@134030 FUCK OFF YOU DIRTY MOTHER FUCK! Go suck on your moms saggy tits! This boy has more better qualities now than you will ever have in your whole life. You ugly ass fucking cunt ! Do you think your perfect cos your straight? AHAHAHA FUCKING STUPID TWAT. SORT YOURSELF OUT MATE! I hope you get pissed on! And then you rot in it! YOU MUG.
@adiofreack Oh wow quite the intelligent insult there! i love the diverse words you use, and the high level of sophistication. haha your a fucking disgrace to the rest of the world of whom don't like homosexuals. grow some brains, then maybe with hope, you can be at the regular level as the rest of us, and maybe get out of those "special needs" classes at school, which im sure your in.
@xtcxtwo1 Unlike the asshole Si3ntMast3r1. Watch Tosh.0's Stand up "Happy Thoughts" and watch his bit about gay people and people hating the homosexual community. It's funny and true. Even though I don't believe in god.
@xtcxtwo1 Me too. Sadly though, there will always be a story of hate and bigotry forever. However, the love and support of the It Gets Better Project, all of us in the wonderfully diverse LGBT community, and the love of our supporters prove stronger then any amount of hate. The bullies who bother us now will be shadows of their former self one day, sad and alone. We will all be happy and free to live true to ourselves. It gets better. xoxo
i saw these videos and realized what i had to do, it wasnt even a second thought. i made a video like this (or as close as i could come) to an it gets better video for over weight people on my page. it just seemed right.
People who make stupid comments about HIV/aids being associated with homosexuality are completely ignorant. I know heterosexuals can have it because of their promiscuity + unprotected sex. These people should get over themselves.
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I'm glad you came out. You're really cute! I am a freshman in college and I just came out a couple months ago. Everything has gotten SO much better; your story makes me even more excited for things to come!
I really appreciate you making this video. I watched a lot of "it gets better" videos, and yours really stood out to me. I just have so much respect for you! Thank you so much for making this video. It has really changed my life, in particular. :)
@kevnramser thanks for being brave enough to make a video...I think it's great that you are young and telling even younger people about your experience....i think the unmade bed solidifies the fact that you are young....lol...Good luck with University!
@kevnramser - Yes, and it's satirical. Nobody's ever going to try to sterilize religious people. But religious people have frequently thought that it'd be a good idea to eradicate all gay people. They have this book that's a few thousand years old that says so. Sometimes you say things back so that they can see how it feels to have such things said to them, but you don't really mean it.
Great video, Kevin! You're very brave and courageous! To the posters who are convinced there's a "gay agenda" I'm just wondering why you think it's anything more than equality, and how that has any negative effect on you?
I'm a similar story! I'm 20 and in college as well. I moved to San Francisco from a small town in Texas. Thank you for sharing your beautiful thoughts!
Kevin, I have to echo many of these sentiments, by saying you are an engaging and articulate -- and adorable -- guy, wise beyond your years, and so my best to you.
I came out many, many years before you were born, living through the earliest years of gay liberation, the worst of the AIDS epidemic, and seeing that mostly things HAVE gotten better for our LGBT community, though some things still haven't changed fast enough, as you point out. But they will. History and love are on our side!
What a great video. Very well spoken. It's only through the anonymity of the Internet that people say the same things you used to hear in high school. But now, they're just words you can ignore and delete. Good for you for rising above. Best of luck to you.
you are so great kevin. i am sure that you will help many people to feel hopeful and encouraged. i hope your parents are proud of you. they should be. you are really amazing.
you are such a ridiculously mature person. i am impressed by your strength and ability to be yourself throughout all of this. i am straight but i am very for gay rights. i appreciate everything you say in this video and everything you have done throughout your life. hopefully this video will change the life of someone. i'm sure it will.
@kevnramser - Not just closet cases, but usually with some of the sickest secrets. MrLombreglia here probably buries the poor kids he molests in some shallow grave like other priests. We should sterilize the religious and bigoted race.
By the way, Mr. Lom... how is it we shall perish? We'll always be there. You, on the other hand, are on the way out.
But to say you should sterilize the religious race, you are just as bad as him. My dad is religious, and he doesn't deserve to be sterilized. You jerk.
