DON'T PUT UP WITH EXCUSES! MANTALK (1/9/12 - #194)

[SexyEyesBrown]

Someone help me lol I dont have experience with dateing and stuff cuz i got married right after i graduated and was married 7 years and jjust in 2010 got divorced. Never have been with anyone else before so I have no idea what Im doing :/ Chris plz help!!!

[SexyEyesBrown]

Ok i had a guy say similar things to me but he also has invited me to help him work on his house and also to go do things this summer. He really is gonna be busy having to deal with a lawyer to see his kids and also just got out the army and is moving back and has a house hes buying and has to fix up and is working on getting a good job cuz he got his bachelors degree and is focusing on all this stuff. But is that all still an excuse?? I need your opinion! Help!!

[ShahramAx]

really like your hair style can u do a turtioral how u do it? 

[ugasziz]

dick sucking lips ;)

[Zieltarzyna]

But how do I know if this guy is into me? I'm so not experienced! I met this guy at work, and I think that he's chatting me up. He's been asking me if I want to have a special someone. He also says stuff like oh you need to be more open and try to encourage man, he listen to things that I say to other people. Does it make any sense? Is this how plain co-workers/friends behave? I don't know. I don't want to ridicule myself.

[CamillaIluna]

Pew pew pew pew pew! Pew pew pew.

[judasxo]

well youre adorable.

[SajidaAsha]

You are very cute, honest and a gentleman.

[hijakaftoyl]

AMEN!! (yup, wanted to say that haha) but it's true!! I just got with my bf and he lives in oxnard! (I live in LA) and he is always willing to constantly rent a car and do the 1 hour drive just to be with me. it is completely true. if someone genuinely wants to be with you they will make the effort to be there no matter what!

[leeln1]

great advice and me and my friends are constantly dealing with people who make excuses. yes, obviously they don't want anything out of the relationship except .....well, maybe ....you know. lol yep, i say movin on sucker you don't deserve me. lol

[barbiedollqtpie23]

OMG where have you been to answer all my problems with boys!!

[sweetstuff772]

your ADVICE helps me sooo sooo much. please dont EVER stop making videos :D

[ShireLily]

This was awesome Chris, just went through something like this and this helped me so much to understand so it is on to the next one!!

[PhoebeBramwell]

I saw my message at the start......so technically I was in one of your videos, way too awesome!

[NascarTres]

Boom. Head shot. On everything you just said.

[kabris]

Chris....talk about the racist arizona girls plz!

[OlderThanTime09]

Awesome. I've also noticed that it is normally really easy to tell when someone is making excuses or when they really don't have time. The hard part is accepting the excuse for what it is... a no.

[PrincessHaylo1]

Aw I forgot it was Mantalk Monday :/. I wanted to ask a question haha.Good job today though :). <3

[icytwilightlove]

did anyone tell you that you look like james roday from psych??

[nyanya123456]

@icytwilightlove I agree with you.. i love james roday.. as cute as Chris LOL

[eveningbuzz]

How old are these … ? 〠 

[meganking2485]

Well I have 3 kids, a job, and I go to school, so making time for someone is a little more difficult! Ha! Even when I really like them!

[photo2010]

Yeastiness is a deal closer, PU PU P-U!

[foliagegirl1010]

Does this include friendships, too?

[ayuriification]

my boyfriend lives an hour away from me and he catch public transport which can take up to 2 hours just to get to my place and hes so committed, i totally understand what u mean about putting in effort instead of excuses cos ur actually interested

[Robert89Ananiadis]

Wish my ex would see this video....this is the exact reason why I confronted her, which is the end reason why we are not together. But she just didn't get it why I was upset. Excuses....

[houstoncjones]

I agree with you if you are really interested you will move heaven and earth just to see them smile

[loveposey28]

so what happened with that girl who lived 45 minutes to 2 hours away hmm? ;) love you!

[lalocateresita]

I LOOVEEEEEE YOUR CHIN AND YOUR BEARD! <3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3

[KGJ1223]

ok has anyone ever told you that you have THE COOLEST hair ever... well if not now someone has :) ps your videos are so helpful you answered one of my questions and it helped me so much thank you so much chris luv you!!! <3

[kimberleeslife]

i love your comments to people almost as much as the video. haha :) by the time i have a real relationship i'm gonna know so much thanks to mantalk :)

[HeyMissMetalCanI]

I'm so glad I found this channel :)

[smudgetaz1]

:D i saw my message. just random thought haha. Sorry bout that Ricky, i know it was a little inapropro i feel stupid for asking of anything of the sort, since it's nothing id ever ask in a million years and i did. I'm truly sorry that you had to read that! Love your videos by the way:)

[smudgetaz1]

@smudgetaz1 wait is your name Ricky or chris? D:

[kimberleeslife]

@smudgetaz1 his name is Chris. lol

[smudgetaz1]

@kimberleeslife hahahaXD well i know now. I thought it was ricky cuz his other channel is "SupRicky" and then i saw a comment with the name chris. :P Woops! Sorry Chris D:

[fourmgc1]

Chris, truly amazing.

