The problem with this video is they're not completely honest. They have sex with other couples to enhance their relationship? That's not entirely true. Humans are still animals no matter how evolved we want to believe we are. We lust and desire other people sexually. Why do you think infidelity is the number one reason for divorce in the U.S.
On a different note, only one of the women would get some attention from me. That's one bad thing about swinging. A LOT of over-weight people.
This is not for everyone but there are a lot of people that participate in this. Look at all the divorces that happen due to one partner cheating. Why would people split up with their sole mate over sex? Would this lower the divorce rate? For those that object is it due to insecurity or maybe what you where brought up to believe..... Do you believe everything you where told as a child? A mind is like a parachute and works best when it is open.
As Americans, we pride ourselves on just how sexually liberated we are. In reality, our society is rapidly devolving back to the pre-Flood Noachian era of trashed moral standards, no absolutes, and popularized perversion in human relationships. The result? Sodom and Gomorrah were annihilated!
@loseweight48 The marriage is for losers who are not able to pick up chicks for sex. They cling to a woman making a contract called marriage, to qualify for free sex. After several years, they find that they have tired of their wife's pussy. And so begins the Swing's story.
LOL....if you are secure you will use this as a tool for more flexibility....if you are insecure with yourself you will have issues....some people value excitement and other security. If you are insecure this lifestyle is not for you; if you are secure the excitement is there for the taking...end of story. Which are you...scared and insecure or flexible and exciting
@brahud Well said. I do not mind if people say it's not for them - I do mind when people try to say it shouldn't be for me or make ignorant, generalized assumptions about the lifestyle.
That "Marriage Therapist" is a Bigot, and doesnt have the slightest idea of what he is talking about. It is sad, and dangerous, that he is actually allowed to practice "Marriage Therapy."
@shawnsbigtube - For swingers, that isn't a worry. What happens if your spouse likes someone at work (or the gym, church, or anywhere else he/she encounters the opposite sex) more than you? In most marriages that results in deceit, dishonesty, cheating, separation, divorce. Those who swing successfully (open and honest - that's how it works and why it works) are able to separate the physical pleasure of sex from the bond of love. We enjoy others, we go home with the one we love.
@justus2469: Wow. That response was a year ago. Anyway, I've been swinging with my girlfriend of 4 months for about.......4 months now. :)
We're completely open and honest with what we're looking for and what we both want. Plus, we're older and wise than many of the couples we've come across. People seem afraid to admit that it's alright to WANT others....sexually.
@shawnsbigtube - just saw the video last night. I also apologize - for some reason (probably that it was 2 AM) I may have interpreted your initial comment incorrectly. Glad it is working out for you! We've been doing this for about 3 1/2 years now - not hardcore, maybe attend a club once a month, actually "participate" every couple of months or so - and it's been amazing. Our already great communication and home sex life are both even better. Agree - our society is too uptight.
@annekb1111@annekb1111 For some, yes - for others, no. Marriage is a partnership on all levels. If both partners agree on recreational sex, who is anyone else to judge them for it? Sex is sex - love is love. Very different things. Those who participate in this lifestyle successfully are open and honest with each other and are able to separate the physical act of sex from the love they feel for their life-mate.
@annekb1111: I used to think that way, but I can't ignore the fact that I lust after other women. And, no matter how good any guy thinks he is, women do desire other men. Why do you think the number one reason for divorce is infidelity? I believe if you're able to satisfy your lust, which is natural, you'll have a good relation.
why get married
Sagefrakrobatik 1 week ago
The problem with this video is they're not completely honest. They have sex with other couples to enhance their relationship? That's not entirely true. Humans are still animals no matter how evolved we want to believe we are. We lust and desire other people sexually. Why do you think infidelity is the number one reason for divorce in the U.S.
On a different note, only one of the women would get some attention from me. That's one bad thing about swinging. A LOT of over-weight people.
shawnsbigtube 2 months ago
This is not for everyone but there are a lot of people that participate in this. Look at all the divorces that happen due to one partner cheating. Why would people split up with their sole mate over sex? Would this lower the divorce rate? For those that object is it due to insecurity or maybe what you where brought up to believe..... Do you believe everything you where told as a child? A mind is like a parachute and works best when it is open.
theiggy66 6 months ago
why dose anyone think bankers and lawyers are respectable people.
Wscate 6 months ago
pretty fucked up
HPhenomenal 7 months ago
I love swinging!!!!!
ghetty78 8 months ago
@loseweight48 complete circuit ...current flows ...
