I feel ya I'm an independent lady been through good times and bad but my motivation and determination helps me in my current situation hoping one day to have enough stability as urself =)
I will admit I'm going through what I've decided to name The Humpty Dumpty effect! I've fallen of the tall brick wall, and I'm beginning to see a lot of whom I thought were my friends, and even some family members are showing their true colors. When I was up, and In Grand Rapids going to school I had my own and everyone wanted to come up for the weekend.... But now that I've moved back home people won't even drive 5mins to come say hi.... Can you say #HOTASSMESS!!!!
So true ,but when or better yet god forbid but if that time does come you'll feel a sense of relief because you'll at least know who your true friends are that care for you unconditionally and WANT to help you rebuild that house of cards.
This video.. Is the definition of the word TRUTH. So true, that im bout to tweet yu about it lol. I really feel yu n EVERYONE else that goes through this.!! That's why im *currently* changing..who..im.. a r o u n d . . :)
I love the fact that ur thoughts are so random sometimes.. you pause in the middle of the video and say stupid stuff like i look like a puppy..... LOL Plus the fac that ur not bad on the eyes is a plus to watching ur videos
A cute little puppy LOL I heard the plane the second time, but didn't hear it anymore...you can be pretty insightful...even thought i kinda lost you in the middle, I caught up at the end LOL :)
I LIKE IT!!! U R DEEP AND FUNNY AT THE SAME TIME. I FEEL U I HAVE MY JOB, MY OWN CRIB, AND THEN THERE COMES ALL MY FRIENDS! WOOOH! I HAVE A HOUSE OF CARDS SET UP TOO. BUT IF YOUR CARDS FELL, I WOULD STILL BE YOUR FRIEND. BECAUSE PPL MAY FALL, BUT THEY ALWAYS GET BACK UP AGAIN.
lol its soo funny that u made this video becuz i have friend(s) who are like that. in the end i don't hold tabs on favors like that, but if it gets to the point where its a common daily habit...get to steppin lol
You're beautifully deep in a funny way. My twin sibling is my teammate....but I am not as accomplished as you. I hope you get to realise soon who your teammate is. :)
I stick to a small group of friends. Its nice to have a good amount of friends, but at the same time a lot of those ppl are not truely your friends. Your just something of gain that they can use. The small group of close friends I have, I kno will be there for me if I should ever have my card fall. Stick to what you know and dont be afraid to not want to please the next person.
you put words to so many of my unspoken thoughts! Big up to that!! I totally relate and I thought I was selfish for feeling like that... Guess its not about selfishness but what you rightfully deserve..
aww i love when you use Mariah songs:) it makes my day. SHE TWEETED ME:D i tweeted her "why are you so cute? i might get my appendix removed will you come visit me ;) haha" and she tweeted me saying "Lol: )" now i dont know wether she laughed about my appendix...or because i called her cute? who knows. haha.
I dont have my own. I wrk, I get to work on my own, I meet people half way and everything is downtown Im 10 away...I pay bills that are in my name and some that are not.... maybe thats why my friends call me as an after thought. or when the other friends break plans or when they are low and dont want to be arond the other friends and that the only one that im the closest to is the one that can take my mood from 10 to -10 in 2 minutes flat just by the thought of them (boyfriend). :(
alonzo i'm very proud of all the things i've seen you do and my mom always says never befriend those who have less to lose than you. so just marinate on that.
LMAO love your vids...and i only have like 10 friends who i have been friends with since i was 13 so yea those are the only ones that i call my true friends...but a lot has happen for me as well. Great job, nice apartment, nice car, great credit, just positive things keep coming my way...and of course ppl are going to try to come in your life when they see your doing good and trying to see if they can grab on to you while your on ur way to the top. Jst gt to B able to tell the diff. b/w the two.
that will bring you down,guilt you, and use everything such as 'materialistic, selfish, greedy' terminologies to get you to crawl back into the little sideways dimensional world they inhabit.And expect you to be there to carry them through. Sometimes you are a better friend by cutting them out of your life, and the generosities that you bestow upon them.Which force them to act on their own accord, rather than jump on your bandwagon. I'm proud of you, I'll be your friend. and i don't need you ^_^
All it is is self love and self preservation. Loving yourself enough to realize you deserve positivity, growth, and enhancement, and to surround yourself with those things. and to deviate from those that would take your kindness and time for granted. When you realize, that your surroundings should always benefit you, and not deteriorate your possibilities, there will be a lot of rebuttal. Cause the ones that can't see the bigger pictures, depend upon taking you for granted. Those are the ones...
Alonzo! I feel you. There comes a time in your life that you need to grow up and re-evaluate your circle of friends. On two levels. 1st level, if my this this and this is gone, when the hard times come around are you going to be there. 2nd level: im elevating myself not just with things but on a maturity level and spiritual level when (are) you gonna do the same. comes a time when we out grow our past, view our present and visualize the future. who's gonna be in the latter?
It's not always easy, though - but my social experiences made me who I am today. I could go on, but a short attention-span is contagious. Take care! :)
Personally, in reality, I only have a handful of friends - about 6 people - that I'm close to. We're just tight like that, and we're all aiming for bigger and better things in life. Always support each other and I'm thankful to God for that.
I also like your lyrical quote at the end. Never thought of life that way before, but I have had many experiences of "When All Falls Down" - in moments like those I've learned to see who my friends and foes are.
What do your friends say to you after seeing a video like this? Do any of them feel offended? Did anyone call u and was like "What You Talkin Bout Willis?". lol BUt I think the few friends that you do have are genuine... but you just happen to be the one with the crib, car etc... ur like the life of the party. Ur like Martin... everyone else is pam, cole and tommy. Ur Khadijah... they are Regine, Synclair, Overton.
@cchllover HA! well i aimed this at the new people around me. IF they watch my vids, and think im talkin bout them.. then i am. but the people (whom i call my friend) that's been with me from jump street, know im not talkin about them. it wouldn't make any sense. it's not like i'm about to cut off any friends. b cuz i just can't afford to do that. My mentality and my physical being couldn't and will not handle that. btw i follow u on twitter
@cchllover ...and im sure im not the "life of the party" without them. cuz i adapt to my environment. so if i am the life of the party, it's only bcuz they are the party. Me alone, is eating pour over cheddar popcorn watching recorded shows that my trusty DVR recorded. but for everything i am Grateful :)
You have a really nice place and I truly mean that. I look at the decor and I'm like "wow, that's something I would do!" I live in NC, too. If you come to Charlotte (SouthPark area), you should definitely hit me up. We could hang out!
I love this video and can totally relate I have made a lot of friends in college and I sometimes wonder which of them are real and would be there if I needed anything or if I fall and who would pretend to not get my call love all of your videos keep doin what you're doin thumbs up <3
Omg I know exactly what you mean at like 2:25 about you finally having your own and all of a sudden you start making new friends. LOL Lemme continue the video and Imma get back to the comments, lol.
You were very cryptic in this video but when I hear anybody talk like this I know that they are growing and evolving...I never had a bunch of people in my life so I am lucky..However I have had to let go of people along the way..it's just the way it is..a couple of years ago when my cards fell and I got to see who will be my friends no matter what and be there for me..advice: weed out the imposters now so that if your cards fall you will know who your people are..hugs
I love your videos Alonzolerone, but my question to you is: What makes your friendship more important than the other friend (if y’all are true friends) just because they can’t afford your luxury right now?
