I know you uploaded this a while ago, but I just wanted to comment that you are an incredible Mom, and Dominic is very lucky to have you. He is an amazing child. Stay strong, there's no need for you to feel guilty. You are both beautiful in every way. You're both in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.
Bailey, My heart goes out to you and Dominic. With in my last years of school for Special Education, I am beginning to see how difficult it is for the parents, and I admire how you are able to motivate him, and stay strong for both him and yourself. I wont ever fully be able to understand how you are feeling, but you and Dominic are in my thoughts, and I am always here if you need to talk.
My brother has autism & had it really bad when he was younger. like your son he had trouble speaking and lots of other behavourial problems. He drove his teachers and parents to tears with his antics but now aged 13 he is almost unrecognisable from what back then. His friends don't even know he has autism. Of course every now and again you can tell he has it when he says something or struggles understanding why certain things have to happen but he has improved so much. Don't give up hope! xxx
You are doing an amazing job with Dominic. Just think you said that the doctors told you he wouldnt talk, and now he is talking. Even if it is only when he feels like it, he learned that somewhere. You, Dominic and your family are in my thoughts and in my prayer. May God Bless You!!!!!! Keep your head up Bailey!!!!
bailey, i honestly think it's okay that you're jealous of those other parents. don't feel guilty about it. obviously, you love him very very much and that's really all that matters. just do the best you can for him, and take it one day at a time. <3
I cried watching this. My heart goes out to you and dominic. I appreciate your honesty and insight. You are a strong person Bailey. My thoughts are with you.
I don't know how are you feeling Bailey, but I do know how it is to have an autistic relative, Nicole that's the name of my cousin, she has autism, and I don't know but it breaks my heart when I see her mom cry for her... and it also brakes my heart to see my cousin going through that.
my best friend has a lil brother with down syndrome, and her mother does something similar to this, she has a weekly column in the local newspaper about tht among other things
I can't even imagine what you're going through Bailey. I hope you know that you're an amazing mother, and he is such a lucky little boy to have you. You're in my thoughts.
My brother has Autism, and my dad and I have aspergers. My brother had it pretty bad when he was younger. He didn't start school until he was like 7. My mum apparently had a lot of emotional problems because of it, and I can understand it can be pretty stressful. I hope things get really better for you and your son. I can tell you really love him very much. You shouldn't feel guilty, your a really, really lovely person and you should know that you have a lot of people that do really care for you
i dont know what it is like to have a family member that is autistic but i do have a friend who is and he is incredible and i cant imagine not knowing him. when we were in high school everyone was very accepting of him and understood. he is very artistic. more than likely your son will have some enhanced ability as well. i hope that he gets into the therapy and just know that God always answers prayers and he has a reason for everything.
Bailey, I know how you feel, or at least a little bit. My brother has spina bifida and me and my family had to go through surgeries and doctors and hospitals when he was little and continue to go through them today. Our mother died a year and a half ago and now he lives with me. He can function normal but he is mentally slow. I know you don't know me, and I don't know you, but we can be here for each other. And I think everyone who watchs your channel will help and remember you.
I am so glad that you felt confident enough to share this with us. It's okay to be jealous of other people; everyone does that. And the thing is you know what you have and you love your son and he loves you. Just keep doing what you're doing and everything will be fine. Everything happens for a reason. You and your son are in my prayers, and we all love you.
Thank you so much for opening up to us about your struggles and concerns. It can't be easy what you're going through but you are a wonderful, caring mother and you will both make it through this and everything will be ok. And you have the support of all of your viewers!! :)
Bailey, know that you can post video diaries about your feelings here anytime. This is a good outlet for you to let out your feelings. We all love you and feel for you and your son. I know I and many others are praying for both of you! Stay strong!
they also become a huge part of the school. they always have their own plays and things like that. and i find them so much better than the actual play that the school puts together. i really just wanted to reassure that when high school comes, just school in general kids aren't cruel. i think its because people understand what it is so much better now. my thoughts are with you guys!!!
no worries dominic will be perfectly fine!! positive thinking!! you guys can and will get through this! I'm in highschool now and Ik many kids who have austim. i really dont know anyone who has been cruel to those kids! and when they have been there is always some one there to stand up for them. i know i have done it. i always feel like i have to stand up for them because they can't handle it but they are so much stronger than i will ever be.
This was really a touching diary... and I got a better understanding on autism, so thank you for sharing. I hope you and Dominic stays strong, and that he gets a great life, as I'm sure you will help him achieve... :)
My prayers are with you and Dominic. I have babysat a little boy with autism. It is not easy. My mom is a teacher aid and has worked with children Autism too. I have faith Dominic in time will be able to be more verbal. And it's okay to mourn still. Your a great mom and your son is very lucky to have you!
Mine has Autism -- we did public school, private school, and return to public school ---- that early transition was tough -- seeing his "failure" compared to the severely typical kids use to break my heart.
we stopped comparing him - it wasn't fair to him and it diminished him.
He turned 16 yrs old yesterday -- he is joyful and excited about life and autism is just a small part of his personality. He is going to take his driver's test soon!
Hey, I'm a Psychology student and a while ago I saw this lecture and a woman called Daniela Fazzio spoke about this program called St. Amant Applied Behaviour Analysis Program they do in Canada for autistic children. I don't know if the program existis in our town, but maybe you could check it out. It's totally free and they have a lot of high profile professionals. So, if you want to know more, you can check out their website.
we're all here for you bailey :) you're already a rock for Dominic, so just keep being a wonderful mom! he sounds like a sweetheart, and I have a feeling he will do greatly in his life!
I have a gut feeling Dominic will be fine, it's just a feeling. I think with you there supporting and helping him, and having this diary as a release of your feelings. Everyone will be ok. :)
I appreciate you so much for doing this video. It must have been really hard to let these thoughts out and I'm really glad that Dominic has such a wonderful mother like yourself. I can't even imagine how you feel. You are a wonderful mother and Dominic is so lucky to have someone that is so loving and caring. Don't ever lose hope.
