My stepmom was killed in a car accident on January 31, 2012. She has three boys. Six, 12, and 15. We didn't get along at all. In the beginning it was great, but the past few years, our relationship just went downhill. I remember wishing she would die so many times. And now that it's really happened I feel like such a bitch. I'm at a total loss of words, thoughts, feeling. Everything. I'm so lost now.
My stepmom was killed in a car accident on January 31, 2012. She has three boys. Six, 12, and 15. We didn't get along at all. In the beginning it was great, but the past few years, our relationship just went downhill. I remember wishing she would die so many times. And now that it's really happened I feel like such a bitch. I'm at a total loss of words, thoughts, feeling. Everything. I'm so lost now.
My stepmom was killed in a car accident on January 31, 2012. She has three boys. Six, 12, and 15. We didn't get along at all. In the beginning it was great, but the past few years, our relationship just went downhill. I remember wishing she would die so many times. And now that it's really happened I feel like such a bitch. I'm at a total loss of words, thoughts, feeling. Everything. I'm so lost now.
I'm still having trouble with his death, and now I have to house sit at my parents house for the weekend -- where he lived.. Thus I'm not sure how I will be able to deal with it. I'm not good with other dogs right now, so when my aunt comes over with hers, it will be even harder probably... I don't know what to do, it just isn't home without him.. :( rip Rexxie. I'll see you again someday..
Just lost 3 people and my best friend, my dog, over Christmas week.. Still very hard to deal with, 2 of them were only 18 years old, and I had to hold my dog while they put him down, he was my best friend.
my friend died two days ago by a tree felling acident, problem is i dont feel grief for him just emptyness. rest in peace johnathan kent i will miss u
My friend died in July of 2011 and my young sister of 55 yrs old passed away On Nov. 17th of 2011. I am having a hard time dealing with all of this. I'm really sick with grief.
my grandfather is said to die soon i need to tell him how much i love him and it hurts so much thinking about it i wish i could go back in time and enjoy all the happy times we had.
LOST A LOVE ONE if you want to HEAR THEM AGAIN google EVP Electronic Voice Phenomena.
Also know that yes they go to heaven but they're also free and they come and visit you, they're always close. Check the out the MOVIE GHOST that's exactly what happens. But the only way that you can hear them again is thru EVP (Mention Above).
I learn to respect Death after my mother died. 5 years later, the pain slumbers in my soul. The Water of the Earth cannot replenish the tears Ive shed over my mother. Honestly I think my mother got the better end of the deal. It is said that no parent should outlive thier child, but no child should ever be left behind. Death isn't the enemy... Life is. But you have to tough enough to take on Living Life. besides, out of all the broken promises of LIFE, Death will keep its word.
my papa died yesterday on sep. 29,2011 he had cancer and he had 2 options: either get tubes put in his chest and live a little longer with suffering, or just have the doctors give him morphine until his heart stopped he chose morphine and im so sad right now
@MrChestypuller1775 please stay strong, My pop passed February, they are watching us this I do know 100%. he was the closest friend and the greatest man I ever knew.I am proud to have had him bring me in.one of the ways I Have found in coping is to live out all he taught me. and sometimes I get to see him in the mirror.
I dont even know were to begin iv seen my best friends killed in fights. Then i find out my girl is dead and nothing i can do. :( i dont know what to do my friends seem to have abandoned me. this life seems to hate me alot :( idk how iv even gotton to the wonderful age of 19.
@Madriddick101 You should get phone number for your local (mental health), crises team. Dealing with death is hard enough, but when it is sudden and unexpected like with a car accident or murder, it is even harder and can make your life seem like its going down hill. You will be running thru all the emotions but if you are that low and contemplating suicide, don' t do it. Your loved ones would want you to live. See it this way, your at your worst point in life. Now things can only get better
@rhythm2007mc One of them did commit suicide im literally the last one to tell thier story i wont do it cuz if i die then everything we fought for and with and y dies with me
@Madriddick101 I really feel for ya m8, your tight and you will cherish them memories. U have to be strong, even when your in complete despair. Remember to get plenty of rest as going thru all the emotions takes your energy. Also make sure you try to continue your life as usual, same routines etc and that your eating properly. I just had to bury my grandad on Friday, not the same situation as you. Because your situation is unique and involves a suicide you should find some1 you trust 2 talk 2
@rhythm2007mc I try some days and i feel for ya thier i just recently lost a grandparent but like i said iv been doin this bymyself for most part me and my friends were tighter then the links on a chain the ones i got cant understand or say i am makin my life up and stuff and its like wtf lol i tell them what happen and its lies. its ridicules i was irreponsible and tried to drink it all away or something like that i barely remember names but i do remember thier faces
@Madriddick101 If your with friend atm and their saying your lieing. They are not true friends. When we die all soul/spirit still lives on. Maybe you should consider going to your local spiritualist church. They usaully have meeting every week and welcome new comers. If you ave'nt been to one before its kinda abit like a church meeting were ya sing a few hymns. There is a spiritualist/psychic who then communicates with spirits that communicate with him/her.
@Madriddick101 you may not get a spirit come thru for you the first time but if ya keep going you should get a reading. I think in your situation you may get them coming thru stronger than others. Don't tell the spiritualist doing the reading any info on the people you knew. If their right just say yes or no etc. You will know who has come thru by the message etc.
No one can understand this pain except those who have gone through it themselves. After 21 years, I lost my beloved husband to cancer last month. Already I am "yesterday's news", and people tell me to "get over it." He was a kind, gentle man, a Tai Chi instructor, who did not deserve this pain. Cancer is a filthy thief.
i know this s heardly as bad a loss as some of the other people, but im 12 and my dog is having a painfull death, and he is also 12. and i don't think i can take him being put down
@Jesserulztheworld No, your loss is equally difficult. I remember when I was about 12/13, I was just starting secondary school, high school for those in the states, and my dog died at 15. I was devastated. I could not go to school, and I just cried that night, and for days afterwards. We buried him next to the house, but I remember being depressed for months afterwards, because I had lost my closest friend. And with starting highschool, it was just a terribly difficult year. contd
@yellowcougar18 My dog was 15, btw, not me. He passed away naturally, and we did not have to make the difficult decision to put him to sleep, but I know others who have had to make that decision. I know that it is difficult, but if you do make the decision to put your friend to sleep, try to be there when the vet puts him to sleep. Just stroking his head, telling him you love him, and how much he meant to you...
I lost a dog ten years ago, and I stayed up every night to watch her while she cont
@yellowcougar18 was ill and dying. I am not ashamed to say I was sad and cried to see her dying, but I stayed up night after night for a week until she died. She passed away at 5.00 am on St Stephen's Day 2001. But she was no longer suffering, and I took solace that her pain was over. It's funny, but even to this day, we still talk about her.
Your dog loves you just as much as you love him. His death will be difficult, and you must share it with your family. They may feel the exact same.
Last night my grandfather passed in his sleep 2 weeks after being diagnosed with leukemia. For the last week his loved ones surrounded him while he was bed ridden at his house, watching his body slowly die and him loosing the ability to move or even talk. The only thing keeping him alive was the will to live. On the last day anyone could understand him he told us he was afraid to sleep because he knew he wouldn't wake up.His final words were he loved us all, and he had a good life.I love you to.
Dealing with death is hard u never no when that day will cum. the one thing u cant do is beat ur self up r stay down u have 2 get back up. im so young in i lost my baby boy at 6 days old that is the hardest part of my grief my own child im still l copeing with it . it hurts so bad ! i also lost my mom n dad a few years after my son death . RIP 2 all my love ones !!! i lost a lot but sum day i will c them again this life on earth is not 4 ever.
My cousin i considered a sister died yesterday age 35 and all because of a rare disease that has no cure and doctors dont know how it starts its know as still's disease and its so hard to say goodbye i look across the street at her window and break down she left behind 4 children that i am close with and we all still believe its a bad dream and we're gonna wake up soon i wish it was true because i cant handle this pain too much stress and grieve to let go R.I.P ESTHER" COOKIE" VIZCARRANDO
My mother died 2 days ago in the hospital. She had numerous health problems with her lupus, kidneys, and her cancer. Today was her funeral. Very hard to do dealing with with death of my mother. I am still grieving very deeply. In time, I will get better soon with my sadness and grief over my mother's death. I know she is in peace in heaven and not suffering. I hope to see her in heaven someday to be with her. Love you mom forever and always!