Im 20 and not gay but over the years ive learned that people tend to fear what they dont understand Man and Man isnt a typical concept because that isnt the life cycle lets say if every one now on earth had turned gay ....then what? some people say they cant help who they are attracted too but im not so sure about that call it bad luck i never discriminate against any one because end the end you accept people for who they are and not what they are
@CDisamazinglyawesome what about two men? and please dont tell me some bullshit like getting a woman involved please tell me physically how would to two produce a child? i know some of you may say that they cant controll how they feel which is fine but was it intended and if so how were you born? the cycle of life or gay ...something rather
haha man you should learn to speak english before you make fun of other people for what the fuck they do with their time. how easy would it be to make fun of you for being a tiny limp dicked retarded homophobic idiot. realistically your probably a fucking ignorant joke in life and you get off by trying to tear other people down.
nobody gives a shit what the fuck you have to say so keep your retarded beliefs to yourself.
@CyndyNeg ODn't generalize a lot of us gays can become embittered by our experience and become just as hateful and closed minded. But for a most part we are the coolest folks around.
@markm856 WHO THE FUCK said i walk around everyday like it's halloween?!
i simply walk down the street, and because some people know who i am, they decide to harass me. THAT is not fair. HOW IN THE BLUE FUCKING FUCK would you know how I act? you don't know me, asshole! you haven't got the first fucking clue who I am or what I do in my daily life.
You are a sorry, sad excuse for a human being if you honestly think I bring hate & discrimination upon myself just for being myself. You suck.
@markm856 i'd rather suck dick than suck the intelligence out of the entire world like you do every time you open your mouth. i mean, really. mature much?
Nice video. Because I have a gay brother, I have a little insight into what it's like to be tormented because of your sexual orientation. Thank you for your contribution to the project!
Good for you to share your experience. The quicker we get over this homophobic nonsense the quicker we can get on to important things like the state of the planet and not the state of your gender preference.
hey im a straight 20 year old, just want to say i liked your video. i couldnt tell you were gay if you hadnt said it. i guess thats getting more and more common nowadays. gay people just dont have to stand up for the flag anymore as much as they used to. and most people our age respect them now also. it gets better. and it has gotten better already.
@markm856 WHAT AGENDA?!?! Seriously, all we want is EQUALITY. The SAME AS YOU. That's ALL we ask for. That, and the right to be able to walk down the street without getting called names, or taunted, or threatened to be KILLED. Do you GET THAT?!?! KILLED?!?!
How much HATE can a person have in his heart if all he wants to do is THREATEN TO TAKE ANOTHER'S LIFE?!?!?!
Is this a Christian thought? Is this a HUMANE thought? Did Jesus preach murder, hate, or discrimination? FUCK NO HE DIDN'T!!!
@markm856: I also ask you, has anyone ever bullied you for being straight? Anyone ever shoved you into lockers, threatened to kill you, or told you the world would be better off if you were dead? Just because you were straight?
I doubt it. Maybe if someone had, you wouldn't be so heartless. Maybe, if someone had treated you different than EVERYONE else, than maybe, you'd have some empathy and compassion for this young man, or these teenagers. It's a pity, really. Too bad you can't see it.
explain how i act like a 13 yo girl. no. Really. EXPLAIN.
*crickets*
That's what I thought.
I do NOT find it to be "abnormal," as you put it. For me, it's perfectly natural. What is not natural for me is to find a female attractive. If it's normal for you, then fine! Go, be straight. No one's stopping you. But in case you hadn't noticed, no one's outlawing you getting married, or adopting, or serving in the military, either.
Way to go, kid. I'm so proud to see young people like you stand up for themselves. I'm so happy to see you hung on to your hope and were able to wake up to a better day. I wish you all the best, and I encourage you to hang on to that hope until all the wonderful things in this world are yours, which they will be. I promise.
@markm856 I ask the same question to you. How do you ever expect people to respect you, when all you spew is hate and malice?
I challenge you, if you're man enough, to be one less person who makes the world such an awful place sometimes.
Since you and people like you are the reason that boys and girls are taking their lives because all their hope has been stolen from them, I dare you to be better.
@ramalamabangbangify Instead of replying to the troll's comments that he would most likely never have the balls to say to someone face to face, just flag him for spam instead.
Thanks for making this video. even as a younger gay guy, hearing your story is great. I think it's wonderful for kids younger than you to know that even at a young age things will get better.