I would do anything for my true friends although i understand that we are not on the same level.
@GaryDoobay ya it goes deeper than that. it's not about the materialistic things. trust me. luxury doesn't mean much to me. However. it is the lack of support. communication. and desire to build a goal in life for yourself that makes it easier to decipher which one you are. friend or foe.
I have a friend (who I have come to dislike), who like you and myself, want friends who are going somewhere in life. Except she is very stank about it, and it's so bad that I have come to realize that she is just conceited and materialistic. Ever since she got a paying job, she doesn't come around to even to say hi and hang out for a bit. She wanna party, party, party. Too bad when she didn't have a paying job, she was always around, and I always offered to pay for her if I had the money.
@alonzolerone, here is a quick way to know who are your real friends. They are the ones who had a car, a crib and money in their pockets when you didn't...and they weren't trippin cause you didn't have those things they did. HINT HINT.
I think I get what your saying when your questioning if the people who call themself s your friends now are they gonna be their for if you just lost everything as if they just want to be around you becasuse they know you have all this stuff and could possible help them out but if you were down and out would they help you I get you, I get you atleast on that. Still trying to get the metal version of my house of cards right now.
@dreadlife if u keep having that negative attitude, ur destined 2 b alone n i think alonzolerone is more of a role model that people can look up 2....keep on making ur vids brother!! =-D but i have 2 dsagree on if u have fewer friends equals fewer drama cuz i have 3 close friends n they r sometimes more than i can handle but i rather help them by giving them advice mlst of the time
so true!! this is why its important to have friends on many levels in life. some friends will need you in a higher state that they are in, b/c really they need a tangible motivation to step their game up. its unfortunate that there are those who are just Users. they have no plans on gettin their own, they will just use yours! i've never found myself in your position, but it was nice to hear the other side of the game speak i suppose. we all must be careful with whom we share our lives with.
@alonzolerone Yes, I always automatically give you the GOOD thumb. You haven't given me a disappointing vid yet, so don't worry about not getting a 'like' from me. lol :)
Im Already found Out In A Young Age, People Change Just Right After Middle School It's Stupid Though I Try To Let It Go But It's So Hard, But I Think Its Cause Of What Im Doing In My Life. When You Have A Lot Friends They Think You Not Going To Make It No Where Or What Not But When You At The Top Of Your Game They Show Their True Colors and Never Talk To You Or I Say F***** Them
omg whyy do i feel likw we are on the same page i hate how in relationships they want you to do everything whi cant you do something too..! ugh thats why i love watching your show..!
omg whyy do i feel likw we are on the same page i hate how in relationships they want you to do everything whi cant you do something too..! ugh thats why i love watching your show..!
I understand what u mean.. I had firends that made me feel like they holding me baq, to where i had to drop alot of fake ppl who either used me for what i had or wasnt around when i needed em'. I love saying i kan kount the amount of true friends i have on 1 hand.. bekuz to be honest i dont like to be around to many groups of ppl.. its hard to watch everyone at one time to see what evil mastermind plans they have to make ur life harder than what it is.. smh i just rather b around winners :)
@dreadlife o thank u for letting me know. and ALSO for letting me know that you haven't watched "You've Been Slapped" or "Give Me You" or "If Broken Hearts Could Speak..." or "Confessions :The Day After" . bcuz i assure you that those vids will contradict your premature judgment you've just made on an ordinary guy like myself. just had to let YOU know that =)
love it love it love it. I've notice the further you get in life and the move developed you are physically, mentally & finacially the more friends you may loose because well they aint your real friends. Some of them are even hoping for your "cards" to blow down whiles others are enjoying the ride but not trying to help make it better or stronger. Thoses who stay and help and learn. I love umm they are there 4 life
I'm 16 and my friends slag each other off to me and i'm stuck in the middle! I don't trust them and can't be myself because if they are saying this about each other i'd hate to hear what they say about me :/ Plus, they act like every things a big deal and i'm sick of listening to their bullshit! Think i need new friends..
Wow, it's like this video came at the right time for me. I feel like I don't have any friends AT ALL... but I got a job, I'm in college and I'm about to get a car; I feel good on the material side, too bad I also need a friend who'll drink an ice cold beer with me sometimes.
you didn't "do" anything. it's by God's grace and mercy that you have what you have and can do what you do. all those "friends" you had were there on purpose; so you can grow and learn your lesson. which i see you did. good job btw. but unfortunately some choose not to grow up and keep doing the wrong thing whatever that may be. everything here in this world is temporary and borrowed b/c it all belongs to Him. including you. you were bought at a price (1 co. 6:20)
Hey Alonze it's me, @RobbieJay from twitter. Anyway , I have gone down this road from friends and people that I am close to and basically I don't think you should even have to worry about this. The way I see it,some people are leeches that feed off of friends success and some just like to have your company no matter the circumstance is.If they stop hanging with you then they weren't your friend to begin with.Friendship is a two way street, if you are driving them they need to find their way home
i love other friends that drive and have there own money.... its a dream come true... and i hate those that dont have that because they always say your full of bulshit cause i dont feel like picking you up and its my damn car
You know you are really telling the truth. The fact is when you have material things that are your own, you tend to have more "friends"/users. As long as you have a place to hang out, car to chill in and money you spend you will have those so call friends. Now the matter is if you didn't have these things and they didn't hang around you, you could really see who your REAL FRIENDS ARE. They only hang around with you for the luxuries and thats it. So choose your friends wisely.
ur video is so true and more and more times i find myself removing ppl from my circle as oposed to adding more real people, i have just a few really good friends, but they lack confadance to better their situations, and i wish that they had that drive however i've had friends with goals and they werent as loyal as desired, so thats how the cookies crumble lol. Great vids
You r exactly right @alonzolerone! This exactly why I only have 1 true bestfreind and then the rest or just associates because I dont trust ppl plus ppl are fake and I rather have 1 good friend than 10+ fake ones. :/
@dafuture93 oh please..im sure U played a part with the breaking up, of ur friendships..dont act like ur shit dont blame everyone else and act like ur shit dont stink ..just saying
@dreadlife wat r u talking about? I said I only have one true friend I didnt say that I didnt break up my friendships or stuff like that nor did I say my shit dont stink...i think u took everything I typed the WRONG way!
