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  • @rockinsingleguy88 you do realize how many marriages go to hell from financial struggles in the world right? its FAR more then dirt poor couples living happily. you might find peace and happiness in a third world country where poverty is normal and women accept who you are, but any country above that, good luck

  • @rockinsingleguy88 you cant really expect a normal chick to live with someone making less then $20,000 a year and be happy about it, with all the struggling, overtime, bills, children going on. i'm not saying girls are looking for millionares, so get that shit outta your head. im saying as a man, you should at least make a median average income around 30-80k a year so you can actually have your family, not just your wife, but your children to live comfortably with the best life they can have.

  • @rockinsingleguy88 thats a delusional dream, grow up and actually get used to knowing whats it like raising a family. girls arent looking for the fattest pocketbook, just someone who's not a total fking loser. nobody loves you if your a fucking short midget with down syndrome that has no means of supporting yourself let alone a family, 1 in a billion chance your gonna find someone that'll agree to love you and be your wife. sounds fucked up but thats how the real world is.

  • @rockinsingleguy88 lets just say if your know anything about commitment and raising a family, you'd value working on yourself, i worked hard on my education to get the job i have right now and my family is living comfortably, with two partners having similar but high enough levels of income, one can support the other if hardship falls on them. Its not that women are gold diggers like you said, its just societal norm that girls want a guy that can provide security, emotional and fiscal

  • 16 never had an actuall gf

  • Ugh. Way to invalidate people's feelings.

  • LoL but my gal left me bcos of my BB- See my channel for the story

  • I stutter.. so no matter what I say or do I'll get rejected or made fun of. Thats why I don't even bother talking to anyone.. ^^

  • I am a woman and when I go out I get approached by a lot of men. I would like to find someone special, but I don't want to hurt anyones feelings. I end up in polite conversation with someone I'm not interested in (the drunkest and the loudest seem to approach the fastest) and the good guys never get a chance. How do I thin the crowd (or say I'm not interested) without being hurtful, keeping a man's self esteem intact.

  • How to reject without hurting? Sounds like a good topic for a future video - Let me keep that one in mind

  • @vitalcoaching But youre gay?

  • @legggggggggy haha! No not at all - I love women

  • @harleemorgan You must have what call a bitch inside you !

    Bitch is a bitch like it or hate it pussy !

  • Same here im 21 and still a virgin..

  • GET RID OF THE SUNGLASSES

  • Fear of rejection? "Give me your wallet, bitch, or I'll crush your fuckin' face!" No rejection + money to spend

  • i've gotten some phone numbers and they seemed to like me and then never answered my call or called me back.... this has happened to me many times. I'm trying to nourish my confidence back to life. it would be better if they just said NO instead of laughing or giving me a number and then not answering.

  • @BigAssROMAN oh, that happened to my friend on his birthday except she gave him the number of some married couple. talk about awkward.

  • damn i need spanish class!

  • COol video dude. Stop by my CHannel PAGE. hope you enjoy my videos too!

    Later man

  • damn guys come on im 13 and kisses who know how many times but im still a virgin and millions of girlfriends if i can do u can to and im am shy as hell come on try it if u get rejected than try some other place around your town or city or state just make sure u get there # or u can meet back up with them soem time in the future good luck hope u get a girlfrined or get a reall kiss

  • damn you guys need to step your game up, lost my V card at 14, 15 now and hav fucked 6 diff girls :D... yea i know that makes no sense up that im lookin this up but im board.

  • i'm getting girl talking tips on youtube..... what am i doing with my life

  • its okay a lot of men o though what we have to go through but look at it this way you come from a long line of players in your family that ended up making you. dealing with woman is in your blood

  • @MaleLonelinessSyndro if you have enough swagg

  • @MaleLonelinessSyndro uhm i dont know what your talking about but ppl live just fine over here. even when ppl say shit about the economy, everyone is still making a good medium salary a decent living with more then enough to go out and date. I do agree that if you that there SHOULD be an acceptable income you must acheive. you must have some level of power and confidence in your self first before you can put all your focus on finding a mate. Its called working on self guys, DO IT =]

  • @MaleLonelinessSyndro ugly ass fucks with enough confidence, swag and style get bitches this happens everywhere. Every women wants a handsome prince with a fat wallet but in real life that doesnt happen as loong as you have an Okay income you'll be able to snag some bitches. Doctors like you generalize too much and dont really see every aspect of life out there so dont shut down peoples hopes like that my good man. practice makes perfect but it takes some longer then others.

