I agree to an extent..but my thing also is..i know there's a lot of other people out there and all-and it's not worth losing a friendship..but there's gonna be no person like that one person,that one friend that's everything. Sure,you're risking your friendship. But if you truly care about that person,and you TRULY love them,and you've been friends for a longtime and you can't picture nobody else,then you're meant to be. But every situation's different..
I'm in the 11th grade. My bestfriend since 3rd grade, moved away last year& we always had that special connection& barley told eachother, a few months back we had those feeling. & my boyfriend now of almost a year doesn't let me speak to him whatsoever which is understandable; but I miss him dearly& I mean hey.. I'm only human /:
I'm a black female, and my close friend is chinese/viet. We were good friends and really liked each other but scared to say anything. Finally, he confessed to me and we were dating... But had to end it because I wanted him to go for his dreams and finish school.. I'm a good friend right? We still talk, but rarely. Miss him sometimes.. I think dating a friend you're really close to isn't a good idea :\
Nah she purposely wont let me close. She's told me I'll never be as close as girls are to her, cause she hates guys. Cant blame her for they've done to her, and honestly tired of going after girls and getting hurt. Maybe I'm just meant to have a best friend.
awww i went out with a bestie before... it was long distance.we broke up nd are still close but not as close as we used to be. I used to be able to tell him EVERYTHING now its kinda awward. we grew up together and all.
Thanks for telling me this. I had a huge crush on my best friend and he knew and he didnt feel the same way. He thinks I'm amazing and pretty and we talk to each other so openly. We know everything about each other. He said that he didn't like me because we aren't comparable. I was was wondering if you could do a YouTube video on compatability. Thumbs up if u agree
me and my best friend in the whole world went out but only for a few days then we decided we didnt want to ruin our friendship if something happened so we broke up it took like 2 days but now our conversations are the same as they used to be...funny as hell
I wish I watched this before I pretty much spilled my guts out to one of my close friends. You're right, there's so many girls out there and why would I want to risk losing a friendship over a relationship? I tried taking a risk, and it didn't end up the way I wanted it to. Drake's song the motto played in my head when I was doing all this. I mean, you only live once, so take as many risks as you can. It's better to know for sure what would happen rather than be curious for the rest of your life
Me and my best friend just got out of a relationship. Actually, just like you said, it was so good until it wasnt good any longer. we went through that awkward stage just like normal but it only lasted a couple of days. We're probably better friends now since we know each other on a different level, but everything is the same as before. I think it is all how you deal with it, sometimes it can be a really rewarding experience.
I'm soo scared that this will happen between me and my boyfriend. I've known him for 7 years and we just started dating 4 months ago. It's going reeal good so far. He's known for cheating but not once has he done anything to lose trust for him. I really think we might last for a while... but then again i have my doubts every now and then.
im crying right now i recently just lost my best friend we both liked each other and what not and yeahh an i lost everything all my friends are super close with there boyfriends and girlfriends and i just sit there thinking why did i have to ruin my friendship........ its been 4 months since i last tried to talk to him i miss him more than anything david please talk to me again i miss you more than anything </3
I dated my best friend since kindergarten and it was probably the best relationship I ever had....until he cheated on me. We haven't been the same since. So really think about if you're willing to risk that friendship
Hmm.. the problem is.. Ive gotten with my bestfriend.. things didnt work out so she ended it. But after a duration of time.. thinking.. eventually.. we started talking, we started hanging out often.. 'til the point where it seemed like we were closer than before.. She says.. shes not ready for a relationship.. And honestly.. ive never stopped loving her since the first day i started.. She knows i still like her.. But nothings changed. were still the closest bestfriends.. and .. I just love her..
This is SOOO true. Me and my best friend texf from when we wake up to when we go to sleep. But when he talks about other girls & I talk about other guys we both get jealous. People at school think we're dating our friends try to set us up. And honestly it really would be a great relationship. but we've talked about it & we don't want to lose our friendship. Neither of us like eachother we just have jealousy issues. I just sent him this video. Thank you so much your advice is SOO helpful #teamfl
I dated my best friend for almost a year.. im dating someone else now, that is my best friend like we enjoy our times so much together ! but what im trying to say is that.. the first one i dated.. were still good buds.. we talk.. we promised if we broke up , itd be for the good and thats how it is.. we' both moves on. but like jay said.. it can be really really reall good or really really bad !
I dated one of my bestfriends and now he hates me :( We don't talk anymore and things are not the same. He calls me names and makes fun of me every chance he gets. I was his first kiss and girlfriend. Yet i have to see him everyday after school. I personally think you shouldn't cus most of the times it doesnt work out in the end and you'll lose your bestfriend </3 But if your willing to take that risk, its not my dicussion. Besides life is about making mistakes and learning from those mistakes.