I feel you on this one alonzo. I have friends like that too and I had to let them go because I felt like their Do-boi instead of their friend. I'm a kind giving friend but sometimes people take it to a whole other level. Keep it up guy! Loving your apartment set up!
alot of what he's saying was so true. Alot of times we think somone is our friend until we actually go through hell and hot water and then we come back up and we see whose hands are out reaching out to grab you and pull to you to safety. As far as what he's saying about "chaufffering" friends here and there its so true b/c at some point you'll have your breaking point. Its not being mean its just being honest. Its okay to help a friend out as long as theyre helping themselves a tthe same time
i totally agree with you about having a small group of friends versus a huge pack of friends. It's always good to have a small circle of friends 'cause to me you get to know them more than rather having a huge mess of friends and kind of only knowing select people. idk if that made any sense but what ever lol
after a while you get to wondering why are you always the one standing up and holding it together. if there trying and make things happen thats one thing. they ant and can't help you rebuild if that happens they were only using you. shit i think ama make an application or start giving interviews to people who want to be my friend lol. thanks for your video iam angry about some shit so i wrote alot and now i feel not so alone :).
it is very real what your saying. as i grow i started to realize that having those things are good for the time being. even in having all , your self is what your truly finding. i know how that shit feels. it's not just that you don't want to drive and pick someone up or let them borrow someone else phone to call you hahaha. it's that you worked hard to get there. you actually care for them but they don't seem to return that to you.
yeah man ive seen your other videos but this one takes the cake. iam doing the same things. when i was younger i had my own apartment, taking cabs like no tomorrow, friends and going out every weekend. i had more then one job. my house went into forcloser excuse my spelling and shit just hit the fan. none of those people i new are even around. now iam stuck living wit family and living off what i made. i got 2 friends if that and peepz play me left and right.
i just started high school, i lost every single friend i had except 1. i used to have like 10 best friends and we all used to hang out </3 and i lost my boyfriend of 3 years. and now my grades are slipping. my parents are fighting and my one sister i used to talk to about this, moved to vacouver and it costs to much to communicate also she never has time to go on facebook. my house of cards has fallin. but i still remain to rebuild it. thank you for making this video <3
@dreadlife i said: i just started high school, i lost every single friend i had except 1. i lost my boyfriend of 3 years. and now my grades are slipping. my parents are fighting and my one sister i used to talk to about this, moved to vacouver and it costs to much to communicate also she never has time to go on facebook. my house of cards has fallin. but i still remain to rebuild it thank you for making this video. not crying man and im not blaming anyone. also i didnt do anything people change
No offense but the Three Pigs gave examples of building things with cheap objects and metaphorically speaking of course.... you need stronger shit to build with. The older I have gotten real friends reveal themselves in conversation and behavior. A lot of times we dont ask the questions of our friends that we should ask, with dudes its different, can you really say hey dude you love me, you down for me? You gotta test the strength of their "house of cards" before you let someone knock yours down
I think you're on the right path bruh; but you need to learn how to differentiate from you acquaintances and your friends. I know, and am cool with, 1000s of ppl, but I only have a few dozen friends.
Another wise man said, "If you have 1 true friend, you have more than your share".
I get what your saying (even though I don't have all of that situated yet) but I guess with me I can see the people who would be like that when I reach that point in my life and I choose not to be around them too much. I have my solid friends who I know I can depend on, and they are the ones who I allow to have a proper kind of standing in my life. I think it makes me a bit selfish as I just don't tend to let too many new people in my life, but the way I see it is they gotta be worth it/ earn it
@naturallyfriseschica not selfish. just observant. but don't block people from getting into your life. their true intentions will show...eventually. keep on living life
@alonzolerone I hear you. I don't think I block people, but I just don't trust people too quickly and keep them at a distance until I feel they can be more a part of my life. (But my sis tells me the same thing lol) I will mos def keep living life though, that's what i'm here for =) And hey i'll be your friend! ...although my teleportation skills are a little rusty...
that's why i stay to myself for the most part cause ppl are so full of bullsh*t these day's i've learned that i can pick and choose my freinds & that i dont have to be freinds with ppl who i feel aint about sh*t, i use to be freinds with ppl just because they wanted to be freinds with me & i ended up getting hurt so i dont do that anymore,im very careful about the company i keep cause there are some real shady ppl out there im only speaking from experience
kinda felt like you was sayin you cant be friends with someone unless they got everything you got......it was very nicely put, but still harsh when you think about it, still love ya though
nobody wants to be your friend unless you're successful.....when you're down an and got much is when you really need the support of a good friend and unfortunately thats when they all leave yo ass to pull yaself out or fail on your own...ive had peeps in an out of my life, if you cant be my friend without a car, then you cant hang with me when im rollin in one....with me thru thick n thin or not at all...thats just hows i feells bout it...an no, i dont have any friends...but im drama free
You are so right on so many levels!!!!! I have been feeling the same way you are. Where there comes a time when as you said, you build this house of cards and you you really see who youre friends are when it collapses. I have a small cirlce of friends and it is with those friends that I can fully trust to be there for me whenever I need a helping hand in anything. Alonzo, you have a great day my friend. Keep on keepin' on!!!!!
I feel that your own self is your friend cause in the end you came into this world by your self and going to die by your self and all you really need is one friend you know that always had your back when you were at your low's and your highs that what the only one you really need to give a shit about cause everyone else are for your enjoyment only when need to have some fun in your life don't hold it against(Brit) them that who they are in your life
I don't mind the LOL's and the lil funnies. but at this very moment.....I am really feeling these informative comments. for real. im just sippin on Starbucks reading and nodding my head.
I realized I'm not on the same standing grounds as everyone else that we can just meet each other in the middle. So, I slowly start scratching them off, 1 by 1. & I have less than a circle left & I'm fine with that. & there's 1 more that I'm on the fence with & I'm tryna see can they be on my side of the fence, the other, or are they straddling. I also found myself picking people up, paying for them to go out, etc. cut that REAL SHORT! But, this year it's about me. Either you with me or you not.
I dropped a lot of friends, some grew apart from me, & some dropped me. People I thought were my bff's. I mean people that I didn't just call friend just because, but we hung out all the time, talked on the phone, had that connection. 1 day this person up & transferred to a different college & stopped talking to me. I contacted them on Yahoo! asking them how they were, they gave me the most bleak response & left to hang out with a friend & never contacted me back.
@LifeisMusic07 its called karma..im sure YOU have dont that to some of ur friends in the past..friends come and go! ACCEPT THAT or prepare for despair!
@dreadlife Ok, I think everyone is reading too far into what I said. I was just stating a story. I don't care about the situation anymore. I was just simply stating. People act like I came here for advice. I just stated my story so that I can relate partially to the topic.
You said it! At the end that is! I find that youll have hundreds of friends or people that will talk to you or comment you and then one day , you have a terrible day, the HOUSE OF CARDS has fallen and you need support, and maybe one person is there to help you or none at all...Could it be that its designed this way?? God wants us to look to him instead and not to others. He said....I AM THE WAY!
I think that I should be at this place but I still feel like I am still kind of young...! but I got the main things like family aka my mom.. lol and my own car and a paying job I think the other things can come later, maybe a good friends..!
@callmeBright ur building your foundation ..and you don't even know it lol. no for real you are. i just feel it. just Keep on Keepin on. you'll see. Stay focused.
@alonzolerone Thats exactly what I was going to post to this video. You're builing your foundation of life, just like the good book...be that of stone or sand we ultimately have the choice. Be proud of the Solid Foundation you have placed and be an inspiration to others to do so as well. Do not let anyone bring you down...even if they're a "friend". If they were a true friend they wouldnt drag you anywhere but give you wings to soar!
and i get you alonzo!! you feel like hey im stable at this point in my life and for some reason some of the cards in yo deck aint the full card yet!! LOL!! which means that instead of them handling up like you did, the dont exactly have their own and if you ever fall how they gon help pick you up when they still gettin they ass up off the floor!!
the only person you can really count on in life is your parents, if you're lucky! Other than that you are riding solo in this life. You may have people who will help you out when it's not an inconvenience to them. So my rule of thumb is don't give anyone anything that you want returned....time, money, clothes, shoes, etc....if you want it returned then you aren't giving it freely. And if they don't returned it you'll get your feelings hurt.
