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  • @JuleitaPapa

    Yeah.. I like its method cause it gave me the courage

    to do what Ive always wanted to do but because of

    hindrances,its impossible. Thanks to that wonderful

    program offered by the site:

    GettingBackTheEx.info

    It has all the information I need to win her heart back.

    And now were on our 3yrs with happy relationship.:)

  • Thanks for telling me that my gf is banging someone the following week she dumped me....lol

  • Thats the point to seeking a person who treats you bad and dont even want to talk to you?!

  • girls...why do you guys have to be such bitches?

  • @bluevipa it has to do with the person...there are guys who are assholes too... but it's better if we don't put it based on whether the person is a boy or a girl...there are good people and bad people .

  • AHHHH~!!! I am the rebound guy! I connected with this girl; from past history with shitty relationships, likes/dislikes, turn ons/offs, emotionally, and physically. I thought I found my dream girl. I fell for her knowing that I would be the rebound, but I thought I would be different because I'm not like her ex. He disrespected her and didn't treat her right. The honeymoon phase with her lasted about 3 wks. She started being distant because she was confused. How do I overcome being the REBOUND?!

  • @SOJA408 Same situation as you but that shit lasted for over a year. I thought she was over her ex hubby only to get dumped out of nowhere (no indication). She said she needed to be by herself b/c she jumped from him to me. Exhubby treated her like shit. She told me she already had a rebound b4 we met when she was separated. I thought she was perfect for me. I think I coulda handle a 3 week fling but this yr thing fucked me up.

  • never thought about it that way good insight

  • It was helpfull... thnx

  • not terrible as its appears to be. You are in a mechanical world

    

  • HOES

  • oh yeah, by the way, the girlfriend is fairly similar to me in terms of background - almost. it's like he is re-living the last 20 years of his life once again.

    the biggest thing that differs between me and the OW is that I have values - integrity for instance - while the OW doesn't really bother because she has been texting and adoring my husband for many, many years. like, she doesn't give a damn that she's destroying MY FAMILY. It's so funny smart hubby has fallen for THAT!

  • @kakliza im sure if he leaves her for you he'll find himself in the same situation when daily life takes over the excitment and romance in their relationship then he'll be wanting you back or going with someone else. It sounds like you both need to get over each other and learn to have a good time with each other again. not easy after loads of shits happened though but maybe worth tyring if yo've got kids. don't be a ball breaker but don't take any shit either. n good luck.

  • @wyrda222 thank you. i sounded real angry in posts, didn't i? (LOL). well, i guess i am angry. but i'm also in a way angry with myself - i wish i had been kinder, gentler ~ can't say that I was born feminine, all my sisters & I are fighter cocks. not that we are unkind, our entire family (cousins & all) are basically expressive. I guess it collided with his gentler nature. anyway, we're starting court-endorsed counseling and starting next month. After that? I leave it in GOD'S hands.

  • @wyrda222 It would be sad though - wouldn't it - to lose him to the great unknown when it could have been avoided had I been only less egoistic. i mean - yeah, it was wrong to for him to lead double lives....and it happened while i WAS TRYING TO IMPROVE to be gentler and more subservient, too..... (sheeesh!)

    i'm trying to bide my time, trying to rebuild my own life, own interests ..... he has shown some kindness recently when i became unwell. that's nice. i think he cares but not love.

  • okay, if my husband had his 2nd affair for 7 years, while still being married to me (and ultimately he was frustrated with me DURING our marriage) - is he on a rebound? well, apparently he had already been attracted by her 'loving nature' compared to my brash one. fed up by his lying, i told him to go and wished him well....i'm not too sure what's gonna happen in the future.

  • @ comingcoming

    I understand you bro, I've been married for 8 years and this happened to me. What I suggest for you Is revenge! Do yourself, make yourself better and have friends for support.

    When they see this, they will be happy for you more than themselves. Stay strong, and keep focus on your own because of you don't love yourself how can you love others.