1983rahulsharma 8 months ago
As Americans, we pride ourselves on just how sexually liberated we are. In reality, our society is rapidly devolving back to the pre-Flood Noachian era of trashed moral standards, no absolutes, and popularized perversion in human relationships. The result? Sodom and Gomorrah were annihilated!
TruthAndHope4All 8 months ago
@loseweight48 The marriage is for losers who are not able to pick up chicks for sex. They cling to a woman making a contract called marriage, to qualify for free sex. After several years, they find that they have tired of their wife's pussy. And so begins the Swing's story.
cornel10 10 months ago
@cornel10 Free sex huh? ROFL@U
DanicaDiorPwns 4 months ago
@cornel10 If it's true that ignorance is bliss, you must be the happiest person on earth.
justus2469 2 months ago
LOL....if you are secure you will use this as a tool for more flexibility....if you are insecure with yourself you will have issues....some people value excitement and other security. If you are insecure this lifestyle is not for you; if you are secure the excitement is there for the taking...end of story. Which are you...scared and insecure or flexible and exciting
brahud 1 year ago
@brahud Well said. I do not mind if people say it's not for them - I do mind when people try to say it shouldn't be for me or make ignorant, generalized assumptions about the lifestyle.
justus2469 2 months ago
terrible. your supposed to only have sex wit one person your whole life. not whore around.
Cody12355 1 year ago
@Cody12355 ...According to whom, Sir Expert?
enwinor 1 year ago
@enwinor according to love. according to the one for you. your supposed marry the person you love and only have sex with them.
Cody12355 1 year ago
@Cody12355 That'd be great, if love worked the same way for everyone. Fact is, it doesn't.
enwinor 1 year ago
@Cody12355 Sex is sex - love is love. Two different things. Some of us are capable of separating the two. Who are you to judge anyone over it?
justus2469 2 months ago
That "Marriage Therapist" is a Bigot, and doesnt have the slightest idea of what he is talking about. It is sad, and dangerous, that he is actually allowed to practice "Marriage Therapy."
jarden69 1 year ago 2
@jarden69: Sniff...sniff. Smells like fear to me. Worried that your partner might like someone else more than you? ;)
shawnsbigtube 1 year ago
@shawnsbigtube
I don't understand your retort and its relation to my comment above...maybe you can explain.
jarden69 1 year ago
@shawnsbigtube - For swingers, that isn't a worry. What happens if your spouse likes someone at work (or the gym, church, or anywhere else he/she encounters the opposite sex) more than you? In most marriages that results in deceit, dishonesty, cheating, separation, divorce. Those who swing successfully (open and honest - that's how it works and why it works) are able to separate the physical pleasure of sex from the bond of love. We enjoy others, we go home with the one we love.
justus2469 2 months ago
@justus2469: Wow. That response was a year ago. Anyway, I've been swinging with my girlfriend of 4 months for about.......4 months now. :)
We're completely open and honest with what we're looking for and what we both want. Plus, we're older and wise than many of the couples we've come across. People seem afraid to admit that it's alright to WANT others....sexually.
shawnsbigtube 2 months ago
@shawnsbigtube - just saw the video last night. I also apologize - for some reason (probably that it was 2 AM) I may have interpreted your initial comment incorrectly. Glad it is working out for you! We've been doing this for about 3 1/2 years now - not hardcore, maybe attend a club once a month, actually "participate" every couple of months or so - and it's been amazing. Our already great communication and home sex life are both even better. Agree - our society is too uptight.
justus2469 2 months ago
@loseweight48 .... One man...One woman....NO others.
annekb1111 1 year ago
@annekb1111 @annekb1111 For some, yes - for others, no. Marriage is a partnership on all levels. If both partners agree on recreational sex, who is anyone else to judge them for it? Sex is sex - love is love. Very different things. Those who participate in this lifestyle successfully are open and honest with each other and are able to separate the physical act of sex from the love they feel for their life-mate.
justus2469 2 months ago
@annekb1111: I used to think that way, but I can't ignore the fact that I lust after other women. And, no matter how good any guy thinks he is, women do desire other men. Why do you think the number one reason for divorce is infidelity? I believe if you're able to satisfy your lust, which is natural, you'll have a good relation.
shawnsbigtube 2 months ago
women just cant go back to small dick
Costoffplus 2 years ago 2
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justus2469 2 months ago