I am preparing for the loss of my cat. He's not doing so well. He's 14 years old and has lived a great life. My heart breaks everytime I see him being sluggish, not eating, making shallow breaths. As an athiest, death is extremely difficult for me. And I know people say it's just a cat, but he is more than that. He is my best friend. Watching this was very helpful, but I don't think any amount of preparation can make me ready for his death. Not after the life we've lived together.
My father died 2 days ago. That makes both parents now ripped from my life.
She's absolutely correct that in time you learn to live with the hurt and loss. I think it's offensive when people suggest to others they "get over it", even if a certain number of months or years have gone by.
I find it very healing to talk about my father and mother. They were phenomenal people who deserved to spend much, much more time here on Earth.
RIP dad. Be with mommy forever; my two beautiful, loving angels.
I was told two months ago, "ur not supposed to cry for your late son! your supposed to NOT cry" and I thought..."who the hell is he to say? He's never lost a son or daughter before!!" Well, that guy that said for me not to cry is still living with his mom on weekends, doesn't work, his wife works! When I want to cry, I will! there is no way I can suppress my grief! Do NOT listen to other people that are ignorant, ur are the judge of your feelings! :D
my dog died yesterday, i know its nothing compared to a sibling, parent, child and so on, but she was part of our family and ther is a big void in all our lives arm
@jamtheman3017 so true... dogs are part of our family. We had to put our dog to sleep on June 11. He was 15 years old and sick. My heart is broken now and the pain seems unbearable at times :(
my friend died of cancer last week, after a year of having it he finally left us, it was so hard, i watched him deteriorate physically and mentally, feeling helpless cause couldn't do anything to make it go away. about 10 months in he lost his vision and his hearing and it really hit me for the first time during that year that my friend wasn't going to make it. It's the most awful thing to lose someone you love, my condolences for everyone ... R.I.P James.
Please listen and comment on Tammie Darlene's song Daddy's Girl. It's a quickly put together video but the real one with the acting is coming soon! Please give feedback! And god bless all who've lost their daddy. Nobody should have to go through that kind of heartache.
My mom died suddenly on Easter after a freak brain hemorrhage that nobody saw coming.. this is the worst pain I've ever felt. My mom was my best friend, my confidant, my rock, my mentor, my world... I never dreamed at 25 would I have written and read my mom's eulogy.. she was only 55 and was in good health. I talked to her an hour before the aneurysm erupted and she didn't say anything about headaches or blurry vision.. but I thank God that I got to talk to her that one last time.
earlier my mom told me my grandfather probably wont return from the hospital and i asked if he was gonna die and she said probably,i was shoked and went upstairs and started crying and everyday now im gonna pray that hes's alright
i'm 16 and my grandma just died yesterday unexpectedly. she was 85 but really healthy. And i'm still sad about when my dog died last year, he was 13. i came to this vieo looking for help. it didn't help at all.
I am 12 and my dad died of brain cancer 2 years ago I miss him so much as I get older I grieve more often as I understand what is going on more and I am not ashamed that I cry at least 3 times a week about him it is like a huge hole in my chest
my brother passed of cancer a day after his 37 birthday. it was neglected as a swollen gland on his neck. he passed a month and a half after in the hospital. we were 11 months apart, and it been a month and i cant function! i feel cheated and my fuse has gotten shorter. recommend looking for a grief counseling, also type in non-profit and some will pop up. sincerely...... another grieving soul!
My niece died in October 2008 and I am feeling alot of pain about it today. I don't know why it hurts so much it has been two and a half years now. I am missing her today. I am angry at the Doctor. He should have run tests when My sister took Jacquiline to the doctor to make sure it wasn't anything serious. The doctor said that he tought my niece was exagerating her illness. And now she is dead. She died in her sleep two days later.
im 11 and my mom died of cancer. i couldnt stand watching her suffer. its actually better because she has no more pain. but its hard to not be with her anymore. i miss her already its been a week. this video didnt help me. if anyone has advise please help me. be strong evryone. R.I.P. i love you
My grandma died exactly a year ago today at about 11am and i swear there hasnt been a day that went by the past year that i havent thought about how much i miss her. i called her everyday and i still miss that.
my mom died when i was i little and my grandma raised me. she died last summer of cancer. i hated seeing how much pain she was in and i couldnt help her. everyday hurts as bad as it did when she died. people are constantly telling me to move on and get over it but when someone whose so important to you dies its like you almost want to die yourself just to be with them. and knowing your here and there not its a big change.
I have been Grieving for 6 years straight I lost my sister a couple years back and it Still Hurts Inside i have a Hole inside me that will Not heal My heart Shattered When i lost her It hasnt been easy for me Cause I had to go into Isolation
Two days ago my boyfriend died. He was beat to death because he was in a "gay neighborhood". It absolutely disgusts me that in our day and age people are still being murdered for merely loving someone. I loved and still do love him with all of my heart. I will never forget him. R.I.P Aaron.
For everyone else dealing with the loss of a loved one, im so sorry and i hope you will find happiness again.
2007 in august or april i dont no which one but my cat suky died she was pollie she almost got put to sleep but she was 21 years old so she could have died of old age
i really love my dad with all my heart my dad will always be my hero everyone who knew me always knew my dad and i were very close and my mum would always be out of the house and my dad and i would always have fun cooking and watching movies together i miss him terribly he died of a DVT even though im 14 i would trade my life in order for him to live i also feel very alone because my mum still continues her ways of not being with me or sparing time to watch a movie or something miss u daddy
my pet died today. i had my rabbit for 8 years and he was really special and had the greatest personality.
i know you guys may think:"omg it's just a rabbit..." but it hurts really much and i cant stop crying. i loved him so much and he was with me my whole childhood.
i wish you all strength and power to overcome the sadness of your loss. remember that our loved ones will be alive forever in our souls and hearts.
@LooveAshleyTisdale Dealing with death of a pet is a pain I still struggle to deal with. Part of it is the whole lack of understanding of the loss. My grandmother still laughs at the "fond" memory of me in 2nd grade crying after my FIRST ever doggie died. B/c I cried surround sound all night. Even having a healthy pet afterwards, a part of me is shaking in fear of the inevitable. And this video didn't help. You may feel alone in your grief, but I know your Pjuske is waiting to meet you again.
@hbanana7 thank you so much for your sweet respond. :) nice to see that there's sweet and kind people out there who knows how I feel. And i'm really sorry about your dog in second grade i can understand how you must've felt. But I hope you are ok now!
And thank you, for saying that he's waiting for me, that made me really happy :)
my poppy was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer last year, and my whole family is a total wreck.im 13 and i have to take on alot of adult responsibilites now since my parents are constantly out at my poppys house taking care of him. he was like my second daddy, when my parents were at work when i was little, he was taking care of me. and he always used to sing to me the song,"you are my sunshine" i sing it to myself alot, and cry and cry and cry. idk what im gnna do when he dies... :(
My dad died on March 1st 2009. Miss him with all my heart. There isn't a time to get over it, You just have to put it behind you and remember all the good times you had with that person.
@cooldood416, I agree with remembering the good times with them. Grief is really a form of stress actually. When we're coping the loss itself it's actually named Loss-oriented stressors. When we build NEW habits and activites from our lack of happiness of not being able to do things like we used to is called Restoration-oriented stressors. Our grieving is NORMAL, crying all the time is NORMAL. As a society I feel we don't give ourselves the proper time. It's important to remember that. :)
@cooldood416 I have read it. Just remember the happy times with them, I know no one can replace them, but just remember the happy times and you'll get through.
