Why are boys so mean to girls? someone tell me!

[npingry1]

Goddamnit why does this have 13,000 views and my top video has 8,000. It's not fair. :(

[jrcahill2]

Well for the good guys out there, being nice isn't enough. You have to be confident and in charge. Take the lead. For her it has a lot more to do with how you carry yourself and how she FEELS when she is with you than how you look (but be well-groomed). Girls fall for the bad guys because they mix up being confident and in-charge with being mean and a douche-bag. And guys mix that up too. Being confident and in control takes work and experience to achieve. Being a douche is for the simpletons.

[CrazyCreoleDoll]

@jrcahill2 thx for the comment :)

[Swny910]

We are mean so we can get in your pants

[TheBinkster6]

This boy in middle was nice to me until he find out I liked him then he was just mean to me.

[mamatembo51]

I think boys are mean because they are afraid of their own feelings and it is easier for them to avoid their feelings by pushing the girl away. Also, boys don't really understand what a girl needs yet, so just be patient, they do grow up and some figure it out. You will find a great guy, just hang in there.

[missyah101]

some girls do like assholes, but it's unrealistic to say your average girl is like that. There's also guys who only date girls who are bitches too.

[poohbabe111]

its becuse boys are pevs! and thare evil! and they like to be mean! i hate boys somthimes!!

[stewartabesha]

i understand where you going guys...but they girl dont want a girl that is to soft on then always saying sry and them stuff...they want a man who can put them in a trance a man to turn around and make them belly dance rude boy loving wit a little romance they want to get wild so jus give them a chance

[Menace1979]

Cause you looks like that?

[MsObsessiveBitch]

I dont know why some guys are like that, its really annoying. There just confusing. Another thing guys do that are annoying is that they like the "pretty" girls. They dont even know them but they see their looks so they "like" them. Some guys do that and they dont even know the girl's personality and/ or never talked to her...Does anyone else hate that??

[neji000009]

Nice guys don't always get the girls.Can you tell me why a girl goes back to a guy who hurt her ,treat her like dirt then say he loves her?How does the word "Love" stand for anything,After all that? Good topic don't you think? While the good guy sometimes goes unnoticed. and what type of need do you mean?I'm a guy and most of my friends only "need" a girl as in sex and to be seen with.

[CrazyCreoleDoll]

@neji000009 Need as in Love as in in love and u cant see urself without them.

[neji000009]

@CrazyCreoleDoll Ah i see.I think you know what I'm saying though :D

[rayoliver34]

i think cause assholes have to much testosterone which makes them seem dominant and thats what a young girl wants thinking he will be protective.then the girls grow up and realise the guys are just assholes and then go for nice guys.so all you nice guys just wait it out.you'll get the girlk and the asshole will go to jail.

[amurff350]

lol you should flip him off if he was wrong ... i want a juice now dang... and not all of us are like that

[Iperson1234]

We r mean cuz girlz r fun to be mean 2

[MegaIVIonster]

They either hate you or the want a good laugh. Trust me, we laugh when we act like asses to girls.

[becksforlife390]

nahh yall cant b saying dat like im a nice guy and wen i b tryna talk tuh a girl she jus starts saying all type of shyt

[llredrjr3]

most females like the guy that is going to treat her wrong instead of the good guy

[kingdul5]

skyler's kinda hot

[ItachisOnly1]

@Igetsitin89 we don`t always want guys cuz theyre bad. Its the adventurous side that is appealiing. (but i will admit there really are some girls out there who are (for some reason even I dont understand) who are attracted to boys who aint no good for them i think that may be the result of a vicious cycle of abuse, or just stupidity... but still, real talk, cuz i care about my brothers, if a girl is only interested in that kinda terrible dude, then she shouldn`t be the 1 u lookin at.

[Nooky22]

whooooo caresssss? u should start datin girls

[uklslle]

Because some girl probably broken their heart, that's,Some men cani't take that. ur man can't take another man doing their you, but when it's the other way aorund it's okay, For men, that is the way it is

[uklslle]

Because some girl probably broken their heart, that's,Some men cani't take that.

