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  • lol.....i had a similar experience with talking to my mom about me being a lesbian, but luckily she was really cool about it. very nice of you to post your story :)

  • ok this is going to be really awkward but your kinda hot.

  • OMG, you look so much like Kelly Osbourne ex Luke

  • alright so i was going to do a video in response to this one. but i still have no clue how to do that. im so not tech savvy. but all i have to say was my experience with coming out was much like yours. my brother told everyone. to this day me and my brother do not speak to one another. im 20, he came out for me when i was 15. 5 years of no talking. i dont see it getting better anytime soon. but yeah shit happens.

  • You seem really nice, down to Earth, I like you.

  • yooure adorable end of story.

  • sooooo cute<3333

  • When I said I was bi, my family thought I was gay and my friends just thought I wasn't interested in anyone XD! No one was actually surprised...which makes me LAUGH MY ASS OFF ...XD

  • Hey I'm totally closeted and for some reason I'm not really afraid to tell anybody I just want to wait until October 11 and you are fucking adorable I really really wanna buy the l word box set now and I'm 17 that'd be funny if things worked out the same way XD

  • wow you are stupid looking.

  • LMFAO 2:40 XD!!! hahaha ur awesome ^^

  • I love how fidgity you are. And its nice to hear that someone else has a story like mine. My mom and sister sotr of came out for me.

  • man. i would rather fuck roseanne than you.

  • hi..im steph..its nice to see ur video and ur soo handsome i like the way u r ur soo cuteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee wish we can be frens..

  • I thought is was an awesome story! XD

    Really uniqe! ;D

    I wish someone'd tell my family I'm bi...  my brothers are gonna flip...

  • ur one of the handsome cool dude I ever seen, nice

  • r u gay i really think ur gay

  • do you shave ur bush?

  • can I like.. meet you, and kiss you?

  • your sister taking responsibility for your lesbianism due to sleeping naked is downright hilarious

  • Haha, im like straight (sadly)

    but you are VERY pretty :)

  • I told my mom a few days ago...

    "Hey mom! I like girls!"

    XD. She flipped.

    And asked me if I was bi.

    I said no, but my mom keeps saying I am.

    Well....I'll just let her think what she wants.

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  • is this a dude or a chick ?

  • @TheManiacsAngel thnx for your answer

  • You are really cute , and hyperactive you move a lot

  • that's a nice story! and you really are quite beautiful!

  • Hahahaha i LOVE your story!!!!!!!!

  • cute story:) i love the L word that is an amazing show!

  • You've got a beautiful smile.

  • you're cute)

  • You make me laugh :)

  • Haha I love your comming out story

    I wish mine was like yours

    it would have been way easer

  • @theevolutionofTJ

    Ur family handled ur comin out way bettr then my brothers. When my brother came out my mom was crazy. I knew four years before her. She still says he can change...lots more shit with that. Still a bunch of stuff goin on there lol

  • nice more and more girls coming out !! now stop that shit , dont wanna end up with no more straight girls at all , give that a thought hahaha , men like fighting for the last straight girl on earth LOL

  • Your cute ^.^ and I lvoe the story lolol!

  • Cutieee (:

  • heeeeeeey...iv'e seen you around the net. ello.

  • I told my mom when I was 14 that I had a crush on my best friend, that was when my mom told me that she's bi. XD By the way you're really cute. ^_^

  • i feel the same way about my rents thinking im in a "phase". i told my dad that if thats whats gives him sleep at night than thats fine.

  • thats y u tell ur parents after u tell everyone eles

  • Jaberus2- no one is too young. It just happens when it happens.

    Girl, that is actually kinda funny (no offense). Do you have a tounge piercing??

    Love the L word!! Especially Alice!!

  • i like your hair cool beans. im not gay but half my family thought i was goin to be cause i was the biggest tomboy and still kinda am but i girl ed up some since then. for awhile i think i thought i was goin to be gay but i know now that it was never goin to be even had weird dreams and stuff, but yeah never told anyone that so yeah. i still love your hair.