  • the worst rejection is when you are masturbating and your hand falls asleep!!!

  • you are right. I was a guy with a high confidence and good self-esteem, but the many girls that rejected me destroyed my confidence quite rapidly. some in a pretty mean way.

    Girls , if you dont like a guy who is trying to ask you out , say it in a polite way !

  • Guys, go to stopgivingafuck.(dot) com Best shit! It really changed my perception on life and women, Im so fucking confident

  • @awefuckit Dude nice site, can't believe I never seen it before. Thanks.

  • @Subtalvik2 yup, and the book is awesome, there is another great podcast fomr this guy go to seductiondatabase(dot)com sign up is completely free, u can download just about Every seduction product in the world free... lol

  • YALL TIME WILL  COME

  • rejection fucks u up from the inside out i am doing my best to say if a woman likes u cool if she do-sent cool

  • ive been rejected my whole life, and it does hurt. but that doesnt mean u cant have hope.you could be rejected 100 times in a row, but if you stop trying all together then you will never know if there was anyone out there for you.

  • maybe is time to ask on a date some more ugly girl. Ive been rejected my whole life also, then after the age of 25 i changed aproach and i am now talking only to ugly girls and it work out.

  • @ppooler

    Don't lower your expectations THAT far.

  • @ppooler lmao

  • italian or russian?

  • thanks man you have boosted my confidence a little and made me feel better

  • im used to rejection so meh at least i have my dreams........even in my dreams i get rejected :D

  • At-least you try, right? As-long as you keep trying miss or mister perfect is on the sideline waiting for you, Good luck! ^_^

  • @omegablue22 #LOL

  • hahahhahahaha. "Rejection is an arrow aimed at attacking you". This guy's accent OMG

  • I do like men with this attitude. We've all been approached by them, they seem to have no fear and it makes you comfortable. It's actually an attractive quality.

    I use to live upstairs from an Italian guy, (thick Italian accent and all) who use to ask me out daily. I always said no and he always replied dramatically, "I will only ask one more time!"

    It became a joke between us and I never felt uncomfortable rejecting him. I got the feeling he was even amused by it. I guess I was practice.

  • @kerryoke68 that guy was just playing the fool seeing if you WOULD get serious one day. Me, I would have understood and gone to the next girl. No use in trying something that doesn't work repeatedly. It's a numbers game for us guys. That's why this guy is saying that it doesn't matter if you get rejected. That's the way I look at it too because I mean, frankly what she says does not matter to me because it is only simply an invitation to get to know someone and it is the only way.

  • I think you are right shechshire.

    I admire men for their courage in approaching women that way. I can understand you have to sometimes take the risk, or the person is gone and the moment is lost. Even if it's not a match it's a compliment to be approached and we women have to acknowledge that it took some bravery. It's the things we don't do that we regret. We will never regret trying.

    Also, I think it helps both genders to realise there are many many fish in the sea. :)

  • i got rejected once went to a party and i drunk 28 botteles of red bull woke up in the car with a black eye and i forgot the whole thing.

  • I am a 19 year old virgin who has never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl I need some serious help

  • same here only I'm 20 :(

  • @fullhousefrek same here only I'm 24 (pathetic, i know)

  • @fullhousefrek same here only i'm 21 :(

  • @BigAssROMAN me too :(

  • hahahaha im 14 and ive had sex 4 times!! :L

  • @moddingtuts11 atta boi...lol

  • @moddingtuts11 LMAO..yeah and im actually hugh hefner -.-

  • @fullhousefrek 17...

  • @fullhousefrek that man first of all looks like a fucking gay fish and talking shit

    his english sounds poor and sucks !

  • dont rush it. im 15 and im not a virgin. and regret it completely. i lost it to a stupid person. it broke my heart to be honest. so seriously. dont rush it.