[SanChez513]

Answer me this....why do girls always want the "bad boys" aka the guys you know aint good for you? Its hard to find a lady that respects herself eough to want a respectful man.

[34Dee]

Its alot of girls that are the same way, actin like they pimps, usin dudes for money and or sex. It kinda goes both ways. I heard a girl say "i dont love him I only love his dick" now she hopin from guy to guy

[AJEdaAssassin31491]

The girl in the purple and your friend with the curly hair with the purity ring are mad fine. Any of you single? Nah I'm playin.........but seriously ;) holla.

[ELLImayorga]

hey!! how you doin... well some boys are mean but iam not i have seen your videos and i would never be mean to grils like you... Im going to tell you the truth im have never ben mean to a gril but if i have and i dont remember is because i dont want to remember how mean i have ben and remember that not all boy are mean to grils... and you three grils are sooooooooo soooooo sooo cute ^^ : )

[illuminous09]

US MEAN? YALL ARE THE DICK HEADS...PURE EVIL!!

[countrybwoy420]

so true,always quik to say that a guy is lame when he comes correct,talkin like he has some sence but they like the niggas that would pull her hair an smak the shit outta her in a heart beat.

[wearethesongwriters]

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[Nottotv]

its no specific girl or guy that would act like that so i wouldnt put anyone in a specific category

[typicaln1]

girls get big headed so they need to be put down couple of times not all d time doe cos dats deep looool......

[y0u4m3]

lmaoooo @dealbigrecords

[1steph00]

me to i want to no y

[AJEdaAssassin31491]

This is my take based on experience: When ever a guy is respectable and try to treat a female right, the female would become bored with the relationship and leave. Women are attracted to dominant males thats just science right there. They are more attracted to a man who can take charge and do things thier way.

[AJEdaAssassin31491]

@AJEdaAssassin31491 I used to act like a real jerk to females, and guess what, I got numbers like crazy! 12 females no lie! They are just naturally attracted to dominant males. But acting that way was a double edged sword. Most of those females had self esteem issues and even drug addictions. As I grew older and wiser I started to apply my nice guy nature with a little dominace I used to attract women. And BOOM I started attracting some respectable females and keepin relationships wit em.

[AJEdaAssassin31491]

@AJEdaAssassin31491 Last comment lol, for fellas: the key is to be assertive which means be nice and complimentary but also be in charge. Hope I don't sound like a sexist, lol. And ladies most of the time we just playing with you, don't take to hard, but also stay strong and don't be a pushover for any "boy" or man.

[prettyboiiswaGgAh]

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[prettyboiiswaGgAh]

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[Themurgz]

wow that camera is real cheap lol

[MrKingbud1]

lol yall so silly and yo friend wit the curly hair is hot

[titansmcnair]

real talk....they're boys!!! that is all....if they ever grow up...it'll change.

[Xpivotkid]

this iz a stereo type becauz girlz can be mean 2.... O_O

[MHavok]

im not mean to girlz....in fact,i think im a lil TOO nice too girlz

but i

LOVE my LADIEZ:)

[SVO91]

I cant speak for every guy in the world but for me, sometimes I act the way I act towards females because I like them alot & jus dont kno how to show it to them sometimes. I kno I caught myself sayin some mean things to females at times that I like & when I leave I be sayin to myself like why did I jsu say that when I dont mean it. So dont think we dont care, thats jus how some of us is....

[JSax777]

who knows...but all dudes are not like that...i can say im not at least

[californiahikerdude1]

Some boys are mean to girls because they are idiots and they don't know any better. Real men are not mean to women. I think you're a kool creole like me. It feels to see my creole people; people who look like me. Stay pleasant and positive and forget about the mean boys. They don't deserve you and you should not waste your time with them. Good luck my fellow creole.

[shaheed79]

Hip-hop has been hijacked by lurid people who wish to do us black people great harm by helping to rid the young minds of our black children of righteous virtues.

Please believe this if nothing else. The black female is our most important resource as a people of moral character. They are trying to destroy the black woman by corrupting their minds especially the minds of young black girls who are so easily influenced by us the black male. Black males we have to do much better to protect them.