@MrLombreglia Oh boy, I'm not even gay. I'm just openminded and happy with my life so that I don't have to torture other to make myself feel better. You're just one ugly loser who can't stand seeing other people being happy and giving/achieving love.
And yeah, be sure i'll find death someday. Just as you. That's human nature, stupid.
Kevin, great video and your comments demonstrate courage and compassion. Those are two of my values, and I wish more people had them because they will change the world. It doesn't take any courage to trash someone or to be critical and mean spirited. Those are cowardly actions, and people who say mean-spirited things are demonstrating their lack of courage and self esteem. So please ignore those comments and stay true to yourself. You have a beautiful heart and I wish you a great life ahead!
Great message! (This is not just for us "older" LGBT folks, LOL. I'm glad that a younger person like yourself - someone who's closer in years to the age of middle and high-schoolers - posted a message. It really does get better. And a lot of us in the LGBT community care a great deal about LGBT youth, their safety, and their emotional well-being. = )
@markm856 you don't see it because you choose to close your eyes to the obvious--NOT EVERYONE BELIEVES THE SAME THING YOU DO.
And it doesn't really matter what you or I believe in the long run. What matters is fairness and equality. And no one...NO ONE...should be treated differently, especially worse, because of who they are. Because of something they cannot control.
Why you had to resort to mean spirited comments, I don't see. It makes me wonder how old you are. I mean...really.
To all your detractors; the evil visions that are in their minds, concerning gay people loving each other, are just that--EVIL! Believe me, I would much rather think about men making love than men killing each other! Start, by thinking of Kevin as your son, who is not afraid to be who he is, and you are his parent. Love and understand him for a change! Yes, change is coming, Kevin! Bless you!
@MrLombreglia The "homo race", my friend, doesn't have to get sterilized, because - as you might know - homosexuals don't have sexual intercourse with the opposite sex. That's what homosexuality is about, stupid. (I'm not going to tell you, that it's actually about love - because that's probably something you have no clue about.)
Wait a minute...sterilize? do you know what being gay means?....we don't generally reproduce...sadly, your ignorant fool xenophobic self probably will, because the least intelligent pathetic garbage of the earth tends to overpopulate it with idiocy and hate...enjoy your tiny tiny life...what a shame
Don't sell yourself short on what you have to teach people at age 20. There are plenty of kids today that are ages 13 and 14 that look at a 40 year-old and think, "ack! they're ancient!" and are unable to relate to what they say. To those kids, a 20 year-old is someone they see themselves becoming in a few years. And your advice will be most appreciated by them.
You're also cute as a button and that helps too. : )
Lol... To all you writing hateful comments.. Why the hell did u search the vid? Just to call someone a fag??? Get a life(: or some friends.. Trust me it's alllllot more entertaining.
@markm856 you mean everyday ISN'T HALLOWEEN?!?! NOOOO!! THE HORROR!!!!!!!!!!
Dude, get over it. He is who he is. You are who you are. Do you see him bashing you on how you talk/dress/act?
He's a kind, intelligent young man who is trying to make a difference. He's trying to save a life. So why don't you GET ONE, and then maybe, after you've learned your lesson, we'll consider hearing what you have to say. Until then, back the hell off.
@AHHHHHPKER seems like that "fuckin fag" has more intelligence, maturity, and wisdom than you do. hmm...i wonder if it's because he's grown up having to deal with idiot bullies like you?
What will happen to you when you die? Have you ever told lies, stolen, used God's name in vain, or looked at someone with lust? If yes, then you are a lying, theiving, blasphemous, adulterer at heart. When you die & stand before God you'll be guilty of breaking His law. The bible says you'll end up in Hell! But God sent God his Son Jesus to die for your sins, & He rose from the dead on the third day. If you'll believe the Gospel(Jesus died for your sins & was resurrected) you'll be saved!
I'm gay, 21, and approve this message. Anything after High School is not only better, it's great. You just have to be yourself. Even though that's cliche, it's absolutely true.
@infinitex2 how do I get to be myself? going away? I want to leave my country, I think. I'm not gay but I still feel I'm somehow not myself, like I can not really be... me. yet.
@KennBurch I'm sorry, but I disagree with your statement completely. Would you say that to a recovered alcoholic or drug abuser, or someone like myself that has had struggles with heterosexual issues in my past? You obviously do not know the God of the Bible, and have created one that is convenient to your own comforts.