@DontTreadOnMePrepper Don't worry you will find a coping mechanism, I lost my sister two years ago, just take your time and you will eventually find a way to cope. It's hard and trust me the worst year is the worst. Just remember all the good times, people who haven't dealt with this sort of thing do not understand, It hurts you in so many ways and some times it makes you angry just remember whatever you are feeling is okay and normal! :)
My mom died a week before Thanksgiving in 2010, I am so sad right now that I have almost completely lost my will to live. She was my best friend, I told her all of my secrets, we shopped, travelled, attended church together, we did a lot of things together. I am inconsolable right now. I need to find others like myself for true support. I cannot go to friends and family because despite how much they knod their heads and say, "I understand", somehow I just don't feel they do.
@foundmyniche i know how you feel i just lost my daddy a week ago i cant stop crying and im only 14 but age doesnt matter it still hurts no matter what
@madsainash I pray for you because I know how you feel. This world seems so big now, I am trying to take it one day at a time, I am looking for direction now because at this point, I've kind of lost my way. Let's continue to pray for each other. Although I didn't know your father, I do believe this one thing, our parents are in paradise, they no longer have to suffer the pains of this world, sickness, evil people, etc.
That's the only thing I take solace in knowing. God bless you!
ive always been stoic with deaths of family members. but for the first time in years i attended a funeral, that of my aunt. as the songs played and the casket rolled in....i felt overwhelmed and claustrophobic. it felt like my world was caving in around me. So for an hour i sat there the only person weeping. I felt weak, I still do.
ive always been stoic with deaths of family members. but for the first time in years i attended a funeral, that of my aunt. as the songs played and the casket rolled in....i felt overwhelmed and claustrophobic. it felt like my world was caving in around me. So for an hour i sat there the only person weeping. I felt weak, I still do.
ive always been stoic with deaths of family members. but for the first time in years i attended a funeral, that of my aunt. as the songs played and the casket rolled in....i felt overwhelmed and claustrophobic. it felt like my world was caving in around me. So for an hour i sat there the only person weeping. I felt weak, I still do.
I lost a very dear friend to Cancer a month ago this Wednesday and,I'm crying over their loss,and I regret not being with them in their final days. I went to calling hours and the funeral. It still makes my sad to look at their pictures. I accept they were dying and their was nothing that no one could of done,I miss them dearly and I wish I could let them how I love them and how much miss them.
I wish everyone on the outside looking in could see this video, I lost my 6 year old daughter suddenly 3 years ago. I still miss her, I still grieve. As she says in the video, you learn to live and carry on but DIFFERENTLY. I still get approached by idiots that do not understand that say cruel things....if only they knew the harm they do.
Yesterday, one of my friends died. We weren't good friends, but we talked sometimes and I thought she was one of the nicest people i know. It all happened so fast, and I can't stop crying. I barely even knew her and my heart hurts really bad. To anyone who's greiving over a loss that's reading this, It's okay to cry. It's okay to feel sad. It's really hard to lose someone who's close to you, or someone you knew.
How do you deal with my wife who left after N argument !! she has bin gone for 6 years, If she was dead i would know were shes at But this just kills me.Day after Day
My mom died 2 days ago, Im at the point where I am deeply sorrowed and somewhat angry that she had to leave so soon. I always knew the day would come but nothing could ever prepare me for it. It was so sudden and such a shock
I feel like I bear the burden of everyones grief for my mom. It hurts 10x more seeing my family in despair over her death. My heart is broken and it breaks over and over everytime I think of the things she's going to miss out on. Every waking moment I am in tears
'Nothing is more healing than to be able to tell the story of the loss over and over.'
No WONDER we never find any healing. People don't let you tell the story more than once if it happened by murder, not w/out telling you you've been grieving too long.
When someone in my family was first murdered, another person we told it to said we have "two weeks" to grieve and be done w/ it.
I thought he was stupid and never talked to him again.
It took me a year just to stop feeling numb about it.
I think theres nothing more painful than loosing someone who was dear to you. I'm not gonna say that I dont fear death, but Im much more afraid of having to deal with the death of someone close to me. Luckily I never felt such pain, but the way I feel every time I hear someone that's not even related to me has died, I just wonder how deeply depressed I'll be when the time comes for me to deal with the death of a close relative. I really wish I could have a better relationship with death :C
turn to god say this prayer he hears you "Jusus i come before you heart broken confused and sad Jesus I ask that you give me some type of comfort, healing and understanding. God you know all things and you know how im feeling. I need you lord not only i this hard time but every day of my life. I put my trust in you lord and praise your name amen" cast your worries upon him hope it helps .
I just lost my father yesterday right after his 42nd birthday. He was a good man and I could not have asked for a better dad. This video helps some, but what comments that others have left helps more. To know that some things I am feeling isn't just me, really helps. I have been fearing that I act like my pain is worse then others and that at times I am not feeling enough. I miss my daddy like hell and I love him very much.
I just lost my father yesterday right after his 42nd birthday. He was a good man and I could not have asked for a better dad. This video helps some, but what comments that others have left helps more. To know that some things I am feeling isn't just me, really helps. I have been fearing that I act like my pain is worse then others and that at times I am not feeling enough. I miss my daddy like hell and I love him very much.
@undeadmuffin, I found your comment and felt complelled to respond. I'm sorry to hear about your father's passing away. Sounds like you had a great dad. I have two teenage children who don't appreciate me and my husband (we're both their bio parents) although they have a good life. It's good to hear when a son or a daughter appreciates their parents as you have stated you did love your dad. I hope you are holding up ok.
@Genesis2Jesus Thank you very much. I am holding up well I think, thanks for asking. As far as your children go, I would have to say sadly it's just being a teen. I picked fights with dad so much when I was a teen, didn't even know why. So don't give up hope on them appreciating you. Dad always thought I didn't appreciate him until last year, in truth he was always my hero. Takes kids time to come out of that stuff.
I lost my brother-in-law to cancer yesterday.. It hurts so bad..I'm trying to be strong for my sister, nieces, and nephews but yet I can't deal with it myself... I couldn't sleep at all last night.. I found myself crying so hard at 3 am this morning and getting sick to my stomach.... I talked to his 3 year old son this morning and he asked where was his dad.. my sister had to explain he's in heaven now..
my grandpa passed away too a few days ago :'( At first, I was in denial and shock but then I just cried...a lot. It feels better when you let it out and now I go through moods. Happy like I can live without him and the next minute my heart is like aching to see him again. It's really confusing and stressful...but I guess time heals.
My father died 3 days ago from cancer. The sadness is terrible,but what makes it worst is that I can't merely deal with my own pain my way,but I have to cope with the whole process following a death. I'm flying down in a few hours to my parent's home for the funeral occuring a week from today. I hate funerals. I don't want to stand in front of the open coffin. I have'nt seen my father's dead face yet & I don't want to. I want to mourn alone,but I can't. I have responsibilities.
I think the opposite. We never recovered his body, and so I never feel like it's completely real. He was there one day, healthy and happy, and gone the same in a murderous blast of flames.
We've never found a single remain to prove he ever existed in a physical form.
I never thought having a body mattered until we never found a trace of our loved one's physical existence.
I have lost so many people in my life. I go through grief pretty fast. but the "unknown" confuses me. And walking in the house where they once were. Freaks me out not in a spooky sense. But to think that Yesturday they were here right where i am standing. And they were a living breathing being. i guess i will never understand death and why it happens and where we go. Sure Christians and people of religion have it all mapped out (so they think) But that is not good enough for me. WHY?
My cousin Robbie was hit and killed by a car Nov. 11 2009. At first, I felt a little sad. But now the tears are smiles of happieness that I have something more to look forward to in heaven.
There is no way to get over death. Life does not last forever for more than one reason. First of all, Nature gave us these feelings so we could realize how much we love someone. This life is only one life of a million. And death does not mean someone is gone. It just means they have left the nest and are waiting for you to catch up to them.
My sister just had stillbirth, the baby was perfectly healthy she was in her 9th month and the babys heart just stopped, for no reason. She was forced into regular laybor and delivery to a dead baby. It hurt realy bad for me, my family and expecially her. I dont know what to do, i want to do everything in my will to help her. its just so unnexpected and unfair. We were so excited. How can something so beautiful turn into something so ugly....
me dad died earlier today and i was sad, and still am sad but me and him are good Christians and i know where he is and that hes safe but i still cant being sad
It's been been 6 months...I'm still so sad but I'm hiding it so people wont worry about me. Maybe I need to join a group so I can express my grief in a public setting?