[filipinfrancis]

get back in the kitchen.

[devtea13]

@lgetsitin89 Fuck yeah man, I know what you mean. Girls are two times worse than guys when it comes to attitudes and "Meanness"

[butterball1234abcd]

be very careful - u will be anal raped and mouth abused, just like the sharp straw penetrates the capri juice bag , -- u girls just play pussy lick juice with eachother on a cold winter day because blackmen are garbage - get a whiteboy girlfriend , they treat u right

[JonnyRocketfingers7]

What I would like to know is why do girls like it? From experience. the majority of girls seem to only flirt and or date guys who are abusive, assertive, and physically annoying. And they treat the other boys (ones who are nice -and relatively mature) as if the were not up to the standers or something ...more like a brother than a "target guy."

Girls want a good guy, but only respond to bad guys.

I'm confused.

[ItachisOnly1]

@JonnyRocketfingers7 This girl disagrees. It`s simple: 1 person treats you wonderfully, and the other treats you horribly. Obviously you wanna go with the one who treats you nice. No girl ever goes "ooooh this guy is gonna beat the hell out of me and be a total jerk! I WANT HIM!!". Ur key word was assertive. The sexiest thing is confidence. (theres a fine line btwn confidence and cockiness though). You CAN be nice and be confident, right? Some times it feels like guys have no idea what we want.

[JonnyRocketfingers7]

@ItachisOnly1 I'm not saying that there arn't girls who make sense. You seem to think very clearly. Get the guy who treats you nice. Don't tell me you havn't seen girls go for cocky jerks with more swag than Justin Bieber at a tween signing.

Yeah I'm a guy and even I realize a girl has struck GOLD if the find a nice confident yet down to earth guy. I have a friend like that. He's tall as hell, he has the confidence of a lion, and is the nicest person.

I wouldn't mind if married my sister.

[terryjones328091]

@JonnyRocketfingers7 agree..

[Themurgz]

@JonnyRocketfingers7 ikr?!

lol girls are dumb dude

[dhaTKingtopaz]

:23 seconds [she is sexy]

[Necronaut]

girls are just as mean, even worse to each other, fact.

[PurpleHiTopZGirl]

@Necronaut lol thats kinda true but boys r meaner to us, thats why we go mean.

But sadly we both need each other so we eventually will have to get along :/

[Necronaut]

@PurpleHiTopZGirl not true, why u think the word bitch was created? it means female dog, why do u think we call females that?

[FIRESTAR815]

Hers a tip for you and your friends/sisters/ etc. don't look for love. cause it will find you. also don't look to be with the damn high school quarterback hotshot. look more at the people that the hot shot always picks on. because those people that get picked on means that there the always nice to you type. (most of the time) and if you dumped a guy cause he turns in to a jerk don't start hating every single male out there. just think that the right one is out there somewhere. and you'll be fine

[MeeHollywood89]

Because they're boys... plan and simple... and when you get older hopefully you'll find a MAN not an adult boy

[me700gnomes]

Girls don't like being treated nice. It's why assholes with no personality get laid and honest nice guys don't. it's not a mystery.

[JonnyRocketfingers7]

@me700gnomes right wats up with that?

[me700gnomes]

@JonnyRocketfingers7 idk man. shits fucked up

[RespectMyHate]

@me700gnomes Amen. PREEEEEACH

[ClimbingFlame]

If i ever saw someone being mean to you i'd give them a whooping, seriously. You are the most beautiful girl I have ever seen, and of course you live on the other side of the globe...

[BossTub3]

cuz girls lyk it

[yantravimana]

Hey CCD. Could you record and post your vids in hi-def and make more kissy lips to the camera? You and your friend there are soooo cute. BTW, do not post any more of these herky jerk crap rez vids. Makes you guys seem like Moe, Larry and Curly. Thanks!