  • I love how you can't quit moving lol

  • L word is the shit

  • Hell Ya(':

  • I'm yunger than she is..

  • yur so cute!!! Little to old for me, damn, but still, cute!!! I'm not calling you old, it's just that I'm still in school, so yeah.

  • You are SO cute!! Wish you lived in SLC!

  • You are absolutely hot! I couldn't help but say something!!!

  • Unless they let us watch.

  • your so cute! =D XD

    and so i dont just sound wierd, kool vid btw

  • baby lesbian haha xDD

  • Thanks so much for sharing your story with us all.  Thought I'd just let you know ( that I am helping host an online Coming Out Story Contest for all lesbians and bisexuals in an effort to break the stigma and show the world who we really are! finishes end September. Would love to see your story on there! go online to SHEDATE. hope to see you there! Kate

  • i love ur style ^^, i'm 18 and i really think that i'm a lesbian cause i'm atracted to girls a lot, but i can't say it, i have to find out my sexual orientation i hope that i'll be able to do it.( nice video ^^)

  • lol a baby lesbian lol

  • thanks for posting your sort of coming out lol. am looking for the best way to come out to my family..

  • You are so freaking Adorable! You make me wish I was a lesbian! haha!

  • your realy cute id love to go out with you xxxxxx

  • cute. cute cute cute

  • my mom thanks its gross she told me about my friends and like she dont now that i am lesben i dont wont her to throw me out and i did the same thang about denal of me being gay to and i just found the l word and its the best show ever and i love your hair

  • your REALLY Beautiful

  • you cute as fuck lol

    :D

  • Sigh.... I should have been born a woman.

    Why the hell are lesbian women so attractive to me? (NO, I'm not talking about juvenile fantasy).

    Massive generalization here, but I find lesbian women more real, less superficial, and way better conversationalists than your average straight girl.

    Oh well, next life.

  • this has got to be one of my fav comments.You put a huge smile on my face.sorry you have to wait for a next life time though.

  • LOL. Thanks TJ. Glad that gave you a smile.

    I'm a patient 40 year-old wabbit - I'm half way to my next life already- and when i come back, I'm gonna be hot! :)

  • @kingazzaman so true... my best 2 friends are lesbians and I would die to have a girlfriend who could be just like a tiny bit like them mentality-wise

  • @kingazzaman and there is no next life

    youre brain, witch makes youre personality will just die :D

  • hehehe thia was quite amusing really!

    And when your family outs you and acceprs you that is way better and really the way it should be.

    And telling your mother you wanted to buy the boxed set of the L word is really the same thing as telling her....ya know?

  • you seem like such an awesome person!

    love the video.

  • u r really really beautiful!

    love ur story aswell ^^

  • i love how you tell this story!

  • haha wat ur sis said to you after you came out was funny xD

  • if were that i woulde fo been stright LOL!!

  • I look forward to the day when "coming out" stories have no real significance but rather be a matter of course for a family circle in those cases. To that end I think the character of whom you love is far more significant than their gender.

    Maybe after you guys get equal rights in all fucking 50, "people" will just give up on all the intolerant bs! I take heart that it will cascade once a few more states make the switch.

    Btw I'm straight and even I know about the "L" word!! lol

    Rock on

  • creepy how i found this exactly a year after you made it

    hahaha

  • lmfao!

    the L word is the fucking best<3

    haha i'm bisexual,not lesbian,but...yes,it's great

    haha love the video

    <3

  • your pretty, i really like your hair :)

  • By the way, I love the L Word as well. :]

  • Our stories are pretty similar actually. I never really had to "come out of the closet". I'm pretty sure that my family, or my mom at least, knew before I did.

