i used to cut myself. it was bad i was hospitalized 8 times and went to 6 different rehabs. i had issuesss... lol but i found my way and stoppeed and now i try to help other people with there problems because i dnt think no one in any of those institutions helped me. it is sooo hard at times but im making it thru. my foster mom is my biggest support. you just have to find someone to help you. and it can be done. you can stop cutting and drugs and all that shit. so if anyone needs help im here x]
disliked this video purely because im furious of how much people try to glamorize self harm and suicide. this is not me not understanding these two concepts i just think its wrong to be glamourized as something its not. and all these petty comments. tell your friends or a help line how you feel not but ''im gonna end it all, self harm is life <3 '' comments on a fucking music video!
I'm killing myself I don't care wat ne1 says or does to stop me. I quit. I'm sorry aj. In sorry. I will leave ur bro alone now. I only had a crush on him i don't c wat the big deal is. But u hate me for it and I'm sorry. Dene I like u ok? I'm sorry ur bro drove me this insane. I'll miss u. :c whoever reads this msg me if u wanna tlk me outta it. Good luck tho.
@16supernicole I honestly hope you have'nt done this please dont if I'm too late I'm sorry I wish I could have stopped you or someone better than me, dont ever do it I've tried enough times to realize that theres still beauty left in this shit hole of of a planet and its all around you just look just open your eyes and look.
I use to cut... My parents found out and I lost everything. All my friends were confused on why I deserved everything I had gotten, and I played this song during my schools talent show and I cried half way through it... now almost all the people in my school have a twloha bracket that they wear. If you are like me, there is help. You just need tell someone so they can help you :)... No hate mail please
@longlivescreamo The school called my mom about my cutting and told her that I should be evaluated by the doctor. I was in the office when she called, I willingly went up there....I wanted to stop but couldn't tell my mom myself...well my mom agreed to it and as soon as I walked in the door I was screamed at, cussed at, had no computer, no internet, no phone, nothing...she said I wouldn't do anything I was just looking for attention...apparently she cant see the scars...everyone else does...
@BabyGirl545139 Thats how my parents were, but they didnt come up to my school. and she doesnt cuss. She thought i was only doing it for attention but i clearly wasnt. She said that all the problems i have, i dont have. She doesnt believe me about many things. But she doesnt know how i feel. I wish she understood, That the life i live is real, not pretend.
@ChloeMarie1314 Well, my mom didn't come to the school, and she never had me evaluated either...that's the day that I told her i felt like a mistake that ruined her life, and she didn't tell me I wasn't.
@BabyGirl545139 thats not right.. My parents said they were gonna check my body for cuts everyday and that the school was going to also..They never did. thank god. Well, I just dont see why the school has to make a big problem about it..To me Cutting really isnt that bad..Well only because it helps me..
@KandyLuver67 I started to burn too,, for me it leaves scars.. Ugh. People can see it easily but i make up stories how i got them when they ask.. Oh well..
I cut myself. I used to have this friend, best friend, he made me feel so much better it made me want to stop. He tried so hard to stop me and he seemed like he really wanted me to. So I stopped. But then I started to think that we were growing apart and the only way to get his attention was cutting myself. So I started and told him I was doing it again. He was devastated. He stuck around for a bit but then he got depressed and he couldn't deal with me being so unreliable. So he had to leave me
I wish all my pain would go away, Ive been doing better but for some reason my pain and hurting won't go away... I want it to and everyones tellin me that if I wanted to stop all that "stuff" I would be able to.. But I CANT! Is it just me or has other ppl felt like this?
You know...you are not the only one. I have a twin sister. And she was all happy and smiling....she was a true sunshine. But....then her boyfriend came. I knew he was no good. But she loved him. And now...she has those terrible scars. Me, my family and her friends kinda helped her. With talking. It's easy, only if you really want to stop and if you have somebody to talk to. So...try to say "Hey! Do i really need to do this?" and send me a message if you need somebody to talk to.
This song used to be so me. Its still hard but God is making me stronger. If anyone wants to talk, just message me :) I will be happy to talk even if you have nothing to say. I know how much you just want someone to listen and not judge sometimes.
@XxabsentlifexX yur right. this song is abt finding love and thta love turns tew happiness. wen we find love its so beautiful. all yew care abt is tht one person. and tht one person makes yew so happy yur nt depressed anymore. and tht love doesnt have tew be with a boyfriend/girlfriend. it can be a bestfriend, a parent, something, anything. i wouldt tell my parents tho. they would send meh tew a looney bin. the point is tht love cn cure jus abt anything
I see the string of comments, so forgive me if mine seems out of place... But the song isn't about falling in love and having that make it all better. It's about realizing that somebody loves you. Someone cares enough to fight for you and with you. When you harm yourself, doesn't matter how deep or how much it hurts... At least someone is going through hell for it. No one wants to watch someone they love suffer. It's about drawing strength from that love. No matter if it's platonic or romantic.
ok so not tryin to start any arguments but in the music vid the person who comferts her is her dad... and this is just my point of view but when it says "she opened her eyes and found relief in His life" iv always assumed she found relief in God's life and freedom and grace and all that.
I know everyone find this song a 'good' song. but it's horrible. It's a terrible song, the meaning is just thrown out there, and it just the classic 'emo love story'. I self harm, I don't cut though, tried it and I couldn't catch it, burning suits me.
elliott smith, look him up. car better than this shit. music is poetry. it expresses the way you feel, but poetry is hidden aswell as thrown out there.
all I get from this song is, she cuts, her parent piss her off, and she finds some other guy.
