pulling the trigger"? or when to do it?

  • dude any tips on how to tell a girl you like her without feeling nervous or awkward? how to let her know and when?

  • All right well I have a pretty odd kinda thing.... There's this girl that used to be in my study hall last year and she always use to stare at me without me ever really noticing..... Well this year the same girl still stares at me whenever I walk by in the hallway or even in one of my classes I catch her staring, shes really shy and whenever I'm near her i notice she like try to look away and acts pretty awkward too, never talked to her just wanted to know if shes into me

  • man up use your courage face rejection got show your balls geez

  • @CryptonProductions if u show ur balls u can go to jail lol

  • Also like it ( for some reason ) when you come off to be confident. I'm a brainy nerd but I've had a few pretty girls call me cute and say that I'm very humorous. I've also had several compliments for most of my life from adult women saying I'm cute or handsome. So I know I'm good-looking, smart and articulate, funny, talented musically and artistically, I'm in a rock band (good plus), I'm very sweet, sensitive, caring, and gentlemen-like. Combine my personality and other lady attracting featur

  • I get it now. If you assume they like you (when you're not sure she does) you'll be more confident conversing with her (and other girls), and also feel more comfortable and have the conversations more dynamic and less statif,robotic, and awkward. Not only that it seems like it would relax me and calm down my nerves and allow me to be myself. Also girls like to be approached and acknowleged, they don't offten take many initiatives, because the assume from social norms the guy will do it. Girls

  • Hi

  • I like a girl in my class but we have not talked AT ALL in 2 years does that mean she likes me

  • @14Bulletz

    Sometimes girls flirt with other guys to see how that boy reacts to what she's doing, or maybe she doesn't like you anymore..

  • this girl i know her since like 4 years allways my best frend allways ask for hugs but i start to love him i found she haves photo like waiting for my text with a face like :$ lol well idk what to do :(

  • There is this girl who I'm sure likes me who is in my homeroom. She was "responsive" and is more responsive to me than others. I told her I liked her a few days ago but she just said "ok" and turned around. I haven't really talked to her that much since because of the awkwardness. What does this mean? Does it mean that she just doesn't like me or does it mean that she is just too shy to tell me how she feels? She isn't the most outgoing person.

  • ive been going out with this girl for about 10-11 days, i never hugged or kissed her yet, same with her but i we always tell eachother we love eacher when we have to go, but she didnt say it last time? is that a sign that she wants to break up with me? please anwser...

  • @FirstOneIn2 i think it just means shes geting used to being with you and shes like watever now you kno but im shure she does trust me

  • @FirstOneIn2 If you're telling each other that you love each other after 10 days of "going out" probably means she never really meant it, when she said I love you.

  • @Jezy12 so i should break up with her?

  • @FirstOneIn2 Of course not, you can't expect someone to love you after 10 days of a relationship, you need time. The girlfriend Im with now, I was with 1 month before we said I love you too each other. Just give it time dude ;)

  • @Jezy12 aha thanks bro i finally kissed her yesterday :) 

  • @Jezy12 I told a girl i loved her after about 3 months. She thought i was going to fast. I still think I was in the right. So long story short she hasn't talked to me in like a week. But hey she obviously wasn't meant for me if that's all it took to scare her off aha.

  • nice. gonna hve that mindset if it comes..

  • Epic speech....I now know what I must do

  • thax

  • hey i am stephen to 

  • Do you know what i like about youtube everyone here has their own story to tell and all of them are worth reading

  • ps im twelve

  • hey i said to the crush whats up b@%&h and she beat my ass like phil colins beats his drums in i can feel it in the air tonight . No but really the girl who we will cal girl for now Said . Girl : Hello , Me : im ignoring her , Girl: hi , Me : looking at my phone the n she hit me over the head and Said hello , she reacts phsically when i do something or ignore her does she mean she likes me cause i like her but i act so much like i don't i wonder if acting this way will make her ,work im outa wo

  • @ 14bulletz that would be very sweet and heart braking

  • look left--------> you failed

  • Humans are evolving into complicated creatures.