/watch?v=tiieNwknMBU

[TheRedbirdie]

am i the only one who giggles knowing he's sitting on an exercise ball?

[doodlebug1804]

You're awesome. Even though its mantalk monday, you made my day. Just like your videos always do. :)

[wowso4]

I agree with this video so true if the person wants to be with you they will make time for you no matter how busy they get.

[ToneeRhianRose]

You're absolutely right. If a person wants to be w/ someone they'll make time for them. :)

[DRAGOMASTER69]

Love ur vids.....but this doesnt help me cuz no one accepts me

[SupDaily06]

@DRAGOMASTER69 someone will just stay true to yourself

[Lexxington2000]

Everyone should watch "He's Just Not That Into You." Gooooooood movie. Also, you look very handsome. Pew pew pew. (:

[MrLemonhead2]

i like your chin

[SupDaily06]

@MrLemonhead2 thanks i have had it my whole life.

[abbymalone21]

@SupDaily06 Clever hehe



[MrLemonhead2]

@SupDaily06 well done on having it.

[monkeydoodle77]

Gah. If only I had realized this a few years ago when I was in a LDR and the guy wasn't putting in any effort to see me.

The good thing is that relationship is far over and I've moved on.

Its nice to know there are awesome guys like you out there! :D

[MrJimbo700]

Dude! I love your vids!

[yevy37]

I wish more guys felt the same as you do on many dating/relationship/love subjects,many than there would be less girls getting their heart broken.

[ShannyBaby555]

Completely unrelated to the topic, but I love your eyebrow scar :) Every time your videos start, I notice it, but never comment! So, there ya go. Diggin' your man scar.

[SupDaily06]

@ShannyBaby555 thanks! there is a whole video about it!

[allthehoney]

@ShannyBaby555 Me too! I love it, it looks really manly (that is so weird I know... but hey)

[crazy3ladie]

You're right, it is the same for women, if we really want to be with you, we will make it happen, no excuses!

[ItsToedeloeFreakinMe]

you make me smile :D

[pantherandgrizzly]

I really changed myself for the new year. I'm a new man (teen) hoping to find someone nice and legit. I wanted to say thankyou for these videos! They really help me out of my depression I had with break-ups and girls and pretty much everything. I have so much knowledge now I kinda feel like a brick wall if you say haha! Thanks supdaily!:)

[SupDaily06]

@pantherandgrizzly keep smiling!

[imaLOVEglutton]

It's sooooo true.

[prettypink2100]

ur so cool..i like ur cheesy little quirks lol. why r u single anyways??

[SupDaily06]

@prettypink2100 haha wait what cheesy quirks??

[prettypink2100]

@SupDaily06 their cute the pew pew pew in the beginnings and ur taps at the end. every guy out there would be ashamed to do stuff lke that when in reality is so unique and shows a little about who you are. You're so down to earth and ur being you...I like watching ur channel cuz of it :)

[IjustplainH8you]

These episodes could easily be their own channel...Ahhg, I would love that! A full channel of "ManTalk"<3

[TheLg1989]

its true tho if u want to be with someone you will make effort to be beside also Chris Is Looking Spiffy today

[SupDaily06]

@TheLg1989 got my hurr did and wore a nice shirt.

[TheLg1989]

@SupDaily06 Im Impressed swit swoo

[crazy3ladie]

@TheLg1989 I agree, Chris is looking extra spiffy today :)

[TheLg1989]

@crazy3ladie Chris Thompson Spiffy dresser and advice giver

[BRIGGANESE]

Double pew, pew, pew! cool. Invaluable advice. Off topic though, we're already 9 days into the year, WHERE'S MELVIN? Let him out to say hi Chris.

[SupDaily06]

@BRIGGANESE I do need to let him lose again.

[HinataKunaiMelvin]

Darn Skippy!

[ItsBrent]

Pssh, bitches man. Bitches.

-Brent

[SupDaily06]

@ItsBrent cant live with them cant shoot them legally!

[brilovexo]

I don't think excuses are acceptable in any situation... There are often reasons, but they almost never truly excuse the behavior. Friendships, relationships, jobs, any and everything...

[AUCyberMan]

Great adivce, thanks

[TheWhopperTinger]

Great as always man :D

[joshuavaljan]

great advice as always chris. thanks