[lavernjr010]

Yea, alot of guys can be mean to girls, however it's not so much the male that is to blame. Yes, he is the perpatrator, still, what makes a young male like that.... CULTURE. The society that we live in trains young boys to think a certain way. To use, everything we see is competition, along with the fact that to compete is in our nature, ( thus why we get into video games so much) and unless tha tnature is check, we can seem unsensitve and cold hearted, unfortunatly

[MrOmeMan]

man, eff you and the other girl's (with the caprisun) man...

what he can do for you I can't do? lol

[BLO2BAY]

Start fucking with men instead?? perhaps lol

[Lybidothecat]

keyword "boys"

[jacoriehouston]

i wouldnt say all boyz mean ima big softy w. females SOME of them xept dem o1 be actn all out der

[simonxalo]

Not all guys are mean to girls...I consider myself nice to everyone. it may just be the person/people you're talking about...if you have a problem with somebody you should end it right there.

[boifabz]

im not mean :)

[JtagXpLobbies]

ima nice guy and also i bet i might be the nicest guy u ever meet but also i never hitted a girl bcuzz i thought it would be wrong r i would be called a pussy for so im nice let another man like me treat u the way u like to be treated

[Igetsitin89]

girls like assholes!!! if a nice guy came along & come @ a female correct she wouldn't give him any time of day but she would rather giv her attention to those fake thug niggas

[redknuckles850]

@Igetsitin89 I would have to agree, I played both hands myself. 

[shaheed79]

@Igetsitin89 Well that is what they are being subconsciously programmed to want and desire. Just look at black popular culture. Rap music glorifies gangstaz, hustlaz and half naked men covered in ice & tattoos dressed like a thugged out chip n dales gigolo. The music itself is anything but positive and is destroying their minds with cars, money & booty dancing with half naked easy women.

Now look at Beyonce, who is a lot of girls role model, looking like a half naked tramp in her videos.

[iMakeArTs]

@Igetsitin89 agreed man.

[GeTemDezLe]

@Igetsitin89 thats so true...girls dont know whats right any more...i aint sayin all girls just a majority or females...

[chris96kalonji]

@Igetsitin89 Are you fucking retarted? Why won't you use proper grammer and stop saying niggas. First off thats a fucked up word, Second off you don't even say it right you uneducated sap it's Negro.

[JSax777]

@Igetsitin89 YO !!! I FEEL U BRO !! 100 %

[ONEAMAZINGMAN85]

@Igetsitin89 Dammit...I got to agree with you bruh...

[34Dee]

Right

[FelixZR1]

@Igetsitin89 thats true!

[dearestjen]

@Igetsitin89 I would never give attention to a fake thug O.o

But if a nice guy came then yeah

[terryjones328091]

@Igetsitin89 agree..

[theimmaculatecrown]

@Igetsitin89 Oh, but they will want a good guy once the assholes have cheated, kicked their asses, stretched their pussy holes from multiple births and then gone off to prison. Then they will look to a good man to take care of them and their babies and I will say, "Fuck you, bitch!"

[lilr1217]

because we can be a lot of the time....girls deal with us being dicks so why not be honestly...girls deal with us being mean and just take it a lot of the times...sometimes yall are just there when we pissed n we can take it out on yall

[JAnasiaGIRL]

Boys are mean to girls cuz they may like them or they just wanna use them and idk why

[one9one6]

don't look for LOVE let it find you. you ladies are very beutiful outside and hopefully inside as well. So to answer your ? u need a man not a boy. I hope that was helpful and my name is GEE. Seem like the wrong guys get the best, but good luck.

[loveanianimeme]

If guys are mean to you than you got the wrong guy, not all guys are total assholes, its just girls aren't attracted to nice guys,

[KaminskiJD]

This video is laggin a lot! lol You just need to upgrade your man and not settle for someone who is a jerk. The fact is, it is looked at as a good thing to be mean and a jerk, just like the song. It's kinda messed up.

[skinnyJEANking2]

Any guy thats mean to a girl is a dude thats still in high school. And any girl that can put up with dudes bullshit is still in high school. In my opinion, if thats the kind of guy you're attracted to, time to re-evaluate what characteristics in a man you truly desire. No woman deserves a dick of a boyfriend or husband.

