Why Can't My Spouse Say What They Mean?

[tomwoods491]

cool clip thanks for sharing ..

[ChaplainsGaryandMe]

Just read these comments from over a year ago after listening to the little blurb. It is unfortunate that most of these people are just proving your point. Communication is a two way street--announcing is what people do when they do not want to communicate but simply have their say and move on (which is usually away from communication with their spouse/other person.)

[sherber75]

Or sometimes your the beta in the conversation. Its hard when you have to watch what you say. Because you know one slip and they are ready for the papers. :(

[Saiaton]

Don't friends talk to each other to help to make their mind up? Should spouses be and do the same?

[DodieCoker]

Bounceing is good . It could takes years . I love this good advice

[JewricanPrincess]

I think out loud, but I thought men didn't do this. ?

[619Terbz]

@JewricanPrincess Men actually do, believe it or not. Meh - society and SOME women that got negatively-influenced by some men *and womean*, dictated, molded and painted us to be likened to heartless dogs who are worth squat & that's it -___-"

[Geminii27]

Isn't expecting someone to stand there while I take up their time talking aimlessly at them before finally MAYBE getting around to the point pretty damn rude itself?

Surely they've got things they could be doing other than hearing my lips flap and yearning silently to be released from this wittering hell before they have to gouge their own brain out to escape! But no, I have to trap them into being a zombie to my blather while they pray for sweet, sweet death. Sucker.

[Marlowann]

@Geminii27 Not unless you're deliberately trying to take up their time.

[PaosMakeupChoice]

please, could you do this in Italian? at least the translation =)

[eduardpijl]

I disagree, it may not apply for some people but lots of people do know how they think about certain issues. The way you think about certain issues is not effected by other people while talking about it. In order to form an opinion you, of course, might like to hear what other people have to say.

[onlyjoetee]

i disagree, i say go,think about it,get your case together like a lawyer in court.THEN come talk.

[alohagirl808]

"bouncing..." rude... discover how feel... "talk it through" finally hit nail on head, direct. Need my husband to hear this, explain, when he says, " why can't you be like me"? & how I think " my way". God blessing upon his wife... the silent partner, she must pray for him daily. Taking back what enemy has stolen, our ability to Laugh.

[bryanfunk]

few people know their own minds... much less what it is they really want...