As for the reason why I ask you about Islam, it's a very real issue and extreme danger to your community. You should be aware of it, because Shari'a Law is no joke.
@KennBurch Ummm - no. Actually, the issues I have had as a heterosexual man have nothing to do with homosexuality, but it doesn't surprise me to hear you guess that. That's pretty much a common mocking tactic by the GLBTQ community for anyone who has heterosexual issues. Mine were I just couldn't wait to get married to have sex, and I also had an issue with porn.
As for being anti-Hate, I couldn't agree with you more, but I do not embrace enemies of my country, nor their ideologies.
@sly2kusa. I apologize for the misunderstanding. When you said "heterosexual issues", I honestly thought that meant issues with the question of whether you WERE, in fact, heterosexual. No mocking was intended on that(and actually, what you described as "issues" were basically just typical heterosexual guy things).
Also, I really don't know if anybody here was taking a "pro-Muslim"(or pro Islamist in the mythical "clash of civilizations")stance here.
@KennBurch No apology needed (I kind of thought you may have misunderstood, but I have had people in the past that have taken my honesty, and try to spin it into something it is not).
As for the Islam - it is my enemy (not Muslims). I just want to see people come to Jesus for salvation. That's it.
We've all got our problems in life, but Christ is the answer. That is my only hope for all of you.
Kevin: impressive, and thanks. It is so distressing in many ways, that your generation is still dealing with the kind of ignorant bias towards LGBT people as when I came out some 40 years ago! But it is getting better on so many levels. Neither bigotry nor AIDS has stopped us as a community and a people, and we will not stop until full equality and tolerance is achieved. Best.
its does get better i met someone when i was twenty and now 19 years later still together.... have loving friends..... whats funny i have more straight friends ..... also be who and what you want to do..... life short.....
@sly2kusa Hey sly2kusa ! The world is what we make of it ! To a certain extent you can always create a piece of world around yourself that suits you. Just do it and it will get better ! Cheers !
well, i for one am sad you're gay, you're so cute ;)
Well done great vid! it's good to have a younger perspective in this (great) project too. I'm heterosexual but am appalled every day at the way gay people have to suffer in order to be themselves, and I just want to participate in saying there are lots of open-minded people out there too, you'll see :) it gets better!
truely inspiring
terriwillis956 3 months ago
Hey man, agree with the cause! Rights for everyone. I'm straight, but I try to make a difference everyday for equal rights.
agonystes 4 months ago
im kinda afraid to come ou properly im afraid to tell my dad and some of my friends !!! :(
SeanS3234 5 months ago
@134030 FUCK OFF YOU DIRTY MOTHER FUCK! Go suck on your moms saggy tits! This boy has more better qualities now than you will ever have in your whole life. You ugly ass fucking cunt ! Do you think your perfect cos your straight? AHAHAHA FUCKING STUPID TWAT. SORT YOURSELF OUT MATE! I hope you get pissed on! And then you rot in it! YOU MUG.
Chelseaalolo 8 months ago
@adiofreack Oh wow quite the intelligent insult there! i love the diverse words you use, and the high level of sophistication. haha your a fucking disgrace to the rest of the world of whom don't like homosexuals. grow some brains, then maybe with hope, you can be at the regular level as the rest of us, and maybe get out of those "special needs" classes at school, which im sure your in.
xNoTriggerx 8 months ago
@134030 You sir are ignorant.
CoriTheAmazing 8 months ago
it gets better!!! great video!!! we love u 2!
pashabigboy 8 months ago
@adiofreack If you want him sucking your dick it's because you are gay too so stop to insult the others....
lukebrux 9 months ago
just shut the fuck up asshole.
irishduck101 9 months ago
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irishduck101 9 months ago
@irishduck101 more support the gay community is nothing wrong!!! i just dont get why people are like this :[
xtcxtwo1 9 months ago
@xtcxtwo1 Unlike the asshole Si3ntMast3r1. Watch Tosh.0's Stand up "Happy Thoughts" and watch his bit about gay people and people hating the homosexual community. It's funny and true. Even though I don't believe in god.
irishduck101 9 months ago
I came out in college too. Everyone, IT DOES GET BETTER.
mattneal52290 9 months ago
@mattneal52290 thank you im litterly praying for people to not be so dumb!