  • And some of my coworkers found out, cuz they always see me with my girlfriend. I think one of my coworkers had a crush on me. And a different coworker, who's a good friend of hers saw me at a gay bar and told her. And another coworker of mine recently asked if the girl I was with all the time was my girlfriend. Everyone at my work is cool to me about it. And it helps to know that a couple of my other coworkers are gay as well. I'm glad others "outed" me, cuz it made things a lot easier for me.

  • I guess I did tell one person, my little sister, who was disappointed I waited so long to tell her. My brother told his good friend, they must have said something at work, cuz our youngest sister's friend's mom overheard and so that's how her friend found out. (It happens that friend of hers is actually gay herself or bi, she came out to me about it and she didn't say, but I could tell she had a crush on me, lol, that was kind of gross to know since she was 17, I was 23, now 25).

  • Don't feel so bad, I didn't get to come-out to really anyone either. My brother caught my girlfriend and I making out in her car (we thought he went inside already). He asked my younger sister to ask me if I was gay. So she did and I ended up confessing, but she was cool about it and told me that when her and dad were hunting dad was wondering if I was gay, cuz of my new friend I was always gone with. He didn't care, he just wanted to know.

  • Love the thing about how your sister thought she made you gay by flashing you and trying to sleep naked.

    "If anything, that probably would have made me straight."

  • I've never felt the need to declare my heterosexuality to my parents so why do gay people have to disclose their sexuality?

  • becase the world veiws hetero as the 'norm' and everyone assumes everyone is stragiht. us gays r the minority, therefore if we dont tell ppl, how would they know?

  • From this point on I will assume everyone is gay unless they say otherwise.

  • Sorry that you went through a period of homophobia. I can relate, and I'm deeply ashamed of it.

    You are a strong and beautiful man.

  • hi.=] ok 1. im bi and my parents dont k and acouple friends and cousins k..but i dont think i will be able to tell my parents untill i move out cuz i think they'll lose alot of respect fer me ..and if they do k before i move out my story will probably end up just like urs haha cuz i love the L word and i want the seasons but my mom would ask me if i was gay too. soo im trying to hold off on getting the seasons.. and 2. ur pretty cute! :) u should comment back soo we can talk

  • hehe...very funny story...our story's well not story;'s cos both of us didnt get to tell people...LOL...my sisters read my diary than told my parents then every1 found out so...yeah veryu similar...

    :D love da video..

    xoxox

  • lol. Very funny. ^_^ I just came out to my best friend and she didn't even blink when I told her. I was kind of stunned at how well and how quickly she was okay with it, but I guess she's just awesome like that. As for my parents, well, let's just say I will be waiting till I'm in another country and out of the house for good before I tell them. lol. Great video! ^_^

  • what do people say about your tongue?

  • my mother thinks its white trash, along with my tattoo.But my girlfriend loves it.

  • "get the FUCK out of my house you disgusting queer faggot mother fucker" xD lmfao!! ah hahahahaha!!

  • you're amazing:)

  • Haha my mom was the same when i told her i wanted to buy the l word. She was like: "Are you gay?" I told her that i wasn't, that i was bi, and she just gave me this look but in the end she was ok with it. Ur cute by the way =)

  • wat ever u do dont get sex change i felt like that 2 but i now fancy atleast 2 girls annnnd sex

  • no worries.i love being a girl.

  • yeh ur cool  btw make smore vids

  • my parents ruined mine to. I finally got the guts to tell my parents. and there where like,

    -Honey, we know. :)

    -You never said anything?

    -We thought you'd tell us when you where ready.

    (haah) I could have killed them. :D

  • you are fucking adorable!!! And damn hot!

  • you're gorgeous

    and I love your hair! :]

  • My only other comment is that you should be in full control of coming out. It is too bad that you weren't.

  • Wow, it is amazing how a pretty normal curiosity about sex, reflected in wanting to watch a TV show on lesbian sexuality ended up so quickly determining your sexual orientation.