  • I guess it's time to give up on my ex wife. She told her rebound love of one month that he's the only person who she's ever really loved. So I guess she was bullshitting me for 2 years. I'm tired of women at this point. I think I'm done with them for awhile, if not permanently.

  • What if my ex broke up with me and went into an arranged marriage right after but still loves me?

  • I feel sorry for my ex. She's mad at me and is in a rebound relationship (we were long time friends first, and lovers for 2 years- now she's in a serious relationship with someone she's known for a month who is also rebounding- they "fell in love" in about 2 weeks). I offered for us to be friends, but she wants to stay mad at me, and try to make me jealous. I love her, but I'm moving on, and not going to talk to her anymore. But if I want her back, I guess staying away is the key, right?

  • @CominImcomin im on the same boat... let her miss you and if your not busy make it seem like you are dont call her also shell come back..

  • @luzclarita12345 I really doubted she was going to come back..but she did! I stayed away for almost a month, and she came back because she missed me and being with her rebound wasn't the same as being with me. She dumped the rebound and wants to be with me again. It's sooo true that when you leave your ex alone, they eventually lose alot of interest in their rebound and miss you. I do want us to get back together, but I'm making her work for it, lol. Don't lose faith people!

  • Here is the greatest ebook I have ever read to get my ex back. Unfortunately I can't post direct link But here is the link...

    doiop [DOT] com/exbacksure

    You have to replace [DOT] with . Thats it! Look luck guys n gals. (:

  • You are AWESOME!!!

  • My ex left me from a 3 year relationship. Broke up with me because since i was moving to new york for a year for school, he didnt wanna try and work it out. didnt break up cause we cheated/argued/fought. No. Took us almost half a year - to a year to say i love you. He talked to this person for two months and officially has been together for 2 months so four months total. IDK, i seen they are saying i love you already and i dont think this is a rebound anymore, how long can a rebound last?

  • @reneyneyneyney i think if you were both genuinely in love you wouldn't of split up. people emmigrate to other countries and work for years sending money back for their partners and such without seeing them. if its love you make it work. forget them, it sounds like they weren't that keen and didn't have the balls to let u know sooner and used the move as an excuse.

  • To add she admits she doesnt love him but now denies ever saying that despite the proof. She constantly fusses at me whenever im right. People tell me to leave her alone all of the time considering im the more secure one which i agree with because she throws temper tantrums a lot. Her mother even knows me and her are better together. We almost got back together but she is being immature and it pisses me off to see her get used by an insecure 40 year old. Any advice is welcome.

  • I'm 18 years old and me and my ex have a remaining deep love but she's someone else. I left her because she treated me bad and i was the only mature one in the relationship even though she is 21. We took a year off and we were scared to talk to each other. I came back in and she's now with a 40 year old who's using her. She shows the signs mentioned above attaching to him after 3 months when we were together a year and we took it slow. She admits shes still in love with me but wont leave him.

  • does a week count as a rebound?

  • Anyways would you be able to help me out Ashleykayers? Cuz I really do need this help & also we had lived together for 2/yrs but I have another problem she's back in texas staying with this guy & he never saw her like that

  • I tryed logging on to your website but it says its exceeded the limit & I really need help get my ex girlfriend back we had been together for 2/yrs but we had knwn each other for 3yrs

  • I feel soo much better after watching this. Thank you! <3

  • I made my ex suffer haha

  • This Guy I Know Was Dating This Chick For About A Month And About A Week Or Two Ago, They Broke Up (Idk Why Or What) Well Now He's Talking To This New Girl But They've Been Talking For About 4 Days And They're Flirting, But He's Flirting Way Too Much Way Too Fast. And I Know He's Never Like That. I Don't Even Think He Has Her Number But They've Already Kissed! And He Seems Like Hes In Love With Her! Is This New Girl Just A Rebound?They're Not Officially A Couple

  • please tell me this will work :'[

    My ex left me last month....