@sweetiegirl97 i know me too and my grandpa died at age 82 , when me and my mom went to Lithuania,2 weeks after my mom got a call from my godmother she said that Grandpa died !i screamed like a little baby!!!!!!!!
On July 12 my son was born prematurely. He died after fighting for 4 hours. I cannot put into words how I feel. I hope I do not sound selfish as if mine is the only pain in the world. my wife and I are completely heartbrokdn. I applogize if I sound as if my pain is the only that matters. I just have not slept since and I need to vent.
I found a support group for survivors of homicide victims beneficial, b/c most people refuse to acknowledge that a murder victim existed once he's dead. In the group, I was allowed to talk about my loved one as a person, not a victim.
That helped more than anyone will ever know.
A parent's grief is like no other. I discovered that when listening to parents of murdered children. I have no problem saying it's more intense, b/c I've seen their reactions first-hand.
@cozmikrider so sorry for your loss and oftentimes people forget that the father hurts just as much as the mother when a baby dies ..God bless you little one xx
@cozmikrider awww i am so sorry for your loss .i know what you were going through , i went through grief too when my grandpa died .i can't imagine my life without him<3
My Dada passed away on Wednesday. He was a good christian man. Im at peace because I know where he is. It is still hard. He always called me sweetie. I had to say my goodbyes yesterday. Hardest thing yet I have had to do. I have ben having trouble sleeping at night.
i am sorry to read of your loss -- it is very sad indeed -- nothing can be compared to the loss of your child -- i pray that he rests in peace -- i know how it must feel as i also lost my 10 year old daughter 4 years ago and it still feels fresh like i yesterday -- be strong !!
it has been three weeks now that my mother passed i was not close to her but there is this sadness , this anger and also not understanding if im being weak is this normal but after watching this i see that it is normal. I have no familly so i just didnt know if it was normal for me of course i know its normal for all humans but there was still a quiestion in my head of why ? am i being weak? should i not cry? i am going to search for groups in austin to see if i can get help in dealing with it
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My stepmom was killed in a car accident on January 31, 2012. She has three boys. Six, 12, and 15. We didn't get along at all. In the beginning it was great, but the past few years, our relationship just went downhill. I remember wishing she would die so many times. And now that it's really happened I feel like such a bitch. I'm at a total loss of words, thoughts, feeling. Everything. I'm so lost now.
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My stepmom was killed in a car accident on January 31, 2012. She has three boys. Six, 12, and 15. We didn't get along at all. In the beginning it was great, but the past few years, our relationship just went downhill. I remember wishing she would die so many times. And now that it's really happened I feel like such a bitch. I'm at a total loss of words, thoughts, feeling. Everything. I'm so lost now.
jcjcks 11 hours ago
My stepmom was killed in a car accident on January 31, 2012. She has three boys. Six, 12, and 15. We didn't get along at all. In the beginning it was great, but the past few years, our relationship just went downhill. I remember wishing she would die so many times. And now that it's really happened I feel like such a bitch. I'm at a total loss of words, thoughts, feeling. Everything. I'm so lost now.
jcjcks 11 hours ago
i started getting annoyed with this woman right as she mentioned anger. Well played.
Audlife123 2 days ago
I'm still having trouble with his death, and now I have to house sit at my parents house for the weekend -- where he lived.. Thus I'm not sure how I will be able to deal with it. I'm not good with other dogs right now, so when my aunt comes over with hers, it will be even harder probably... I don't know what to do, it just isn't home without him.. :( rip Rexxie. I'll see you again someday..
Keeperofthesouls 2 weeks ago
Just lost 3 people and my best friend, my dog, over Christmas week.. Still very hard to deal with, 2 of them were only 18 years old, and I had to hold my dog while they put him down, he was my best friend.
Keeperofthesouls 2 weeks ago
my friend died two days ago by a tree felling acident, problem is i dont feel grief for him just emptyness. rest in peace johnathan kent i will miss u
bignose12345666 2 weeks ago
my dad died and it dosnt even feel like its real. happened so fast.
thekellyjellybear 1 month ago
@thekellyjellybear Sorry for your loss. I'm going thru the same thing. Hard isn't it.
dirkbogarde44 1 month ago
my grandma died today...
latoywri 1 month ago
never really thought about stuff before...
s5u0myn0nA 1 month ago
R.I.P Dathan Christopner Jones Jr. 06/14/11- 12/4/11. Mommy misses u so much! I LOVE U!
ShanellR 1 month ago
my best friend died today :( miss you hayden
2011EvoLution 1 month ago
Rest in peace grandpa. We all love and miss u already.
awkwardchild68 2 months ago
My friend died in July of 2011 and my young sister of 55 yrs old passed away On Nov. 17th of 2011. I am having a hard time dealing with all of this. I'm really sick with grief.
ElephantGeorge 2 months ago
@ElephantGeorge hey there i hope your able to talk to people close to you not good to keep it inside, all the best
larionds 2 months ago
my grandfather is said to die soon i need to tell him how much i love him and it hurts so much thinking about it i wish i could go back in time and enjoy all the happy times we had.
fuwestside4 2 months ago
i want my dad back....
MrCheezburgur 2 months ago
@420Jakal Me And My Brother Are Having A Hard Time Dealing With Our Loss Of Our Brother!!
420Jakal 3 months ago
My grandpa died yesterday
SailorMoon17011 3 months ago
rest in peace my beautiful girlfriend kaylee </3 :( only 15 years old :(
metalboyroy 3 months ago
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NuLaifMusic 3 months ago
i cant grieve now i have exams
JGORE188 4 months ago
I learn to respect Death after my mother died. 5 years later, the pain slumbers in my soul. The Water of the Earth cannot replenish the tears Ive shed over my mother. Honestly I think my mother got the better end of the deal. It is said that no parent should outlive thier child, but no child should ever be left behind. Death isn't the enemy... Life is. But you have to tough enough to take on Living Life. besides, out of all the broken promises of LIFE, Death will keep its word.
AstroMen2911 4 months ago
my papa died yesterday on sep. 29,2011 he had cancer and he had 2 options: either get tubes put in his chest and live a little longer with suffering, or just have the doctors give him morphine until his heart stopped he chose morphine and im so sad right now
MrChestypuller1775 4 months ago
@MrChestypuller1775 please stay strong, My pop passed February, they are watching us this I do know 100%. he was the closest friend and the greatest man I ever knew.I am proud to have had him bring me in.one of the ways I Have found in coping is to live out all he taught me. and sometimes I get to see him in the mirror.
hemigod2 3 months ago in playlist Dealing With Death
@hemigod2 I'm sorry. I'm good right now, I only try to think about the good memories. Thanks and take care buddy.
MrChestypuller1775 3 months ago
I miss my teacher, he was the only one that was there for me. I need somebody.
WeaqSaucee 4 months ago
I dont even know were to begin iv seen my best friends killed in fights. Then i find out my girl is dead and nothing i can do. :( i dont know what to do my friends seem to have abandoned me. this life seems to hate me alot :( idk how iv even gotton to the wonderful age of 19.
