Common sense committed suicide a long time ago. When a hot cup of coffee spilled on ones self can grant money in a court as being to hot or the no fault divorce was granted.I was at a wedding 7 years ago and they asked for advice about marriage at the reception when in fact they should have known these things before the made there vows.They split up in less than a year I was told she had a lot of bills Yes he divorced her because she owed money to a credit card company.My advice be very truthful
Right on the mark with this one! I spent many years looking for the right one, and she found me! Perfect? No, close Yes!! Tweaking the thermostat so to speak is all that is required. Everyone has "baggage" Acceptance of things is paramount!
Trying to make it work is not the way to start out, to change another is not why you get involved. It is much easier to change yourself than another, but why change at all? You ARE who you are and accept that as who accepts you, live simply & in peace & LOVE
i've been married for 10 years now, and there is no set advice to give when it comes to successful relationships. i couldn't do it justice in a video, much less this box. but in order for a relationship to really work it has to be based on GOD, not church, not denomination, but love of GOD. matthew 6:33. too many people equate going to chruch with a right relationship with GOD.
another huge thing is society today has brainwashed people into looking for fairytale romance. cont...
@evcrawfish cont... it don't work that way. marriage is hard work for the first few years. trying to figure it all out. and the sooner you can take down the "romantic mask" and get to know the true person the sooner you can really get to building a marriage. the american dream of keeping up with the jones's is a lie perpetrated on the public to keep us in debt reaching for a phantom. live life by GOD'S principles and that is in direct opposition to the american dream
1Th 4:11 and to aspire to live quietly, and to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we instructed you,
1Th 4:12 so that you may walk properly before outsiders and be dependent on no one.
i have gone into my marriage on those things and something my grandma told me. there are three things in life. first are the things that are our core things, identify them and hold fast to them. second there are things that are negotiable, where to live etc...
and third everything else is "so what" it doesn't matter.
the piece i will add is something i found many years ago, i dont' remember who said it or where i found it. but it holds truth
"if you don't know where you are going,,,, any road will take you there"
find the direction you want your life to take, and then take the steps to get you there, otherwise you are a ship with no rudder and will be blown with any stray wind.
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nbxcvcvolkip 1 year ago
Great video
supergokue1 1 year ago
Common sense committed suicide a long time ago. When a hot cup of coffee spilled on ones self can grant money in a court as being to hot or the no fault divorce was granted.I was at a wedding 7 years ago and they asked for advice about marriage at the reception when in fact they should have known these things before the made there vows.They split up in less than a year I was told she had a lot of bills Yes he divorced her because she owed money to a credit card company.My advice be very truthful
kinbigbird 1 year ago
@kinbigbird Great advice... Thank you.
matrixm777 1 year ago
Thanks
wyattlisadana 1 year ago
Right on the mark with this one! I spent many years looking for the right one, and she found me! Perfect? No, close Yes!! Tweaking the thermostat so to speak is all that is required. Everyone has "baggage" Acceptance of things is paramount!
Trying to make it work is not the way to start out, to change another is not why you get involved. It is much easier to change yourself than another, but why change at all? You ARE who you are and accept that as who accepts you, live simply & in peace & LOVE
CTOL1 1 year ago
@CTOL1 Very well said... Thank you.
matrixm777 1 year ago
i've been married for 10 years now, and there is no set advice to give when it comes to successful relationships. i couldn't do it justice in a video, much less this box. but in order for a relationship to really work it has to be based on GOD, not church, not denomination, but love of GOD. matthew 6:33. too many people equate going to chruch with a right relationship with GOD.
another huge thing is society today has brainwashed people into looking for fairytale romance. cont...
evcrawfish 1 year ago
@evcrawfish cont... it don't work that way. marriage is hard work for the first few years. trying to figure it all out. and the sooner you can take down the "romantic mask" and get to know the true person the sooner you can really get to building a marriage. the american dream of keeping up with the jones's is a lie perpetrated on the public to keep us in debt reaching for a phantom. live life by GOD'S principles and that is in direct opposition to the american dream
cont... 2
evcrawfish 1 year ago
@evcrawfish cont... 2
1Th 4:11 and to aspire to live quietly, and to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we instructed you,
1Th 4:12 so that you may walk properly before outsiders and be dependent on no one.
i have gone into my marriage on those things and something my grandma told me. there are three things in life. first are the things that are our core things, identify them and hold fast to them. second there are things that are negotiable, where to live etc...
cont 3
evcrawfish 1 year ago
@evcrawfish cont...3
and third everything else is "so what" it doesn't matter.
the piece i will add is something i found many years ago, i dont' remember who said it or where i found it. but it holds truth
"if you don't know where you are going,,,, any road will take you there"
find the direction you want your life to take, and then take the steps to get you there, otherwise you are a ship with no rudder and will be blown with any stray wind.
peace and maranatha
evcrawfish 1 year ago
@evcrawfish Thanks for your thoughts, brother. I think you hit the nail on the head about the fictional romance expectations...
matrixm777 1 year ago