  • where are you from

  • I really enjoy your videos. You have a wonderful personality and you make me feel at ease. I really appreciate your videos. Thank you and thank you for keeping me going as well :)

  • totally going through this right now, thanks so much for the advice. I am going tonight to have the "closure" talk and hopefully be able to leave it as friends and let her go off with this new guy as hard as hell as it may seem. I will try and stay strong. just a few days ago this happened and we had been dating 7 years, so i flipped out instantly and started blowing up her phone. should NOT have done that, but I am going out with her tonight just to chill, I will tell her I am happy for her.

  • my girlfriend broke my heart about 3 weeks ago because I found out she was already dating someone else.. so it hit me faster than lightning after 8 months of dating. she is pretty shady and hard to trust sometimes, but i feel like she can grow up from that. we had such a strong relationship full of love and laughter, but of course the arguments get deeper as the relationship went on. i still love her, and i know she still loves me. I LOVE THe ADVICE FROM THIS VIDEO so i hope it goes like the vid

  • i feel much better after watching this. my ex and i broke up about 3 weeks ago and he has already admitted (and is being fully honest with me) that there is a new girl that he is becoming interested in and is well aware that she is a rebound. he says he still wants to keep in contact with me though and still wants to remain close friends with me..

  • I dated a girl for 5 years, since i was 16 i am now 21..weve been through a few break-ups here and there, nothing major we always got back together very shortly afterwards, well she broke up with me this time, lying to me making me feel like we were just going to a break and things would work out..come to find out shes been seeing my friend and is now pregnant with his child, they've only known eachother for a few months, i dont even know how to feel..i feel like ive lost my best friend..

  • @JazzSwizzy dude, that sucks. :/ i would hate to be in your shoes..

  • @JazzSwizzy i feel for you BUT....you dodged a bullet my friend....DO CHANGE your perspective and lose your oneitis and beta male attitude for this girl and be happy as hell that she is his problem now DONT deal with her or talk to her in any way. you have every right to be pissed but DONT show it to her act like you dont give a shit and DO go out there get yourself together and realize how many girls are willing victims to an alpha male attitude which you must turn into!

  • Thanks, i feel much better now

  • @Rayz093 wow, has it already been 4months? i hadn't talk/meet her for 4months, i wonder how's she doing

  • @Rayz093 Ashley, when do you think it's the right time i approach her? we're both vir' and first time involve in relationship. We're both having a long distance relationship, dating since highschool for 1year, and it came to the point where she's going to college somewhere far, we loved it other, and we had a hard time during that parting moment.

  • @Rayz093 We had a hard time communicating, it became less everyday because of our busy college life. She left me because of i was too clingy (i realize that after she left me) of her going out with her new college friends (both male and female) for clubbing, hookah, late nightouts. She wasn't like that when we're back in high school (used to be a pure and good girl, that's why i fell for her),

  • @Rayz093 she changed ever since she met those friends, way she dresses, no longer lovey dovey with me very as often.That's why i decided to confront her of her behavior, that's when she got mad saying i'm too clingy and left me. I hadn't talk to her since, in a month time, i checked on one of her girlfriend (one of the new college freinds, very close to her), she told me my ex is in a relation with another guy. Hadn't had any progress till today.

  • i broke up with my ex-fiance three weeks ago because of some evidence that i found on facebook and now she already has a new boyfriend and the shyt hit me completely off guard that she was so quick to be with anothe man! She is a whore

  • LOVE this VERY HELPFUL.......=)

  • i am in the same sitiuation . my ex has a new girl and is lovey dovey with her but he still contacts me . i have did the no contact advice and he got upset about me not responding. when he does talking to me about the good stuff about out past and how he dreams about me. He has even gone as far as told his new gf this.we been together for 8 years they have been going out for 5 months i still wanna have hope i can be with him.

  • It's Been About 8 Months Since Me And My Ex Broke Up And I Still Love Him More Than Anything In The World. Idk What To Do Because He's Very Stubborn & He's Never Really Got Over This One Girl He Dated Before Me. What's Even Worse Is She Doesn't Give A Damn About Him, She Just Plays Games WIth Him. She Goes Back To Him When She Breaks Up With A Guy Because She Knows He's There Waiting. Everyone Else Sees It Except Him. I Know Part Of Him Still Cares About Me, But Idk What To Do Anymore. Help??