  • @YeppeunPollin adapting, more or less. it wouldnt really be evolving if its not convenient... but adapting is just changing to suit certain problems.

  • Day 3 of looking for odstsparten27's comment.

    Food supply running low.

    Starting to become mentally unstable.

    Great vids though man! Really good tips

  • @HighHiqh 5 minutes, plenty of food, wanna know why?

    1. clicked see all comment

    2. ctrl + f

    3. search his name

    4. my mental is still 100% stable.

    5. Great vids though man! Really good tips

  • @instaant1 umadbro

  • @HighHiqh nah... im saying this cuz i dont want people to repeat the same mistake like you did

  • @instaant1 yumadtho

  • @HighHiqh lol, im not.

  • @HighHiqh you made me laugh ! i gave up on this one 7 days ago but she still gives me weird "sights" everywhere i meet her..you know it's been 7 days since i wrote her a message and she don't really responded on it so i'm like "sure" .

  • @HighHiqh but there are onl 251 comments

  • @HighHiqh Try CTRL + F

  • @HighHiqh Here is what will help you survive:

    Hold Ctrl & then f

    Hope you find your loved one dear adventurer!

  • @HighHiqh

    have you tried "Ctrl+F"...? :-)

  • Thank you very much !!

  • Thanks man my friend started grinding with me at a school dance but she said that she didn't like me

  • Please help me, i asked this girl out like 2 days ago , she said yes, but i know this other boy i think she still likes, she said he was cute before i asked her, she told me i remind her of him, i said i like her and she told me she likes me and i'm just wondering if i should brake up with her so she can go with that other boy she likes...:( please help :(

  • @14Bulletz dude, stay with your girl. Relationships are awesome! just asked out my girl today!

  • @14Bulletz Well, no, stay with her, definately. But you should talk about it with her, just ask if he likes him. But don't worry bro, if she says she likes you and goes out with you, your the one she likes

  • true dis

  • Thanks man, there's this girl in my class and I do every thing that she asks for me (which isn't much) and I get her backpack and stuff and I still think she isn't interested. This video helped me a lot.

  • no statistics available? :O :(

  • Haha this happened to me before but i wasnt sure....i would just sit and she would randomly tease me, what does this mean??

    is it a good response or not??

  • 5:55 I was waiting for sexually

    LOL

  • this is true then i asked the girl out she said yes then she dumped me the day after

  • @alyssathe1st like WTF

  • @alyssathe1st lol react at ur own reaction Xd haha

  • @Mrilhan98 LOLOLOL

  • Thumbs up if u are watching this video becuse you want a girl to like you :D !

  • I never thought of her level of responsiveness... no wonder she's hitting me whenever I play some crappy jokes.

  • Hey Stephan, You Said that if I tiiz a girl that she would respond maybe laughing or physicaly. I like this girl and she does everything that may seem to me that she likes me, but she dosent answers me on facebook. She talks nice to me, tiiz me too in a way, and sometimes do respond on facebook. but that is rarly, what kind of signal is that.

  • I am in the 10th grade and so is she and she been giving me these weird looks like she wants me but i'm kinda afraid to confront her about it cause of what she might say lol

  • haha i just ask her..... that was easy

  • I don't like you

  • This helped me, cheers

  • Harrrrrrddddd

  • Lolwut I'm 12 and in middleschool yet still didn't get this

  • @wiiknight1 go and do some homework

  • Flirt playlist... =.="

  • So 12 year olds 2?

  • I think you're right Stephan about the responsiveness. And you were bang on when you said, "if you feel she's in to you, she's in to you".

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  • this guy smokes pole

  • @facelessDeathsquad obvious troll is obvious

  • @LemonZeppelin obvious youre obvisouly a douche bag

  • @facelessDeathsquad And you are obviously an immature ten year old and can' even spell. Fail troll.