These situations are different for different people. Yes it can be a negative out come or it could be a positive one, but when you think about it everything in life is either negative or positive. So everything is a risk.
i have been dating my best friend ever since i was a freshman in highschool and we were the couple everyone looked up to. Eventually when we gradguated we wanted to go to different coleges so we thought it would b best if we broke it off. 5 years later we see eachother again in a tgi fridays and so we got to talking and we found out we were both single so we hooked back up. Now 13 years later we are happily maried with 2 children that we love unconditionaly. I guess what im trying to s
im dating my bestfriend, we dated for about 8 months then we broke up & things were never the same, we talked & acted like we were bestfriends still & eventually figured out breaking up was a mistake, & now were back together, its been almost a year :')
me opinion is NEVER date your best friend, sure you will fall for them and think we r so close we 'll last forever. take it from me. . . .it wont. things will become complicated and end the end you'll lose that person forever. and everytime you try to become good friends again it will make it worse. ie been there and now my X best friend and i havent talked in 3 years but we always c each other. it truely SUCKS
What If you are dating your friend and then your other friend comes in and you know you guys are hanging out and all that stuff and then you fall for each other? What should this person ( maybe it might be me that I am talking about ) do ? Help me
My best friend and her other best friend used to date for two years. They ended it cause they stopped loving each other. The funny thing is now they're best friends, they became closer than they were before and during the relationship. He is the perfect best friend to her and she hooked him up with his newest girlfriend and all of them are really close. It still can work..
its almost been 2 years with me and my girl, now im startin to have mixed emotions .sometimes i feel as though i wanna break up with her and try to date new people. but at the same time i dont wanna loose her because we been through so much. so what should i do, i really love her alot, but im confused, and the longer and longer we go out with each other it feels as though where falling apart. its hard to just break up with the one you love. </3
we did this by accident i mean in the movies right we just start sharin a twizzler and shit happend and we loved it, but instad of a relationship we decided to go FWB and its going great :)
my old best friend should watch this video. He risked everything and tried to get with me, but when i said i dont want to risk it, we lost it all. Now we are no longer friends but he all he does now is talk smack about me... whats good with that?
mann..... i dont know but i like this girl but she has some mixed feelings and im not sure what will happen cause i dated two of her friends but it didnt last cause of small issues and i do really like her but im stuck and dont know what to do. Help?
@MaryJaane713 yea he got suspended for ninety days and he moved to arkansas until summer soo yeah i text him today he was fun to talk to again he seemed alot happier i guess idk but i miss him soo much it may seem like i am writing alot this is the only way i can tell my feelings and not get juged.
this happened to me. he asked me out in april. the sad thing? he told me he'd liked me since the previous august but never told me because we were best friends. -.- then we broke up almost 4 months later and now he's dating a girl who hates me. yay.
me and my gf broke up 3 weeks ago..... 11 months of wonderfulness and i sure glad i did took that risk and it was well worth it. i had more postive than negtives in my bestfriend.
yea i went out with one of a closet friends for a week and a half and then we broke up....because we both thought the feeling was mutal and were pretty shy about the relationship and we can't even speak to each other......i wish i saw this vid 2 weeks ago then i wouldn't have lost a lover and a bestfriend.....
you and this makeup/hair guru on here @JLovesMac1 (jarmaine) would make a cute couple! even though shes taken and like i don't know if shes older than you lol . Both of you are funny and give good tips
@Sonata Just go do whatever you want I mean if u think u guys will be good together nd u trust him with all your heart nd u know he loves you more than anything in this world then why not? Go for it. If he dated ur friend or something who cares ur friend is probobly over him nd its all in the past, I know this is corny as hell but just follow your heart namean
I am currently in a relationship with my best friend :) he's perfect and our 3 year anniversary was aug. 27 :) but if we ever broke up I would regret ever letting myself get into this relationship because he's worth too much too lose :/
WOW. Great video. Its exactly how I feel but its so complicated. My best friend dated my ex and Im not sure if it'd be a good idea to date him. But I really want to. I think we're good together... any takers on this?
Like Im a girl and my bestfriend said he had feelings for me nd have feelings for him but like that's it he won't go any farther its like wtf am I suppossed 2 do
Man...I'm totally stuck in this position...I fucking don't know what to say or tell her or do...hard to just........choose another girl when you like your close friend so much...it isn't easy.
Hey man, I'm just looking forward to one of my friends. So I watched videos and came across yours. And I have to say, you're right. This video did not only teach me but it kinda made me. How should I say this, cry happily in the inside.