Madriddick101 4 months ago
@Madriddick101 You should get phone number for your local (mental health), crises team. Dealing with death is hard enough, but when it is sudden and unexpected like with a car accident or murder, it is even harder and can make your life seem like its going down hill. You will be running thru all the emotions but if you are that low and contemplating suicide, don' t do it. Your loved ones would want you to live. See it this way, your at your worst point in life. Now things can only get better
rhythm2007mc 3 months ago
@rhythm2007mc One of them did commit suicide im literally the last one to tell thier story i wont do it cuz if i die then everything we fought for and with and y dies with me
Madriddick101 3 months ago
@Madriddick101 I really feel for ya m8, your tight and you will cherish them memories. U have to be strong, even when your in complete despair. Remember to get plenty of rest as going thru all the emotions takes your energy. Also make sure you try to continue your life as usual, same routines etc and that your eating properly. I just had to bury my grandad on Friday, not the same situation as you. Because your situation is unique and involves a suicide you should find some1 you trust 2 talk 2
rhythm2007mc 3 months ago
@rhythm2007mc I try some days and i feel for ya thier i just recently lost a grandparent but like i said iv been doin this bymyself for most part me and my friends were tighter then the links on a chain the ones i got cant understand or say i am makin my life up and stuff and its like wtf lol i tell them what happen and its lies. its ridicules i was irreponsible and tried to drink it all away or something like that i barely remember names but i do remember thier faces
Madriddick101 3 months ago
@Madriddick101 If your with friend atm and their saying your lieing. They are not true friends. When we die all soul/spirit still lives on. Maybe you should consider going to your local spiritualist church. They usaully have meeting every week and welcome new comers. If you ave'nt been to one before its kinda abit like a church meeting were ya sing a few hymns. There is a spiritualist/psychic who then communicates with spirits that communicate with him/her.
rhythm2007mc 3 months ago
@Madriddick101 you may not get a spirit come thru for you the first time but if ya keep going you should get a reading. I think in your situation you may get them coming thru stronger than others. Don't tell the spiritualist doing the reading any info on the people you knew. If their right just say yes or no etc. You will know who has come thru by the message etc.
rhythm2007mc 3 months ago
R.I.P STANLEY.
skanoniv 4 months ago
my uncle died 5 days ago at age 52 and im only 14 i seen him a half hour before he died.i miss him so much already
girlskates13 4 months ago
No one can understand this pain except those who have gone through it themselves. After 21 years, I lost my beloved husband to cancer last month. Already I am "yesterday's news", and people tell me to "get over it." He was a kind, gentle man, a Tai Chi instructor, who did not deserve this pain. Cancer is a filthy thief.
Merricat42 4 months ago
i know this s heardly as bad a loss as some of the other people, but im 12 and my dog is having a painfull death, and he is also 12. and i don't think i can take him being put down
Jesserulztheworld 5 months ago
@Jesserulztheworld No, your loss is equally difficult. I remember when I was about 12/13, I was just starting secondary school, high school for those in the states, and my dog died at 15. I was devastated. I could not go to school, and I just cried that night, and for days afterwards. We buried him next to the house, but I remember being depressed for months afterwards, because I had lost my closest friend. And with starting highschool, it was just a terribly difficult year. contd
yellowcougar18 4 months ago
@yellowcougar18 My dog was 15, btw, not me. He passed away naturally, and we did not have to make the difficult decision to put him to sleep, but I know others who have had to make that decision. I know that it is difficult, but if you do make the decision to put your friend to sleep, try to be there when the vet puts him to sleep. Just stroking his head, telling him you love him, and how much he meant to you...
I lost a dog ten years ago, and I stayed up every night to watch her while she cont
yellowcougar18 4 months ago
@yellowcougar18 was ill and dying. I am not ashamed to say I was sad and cried to see her dying, but I stayed up night after night for a week until she died. She passed away at 5.00 am on St Stephen's Day 2001. But she was no longer suffering, and I took solace that her pain was over. It's funny, but even to this day, we still talk about her.
Your dog loves you just as much as you love him. His death will be difficult, and you must share it with your family. They may feel the exact same.
yellowcougar18 4 months ago
Last night my grandfather passed in his sleep 2 weeks after being diagnosed with leukemia. For the last week his loved ones surrounded him while he was bed ridden at his house, watching his body slowly die and him loosing the ability to move or even talk. The only thing keeping him alive was the will to live. On the last day anyone could understand him he told us he was afraid to sleep because he knew he wouldn't wake up.His final words were he loved us all, and he had a good life.I love you to.
AMonkeyThatIsChunky 5 months ago
My dad died today and I dont know how to deal with it. A part of me is missing.
paulma222 5 months ago 7
@paulma222 I am so sorry
TheKatyLady1 2 months ago
@TheKatyLady1 Thank you <3
paulma222 2 months ago
When someone close to you dies, It doesn't quite feel real, at first.
LovingThisMusicLife 6 months ago
Dealing with death is hard u never no when that day will cum. the one thing u cant do is beat ur self up r stay down u have 2 get back up. im so young in i lost my baby boy at 6 days old that is the hardest part of my grief my own child im still l copeing with it . it hurts so bad ! i also lost my mom n dad a few years after my son death . RIP 2 all my love ones !!! i lost a lot but sum day i will c them again this life on earth is not 4 ever.
elizabeth050682 6 months ago
My beautiful aunt passed away yesterday, it still hasn't sunk in that she's gone. I miss her so much <3
hub246 6 months ago
today my aunt died...she was going to give birth to two babies this week...i miss her already...
TheMeanTaco 6 months ago
My cousin i considered a sister died yesterday age 35 and all because of a rare disease that has no cure and doctors dont know how it starts its know as still's disease and its so hard to say goodbye i look across the street at her window and break down she left behind 4 children that i am close with and we all still believe its a bad dream and we're gonna wake up soon i wish it was true because i cant handle this pain too much stress and grieve to let go R.I.P ESTHER" COOKIE" VIZCARRANDO
iKiNGSLAY3R 6 months ago
My mother died 2 days ago in the hospital. She had numerous health problems with her lupus, kidneys, and her cancer. Today was her funeral. Very hard to do dealing with with death of my mother. I am still grieving very deeply. In time, I will get better soon with my sadness and grief over my mother's death. I know she is in peace in heaven and not suffering. I hope to see her in heaven someday to be with her. Love you mom forever and always!
websurfer74 6 months ago
I am preparing for the loss of my cat. He's not doing so well. He's 14 years old and has lived a great life. My heart breaks everytime I see him being sluggish, not eating, making shallow breaths. As an athiest, death is extremely difficult for me. And I know people say it's just a cat, but he is more than that. He is my best friend. Watching this was very helpful, but I don't think any amount of preparation can make me ready for his death. Not after the life we've lived together.
Forlo12345 6 months ago
My father died 2 days ago. That makes both parents now ripped from my life.
She's absolutely correct that in time you learn to live with the hurt and loss. I think it's offensive when people suggest to others they "get over it", even if a certain number of months or years have gone by.
I find it very healing to talk about my father and mother. They were phenomenal people who deserved to spend much, much more time here on Earth.
RIP dad. Be with mommy forever; my two beautiful, loving angels.
jazmella 6 months ago
I was told two months ago, "ur not supposed to cry for your late son! your supposed to NOT cry" and I thought..."who the hell is he to say? He's never lost a son or daughter before!!" Well, that guy that said for me not to cry is still living with his mom on weekends, doesn't work, his wife works! When I want to cry, I will! there is no way I can suppress my grief! Do NOT listen to other people that are ignorant, ur are the judge of your feelings! :D
Lilacsandbeans 7 months ago
R.I.P Kori Hines </3 you killed yourself because of me... I can't believe you're gone...
TheVKfan1 7 months ago
RIP daddy </3
wemissyousld22 7 months ago
My wife died 7 days ago, after fighting cancer for 5 years. Only 38 years on this earth. I miss her so much.
pricelus1 7 months ago 25
@pricelus1 I lost my sister to cancer almost 2 months ago, she was 19.
AnotherNutJob 6 months ago
@pricelus1 I hope things have gotten better for you. I'm sure she'll be waiting for you in heaven.
BlongBlarble 3 months ago
@pricelus1 hey man, i hope thing are slowly getting better, let me know how you are
larionds 2 months ago
thank u my brother died at age one
gfunkara 7 months ago
my dog died yesterday, i know its nothing compared to a sibling, parent, child and so on, but she was part of our family and ther is a big void in all our lives arm
jamtheman3017 7 months ago
@jamtheman3017 my dogs gonna be put down today :'(
TheWildchild1999 7 months ago
@TheWildchild1999 ive accepted it now, but i was so sad for a while. dont worry, youll soon come to terms with it and you can move on
jamtheman3017 7 months ago
@jamtheman3017 so true... dogs are part of our family. We had to put our dog to sleep on June 11. He was 15 years old and sick. My heart is broken now and the pain seems unbearable at times :(
marg433 7 months ago
RIP Grandma <3
Linus9955 8 months ago
RIP Grandad.