I know it must be so hard for you, I'm so sorry. You're so strong and you seem like such a wonderful, loving mother and your son is so lucky that you're there for him. Keep your head up :)
I feel kind of bad, cause I haven't watched you channel for a while, but coming back and watching this...wow. I can't even put words to it.
Honestly, I hope that when Dominic gets older, he can go back and watch these, and be able to see just how much you love him, because it is so clear and evident in the way you speak and talk about him. Even I'm crying right now, seeing how much pain you're in. All of my wishes, prayers, and good will goes out to you and him.
And, also, you are not alone, Bailey. Thousands of people have gone through your same struggles of having children or relatives with autism. This must've been difficult for you but your voice can make a difference--it doesn't take a lot of voices for change to happen. Maybe one day, we'll be a better society and can be more accepting of people we don't understand, more accepting of things that are out of our control. Keep faith, Bailey. We're with you.
My cousin is autistic and though it took him longer than most kids his age to get there, he's functioning at a normal level now. One of these days, you'll figure out that Dominic has something that he's very good at and you'll be able to run with it, take those talents or strong points and make great use of it. With a mother as loving as you are, I have all the faith in the world that Dominic will be able to live an average, love-filled life with the abilities, not disabilities, he has.
Dominic is lucky to have someone who is worried about him this way, who is looking out for him, who I'm certain will do everything in her power to help him through any problems that come his way. He is the boy that you love-the autism is a part of him. You've already surpassed troubles (like the doctor telling you he'd never speak) & he's proven he's strong. Please make more of these, it looks like such a relief for you to talk these things out for us. Sending love & prayers to you and your boy.
Wow, I had no idea you had a son, let alone that he had autism. I do know, however, that he is very lucky you're still there for him and put the time into him to teach him spelling and the alphabet. And also that you care about him so much. You're an incredible mom to love him so much and we all recognize this.
B., you're such an awesome mom. (hugs) Just wanted to let you know that even though it feels terrbile (the moments of your depression) it's such an crucial thing in the kid's life to have such a caring and loving mom. Stay strong <3
Bailey, don't you worry. You are a strong, strong person. This is just an obstical to face. This video shows that you are a wonderful mother. You care deeply for your son. I'm going to tell you now, he is going to surprise you one day. I know kids in my school with autism who have completely blown me away with what they can do. You care for him so much, and that's what matters. We're here for you.
Everything will be alright. At least he has the best gift anyone could ever ask for. A mom who loves him more than anything. His life will be filled with joy just because you are in it. And when you're not, he will remember you and feel that joy again. You've given him the gift of love. Not everyone has that.
I have a severely compromised immune system, along with RA, and missed most of regular school things like prom and walking with my class. Most people don't understand, what my family has given up for me, both financially and with their time. Also the battles that I have everyday. I only know a bit about autism, but support and faith are important to anything. Also Children's Hospital is fab, all of my childhood doctors were from there and my PT there helped me walk again. Good Luck!
If I could give you a hug right now, I would give you the biggest hug ever. Stay strong, Bailey. You are a brilliant mother, and no matter what, your son will always know how much you love him. Sending you my prayers...xoxo
Aww Bailey! Don't give up just yet. A lot of autistic people can still go on to live relatively normal lives. If you love him, then that's all that matters.
I'm so proud that you for posting this. There are millions of families that are struggling with this and it take an amazing person to put themselves out there to help and support parents that have Autistic children. I think the best thing for you to do is to take things day by day. Yes there will be challenges in the future but the best thing for you to do is be the amazing mother that you are and keep a strong face for him
My step mom laughing and doing stupid stuff in the living room really ruined the mood here for me... but this is a sad video... and my dad walking in right now telling me to throw the trash... i hope u feel better bailey :(
Bailey, Don't give up hope. God will never give someone a challenge that they cannot overcome. "But even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed.'Do not fear what they fear; do not be frightened.'" 1 Peter 3:14
My heart goes out to you and Dominic, you are a wonderful mom and he is such a sweet boy! I don't know much about autism, and I've realized that I really need to do my research, but I want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you both. Stay strong, be brave, keep doing what you're doing, life will turn out how it ought to for you two and everything will be fine!
I'm crying as i write this, its true people don't understand.. Its great for you to make these videos and talk about the hardships of having a child with autism. My little cousin has autism, he's currently 8 years old. He has the most precious heart and is a joy to be around, but we always wonder what he'll be like when he's older. But you never know! Because I also know a man who is in his thirties who has autism, and he has a sturdy job and lives on his own, and he is wonderfully happy :)
i dont know if you ever se this comment but you are a AMAZING mother! dominic is very lucky . he seems like a good boy, and im sure he will be blessed with a amazing life. its amazing how much you love him, and im sure one day he will watch this video and realize how lucky he really is! i know it seems hard right now, considering his young age, but you are a very strong mom, living through this, i will be praying for you and your amazing family! - jenny :)
My little brother has autism so I feel for you. He is now thirteen and in eighth grade. He's smart, funny, and the sweetest little boy in the whole world. All you have to do is keep working with him. Never give up. You're an awesome mom. He may never be like "normal" children his age, but just remember that everyone is different and no matter what he'll always love you, which in the end, is all that really matters. I wish you luck in you adventures ahead. Lots of love to you and your family~Riah
It stinks when someone you love has autism. My cousins have autism and since it's genetic thing the women and men in my family usually pass it on to their children, I'm worried about possibly facing the hardships my aunts and uncles deal each morning, each night and day, but they're still trying to get used to it since it's not easy raising an autistic child. No matter what, Autistic or not, I'll still love them.
stay strong bailey! you're doing an amazing job and dominic is extremely lucky to have a mom like you who cares so much for his well being and future. i wish the best for you and your family.
hey bailey. i just wanted to let you know that ur not alone. i dont know anyone with autism but i do know how it feels to feel useless when someone you love is falling behind rather than moving forward. Just remain optomistic and trust that ur son will get better and learn to be dependant on himself.