  • @alpokissa get off my dick fat fuck

  • I'm trying to hear if English is his mother tongue or not, but I am clueless!

  • hey stephan, i dono but this is kinda a weird case.... i met this girl who was recently was asked by a friend of mine and he was rejected.... she n i are just friends.. i dono if she likes me cause we connect well only when we socialise and drink together. we usually chat on gtalk n whatsapp and make plans.... i dono but she is really kinda cute but i don't want the same feeling of rejection that my friend had when he asked her out. we have things in common... we love music, drinking,driving,etc

  • You the man

  • Thanks man but try to be more concise.

  • who care if he blinks a lot this guy is helping us men

  • 7:40 Remember this.

  • @goalkeepertalant if a girl is sooooo open to u i dont think she likes u, i think she just wants to be friends or really really close friends but dont lose hope,every girl is different. Maybe shes likes you.

  • Ok theres this girl, she asked me out like about 1-2 weeks ago, thats was the last time she asked me and then yesterday i caught her looking at me when i walked passed her, just today i seen her flrting with this guy for about 7 secends, is she still into me or not?....

  • U blink a lot

  • Great, from my own experiences, i've had that same mindset, and completely agree with everything this guy just said.

  • I know I'm not the right place ?! By I need help there's this new girl on my high school I really like her and I want talk to her but I get some weird feeling when I see her I always said to myself say hi or something but I don't get nervous its just a feeling....she doesn't have that much friends cause shes just new ?....I gonna be friends with her than see if she likes me on the future ...so what should I do any advice please someone M

  • There is this girl at my school, at first we would talk a lot then homecoming came around and everyone wanted me 2 ask her 2 homecoming..... but another guy beat me 2 it, and afterwards she found out i was going 2 ask her and she still talked 2 me.... now we dont talk as much and in class i sometimes see her quickly glance at me.... and when we do talk she will kinda get close 2 me and grab my wrists and ask me a question..... I can't tell if she likes me or not... SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME OUT!!!

  • @SwervinCurvin56 take you wallet stand on it and if your significantly taller you'll know what she wants savy?

  • This girl is very happy and hugs everyone and I like her. I have only started talking and on the first day she started playing with my hair and giving me high 5s. And on the walk up home from school she was about to go and she saw me and waited and wanted me to go with her all over town and when I go one way he would follow is this a hint or what HELP!!

  • @goalkeppertalant After one day? Tap that boy! Just kiddin. Ask her. That's the only way to know. If she says no, just play the 'dumb guy'.

  • Too much blah blah in the beginning

  • I love how I do not need advice on how to hook a girl...and I'm only watching this because your voice is magical.

  • thanks people for making my top comment top like this if u like someone and u stil cannnot ask her or him or u asked and was no

  • They flip there hair and stuff

  • I've always noticed this, but I never took the time to keep myself from thinking that way. In fact, I'm going through this right now. I can talk to her in class, have fun, & not worry at all. My friends believe she really likes me as much as like her, but over the weekend I started to ask myself this same question, then that's when I really started to ponder. I came across this video & my confidence was restored. So out of all of this, I want to thank you sir for excellent advice!

  • @CrozoeTriLegacy same here,ive liked my best friend since kindergarten,now we're in high school and since the last week of 6th grade,i fell in love with her,and two of her best friends keep teasing me about how we should go out,then,she started ignoring me,and i kept thinking about one really troubling question: do i really love her? turns out,according to the girls,she was sorting her feelings out for me,and she loves me just as much as i love her,i think ill tell her i love her on her b day...

  • @stephanerdman dude im 10

  • @odstsparten27 Jesus Christ!! You're 10? Stop watchin my videos and do something fun instead! ;-)

  • @odstsparten27 im 10 to, why are there so many 10 year olds on youtube?