Neil Strauss: The Body Language of a Pick Up Artist Opener

[TheMegakill]

I thought you got out of the game,Style and said to just be your self?

[Fozzeeeh]

i tryed this shit and got arrested

[Benjefwil]

I have a weird problem. A girl I know dodges the question about her having a boyfriend. I have never seen anything on this in any pua stuff. Anyone have an idea how to read this?

[Elizeho]

@Benjefwil if youre really interested in this girl then be open minded and ask her directly if she has got a boyfriend and that you have to ask this question directly, because youre interested in her and you dont want to raise your hopes too much.

[playaman07]

27 GUYS ARE AFCs AND MADE DHvs - LOOSERS LOL XD

[yogsothoth2099]

she isnt going to fell for you, she is going to fell for the pua character.Like i said, study what makes this work,but dont follow it blindly,what makes this work its interaction and dont being creepy or a pussy, girls like men that can speak to them and dont feel intimidated by them, just be yourself, dont tell bs stories,just tell what you want to tell.

[yogsothoth2099]

Your true self is going to come out if you use this to find a relationship,this is just make up,you can attract a girl , but she is going to know you sooner or later,this is a masquerade,if you want to fuck its ok i guess,but i dont seek that anymore,so what i can tell you its that learn what makes this work,dont follow the scrip and fool yourself, be yoursef, if a girl wants you its because who you are, not because you got pecock, kino or openers, this works , but not in a relationship.

[yogsothoth2099]

that are so mine, i am a very arrogant person i when i say that guy is a jerk or an idiot, or doesnt deserve my time, i say it, and she got tired of that,then i learned some stuff of puas, and its just manipulation and a circus act in a nutshell,it works, i am socially aware,of whats going on,but i never like to be like that because i felt that i was lowering myself to their level,then i worked on it an i nailed it in 2 months, this stuff works, the problem its that you cant change,

[yogsothoth2099]

well i have to say for my self that i used to be very good with women because i was a douchebag, not jock style douchebag i mean,arrogant know it all douchebag, whats funny its that i did all the things that this guys dont do, i was mean, arrogant, with dominant body language, you know clint eastwood style, and it worked,then i learned why, becasue i did not care a bit for those gals, i broke their heart and then i fell in love with the one, she dumped me because there are some things of me

[cdashkid123]

thing is if its loud in there and your standing up straight how are you supposed to hear what theyre saying? surely it cant be great if you keep having to ask them to repeat themselves

[Monarch730]

Listen, alot of these guys will have you think that theres certain steps you can take or specific moves you can do in order to bag any chick when thats clearly not the case. The women may be married, she may be dating someone, you may not be her type, Hell, the chick might even be fucking gay. The best thing you can do is be yourself, confident, look your best, keep the convo flowing from a genuine personality.You win some, you lose some. You get rejected? Ok move on until you get a winnder

[somos999]

@jaguarclaw

dude dont hit girls by  thinking its attractive! LOL! man u crazy

[somos999]

@jaguarclaw

wtf

[01thrilla]

The 3 second rule....go research it !!! it works like magic!!!

[In5anityDefined]

holy shit thats a lot of spam

[MyRocketer]

@jaguarclaw lol..no, you sound like a PUA your self... its all common sense uf the girl find you attractive then its unlikely she will reject you.. First thing is you need to be good looking, then you need to know how to speak, hence is she likes what she see's and hears then its all good.

Secrete PUA's are keeping is just be your self.. be a man!

[steptoesaunt]

Strauss is cool, he teaches loser nerds not to be so needy and clingy,boring and desperate with women,take this advice, its good stuff.

[pswagg333]

I am a big fan of this guy's book.

check out my blog as I put these principles to the test.

pswagg(dot)blogspot(dot)com

[nazgulero]

Who is this guy ? I honestly do not know a single woman in the world who would not run for her life if this guy would approach her...what a creep...

[TomerMMHA]

I usually hate these idiots who make stupid comments about the number of people who dislike the videos, but in this case I just must become one of these idiots, and say the following:

9 people negged Style!

[StylelifeAcademy]

@TomerMMHA vs. 64 likes :)

[TomerMMHA]

@StylelifeAcademy Yeah, I know. But usually people like to point out how many dislikes there are, and they always do it in psudo-clever and psudo-funny ways. It's the most annoying meme on the internet right now, but I figured it's fitting for this video.