Thanks man. You boosted my confidence and self esteem.
well i would agree, but what if you're one of those people that can only be with that one person and only wants to be with that person? Idk..i disagree with not "sacrificing" your guy friend and taking it safe with some other person that you don't like. and i think if you really tried to make the friendship work after the failed trial, the other person will see your efforts and hopefully patch things up. The outcomes are 99% the results of how much effort the couple put into it :)
BTW @JayFluent and others how would you know when's the best time to pop the GF question? Sometimes you're over-thinking or sometimes something's actually there; if you wait too long you become great friends but nothing can happen; if you don't wait long enough even your developing friendship can get ruined by your hastiness. What would you do?
me and my best guy friend were just friends till we started going out and while we were going out neither of us talked than finally i broke the ice and he broke up with me and ever since that we havent talked.
Ah, I totally agree.I dated this really close friend of mine. I thought it was going to be perfect and for some reason, everything went too fast in our relationship and now we are not even talking to each other. And there's this little awkwardness between us =(
No lie, I do kinda regret dating my close friend.
I WANT THIS GIRL SO BAD, but she likes another guy. We've known each other for less than a year, but it feels like we are SO close. She tells me for me being in her life a short period of time, our connection is very close than some of her other friends, and she said I care so much about her, and I do. She told me I would be her friend forever, and that's all I want. Just to be in contact with her, because if I had lost her, it would be devastating. I'm getting teary eyed thinking about her. ;)
..to pay for anything and everything, i honestly dont like him to but thats just the way i was brought up, and he loves that i can be independant, and because we were aprt for 9 years we have sepreat friends and we hhave friends together that we shair, whats great about that is that we can hang out with our friends alone or together whith out someone feeling unconftorbal!
my boyfriend is the best and i love him!
i believe this is possibly the best thing that ever couldhave happend to me :)
.. i cant let anything past him, i can tell him anything good or bad, he is like my other half, im loud and obnicous and hes quite and reserved, he calms me down or i pump him up, it works so well for us, idk if its just becasue we grew up to gether and then when he moved we lost touch and then 9 years later we renuited, and then we started dating, idk but he is such a great guy and i dont know why the other girls dumped him, he is so great to me! such a gentelman like you jude! he love to pay.
Im dating my childhood best friend almost a year! our mothers dont get along but both of them knew somehow this day would come where ben and i would get together. hes now moved to the other side of the country, and i cant see him, hes graudated and i stillhave half a year to go :( i miss him to death, and love him lots, i cant wait to see him agian!
Ben is my bestfriends first and my boyfriend second, thats how its been, and it works great! he knows me so well he knows when im upset or mad..
I'm glad i saw this because i'm falling for my best friend but without him i would have nothing, we do absolutely everything together so i'd rather not risk 2 years of friendship (:
I tried dating a friend and it was a bad situation. I realized that we were better as friends than together as a couple. He didn't feel the same way though. He thought we were awesome together so when I discussed it with him he got angry and depressed. He said he couldn't be around me because I hurt him and I ultimately lost his friendship. I regret agreeing to try to have a relationship beyond friendship because now I lost my best guy friend.
I agree to an extent..but my thing also is..i know there's a lot of other people out there and all-and it's not worth losing a friendship..but there's gonna be no person like that one person,that one friend that's everything. Sure,you're risking your friendship. But if you truly care about that person,and you TRULY love them,and you've been friends for a longtime and you can't picture nobody else,then you're meant to be. But every situation's different..
cindalee1993 1 hour ago
Losing your best friend is worse than going through a break up.
bamboomuddah 19 hours ago
I'm in the 11th grade. My bestfriend since 3rd grade, moved away last year& we always had that special connection& barley told eachother, a few months back we had those feeling. & my boyfriend now of almost a year doesn't let me speak to him whatsoever which is understandable; but I miss him dearly& I mean hey.. I'm only human /:
Jackk0316 2 days ago
luckily my best friend is gay and I`m a girl ;-)
blackcoffee4evar 3 days ago
I'm a black female, and my close friend is chinese/viet. We were good friends and really liked each other but scared to say anything. Finally, he confessed to me and we were dating... But had to end it because I wanted him to go for his dreams and finish school.. I'm a good friend right? We still talk, but rarely. Miss him sometimes.. I think dating a friend you're really close to isn't a good idea :\
oneworldonegirl 3 days ago
I'm dating my best friend. It's been 6 months. <3 Btw we're both girls.
MCRobsessionx3 3 days ago in playlist Main Playlist
im dating my bestfriend...hope it turns out good lol
tasiagirl12 6 days ago
jw but do u have contats? your eyes are gorgeous lol, and im wiht my best friend now of like 2 years and its my longest realtionship so far (: haha
SillyOutspokenHope 6 days ago
You have nice eyes and a nice mouth. Wow that's weird...
HaleyRodriguez11 1 week ago
Nah she purposely wont let me close. She's told me I'll never be as close as girls are to her, cause she hates guys. Cant blame her for they've done to her, and honestly tired of going after girls and getting hurt. Maybe I'm just meant to have a best friend.