  • your a faggot

  • im a fagget cause i feelings? dude, grow the fuck up.

  • @xTheBl00dx trust me young one it's better to regret than to be a virgen like at 20 haha I mean unless your into soe religen. btw dont give that advise to other guys in the same situation.

  • No shit you need help.

  • I'm a girl and no matter what we say sex hurts but kissing is fun, I like to cuddle but everybody is different:D

    And I really like these comments there so cute:D If guys would talk to me like this without cussing, just honest I'd love it and totaly date both of you guys..:D Serously

  • well I have been out a few times with a few girls, but nothing ever came out of it. As for your comment it is quite strange, I would have thought the oppossite was true. Maybe I am just approaching this situation the wrong way.

  • maybe, but keep in mind that all wemon are different, so the more friendly questions you ask and get to know them the more likley you are to get something out of it you'll enjoy:D

  • Tell you what, alcohol helps. :D

  • @laetrille dont worrry man..19 still hella young..just care about the quality of women you are going to get later..not about now..

  • The only help I can give you is to get a lots of money.

    Girls cares ONLY about a guy who has money.

  • @laetrille confidence is the key!

  • @laetrille

    ur ugly then

    lets say your the male version of susan boyle

  • @laetrille

    Sex isn't that great, seriously. Had it, not...really interested.

    The thing is, you should only do it with someone you care about...and when you are done, you will feel something you have never felt before. No pleasure, but a warm, glowing feeling inside yourself. I'm speaking of experience. WAIT until you find someone that you REALLY care for, don't use your relationship as an excuse to fuck like rabbits.

  • @laetrille kill urself

  • @laetrille check my side the dating success for men program - It's just $19 and will give you loads of ideas on how to improve your game - all you have to do is START! within a couple of months your love life could radically shift! But you have to start now instead of looking for excuses - Realize that dating is a set of skills you can learn like almost anything else in life

  • @laetrille relax and just tell anyone who asks about it that you're catholic.

  • @laetrille I've been there man... it SUCKS! but you're not the only one. It finally happened for me. Stay strong and listen to this guy.

  • @laetrille just go for it and have a laugh....Anyone tried "secretshag.co uk" I can`t believe how many people are here in UK wanting a secret ride.

  • keep in mind the wrong women can kill you

  • WTF!? don't be a bunch of losers!!!! you dont need a manual to talk to women! c'mon! it's not like we're gonna eat ya alive or something, and what do you care if some girl is not interested? just keep walkin and go for the next one who might be...

    seriously, it's not that big deal

    lol

  • i need a manual

  • me too

  • u dont understand

  • yea i agree with you if you bitches say no or im not interrested then so what but these are some good tips so dont knock em hoe...

  • u know what, i changed my mind, guys like you might need a manual, on manners first, cause if you keep on callin' us bitches you're gonna be searchin' for a while, and btw, you're wrong if you think that callin me a "hoe" offended me, specially coming from a guy who knows nothing about me, alright? loydy-boy?

    Honestly, if you listen carefully, the guy is pretty much tellin you what i did, it's all about self confidence, if you don't have it you'll always be afraid, but i get thumbs down right?

  • thats how 90% of females act like bitches and hoes and i dont need this im a pretty boy that can get any bitch i want...

  • not too smart though

  • i guess bitch...

  • no need to guess...FACT

  • fact what? that your a stupid bitch that keeps responding to my comments?

  • unless you haven't noticed, you're responding to mine as well...besides, i'm not getting tired of annoying you XD

  • your just further proving my point BIIIIIITCH!!!!! and no problem im not getting annoyed...why would i get annoyed by a hoe?

  • you didn't have a point to start with! remember how limited and hollow your brain is?

  • my point was if your too stupid to read " 90% of women are bitches and hoes" keep your trap closed and make some babies!

  • yeah, i read that pointless comment, seems to me that's all you can write about...and i'll pass on the babies for now, don't you have some life to live kid?

  • I dont have enough Sense to be afraid of rejection. I dont give a f... lol Either we do or we dont whatever..Next..