MangaNeoLeo 8 months ago 2
May god be with you great grandma I'll always love you and never forget you
alexisation 8 months ago
No farewell words were spoken,No time to say goodbye,You were gone before we knew it,And only God knows why.
"A thousand words won't bring you back, I know because I've tried; neither will a million tears, I know because I've cried"
alexisation 8 months ago
my friend died of cancer last week, after a year of having it he finally left us, it was so hard, i watched him deteriorate physically and mentally, feeling helpless cause couldn't do anything to make it go away. about 10 months in he lost his vision and his hearing and it really hit me for the first time during that year that my friend wasn't going to make it. It's the most awful thing to lose someone you love, my condolences for everyone ... R.I.P James.
SynysterEngage 8 months ago
My gradfather died today...if there was heaven he' would be up there...I'll remember you forever...
-R.I.P Ivo Rimac 5.18.11
ronackostolomac 8 months ago
Mom..... please come back....i still need you...
pilover314159 8 months ago
Please listen and comment on Tammie Darlene's song Daddy's Girl. It's a quickly put together video but the real one with the acting is coming soon! Please give feedback! And god bless all who've lost their daddy. Nobody should have to go through that kind of heartache.
Skeetergirlie 8 months ago
lost abro today and it sucks without words.. just hopeing time will heal
carlthelycanwolf 9 months ago
My mom died suddenly on Easter after a freak brain hemorrhage that nobody saw coming.. this is the worst pain I've ever felt. My mom was my best friend, my confidant, my rock, my mentor, my world... I never dreamed at 25 would I have written and read my mom's eulogy.. she was only 55 and was in good health. I talked to her an hour before the aneurysm erupted and she didn't say anything about headaches or blurry vision.. but I thank God that I got to talk to her that one last time.
trancestimuli 9 months ago
My best friend died today :( Everyone thats commenting, Just remember that they are in a better place now, smiling down on you.
keactress16 9 months ago
earlier my mom told me my grandfather probably wont return from the hospital and i asked if he was gonna die and she said probably,i was shoked and went upstairs and started crying and everyday now im gonna pray that hes's alright
Rocky78ize 9 months ago
i'm 16 and my grandma just died yesterday unexpectedly. she was 85 but really healthy. And i'm still sad about when my dog died last year, he was 13. i came to this vieo looking for help. it didn't help at all.
Ziffelzoovop 9 months ago
I am 12 and my dad died of brain cancer 2 years ago I miss him so much as I get older I grieve more often as I understand what is going on more and I am not ashamed that I cry at least 3 times a week about him it is like a huge hole in my chest
ipodrevolution25 10 months ago
my brother passed of cancer a day after his 37 birthday. it was neglected as a swollen gland on his neck. he passed a month and a half after in the hospital. we were 11 months apart, and it been a month and i cant function! i feel cheated and my fuse has gotten shorter. recommend looking for a grief counseling, also type in non-profit and some will pop up. sincerely...... another grieving soul!
pigpaul 10 months ago
My niece died in October 2008 and I am feeling alot of pain about it today. I don't know why it hurts so much it has been two and a half years now. I am missing her today. I am angry at the Doctor. He should have run tests when My sister took Jacquiline to the doctor to make sure it wasn't anything serious. The doctor said that he tought my niece was exagerating her illness. And now she is dead. She died in her sleep two days later.
Mineretta2012 10 months ago
im 11 and my mom died of cancer. i couldnt stand watching her suffer. its actually better because she has no more pain. but its hard to not be with her anymore. i miss her already its been a week. this video didnt help me. if anyone has advise please help me. be strong evryone. R.I.P. i love you
MegaTheeminem 10 months ago
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wowza191 10 months ago
Thank you.
My grandma died exactly a year ago today at about 11am and i swear there hasnt been a day that went by the past year that i havent thought about how much i miss her. i called her everyday and i still miss that.
TheGingerkid2 10 months ago
I'm not good with dealing with death. I'm always a mess, when others seem to handle it better then me.
USFA45LC 10 months ago
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WanaBeUnderstood 10 months ago
my mom died when i was i little and my grandma raised me. she died last summer of cancer. i hated seeing how much pain she was in and i couldnt help her. everyday hurts as bad as it did when she died. people are constantly telling me to move on and get over it but when someone whose so important to you dies its like you almost want to die yourself just to be with them. and knowing your here and there not its a big change.
logalex89 11 months ago
my cat died yesterday and i am grieving over him. i feel stupid because you have all lost family and i am crying over my pet!
MrAaront703 11 months ago
I have been Grieving for 6 years straight I lost my sister a couple years back and it Still Hurts Inside i have a Hole inside me that will Not heal My heart Shattered When i lost her It hasnt been easy for me Cause I had to go into Isolation
Andylong99 11 months ago
2 years ago today my dad passed in his sleep. I miss him so much.
KJT922010T 11 months ago
Two days ago my boyfriend died. He was beat to death because he was in a "gay neighborhood". It absolutely disgusts me that in our day and age people are still being murdered for merely loving someone. I loved and still do love him with all of my heart. I will never forget him. R.I.P Aaron.
For everyone else dealing with the loss of a loved one, im so sorry and i hope you will find happiness again.
UrDestinEbiznatch 11 months ago 29
2007 in august or april i dont no which one but my cat suky died she was pollie she almost got put to sleep but she was 21 years old so she could have died of old age
james59121 11 months ago
i really love my dad with all my heart my dad will always be my hero everyone who knew me always knew my dad and i were very close and my mum would always be out of the house and my dad and i would always have fun cooking and watching movies together i miss him terribly he died of a DVT even though im 14 i would trade my life in order for him to live i also feel very alone because my mum still continues her ways of not being with me or sparing time to watch a movie or something miss u daddy
madsainash 1 year ago
putting ads on these vids isnt the best thing...
Datruebdizzy7285 1 year ago
my pet died today. i had my rabbit for 8 years and he was really special and had the greatest personality.
i know you guys may think:"omg it's just a rabbit..." but it hurts really much and i cant stop crying. i loved him so much and he was with me my whole childhood.
i wish you all strength and power to overcome the sadness of your loss. remember that our loved ones will be alive forever in our souls and hearts.
Rest in peace Pjuske <3
LooveAshleyTisdale 1 year ago
@LooveAshleyTisdale Dealing with death of a pet is a pain I still struggle to deal with. Part of it is the whole lack of understanding of the loss. My grandmother still laughs at the "fond" memory of me in 2nd grade crying after my FIRST ever doggie died. B/c I cried surround sound all night. Even having a healthy pet afterwards, a part of me is shaking in fear of the inevitable. And this video didn't help. You may feel alone in your grief, but I know your Pjuske is waiting to meet you again.
hbanana7 11 months ago
@hbanana7 thank you so much for your sweet respond. :) nice to see that there's sweet and kind people out there who knows how I feel. And i'm really sorry about your dog in second grade i can understand how you must've felt. But I hope you are ok now!
And thank you, for saying that he's waiting for me, that made me really happy :)
LooveAshleyTisdale 11 months ago
my poppy was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer last year, and my whole family is a total wreck.im 13 and i have to take on alot of adult responsibilites now since my parents are constantly out at my poppys house taking care of him. he was like my second daddy, when my parents were at work when i was little, he was taking care of me. and he always used to sing to me the song,"you are my sunshine" i sing it to myself alot, and cry and cry and cry. idk what im gnna do when he dies... :(
BrawnyS2schewi 1 year ago
My dad died on March 1st 2009. Miss him with all my heart. There isn't a time to get over it, You just have to put it behind you and remember all the good times you had with that person.
KJT922010T 1 year ago
This is a really interesting video. Especially the part about learning to live with loss.
TheSiteVideos 1 year ago
@cooldood416, I agree with remembering the good times with them. Grief is really a form of stress actually. When we're coping the loss itself it's actually named Loss-oriented stressors. When we build NEW habits and activites from our lack of happiness of not being able to do things like we used to is called Restoration-oriented stressors. Our grieving is NORMAL, crying all the time is NORMAL. As a society I feel we don't give ourselves the proper time. It's important to remember that. :)
UmYeahSoHereIam 1 year ago
@cooldood416 I have read it. Just remember the happy times with them, I know no one can replace them, but just remember the happy times and you'll get through.
adamboeing737 1 year ago
my best friend died yesterday on the way back to college it hurts so much isin explanable
incrediblemosher12 1 year ago
I miss my mother. She passed away in april, gosh I just cant get over it..