[Hannibal941]

@StylelifeAcademy 143 IOIs :)

[legggggggggy]

@TomerMMHA Style is a piece of shit... What you dont know is that this is all theories and marketing and he has never been good with women. If you saw how Frank Kern made him big you would feel embarrassed that you ever listened to Style because what he teaches is non-sense.

[dorresteijntje]

@legggggggggy

Frank Kern helped him sell his method, that doesn't mean that Neil (Style) isn't actually good with women. You do realize that there's a difference between being good with women and being a good marketer right? Frank Kern actually refered to Neil as teaching amazing methods for picking up women, as well as marketing anything in Mass Control 2. The fact that you don't know how to deal with women doesn't give you the right to try to insult (one of) the best PUAs in the world.

[legggggggggy]

@dorresteijntje Im sure justin bieber can get more women than Style. I was the one that said there is a difference between picking up women and marketing. I got Mass Control 2 and know what he said, he said its amazing but he referred to the line of first approaching to getting phone number, dating, girlfriend approach. He said too that he didn't know about the content because he had a wife and kids and never tried Styles stuff. There is no proof that his stuff works and I tried with no success.

[dorresteijntje]

@legggggggggy As Neil actually says in his book (I'm referring to his 'moby' experience) it's much easier for famous people to get chicks, because they're famous. However, 99.9999999999% of the world isn't famous and they need a little more, so they stand out. Of course Kern never tried it because he didn't need to, still proves nothing. The fact that you tried and failed doesn't mean it doesn't work. I tried, and I did make it work, so did many others. NLP especially works, it's proven to do so

[SteinRobert]

This is all well and good, but not fun to be out with a female friend eating and talking and some gamers show up and wont take no for a no and amogging starts and so on...after the 1000th time it gets sort of annyoing.

[BennBrownie]

Body language is every bit as important as everything else you will employ to attract a woman. Body language is just as changeable as a facial expression. Take a deep breath, summon some inner confidence, and you will be all set. You have to condition yourself to 'switch on' a way of thinking that you are the shit. Stay loose, don't tense up. And most importantly, don't think about it. You need to realize that women are every bit as human and insecure as you are, they just put on a better front.

[szeleale]

@BennBrownie instead of thinking that ur the shit why not just BE the shit? It gives you peace of mind iin the long run.

[FireProMMA]

You can't teach body language guys, it's a manifestation of who you are inside. Change the later and the body language will come naturally.

[lostfeelinggonegone]

@FireProMMA

[Lon3Douch3]

@FireProMMA very true..... fighters are naturals at good and attractive bodylanguage...

[FireProMMA]

@Lon3Douch3 they spend all their day learning the most efficient way of hurting someone.. you really think they care what girls think of them? of course not, their body language is all natural. it comes from deep inside. peace.

[Sparclen]

@FireProMMA

You CAN teach body language. What you're talking about is 'inner game', and indeed, that is equally important.

[TheBlazingBassist]

where are you guys getting these BS statistics... 55%?

[UpFrontWith]

When I meed women the first thing that I think of is.. why should I waste me time on her there are so many I can only spend a small amount of time talking this this one. The best thing about thinking this way is that it is true. Women try to suck you into listening too there bull shiiit

[johnyct9760]

The best way I've ever heard this explained:

20% What you say

80% How you say it.

[CharlesKing104]

Body language is a non verbal communication, and 55% of communication is body language. Make good use of body language in approaching women can increase the success with women.

[HCnyling]

is that the first black PUA?

[raydog699]

I always go home with the self-help guru. Had a longtime S.A. relationship with A.A. guru Bill ( no last names, please!), too. Am without enablers and sponsors currently, alas....

[Ehirsch2180]

hjhjh

[Jed9133]

he should write a book titled,How to get lots money by talking..jk

[MrNebelful]

All this techniques are great and all.But,  Once you are in a Ltr things do change, and I haven't found any good advice for men in this field.

[bacelines]

@MrNebelful Michael Pilinski talks briefly about relationships in 'Without embarrassment". check it out.

[MrNebelful]

@bacelines

thanks man, I would have liked to knew it before I broke up haha , lucky me, but hanks it must be worth cheking out.

[TimpBizkit]

@MrNebelful Dunno about LTR I've never been in one. All I can suggest is the cliche' "BE YOURSELF". All I can say from 'The Game' is Mystery was fairly shite in long term relationships.