@mazzyxoxo because, hun, it's an addiction. just like any drug. in fact i would compare it to the addiction that results of using heroin.. it's horrible.
one of my best friends told me you know tht part where he says "the deeper you cut the deeper ihurt"? ised "yeah" "well that's how ifeel when you do that." i'm not the emotional type but icried....
@paris101nicole i wouldn't say i've found "the cure" but i have been cut-free for a little less than five months. to be honest, there is no go-to answer. i found that the best cure is to love yourself. however, i never really made it there, so i focused all the love i had left in me on my brother. and i know that i don't ever want him to hurt like that because of me. that's not the permanent fix, but it's pretty damn good for a temporary fix..
@ILoveSeddie101 i know what its like, i was molested when i was 12. & i went through that stage. it was hard to quit being depressed and im still trying to get over it & then this year my best friend committed suicide over depression & didnt help me none. its a working progress.
sometimes istill secretly cut cuz ifeel like i'm alone in the world... hardly do inow but istill very lil do istill do it... ican't do them hardcore anymore thouqh... iwish icould find a reason to stop :(
@ILoveSeddie101 You should not even try to do that, i use to do it, and now i know that is not the answer, even a little could hurt you. i know i am no one to tell you, but i pass throw it i know it hurts inside.
@ILoveSeddie101 okay, but do you enjoy it? are okay with it? it doesn't matter how much you have done it, the thing is that it is still continuing and i know that doing thing like that are not the answer. i just said that was in it and i know how depression can be.
@ILoveSeddie101 i know its hard to stop, but its possible. whats the trigger causing this? (if i can ask) (if you want you can reply on a message instead of a comment.)
@caxo777 well it's a lonq story one of the main reasons iwas molested & my mom died when iwas 11 but there's more that's just some of the main reasons
@ILoveSeddie101 okay, i see, i am sorry about all that has happen, but i can tell you that your life still goes on, i know horrible things happen back in your life but if something happens like to the friend of ILoveSeddie101 that would hurt the ones that do care about you. i finish seeing this movie call how "to save a life" and it remind me what i went throw and maybe things you are going throw, i hope you can see it and if you decide not to well i guess. but remember that u are not alone.
@ILoveSeddie101 really really is not about religion, is that he is there and real, i know it seems religious, but trust me when i went throw it it seem like that too. but now i know he is there and he doesn't leave me =)
the boy helped her. she must feel pretty shit, but shes got someone to lean on, someone to help her through whatever she going through... whatever she does he loves her...maybe.
My Boyfriend Helped Me Stop. But Then He Cheated On Me. So I Cut Again. And He Said "Dont Cut!!! I Really Care About You!!" Is Something Wrong There? Or Is That Just Me? ):
For all of you girls (I'm a guy) who say that being in a relationship doesn't help depression, well your looking at it the wrong way. If you just get a lover because you want someone to talk to or because you want to fit in or because they share your views on life your not gonna feel that spark so you won't care. But if truly have a romantic love for this person, that blind love might just cure your depression.
@gamer10166 Love can't cure a medical problem. Sorry to tell you but it is impossible for that to happen. Even the richest most well thought of people have been depressed and no amount of love is going to change anything.
@gamer10166 Sorry to burst your bubble, but depression is actually a serious illness and a relationship can't cure it. Yes, it could help having someone, but it's not going to fix it. Being in a relationship won't make it disappear.
Cutting isn't a joke, and it's not a good habit. I would know, I 've been there, and I still am. But I'm learning that there are other options, and pain isn't something you have to feel. You have a purpose, and this isn't it. Live your life and don't let anyone make you think you don't deserve to. And live it happily.
Yes it is pretty fucked up, selfharm isn't something that should be advrtised it fucks you up, and causes many people much pain even if it's not them. So tbf, that's just a little too.. over the top :l
@phoeberomanceXO it's like pictures of girls all made up with makeup and pretty elegant dresses, with a knife. it's almost glamorizing it. i get your point. cutting is no joke and nothing that anyone should be proud of. it's an issue that isn't pretty or sweet or cute.
@phoeberomanceXO yeah. i get it. cutters aren't in a good state of mind and certain images and videos make it seem like now it's the hot thing to do. they should show a hot chick in a pretty dress sitting with her therapist. yeah, that's hot. i'm not trying to affend anyone! i used to cut too, but whats so pretty about having a blade or knife in your hand?
I could have related to this song a few monthes ago when this guy I started dating took me away from all the pain... But now, he's the one that's causeing it. It really sucks when you finaly start to feel better then everything that once was good to you, does a 180 and suddenly, you feel like crap all over again. To be honest, it's very discuraging, things like that make you just want to give up.
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@MySuicideSilence I understand, I'm in sort of the same boat, though I don't really see anything as higher (since for me, nature encompasses the entire universe, there there can be nothing higher than what is). Your comment about addition and self destructed reminded me of how a lot of people use religion in the same way, happiness does not exist without Jesus for some, I guess some people just can't let go of everything and be happy with just being alive.
@mar504 That's what I ment, Nature is God, God being a higher being. That higher being is nature. I don't mean to rag on religion, I mean I can appreciate and understand it to an extent but in my opinion it's all about fear and codependancy. To things I think should not power a person to live. I agree, they spend to much rime dwelling on what will happend afterwards to really just enjoy life without trying to find someone or thing to keep them going.
I love this song. It makes me shiver cause i can relate to it. I cut for awhile. Bad times.. But Thanks to this song, My wonderful Boyfriend Understanding Parents & Good friends i got through it. :) Ive never felt happier. I still Get depressed but i handle it better.