    I don't doubt your orientation but do think it was unfair for your mom to put you on a pivot point to declare your sexuality in the car after buying the DVD. I watched Six Feet Under and Brokeback Mountain, I am really grateful that my parents didn't ask me if I was gay because I wanted to watch them...

  • ur a good story teller. my sister keeps asking me if im gay but cause my families really conservative i think im just gonna 'lay low' and see if this goes away. ah

  • lol that was not even great..it was FRIGGIN AWESOME!! i wish i could come out, but its totally out of the picture, and i have this weird thing about always having to see the girl (mainly stud) before she came out, like how did you carry yourself as far as wardrobe?

  • love it

  • HA! and.. HA! XD wow.. this coming out story.. is.. perfect! XD I might just make a video response.. Just for you! XD haha I kinda made one.. it was for QueerFaqtor and it was on how do you handle telling your family youre gay? so yeah.. its on my page should you want to look at it. Keep Rockin! Much Luv -T

  • you look like laurel holloman when she was younger :D

  • Wow that's kind of funny that everything sort of just sprang up on you like that. And how everyone found out. It just sucks that you started having issues with your parents and stuff and that you were kind of pressured to tell. And hey, it takes bravery to deal with your parents after coming out! So don't be so hard on yourself lol

  • that kinda happened to me... when I was 12 (yes 12) my mom asked me if ever had feelings for other girls (later I looked back and realized I was a flaming homo no wonder she could tell) I said yes and that was that. My best friend already knew that I thought I might be my mom told my sisters and life was good.

  • ok this is wierd cuz i dont even know what im either jijijijij i just liked this girl and we kissed back then n i have a boyfriend so it's really difficult everytime i think about that but I'll let the things go by their own n if someday i find a girl that i like n all the stuff then I'll do it idk im confussed 2

    well

    chau

  • i like you story actually. im giong throught his right now i dont know if i am or if im not cause of the way i was raised i guess you know? its hard one day to start thinking "i think i like girls" when you have grown up learning not to thing that. so im at the point where i just dont even know im so confused but anyways i really liked your story and if i ever come out i hope mine geos the same way

  • My mom asked me that too. I denied, the coward I am, not one but TWICE. I really would like to tell my mom, but since I denied...maybe that makes it less...I dunno...believable?

  • lol baby lesbians XD well, you faced more adversity than some, less than others.... coming out to your family sounded kinda rough though, so don't be too hard on yourself. love your hat, stay cute

  • Lol

    I love the way you talk

    you dont do that Chac Chac thing with yout mouth that most people do when they make a video, and of course you r hilarious and beautiful and i really liked you

    lol

  • oh my god!

    your hillarious(:

    i was laughing when you said every lesbian knows the l word and if you dont then your a baby lesbian.

    hhaahahah,

    i love your videos

  • haha you're good at story telling :) I enjoyed it

  • haha I can't stop watching this video ;) it's very similar to my story, EXCEPT that I told muy friends.. one friend even knew before my parents:P

    you're too cute!

    and I deffinetly LOVE your hat ;)

    cheers for you, homosexuals, and bisexuals (just like me ;P )

  • oh! I almost forgot about crossdressed, and trans ;)

  • Awesome vid!!!! =D

    and thats so true about The L Word thing!!! I laughed so much at 'baby lesbian' !! *still laughing* seriously that is the best saying ever for a lesbian that doesnt know The L Word! XD

    Take care!!!!

  • Woa you're totally, cute ! I really like the way you told your story.

    And you have a nice voice too. =)

  • the realy bad thing is im a guy and i have that hat , but im gay so , and i realy liked your video

  • so, you're adorable and i love the hat...and, i loved the bit about how your sister's actions would probably have instead made you straight...

    i think i can relate to you a bit about the whole mother in denial thing...my mother and i don't talk about it, but i'm pretty sure she's secretly hoping i gave up on girls a long time ago...