2010 was pretty much filled with mental friend filtering because I begun to realize that a lot of peeps were unreliable & useless. as far as house/car/phone, I don't expect that cuz we're all undergrad level students still, but as far as personal connection, it just wasn't ever there. they'd come for you for help but when it's time for you to seek help they're not really there, you find out they've been gossiping, even harmless gossip to me is inappropriate.
@Amanikitty and so during 2010 I was just weeding out friends, putting them on different "levels"; like "confidante", "only for random hangout", "first person to say dumb shit", "practically strangers". as jacked up as it is to disconnect with some ppl, I personally felt it was better to do so, just to minimize disappointment on my end and free up my time to concentrate on more important things & ppl and to build yourself up before you do anything else for people who do not have a similar agenda
@Amanikitty wow @ useless. kinda harsh lol. but i feel u (in a sense) but YES i got ur tweet. and you did keep ur promise. still lookin for a video response #ImJustSayin
hmmm i was a bit lost not really knowing if your really asked a question and when i thought a question was stated it was like ummm maybe that wasnt it. but from what i gathered i think you answered it yourself. you only allow in what you want. i had the same problem not knowing if the ppl that were around me were for me or just there to get what they could get. however i learned that regardless if a person is just there to take or become a equal you need them all for they show you what you are..
Well sir, I feel what you're trying to say. And I would say I concentrate more on making sure I give the House of Card a stronger foundation rather than having expectations of folks. I like where your heads at though!!~Calv
I feel ya I'm an independent lady been through good times and bad but my motivation and determination helps me in my current situation hoping one day to have enough stability as urself =)
msbunty2009 3 months ago
I will admit I'm going through what I've decided to name The Humpty Dumpty effect! I've fallen of the tall brick wall, and I'm beginning to see a lot of whom I thought were my friends, and even some family members are showing their true colors. When I was up, and In Grand Rapids going to school I had my own and everyone wanted to come up for the weekend.... But now that I've moved back home people won't even drive 5mins to come say hi.... Can you say #HOTASSMESS!!!!
MrzSmith313 5 months ago
So true ,but when or better yet god forbid but if that time does come you'll feel a sense of relief because you'll at least know who your true friends are that care for you unconditionally and WANT to help you rebuild that house of cards.
ptowne1972 7 months ago
I would say that this is an inspiration in a way for me.
MrMmarq94 7 months ago
This video.. Is the definition of the word TRUTH. So true, that im bout to tweet yu about it lol. I really feel yu n EVERYONE else that goes through this.!! That's why im *currently* changing..who..im.. a r o u n d . . :)
Sweeteepie91 7 months ago
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Romeobeyk 8 months ago
I love the fact that ur thoughts are so random sometimes.. you pause in the middle of the video and say stupid stuff like i look like a puppy..... LOL Plus the fac that ur not bad on the eyes is a plus to watching ur videos
MissBreezi89 9 months ago
LOL. someone just posted this on my wall. u live. u learn *still smiling*
alonzolerone 9 months ago
i want to be your friend!
SweetieMackiin 10 months ago
A cute little puppy LOL I heard the plane the second time, but didn't hear it anymore...you can be pretty insightful...even thought i kinda lost you in the middle, I caught up at the end LOL :)
megananomous 11 months ago
i got lost on the way to the end of this video D:
sw4gg4hxch1q 1 year ago
How olld r u?
Leemeemarie 1 year ago
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i love your randomness :)
mlssangleyes 1 year ago
you are amazing :)
KyokoHonda500 1 year ago
Inspirational!!! Thanx!!
GRadeSkoolBD1 1 year ago
I LIKE IT!!! U R DEEP AND FUNNY AT THE SAME TIME. I FEEL U I HAVE MY JOB, MY OWN CRIB, AND THEN THERE COMES ALL MY FRIENDS! WOOOH! I HAVE A HOUSE OF CARDS SET UP TOO. BUT IF YOUR CARDS FELL, I WOULD STILL BE YOUR FRIEND. BECAUSE PPL MAY FALL, BUT THEY ALWAYS GET BACK UP AGAIN.
IMAG115 1 year ago
dam u is sexy boo :)
washocks 1 year ago
Daayum! ..... Nail on the head!
SoulTymez 1 year ago
lol its soo funny that u made this video becuz i have friend(s) who are like that. in the end i don't hold tabs on favors like that, but if it gets to the point where its a common daily habit...get to steppin lol
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about time you learned. i told you this a while back. !!!!!!! d btw.
tYdigz 1 year ago
about time you learned. i told you this a while back. !!!!!!!
tYdigz 1 year ago
You're beautifully deep in a funny way. My twin sibling is my teammate....but I am not as accomplished as you. I hope you get to realise soon who your teammate is. :)
Ahiru77 1 year ago
U are my friend in my head ;-)
zusman84 1 year ago
HOW OLD ARE YOU ALONZO?
MessyMyles 1 year ago
Testify I feel you
cypressfaith 1 year ago
I stick to a small group of friends. Its nice to have a good amount of friends, but at the same time a lot of those ppl are not truely your friends. Your just something of gain that they can use. The small group of close friends I have, I kno will be there for me if I should ever have my card fall. Stick to what you know and dont be afraid to not want to please the next person.
tyronejones1989 1 year ago
you put words to so many of my unspoken thoughts! Big up to that!! I totally relate and I thought I was selfish for feeling like that... Guess its not about selfishness but what you rightfully deserve..
magnifik87 1 year ago 5
@magnifik87 "put words to so many of my unspoken thoughts" i love that! BIG UPS to your vocabulary *i thumbed u up*
alonzolerone 1 year ago 6
"a cell phone, instead of access to one" DEAD!
purexpression 1 year ago
can i just say you are absolutely adorable!! congrats on all the success and good things that are happening to you! xoxo jojo
joeits10 1 year ago
So true and powerful.....
Dereon08 1 year ago
aww i love when you use Mariah songs:) it makes my day. SHE TWEETED ME:D i tweeted her "why are you so cute? i might get my appendix removed will you come visit me ;) haha" and she tweeted me saying "Lol: )" now i dont know wether she laughed about my appendix...or because i called her cute? who knows. haha.
monkey974797 1 year ago
I dont have my own. I wrk, I get to work on my own, I meet people half way and everything is downtown Im 10 away...I pay bills that are in my name and some that are not.... maybe thats why my friends call me as an after thought. or when the other friends break plans or when they are low and dont want to be arond the other friends and that the only one that im the closest to is the one that can take my mood from 10 to -10 in 2 minutes flat just by the thought of them (boyfriend). :(
ChrissyReam 1 year ago
u sure can...im learning as im living......if we focus on us we will be more peaceful
MrBrownSkyn 1 year ago
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I [like] your teeth :)
iZZiEFBABiE 1 year ago
whats your opinion on the Marsha Ambrious video about suicide...
relley69 1 year ago
alonzo i'm very proud of all the things i've seen you do and my mom always says never befriend those who have less to lose than you. so just marinate on that.
tappmonee 1 year ago
You are a BEAUTIFUL man!
