Phil Collins - Separate Lives (Official Music Video)

[bossienho]

YOU HAVE NO RIGHT..., TO ASK ME HOW I FEEL, YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO SPEAK TO ME SO KIND.. O.M.G.. Strong word indeed...

[rodelangeles]

@chopitshop im happy for u. happy valentines day.

[chopitshop]

Today for some reason my husband brought home flowers for me and kissed me he looked at me like he use to for the first time in a long time if you read my earlier posts, but maybe today will be a new beginning for us♥ so happy

[MrJason8957]

Just listened to this a year now since my wife left me. Better off now, but still hurts....

[rsbarrett4991]

what is the name of the beautiful woman singing w/him?

[bellz1972]

@rsbarrett4991 marilyn martin

[only12c]

@rsbarrett4991 ......Marlyn Martin

[Mariam87910]

i so love this song it really tells a true story

[roseldk2010]

Muita linda!!!!

[shelleyinthecity]

White Knights. Only a so so movie but it had two great songs, this one and Say You, Say Me.

[chopitshop]

i am 60 and my husband is 63 i have loved him since i was 24 and now even though we live in the same house we are living seperate lives, so sad the silence that we share, my time here on earth is limited but i cant tell him because i i just cant say goodbye♥

[DestroyerofSouls666]

@chopitshop ---your comment made me feel sad. Ignore my username for a sec....don't give up hope. Perhaps take some time apart or seek counsel from trusted third parties. Your love for each other has sustained the both of you for all these years. Yes, people change and sometimes there is going to be friction. But good love is hard to find and that is why you must try to salvage what you have both built together. Hang in there.

[chopitshop]

@DestroyerofSouls66 thank you so much i will hang in there i pray all the time for guidance , God bless you for replying so kindly to me♥

[viperman567]

@chopitshop that is so sad it made me take a sharp in take of breath,bless you what can i say? I know it was 3 months ago when you posted this,i only hope that some how in that short space of time you have managed to sort something out? im always amazed when i see couples out and they never speak,i mean whats the point? life is so short if your not happy then its time to say goodbye hard though it will be you know in your heart of hearts that once its done you can both move on,:)

[chopitshop]

@viperman567 thank you so much

[pilly71976]

it is a wonderful song..... love it !!

[AuraMilenariaZX]

Michael i'm sorry...

[MarcusEClay]

Second greatest song of all time

[MaisSimples]

Amo, amo, amo Phil Collins!!!

[antoniosenes1956]

POR QUE NO SACAN LOS COMERCIALES, Y VOLVEMOS A LO ANTERIOR, NO SE PUEDEN VER BIEN LOS VIDEOS

[miftahozma]

This song reminds memories of the past. Oh, wonderful

[ROTTYLUV4ME]

thumbs up great song & ,movie

oooh how typical, love leads to isolation

[Strap1205]

Another awesome song from the mastermind of good music. 

[jalexrosh]

This song echoes in my heart when I have a fight with my wife. Then I go and talk to her. Cant see her sad or live without her. I Love you darling..

[jalexrosh]

My heart bleeds for love!

[singlechuck]

1 of my faves from back in the day....

[BigBadDog27]

FFFFF....... i thought it was SCOTTIE PIPPEN in the beginning of this vid.. hehe peace!!!

[ACampos1987]

What a truth!

[chilleyusa]

one of the best duets and some of the best voices I ever heard

[amtrak207]

"Someday I might....find myself looking...in your eyes. But for now, we'll go on living...separate lives."

I don't think I have EVER heard a lyric that held so much power, love, sorrow, turmoil, reminiscent memories all in one."

A true work of art this song is.

[bellz1972]

@amtrak207 he certainly knows how to write music that's for sure.

[stevieb345]

what a song!!!!!!!!!!

[MegaUsername500]

If someone were to do a CD titled "Divorce Songs of the 80's," this would definitely belong on the track.

[MyMREDDIE]

i love this song.what happened to the woman who sang with phil

[rockerdave69]

@MyMREDDIE The woman who sang with Phil Collins in this duet is Marilyn Martin.

If you wish to find out about her there is a Wikipedia page about her, just type her name in the search engine and you will find her bio.

[psychwardthageneral]

IF YALL LIKE PHIL COLLINS YALL GO CHECK OUT K-RINO HE'S ALOT BETTER AT REACHING THA SOUL AND UPLIFTING HIS LISTNERS.

[revmaxx]

this is a stephen bishop song... he mentioned the exact words "you have no right to ask me how i feel" was really his exact reply to his "eX", when she suddenly phoned him.

but i always feel phil's version to be more authentic.

[shelleyinthecity]

Not a great movie, White Knights, but this is a great song.

[Joeyem1122]

what movie is that from

[gastonvaca]

fantastic song and fantastic movie

[07bigaction]

i have to agree he is one of the best artists of his time

[rbrasi7]

Phil Collins is the greatest! 80's Rock!!!!

[used2beunderage]

@THEGRINNINGDOGGY groovy kind of love was good too

[michele2810]

I loved this song - great 80's song. Made all the better by the fact Stevie Nicks sings some backup vocals on the track. <3 it!