I don't really like the ending of this song. Like you need a boy in your life to get through? What if you don't have someone like that? How are you gonna get through? Yeah, therapy can help, but most therapists have never cut or felt the need to cut so how can they truly know how you feel? I cut and I've been trying to stop too .. :P It's hard though ..I hope people realize this is an addiction & not a way for attention, at least for most kids/teens it isn't .. :\
It can refer to that, but for some atheists/non-Christians (I am a Christian, btw) it can be for a boy. & God isn't there for everyone always, eitheir..
@mcmc101010 as i recall, emo is a type of music. "emotional hardcore"? so..people who are depressed are a type of music? yes, that makes perfect sense. hilarious.
Getting out of depression is about loving yourself at least enough not to torture yourself, someone else loving you doesn't change that. I've been told that I'm loved and I can't bring myself to trust its true. That's me though.
Perfect somg to explain me and my boyfriend.He helped me through the cutting/burning I went through,not counting the beatings from my mom.I love you Travis,forever and always <3
My boyfriend isn't shitty, completly not. He is the best person I ever met and I really love him. My depression is still there and I didn't stop hurting myself. It's a serious illness. Love doesn't make everything good, but it makes things easier.
im not quite sure if this song is about God or a boyfriend. . . the deeper the cut the deeper i hurt makes me think of a boyfriend though..so that's how i take it. and yeah, a boyfriend doesn't always help..sometimes it makes it worse. but i have an amazing boyfriend who usually gets me to stop.
@ShanananaLastASilent its about anyone thats there for her he could be talking about a friends, family, boyfriends, and, strangers anyone but it helped him or her i mean its doesn't go towards god but it can it you wanted it to be so yeah
I like it, but it would have been nice to have seen some pictures of Renee Yohe, the reason this song was written, and the reason behind To Write Love on Her Arms. If you watch their video, she is the girl on the bus. Also, I agree with what the others have said, it isn't that simple, it takes time, and you have to truly be willing, and make sure you never give up.
Self harm... No point in it, absolutely the stupidest way to "solve" your problems. I can honestly say anybody who can go so low as cutting themselves, and harming themselves in anyway, seriously has some issues. Flame me for this comment, I really don't care. But cutting is, and forever will be, pointless.
@mewness4lyfe it may not be the best way, but we need to help those that do, not harm them by calling them stupid for doing it and leaving them there to do it again. It is different for someone that just "sees" it, and someone that actually KNOWS someone that has gone through people that go through it.
true. i cut myself. i'm doing better because i'm in therapy and all that stuff.
i know people who does this too. people who do not cut don'tknow what is going on in side of people who does. on the moment you start with this, you're si desperate that you don't know what to do otherwise. you need others to see this. at least, most of the people who cut need others.
@MrBcskillings I've tried to help the one's that do. I've broken up with girls just because they do that, and after ll the years of trying to stop them, they've told me they would. But where do the scars keep coming from? I've basically just given up on them and am only focused on the ONE person who means the most to me. And you, nor anybody will ever make me think I'm wasting my time with that, because she's everything to me.
It's basically taking away the pain. You take the pain out on your wrists, though. You take it out on yourself cuz your the only one that understands your pain.
@xleftalonne I'm pretty sure I made that comment awhile ago. So, if you haven't figured it out, I'll just let you know. I really do not care how you, or anybody else may look at self harm, cutting, or anything like that, I think it's dumb as shit.
Whoever said I was stuck up? I'm just voicing out my opinion like anyone else. Like you. Does that make you a stuck up Atheist or whatever Religion you are, if you have one?
@xleftalonne I'm not saying only you are stuck up, just Christians in general. Now please, do yourself a favor and not reply to this. Just voice out your opinion to somebody who actually cares.
@Cecland And I couldn't care less if they did. But, take this into perspective, people aren't going to care about somebody who jumped into a conversation in which they had no business in. I was simply stating I did not have any interest in his opinion because it differs completely from mine, and there's nothing wrong with that.
i like it , and i love this song but with the pictures you chose i would put up at the beginning that it may trigger because we dont want anyone getting hurt.
i used to cut myself. it was bad i was hospitalized 8 times and went to 6 different rehabs. i had issuesss... lol but i found my way and stoppeed and now i try to help other people with there problems because i dnt think no one in any of those institutions helped me. it is sooo hard at times but im making it thru. my foster mom is my biggest support. you just have to find someone to help you. and it can be done. you can stop cutting and drugs and all that shit. so if anyone needs help im here x]
xxbabehxkatiexx 2 weeks ago
I wish it was that easy
razortotherosary1 4 weeks ago
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laxhoeforlifee 1 month ago
The last word is LIFE not knife, but, other than that, great video :) I love the pictures <3
bvbarmy4lyfe 1 month ago
where do u get them big razor blades? All i can find are them small flimzy ones
Steeeeevenn 3 months ago
I like this song I just think it's sad to see what some people go thru evry day
TheSilvermonkey123 4 months ago
disliked this video purely because im furious of how much people try to glamorize self harm and suicide. this is not me not understanding these two concepts i just think its wrong to be glamourized as something its not. and all these petty comments. tell your friends or a help line how you feel not but ''im gonna end it all, self harm is life <3 '' comments on a fucking music video!
phoeberomanceXO 4 months ago
I'm killing myself I don't care wat ne1 says or does to stop me. I quit. I'm sorry aj. In sorry. I will leave ur bro alone now. I only had a crush on him i don't c wat the big deal is. But u hate me for it and I'm sorry. Dene I like u ok? I'm sorry ur bro drove me this insane. I'll miss u. :c whoever reads this msg me if u wanna tlk me outta it. Good luck tho.
