U r sweet, beautiful and fuuny! This helped me, I was rolling with this one guy and I started out with hella swag, but it drifted away from me. I need to get that back! Thanks babe!
My favorite video you've ever done and I'm not even a "thick chick". I think we're all a little self-conscience regardless of what we look like, just of people judging. But I still love this video even w/o being a thick chick!
You are the BEST role model. I don't know what these other people are talking about. It's not like you're promoting sex or telling teenagers it's a good idea. You're simply promoting confidence and self-acceptance and that's a beautiful thing. Thank you for making this video. :)
this is SOOO true i was like crazy self consious before and then the same happened to me it just clicked.. guys dont care about your imperfections if you dont.. they get annoyed when you cover up they want to see thats why theyre trying in the first place obviously if they take of your shirt its because they want to see it.. so as you said you gotta act confident and they love it
i have to say this, i have NOOO self-confidence what so ever no matter what i do. i try i really do but i'm always soo fuckin self conscious i dont feel good in my body i work out i diet but nothing seems to work D': the problem is, lots of people say im not fat or overweight or even at risk of being overweight ! they say im at risk of being underweight and i just dont believe them!! i think they're justing saying that to raise my confidence !!!!! what should i do ?!! :"( please help me.
This chicks awesome, she's the kinds girl that attracts me Chubby and not ashamed of it, i'm skinny but I likes girls with meat on there bones Hooah!
@SojournToPerfection true but still,there is a bunch of little kids looking at stuff and they might run upon your vid. and what do you think is gunna happen ?
@sweety3611 You ought to relax! There is worse stuff on the internet and youtube than a beautiful girl telling others to be confident and embrace their bodies. Also, sex should not be a taboo (not that she's even explicitly talking about it).
BTW: Spellingwise you're not exactly a good role model, either!
Rachel,I cant explain on how much your videos help me like this one .i thought i wasnt beautiful but your video has made me think im beautifull and that if guys cant handle us thick chicks they dont deserve me.
keep what your doing because it looks like your helping alot of people
SO TRUE. thank you! is it werid that sometimes i believe you more than i believe my mother????? LOL. me and her were discussing this guy that kinda stopped liking me.....and she was telling me how he probaly missed the person he first met, the confident, happy one and i have gone back to that and he seems to like me again......
So true..... you explained it in a way that made it so easy to understand. I've been self-conscious about myself because I got stretch marks from when I used to be heavier. But you're right.... my boyfriend obviously doesn't mind it..... otherwise he wouldn't be with me :)
when You say putty in your hands what exactly do You mean? Do these guys buy You whatever you like and are at your beckon and call at all times? Basically like a pussy cat?
I'm a thick chick! It's taken me16 years of being bigger then everyone in my class to realize that really, I'm blessed. I hated having a bigger chest and hips then everyone. But finally I have come to accept it. And even now I'm not completely okay with it. I still have my days where I call myself fat and ugly. It's all on the inside. And it's nice to see someone who understands and speaks out for girls like us.
@SojournToPerfection lol you made me smile + laugh again <3 well, i'm trying to build up my confidence lol but insecurity is a bitch :P and really, i'm the one to blame if i don't try my best to improve on the things that i am not satisfied about myself so :P
so so so true, i'm a thick girl as well I'm married my husband loves my body, it's all about your confidence and self esteam well said. love the video
Rachel, I came across your channel when searching for videos on how to talk to guys. I must say you've done a wonderful job of breaking it down so that the rest of us can understand it! It's refreshing to hear realistic and honest advice from a woman in my own age range. Keep doing what you're doing and I look forward to watching more of your dating videos. :)
awsome vid!! :) what would u say to a guy who wasn't the skinniest guy walkin? my bf is kinda on the thicker side and he is SOOO self conscience about it what can i tell him to make him feel better?
Big up to Rachel peace and loveeeee <3
Amaziine 2 days ago
@love2wearVS U think ur fat im a size 7
DramaQueen9324 1 week ago
Made Me Cry. Thank You So Much. I Wish I Could Of Found You Sooner ♥
SexyLittleKitten227 2 weeks ago
great tip!