Growing up with an autistic older sister, I know what you mean. I was always the child she was compared to but- something for you to smile at- she's now 19 and living with our eldest sister in San Diego. She was living on her own for awhile and going to college but she had some trouble there. She's thinking about going back to school to become a nurse. She still gets lost sometimes and forgets things. We never refer to people as being 'normal'. I'm nuero-typical, my sister isn't.
As long as you love him and you continue to stimulate his environment, he will not stop developing for a while. Keep talking to him, keep stimulating his mind and keep loving him. My prayers are with you and your son and I hope everything gets better. Every child is different in their progression, but you'll both get through this. Thank you for sharing with us...we'll always be here to listen.
I have an autistic younger brother and he is a blessing to me and my mom....he's the sweetest little boy...and i understand my mom went through the same feelings with my little brother John...so i'm here for and your doing the best u can keep it up he'll always love u till the end of time
Bailey u r an awesome mom .. and the effort that you are doing, every little step that u take forward is yes hard but the best thing u can do 4 ur kid and ur self.. there are going to be moments when u feel like u r not strong enough but don´t let that take over .. because u r stronger than u think and that little angel that is ur son is too.. i´ll keep u both in my prayers every day... God Bless...
I didn't realize you even had a son! My little sister has autism. She just started kindergarten about 2 weeks ago. She has done soooo much better an the last year. She's still working on potty training but we'll get there. Dominic will get better. Olivia used to rarely talk, and when she did you could hardly ever understand her. Now not only can we understand her but she never stops talking.
I want you to know what a great person and mother you are. I have no idea what it means to have a family member with autism or disability, but I know you are doing everything you can to help your son. And that is being strong! So, even though you feel unhappy like this sometimes, just know you are helping him with his development and each step you take like getting him in school and the program you mentioned is worth it! As a subscriber since the beining, I wish you lots of love. :)
Hang in there Bailey. You are moving in the right direction by talking about things and not holding it all in. I will keep you and your son in my prayers.
my bro is autistic. it does get better. honestly. once they get older he will start to understand whats happening and he will try to, not get better thats not what i mean, but he will start to perhaps communicate better and start making friends. If i may ask, how far along is he on the scale. im really sorry, i know it is hard but it does get a little better. You WILL get those convos nd don't feel guilty! He is the luckiest little boy on the planet to have as a mom! your amazing!!! xxx
My older sister has autism, epilepsy and hyperactivity.
She's SO smart. Like a little evil genius. She has so much inside of her that she doesn't know how to get out,but it amazes me at how much she knows.
My mom and dad are still kind of in the mourning period. I don't think it ever really goes away but it does get better. I'm sorry things are so hard right now. But no matter what it will be okay because he has you, someone that loves him more than anything. We all are here for you! <3
I'm so sorry! It'll be okay! Everything will be okay! He sounds like he is more advanced. Is he Asbergers? I'm sure he would get on well on his own, he can learn. He can have a relationship, and a job. Have Faith, he is still a child, all of that is far to come.
It's okay to be scared but I have faith in that he'll be able to be successful and on his own one day. Not all autistic children who grow up need to rely on family. I think he has a wonderful momma who worries about him. I'm not telling you not to worry, I'm just saying God has a plan for him. All you have to do is love him and raise him.
I can't truly understand what parents of autistic children go through or feel, but I do know how if feels to be a cousin of one. My cousin is 12 and can't speak and only knows the most minimal of sign language. I watch my aunt struggle daily with the same issues that you do. I have the highest respect for parents like you, Bailey. To have an autistic child takes the greatest amount of strength and love, which you have. You're such a good person and your son couldn't have a better mother.
(Hugs to you!) I've been there! My son is autistic. He is 19 now. You go through disappointments with each milestone. I'm going to send you a poem I wrote when my Ryan was younger.
Thank you Bailey, for being able to sit down and share with us how you're feeling. I'm crying right now because it is such an emotional topic, but I'd rather have seen this video then not too have, because its real. Its how life is sometimes, and its worth it.
Oh, Bailey, this broke my heart. I just want you to know you and your son are in my prayers and I wish you both the absolute best. Good luck with the IBI and I hope he continues to improve. You're one brave lady
you are probably one of the strongest parents out there for putting this public, and letting people see what the life of a single parent with a child who has a disability is like. if he ever does develop like an average child, this would probably be the best present he could ever receive. knowing that his mom cares so much.
Oh Goodness, this made me cry! :/ You are so strong Bailey, stronger than I could ever be. You shouldn't feel guilty, it's every parent's future to have a perfect child, and to have their whole life planned out for them. But, your son is a blessing from God, and you are doing everything perfectly. You love him, and even despite his disability, I am so sure he loves you so much as well. Don't give up Bailey, stay strong and know you are in my prayers <3
my best friend has a younger brother who has autism and he is the smartest person i know. he's always kind and your son is gonna turn out so great. cuz he has the greatest possible mom he could have.
It's a tough situation. I, personally, cannot say i know how you feel, because I don't. I do, however have a 5 yr. old sister with down-syndrome which isn't exactly the same but is a disability. But, all you can really do is learn more about his situation, and just care for him as you would with any other child. A child is a child regardless of what a doctor diagnoses. Dominic is lucky to have you as a Mom, and he'll understand that you care for him so much. You two are in my prayers. <3
I've never had to go through what you're going through, and I can't hope to understand... but I think you are an incredibly strong and brave person for talking about this, and for always being strong for your son. He couldn't have a better mother. Whatever hardships your son may face throughout his life, having you always by his side will undoubtedly make it all easier for him. I wish you and your son all the best. <3
You shouldn't feel guilty - you love your son, anyone can see that... it's not that you don't appreciate or love your son for who he is, you just wish you could have that communication and be closer to him and you want the very best for him *because* you love him and there is nothing wrong with that. Please try not to feel guilty about that, your son is so unbelievably lucky to have you.
i can only commend you for the strength you have shown to produce this video it must be hard to bring all these feelings to light on camera. I wish your son all the best in his test and a prayer that he will continue to his development happy and healthy xxxx
Your son has been blessed with you as a mother, to always love and care for him no matter what. You are the best gift you could ever give him, always remember that. ♥♥♥
I wanted to let you know that right now I am giving you a very large mental hug not because I feel sorry for you but because you are so strong!!!! I know what ever happens u will make it through!!!!! I will keep you guys in my prayers!