16supernicole 5 months ago
@16supernicole I honestly hope you have'nt done this please dont if I'm too late I'm sorry I wish I could have stopped you or someone better than me, dont ever do it I've tried enough times to realize that theres still beauty left in this shit hole of of a planet and its all around you just look just open your eyes and look.
punkid242 3 months ago
i hated this song.....i wanted to cut myself through out the whole video.
baygrunt813 6 months ago
I love this song.... But i cut.............. My auntie calls meh a little gothic chick.. I just look at her dumb but i'm upset this song helps alot..
Lillypop9256 6 months ago
i just wish he would wrap his arms around me.......i love you T.A.L and im sorry for what i did...i miss you.....</3
daniellerenee26 7 months ago
@liveisevilcat it's ok cause I feel the same way. I'm just a wast of breath in the shitty world
Aleishia1997 7 months ago
awesomee songg!! . . . describes meeh
forevercindy310 7 months ago
You know that she... Thats me. Its all ill ever be. Just another lost cause.
liveisevilcat 7 months ago
Steve Wynne I love you-3 'He leans down to comfort her. She is weeping and he wraps his arms around, and around, and...' thank you for helping me xox
mazzyxoxo 8 months ago 5
Between the trees savede from self harm -3
TheAmandaprincess13 9 months ago
I use to cut... My parents found out and I lost everything. All my friends were confused on why I deserved everything I had gotten, and I played this song during my schools talent show and I cried half way through it... now almost all the people in my school have a twloha bracket that they wear. If you are like me, there is help. You just need tell someone so they can help you :)... No hate mail please
longlivescreamo 9 months ago
@longlivescreamo The school called my mom about my cutting and told her that I should be evaluated by the doctor. I was in the office when she called, I willingly went up there....I wanted to stop but couldn't tell my mom myself...well my mom agreed to it and as soon as I walked in the door I was screamed at, cussed at, had no computer, no internet, no phone, nothing...she said I wouldn't do anything I was just looking for attention...apparently she cant see the scars...everyone else does...
BabyGirl545139 8 months ago
@BabyGirl545139 Thats how my parents were, but they didnt come up to my school. and she doesnt cuss. She thought i was only doing it for attention but i clearly wasnt. She said that all the problems i have, i dont have. She doesnt believe me about many things. But she doesnt know how i feel. I wish she understood, That the life i live is real, not pretend.
ChloeMarie1314 8 months ago
@ChloeMarie1314 Well, my mom didn't come to the school, and she never had me evaluated either...that's the day that I told her i felt like a mistake that ruined her life, and she didn't tell me I wasn't.
BabyGirl545139 8 months ago
@BabyGirl545139 thats not right.. My parents said they were gonna check my body for cuts everyday and that the school was going to also..They never did. thank god. Well, I just dont see why the school has to make a big problem about it..To me Cutting really isnt that bad..Well only because it helps me..
ChloeMarie1314 8 months ago 2
@ChloeMarie1314 I agree. Cutting helps me. But I can't do it. So I started to burn instead. It doesn't leave scars, and no one can see it.
KandyLuver67 6 months ago
@KandyLuver67 I started to burn too,, for me it leaves scars.. Ugh. People can see it easily but i make up stories how i got them when they ask.. Oh well..
ChloeMarie1314 5 months ago
@ChloeMarie1314 Thats how i am to..
Twilightbabii28 5 months ago
Hawthorne Heights sings this song. Just sayin'.
And they do it MUCH better.
To write love on her arms - Hawthorne Heights.
look it up.
lalanyalovesyouu 9 months ago
@lalanyalovesyouu Hawthorne Heights did a cover of this song. the original people to sing it is Between The Trees. You look it up.
randomtwinkie94 9 months ago 2
I cut myself. I used to have this friend, best friend, he made me feel so much better it made me want to stop. He tried so hard to stop me and he seemed like he really wanted me to. So I stopped. But then I started to think that we were growing apart and the only way to get his attention was cutting myself. So I started and told him I was doing it again. He was devastated. He stuck around for a bit but then he got depressed and he couldn't deal with me being so unreliable. So he had to leave me
mazzyxoxo 10 months ago
I wish all my pain would go away, Ive been doing better but for some reason my pain and hurting won't go away... I want it to and everyones tellin me that if I wanted to stop all that "stuff" I would be able to.. But I CANT! Is it just me or has other ppl felt like this?
Izabella4321 10 months ago
@Izabella4321
You know...you are not the only one. I have a twin sister. And she was all happy and smiling....she was a true sunshine. But....then her boyfriend came. I knew he was no good. But she loved him. And now...she has those terrible scars. Me, my family and her friends kinda helped her. With talking. It's easy, only if you really want to stop and if you have somebody to talk to. So...try to say "Hey! Do i really need to do this?" and send me a message if you need somebody to talk to.
UllaWiiMee 9 months ago
This song used to be so me. Its still hard but God is making me stronger. If anyone wants to talk, just message me :) I will be happy to talk even if you have nothing to say. I know how much you just want someone to listen and not judge sometimes.