ForeverHis100707 1 month ago
Wow seriously you are amazing! ♥
Thank you so much!!
piikapoka 1 month ago
Im not thick, but im. Very flat chested and have no shape, buthis still helped!(:
LearnCheer 1 month ago
U r sweet, beautiful and fuuny! This helped me, I was rolling with this one guy and I started out with hella swag, but it drifted away from me. I need to get that back! Thanks babe!
LadyScrabble 2 months ago
My favorite video you've ever done and I'm not even a "thick chick". I think we're all a little self-conscience regardless of what we look like, just of people judging. But I still love this video even w/o being a thick chick!
ToniGurl94 2 months ago
What's a 13-14 in U.K size??
funnyMAKElaugh 2 months ago
Also girls are just as easy to manipulate, especially if there dating assholes or non nice guys
skypers3 3 months ago in playlist More videos from SojournToPerfection
I like thick girls and basicaly anykind of girls but i guess that means im a nice guy so the girls wont like me huh
skypers3 3 months ago in playlist More videos from SojournToPerfection
your awesome
812jessmess 3 months ago
look at 1:28
TankTitanGizmo 3 months ago
''Come and get It big boy'' haha!!!!! (: luv it
Cbreezyluva6 3 months ago
cant you just turn the light off??
mandycupkakes 3 months ago
thanks, this is so true!! love you!
alessandrahaha 4 months ago
Im a size 3. I think imma fat ass with motherfucking giant thies :(
love2wearVS 4 months ago
ive watched like all yur vids and there so much help.! thankyu.! xox
TheWhiteDog96 4 months ago
You are the BEST role model. I don't know what these other people are talking about. It's not like you're promoting sex or telling teenagers it's a good idea. You're simply promoting confidence and self-acceptance and that's a beautiful thing. Thank you for making this video. :)
missmusiclover1717 4 months ago in playlist Liked 18
@missmusiclover1717
Thanks, love. :) ♥
SojournToPerfection 4 months ago
Very much truth in this video.
YksiSuomalainen 4 months ago in playlist Lisää videoita käyttäjältä SojournToPerfection
Thank you sooooooooooooooo much!!!
ZeldaMoon64 4 months ago
I just love how you call guys creatures, its sorta true. By the way, youve got some very good points, thanks
KayliO5 4 months ago
You are so cool :D
ahaha :)
AriadIllihcA 5 months ago in playlist More videos from SojournToPerfection
this is SOOO true i was like crazy self consious before and then the same happened to me it just clicked.. guys dont care about your imperfections if you dont.. they get annoyed when you cover up they want to see thats why theyre trying in the first place obviously if they take of your shirt its because they want to see it.. so as you said you gotta act confident and they love it
AnitaJade93 5 months ago
Why The Hell Is he With Me Lol
MuSiClOvEr8o8 6 months ago
REMEMBER, NO MATTER HOW BIG YOU ARE, THERE IS ALWAYS A WOMAN BIGGER THEN YOU WHO HAS SEEN A PENIS its that simple
iLoveCOLDPLAY4life 6 months ago 6
I am a size 13 too and i wish i was looking like you :)
BeingYourself1 6 months ago
Thiss Helped Me So Muchh <3 Like You Dont Even Know :D Thank Youu :")
GrrrSmiLeyx3 6 months ago
This is so encouraging! Thanks for posting! :)
dollbaby3892 7 months ago
I JUST WANNA SAY U HAVE A NEW FAN!!! ME :D <3 Thanks Love
rosiebiglips 7 months ago
i have to say this, i have NOOO self-confidence what so ever no matter what i do. i try i really do but i'm always soo fuckin self conscious i dont feel good in my body i work out i diet but nothing seems to work D': the problem is, lots of people say im not fat or overweight or even at risk of being overweight ! they say im at risk of being underweight and i just dont believe them!! i think they're justing saying that to raise my confidence !!!!! what should i do ?!! :"( please help me.
flamed00darts 8 months ago
Omg. this video changed my life haha
ClementineRULES 8 months ago
This video made my confidence go up (:
AliyahLashae 8 months ago
this video honestly made my day !
shay02120 8 months ago
love your video. . .and you are so telling the truth...especially about the confidence...
mclark49292 9 months ago
This chicks awesome, she's the kinds girl that attracts me Chubby and not ashamed of it, i'm skinny but I likes girls with meat on there bones Hooah!
sXesteve1 9 months ago
wow u r not a good roalmodel u say when u get in his bedroom
sweety3611 9 months ago
@sweety3611
I'm an extremely liberal, anti-clerical, non-hypocritical, twenty-something year old woman. And it ain't 1949. Get with it, sweety.