xtcxtwo1 9 months ago
@xtcxtwo1 Me too. Sadly though, there will always be a story of hate and bigotry forever. However, the love and support of the It Gets Better Project, all of us in the wonderfully diverse LGBT community, and the love of our supporters prove stronger then any amount of hate. The bullies who bother us now will be shadows of their former self one day, sad and alone. We will all be happy and free to live true to ourselves. It gets better. xoxo
mattneal52290 9 months ago
nicely done man. agree and can relate basically with everything
piercemb2 9 months ago
Very well spoken...good luck
kooldavewarren 9 months ago
This was great Kev, I'm proud of you on the regular.
ehrefreshing 9 months ago
Well done Kevin! Thank you
frizzlezap 10 months ago
@amfautoexp LOOOOOOOOOOOL HOW MANNY VIDS DID YOU VISIT YOU WHORE YOUR A CANCER!!!
darkitalian3 10 months ago
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i saw these videos and realized what i had to do, it wasnt even a second thought. i made a video like this (or as close as i could come) to an it gets better video for over weight people on my page. it just seemed right.
15eisen 1 year ago
: I am so impressed with your authenticity. Best of luck in College!
Espen414 1 year ago
People who make stupid comments about HIV/aids being associated with homosexuality are completely ignorant. I know heterosexuals can have it because of their promiscuity + unprotected sex. These people should get over themselves.
megustaverlas 1 year ago 6
@kevnramser Hang in there young man. Very good video!
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dudeldandido 1 year ago
I'm glad you came out. You're really cute! I am a freshman in college and I just came out a couple months ago. Everything has gotten SO much better; your story makes me even more excited for things to come!
fdsalkfdsdk 1 year ago
I really appreciate you making this video. I watched a lot of "it gets better" videos, and yours really stood out to me. I just have so much respect for you! Thank you so much for making this video. It has really changed my life, in particular. :)
FanboyGothGirl 1 year ago
i spy with my little eye someting beginning with T!
mhairixDx 1 year ago
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frogss22 1 year ago
tyler for all that i love you, thats a bit harsh.
mhairixDx 1 year ago
@kevnramser Nice one.
simonbkirk 1 year ago
Thank you for real life modeling that it's surviveable. Good luck in school!
annikee59 1 year ago
This video is effing amazing. I appreciate that soso much. :)
DillyWilly1111 1 year ago
@SingJiya
For a religious straight person you seem to have given homosexual intercourse alot of graphic thought... closet much?
wearemodular 1 year ago 3
well said :)
EvilDeadBarbie 1 year ago
@kevnramser thanks for being brave enough to make a video...I think it's great that you are young and telling even younger people about your experience....i think the unmade bed solidifies the fact that you are young....lol...Good luck with University!
bluegirltheatre 1 year ago
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iLoveMeanSparta 1 year ago
You're great - thank you so much for your contributions to all areas of life :)
KaneOzi 1 year ago
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gays need to die lol you need to die
crustylion123 1 year ago
@crustylion123 you need educated but no one said anything
ehrefreshing 9 months ago
@kevnramser - Yes, and it's satirical. Nobody's ever going to try to sterilize religious people. But religious people have frequently thought that it'd be a good idea to eradicate all gay people. They have this book that's a few thousand years old that says so. Sometimes you say things back so that they can see how it feels to have such things said to them, but you don't really mean it.
paganbear 1 year ago
Great video, Kevin! You're very brave and courageous! To the posters who are convinced there's a "gay agenda" I'm just wondering why you think it's anything more than equality, and how that has any negative effect on you?
colincoolness 1 year ago
I'm a similar story! I'm 20 and in college as well. I moved to San Francisco from a small town in Texas. Thank you for sharing your beautiful thoughts!
liberty93090 1 year ago
looks like the pricks in high school are still pricks in "real life"
tehpando 1 year ago
Kevin, I have to echo many of these sentiments, by saying you are an engaging and articulate -- and adorable -- guy, wise beyond your years, and so my best to you.