CRYSTALclear678 10 months ago
@XxabsentlifexX yur right. this song is abt finding love and thta love turns tew happiness. wen we find love its so beautiful. all yew care abt is tht one person. and tht one person makes yew so happy yur nt depressed anymore. and tht love doesnt have tew be with a boyfriend/girlfriend. it can be a bestfriend, a parent, something, anything. i wouldt tell my parents tho. they would send meh tew a looney bin. the point is tht love cn cure jus abt anything
thesceniebaby 10 months ago
I see the string of comments, so forgive me if mine seems out of place... But the song isn't about falling in love and having that make it all better. It's about realizing that somebody loves you. Someone cares enough to fight for you and with you. When you harm yourself, doesn't matter how deep or how much it hurts... At least someone is going through hell for it. No one wants to watch someone they love suffer. It's about drawing strength from that love. No matter if it's platonic or romantic.
keybladequeen1316 1 year ago 26
@keybladequeen1316 ...wow. you just summed it all up. totally made my day, too. congrats for you.
BLONDE9711 6 months ago
why are there two different versions? cuz this one's different from the one on the official music video
j3d1m4st3r1 1 year ago
Well...I'm depressed now 0.0
My friend told me to listen to this song..Thanks T.T
Paramoreluvr1310 1 year ago
ok so not tryin to start any arguments but in the music vid the person who comferts her is her dad... and this is just my point of view but when it says "she opened her eyes and found relief in His life" iv always assumed she found relief in God's life and freedom and grace and all that.
melbrooke1 1 year ago 3
@melbrooke1 lol wow really
MoeDynasty 1 year ago
would just like to say,
having a love life, doesnt stop depression/ self harm whatever.
i still got taken into hospital and i was in a relationship.
i really do not like the video though at all.
phoeberomanceXO 1 year ago
That's shits Emo as fuck god damn :O
laviathine666 1 year ago
@laviathine666 shut up this song saved my life.
xJustAnotherEmoGirl 1 year ago
T_T this song only made me feel worse .... but i liked it =)
GothPunkDany 1 year ago
this is some emo shit man
Mrstonyscream 1 year ago
I know everyone find this song a 'good' song. but it's horrible. It's a terrible song, the meaning is just thrown out there, and it just the classic 'emo love story'. I self harm, I don't cut though, tried it and I couldn't catch it, burning suits me.
elliott smith, look him up. car better than this shit. music is poetry. it expresses the way you feel, but poetry is hidden aswell as thrown out there.
all I get from this song is, she cuts, her parent piss her off, and she finds some other guy.
e3ePancakeMassacree 1 year ago
gamer10166-
yeah, until you lose them, then what are you gonna feel?
mydaytoremember 1 year ago 2
ive heard this song a when i was younger but im just now actually listening to the lyrics and like..wow
jmanbgg 1 year ago
@ily4769 I hate doing it to myself but it gives me relief for those few seconds and thats enough for me :'(
mazzyxoxo 1 year ago 2
@ 0:49 the razor blade said made in england.....i love england for making this valuable piece of metal :)
15gatorsfan15 1 year ago
If only i could press the like button a million times more! <3
mariaverysweet 1 year ago
:'(
AdamLambertFreak2010 1 year ago
i heard this song and the first thing i thought of was my best friend and that makes me cry
littleflower258 1 year ago
i heard this song and the first thing i thought of was my best friend
littleflower258 1 year ago
Omg such horrible singing.O.o
xsilentandinvisible 1 year ago
@iloveseddie101 i am 15 now. i turn 16 in 2 months.
xxxmistakex 1 year ago
Why can't I stop doing this to myself
mazzyxoxo 1 year ago
@mazzyxoxo because, hun, it's an addiction. just like any drug. in fact i would compare it to the addiction that results of using heroin.. it's horrible.
ily4769 1 year ago
I'm not ashamed to admit it; I cried.
MrsFlabbagoose 1 year ago
one of my best friends told me you know tht part where he says "the deeper you cut the deeper ihurt"? ised "yeah" "well that's how ifeel when you do that." i'm not the emotional type but icried....
ILoveSeddie101 1 year ago 2
@ILoveSeddie101 2 of my friends said this to me, and it made me cry too
bleedinwoundofmalice 1 year ago
@bleedinwoundofmalice it hurt me when she sed that inever knew ieven mattered
ILoveSeddie101 1 year ago
to you it may seem sick but to me
this is my high.
this is my relief
and this is my addiction
The4everBroken 1 year ago 21
@The4everBroken sadly I agree
Jade10141 1 year ago
wow. this is great.
TheIncompatable 1 year ago
Hey is there anyone going threw this like i am and just haven't found the cure?
paris101nicole 1 year ago
@paris101nicole Yes.. I am.. :(
senoritajodidohasta 1 year ago
@paris101nicole i wouldn't say i've found "the cure" but i have been cut-free for a little less than five months. to be honest, there is no go-to answer. i found that the best cure is to love yourself. however, i never really made it there, so i focused all the love i had left in me on my brother. and i know that i don't ever want him to hurt like that because of me. that's not the permanent fix, but it's pretty damn good for a temporary fix..
ily4769 1 year ago
oh that goes to @caxo777 as well...
xxxmistakex 1 year ago
@ILoveSeddie101 i know what its like, i was molested when i was 12. & i went through that stage. it was hard to quit being depressed and im still trying to get over it & then this year my best friend committed suicide over depression & didnt help me none. its a working progress.
xxxmistakex 1 year ago
@xxxmistakex yeah it's hard how old are you now??