MrFrankyGification 1 week ago
awww i went out with a bestie before... it was long distance.we broke up nd are still close but not as close as we used to be. I used to be able to tell him EVERYTHING now its kinda awward. we grew up together and all.
angelsisi98 1 week ago
@elow31 Youur Eww Dont Judge Peoplee Before Youu Even Know Them !.
silvas53 1 week ago
I started dating my best friend on Valentine's day. (:
tinaisfine96 1 week ago
Thanks for telling me this. I had a huge crush on my best friend and he knew and he didnt feel the same way. He thinks I'm amazing and pretty and we talk to each other so openly. We know everything about each other. He said that he didn't like me because we aren't comparable. I was was wondering if you could do a YouTube video on compatability. Thumbs up if u agree
SHARforeverfaithful 1 week ago
I wonder if he knows this from experience
MrRawage 1 week ago
me and my best friend in the whole world went out but only for a few days then we decided we didnt want to ruin our friendship if something happened so we broke up it took like 2 days but now our conversations are the same as they used to be...funny as hell
tweetybeedy2 1 week ago
I wish I watched this before I pretty much spilled my guts out to one of my close friends. You're right, there's so many girls out there and why would I want to risk losing a friendship over a relationship? I tried taking a risk, and it didn't end up the way I wanted it to. Drake's song the motto played in my head when I was doing all this. I mean, you only live once, so take as many risks as you can. It's better to know for sure what would happen rather than be curious for the rest of your life
BrianJaySupreme 2 weeks ago
Bro~
Why your eyes so boom?? Tell me they are contacts
^^
imunderyourbed100 2 weeks ago
Me and my best friend just got out of a relationship. Actually, just like you said, it was so good until it wasnt good any longer. we went through that awkward stage just like normal but it only lasted a couple of days. We're probably better friends now since we know each other on a different level, but everything is the same as before. I think it is all how you deal with it, sometimes it can be a really rewarding experience.
BigCityDreamer123 2 weeks ago
:') i like how yhu tell wat chu' feel .!
Pluss the backround music almost made me tear a lil :') ♥
-thanks
XxMusicLuver4Lyff 2 weeks ago 2
You handsome(:
sweetcheekskellie 2 weeks ago
Am Kidd <3
DAV3R6 2 weeks ago
I'm soo scared that this will happen between me and my boyfriend. I've known him for 7 years and we just started dating 4 months ago. It's going reeal good so far. He's known for cheating but not once has he done anything to lose trust for him. I really think we might last for a while... but then again i have my doubts every now and then.
BP4LIFE0510 3 weeks ago
you are so PHUQIN gorgeous!
DesireeDeFete 3 weeks ago
I miss my best friend <|3
MiriamToTheeRamirez 3 weeks ago
And me is in this sh*t situation </3 SO true that it can be the best or the worst"
Tenzeesunshine 3 weeks ago
OMG this was sooo true it made me wanna crryy if i would have heard this before it happened
khaliyahluvluevano12 3 weeks ago
YOUR NAME IS JUDE?
watermeloncrimson 3 weeks ago
@watermeloncrimson He said DUDE not JUDE
HaterCreator808 3 weeks ago
@HaterCreator808 Actually, his name is Jude. Lol, :D
MizzBee623 3 weeks ago
@MizzBee623 Aha wow i feel like an idiot :/
HaterCreator808 2 weeks ago
I'm crying, that happened to me :'(
cattyvaldez1995 3 weeks ago
im not taking the best friend option anymore, its either hit or miss.
TookanArrow2myASS 1 month ago
awhh thats soo sweet nd your soo cute i agree sometimes it does but trust me sommetimes it dont
johnnyhotgdog 1 month ago
eyes.
33xkd 1 month ago
@CFodarp88 awww so sweettt.
Bloom458 1 month ago
Your eyes reminds me of the person I used to like!!! ILOVEYOUREYES!!!
LilMalditzKnight 1 month ago
nahh i'd rather be forever alone than date my best friend :D
whoyahtalkinto 1 month ago
AM Kidd - Somebody Special <3 perfect song for this video
KonataLalax3 1 month ago
my name's Jude :3
judegines 1 month ago
I SWEAR he says you know what i mean ? in EVERY VIDEO LOL
Breathe081 1 month ago
im crying right now i recently just lost my best friend we both liked each other and what not and yeahh an i lost everything all my friends are super close with there boyfriends and girlfriends and i just sit there thinking why did i have to ruin my friendship........ its been 4 months since i last tried to talk to him i miss him more than anything david please talk to me again i miss you more than anything </3
clumsyXregina14 1 month ago
I dated my best friend since kindergarten and it was probably the best relationship I ever had....until he cheated on me. We haven't been the same since. So really think about if you're willing to risk that friendship
TheMorganAndEvaShow 1 month ago
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beliciaduncan 1 month ago
Hmm.. the problem is.. Ive gotten with my bestfriend.. things didnt work out so she ended it. But after a duration of time.. thinking.. eventually.. we started talking, we started hanging out often.. 'til the point where it seemed like we were closer than before.. She says.. shes not ready for a relationship.. And honestly.. ive never stopped loving her since the first day i started.. She knows i still like her.. But nothings changed. were still the closest bestfriends.. and .. I just love her..