Although I don't know you and am not in your situation, I want to let you know that I think you're a very strong person, as well as a strong and loving mother. Strong people can cry and worry about things, but they try their hardest to make the best of the situations they have. Your worries are completely valid and I don't think they are selfish at all. But the one thing you don't have to worry about is your son having someone to love him. You seem like a wonderful mother and I hope for the best
Your son is so lucky to have a mother who cares and who won't give up on him. I won't pretend to know what you're going through, but I imagine things will be easier for him with you by his side.
It must be very hard for you to have a different relationship with your son than other families, but that doesn't mean its any less important or special. There's no need for you to feel guilty, of course you envy other people who have 'normal' children, it doesn't make you a worse mother. I do a lot of volunteering with children with learning difficulties, and many autistic children can live quite independent lives with help, and I'm sure your son will grow up to be an amazing person :)
Bailey you are an amazing person and I can tell that you are a wonderful mother. Your son is so lucky to have a mother like you who cares so much about him. Stay strong. I know things are tough at the moment but im sure things will get better. Don't worry about what other people think. The world is full of ignorant people, hold your head high and focus on the positive things like how smart your son is. I hope your he gets onto that programe. I'll be thinking about and praying for you both.
It's natural to worry about them, but I'm sure your son is beautiful, and he'll be alright when he's older. People can be very accepting. My sister is 21 and she's just graduated high school, and I can honestly say that EVERYONE in that school- which was just a regular school- loved her. I worry everyday about what's going to happen in the future, In the end things happen for a reason and they usually always work out for the best. With a mother as caring as you I'm sure he'll have a great life.
I've grown up having a sister with downs syndrome- and I know it's not the same thing, but I can really relate to a lot of the stuff you're saying. I know what it's like to feel like you can't have the same relationship with a family member than others might have. All those feelings of jealousy are completely normal- I can't even count the number of times I've wished that my sister didn't have the disability- and you shouldn't feel guilty about it, because it's human nature...
This is an amazing video, I'm so sorry you have to feel this way, and I truly hope your son grows up to live the best life he possibly can.
Howtopants 3 months ago
This is such a moving video, and I feel so touched and moved when I watch it.
Can I please have your permission to develop a dramatic monologue out of this?
LibyTheElf 1 year ago
xoxo
LeclericShow 1 year ago
I know you uploaded this a while ago, but I just wanted to comment that you are an incredible Mom, and Dominic is very lucky to have you. He is an amazing child. Stay strong, there's no need for you to feel guilty. You are both beautiful in every way. You're both in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.
ConfusedShipper123 1 year ago
Bailey, My heart goes out to you and Dominic. With in my last years of school for Special Education, I am beginning to see how difficult it is for the parents, and I admire how you are able to motivate him, and stay strong for both him and yourself. I wont ever fully be able to understand how you are feeling, but you and Dominic are in my thoughts, and I am always here if you need to talk.
TwinsyProductions 1 year ago
My brother has autism & had it really bad when he was younger. like your son he had trouble speaking and lots of other behavourial problems. He drove his teachers and parents to tears with his antics but now aged 13 he is almost unrecognisable from what back then. His friends don't even know he has autism. Of course every now and again you can tell he has it when he says something or struggles understanding why certain things have to happen but he has improved so much. Don't give up hope! xxx
misswiggy982009 1 year ago
You are doing an amazing job with Dominic. Just think you said that the doctors told you he wouldnt talk, and now he is talking. Even if it is only when he feels like it, he learned that somewhere. You, Dominic and your family are in my thoughts and in my prayer. May God Bless You!!!!!! Keep your head up Bailey!!!!
gingerbren 1 year ago
bailey, i honestly think it's okay that you're jealous of those other parents. don't feel guilty about it. obviously, you love him very very much and that's really all that matters. just do the best you can for him, and take it one day at a time. <3
homeintheclouds 1 year ago
I cried watching this. My heart goes out to you and dominic. I appreciate your honesty and insight. You are a strong person Bailey. My thoughts are with you.
richardalpert1023 1 year ago
I don't know how are you feeling Bailey, but I do know how it is to have an autistic relative, Nicole that's the name of my cousin, she has autism, and I don't know but it breaks my heart when I see her mom cry for her... and it also brakes my heart to see my cousin going through that.
Isabella
BellaMarie142 1 year ago
my best friend has a lil brother with down syndrome, and her mother does something similar to this, she has a weekly column in the local newspaper about tht among other things
whoocairs 1 year ago
I can't even imagine what you're going through Bailey. I hope you know that you're an amazing mother, and he is such a lucky little boy to have you. You're in my thoughts.
hiddeninsidemyself 1 year ago
My brother has Autism, and my dad and I have aspergers. My brother had it pretty bad when he was younger. He didn't start school until he was like 7. My mum apparently had a lot of emotional problems because of it, and I can understand it can be pretty stressful. I hope things get really better for you and your son. I can tell you really love him very much. You shouldn't feel guilty, your a really, really lovely person and you should know that you have a lot of people that do really care for you
XxXTonksAndLupinXxX 1 year ago
i dont know what it is like to have a family member that is autistic but i do have a friend who is and he is incredible and i cant imagine not knowing him. when we were in high school everyone was very accepting of him and understood. he is very artistic. more than likely your son will have some enhanced ability as well. i hope that he gets into the therapy and just know that God always answers prayers and he has a reason for everything.
parteperdiz 1 year ago
i'll pray for u!! and what is their that god can not do! :)
ewyeppy 1 year ago
loving the poster in the background :) (sorry i know that was way not the point of this video)
tink1470 1 year ago
<3
Praying for and thinking of you both.
dancegirl080 1 year ago
Bailey, I know how you feel, or at least a little bit. My brother has spina bifida and me and my family had to go through surgeries and doctors and hospitals when he was little and continue to go through them today. Our mother died a year and a half ago and now he lives with me. He can function normal but he is mentally slow. I know you don't know me, and I don't know you, but we can be here for each other. And I think everyone who watchs your channel will help and remember you.
dramaticallybroadway 1 year ago
I am so glad that you felt confident enough to share this with us. It's okay to be jealous of other people; everyone does that. And the thing is you know what you have and you love your son and he loves you. Just keep doing what you're doing and everything will be fine. Everything happens for a reason. You and your son are in my prayers, and we all love you.