I'm no expert but things I would avoid - CHEATING, Not taking an interest in anything she likes (being boring), Being emotionally unavailable, also being overly sappy and putting up with bad behaviour on your part, becoming overweight/poorly groomed.

[TimpBizkit]

@MrNebelful Things I would do: Spontaneous romantic surprises, being dominant socially, standing up for her if she is ever being picked on in any way, NOT picking fights with guys who hit on her (she'll start thinking - I'm embarrased to be seen with this overly jealous meat head) you can use AMOG stuff if you wish, keep yourself handsome and smelling nice, satisfy her in bed (I've your saving sex until you're married like I am this is good marriage advice still)

[TimpBizkit]

@MrNebelful I'm curious about the David DeAngelo program Become Mr Right. I haven't got it as I'm not at that stage and it's quite expensive but there's probably some decent long term relationship advice in there, more than I can give you anyway. Usually short term relationship advice is good for starting a long term relationship as the 'friends first' root is a bit long winded and uncertain. (You get longer to know each other but it may never develop physically at all)

[TimpBizkit]

I do like Neil Strauss' voice, it's kind of effeminate, but soft. He is one of the voices I like, along with Morgan Freeman and the guy on a video titled "Along the paper faster than the paper".

I could imagine Morgan Freeman being a pickup artist (or a natural), the wise older father figure that women flock to.

[MrKiljeaden89]

Strong body language is even more important that what u say. A Decent bodfy language can bring miracles. For example u go straight to a FHB (Fucking hot Bitch) and use ur fist, to punch her in the face. Belive me, the girl is yours ! Hell, u even atract her friends by doing so, be prepared to have tons of girls around you, this is a mad IAT (intrest awakening thing)

[pinoygauta]

awesome!

[WhtMike2006]

Punch her in the face?

[rubikskub1983]

@MrKiljeaden89

Sure, you will face some hostility for doing so. But if you handle the situationen correctly, which is hard, you will walk home with a chick! Often you will find yourself in the back of a police car. But as the proverbd goes: practice makes perfect. Practice, practice, practice!

[rdylima9]

@MrKiljeaden89 LMAO, good point. LOL

[l1998]

@MrKiljeaden89 bro I did that, and I got raped in the jail... so not I only got girls but I became a bitch lol

[Bjrec]

@l1998 hahahahahaha what the fuck???

[dlc85007]

@l1998 lol u idiot

[jimmygotnew]

@MrKiljeaden89 lollll

[SeasonOfVindication]

@MrKiljeaden89 Bravo! xD

[Ullbritt]

@MrKiljeaden89 lololol

[TimpBizkit]

@MrKiljeaden89 She'd probably take out a restraining order

[MrBbuds]

@MrKiljeaden89 hahahahahahaha!!!! Brilliant.

[koreboms1993]

@MrKiljeaden89 I tried this and ended up in jail or 24 hours...

[BubblesNotBombs31]

from a woman this is true.women like attention and when there not getting noticed they start to feel like they have to impress u even if they dont want you therefore you win the game.but in the long run probably fuck with alot of nice girls hearts

[TimpBizkit]

@BubblesNotBombs31 It's probably because when a guy likes you straight away, you probably think he is after a quick shag or likes you just for your looks so you ignore him, whereas a guy you have to work for you think 'I had to show some personality which means he wasn't impressed with just my good looks!' (assuming you are good looking lol). Well of course there are automatic things happening as well. Feeling attraction for someone is not a mental decision afterall.

[BubblesNotBombs31]

@TimpBizkit Wow I didn't actually post that comment...my friend let me borrow 'The Game' and I must have left my account signed in and she must have used it to write that comment, mostly because I definitely wouldn't have had any grammar or punctuation mistakes in the comment like that one had, and also because I'm a lesbian, so this topic really isn't that relevant to me!

[meRikL]

larrygt1 ur a rRRRRRRRRRRRRR Tard... he might stress leaving to much but u need to convey it through your body language other wise your a creeper.

[larrygt1]

Fuck this guy he is the biggest fucken idiot in the world he looks like a complete fucken retard pretending to leave acting like your not interested what a fucken retard neill states that who youre are as a man isnt attractive to women that youre a nobody and as a man youre not a attractive person to a women so you have to be fake what a fucken idiot who you are as a real man is attractive to women he teaches fake confidence bullshit acting retarded routines what a fucken idiot ..........