BandGirlsLoveEdward 1 year ago 9
LMAO love your vids...and i only have like 10 friends who i have been friends with since i was 13 so yea those are the only ones that i call my true friends...but a lot has happen for me as well. Great job, nice apartment, nice car, great credit, just positive things keep coming my way...and of course ppl are going to try to come in your life when they see your doing good and trying to see if they can grab on to you while your on ur way to the top. Jst gt to B able to tell the diff. b/w the two.
L302009 1 year ago
that will bring you down,guilt you, and use everything such as 'materialistic, selfish, greedy' terminologies to get you to crawl back into the little sideways dimensional world they inhabit.And expect you to be there to carry them through. Sometimes you are a better friend by cutting them out of your life, and the generosities that you bestow upon them.Which force them to act on their own accord, rather than jump on your bandwagon. I'm proud of you, I'll be your friend. and i don't need you ^_^
DisKreet1 1 year ago
All it is is self love and self preservation. Loving yourself enough to realize you deserve positivity, growth, and enhancement, and to surround yourself with those things. and to deviate from those that would take your kindness and time for granted. When you realize, that your surroundings should always benefit you, and not deteriorate your possibilities, there will be a lot of rebuttal. Cause the ones that can't see the bigger pictures, depend upon taking you for granted. Those are the ones...
DisKreet1 1 year ago
@DisKreet1 WOW! #saved Good words. good words.
alonzolerone 1 year ago
Alonzo! I feel you. There comes a time in your life that you need to grow up and re-evaluate your circle of friends. On two levels. 1st level, if my this this and this is gone, when the hard times come around are you going to be there. 2nd level: im elevating myself not just with things but on a maturity level and spiritual level when (are) you gonna do the same. comes a time when we out grow our past, view our present and visualize the future. who's gonna be in the latter?
Brandi (fb fam)
brebre1507 1 year ago
It's not always easy, though - but my social experiences made me who I am today. I could go on, but a short attention-span is contagious. Take care! :)
SassySoulja4 1 year ago
Really enjoyed this video! :)
Personally, in reality, I only have a handful of friends - about 6 people - that I'm close to. We're just tight like that, and we're all aiming for bigger and better things in life. Always support each other and I'm thankful to God for that.
I also like your lyrical quote at the end. Never thought of life that way before, but I have had many experiences of "When All Falls Down" - in moments like those I've learned to see who my friends and foes are.
SassySoulja4 1 year ago
What do your friends say to you after seeing a video like this? Do any of them feel offended? Did anyone call u and was like "What You Talkin Bout Willis?". lol BUt I think the few friends that you do have are genuine... but you just happen to be the one with the crib, car etc... ur like the life of the party. Ur like Martin... everyone else is pam, cole and tommy. Ur Khadijah... they are Regine, Synclair, Overton.
cchllover 1 year ago
@cchllover HA! well i aimed this at the new people around me. IF they watch my vids, and think im talkin bout them.. then i am. but the people (whom i call my friend) that's been with me from jump street, know im not talkin about them. it wouldn't make any sense. it's not like i'm about to cut off any friends. b cuz i just can't afford to do that. My mentality and my physical being couldn't and will not handle that. btw i follow u on twitter
alonzolerone 1 year ago
@cchllover ...and im sure im not the "life of the party" without them. cuz i adapt to my environment. so if i am the life of the party, it's only bcuz they are the party. Me alone, is eating pour over cheddar popcorn watching recorded shows that my trusty DVR recorded. but for everything i am Grateful :)
alonzolerone 1 year ago
You have a really nice place and I truly mean that. I look at the decor and I'm like "wow, that's something I would do!" I live in NC, too. If you come to Charlotte (SouthPark area), you should definitely hit me up. We could hang out!
bwiissofly 1 year ago
I love this video and can totally relate I have made a lot of friends in college and I sometimes wonder which of them are real and would be there if I needed anything or if I fall and who would pretend to not get my call love all of your videos keep doin what you're doin thumbs up <3
Brandeereonna 1 year ago
Man I like this video a lot because I can definetly relate to it. (*sigh* I wish there was a love button for this video right about now)
Jawz0627 1 year ago
ur videos are funnay!!!
DanityLinly406 1 year ago
Omg I know exactly what you mean at like 2:25 about you finally having your own and all of a sudden you start making new friends. LOL Lemme continue the video and Imma get back to the comments, lol.
Jawz0627 1 year ago
You were very cryptic in this video but when I hear anybody talk like this I know that they are growing and evolving...I never had a bunch of people in my life so I am lucky..However I have had to let go of people along the way..it's just the way it is..a couple of years ago when my cards fell and I got to see who will be my friends no matter what and be there for me..advice: weed out the imposters now so that if your cards fall you will know who your people are..hugs
Trippleg1993 1 year ago
I feel you Alonzo. You're trying to figure out who your real friends vs. real moochers are.
02BlackStallion 1 year ago
I love your videos Alonzolerone, but my question to you is: What makes your friendship more important than the other friend (if y’all are true friends) just because they can’t afford your luxury right now?
I would do anything for my true friends although i understand that we are not on the same level.
Take care & much love.
GaryDoobay 1 year ago 2
@GaryDoobay ya it goes deeper than that. it's not about the materialistic things. trust me. luxury doesn't mean much to me. However. it is the lack of support. communication. and desire to build a goal in life for yourself that makes it easier to decipher which one you are. friend or foe.
alonzolerone 1 year ago 3
I have a friend (who I have come to dislike), who like you and myself, want friends who are going somewhere in life. Except she is very stank about it, and it's so bad that I have come to realize that she is just conceited and materialistic. Ever since she got a paying job, she doesn't come around to even to say hi and hang out for a bit. She wanna party, party, party. Too bad when she didn't have a paying job, she was always around, and I always offered to pay for her if I had the money.
nutonurface21 1 year ago
Theres an old saying that goes...."be kind to those you meet on the way up."
hip2dadip 1 year ago
@alonzolerone, here is a quick way to know who are your real friends. They are the ones who had a car, a crib and money in their pockets when you didn't...and they weren't trippin cause you didn't have those things they did. HINT HINT.
chillnndc 1 year ago
Well I don't have a cellphone... But what time do you want me to come by and pick you up. ;D
neatomosquito 1 year ago
you are so cute!))
electrikred27 1 year ago
I think I get what your saying when your questioning if the people who call themself s your friends now are they gonna be their for if you just lost everything as if they just want to be around you becasuse they know you have all this stuff and could possible help them out but if you were down and out would they help you I get you, I get you atleast on that. Still trying to get the metal version of my house of cards right now.
nutmega009 1 year ago
ooops....sorry i meant most at the end!!! =-P
XXklutz27XX 1 year ago
@dreadlife if u keep having that negative attitude, ur destined 2 b alone n i think alonzolerone is more of a role model that people can look up 2....keep on making ur vids brother!! =-D but i have 2 dsagree on if u have fewer friends equals fewer drama cuz i have 3 close friends n they r sometimes more than i can handle but i rather help them by giving them advice mlst of the time
XXklutz27XX 1 year ago
so true!! this is why its important to have friends on many levels in life. some friends will need you in a higher state that they are in, b/c really they need a tangible motivation to step their game up. its unfortunate that there are those who are just Users. they have no plans on gettin their own, they will just use yours! i've never found myself in your position, but it was nice to hear the other side of the game speak i suppose. we all must be careful with whom we share our lives with.