[rastunasX]

LAGG 

[MrDesinord13]

please marry me i love you

[atlienhero]

boys are mean to girls cause girls dont care about about a boy thats nice to girls if boys dont give girls attention then girls will be attracted to that uncaring boys and girls dont care about a boy that shows them attention and care...... so thats why we treat girls like shit

[GuyofSpades]

we are mean because we like you. theres your answer

[MrBasiQ]

Becuz we're trynna get your attention, Nn Since being nice is considered being "Pussy" amongst our selves. But Most Of Yall Influence it, by actually following up with it. More to this answer but I'm not gonna get into it.

[SteefVG]

@MrBasiQ yea i agree they tell so even themselves that they go after "assholes"

[unnamed715]

That's not true not ALL men are like that. But some are just dicks, just like some women can be great big bitches! It works both ways y'see xD

[burninearth]

@unnamed715 i totally agree

[daggerinu64]

because thats how women subconscienclly like it you dont think the sawgged up nigga knows that (but women dont know no relationship will not last like that) and respectful men dont get play until there older and successful and dont want those black women anymore thats why proffesinals are with white women and if you dont have swag and your trying to be like other niggas HAULT because without swag your not getting nun when u older and cant hide it just work hard so when your older u get real love

[PhyschoGamer]

If a girl treats me like shit, im gonna return the favor.

[Leftunloved]

Just putting this out there, a lot more girls are ass holes to guys, than guys are dicks to girls. Yes. Really. I, honestly, treat girls no better than anything else in the world, just a human being. Same as my closest friend, and my greatest enemy. You guys that think of girls as anything less or more (I get it, if they're your girlfriend that's an exception, I totally know how that works <3) are probably way too nice, or huge ass holes.

[jaybrick8920]

im not mean to girls smh

[schlongkong1]

Your sister is very attractive with the caprisun as you are too.Ur sis is my wifey type just beautiful.

[CmdrGendoIkari]

You need to ignore those kind of guys. Nice guys generally finish last because most of you girls are physically attracted to all the future wife/child beating assholes. By the time you've figured that out, many of you have had kids with the Neanderthal, and I no longer want anything to do with you.  Don't follow that trend. You deserve better.

[Leftunloved]

@CmdrGendoIkari Mhmm. You're right. Not too many nice guys out there either. Pretty sad. I was suprised at a lot of my friends thoughts about girls, and what they thought of them AS.

[MAC1CITI]

camera time is terrible!!

[TheXbox360]

Nice "boys" get no respect from the ladies, and "boys" are only human. If they are conditioned to behave a lot less "nicely" in order to see much success with the ladies, then that mean and insensitive persona is the generic result.

[AlexOffTheDome]

cheeah come here i wont be mean to you!!

[AdimAbdulloev]

Not all the guys are mean, If they at list like you!

[supermike2164]

The boy probably turned mean on you because he only started talking to you and being nice because he thought he could talk you into doing somthing for him or to him. Then once he found that you had more respect for yourself and someone taught you some values. He got frustrated and was like" I'm not going thru all this for her".

[supermike2164]

Its going to be hard for you because you are cute. In new orleans long time ago they used to actually breed black and latin women slave to make them look a certain way making them more valuable. I would advise you to read this book called " Goddess Blackwoman" by Akail. You can find it on Amazon for about 10$. Learning about how men think Is going to save you sooooo many problems in your life. If you just pick guy friends based on what they tell you by the time Ur 30 U will hate men

[L05TKID1034]

choose having love over sex nd making love then a 1 night stand

[L05TKID1034]

guys always look to have sex with females they think its cool nd stuff like that to empress there friends but wat bout how the girl feels if ur with her why not try nd show her u care more 4 her then trying to get in her pants but see not all guys are like that sum girls act like guys due i lost 4 to 5 girls because i said no wen they wanted to have sex nd one try nd get me killed like sum girls are bad like guys so sum times its not the guys u noe but u gtta just noe how to pickem but i rather

[1mattorozco]

The girl with the caprisun is so attractive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and the star of the video is also, infact all you ladies are so cute

[Mandilore]

Guys are mean to girls to stroke their egos and I remember a lot of very attractive women labeling nice men "weak" and "not manly enough for me". I'm not saying blame girls for it but blame certain women for their behavior resulting in boys treating girls like shit.