JonasBravaLova93 1 year ago
Thank you so much for opening up to us about your struggles and concerns. It can't be easy what you're going through but you are a wonderful, caring mother and you will both make it through this and everything will be ok. And you have the support of all of your viewers!! :)
filmfanatic1121 1 year ago
its obvious that you love your son. do not feel guilty, you aren't doing anything wrong and we all love you so much <33333
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singinthehairbrush 1 year ago
Bailey, know that you can post video diaries about your feelings here anytime. This is a good outlet for you to let out your feelings. We all love you and feel for you and your son. I know I and many others are praying for both of you! Stay strong!
CrazyMadCupcake 1 year ago
they also become a huge part of the school. they always have their own plays and things like that. and i find them so much better than the actual play that the school puts together. i really just wanted to reassure that when high school comes, just school in general kids aren't cruel. i think its because people understand what it is so much better now. my thoughts are with you guys!!!
roxyaras0722 1 year ago
no worries dominic will be perfectly fine!! positive thinking!! you guys can and will get through this! I'm in highschool now and Ik many kids who have austim. i really dont know anyone who has been cruel to those kids! and when they have been there is always some one there to stand up for them. i know i have done it. i always feel like i have to stand up for them because they can't handle it but they are so much stronger than i will ever be.
roxyaras0722 1 year ago
This was really a touching diary... and I got a better understanding on autism, so thank you for sharing. I hope you and Dominic stays strong, and that he gets a great life, as I'm sure you will help him achieve... :)
kinemarie8 1 year ago
Hey Bailey,
My prayers are with you and Dominic. I have babysat a little boy with autism. It is not easy. My mom is a teacher aid and has worked with children Autism too. I have faith Dominic in time will be able to be more verbal. And it's okay to mourn still. Your a great mom and your son is very lucky to have you!
Carlitosgurl85 1 year ago 3
Mine has Autism -- we did public school, private school, and return to public school ---- that early transition was tough -- seeing his "failure" compared to the severely typical kids use to break my heart.
we stopped comparing him - it wasn't fair to him and it diminished him.
He turned 16 yrs old yesterday -- he is joyful and excited about life and autism is just a small part of his personality. He is going to take his driver's test soon!
Forget what people think - Own your joy now!!
yadak 1 year ago 3
Hey, I'm a Psychology student and a while ago I saw this lecture and a woman called Daniela Fazzio spoke about this program called St. Amant Applied Behaviour Analysis Program they do in Canada for autistic children. I don't know if the program existis in our town, but maybe you could check it out. It's totally free and they have a lot of high profile professionals. So, if you want to know more, you can check out their website.
Sorry if I'm being inappropriate.
My prayers are with you both.
dehbenaim 1 year ago
we're all here for you bailey :) you're already a rock for Dominic, so just keep being a wonderful mom! he sounds like a sweetheart, and I have a feeling he will do greatly in his life!
SmileyGurl97 1 year ago
Most likely, if he's progressed well in the past year, he will continue, especially with a loving, supportive mother like you.
AmazingNadia 1 year ago
I've been working a bit with an autistic child at the preschool I started assisting in. Let me know if you need to talk, I'm here to listen. <3
babybott330 1 year ago
I just want to hug her.
haileecullen 1 year ago 2
I have a gut feeling Dominic will be fine, it's just a feeling. I think with you there supporting and helping him, and having this diary as a release of your feelings. Everyone will be ok. :)
person10001 1 year ago
I appreciate you so much for doing this video. It must have been really hard to let these thoughts out and I'm really glad that Dominic has such a wonderful mother like yourself. I can't even imagine how you feel. You are a wonderful mother and Dominic is so lucky to have someone that is so loving and caring. Don't ever lose hope.
soccerstar5930 1 year ago
I know it must be so hard for you, I'm so sorry. You're so strong and you seem like such a wonderful, loving mother and your son is so lucky that you're there for him. Keep your head up :)
Rolyat3 1 year ago
You're such a strong person, Bailey.
I hope Dominic gets into that program and then we'll get to see more smiles on your pretty face [:
PS: You're a hero!
noPity 1 year ago
I think you are very brave for doing this video. You are an exceptional person and I wish you all happiness. :)
SiriusPotterFan 1 year ago
You and your son are wonderful, strong people, who can get through anything. We're praying for you and supporting you every step of the way
sportzlvr9328 1 year ago
I feel kind of bad, cause I haven't watched you channel for a while, but coming back and watching this...wow. I can't even put words to it.
Honestly, I hope that when Dominic gets older, he can go back and watch these, and be able to see just how much you love him, because it is so clear and evident in the way you speak and talk about him. Even I'm crying right now, seeing how much pain you're in. All of my wishes, prayers, and good will goes out to you and him.
Nismai 1 year ago
And, also, you are not alone, Bailey. Thousands of people have gone through your same struggles of having children or relatives with autism. This must've been difficult for you but your voice can make a difference--it doesn't take a lot of voices for change to happen. Maybe one day, we'll be a better society and can be more accepting of people we don't understand, more accepting of things that are out of our control. Keep faith, Bailey. We're with you.
cibomatto47 1 year ago
My cousin is autistic and though it took him longer than most kids his age to get there, he's functioning at a normal level now. One of these days, you'll figure out that Dominic has something that he's very good at and you'll be able to run with it, take those talents or strong points and make great use of it. With a mother as loving as you are, I have all the faith in the world that Dominic will be able to live an average, love-filled life with the abilities, not disabilities, he has.
cibomatto47 1 year ago
Dominic is lucky to have someone who is worried about him this way, who is looking out for him, who I'm certain will do everything in her power to help him through any problems that come his way. He is the boy that you love-the autism is a part of him. You've already surpassed troubles (like the doctor telling you he'd never speak) & he's proven he's strong. Please make more of these, it looks like such a relief for you to talk these things out for us. Sending love & prayers to you and your boy.