CFodarp88 1 month ago 2
This is SOOO true. Me and my best friend texf from when we wake up to when we go to sleep. But when he talks about other girls & I talk about other guys we both get jealous. People at school think we're dating our friends try to set us up. And honestly it really would be a great relationship. but we've talked about it & we don't want to lose our friendship. Neither of us like eachother we just have jealousy issues. I just sent him this video. Thank you so much your advice is SOO helpful #teamfl
Ickywickydumdum 1 month ago 3
I dated my best friend for almost a year.. im dating someone else now, that is my best friend like we enjoy our times so much together ! but what im trying to say is that.. the first one i dated.. were still good buds.. we talk.. we promised if we broke up , itd be for the good and thats how it is.. we' both moves on. but like jay said.. it can be really really reall good or really really bad !
1PaintItWhite1 1 month ago
i love his eyes. and i had that situation happen to me once. me and my best friend ended up not talking to each other for years
kougasgirl16 1 month ago
I dated one of my bestfriends and now he hates me :( We don't talk anymore and things are not the same. He calls me names and makes fun of me every chance he gets. I was his first kiss and girlfriend. Yet i have to see him everyday after school. I personally think you shouldn't cus most of the times it doesnt work out in the end and you'll lose your bestfriend </3 But if your willing to take that risk, its not my dicussion. Besides life is about making mistakes and learning from those mistakes.
AshleesxzDramaticsxz 1 month ago
You hit the nail on the head with this one my dude
ThaTKidDreW93 1 month ago
These situations are different for different people. Yes it can be a negative out come or it could be a positive one, but when you think about it everything in life is either negative or positive. So everything is a risk.
kmalters1 1 month ago
Is he like high 24/7?
GraffQueen2 1 month ago
Dear jay
i have been dating my best friend ever since i was a freshman in highschool and we were the couple everyone looked up to. Eventually when we gradguated we wanted to go to different coleges so we thought it would b best if we broke it off. 5 years later we see eachother again in a tgi fridays and so we got to talking and we found out we were both single so we hooked back up. Now 13 years later we are happily maried with 2 children that we love unconditionaly. I guess what im trying to s
MrDropkick8 1 month ago 128
@MrDropkick8 This is the sweetest thing I've read/heard all day.
kmalters1 1 month ago
@MrDropkick8 please..finish..off..sentence..
MsSouthAuckland 2 weeks ago in playlist opinions from youtube. 4
@MrDropkick8 What are you trying to say? Your sentece is cut. :'(
Bl4ckHawk1 2 weeks ago
@MrDropkick8 Your comment got cut off, bro. But, your story is super cute though.
KabaoYang00 1 week ago
im dating my bestfriend, we dated for about 8 months then we broke up & things were never the same, we talked & acted like we were bestfriends still & eventually figured out breaking up was a mistake, & now were back together, its been almost a year :')
kulstorybro223 1 month ago 3
me opinion is NEVER date your best friend, sure you will fall for them and think we r so close we 'll last forever. take it from me. . . .it wont. things will become complicated and end the end you'll lose that person forever. and everytime you try to become good friends again it will make it worse. ie been there and now my X best friend and i havent talked in 3 years but we always c each other. it truely SUCKS
C1aRaH0T 1 month ago in playlist Main Playlist
So True , Just Happened to Me .. :'/
Now I Lost My Best Friend .. And It Sucks .. Hurts .. A lot !
It was So Perfect at First , But Ending Out Being Horrible . <|3
I Remember When It Use to Be "Oreo & Goofy Goober" I Miss Those Days ! , Oh SO MUCH .
Btw She was a Girl , and I'm a Girl .. Aha`
Sativa1998 1 month ago 32
@Sativa1998 ewwwwww
elow31 1 week ago
@Sativa1998 i bet she's not that much into girls
keiron57 1 week ago
his eyes are gorgeous but they are kinda creeping me out :/
WaddupBro123 2 months ago
Damn so tru and this backround music makes me wanna cry.
latinDee013 2 months ago in playlist Liked videos
why couldn't someone had told me this before i lost my best friend
aquaangel68 2 months ago
What If you are dating your friend and then your other friend comes in and you know you guys are hanging out and all that stuff and then you fall for each other? What should this person ( maybe it might be me that I am talking about ) do ? Help me
JAYFLUENT
babyJanne3029 2 months ago
You look very high my friend. But that's okay, Mary Jane is the bomb.
Oh, and I love your videos(:
TheRealChloeEllis 2 months ago
try listening to this to a heavy metal song ahha
misticosan 2 months ago
The background music just makes the mood.