[fiercekid84]

y boys can be so mean cause they want ur attention

[robinho86]

Who is ur friend with the curly hair can I marry her!!

[Sempertacsil]

@CrazyCreoleDoll it depends on what u mean by "sooo mean". If you're referring to those player-types, you have to ask yourself what attracted you to him in the first place. Was it 'cause he's nice & sweet? Or was it his aloofness, constant teasing of you(hey ms. bugs bunny!), bad-boy shell but yet sweet/vulnerable inside? Maybe they read some pick-up material online to amp up their 'G'. Women love game except from them it's called "drama". anyway, good luck w/ your 'boy problems'

[Nilsy1975]

Why are girls/boys so mean to boys/girls?

Why are people so mean to each other is the question you should be asking!

You should not tar all of a group because of one person in that group.

[RetroFlight9]

I would not be mean to u ever! Some boys just dont have morals. smh.

[jesterjmac]

uh...same can be said about girls??

[inferno6y]

Maybe if we wasn't focused on the body, like the camera was then things can probably be different, heh, but no it just depends

[Middler124]

I try to treat people as to how I would like to be treated. That's how I was taught. It shouldn't have to do with gender, sex, or race, but with character.

[eyecantblink]

you don't deserve ANY boy that is mean to you.

[CrispyHomeSlice]

Lmao, sorry woman have half the blame to, stop stereo typin boys please. :)

[lovok123]

Then you're talking to the wrong boy when ones being mean to you :) Unlike me i'm a very nice man.

[APIC4PINY4L3G]

make me a sandwhich BITCH

[josephaba]

@APIC4PINY4L3G danm right

[azmildman]

It is real simple. You women seem to think everything is a game. So, when we treat you nice, act polite, do you right, you get bored and take us for granted. Then when they ignore you, treat you like you don't matter, etc. you chase after them. Simple, see? You were using him for a car ride? Your friend is pretty but she likes to make faces. Young girls are crazy. Heh, heh, heh, Pretty little girls. :-) Settle down, what are you, Thirteen?

[PonZiffy]

@azmildman Haha, she's in college, but yeah she looks young. And if women are treating you that way then maybe you are dating the wrong women?

[hecatomb]

ive never been mean to girls, maybe cause ive had 3 younger sisters

[Blazemess]

because nice guys finish last

[termanogue]

You are all gorgeous.

[7w00dz]

Lol. We dont NEED yall!! We need EACHOTHER!!

:) Check out my videos...And ya problem is you still messin with BOYS.lol

[BigSkylar]

im a guy and most guys just want sex i personally dont care for it really

[kaseskells]

@BigSkylar LOL, I almost spit out my drink laughing at what you said, that issshh can't be true, you trying to get over lol

[BigSkylar]

@kaseskells all the guys i know honestly talk about having sex 24/7 with girls they like or want to have sex with it gets annoying i hate that my fellow men just want sex what ever happened to the 1950's style of dating were you flirt and hold hands and go to movies or study and not just have sex call me old fashioned but i love holding a girls hand and my heart skipping a beat or kissing the girl you just started dating for the first time stuff like that makes me glad im alive.

[kaseskells]

@BigSkylar OOHHhh, I see what you mean, I agree in a way, that's how it should be, holding hands, then kissing, then more kissing with tongues, and sex afterwards, you left that part out. Indeed we need to savor those moments though, because usually after sex there's no going back lol.

[BigSkylar]

@kaseskells yea and after most people have sex they stop and think why did i do that i shouldnt have done that and regret it for the rest of their life. ive always like dark skinned sister's i mean idk but alot of white girls are slutty and gross but other are ok but i havent met any yet that id marry i think a white guy like my self dating a dark skinned sister is ok most people will judge interracial dating tho its sad this is 2010 people stop hatin you just jealous

[christal1995]

@BigSkylar its cool you like dark skinned gurls

[BigSkylar]

@christal1995 thnx now only if i can find one to date

[aniger818]

maybe it's just the guys you talk to