BigTashia 1 year ago
yeah that's why everybody is screaming you have to have a job, car, own place, phone before you talk to me because you need somebody to fall on lol
astrozier1 1 year ago
@alonzolerone Yes, I always automatically give you the GOOD thumb. You haven't given me a disappointing vid yet, so don't worry about not getting a 'like' from me. lol :)
simoneog2009 1 year ago
i feel u on that hun real talk. everyones around u when ur doin good but where are they when ur down....
layjay5632 1 year ago
Will you marry me?
katiebrookeee 1 year ago
Im Already found Out In A Young Age, People Change Just Right After Middle School It's Stupid Though I Try To Let It Go But It's So Hard, But I Think Its Cause Of What Im Doing In My Life. When You Have A Lot Friends They Think You Not Going To Make It No Where Or What Not But When You At The Top Of Your Game They Show Their True Colors and Never Talk To You Or I Say F***** Them
jordanhayes3 1 year ago
i was a third wheel at a doulbe date just this weekend ... tsk tsk
sweetfaceangie 1 year ago
omg whyy do i feel likw we are on the same page i hate how in relationships they want you to do everything whi cant you do something too..! ugh thats why i love watching your show..!
mkyante 1 year ago
omg whyy do i feel likw we are on the same page i hate how in relationships they want you to do everything whi cant you do something too..! ugh thats why i love watching your show..!
mkyante 1 year ago
I understand what u mean.. I had firends that made me feel like they holding me baq, to where i had to drop alot of fake ppl who either used me for what i had or wasnt around when i needed em'. I love saying i kan kount the amount of true friends i have on 1 hand.. bekuz to be honest i dont like to be around to many groups of ppl.. its hard to watch everyone at one time to see what evil mastermind plans they have to make ur life harder than what it is.. smh i just rather b around winners :)
iiREPDoRKsz 1 year ago
alonzolerone...please dont act like u are perfect and u havent done anything offensive to ur friends in the past..just had to let YOU know that.....
dreadlife 1 year ago
@dreadlife o thank u for letting me know. and ALSO for letting me know that you haven't watched "You've Been Slapped" or "Give Me You" or "If Broken Hearts Could Speak..." or "Confessions :The Day After" . bcuz i assure you that those vids will contradict your premature judgment you've just made on an ordinary guy like myself. just had to let YOU know that =)
alonzolerone 1 year ago 24
love it love it love it. I've notice the further you get in life and the move developed you are physically, mentally & finacially the more friends you may loose because well they aint your real friends. Some of them are even hoping for your "cards" to blow down whiles others are enjoying the ride but not trying to help make it better or stronger. Thoses who stay and help and learn. I love umm they are there 4 life
Kaalas 1 year ago
I'm 16 and my friends slag each other off to me and i'm stuck in the middle! I don't trust them and can't be myself because if they are saying this about each other i'd hate to hear what they say about me :/ Plus, they act like every things a big deal and i'm sick of listening to their bullshit! Think i need new friends..
RemzElleG 1 year ago
Preach Brother... Preach!!!
Stallworth322 1 year ago
u r so crazy but true
RandumDollTM 1 year ago
Wow, it's like this video came at the right time for me. I feel like I don't have any friends AT ALL... but I got a job, I'm in college and I'm about to get a car; I feel good on the material side, too bad I also need a friend who'll drink an ice cold beer with me sometimes.
EliteDarkMage 1 year ago
@EliteDarkMage: well if that's all you want in a friend then you can pick up just anyone.
Chardize 1 year ago
if his teeth were any brighter they would glow in the dark
01103 1 year ago 2
466 think that Alonzo doesn't have white enough teeth... lol
Chardize 1 year ago
you really helped me out this is so true cause im in that young stage "19" in my life trying to build my "house of cards"
RomietteRuby31 1 year ago
you didn't "do" anything. it's by God's grace and mercy that you have what you have and can do what you do. all those "friends" you had were there on purpose; so you can grow and learn your lesson. which i see you did. good job btw. but unfortunately some choose not to grow up and keep doing the wrong thing whatever that may be. everything here in this world is temporary and borrowed b/c it all belongs to Him. including you. you were bought at a price (1 co. 6:20)
latina084life 1 year ago
I've reached the age of 40 and realize that people are in your life
at different times for various reasons. Only a few (other than family)
are lifetime friends.
Also...If your the smartest person in your crew?
YOU NEED A NEW CREW!! -----Alonzo your great!
focus699 1 year ago
Hey Alonze it's me, @RobbieJay from twitter. Anyway , I have gone down this road from friends and people that I am close to and basically I don't think you should even have to worry about this. The way I see it,some people are leeches that feed off of friends success and some just like to have your company no matter the circumstance is.If they stop hanging with you then they weren't your friend to begin with.Friendship is a two way street, if you are driving them they need to find their way home
TheLivelyRobby 1 year ago
I can't believe you were ever without a girl! =)
MochaChaiChica 1 year ago
i love other friends that drive and have there own money.... its a dream come true... and i hate those that dont have that because they always say your full of bulshit cause i dont feel like picking you up and its my damn car
relley69 1 year ago
You know you are really telling the truth. The fact is when you have material things that are your own, you tend to have more "friends"/users. As long as you have a place to hang out, car to chill in and money you spend you will have those so call friends. Now the matter is if you didn't have these things and they didn't hang around you, you could really see who your REAL FRIENDS ARE. They only hang around with you for the luxuries and thats it. So choose your friends wisely.
loneal05 1 year ago
that was deep alonzo...thanks for the knowledge!
3DB4LIFE 1 year ago
ur video is so true and more and more times i find myself removing ppl from my circle as oposed to adding more real people, i have just a few really good friends, but they lack confadance to better their situations, and i wish that they had that drive however i've had friends with goals and they werent as loyal as desired, so thats how the cookies crumble lol. Great vids
chocolatekid2 1 year ago
You r exactly right @alonzolerone! This exactly why I only have 1 true bestfreind and then the rest or just associates because I dont trust ppl plus ppl are fake and I rather have 1 good friend than 10+ fake ones. :/
dafuture93 1 year ago 3
@dafuture93 DITTO
alonzolerone 1 year ago
@dafuture93 oh please..im sure U played a part with the breaking up, of ur friendships..dont act like ur shit dont blame everyone else and act like ur shit dont stink ..just saying
dreadlife 1 year ago
@dreadlife wat r u talking about? I said I only have one true friend I didnt say that I didnt break up my friendships or stuff like that nor did I say my shit dont stink...i think u took everything I typed the WRONG way!
dafuture93 1 year ago
Lol, i just love your sound effects...