  • you have a really cool character

    you seem really outgoing

    and you're really cute

    are you wearing eyeliner?

    (no offense if u arent, just looks like it :] )

  • yes i believe i was wearing some.not positive.

  • you're kinda sexy =)

    meoW

  • ur a gun:) lol.

    have been telling my mum that im gay for 5yrs.she still recons im goin thru a phase.

    meh parents lol.

    haha i gotta agree with people...ur pretty damn cute.

    peace

    xx

  • u look really cute!XD

  • Ha my mom did something like that actually... except I wasn't buying The L Word box set... haha we were driving home from the store and she just turned to me and was like, "I think you're a lesbian..." and I told her I was... she totally stole my thunder. Ha.

  • My mom told my dad to... Hated it

  • aww:)

  • " point is, i wanted the box set.. soo.. "

    haha, funny:]

  • You are so cute and sweet. Such adorable...

    I am a lesbian too and my parents and my whole family don´t know this... I hope they notice that by themselves...

  • i love your hair!! it's so pretty

  • You kind of look like Alice in the L Word, especially the facial expressions^^

    Love it!!

    Antway, thanks for sharing your coming out story!

  • hahaa, your insanely cute in this vid

    l word ;) gotta love it

  • gotta be dumb if anyone thinks your straight anyway

  • well now of course im very obvious.but when i came out i looked like the cute girl next door and dated the football players.Ive upgraded my wardrobe i think.or downgraded depends on who you ask lol

  • cool check my video out please i told my story in feb of this year and im still coming out to people every day

  • the L word is fawesome

  • Wow. My story is surprisingly similar to yours. Almost identical actually. My mom asked me and then we did the whole "family meeting" thing. It was bizarre watching this. Thanks for sharing!

  • where you in macy's impulse ads?

    you look familiar..

    =]

    like the vid.

  • i wish i had been, maybe i would have a little money in my wallet for once lol.but no i wasnt

  • ha i like it, The L Word is the greatest. Nice story, also your cute

  • i love your face expressions hahaha

  • You are foxy ! Got that whole ... thing goin' on. Glad your coming out story was lame. Not to be mean but I'm sure it could have been a lot worse. Well, take care.

  • you're cool

  • i came out too and it was the scariest thing i ever did. btw you are cute!

  • hey, nice story. i do am gay, n ur really cute!

  • that probably would have made me straight xD

    love your story, you look great.

    the l word is wonderful :) 5*

  • haha "baby lesbian"

  • oh yea and my mom dosent know i like that show and only 2 of my freinds know im bi

  • i love that show shane rocks, but im bi lol and i a female and ur hott!

  • my gosh your teeth are perfect, as is your hair.

    i must say your quite beautiful.

  • "baby lesbian"

  • when i came out to my mom...she started laughing at me and decided that i was just going through a faise..that because im 13...i cant be...and when she told some of my family..and..my family went off saying that...i was also just going through a faise..that im not really...its just..because im under stress...but i mean..i dont know how to tell most of my friends..ive told some..but..the rest..are such homophobes..

  • im 13 too and im not going to come out for awhole because i want people to take me seriously and i go to a catholic school.

  • hey, to ur comment, just dont be afraid of what ppl r gonna think. if ur fwends dont like u being the way u r then they arent tru fwends after all. just be happy wit who u r hun :)

  • You're awesome!

    That's what I thought my mom would do! I watch "The L Word" like crazy.

    My parents made me go to a psychiatrist, too! My mom also thinks my sexuality is just a phase. Oh man, our experiences are almost exactly the same...except I'm 13.

    Oh yeah, your hair fucking rocks!

  • whoa, dude, put it away. really extremely not cool.

  • I know! I was drunk and regretted it as soon as I woke up the next day. I can only appologise but it's out there now!

  • I'm all for giving people the BOTD, so I'll forgive...for now. hopefully this lovely young lady will do the same...