  • get her pissed get ur self pissed simple

  • WHATA REJECT...just walk up and rubb her pussy no talkin

  • lol why thumbs down my last comment? You know it's true, alcohol really does help :D

  • you rite it works for me to!

  • yea alcohol really does help alot. I'm a really shy guy, but once i get buzzed, i can basicly say anything without regretting it. I would say it's like my medicine for shyness :D

  • shit dude i know i dont talk to girls then i got pretty drunk and i was like a sex man lol

  • preach on thatz sooooooooooo tru

  • Alcohol helps you get over the fear.

  • your an awesome guy i watched most ur vids, but about the flirting topic i abandonned that a long time ago

  • If you want women. Focus on having fun in your life. When your having fun for a period of time you'll start changing your flow and radiating a fun happy with life vibe. Girls want guys who are stable because most girls are batty as hell. So just work on having fun. Look at this man, he's not the best looking guy on the planet but he has the confidence to post videos on youtube and he obviously has no problems with women. I had problems with girls in high school but now I date multiple women.

  • lol! i date multiple women haha

  • hey i red your comment on you tube that you post last month...are you tellin that this man help you in dating multiple women,,,im sorry im just confused on your comment if a person is already having fun..he dont need this advised because he is already happy right?if a person is happy and contented he just simply enjoy it with no more question...

  • i cant believe this dude is teaching guys about women seriously if you listen to this dude you need to re evaluate your life

  • yeaaaaaa

  • he said "how to talk to WEEMAN" on 0:08 XD XD XD LOL HES FUNNY XD

  • There is hot girl in our school and i dont know her i am scared to talk to her SHIT!!! What to do>?

  • Don't do anything. She is probably not interested in you anyway.

  • THATS MEAN :(

  • first of all buddy over come your fear...its not like its gonna cause physical damage to you, and second of all be yourself....go up to her say hi, smile, ask her name, and other random questions...try to be funny, not toooo funny and hopefully you will have her in bed before any other douchebag!! good luck...tell me what happens

  • Thx dude! But i went to her and like HEEEY!!! She looked at me weird then next day i came to her again and i was like, so why dont u say to me yesterday she like "i dont know" then i like why? She like go away, i was like WoT? She like GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME!

  • hahahaahahaahahahahahhaah oh man dont mean to laugh at you! now lets recap, where was she when you said hi? was she wit anyone? and how did you say it? did you look calm or edgy/nerdy? these have big effects, dude i will help you get this chick bro!

  • LOL NICE

  • omg he would lmfao!!! :D nice one

  • This guys awesome

  • I'm really good dealing with women on the internet...

    The problem is real life...

  • hahahahaha yo man, an easy way to tell if ah girl is interested is how she looks at you.

    For example say your in ah bar. You make eye contact with her and smile. If she does the same your good. But be careful, I recommend you smile and make contact, then turn away. Then look back like 20 seconds later and make the same eye contact to verify that she wasn't looking at the guy behind you.

  • Totally true man..

  • Most negative emotions (anxiety, fear of failure, nervous, etc.) are a result of our thoughts. Negative emotions are counter-productive. If you control your thoughts, you can control your feelings.

    Talk yourself out of being nervous, anxious, etc. You'll wind up realizing your strengths and potential. You'll feel and act confident.

    Be true to yourself, pursue your interests, take calculated risks, treat others well, improve yourself (mind, body, etc.), and you'll be more desirable to women.

  • weman :DDD

  • thanx so much.. id been feeling so down until now

  • lol i always try to ask a girl out but im scared of rejection because my nerdy friend will ruin it for me because he follows me WHEREVER i go!

  • lol , you have your own milhouse

  • nice advice thanks

  • Fear of rejection is the only thing that keeps a lot of guys from saying a lot of really dumb things.. realllly dumb

  • hey man, im good with girls. I talk to this girl alot, and she talks to me, she smiles at me, and i smile at her. We talk to eachother alot. But im not sure in this situation if she likes me. can you help? thnks!

  • yea.same situation here.i want to talk to this girl but i am always afrade if she says no.or what do i say period.