LostFugitive 1 year ago
You are an amazing and strong woman and mother, he is so lucky to have you. Never ever forget that.
sue9292 1 year ago
Wow, I had no idea you had a son, let alone that he had autism. I do know, however, that he is very lucky you're still there for him and put the time into him to teach him spelling and the alphabet. And also that you care about him so much. You're an incredible mom to love him so much and we all recognize this.
krcordova 1 year ago 49
Bailey, you're amazing. I know it must be so hard sometimes. Stay strong, because you're the best mom that Dominic could ever have. xxx
Nataliee1994 1 year ago
B., you're such an awesome mom. (hugs) Just wanted to let you know that even though it feels terrbile (the moments of your depression) it's such an crucial thing in the kid's life to have such a caring and loving mom. Stay strong <3
Zecia 1 year ago
stay strong and now that we're here for you!
you are a terrific mother and dominic must love you a tremendous amount.
RachSaysHi 1 year ago
Bailey, don't you worry. You are a strong, strong person. This is just an obstical to face. This video shows that you are a wonderful mother. You care deeply for your son. I'm going to tell you now, he is going to surprise you one day. I know kids in my school with autism who have completely blown me away with what they can do. You care for him so much, and that's what matters. We're here for you.
edwardandbella4evur 1 year ago
Everything will be alright. At least he has the best gift anyone could ever ask for. A mom who loves him more than anything. His life will be filled with joy just because you are in it. And when you're not, he will remember you and feel that joy again. You've given him the gift of love. Not everyone has that.
takethesewingsandfly 1 year ago
Awwwwww,Bailey I feel for you.<3
STITCH76576 1 year ago
You're a wonderful mom, Bailey! Stay strong and positive, everything is going to be okay.
lilflyergirl 1 year ago
Stay strong, Bailey. Everything is going to be okay. <3
PeaceLoveMojo 1 year ago
I have a severely compromised immune system, along with RA, and missed most of regular school things like prom and walking with my class. Most people don't understand, what my family has given up for me, both financially and with their time. Also the battles that I have everyday. I only know a bit about autism, but support and faith are important to anything. Also Children's Hospital is fab, all of my childhood doctors were from there and my PT there helped me walk again. Good Luck!
Sarahbear9789 1 year ago
If I could give you a hug right now, I would give you the biggest hug ever. Stay strong, Bailey. You are a brilliant mother, and no matter what, your son will always know how much you love him. Sending you my prayers...xoxo
NiennaSeregon 1 year ago
:( love you Bailey!
caliigurl925 1 year ago
i love you bailey.
loudlatina 1 year ago
Aww Bailey! Don't give up just yet. A lot of autistic people can still go on to live relatively normal lives. If you love him, then that's all that matters.
FutureCullen09 1 year ago
I'm so proud that you for posting this. There are millions of families that are struggling with this and it take an amazing person to put themselves out there to help and support parents that have Autistic children. I think the best thing for you to do is to take things day by day. Yes there will be challenges in the future but the best thing for you to do is be the amazing mother that you are and keep a strong face for him
Melanie1502 1 year ago
My step mom laughing and doing stupid stuff in the living room really ruined the mood here for me... but this is a sad video... and my dad walking in right now telling me to throw the trash... i hope u feel better bailey :(
twigagawizard 1 year ago
I. HAS. THAT. POSTER!
TheTheaterChick 1 year ago
Bailey, Don't give up hope. God will never give someone a challenge that they cannot overcome. "But even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed.'Do not fear what they fear; do not be frightened.'" 1 Peter 3:14
paramorexrox 1 year ago
My heart goes out to you and Dominic, you are a wonderful mom and he is such a sweet boy! I don't know much about autism, and I've realized that I really need to do my research, but I want you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you both. Stay strong, be brave, keep doing what you're doing, life will turn out how it ought to for you two and everything will be fine!
alyofgreengables 1 year ago 43
I'm crying as i write this, its true people don't understand.. Its great for you to make these videos and talk about the hardships of having a child with autism. My little cousin has autism, he's currently 8 years old. He has the most precious heart and is a joy to be around, but we always wonder what he'll be like when he's older. But you never know! Because I also know a man who is in his thirties who has autism, and he has a sturdy job and lives on his own, and he is wonderfully happy :)
AvieMay93 1 year ago
Bailey, you are so strong. I'm glad you made this video so we could get a peek into your life. Be brave.
princessBubbleGum47 1 year ago
bailey,
i dont know if you ever se this comment but you are a AMAZING mother! dominic is very lucky . he seems like a good boy, and im sure he will be blessed with a amazing life. its amazing how much you love him, and im sure one day he will watch this video and realize how lucky he really is! i know it seems hard right now, considering his young age, but you are a very strong mom, living through this, i will be praying for you and your amazing family! - jenny :)
jakanddaxwarriorcat9 1 year ago
My little brother has autism so I feel for you. He is now thirteen and in eighth grade. He's smart, funny, and the sweetest little boy in the whole world. All you have to do is keep working with him. Never give up. You're an awesome mom. He may never be like "normal" children his age, but just remember that everyone is different and no matter what he'll always love you, which in the end, is all that really matters. I wish you luck in you adventures ahead. Lots of love to you and your family~Riah
bamber2amber 1 year ago
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It stinks when someone you love has autism. My cousins have autism and since it's genetic thing the women and men in my family usually pass it on to their children, I'm worried about possibly facing the hardships my aunts and uncles deal each morning, each night and day, but they're still trying to get used to it since it's not easy raising an autistic child. No matter what, Autistic or not, I'll still love them.