DontTreadOnMePrepper 1 year ago
@DontTreadOnMePrepper Don't worry you will find a coping mechanism, I lost my sister two years ago, just take your time and you will eventually find a way to cope. It's hard and trust me the worst year is the worst. Just remember all the good times, people who haven't dealt with this sort of thing do not understand, It hurts you in so many ways and some times it makes you angry just remember whatever you are feeling is okay and normal! :)
dancinmadcow 1 year ago
My mom died a week before Thanksgiving in 2010, I am so sad right now that I have almost completely lost my will to live. She was my best friend, I told her all of my secrets, we shopped, travelled, attended church together, we did a lot of things together. I am inconsolable right now. I need to find others like myself for true support. I cannot go to friends and family because despite how much they knod their heads and say, "I understand", somehow I just don't feel they do.
foundmyniche 1 year ago
@foundmyniche i know how you feel i just lost my daddy a week ago i cant stop crying and im only 14 but age doesnt matter it still hurts no matter what
madsainash 1 year ago
@madsainash I pray for you because I know how you feel. This world seems so big now, I am trying to take it one day at a time, I am looking for direction now because at this point, I've kind of lost my way. Let's continue to pray for each other. Although I didn't know your father, I do believe this one thing, our parents are in paradise, they no longer have to suffer the pains of this world, sickness, evil people, etc.
That's the only thing I take solace in knowing. God bless you!
foundmyniche 1 year ago
@foundmyniche thank you ive been praying for you to ive just got back from his funeral tough day but i know you must be going through the same thing
madsainash 1 year ago
I lost my mom when I was 11. I'm 15 now. it sucks.
Metalgamerdood 1 year ago
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ive always been stoic with deaths of family members. but for the first time in years i attended a funeral, that of my aunt. as the songs played and the casket rolled in....i felt overwhelmed and claustrophobic. it felt like my world was caving in around me. So for an hour i sat there the only person weeping. I felt weak, I still do.
apbroscioli 1 year ago
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ive always been stoic with deaths of family members. but for the first time in years i attended a funeral, that of my aunt. as the songs played and the casket rolled in....i felt overwhelmed and claustrophobic. it felt like my world was caving in around me. So for an hour i sat there the only person weeping. I felt weak, I still do.
apbroscioli 1 year ago
ive always been stoic with deaths of family members. but for the first time in years i attended a funeral, that of my aunt. as the songs played and the casket rolled in....i felt overwhelmed and claustrophobic. it felt like my world was caving in around me. So for an hour i sat there the only person weeping. I felt weak, I still do.
apbroscioli 1 year ago
I lost a very dear friend to Cancer a month ago this Wednesday and,I'm crying over their loss,and I regret not being with them in their final days. I went to calling hours and the funeral. It still makes my sad to look at their pictures. I accept they were dying and their was nothing that no one could of done,I miss them dearly and I wish I could let them how I love them and how much miss them.
catherinemcclanahan 1 year ago
Mommy,I love you! You have passed over 11/22/2010. May God bless you in heaven.
Niajify 1 year ago
I wish everyone on the outside looking in could see this video, I lost my 6 year old daughter suddenly 3 years ago. I still miss her, I still grieve. As she says in the video, you learn to live and carry on but DIFFERENTLY. I still get approached by idiots that do not understand that say cruel things....if only they knew the harm they do.
Thephoenixrising2020 1 year ago
Yesterday, one of my friends died. We weren't good friends, but we talked sometimes and I thought she was one of the nicest people i know. It all happened so fast, and I can't stop crying. I barely even knew her and my heart hurts really bad. To anyone who's greiving over a loss that's reading this, It's okay to cry. It's okay to feel sad. It's really hard to lose someone who's close to you, or someone you knew.
Seasonaltwilight24 1 year ago
R.I.P Grandpa
austin2460 1 year ago
I wonder how this will help me..... my rabbit just died today because of a disease and I cried.........
revolversmoke 1 year ago
I always wonder how people lose a loved one and a few months later they seem fine, I know I would become unstable and never recover.
Miikaika25 1 year ago
How do you deal with my wife who left after N argument !! she has bin gone for 6 years, If she was dead i would know were shes at But this just kills me.Day after Day
CottonmouthMovies 1 year ago
My mom died 2 days ago, Im at the point where I am deeply sorrowed and somewhat angry that she had to leave so soon. I always knew the day would come but nothing could ever prepare me for it. It was so sudden and such a shock
I feel like I bear the burden of everyones grief for my mom. It hurts 10x more seeing my family in despair over her death. My heart is broken and it breaks over and over everytime I think of the things she's going to miss out on. Every waking moment I am in tears
Pozorrogo 1 year ago
R.I.P Brittany Vega 1996 - 2010. You lived a short 14 years. I wish it was me who was hit by that car.
M1kesSerenad3 1 year ago
RIP BRUCE ARKIN 1967-2010. True friend, talented musician. Taken too soon.
feedmecoolshit 1 year ago
'Nothing is more healing than to be able to tell the story of the loss over and over.'
No WONDER we never find any healing. People don't let you tell the story more than once if it happened by murder, not w/out telling you you've been grieving too long.
When someone in my family was first murdered, another person we told it to said we have "two weeks" to grieve and be done w/ it.
I thought he was stupid and never talked to him again.
It took me a year just to stop feeling numb about it.
vickiormindyb 1 year ago
I don't want to die.
peacefrog1916 1 year ago
I think theres nothing more painful than loosing someone who was dear to you. I'm not gonna say that I dont fear death, but Im much more afraid of having to deal with the death of someone close to me. Luckily I never felt such pain, but the way I feel every time I hear someone that's not even related to me has died, I just wonder how deeply depressed I'll be when the time comes for me to deal with the death of a close relative. I really wish I could have a better relationship with death :C
fpereira77 1 year ago
turn to god say this prayer he hears you "Jusus i come before you heart broken confused and sad Jesus I ask that you give me some type of comfort, healing and understanding. God you know all things and you know how im feeling. I need you lord not only i this hard time but every day of my life. I put my trust in you lord and praise your name amen" cast your worries upon him hope it helps .
annamichael 1 year ago
One of my friends is brain dead and is only alive through life support and they are going to cut it tommorow
jasonsteel1002 1 year ago
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I just lost my father yesterday right after his 42nd birthday. He was a good man and I could not have asked for a better dad. This video helps some, but what comments that others have left helps more. To know that some things I am feeling isn't just me, really helps. I have been fearing that I act like my pain is worse then others and that at times I am not feeling enough. I miss my daddy like hell and I love him very much.
undeadmuffin 1 year ago
I just lost my father yesterday right after his 42nd birthday. He was a good man and I could not have asked for a better dad. This video helps some, but what comments that others have left helps more. To know that some things I am feeling isn't just me, really helps. I have been fearing that I act like my pain is worse then others and that at times I am not feeling enough. I miss my daddy like hell and I love him very much.
undeadmuffin 1 year ago
@undeadmuffin, I found your comment and felt complelled to respond. I'm sorry to hear about your father's passing away. Sounds like you had a great dad. I have two teenage children who don't appreciate me and my husband (we're both their bio parents) although they have a good life. It's good to hear when a son or a daughter appreciates their parents as you have stated you did love your dad. I hope you are holding up ok.
Genesis2Jesus 1 year ago
@Genesis2Jesus Thank you very much. I am holding up well I think, thanks for asking. As far as your children go, I would have to say sadly it's just being a teen. I picked fights with dad so much when I was a teen, didn't even know why. So don't give up hope on them appreciating you. Dad always thought I didn't appreciate him until last year, in truth he was always my hero. Takes kids time to come out of that stuff.
undeadmuffin 1 year ago
I lost my brother-in-law to cancer yesterday.. It hurts so bad..I'm trying to be strong for my sister, nieces, and nephews but yet I can't deal with it myself... I couldn't sleep at all last night.. I found myself crying so hard at 3 am this morning and getting sick to my stomach.... I talked to his 3 year old son this morning and he asked where was his dad.. my sister had to explain he's in heaven now..
robinlr24 1 year ago
My Nan sadly passed away yesterday and
im only 14 years of age, we could have had alot more good things happen so that we could laugh together over, i tell you what, lifes a bitch.