  • @xilikeyournamex you just need to give him all the love in the world, spoil him and pamper him. i know that sounds like you're degrading yourself, but you just gotta make him feel crazy for ever wanting anyone but you and he will probably return the love you give him.

  • does this even apply to after 3 months?

  • Was with my ex for 2 years and she has left me for sum1 else but this sum1 else was her ex??? so i cnt see it bein a fake rship :(

  • you have a lot of good advice and wisdom. i wish i wouldve watched this when my break up happened....

  • @obrienkl3 Im Sorry To Hear Stop Talking to Him For Good, Stop seeing him and u wont keep falling back for him is my advice.

  • @obrienkl3 HOw Old are you? that way to much time!!!!!!!!!

  • Yeahh I took it slow with my ex because I'm just that person.. like you said, she broke up with me, found a new guy in about 2 weeks and said how mad in love she was with him... I sorta got jealous and told her how horrible she is and its not going to work out, all that stuff... got upset and then ignored both of them for a month or so. now she told me when she's with me she loves me more than anything and tomorrow we're going on a boat together.. hope it's not too late andI can get her back!

  • @Jetplane1123 how did that work out?

  • @daitouzai it poured. Got cancelled. lol. Took your advice and ignored her for another month and last night at a party she told pulled me away outside and told me how much she misses me and how I use to make her laugh all the time. Also found out she broke up with that guy 3 weeks ago because she missed me. We're sort of close now and we skype, facebook, go out more. Will have to see how things go now, but so far... your advice worked! :-)

  • @Jetplane1123 Im not the video uploader but thanks for telling me how it worked out lol

  • MY best advice guys.. While HE/SHE'S with somebody else, if at all possible find somebody else you like and start talking to them more. You won't feel that same connection you had with your ex but it WILL remove that hopeless feeling you have. Plus, the only way you will seem attractive to your ex again is to seem as if you've moved on and are happy for them. Unfortunately, even fake relationships like theirs can last awhile. Do yourself a favor and as soon as you feel ready, get back out there.

  • @cprewittorgilbert1 I've done this and it's making time pass much quicker. I still think about my ex everyday but I can see now that regardless if we ever date again I'll be okay. Plus, although this honestly wasn't my intention, seeing me flirt on facebook and around town with a few different girls has deffinately caught my ex's attention.

  • What If It's Not A Rebound?:/

  • thank you sweet heart.everything you just sed matches up with my exes bullshit.i know she loves me,and i still love her.and the guy that shez with has nothing to offer her in terms ov a long term relationship.i mean he's a fucken drug dealer who lives in a shed at his mums house?he has money but its all drug related?and her passion is to be a early child hood teacher?which will definatly come into conflict with her lifetime carrer.so ima just stay cool.

  • I watched these videos over and over during my breakup and they helped. I then wasted my money on the Tdub book and got ignored through the mail and my phone calls to him. I started looking around and found a book called "Surviving a Breakup: Getting Back Your Ex For Good. The book is by Matthew Mehra. I got the ebook version for reading on my iPad, but you can get a printed version also. It was cheaper than Magic of Making Up and it worked to help me get back the person I love back.

  • Great video brother! Here is a guide some of my friend recommend to me and it has amazing concepts and theories to get ex back. Here is the link

    doiop [DOT] com/exbacksure

    I hope it helps.

  • You know, sometimes people fall in love with the wrong people who aren't compatible with them. So you shouldn't single out someone finding a new relationship after a break up because that new relationship has blossomed so quickly. Sure, I'd be suspicious but if it's over then move on. Why waste time? Besides, if the shoe was on the other foot so that an ex was interfering with your new man how would you feel about that? If it was meant to be they'd come back on their own. :)

  • can you talk about if it's NOT a rebound relationship? :/ we were in 3.3 yr relationship, broke up 3 ish months ago and he's been dating this girl for a while (week+) at least that I know of....I can't help but feel like we REALLY belong...

  • well my ex is like jumping from girl to girl hes had like 4 in 2 months were they all rebounds? why is he doing this?