You're made of awesome and you're a great mum.
bluechocolatesky 1 year ago
Don't feed him any MSG. I hear it makes a huge difference.
Letskeepitdirty 1 year ago
your are a wonderful mother.
Just know that my prayers are with you and you're family.
OctoberRazzerberry 1 year ago
my cheerleading team is raising money for autism and we changed the color of our shirts and bows to the light blue color.
mrsnowchristmas 1 year ago
Your a great mom B!
TaltosGirl 1 year ago
stay strong bailey! you're doing an amazing job and dominic is extremely lucky to have a mom like you who cares so much for his well being and future. i wish the best for you and your family.
munkayc 1 year ago
My heart goes out to you Bailey. Everything's going to turn out all right:)
cloverpaw12 1 year ago
hey bailey. i just wanted to let you know that ur not alone. i dont know anyone with autism but i do know how it feels to feel useless when someone you love is falling behind rather than moving forward. Just remain optomistic and trust that ur son will get better and learn to be dependant on himself.
JackInTheBox1616 1 year ago
awww bailey your such an amazing mom:)
dramaqueenchris405 1 year ago
Growing up with an autistic older sister, I know what you mean. I was always the child she was compared to but- something for you to smile at- she's now 19 and living with our eldest sister in San Diego. She was living on her own for awhile and going to college but she had some trouble there. She's thinking about going back to school to become a nurse. She still gets lost sometimes and forgets things. We never refer to people as being 'normal'. I'm nuero-typical, my sister isn't.
RandomPenguin922 1 year ago
As long as you love him and you continue to stimulate his environment, he will not stop developing for a while. Keep talking to him, keep stimulating his mind and keep loving him. My prayers are with you and your son and I hope everything gets better. Every child is different in their progression, but you'll both get through this. Thank you for sharing with us...we'll always be here to listen.
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Writteninmyheart 1 year ago
I have an autistic younger brother and he is a blessing to me and my mom....he's the sweetest little boy...and i understand my mom went through the same feelings with my little brother John...so i'm here for and your doing the best u can keep it up he'll always love u till the end of time
CosplayersWorldWide 1 year ago
Oh Bailey, my heart really goes out to you! I truly hope all the best, and I hope after a while you'll feel optimistic again! Much love <3<3<3
summzzxoxo 1 year ago
Bailey u r an awesome mom .. and the effort that you are doing, every little step that u take forward is yes hard but the best thing u can do 4 ur kid and ur self.. there are going to be moments when u feel like u r not strong enough but don´t let that take over .. because u r stronger than u think and that little angel that is ur son is too.. i´ll keep u both in my prayers every day... God Bless...
Ale040107 1 year ago 2
I didn't realize you even had a son! My little sister has autism. She just started kindergarten about 2 weeks ago. She has done soooo much better an the last year. She's still working on potty training but we'll get there. Dominic will get better. Olivia used to rarely talk, and when she did you could hardly ever understand her. Now not only can we understand her but she never stops talking.
lyla951217 1 year ago
I want you to know what a great person and mother you are. I have no idea what it means to have a family member with autism or disability, but I know you are doing everything you can to help your son. And that is being strong! So, even though you feel unhappy like this sometimes, just know you are helping him with his development and each step you take like getting him in school and the program you mentioned is worth it! As a subscriber since the beining, I wish you lots of love. :)
SweetxBunny 1 year ago 2
<3
Your a wonderful parent!
Be strong!
iluvmyidiot 1 year ago
Hang in there Bailey. You are moving in the right direction by talking about things and not holding it all in. I will keep you and your son in my prayers.
PhoenixTears62 1 year ago 2
autism everywhere
Pigziggy 1 year ago
my bro is autistic. it does get better. honestly. once they get older he will start to understand whats happening and he will try to, not get better thats not what i mean, but he will start to perhaps communicate better and start making friends. If i may ask, how far along is he on the scale. im really sorry, i know it is hard but it does get a little better. You WILL get those convos nd don't feel guilty! He is the luckiest little boy on the planet to have as a mom! your amazing!!! xxx
rhi1994annon 1 year ago
My older sister has autism, epilepsy and hyperactivity.
She's SO smart. Like a little evil genius. She has so much inside of her that she doesn't know how to get out,but it amazes me at how much she knows.
My mom and dad are still kind of in the mourning period. I don't think it ever really goes away but it does get better. I'm sorry things are so hard right now. But no matter what it will be okay because he has you, someone that loves him more than anything. We all are here for you! <3
SilentShadow123 1 year ago
@SilentShadow123 My older sister has Epilepsy and Autism too. She's so awesome :)
RandomPenguin922 1 year ago
<3 dont give up hope
ANTHONYRAPPISAGOD 1 year ago
Be strong. I know you can do it!
Cheesefreak12 1 year ago
I'm so sorry! It'll be okay! Everything will be okay! He sounds like he is more advanced. Is he Asbergers? I'm sure he would get on well on his own, he can learn. He can have a relationship, and a job. Have Faith, he is still a child, all of that is far to come.
memyselfandiamshe 1 year ago
It's okay to be scared but I have faith in that he'll be able to be successful and on his own one day. Not all autistic children who grow up need to rely on family. I think he has a wonderful momma who worries about him. I'm not telling you not to worry, I'm just saying God has a plan for him. All you have to do is love him and raise him.
GoldenOnyx17 1 year ago
I can't truly understand what parents of autistic children go through or feel, but I do know how if feels to be a cousin of one. My cousin is 12 and can't speak and only knows the most minimal of sign language. I watch my aunt struggle daily with the same issues that you do. I have the highest respect for parents like you, Bailey. To have an autistic child takes the greatest amount of strength and love, which you have. You're such a good person and your son couldn't have a better mother.
CelticDreams 1 year ago
(Hugs to you!) I've been there! My son is autistic. He is 19 now. You go through disappointments with each milestone. I'm going to send you a poem I wrote when my Ryan was younger.