R.I.P Nanna 19/3/2010 I WILL NEVER FORGET YOU Nanna Always in my heart.
v4113yb0i 1 year ago
find Jesus. Sorry for your loss.
OnlineJon 1 year ago
my Dad just died and this helps im trying not to cry though because it seems like he wouldnt want me to
Ghostliermon 1 year ago
my mother just died
Kiyastand 1 year ago
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my grandpa passed away too a few days ago :'( At first, I was in denial and shock but then I just cried...a lot. It feels better when you let it out and now I go through moods. Happy like I can live without him and the next minute my heart is like aching to see him again. It's really confusing and stressful...but I guess time heals.
iluvsims288 1 year ago
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iluvsims288 1 year ago
My father died 3 days ago from cancer. The sadness is terrible,but what makes it worst is that I can't merely deal with my own pain my way,but I have to cope with the whole process following a death. I'm flying down in a few hours to my parent's home for the funeral occuring a week from today. I hate funerals. I don't want to stand in front of the open coffin. I have'nt seen my father's dead face yet & I don't want to. I want to mourn alone,but I can't. I have responsibilities.
sleedolfine15 1 year ago
I think the opposite. We never recovered his body, and so I never feel like it's completely real. He was there one day, healthy and happy, and gone the same in a murderous blast of flames.
We've never found a single remain to prove he ever existed in a physical form.
I never thought having a body mattered until we never found a trace of our loved one's physical existence.
Even cremated bodies exist before the cremation.
I feel this way b/c he was murdered by fools.
vickiormindyb 1 year ago
I have lost so many people in my life. I go through grief pretty fast. but the "unknown" confuses me. And walking in the house where they once were. Freaks me out not in a spooky sense. But to think that Yesturday they were here right where i am standing. And they were a living breathing being. i guess i will never understand death and why it happens and where we go. Sure Christians and people of religion have it all mapped out (so they think) But that is not good enough for me. WHY?
kevykev38 2 years ago
My cousin Robbie was hit and killed by a car Nov. 11 2009. At first, I felt a little sad. But now the tears are smiles of happieness that I have something more to look forward to in heaven.
Briguy6996 2 years ago
There is no way to get over death. Life does not last forever for more than one reason. First of all, Nature gave us these feelings so we could realize how much we love someone. This life is only one life of a million. And death does not mean someone is gone. It just means they have left the nest and are waiting for you to catch up to them.
Metalitron12 2 years ago
My sister just had stillbirth, the baby was perfectly healthy she was in her 9th month and the babys heart just stopped, for no reason. She was forced into regular laybor and delivery to a dead baby. It hurt realy bad for me, my family and expecially her. I dont know what to do, i want to do everything in my will to help her. its just so unnexpected and unfair. We were so excited. How can something so beautiful turn into something so ugly....
kira31293 2 years ago
me dad died earlier today and i was sad, and still am sad but me and him are good Christians and i know where he is and that hes safe but i still cant being sad
dudeaka12 2 years ago
It's been been 6 months...I'm still so sad but I'm hiding it so people wont worry about me. Maybe I need to join a group so I can express my grief in a public setting?
postalchick21 2 years ago
This video didn't help at all, my grandfather died 3 days ago, I miss him like hell, and I am crying constantly, and can't stop
sweetiegirl97 2 years ago 11
@sweetiegirl97 My sympathies to you...my uncle passed away 3 weeks ago and his death has been difficult to deal with.
ghunter182003 1 year ago
@sweetiegirl97 I know how you feel.
My grandfather just died the other day, and I cry a lot as well.
I miss him so much, just know,
you are not alone.
<3
xShatteredDreamsx3 1 year ago
@sweetiegirl97 i know me too and my grandpa died at age 82 , when me and my mom went to Lithuania,2 weeks after my mom got a call from my godmother she said that Grandpa died !i screamed like a little baby!!!!!!!!
145lietuvaite 1 year ago
Grieve at the time of the loss. That makes me laugh, b/c I was numb at the time of the loss. It lasted almost 2 years too.
Until August of 2003, I felt nothing but numbness and twinges of anger. But mostly numbness.
vickiormindyb 2 years ago 2
Thank YOU so very much..Thank you!
postalchick21 2 years ago
On July 12 my son was born prematurely. He died after fighting for 4 hours. I cannot put into words how I feel. I hope I do not sound selfish as if mine is the only pain in the world. my wife and I are completely heartbrokdn. I applogize if I sound as if my pain is the only that matters. I just have not slept since and I need to vent.
cozmikrider 2 years ago 20
I found a support group for survivors of homicide victims beneficial, b/c most people refuse to acknowledge that a murder victim existed once he's dead. In the group, I was allowed to talk about my loved one as a person, not a victim.
That helped more than anyone will ever know.
A parent's grief is like no other. I discovered that when listening to parents of murdered children. I have no problem saying it's more intense, b/c I've seen their reactions first-hand.
vickiormindyb 2 years ago
I'm not very good dealing with these situations at all which you will notice soon enough but I reccomend having another child.
GrillinMahToast 2 years ago
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@cozmikrider
glad he died.
emarine 1 year ago
@cozmikrider so sorry for your loss and oftentimes people forget that the father hurts just as much as the mother when a baby dies ..God bless you little one xx
herself11 1 year ago
@cozmikrider awww i am so sorry for your loss .i know what you were going through , i went through grief too when my grandpa died .i can't imagine my life without him<3
145lietuvaite 1 year ago
Only gods knows bless everyone!!
Meli5 2 years ago
I cant stop thinking of him it breaks my heart in 2 when i do. Everytime i try to stop thinking about him it just gets worse
smol0377 2 years ago
My Dada passed away on Wednesday. He was a good christian man. Im at peace because I know where he is. It is still hard. He always called me sweetie. I had to say my goodbyes yesterday. Hardest thing yet I have had to do. I have ben having trouble sleeping at night.
loralizziebeth 2 years ago
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He's dead in the fucking ground bitch heaven doesn't exist don't even respond religious retard.
GrillinMahToast 2 years ago
What Sandi said is true. There is no time limit no right or wrong way to grieve.
People will grieve long after the person is gone.
85520able 2 years ago
They told me it's time to get over it 2 weeks after it happened.
My husband, my daughter's dad, was murdered and we saw it. We couldn't stop it.
It shattered my 15-yr. old daughter, and it didn't do me much better.
But TWO weeks later, and they expected me to be over it.
I think not.
I still have no idea how to "deal with" a violent death.
vickiormindyb 2 years ago
i am sorry to read of your loss -- it is very sad indeed -- nothing can be compared to the loss of your child -- i pray that he rests in peace -- i know how it must feel as i also lost my 10 year old daughter 4 years ago and it still feels fresh like i yesterday -- be strong !!
kind wishs and prayers for you and your child
abukiran 2 years ago
it has been three weeks now that my mother passed i was not close to her but there is this sadness , this anger and also not understanding if im being weak is this normal but after watching this i see that it is normal. I have no familly so i just didnt know if it was normal for me of course i know its normal for all humans but there was still a quiestion in my head of why ? am i being weak? should i not cry? i am going to search for groups in austin to see if i can get help in dealing with it
destrampadilla 2 years ago
Thank you
zimbutd 2 years ago
my grandpa died today....
I'm so depressed. I thought I knew the meaning of grief but now I realize I didn't until now
Elfendied11 2 years ago
rest in peace Grandmal love you miss you aways 1930- 2009 3 -21 -09
switchme7274 2 years ago
thats a day before my beloved uncle tony died :'( 3-22-09 r.i.p uncle tony i fucking miss youuuuuuu! it feels like imnever gonna get over it :'(
RainbowChelly15 1 year ago