  • so how long i gotta wait if she is dated someone?

  • OH MY GOODNESS !!!

    This is the exact thin im going thru with my ex / ex bestfriend

    he did jump from relationship to relationship! We broke up i say , hmm 3 weeks ago and now he has a NEW gf which i know and would say hi to, yeah it hurted but i acually tell his friends im happy and wish him the best!(:

    I think he knows he mest up , becaue i did NOT d nothing wrong actuallywas to nice in the relationship.. He has NOT contactd me to this day!<|3 I saw his true side ='[

  • :} WOW THIS GIRL HAS MAD GOOD ADVICE ^_^

  • My case is a bit unique...my ex supposedly lost feelings for me 3 months prior (we have a distant relationship) and fell for someone that made up for my flaws. However, this guy she is with now seems to her ideal man, which really sucks. I don't know if these techniques will actually work, my ex was hoping that I simply let her go so she wouldn't have to burden with me. She wasn't hurt at the very least. So if i distance myself, I'm afraid I won't win her back; she's loyal to her partner..

  • I have watched a few of your videos, got to your site, and it all seems great but I think I think my problem is a bit too unique and that if I did these things, she would become more attached to her new guy. But I'm going to take your advice and if it works out, I'll message you. Thank you for posting this and I'm sure you've made a ton of people happier! :)

  • Hello Ashley,

    Thanks a lot for your advice. It was really great. My ex is going through a rebound relationship and chances are that she is going to breakup with that person quite soon ( our common friend told me this). Can you please tell me how to deal with it if and when she comes back. Thanks

  • Thanks for the tips in your video. It helped me stay calmer.The feelings inside me hurts, but I have to accept it.

  • This is some good advice! :)

  • I fixed my relationship with "Surviving a Breakup: Getting Back Your Ex For Good" by Matthew Mehra. It is available in the Kindle store on Amazon. It was just a fraction of the cost and worked very well for my case.

  • haha nice video...its kinda good cuz its kinda hard to think clear with emotions in the way, like my x just started talkin to me after a year of not talkin to me and shes dating someone else now...i believe i have a chance...i just have to play my cards right....

  • Thanks!

  • pfft bitches gott alearn how to COOK

  • its been almost a year and i still can't get over her... hmmm

  • I'm 17 ex just broke up with me last week. I went into her mail saw that some guy was starting to see her. She said she didn't love me enough. But I don't wanna be that guy permanently damaged from this cause I am a psycho. And I feel if I do see suin. I will kill someone

  • @hpana123 get over it. she'll be a distant memory one day, let it be a good one. Also if you stuck with her, bearing in mind your so young, imagine all the other girls you're gonna miss out having fun with.

  • if u wanna give your advice please do ? my ex broke up with me becasue of her family problems why carnt we get through this toghther >?

  • Your words are exactly what I needed to hear. You put it so well and have made me feel so much better. Glad I'm not the one in a fake, rebound relationship right now. PHEW!

  • What does friends only means from a woman prospective? I keep seeing this woman an when we talk on the phone she says where friends only right. When I take here out to clubbing where friends right. Sometimes she will text me friends only. She invites me out an tells me friends only during or dating.

  • Me & my ex have been apart for like about a month almost...and just like a few weeks ago...he got into this relationship with this girl i DO NOT like...i think he got together w/ her because he knew i didn't like her, he is always staring at me....but this girl is cheating on him i WANT to tell him BADLY but i hear rumors that he calls me a bitch slut whore ect; now idk is itrue??? I don't know :/ lol but yea..this girl kissed another dude..and told him she loved him FOREVEVER now what do i do??

  • @KrazyKandies77584 If i was you i would let i be like it is and TRY to move on! =)

  • im a 20 yearl old male,me an my ex dated for 5ish-6months, while we dated she had a best friend that kept trying to get with her, long story short she left me for him.....shes 18 about to graduate, an hes a 14 year old freshman who hasnt hit puberty.. leagally thats wrong an considered for a sex offender, how should i attempt to get her back?? please reply,

    (ive might of been to pushy already bc i messed up an tried to hard to try an make her realize what shes doin it wrong)

    need advise

  • thank you !