Bethintx1 1 year ago
Thank you Bailey, for being able to sit down and share with us how you're feeling. I'm crying right now because it is such an emotional topic, but I'd rather have seen this video then not too have, because its real. Its how life is sometimes, and its worth it.
pointypencil1 1 year ago
Oh, Bailey, this broke my heart. I just want you to know you and your son are in my prayers and I wish you both the absolute best. Good luck with the IBI and I hope he continues to improve. You're one brave lady
goofygrrl 1 year ago
Your son is very lucky to have you as a mum, you are an inspiration and a role model to women everywhere. Keep your chin up hun... Hugs to you xxx
violetprincess100 1 year ago
you are probably one of the strongest parents out there for putting this public, and letting people see what the life of a single parent with a child who has a disability is like. if he ever does develop like an average child, this would probably be the best present he could ever receive. knowing that his mom cares so much.
bxexcxkxyx3 1 year ago
Oh Goodness, this made me cry! :/ You are so strong Bailey, stronger than I could ever be. You shouldn't feel guilty, it's every parent's future to have a perfect child, and to have their whole life planned out for them. But, your son is a blessing from God, and you are doing everything perfectly. You love him, and even despite his disability, I am so sure he loves you so much as well. Don't give up Bailey, stay strong and know you are in my prayers <3
NoLiMit9595 1 year ago
@NoLiMit9595 It's every parrents dream I meant.
NoLiMit9595 1 year ago
my best friend has a younger brother who has autism and he is the smartest person i know. he's always kind and your son is gonna turn out so great. cuz he has the greatest possible mom he could have.
chickie171 1 year ago
It's a tough situation. I, personally, cannot say i know how you feel, because I don't. I do, however have a 5 yr. old sister with down-syndrome which isn't exactly the same but is a disability. But, all you can really do is learn more about his situation, and just care for him as you would with any other child. A child is a child regardless of what a doctor diagnoses. Dominic is lucky to have you as a Mom, and he'll understand that you care for him so much. You two are in my prayers. <3
cullenswanlover 1 year ago
I've never had to go through what you're going through, and I can't hope to understand... but I think you are an incredibly strong and brave person for talking about this, and for always being strong for your son. He couldn't have a better mother. Whatever hardships your son may face throughout his life, having you always by his side will undoubtedly make it all easier for him. I wish you and your son all the best. <3
RudeAndNotGinger 1 year ago
You shouldn't feel guilty - you love your son, anyone can see that... it's not that you don't appreciate or love your son for who he is, you just wish you could have that communication and be closer to him and you want the very best for him *because* you love him and there is nothing wrong with that. Please try not to feel guilty about that, your son is so unbelievably lucky to have you.
lannapeanut 1 year ago
You shouldn't feel guilty. You're an amazing mother, Bailey.
I'd like to thank you for sharing this emotional topic with us. It has being very inspiring. And everything will be ok.
TheRandomDork 1 year ago
i can only commend you for the strength you have shown to produce this video it must be hard to bring all these feelings to light on camera. I wish your son all the best in his test and a prayer that he will continue to his development happy and healthy xxxx
RWhitewings 1 year ago
Your son has been blessed with you as a mother, to always love and care for him no matter what. You are the best gift you could ever give him, always remember that. ♥♥♥
Britni130 1 year ago
I wanted to let you know that right now I am giving you a very large mental hug not because I feel sorry for you but because you are so strong!!!! I know what ever happens u will make it through!!!!! I will keep you guys in my prayers!
Horsechick3395 1 year ago
Although I don't know you and am not in your situation, I want to let you know that I think you're a very strong person, as well as a strong and loving mother. Strong people can cry and worry about things, but they try their hardest to make the best of the situations they have. Your worries are completely valid and I don't think they are selfish at all. But the one thing you don't have to worry about is your son having someone to love him. You seem like a wonderful mother and I hope for the best
sammiee5460 1 year ago
Your son is so lucky to have a mother who cares and who won't give up on him. I won't pretend to know what you're going through, but I imagine things will be easier for him with you by his side.
ShelbyKnowsLatin 1 year ago
It must be very hard for you to have a different relationship with your son than other families, but that doesn't mean its any less important or special. There's no need for you to feel guilty, of course you envy other people who have 'normal' children, it doesn't make you a worse mother. I do a lot of volunteering with children with learning difficulties, and many autistic children can live quite independent lives with help, and I'm sure your son will grow up to be an amazing person :)
iluvleemead 1 year ago
you are in my prayers. <333
mrsmcavoy23 1 year ago
Bailey you are an amazing person and I can tell that you are a wonderful mother. Your son is so lucky to have a mother like you who cares so much about him. Stay strong. I know things are tough at the moment but im sure things will get better. Don't worry about what other people think. The world is full of ignorant people, hold your head high and focus on the positive things like how smart your son is. I hope your he gets onto that programe. I'll be thinking about and praying for you both.
xxnaomi89xx 1 year ago
i have a learning disability, i know its not the same thing as autism or any other disorder but i know how you feel
mainstdancer08 1 year ago
It's natural to worry about them, but I'm sure your son is beautiful, and he'll be alright when he's older. People can be very accepting. My sister is 21 and she's just graduated high school, and I can honestly say that EVERYONE in that school- which was just a regular school- loved her. I worry everyday about what's going to happen in the future, In the end things happen for a reason and they usually always work out for the best. With a mother as caring as you I'm sure he'll have a great life.
twilightfanpire0513 1 year ago
I've grown up having a sister with downs syndrome- and I know it's not the same thing, but I can really relate to a lot of the stuff you're saying. I know what it's like to feel like you can't have the same relationship with a family member than others might have. All those feelings of jealousy are completely normal- I can't even count the number of times I've wished that my sister didn't have the disability- and you shouldn't feel guilty about it, because it's human nature...
twilightfanpire0513 1 year ago
oh my.
beconwert 1 year ago
Also, I really think the movie will give you hope for your sons future.
And of course, youre an amazing mother. That goes without saying. You and your son will both be just fine. <3
begonedreamer 1 year ago
You should watch the movie Adam. I think you would love it. It is about this guy with autism and its fantastic.
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