NancyReyes33 2 months ago in playlist More videos from JayFluent 3
Really have me thinking over things...I like your advice(:
sftblgrl17 2 months ago
I can relate to this video. :'(
romarvillon 2 months ago
My best friend and her other best friend used to date for two years. They ended it cause they stopped loving each other. The funny thing is now they're best friends, they became closer than they were before and during the relationship. He is the perfect best friend to her and she hooked him up with his newest girlfriend and all of them are really close. It still can work..
cutepenguinz 2 months ago
its almost been 2 years with me and my girl, now im startin to have mixed emotions .sometimes i feel as though i wanna break up with her and try to date new people. but at the same time i dont wanna loose her because we been through so much. so what should i do, i really love her alot, but im confused, and the longer and longer we go out with each other it feels as though where falling apart. its hard to just break up with the one you love. </3
ILoveMaryjane215 2 months ago
Soo tru yo love ur vids
prettyprincess2689 2 months ago
omggggggg ur eyesz iss beautiful :)
biscuitwifey 2 months ago in playlist More videos from JayFluent 2
You really have me thinking...
wehomy 2 months ago
lmao the music got me
( tear tear ] aha
ByoncaGotAnqelEyes69 2 months ago
he looks so sad in this video...
lulu88ize 2 months ago
i lovee this video-3
morganbirdsall 2 months ago
you have really good advice! thanks for that :)
dancetillidie100 2 months ago
how longs your hair?!
jellspay 2 months ago
ohhhh mannn i want your hat lol
mzlatinnnagurl 2 months ago
But What If It Doesnt Work Out ? /:
I Dont Wanna Lose Her /:
BrandinDGAF 2 months ago
thanks for this <3
ideborahk 2 months ago
U always have good advice to give
UDub4Ever 3 months ago
dudeeee i love you! your the best advice giver ever!
Ikikx000 3 months ago
we did this by accident i mean in the movies right we just start sharin a twizzler and shit happend and we loved it, but instad of a relationship we decided to go FWB and its going great :)
jimbo911fly 3 months ago
my old best friend should watch this video. He risked everything and tried to get with me, but when i said i dont want to risk it, we lost it all. Now we are no longer friends but he all he does now is talk smack about me... whats good with that?
behongiee 3 months ago
can you make a video about falling in love with your ex's best friend
RothaOung 3 months ago
i love your eyes!
paperroses1996 3 months ago in playlist Random 2
shit man your eyes .. :/ consider sunglasses for your next vid. i had to play it three times to concentrate on what youre saying
LiNueinne 3 months ago
mann..... i dont know but i like this girl but she has some mixed feelings and im not sure what will happen cause i dated two of her friends but it didnt last cause of small issues and i do really like her but im stuck and dont know what to do. Help?
RothaOung 3 months ago
I was totally distracted by your eyes...
ToRiiLouiise17 3 months ago
I have one friend like that but i would date him no matter his like my brother i wouldn't wont lose a friend..
JoquondamfJones 3 months ago
@MaryJaane713 yea he got suspended for ninety days and he moved to arkansas until summer soo yeah i text him today he was fun to talk to again he seemed alot happier i guess idk but i miss him soo much it may seem like i am writing alot this is the only way i can tell my feelings and not get juged.
TheNovemberbaby95 3 months ago
Hmmm......... this is interesting... but it doesn't always end badly, or great. Sometimes... it just ends.
RipleyShaine 4 months ago
my ex is still my best friend, but its awkward. :/
LarissasCorner 4 months ago
your so cute , I like my guy bestfriend and he likes me too : ))
prettykirsten1 4 months ago
this happened to me. he asked me out in april. the sad thing? he told me he'd liked me since the previous august but never told me because we were best friends. -.- then we broke up almost 4 months later and now he's dating a girl who hates me. yay.
imweirdsowat 4 months ago in playlist More videos from JayFluent
i love the backround msuiic<3 , its somebody special but am kidd :-*
ImNothingToLose 4 months ago in playlist Main Playlist
i rreaaaally wish i couldaa seen this video before i lost my everything.. :\
LexiLexi4123 4 months ago 122
He make so much sense in his videos i wanna cry T-T
VitalLori 4 months ago 89
i actually love this!
imtotallyawsome1 4 months ago
How can u tell a girl likes u.??
TheGoodClanOG 4 months ago
losing yer best friend to a broken relationship is horrible
foshizzlemychicken 4 months ago
me and my gf broke up 3 weeks ago..... 11 months of wonderfulness and i sure glad i did took that risk and it was well worth it. i had more postive than negtives in my bestfriend.
tobiizmadara 4 months ago in playlist More videos from JayFluent
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DAMN THIS GUY IS FINE!!!!!