ILoveSeddie101 1 year ago
sometimes istill secretly cut cuz ifeel like i'm alone in the world... hardly do inow but istill very lil do istill do it... ican't do them hardcore anymore thouqh... iwish icould find a reason to stop :(
ILoveSeddie101 1 year ago
@ILoveSeddie101 You should not even try to do that, i use to do it, and now i know that is not the answer, even a little could hurt you. i know i am no one to tell you, but i pass throw it i know it hurts inside.
caxo777 1 year ago
@caxo777 i've done it ever since iwas 11 iam now 15
ILoveSeddie101 1 year ago
@ILoveSeddie101 okay, but do you enjoy it? are okay with it? it doesn't matter how much you have done it, the thing is that it is still continuing and i know that doing thing like that are not the answer. i just said that was in it and i know how depression can be.
caxo777 1 year ago
@caxo777 iknow it can be depressinq & no idnt enjoy it i've been tryinq to stop
ILoveSeddie101 1 year ago
@ILoveSeddie101 i know its hard to stop, but its possible. whats the trigger causing this? (if i can ask) (if you want you can reply on a message instead of a comment.)
caxo777 1 year ago
@caxo777 well it's a lonq story one of the main reasons iwas molested & my mom died when iwas 11 but there's more that's just some of the main reasons
ILoveSeddie101 1 year ago
@ILoveSeddie101 i am sorry to hear that, if you don't mind asking, who do you live with? your dad?
caxo777 1 year ago
@caxo777 no my dad died when iwas 9 but idnt rly mind since ididn't rly know him... ilive with my older brother
ILoveSeddie101 1 year ago
@ILoveSeddie101 okay, i see, i am sorry about all that has happen, but i can tell you that your life still goes on, i know horrible things happen back in your life but if something happens like to the friend of ILoveSeddie101 that would hurt the ones that do care about you. i finish seeing this movie call how "to save a life" and it remind me what i went throw and maybe things you are going throw, i hope you can see it and if you decide not to well i guess. but remember that u are not alone.
caxo777 1 year ago
@caxo777 it sure does feel like i'm alone thouqh
ILoveSeddie101 1 year ago
@ILoveSeddie101 please look at this video, its true to every word."Safe" by Phil Wickham, i know it may look like its not there but he is.
caxo777 1 year ago
@caxo777 sorry not the religious type...
ILoveSeddie101 1 year ago
@ILoveSeddie101 really really is not about religion, is that he is there and real, i know it seems religious, but trust me when i went throw it it seem like that too. but now i know he is there and he doesn't leave me =)
caxo777 1 year ago
@caxo777 thank you maybe ishould give it a listen when iam ready
ILoveSeddie101 1 year ago
@ILoveSeddie101 that's good, things well get better, if you have faith i know it well. he is there for us. =)
caxo777 1 year ago
@caxo777 yeah ihope so
ILoveSeddie101 1 year ago
the boy helped her. she must feel pretty shit, but shes got someone to lean on, someone to help her through whatever she going through... whatever she does he loves her...maybe.
Pinkgalzonline 1 year ago
i love this song
nevershoutericka 1 year ago
My Boyfriend Helped Me Stop. But Then He Cheated On Me. So I Cut Again. And He Said "Dont Cut!!! I Really Care About You!!" Is Something Wrong There? Or Is That Just Me? ):
MeganEatsBabies13 1 year ago
@MeganEatsBabies13 do what my friend did she punched him in the face 3 times...then again his done/said that to her over 5 times
BrokenWings94 1 year ago
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@MeganEatsBabies13 okay he cares about you but he dont love you
nevershoutericka 1 year ago
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@MeganEatsBabies13 okay he cares about you but he dont love you
nevershoutericka 1 year ago
@MeganEatsBabies13 he's just a dick.
idk who you are but he's a dick and he doesnt deserve somebody like you, dont hurt over somebody who dont deserve to be cared about!
MissGerardWayMCRFan 1 year ago
This video has some scary images...
bubblecow135 1 year ago
@bubblecow135 those are just how people end up when they dont lisen to them and have depresion
nevershoutericka 1 year ago
I think im responsible for half the views on this video....
MsHahaFAIL 1 year ago 71
@MsHahaFAIL same here lol
ILoveSeddie101 1 year ago
@MsHahaFAIL agreed
15gatorsfan15 1 year ago
@15gatorsfan15 haha
15gatorsfan15 1 year ago
@MsHahaFAIL and im responsible for the other half..
sabbesa 1 year ago
@MsHahaFAIL haha me too this a freaking awesomeness song!!!!
emosnookipoo 9 months ago
I love this song its amazing.
paris101nicole 1 year ago
honestly i think of this as a god song not as a boyfriend song but that's just me.
kriskam96 1 year ago
For all of you girls (I'm a guy) who say that being in a relationship doesn't help depression, well your looking at it the wrong way. If you just get a lover because you want someone to talk to or because you want to fit in or because they share your views on life your not gonna feel that spark so you won't care. But if truly have a romantic love for this person, that blind love might just cure your depression.
gamer10166 1 year ago 77
@gamer10166 Love can't cure a medical problem. Sorry to tell you but it is impossible for that to happen. Even the richest most well thought of people have been depressed and no amount of love is going to change anything.
luckybear3822 1 year ago 3
@gamer10166 i like your point.....but what if love is driving you down a one way street?
PwinZessKismet96 1 year ago
@gamer10166 it cured mine. (: i love him for that.
hollymariefaye 1 year ago
@gamer10166 Sorry to burst your bubble, but depression is actually a serious illness and a relationship can't cure it. Yes, it could help having someone, but it's not going to fix it. Being in a relationship won't make it disappear.
hi2426 9 months ago 3
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munyhuny99 8 months ago
@gamer10166 do you wanna marry me?