I came out many, many years before you were born, living through the earliest years of gay liberation, the worst of the AIDS epidemic, and seeing that mostly things HAVE gotten better for our LGBT community, though some things still haven't changed fast enough, as you point out. But they will. History and love are on our side!
evan1276 1 year ago
Ps...it may only seem to get better but in reality it doesnt
Panikzekilla 1 year ago
@Panikzekilla the fuck is wrong with you
tehpando 1 year ago
What a great video. Very well spoken. It's only through the anonymity of the Internet that people say the same things you used to hear in high school. But now, they're just words you can ignore and delete. Good for you for rising above. Best of luck to you.
hccaufield20 1 year ago
you are so great kevin. i am sure that you will help many people to feel hopeful and encouraged. i hope your parents are proud of you. they should be. you are really amazing.
gilmanlbglbg 1 year ago
you are such a ridiculously mature person. i am impressed by your strength and ability to be yourself throughout all of this. i am straight but i am very for gay rights. i appreciate everything you say in this video and everything you have done throughout your life. hopefully this video will change the life of someone. i'm sure it will.
yogachickesw 1 year ago
@kevnramser - Not just closet cases, but usually with some of the sickest secrets. MrLombreglia here probably buries the poor kids he molests in some shallow grave like other priests. We should sterilize the religious and bigoted race.
By the way, Mr. Lom... how is it we shall perish? We'll always be there. You, on the other hand, are on the way out.
paganbear 1 year ago
@paganbear
I agree about MrLombregila
But to say you should sterilize the religious race, you are just as bad as him. My dad is religious, and he doesn't deserve to be sterilized. You jerk.
MsHannahPotter 1 year ago
THanks for the video, your amazing and brave ... pls keep sharing with us ...
ttma1980 1 year ago
This is a wonderful thing you have done making this video. :)
Those who express bigotry will never be as happy as us who express ourselves.
luke82092 1 year ago
Kevin, Wonderful, thoughtful, sane. Bless you.
Timpers11 1 year ago
Im 20 and not gay but over the years ive learned that people tend to fear what they dont understand Man and Man isnt a typical concept because that isnt the life cycle lets say if every one now on earth had turned gay ....then what? some people say they cant help who they are attracted too but im not so sure about that call it bad luck i never discriminate against any one because end the end you accept people for who they are and not what they are
Panikzekilla 1 year ago
@Panikzekilla Sperm Banks. Lesbians still want to have kids, so you go to a sperm bank. We have the technology
CDisamazinglyawesome 1 year ago
@CDisamazinglyawesome what about two men? and please dont tell me some bullshit like getting a woman involved please tell me physically how would to two produce a child? i know some of you may say that they cant controll how they feel which is fine but was it intended and if so how were you born? the cycle of life or gay ...something rather
Panikzekilla 1 year ago
@SingJiya
haha man you should learn to speak english before you make fun of other people for what the fuck they do with their time. how easy would it be to make fun of you for being a tiny limp dicked retarded homophobic idiot. realistically your probably a fucking ignorant joke in life and you get off by trying to tear other people down.
nobody gives a shit what the fuck you have to say so keep your retarded beliefs to yourself.
TorontoELI 1 year ago 3
@SingJiya hahah buddy shut the fuck up your making a fool of yourself.
"how do you find enjoyment having..."
"i know the next step in to start sucking..."
capitalizing "Time"....
TorontoELI 1 year ago
@TorontoELI WATCH YOUR POTTY MOUTH STOP YOUR CUSSING ON THE FORUM THERE ARE KIDS OUT THERE!
SingJiya 1 year ago
I completely agree with you your a good person.
JESUSSWOOPE 1 year ago
Kev,
You are such a rational guy....you're gonna fulfill your expectations...love it!
fenackerpan 1 year ago 2
You gotta give 'em hope. Nice work.
Nerdvana427 1 year ago
cool, you are so cute!!!
Allenyeah1 1 year ago
you are so cute！！！！
Allenyeah1 1 year ago
i never see gay people posting stupid comments and hateful words on...most of us are very respectable of others
CyndyNeg 1 year ago
@CyndyNeg ODn't generalize a lot of us gays can become embittered by our experience and become just as hateful and closed minded. But for a most part we are the coolest folks around.
Coopmueller 1 year ago
@markm856 WHO THE FUCK said i walk around everyday like it's halloween?!
i simply walk down the street, and because some people know who i am, they decide to harass me. THAT is not fair. HOW IN THE BLUE FUCKING FUCK would you know how I act? you don't know me, asshole! you haven't got the first fucking clue who I am or what I do in my daily life.
You are a sorry, sad excuse for a human being if you honestly think I bring hate & discrimination upon myself just for being myself. You suck.