[Almostmini]

@michele2810

It's not Stevie Nicks, it's Marilyn Martin, still awesome though

[michele2810]

@Almostmini Marilyn Martin sings the duet, but Stevie Nicks also provided some backup vocals on the song. Marilyn used to sing backup to Stevie on her solo tours.

[palmersturf]

the 80's what a decade Phil Collins and Miami Vice

[mecagoenboba]

Hellen Mirren, amazing actress in White Nights. The love Mikhail's character left behind. She's now in The Tempest, don't miss it. Was recently in RED. So great to witness such a great actress be the best throughout the years. And bring you to tears and move you. Sort of like Cate Blanchett, but of course, no comparison. They are both great.

[DestroyerofSouls666]

I have a question to all those on this comment board who've had traumatic break-ups.....do you find yourself re-connecting with your past loves on Facebook and has it made things better for you or opened up old wounds?

Do your past loves want to re-connect with you?

Has re-connecting adversely affected your current relationships?

I'm just curious what the Facebook effect has been on people.

[shooster11]

@DestroyerofSouls666 - I have been happily married for 20 years and yes, I have reconnected with some of my past loves, but more in the spirit of "how are you doing these days." I also approach them with the idea that we are both different people now that have moved on to other things and people, and that hopefully we are better people ourselves. There may have been some bitter feelings, but hopefully, our association with past loves make us appreciate better the current love we have.

[DestroyerofSouls666]

@shooster11 --Thank you so much for replying. Wow, your comment is well-stated and emanates a profound maturity that certain adults out there (including perhaps myself at times) lack. I don't know whether you are male or female, but your spouse is a lucky person to have you. Bravo and a long, happy future for you! Thanks again.

[kas450]

You don't have the right to treat me kind, not now. I thought I'd forgive you, and love you forever. I can't. You slashed me wide open and give my feeling to the world to laugh at...... No, never again.

[mybrownb]

I LOVE YOU PHIL.

[megamusictoronto]

I will always love this song, thank you Phil Collins for making so many of the great songs I grew up with and still love!

[safedrivered]

Phil has a great 80's mullet...

[momof2girls84]

What movie is that??

[FostersBLUE]

when I hear the words, "You have no right... to ask me....how i feel... you have no right...." I lose it, cause I feel the sorrow, the loss, hopelessness and I have to hear this once again. It reminds me of breaking up, and seeing that person again, and they open the wound that barely healed and never will, and this is the response...

[babiesmakinbabies]

this video should just be marilyn. so hot.

[chekdis1]

What's the name of the movie?

[TheGoddessDevine]

@chekdis1 White Nights - great flick

[heatherchick77]

Some of the greatest emotional songs of the last 25 years have come from this man. Thanks.

[oranger2525]

Don't hate me, But I'm not a Phil Collins fan. But over the past 25 years, almost everytime I hear this soing, I want to cry. And many times I do.

[lbacco]

What a grown up song. Not just about lovers, could be family, friends or whoever. A deep emotion deeply expressed. Ta Phil.x

[Ulysses2k]

The female singing along with Phil Collins is Marilyn Martin.

[karenrph99]

who is the female singer?

[liz5112]

i was sleeping and was awaken by this song and i can't get out of my head . this song is old and so great ..

[liz5112]

i was sleeping and was awaken by this song and i can't get out of my head .

[zcarenow]

"Billy, don't lose your number is still his best song".....hahaha

[mitch0778]

you Guys said it, Phil is one of the Best Vocalist and his voice trancends time. He has Great control and awesome pitch.  The man is an awesome Vocalist.

[exlcor]

@adiard I am so sorry. Such a difficult situation for you.

[TheStillyou]

huh..

[dorismaldonado]

Derrick I'll miss you always.

[Abbot63]

That's one of my favorite duets of the 80's, Marylin Martin with the great Phil Collins. The song made it the # 4 in U.K and top the U.S Billboard Charts late in 1985.

Thank you WARNER for posting the vid in H.Q.

[silkwood12000]

I was Mäüdchen egg. That was the song that has comforted me and remember. It will remain forever in my heart. Ihe guys have to understand before.,.)

[TheCaulfield1]

Never fails to bring tears to my eyes....gorgeous song!!

[rudijax]

who's the girl?

[lilloz2k8]

never fails to make me cry :'(

[ltfsrr]

thank you Sir phil collins for this very great song!! long live!

[TheGamedaniel]

I heard this son on King of Queens=D 

[KatariinaSanna]

Phil Collins is just so Great , theres no words!!!!

[roxana29032010]

Beautiful melody... nobody like Phill!!!

[fcirambo]

Thanks Phil, you're the best.

[sweet2bsaved]

1985 a great year for songs like these. Glad to see this posted

[nancyfloressantos]

Happy moments of 1985 remembered with this song from the movie White Nights....nostalgic.

[TriviaGeek463]

Thank you soooo much for posting, certain circumstances (unfortunately) got me thinking of this song again...then heard it today on Music Choice. Beautifully written and performed, one of the best duets of its day.

[vicnks13]

A person of the past mentioned this song to me once and since passed . Totally sums up a memory .

[kramertmarie]

This is one of Phil's songs that you just get lost in! Love it...thanks so much for posting this.