IwillloveTHforever 8 months ago
I'm sorry, but, I thought the "guy" this song talks about was the guy that started TWLOHA?
thats what this song is about. about Renee Yohe. The inspiration for TWLOHA,?
to me, thats just what i think they mean.
i mean, its possible
ShelbbyandMackenzyy 1 year ago
@ShelbbyandMackenzyy yeah i love to write love on her arms
nevershoutericka 1 year ago
i luv this song.....but I don't think help is possible for everyone
RockOnGirl4ever12 1 year ago
Why so much sadness?
WellSpoken 1 year ago
thankyouuu
for the agreeing on this mattter! =]
phoeberomanceXO 1 year ago
Cutting isn't a joke, and it's not a good habit. I would know, I 've been there, and I still am. But I'm learning that there are other options, and pain isn't something you have to feel. You have a purpose, and this isn't it. Live your life and don't let anyone make you think you don't deserve to. And live it happily.
FallOutBoyLuvah1 1 year ago
Yes it is pretty fucked up, selfharm isn't something that should be advrtised it fucks you up, and causes many people much pain even if it's not them. So tbf, that's just a little too.. over the top :l
DepressedRaver 1 year ago
thankyou muchly
it just seems so advertised in a glorious way :/
which is fucking stupid and tbh its not actually fair on sufferers.
plus no one wants to see pictures of people having self harmed or attempting to do so.
phoeberomanceXO 1 year ago
@phoeberomanceXO
yeah it pisses me off
and im glad that someone agrees with me on this
tbh i dont know why images of knifes. blood. cuts are on this because
to me its advertising the idea of harm when your sad. :/
i know its a song about the release of self harm but honestly. fuck right off with the self harm images.
phoeberomanceXO 1 year ago
i really don't like this video :/
its kinda making self harming look abit? well advertised :/
sorryif this offends anyone. but its just my personal view
phoeberomanceXO 1 year ago
@phoeberomanceXO it's like pictures of girls all made up with makeup and pretty elegant dresses, with a knife. it's almost glamorizing it. i get your point. cutting is no joke and nothing that anyone should be proud of. it's an issue that isn't pretty or sweet or cute.
GOSPELGAL09 1 year ago
@GOSPELGAL09
thankyou!
i dont even get why people would wanna glamourize it for the sake of a music video
plus its not exactly nice for sufferers to see people pretending to self harm or posting images in a video as it.
fucks me off man
phoeberomanceXO 1 year ago
@phoeberomanceXO yeah. i get it. cutters aren't in a good state of mind and certain images and videos make it seem like now it's the hot thing to do. they should show a hot chick in a pretty dress sitting with her therapist. yeah, that's hot. i'm not trying to affend anyone! i used to cut too, but whats so pretty about having a blade or knife in your hand?
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phoeberomanceXO 1 year ago
I could have related to this song a few monthes ago when this guy I started dating took me away from all the pain... But now, he's the one that's causeing it. It really sucks when you finaly start to feel better then everything that once was good to you, does a 180 and suddenly, you feel like crap all over again. To be honest, it's very discuraging, things like that make you just want to give up.
ashbaby31 1 year ago
@TheUnicornCrap I couldn't agree with you more.
ashbaby31 1 year ago
Its a 50/50 Outcome..
Like, Sometimes you'd find the guy that makes it all better.
but you also might get the guy that makes it all worse.
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musiclover360table 1 year ago
Honestly,
I think the best way to get over an addiction like this,
cuz it really is an addiction,
is to get over it by yourself.
When you have a person there to be your
alternative in self destruction,
than you're relying on them to be there forever,
when they're gone what will you have to keep
you from self destruction...
did I say that clear enough? lol
MySuicideSilence 1 year ago
@MySuicideSilence I'm guessing you're an atheist too
mar504 1 year ago
@mar504 No.
I don't believe in the one God everyone
fondles over.
But I do believe there is a higher being.
As such, Nature is our God.
MySuicideSilence 1 year ago
@MySuicideSilence I understand, I'm in sort of the same boat, though I don't really see anything as higher (since for me, nature encompasses the entire universe, there there can be nothing higher than what is). Your comment about addition and self destructed reminded me of how a lot of people use religion in the same way, happiness does not exist without Jesus for some, I guess some people just can't let go of everything and be happy with just being alive.
mar504 1 year ago
MySuicideSilence 1 year ago
I love this song. It makes me shiver cause i can relate to it. I cut for awhile. Bad times.. But Thanks to this song, My wonderful Boyfriend Understanding Parents & Good friends i got through it. :) Ive never felt happier. I still Get depressed but i handle it better.
xCrimsonSoul 1 year ago
@xCrimsonSoul hearing ppl say stuff like that...u have no idea how much hope it gives me, thank you so much.
emmysayspeaceandlove 1 year ago
This song isn't about a boyfriend. Or any boy to be exact..
XxAmadasxX 1 year ago
This song isn't about a boyfriend. Or any boy to be exact.
XxAmadasxX 1 year ago 2
I don't really like the ending of this song. Like you need a boy in your life to get through? What if you don't have someone like that? How are you gonna get through? Yeah, therapy can help, but most therapists have never cut or felt the need to cut so how can they truly know how you feel? I cut and I've been trying to stop too .. :P It's hard though ..I hope people realize this is an addiction & not a way for attention, at least for most kids/teens it isn't .. :\
xleftalonne 1 year ago
@xleftalonne "HE" isn't referring to a boy, it's referring to like Jesus, or God.