[OscarMaris]

virgin rage

[larrygt1]

Well Im sure you lost yours by getting fucked by neil in youre asshole and then swallowing his waad hahhahahahahahahah dumbass ............

[DJSkyeNC]

lol seriously

[Willnl]

you actually read what youre typing here?

[victshot]

@Willnl LOL.  I've noticed it. Yeah, It does sound cheesy, but it works! It works!

[mateor09]

Neil has Good intentions. He really has a good head on his shoulders.

[Condrite]

Alot of the top PUA's out there make my gaydar go crazy.

The fuck is up with that?

[SpacedTime]

I know, but I think it's because these guys, before they learned to be PUA, were really geeky non-masculine guys who were not the macho or muscular and they needed such techniques as these to beat the big jock types out there.

[RyeZiLLa]

seemingly being gay actually helps PUA's connect more emotionally with woman. Since men interact logically and woman interact emotionally,, this makes sense that PUA's utilize this in order to connect better with woman.

[Feverdream777]

Also, out in clubs, the Bitch Shield is up to prevent really annoying masculine guys from bothering them with blatant sexual come on's. If that is what a woman is protecting herself from. So, you seem like less of a threat to her if you are a bit feminine

[marciszd]

it's called peacocking.

[Philofthefuture87]

lol I was just thinking the same

[amazingeddie]

Holy shit ! I thought I was the only person who thought that...

Anyway, half the videos on the net are guys doing the openers... getting a girl to give you directions or her e-mail is easy... its what comes after that that's tough... I'll bet you some of the guys out there with videos of their pick-ups wouldn't recognize pussy if it hit them on the cock.

[Kitsune81]

All top PUA's are nerds, because everytime they go out they analyze everything that happens, they write it down (field reports) and later on tear it all up and analyze it some more (what went wrong, what could I have done better, etc).

So if you really look at it, all top PUA's are nerds, if they weren't then they would be naturals.

[FlashDusk]

i dont know how to read O______O

[Masud03RnB]

hey guys this guy realy is a legend from a total nerd to one of the best pua in the world... for all the wise guys you need to read his book "the game" then you will value him diffrently.. just my oppinion plz dnt hate..PLAY THE GAME

[ilicstefan1]

najbolji medju najboljima !!!!!!!

PUA

[ononokootokonoko]

not a scam though... it basically building up your self image and confidence.. kinda like realizing you had it all along if you know what i mean?

[DuoSonic87]

I think this is the best way to describe it. A few cheesy words at a bar isn't going to get a decent woman (well maybe a stupid one,for a one night stand,and some gonorrhea..) it's about bettering yourself and doing it your own way.This way you could find a respectable woman.

[ononokootokonoko]

yeah dude maybe it didn't work out for u but this guy is way to knowledgeable to criticize. there are a million more things to be taken into account apart from pretending to leave..lol..

[larrygt1]

Pretending to leave is one of them but having to say fake openers have a fake personality use fake stories being so fucking dogmatic about leaning in and value thats all bullshit like he fucken swears hooking up with a girl is like hooking up with god or its impossible its not impssible using fake confidence is going to get you no where in life it only makes you look like a idiot when youre out in a club ive tried all the techniques none of then work to the full extent

[brownsta7]

you must be buttfuckugly then.

[shabashabashaba]

youre an idiot.

This guy fucks fucking supermodels. he knows what hessaying

[gingerbreadface]

the game isn't a scam. get a clue.

[MrHiberto]

why?

[mannycomforter]

what thy lack is confidence .....nothing with out faith is dead... you have to build your inner self to perform anything you do well...

[lamrof]

look at how all these AFCs are dressed. Can't believe there is a brother in there. What sup my boy, all brothers are players, how come? Kiddin' I am black but retarded when it comes to women. Haha.

[victshot]

You're crazy. I'm black guy, 6'6, tall and skinny. Really, never got a woman on my own, a nerd/geek, all the things that distant from a good man. Ever since I did the stuff he's doing, It seems to work. I actually smile now, Instead of frown like an afc. Actually talking to women, Instead of in my head denying them.

[nigger230]

congrats on yr tranformation

[nowarning14]

thats amazing dude, congratulations