Newyork8608 1 year ago
I feel you on this one alonzo. I have friends like that too and I had to let them go because I felt like their Do-boi instead of their friend. I'm a kind giving friend but sometimes people take it to a whole other level. Keep it up guy! Loving your apartment set up!
golby85 1 year ago
"drama will follow you on twitter" XD. And I agree with your facebook message 100%
Padfoot74 1 year ago
alot of what he's saying was so true. Alot of times we think somone is our friend until we actually go through hell and hot water and then we come back up and we see whose hands are out reaching out to grab you and pull to you to safety. As far as what he's saying about "chaufffering" friends here and there its so true b/c at some point you'll have your breaking point. Its not being mean its just being honest. Its okay to help a friend out as long as theyre helping themselves a tthe same time
smithnavy88 1 year ago
learned allot from you bruh happy you have your own stuff you acomplished allot hope one day i have my own house of cards :))
Martin2Dog 1 year ago
i totally agree with you about having a small group of friends versus a huge pack of friends. It's always good to have a small circle of friends 'cause to me you get to know them more than rather having a huge mess of friends and kind of only knowing select people. idk if that made any sense but what ever lol
Landisha 1 year ago
after a while you get to wondering why are you always the one standing up and holding it together. if there trying and make things happen thats one thing. they ant and can't help you rebuild if that happens they were only using you. shit i think ama make an application or start giving interviews to people who want to be my friend lol. thanks for your video iam angry about some shit so i wrote alot and now i feel not so alone :).
Provexcevy 1 year ago
it is very real what your saying. as i grow i started to realize that having those things are good for the time being. even in having all , your self is what your truly finding. i know how that shit feels. it's not just that you don't want to drive and pick someone up or let them borrow someone else phone to call you hahaha. it's that you worked hard to get there. you actually care for them but they don't seem to return that to you.
Provexcevy 1 year ago
yeah man ive seen your other videos but this one takes the cake. iam doing the same things. when i was younger i had my own apartment, taking cabs like no tomorrow, friends and going out every weekend. i had more then one job. my house went into forcloser excuse my spelling and shit just hit the fan. none of those people i new are even around. now iam stuck living wit family and living off what i made. i got 2 friends if that and peepz play me left and right.
Provexcevy 1 year ago
i just started high school, i lost every single friend i had except 1. i used to have like 10 best friends and we all used to hang out </3 and i lost my boyfriend of 3 years. and now my grades are slipping. my parents are fighting and my one sister i used to talk to about this, moved to vacouver and it costs to much to communicate also she never has time to go on facebook. my house of cards has fallin. but i still remain to rebuild it. thank you for making this video <3
RockenRena 1 year ago
@RockenRena quit crying and take responsibilities of ur actions! dont blame the whole world for ur misfortune..
dreadlife 1 year ago
@dreadlife i said: i just started high school, i lost every single friend i had except 1. i lost my boyfriend of 3 years. and now my grades are slipping. my parents are fighting and my one sister i used to talk to about this, moved to vacouver and it costs to much to communicate also she never has time to go on facebook. my house of cards has fallin. but i still remain to rebuild it thank you for making this video. not crying man and im not blaming anyone. also i didnt do anything people change
RockenRena 1 year ago
@Alonzolerone I can be your friend..
YoBoiNewnue 1 year ago
alonzo i'll come pic u up... lol but im slowly workin my way up to the "I did this" stage. im gettin there. 2thumbs to ur face boo link (itsalonzo)
itsmiddy 1 year ago
@itsmiddy ;-)
alonzolerone 1 year ago
i love you!
Giftofmelody 1 year ago
You're SO sexy. ;)
DanielEricksoncutter 1 year ago
omg i completely feel you on picking ppl up and dropping them off. you only do it cause u wanna have a good time LOL so true!!
prettyqut2 1 year ago
@prettyqut2 YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES! and YES.
alonzolerone 1 year ago
LONZO I freaking heart you!
ISoLoveLondon 1 year ago
@ISoLoveLondon who? *looks around* meeeeeeeeeh? Hey Lo. crazy man
alonzolerone 1 year ago
i feel ya that's why i removed some outta my life PREACH IT
immrGOHARD100 1 year ago
I guess i will be your friend.lol..just let me graduate college 1st, i dnt have time for fun right now. 3 more months!lol
eli1188 1 year ago
@eli1188 we don't have to have fun..pursay. I'll come to ur dorm. i can learn from u
alonzolerone 1 year ago
No offense but the Three Pigs gave examples of building things with cheap objects and metaphorically speaking of course.... you need stronger shit to build with. The older I have gotten real friends reveal themselves in conversation and behavior. A lot of times we dont ask the questions of our friends that we should ask, with dudes its different, can you really say hey dude you love me, you down for me? You gotta test the strength of their "house of cards" before you let someone knock yours down
neocaramale 1 year ago
great video BTW I gotta borrow your FB status for a couple of days lol luv ya!
dwizz08 1 year ago
@dwizz08 sure no prob. lol. i'll send u my paypal info. 10 bucks a day buddy.
alonzolerone 1 year ago
I think you're on the right path bruh; but you need to learn how to differentiate from you acquaintances and your friends. I know, and am cool with, 1000s of ppl, but I only have a few dozen friends.
Another wise man said, "If you have 1 true friend, you have more than your share".
robertantonvlogs 1 year ago
What do you do as a job Alonzo? Or are you a Youtube partner?
Much love xxx
WilmaBridget 1 year ago
So true... Well put together... You can be my friend... lol
1churchgurl 1 year ago
I get what your saying (even though I don't have all of that situated yet) but I guess with me I can see the people who would be like that when I reach that point in my life and I choose not to be around them too much. I have my solid friends who I know I can depend on, and they are the ones who I allow to have a proper kind of standing in my life. I think it makes me a bit selfish as I just don't tend to let too many new people in my life, but the way I see it is they gotta be worth it/ earn it
naturallyfriseschica 1 year ago
@naturallyfriseschica not selfish. just observant. but don't block people from getting into your life. their true intentions will show...eventually. keep on living life
alonzolerone 1 year ago
@alonzolerone I hear you. I don't think I block people, but I just don't trust people too quickly and keep them at a distance until I feel they can be more a part of my life. (But my sis tells me the same thing lol) I will mos def keep living life though, that's what i'm here for =) And hey i'll be your friend! ...although my teleportation skills are a little rusty...
naturallyfriseschica 1 year ago
i kno how u feel just stay true to ur self go with god
butterfly6581 1 year ago
I cant wait till I get my own place, so far I put my self in college, so I know I can get my self a place.!