BeccaStapRocks 1 year ago
@BeccaStapRocks
It can refer to that, but for some atheists/non-Christians (I am a Christian, btw) it can be for a boy. & God isn't there for everyone always, eitheir..
xleftalonne 1 year ago
For all of you who do not understand the meaning of the song...watch the official music video.
twisterit 1 year ago
Lol stupid, overly depressive emo kids. Hilarious XD
mcmc101010 1 year ago
@mcmc101010 as i recall, emo is a type of music. "emotional hardcore"? so..people who are depressed are a type of music? yes, that makes perfect sense. hilarious.
ShelbbyandMackenzyy 1 year ago 3
Getting out of depression is about loving yourself at least enough not to torture yourself, someone else loving you doesn't change that. I've been told that I'm loved and I can't bring myself to trust its true. That's me though.
247psycho 1 year ago
Perfect somg to explain me and my boyfriend.He helped me through the cutting/burning I went through,not counting the beatings from my mom.I love you Travis,forever and always <3
XxXEsotericx 1 year ago
My boyfriend isn't shitty, completly not. He is the best person I ever met and I really love him. My depression is still there and I didn't stop hurting myself. It's a serious illness. Love doesn't make everything good, but it makes things easier.
MsCryingGrape 1 year ago
what is the other song called that sounds exactly the same?
BretCleary 1 year ago
im not quite sure if this song is about God or a boyfriend. . . the deeper the cut the deeper i hurt makes me think of a boyfriend though..so that's how i take it. and yeah, a boyfriend doesn't always help..sometimes it makes it worse. but i have an amazing boyfriend who usually gets me to stop.
ShanananaLastASilent 1 year ago
@ShanananaLastASilent its about anyone thats there for her he could be talking about a friends, family, boyfriends, and, strangers anyone but it helped him or her i mean its doesn't go towards god but it can it you wanted it to be so yeah
deedee12394 1 year ago
my friend duz ths shiz! :'(
xxMegannDublyuxx 1 year ago
I like it, but it would have been nice to have seen some pictures of Renee Yohe, the reason this song was written, and the reason behind To Write Love on Her Arms. If you watch their video, she is the girl on the bus. Also, I agree with what the others have said, it isn't that simple, it takes time, and you have to truly be willing, and make sure you never give up.
MrBcskillings 1 year ago
Self harm... No point in it, absolutely the stupidest way to "solve" your problems. I can honestly say anybody who can go so low as cutting themselves, and harming themselves in anyway, seriously has some issues. Flame me for this comment, I really don't care. But cutting is, and forever will be, pointless.
mewness4lyfe 1 year ago
@mewness4lyfe it may not be the best way, but we need to help those that do, not harm them by calling them stupid for doing it and leaving them there to do it again. It is different for someone that just "sees" it, and someone that actually KNOWS someone that has gone through people that go through it.
MrBcskillings 1 year ago
@MrBcskillings
true. i cut myself. i'm doing better because i'm in therapy and all that stuff.
i know people who does this too. people who do not cut don'tknow what is going on in side of people who does. on the moment you start with this, you're si desperate that you don't know what to do otherwise. you need others to see this. at least, most of the people who cut need others.
an93ne 1 year ago
@MrBcskillings I've tried to help the one's that do. I've broken up with girls just because they do that, and after ll the years of trying to stop them, they've told me they would. But where do the scars keep coming from? I've basically just given up on them and am only focused on the ONE person who means the most to me. And you, nor anybody will ever make me think I'm wasting my time with that, because she's everything to me.
mewness4lyfe 1 year ago
@mewness4lyfe
It's basically taking away the pain. You take the pain out on your wrists, though. You take it out on yourself cuz your the only one that understands your pain.
xleftalonne 1 year ago
@xleftalonne I'm pretty sure I made that comment awhile ago. So, if you haven't figured it out, I'll just let you know. I really do not care how you, or anybody else may look at self harm, cutting, or anything like that, I think it's dumb as shit.
mewness4lyfe 1 year ago
@mewness4lyfe
& I think its a way of relief, but we both have our opinions now don't we?
xleftalonne 1 year ago
@xleftalonne You'd think a stuck up Christian like yourself would think it was a sin. But, you're right, we do have our opinions.
mewness4lyfe 1 year ago
@mewness4lyfe
Whoever said I was stuck up? I'm just voicing out my opinion like anyone else. Like you. Does that make you a stuck up Atheist or whatever Religion you are, if you have one?
xleftalonne 1 year ago
@xleftalonne I'm not saying only you are stuck up, just Christians in general. Now please, do yourself a favor and not reply to this. Just voice out your opinion to somebody who actually cares.
mewness4lyfe 1 year ago
@mewness4lyfe You dont have to state that though, i mean im pretty sure no one cares about yer opinion anyways, soo...yeah,
Cecland 1 year ago
@Cecland And I couldn't care less if they did. But, take this into perspective, people aren't going to care about somebody who jumped into a conversation in which they had no business in. I was simply stating I did not have any interest in his opinion because it differs completely from mine, and there's nothing wrong with that.
mewness4lyfe 1 year ago
@mewness4lyfe Im just saying, you dont have to make a big deal about it,
Cecland 1 year ago
i love this song. i just wish the pain would go away. theres not one day anymore where im truly happy, i want to be happy...
depressedcutter999 1 year ago
i like it , and i love this song but with the pictures you chose i would put up at the beginning that it may trigger because we dont want anyone getting hurt.
haleighvickroy 1 year ago
I think this song is talking about god helping her. Just my interpretation of it. not to get religion in this.
timerssarah 1 year ago
@scener4 it's not him it's Him if you look at the lyrics He is capital it's God.
xguitarchik226 1 year ago
my new favourite song