17shybaby 4 months ago in playlist Main Playlist
hmm marry me?
daniellabouhot 4 months ago
yea i went out with one of a closet friends for a week and a half and then we broke up....because we both thought the feeling was mutal and were pretty shy about the relationship and we can't even speak to each other......i wish i saw this vid 2 weeks ago then i wouldn't have lost a lover and a bestfriend.....
0oMunchie 4 months ago
Well with me...love taking Risks
AwsomeCuban 4 months ago
where was this video 4 months ago :'(
Shaundra11 4 months ago
Man i dun know why i cried watching this
I was too late to ask her out
She's with someone else now
We were Best friends now were not even friends now ..
themostwanteddevil 4 months ago
This music and you made me want to cry lol
BlueEyedBeautyMakeup 4 months ago
you and this makeup/hair guru on here @JLovesMac1 (jarmaine) would make a cute couple! even though shes taken and like i don't know if shes older than you lol . Both of you are funny and give good tips
JayNessUh 5 months ago
Omghee . Hes Cuutee :) . And sweet
Sweetiie14 5 months ago
Well, I dated my best friend mikey and we broke up but were still good friends and now Were rlly close again
21hotbabygirl 5 months ago
nice eyes and hat!!!!!!!!!!
bonita3856 5 months ago
he makes it seem so sad...
ayeeeitshiriene 5 months ago
Only if i saw this video,
before i lost my best friend.
xHoenatorx 5 months ago
10 people dont have friends or bestfriends lol
pntballdre13 5 months ago
I was watching this video then my bestfriend messaged me:(
killasboi 5 months ago
Thats true mann im falling for my bestfriend :)
TheGoodClanOG 5 months ago
the way he's talking makes it sound like it just happened to him when he starts talking about it not working out
myjuto369 5 months ago
wish i coulda seen this b4.
XPeaceLoveAndHempX 5 months ago
Your voice is so cute, youre so cuteeeeeeee. <3
Chazmataz0117 5 months ago
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Its worth it
JuliaLuvsChu 5 months ago
wow, I like everything you say...
I dated my so called bestfriend
and I fuckin hate him now...
I hope he gets hit by a truck or something...
Im2freshupindisbitch 5 months ago
@Im2freshupindisbitch I feel you -______-" .
MaureenJanee 5 months ago
@Sonata Just go do whatever you want I mean if u think u guys will be good together nd u trust him with all your heart nd u know he loves you more than anything in this world then why not? Go for it. If he dated ur friend or something who cares ur friend is probobly over him nd its all in the past, I know this is corny as hell but just follow your heart namean
loldudeIDC 6 months ago
I am currently in a relationship with my best friend :) he's perfect and our 3 year anniversary was aug. 27 :) but if we ever broke up I would regret ever letting myself get into this relationship because he's worth too much too lose :/
kayroza 6 months ago
WOW. Great video. Its exactly how I feel but its so complicated. My best friend dated my ex and Im not sure if it'd be a good idea to date him. But I really want to. I think we're good together... any takers on this?
MoonlightSonata1990 6 months ago
He seems more ..I dno emotional? in this vid than others...maybe talking from experience
fruitloop561 6 months ago
Like Im a girl and my bestfriend said he had feelings for me nd have feelings for him but like that's it he won't go any farther its like wtf am I suppossed 2 do
TheNovemberbaby95 6 months ago
@TheNovemberbaby95 thats exactly whats going on with me and my bestfriend !
we even act like a couple in school , his mom knows about me but he wants to stay single .
it relle fucked up cuss theres nothing else to do .
MaryJaane713 6 months ago
i dated one of my bestfriends and we broke up then i went out with his bestfriend and we broke
goku4z 6 months ago
Man...I'm totally stuck in this position...I fucking don't know what to say or tell her or do...hard to just........choose another girl when you like your close friend so much...it isn't easy.
koreanladies1 6 months ago
Hey man, I'm just looking forward to one of my friends. So I watched videos and came across yours. And I have to say, you're right. This video did not only teach me but it kinda made me. How should I say this, cry happily in the inside.
Thanks man. You boosted my confidence and self esteem.
Shrumins 6 months ago
Where the hell did you get that hat?!?! I'm jealous af lemme know doe.
MegaEctasy 6 months ago
MAX<3 My Best Friend :D I Love Him More Than Life :D
SwiftieBieber4lyf 6 months ago
its like jumping of a cliff. If you ask ur bf and they say no u fall, if they say yes u fly
unfortunately we fell...
MrJswan29 6 months ago
how old are you, jaaaay?! <3
shrimpnsalt12 6 months ago
Just saying here, I'm in-love with your eyes. <3.
iiZoeHoe 6 months ago
Yeah im 16, and theirs no way im losing my girlfriend/bestfriend ever im marrying her!! I LOVE YOU PERLA!!!! 3/14/11!!!!