DiabloGuapo 1 year ago
@DiabloGuapo yeah, i probably do "suck" - but it's not dick like you!
markm856 1 year ago
@markm856 i'd rather suck dick than suck the intelligence out of the entire world like you do every time you open your mouth. i mean, really. mature much?
DiabloGuapo 1 year ago
Nice video. Because I have a gay brother, I have a little insight into what it's like to be tormented because of your sexual orientation. Thank you for your contribution to the project!
Oh, and even thought I'm a girl and your gay....
you're cute ;]
megalodonkiss 1 year ago
I think most times high school can be cruddy for MOST people .
ughh i hate snotty teens (get over yourself)
and teachers who do nothing to help the kids they are supposed to watch over
yu seems so sweet kevin :D
Germtalia 1 year ago
Thank you for sharing your experience. Nice video :-)
sanookbkk 1 year ago
Good for you to share your experience. The quicker we get over this homophobic nonsense the quicker we can get on to important things like the state of the planet and not the state of your gender preference.
balisoda 1 year ago
hey im a straight 20 year old, just want to say i liked your video. i couldnt tell you were gay if you hadnt said it. i guess thats getting more and more common nowadays. gay people just dont have to stand up for the flag anymore as much as they used to. and most people our age respect them now also. it gets better. and it has gotten better already.
raffcossi 1 year ago
What homosexual agenda? The only thing on my agenda is cleaning and washing clothes =/
aerykian 1 year ago
@markm856 WHAT AGENDA?!?! Seriously, all we want is EQUALITY. The SAME AS YOU. That's ALL we ask for. That, and the right to be able to walk down the street without getting called names, or taunted, or threatened to be KILLED. Do you GET THAT?!?! KILLED?!?!
How much HATE can a person have in his heart if all he wants to do is THREATEN TO TAKE ANOTHER'S LIFE?!?!?!
Is this a Christian thought? Is this a HUMANE thought? Did Jesus preach murder, hate, or discrimination? FUCK NO HE DIDN'T!!!
DiabloGuapo 1 year ago 2
Just added you to my own pick of the day on my blog and favourited you at my own channel. Blog link is from the channel.
oetimmy 1 year ago
Thanks for such a great message and so articulate! Great courage.
richtafel 1 year ago
You. Are. Awesome.
Micro593 1 year ago
@kevnramser people that talk like you make no sense - you're a fool
markm856 1 year ago
You're adorable, thanks for doing this video :)
sophalophagous 1 year ago
cheers and best wishes for speaking up and being the mentor. and who cares if the bed isn't made.
yellowstonemikee 1 year ago
@markm856: I also ask you, has anyone ever bullied you for being straight? Anyone ever shoved you into lockers, threatened to kill you, or told you the world would be better off if you were dead? Just because you were straight?
I doubt it. Maybe if someone had, you wouldn't be so heartless. Maybe, if someone had treated you different than EVERYONE else, than maybe, you'd have some empathy and compassion for this young man, or these teenagers. It's a pity, really. Too bad you can't see it.
DiabloGuapo 1 year ago
explain how i act like a 13 yo girl. no. Really. EXPLAIN.
*crickets*
That's what I thought.
I do NOT find it to be "abnormal," as you put it. For me, it's perfectly natural. What is not natural for me is to find a female attractive. If it's normal for you, then fine! Go, be straight. No one's stopping you. But in case you hadn't noticed, no one's outlawing you getting married, or adopting, or serving in the military, either.
DiabloGuapo 1 year ago
@DiabloGuapo uh, rewatch video please - then again, if you know what the problem is, you'd be able to fix it.
markm856 1 year ago
hey you're cute. Thanks for making an inspiring video.
lloyd417 1 year ago
Way to go, kid. I'm so proud to see young people like you stand up for themselves. I'm so happy to see you hung on to your hope and were able to wake up to a better day. I wish you all the best, and I encourage you to hang on to that hope until all the wonderful things in this world are yours, which they will be. I promise.
xoxo
Nico
ramalamabangbangify 1 year ago
@markm856 I ask the same question to you. How do you ever expect people to respect you, when all you spew is hate and malice?
I challenge you, if you're man enough, to be one less person who makes the world such an awful place sometimes.
Since you and people like you are the reason that boys and girls are taking their lives because all their hope has been stolen from them, I dare you to be better.