  • being confident around women is a skill your TRAIN

  • i'm in the same situation bro

  • dude i've been doing this method for years and ending up with tons of hotties... i'm ugly as fuck man but i still can get em'. As long as you could make them laugh BAM you fuckin got her dude :) only flirt a little, try to talk alot and make jokes then you got it =]

  • dude as long as you feel good about yourself and you have high sef esteam you'll be ok bra

  • The worst thing that can happen: be pepper sprayed by the female, accused of sexual assault, be thrown in jail and raped to death for 2 years, and never again be able to find a decent job.

  • I can understand him perfectly.

  • straight up, just be honest with her, what do you have to losE?

  • alot

  • play her a song ill write the lyrics "hey girll.... i realy like you .. do you wanna havee sex... or just suck my dick.... ohhhh yeahhhhhhh ohhh yeahhhhh come on girl ohhh yeahh i love you." use that and play the song with the triangle..

  • hahahahahhahaha!!!!!!

  • i like this girl in my class

    but i dnt kno if she likes me but shes looking at me wenever i look at her

    and i dont kno if wat kind of look shes givin me.

  • Ask her if she has time for some after school things, if she will be considering it thats so so, if she will say yeah, they you're sure :)

  • ask her

  • same thing here too bro

  • Bad audio.

  • i can bearly understand a word hes saying but good vid

  • i like this chick in my school but im shy so i hope this helps.

  • Hey I'll try that. I'll come up with a couple of lines with this girl I like at school. Your a genius.

  • thanks

  • theres this girl in my school were we are in the same class and iv just found out that she likes me and i do to but we are both shy and i dont no when and how to ask here out eny help plz

  • so true, my friends always ask me how i can walk up to anyone and talk to them freely. i always open with a question/compliment so they respond and commit to the interaction. i get a lot of waitresses with "how do you stay so skinny working here with all this food around". as for rejection, i just don't care. what are they going to do? beat me up? it just takes practice.

  • sounds good ;)

  • I can get the girl im just wondering what will i talk about when i actually get in the relationship with her i get frightened

  • that's the nexts set of skills - watch my vids for couples and relationships or check my site. the channel is called vital couples

  • telling you! - walking away after a mind blowing compliment leaves a girl panting! (Don't try this on the Barbie type (high maintenance girls - they'll suck you dry guys!).. they receive this sooooooooo frequently it means nothing since it forms most of thier waking day!)You should try to recognise the girls to can can take to a soccer match, get drunk with, play fight with and make mad mad passionate love to anywhere and doing it right.. anytime!!

  • Absolutely true! well said!

  • all it needs is a smile, look straight into her eye and say 'hi!- noticed you and gotta tell you.. you look absolutly amazing anyway, glad I got to tell you, gotta go now - hope to see you around another time eh?'- and do that! - walk away! you given her contact - give her the choice of what happens next.. a man that pushes it is vile to any woman and that is where it goes wrong where you are waiting for something miraculous to happen (yeah right!!)

  • as you move, make sure you can still see her and that she can still see you through the crowd - after a time of eye contact, mouth to her and indicate you want to talk - at this point if she refuses.. what have you lost? nothing.. if she's playing this game she will slip off anf head for the toilets - that is a great interception point! (sounds terrible I know!) but she's out of the gaze of her friends as so are you -

  • I always say this as being a woman - be confident! - a big turn off for women are hesitant fumbling men, you feel stupid especially in front of a girls friends, a wamn wants the man that her friends also wants! - yes.. it starts as a game.. you men just have to know how to play it! - biggest mistake you could make - rushing in.. the game is to string her along as long as you can.. keep the eye contact, smiles, raise of the eyebrow, move around the room but..

  • Okey, thanks, i'll try. I hope i overcome my fear.

  • How do i overcome the fear of walking up to a gal?, everytime i wuzz out, many girls have been giving me eye contact, but i'am too afraid that i might of missunderstood her and make a fool of myself, what to do!?

  • as I said in the vid, have a couple of openers ready - Something you practice and think about before hand - This is agood place to start

  • can you give us examples of some openers please?

  • check my site - "dating for men" channel

  • i appreciate the response, your very helpful.