KxSAWxGA 6 months ago
i want you to be my best friend. :)
xbootyshakur 6 months ago
awwwh (:
this is why we have friends with beniiffits ;)
mariinaxlove 7 months ago
I dated my bestfriend and then we broke up and it actually made us closer and we still love eachother
MsAwesome6814 7 months ago
we were bestfriends for over a year, we went out now we dont speak):
budweiserprincess09 7 months ago
well i would agree, but what if you're one of those people that can only be with that one person and only wants to be with that person? Idk..i disagree with not "sacrificing" your guy friend and taking it safe with some other person that you don't like. and i think if you really tried to make the friendship work after the failed trial, the other person will see your efforts and hopefully patch things up. The outcomes are 99% the results of how much effort the couple put into it :)
YooJaeJoon 7 months ago
My favorite video-3
elmo4ever97 7 months ago
:,) I love this video!
TheJennievillanueva 7 months ago
gayyyyyyyy
TheSupertermite 7 months ago
Awwww
johnnysbabe4ever 7 months ago
BTW @JayFluent and others how would you know when's the best time to pop the GF question? Sometimes you're over-thinking or sometimes something's actually there; if you wait too long you become great friends but nothing can happen; if you don't wait long enough even your developing friendship can get ruined by your hastiness. What would you do?
movifreek 7 months ago
just like walking on a tightrope (either you spectacularly walk it with great equilibrium or you fall on your face)
I'm glad to still be good friends with this girl I liked b/c I told her I liked her
movifreek 7 months ago
i wish you would have seen this video b4 i lost my bestfriend
aquaangel68 7 months ago 77
@aquaangel68 same here i went to depression for about 3 months
vladixpp 5 months ago
i tried this she stared hating me it started turning REALLY REALLY bad....
xlilxtommyx 7 months ago
me and my best guy friend were just friends till we started going out and while we were going out neither of us talked than finally i broke the ice and he broke up with me and ever since that we havent talked.
and im sure lots say this i regret it
AGgirl84 7 months ago
Ah, I totally agree.I dated this really close friend of mine. I thought it was going to be perfect and for some reason, everything went too fast in our relationship and now we are not even talking to each other. And there's this little awkwardness between us =(
No lie, I do kinda regret dating my close friend.
jiggyy7 7 months ago
-awww!
amber7500 7 months ago
I WANT THIS GIRL SO BAD, but she likes another guy. We've known each other for less than a year, but it feels like we are SO close. She tells me for me being in her life a short period of time, our connection is very close than some of her other friends, and she said I care so much about her, and I do. She told me I would be her friend forever, and that's all I want. Just to be in contact with her, because if I had lost her, it would be devastating. I'm getting teary eyed thinking about her. ;)
1992HappyFeet 7 months ago
thumbs up if you're trying to click the "Background Music" annotation but you can't haha
gmag070 7 months ago 22
..to pay for anything and everything, i honestly dont like him to but thats just the way i was brought up, and he loves that i can be independant, and because we were aprt for 9 years we have sepreat friends and we hhave friends together that we shair, whats great about that is that we can hang out with our friends alone or together whith out someone feeling unconftorbal!
my boyfriend is the best and i love him!
i believe this is possibly the best thing that ever couldhave happend to me :)
AODlover 7 months ago
.. i cant let anything past him, i can tell him anything good or bad, he is like my other half, im loud and obnicous and hes quite and reserved, he calms me down or i pump him up, it works so well for us, idk if its just becasue we grew up to gether and then when he moved we lost touch and then 9 years later we renuited, and then we started dating, idk but he is such a great guy and i dont know why the other girls dumped him, he is so great to me! such a gentelman like you jude! he love to pay.
AODlover 7 months ago
Im dating my childhood best friend almost a year! our mothers dont get along but both of them knew somehow this day would come where ben and i would get together. hes now moved to the other side of the country, and i cant see him, hes graudated and i stillhave half a year to go :( i miss him to death, and love him lots, i cant wait to see him agian!
Ben is my bestfriends first and my boyfriend second, thats how its been, and it works great! he knows me so well he knows when im upset or mad..
AODlover 7 months ago
@WazuppDee yeaaa, its somebody special by AM KIDD
ayOxSydney09 7 months ago
iADORE your hat.!
SnickazBabiGuh 7 months ago
@agentrussia same here!!! :(
Gymnast152 7 months ago
i want to marry you.
TheBeautyflash 7 months ago
I'm glad i saw this because i'm falling for my best friend but without him i would have nothing, we do absolutely everything together so i'd rather not risk 2 years of friendship (:
BuubbaHuubba 7 months ago
I tried dating a friend and it was a bad situation. I realized that we were better as friends than together as a couple. He didn't feel the same way though. He thought we were awesome together so when I discussed it with him he got angry and depressed. He said he couldn't be around me because I hurt him and I ultimately lost his friendship. I regret agreeing to try to have a relationship beyond friendship because now I lost my best guy friend.
mskrisnguyen 7 months ago