  • hmmm...good info...

  • im 16 and its been 3months since my girlfriend and i broke up. over the past month, weve been flirting and texting and calling each other again, and everything was setting up nicely for us to get back together, even her friends said she liked me again. I went away on holidays for a week and now shes going out with my friend. i hate her for what she did to me but i still cant get over her and i am insanely jealous. WHAT SHOULD I DO?

  • Your video was very helpful. Currently going through a breakup. My ex of over 3 years is back with his ex whom he dated for close to 6 months before me. I guess its a rebound relationship because it happened so suddenly, under a month after our breakup.I dont know if you have any advice for this situation

  • Very good advice. Thank you.

  • Wow excellent... You r a life saver. All that you have mentioned is so true coz thats what is exactly happening with me at the moment. I will take your advice fully apply it and wait for the rebound relationship to sizzle.

    I am going to save your video so whenever I'm down can get that patience motivation from you

    All the best tkcr kp smilin' and Bless You...

  • she is very well informed...sounds like this needs to be a career yea?

  • how many days will the books arrive here in bangkok, Thailand? thanks

  • lol you were a graphic design major? that's my major and now i'm going through a break up too as u did. small world huh? lol

  • if the girl has a boyfriend especially for 3 years dont be the guy that steals her thats fucked up dont do that shit

  • @tropikalpunch i don't want to steal her from her boyfriend . that is why i did nothing at first to show her i had feelings for her.she was the one coming on to me. and it was hard, i work with her .and ride the bus with her .the more i held back the more it was hard, i never told i have feelings for her. but i gave her sings that i cared about her . i dont whant a girl that is a cheater. but as soon as i take my distance she gets closer and when i get closer she takes her distance.

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  • i am always the rebound boyfriend and i am getting sick of this how can i keep the girls? i met this girl and i like her a lot she has been coming on to me. at first i did nothing then i showed her i like her now she is not interested no more (she is living with her boyfriend of 3 years) when i ignore her she dose not like it , and when i get to close she backs off . she almost never talks about her boyfriend . but from time to time she will say my boyfriend this or my boyfriend that.

  • I'm starting to loose my mind. I love her man.

  • I think I might have been the rebound...

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  • Thank you so much!My ex and i split because i thought she was cheating on me but when we split a week later she was with this other guy ! all the signs were there there ( the decleration of love/ the honeymoon period ) after 4 months she moved in with him and got engaged even thou he just came out of a 3 year relationship with his ex(and has a child) all i did was give her space and time (before i even saw this vid) its been bugging me for a year now but at least i know im doing the right thing

  • thank yu, thats true about what yu said with the rebound relationship. At first I was dreading their cuddling and kisses but now I can look at it at a whole new way. Thank yu.

  • this is happening to me right now. My girlfriend recently broke up with me and said that we were on different paths and then in less then a week she has a new bf. And now she keeps saying how happy she is and is telling everyone how happy she's being. After watching this video I think giving her space and time will make my chances in getting her back much better

  • @CoolsBreeze u dont want a girl back that does that shit to u

  • Thankyou, you've helped me so much. This is exaclty what i needed and I just hope my girlfriend comes back to me one day. You've actually given me hope that she will though.

  • Ashley K, Thanks for your videos, they have helped a lot!! P.S. You are gorgeous ; )

  • jiaolin, my heart goes out to your brother..your not alone. Watch the video again and listen.

  • i decided to accept the fact that she is happy with him right now but im still worried if time goes by..what if she reali gets deeper with him and what shld i do in order to stand a chance to get my ex back ? can u advice?

  • seriously wad u hav said is totally the same situation that is happening to me right now. my ex broke up with me 1 month ago and after that i seriously start pleading start spamming her and tryin to convince her to come back to me because she is my first love n its my first break up after 4yrs with her. however she is currently in love with her new bf right now and recently she did tell me its because i irritate her so much after break up that make she accepte him so fast.

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