MrNYCEyes 1 year ago
that's why i stay to myself for the most part cause ppl are so full of bullsh*t these day's i've learned that i can pick and choose my freinds & that i dont have to be freinds with ppl who i feel aint about sh*t, i use to be freinds with ppl just because they wanted to be freinds with me & i ended up getting hurt so i dont do that anymore,im very careful about the company i keep cause there are some real shady ppl out there im only speaking from experience
170flyguy 1 year ago
Id rather just not hang with anyone if I have to pick them up....its annoying...because what do they do for me??? NOTHING!!!
johee626 1 year ago
kinda felt like you was sayin you cant be friends with someone unless they got everything you got......it was very nicely put, but still harsh when you think about it, still love ya though
khazlett420 1 year ago
@khazlett420 o nooooo. NOT AT ALL!!! if that's what you got from this video. my apologies.
alonzolerone 1 year ago
good video alonzo i recently made a twitter and im now following you, your such an insperation :) my twitter is Brad_quinn
OfficialQuinn 1 year ago
nobody wants to be your friend unless you're successful.....when you're down an and got much is when you really need the support of a good friend and unfortunately thats when they all leave yo ass to pull yaself out or fail on your own...ive had peeps in an out of my life, if you cant be my friend without a car, then you cant hang with me when im rollin in one....with me thru thick n thin or not at all...thats just hows i feells bout it...an no, i dont have any friends...but im drama free
khazlett420 1 year ago
I think that is so true story of my life realy fuckin sucks ~BG~
JustLetMeFly13 1 year ago
That's real! And identity of your teammates and opponents will often surprise you, but thank God for that clarity!
cjayconrod 1 year ago
You are so right on so many levels!!!!! I have been feeling the same way you are. Where there comes a time when as you said, you build this house of cards and you you really see who youre friends are when it collapses. I have a small cirlce of friends and it is with those friends that I can fully trust to be there for me whenever I need a helping hand in anything. Alonzo, you have a great day my friend. Keep on keepin' on!!!!!
Elvis66 1 year ago
I feel that your own self is your friend cause in the end you came into this world by your self and going to die by your self and all you really need is one friend you know that always had your back when you were at your low's and your highs that what the only one you really need to give a shit about cause everyone else are for your enjoyment only when need to have some fun in your life don't hold it against(Brit) them that who they are in your life
carsonforever1 1 year ago
Hallelujah x3
sarkazzII 1 year ago
I don't mind the LOL's and the lil funnies. but at this very moment.....I am really feeling these informative comments. for real. im just sippin on Starbucks reading and nodding my head.
alonzolerone 1 year ago 3
I realized I'm not on the same standing grounds as everyone else that we can just meet each other in the middle. So, I slowly start scratching them off, 1 by 1. & I have less than a circle left & I'm fine with that. & there's 1 more that I'm on the fence with & I'm tryna see can they be on my side of the fence, the other, or are they straddling. I also found myself picking people up, paying for them to go out, etc. cut that REAL SHORT! But, this year it's about me. Either you with me or you not.
LifeisMusic07 1 year ago
I dropped a lot of friends, some grew apart from me, & some dropped me. People I thought were my bff's. I mean people that I didn't just call friend just because, but we hung out all the time, talked on the phone, had that connection. 1 day this person up & transferred to a different college & stopped talking to me. I contacted them on Yahoo! asking them how they were, they gave me the most bleak response & left to hang out with a friend & never contacted me back.
LifeisMusic07 1 year ago
@LifeisMusic07 well ya know. most of us have those times where we cut off friends (for various reasons) but things come full circle in due time.
alonzolerone 1 year ago
@alonzolerone Yup, sure will.
LifeisMusic07 1 year ago
@LifeisMusic07 its called karma..im sure YOU have dont that to some of ur friends in the past..friends come and go! ACCEPT THAT or prepare for despair!
dreadlife 1 year ago
@dreadlife Ok, I think everyone is reading too far into what I said. I was just stating a story. I don't care about the situation anymore. I was just simply stating. People act like I came here for advice. I just stated my story so that I can relate partially to the topic.
LifeisMusic07 1 year ago
You said it! At the end that is! I find that youll have hundreds of friends or people that will talk to you or comment you and then one day , you have a terrible day, the HOUSE OF CARDS has fallen and you need support, and maybe one person is there to help you or none at all...Could it be that its designed this way?? God wants us to look to him instead and not to others. He said....I AM THE WAY!
kimberlyrav 1 year ago
drama will find you on twitter. lol not in reality but twitter. omg, that made my day! :)
Flanaganlovesdinos 1 year ago
@Flanaganlovesdinos lol. it's true tho. Drama will follow you on twitter #BeleeDAT
alonzolerone 1 year ago
I think that I should be at this place but I still feel like I am still kind of young...! but I got the main things like family aka my mom.. lol and my own car and a paying job I think the other things can come later, maybe a good friends..!
callmeBright 1 year ago
@callmeBright ur building your foundation ..and you don't even know it lol. no for real you are. i just feel it. just Keep on Keepin on. you'll see. Stay focused.
alonzolerone 1 year ago 3
@alonzolerone Thats exactly what I was going to post to this video. You're builing your foundation of life, just like the good book...be that of stone or sand we ultimately have the choice. Be proud of the Solid Foundation you have placed and be an inspiration to others to do so as well. Do not let anyone bring you down...even if they're a "friend". If they were a true friend they wouldnt drag you anywhere but give you wings to soar!
anikkicreation 1 year ago
Holla-You-Ya!!
and i get you alonzo!! you feel like hey im stable at this point in my life and for some reason some of the cards in yo deck aint the full card yet!! LOL!! which means that instead of them handling up like you did, the dont exactly have their own and if you ever fall how they gon help pick you up when they still gettin they ass up off the floor!!
malemodel48 1 year ago
the only person you can really count on in life is your parents, if you're lucky! Other than that you are riding solo in this life. You may have people who will help you out when it's not an inconvenience to them. So my rule of thumb is don't give anyone anything that you want returned....time, money, clothes, shoes, etc....if you want it returned then you aren't giving it freely. And if they don't returned it you'll get your feelings hurt.
poetree2000 1 year ago
commenting as promised~ xD
2010 was pretty much filled with mental friend filtering because I begun to realize that a lot of peeps were unreliable & useless. as far as house/car/phone, I don't expect that cuz we're all undergrad level students still, but as far as personal connection, it just wasn't ever there. they'd come for you for help but when it's time for you to seek help they're not really there, you find out they've been gossiping, even harmless gossip to me is inappropriate.
Amanikitty 1 year ago
@Amanikitty and so during 2010 I was just weeding out friends, putting them on different "levels"; like "confidante", "only for random hangout", "first person to say dumb shit", "practically strangers". as jacked up as it is to disconnect with some ppl, I personally felt it was better to do so, just to minimize disappointment on my end and free up my time to concentrate on more important things & ppl and to build yourself up before you do anything else for people who do not have a similar agenda
Amanikitty 1 year ago
@Amanikitty YES! "do not have a similar agenda" i could not had said it better.
alonzolerone 1 year ago
@Amanikitty wow @ useless. kinda harsh lol. but i feel u (in a sense) but YES i got ur tweet. and you did keep ur promise. still lookin for a video response #ImJustSayin
alonzolerone 1 year ago
Ummm can you come pick me up March 7th? :-)
One Luv
Pat (thumbed up)
YoBoiPat 1 year ago
@YoBoiPat u got jokes P
alonzolerone 1 year ago
@alonzolerone of course not.. :-) Lol
YoBoiPat 1 year ago
hmmm i was a bit lost not really knowing if your really asked a question and when i thought a question was stated it was like ummm maybe that wasnt it. but from what i gathered i think you answered it yourself. you only allow in what you want. i had the same problem not knowing if the ppl that were around me were for me or just there to get what they could get. however i learned that regardless if a person is just there to take or become a equal you need them all for they show you what you are..
MoDelTyPe221 1 year ago
Well sir, I feel what you're trying to say. And I would say I concentrate more on making sure I give the House of Card a stronger foundation rather than having expectations of folks. I like where your heads at though!!~Calv
sfcalvinaz 1 year ago