SojournToPerfection 6 months ago 27
@SojournToPerfection true but still,there is a bunch of little kids looking at stuff and they might run upon your vid. and what do you think is gunna happen ?
sweety3611 6 months ago
@sweety3611 You ought to relax! There is worse stuff on the internet and youtube than a beautiful girl telling others to be confident and embrace their bodies. Also, sex should not be a taboo (not that she's even explicitly talking about it).
BTW: Spellingwise you're not exactly a good role model, either!
Jennessis 6 months ago
Rachel,I cant explain on how much your videos help me like this one .i thought i wasnt beautiful but your video has made me think im beautifull and that if guys cant handle us thick chicks they dont deserve me.
keep what your doing because it looks like your helping alot of people
by the way your very preety :) much love'xoxox
bbzjonas 10 months ago
SO TRUE. thank you! is it werid that sometimes i believe you more than i believe my mother????? LOL. me and her were discussing this guy that kinda stopped liking me.....and she was telling me how he probaly missed the person he first met, the confident, happy one and i have gone back to that and he seems to like me again......
jokersgirlfriend45 10 months ago
So true..... you explained it in a way that made it so easy to understand. I've been self-conscious about myself because I got stretch marks from when I used to be heavier. But you're right.... my boyfriend obviously doesn't mind it..... otherwise he wouldn't be with me :)
MisterBeaucoup 11 months ago
when You say putty in your hands what exactly do You mean? Do these guys buy You whatever you like and are at your beckon and call at all times? Basically like a pussy cat?
SHOGUNSKA 11 months ago
I'm a thick chick! It's taken me16 years of being bigger then everyone in my class to realize that really, I'm blessed. I hated having a bigger chest and hips then everyone. But finally I have come to accept it. And even now I'm not completely okay with it. I still have my days where I call myself fat and ugly. It's all on the inside. And it's nice to see someone who understands and speaks out for girls like us.
<3 <3
MsNinjaLulu 1 year ago
though i still have no confidence whatsoever, rachel, you managed to make me look at myself differently, in a good way, a very good way. love you <3
sylvia08401 1 year ago 10
@sylvia08401
NO CONFIDENCE?
Girl, I'mma slap you.
I'm glad I was able to help, m'dear. Even if just a little.
Building self-confidence isn't something that necessarily happens over night, but as they say, "a journey of a thousand miles begins with one step."
♥ ♥ ♥
SojournToPerfection 1 year ago 16
@SojournToPerfection lol you made me smile + laugh again <3 well, i'm trying to build up my confidence lol but insecurity is a bitch :P and really, i'm the one to blame if i don't try my best to improve on the things that i am not satisfied about myself so :P
love ya
sylvia08401 1 year ago
so so so true, i'm a thick girl as well I'm married my husband loves my body, it's all about your confidence and self esteam well said. love the video
TheMommiefive 1 year ago 2
@TheMommiefive
Thanks! ♥
SojournToPerfection 1 year ago
Rachel, I came across your channel when searching for videos on how to talk to guys. I must say you've done a wonderful job of breaking it down so that the rest of us can understand it! It's refreshing to hear realistic and honest advice from a woman in my own age range. Keep doing what you're doing and I look forward to watching more of your dating videos. :)
0LaVieEnTurquoise0 1 year ago 2
@0LaVieEnTurquoise0
Thanks for your support and kind words!
I love getting feedback from viewers! :)
♥
SojournToPerfection 1 year ago
awsome vid!! :) what would u say to a guy who wasn't the skinniest guy walkin? my bf is kinda on the thicker side and he is SOOO self conscience about it what can i tell him to make him feel better?
Tinkerbellbabii328 1 year ago
@Tinkerbellbabii328
I'd probably say something along the lines of, Look, you're not perfect, no one is. But obviously your personality outshines any physical flaws. :)
I mean, otherwise he wouldn't have such an awesome girlfriend, right?
♥
SojournToPerfection 1 year ago
Great vids Rachel:))
kaurgini05 1 year ago
I had a similar apifany! Thanks Rach! (:
MissKatRob 1 year ago