I dare YOU to be someone worth respecting.
ramalamabangbangify 1 year ago
@ramalamabangbangify Instead of replying to the troll's comments that he would most likely never have the balls to say to someone face to face, just flag him for spam instead.
grenadier33 1 year ago
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@grenadier33 grow up you baby!
markm856 1 year ago
Thanks for making this video. even as a younger gay guy, hearing your story is great. I think it's wonderful for kids younger than you to know that even at a young age things will get better.
benlb9 1 year ago
Wolw, thanks nice video and really, why are you people staring at his bed. Your going to miss the forest for the trees.
ACoustaDC 1 year ago
@MrLombreglia Oh boy, I'm not even gay. I'm just openminded and happy with my life so that I don't have to torture other to make myself feel better. You're just one ugly loser who can't stand seeing other people being happy and giving/achieving love.
And yeah, be sure i'll find death someday. Just as you. That's human nature, stupid.
justtrashed 1 year ago 2
@kevnramser You are so cute! And that smile at the end is so adorable! I loved your video!!
Silvertongue79 1 year ago
Kevin, great video and your comments demonstrate courage and compassion. Those are two of my values, and I wish more people had them because they will change the world. It doesn't take any courage to trash someone or to be critical and mean spirited. Those are cowardly actions, and people who say mean-spirited things are demonstrating their lack of courage and self esteem. So please ignore those comments and stay true to yourself. You have a beautiful heart and I wish you a great life ahead!
captainbtj 1 year ago
Great message! (This is not just for us "older" LGBT folks, LOL. I'm glad that a younger person like yourself - someone who's closer in years to the age of middle and high-schoolers - posted a message. It really does get better. And a lot of us in the LGBT community care a great deal about LGBT youth, their safety, and their emotional well-being. = )
Davesfavutube 1 year ago
@markm856 you don't see it because you choose to close your eyes to the obvious--NOT EVERYONE BELIEVES THE SAME THING YOU DO.
And it doesn't really matter what you or I believe in the long run. What matters is fairness and equality. And no one...NO ONE...should be treated differently, especially worse, because of who they are. Because of something they cannot control.
Why you had to resort to mean spirited comments, I don't see. It makes me wonder how old you are. I mean...really.
DiabloGuapo 1 year ago
hey it get better...
graetsss from the netherlandss
motermuis1 1 year ago
It can't get better... your fuckin gay.
LedCheffelin 1 year ago
Excellent & brave video, Kevin!
To all your detractors; the evil visions that are in their minds, concerning gay people loving each other, are just that--EVIL! Believe me, I would much rather think about men making love than men killing each other! Start, by thinking of Kevin as your son, who is not afraid to be who he is, and you are his parent. Love and understand him for a change! Yes, change is coming, Kevin! Bless you!
goldbug911 1 year ago
Great video! And we still need videos like this, looking at some of the comments......
mdutch1000 1 year ago
You're adorable. I applaud you for making this video and I hope people take your advice (:
NoPoPats 1 year ago
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Sterilize the homo race, you all will perish
MrLombreglia 1 year ago
@MrLombreglia The "homo race", my friend, doesn't have to get sterilized, because - as you might know - homosexuals don't have sexual intercourse with the opposite sex. That's what homosexuality is about, stupid. (I'm not going to tell you, that it's actually about love - because that's probably something you have no clue about.)
justtrashed 1 year ago
@MrLombreglia
Wait a minute...sterilize? do you know what being gay means?....we don't generally reproduce...sadly, your ignorant fool xenophobic self probably will, because the least intelligent pathetic garbage of the earth tends to overpopulate it with idiocy and hate...enjoy your tiny tiny life...what a shame
ascharwath 1 year ago
@MrLombreglia you're going to hell.
soso104 1 year ago
Make your bed, young man!
fotocracker 1 year ago
Don't sell yourself short on what you have to teach people at age 20. There are plenty of kids today that are ages 13 and 14 that look at a 40 year-old and think, "ack! they're ancient!" and are unable to relate to what they say. To those kids, a 20 year-old is someone they see themselves becoming in a few years. And your advice will be most appreciated by them.
You're also cute as a button and that helps too. : )
sdlorimor 1 year ago
Lol... To all you writing hateful comments.. Why the hell did u search the vid? Just to call someone a fag??? Get a life(: or some friends.. Trust me it's alllllot more entertaining.
ImSoSummer 1 year ago
@markm856 you mean everyday ISN'T HALLOWEEN?!?! NOOOO!! THE HORROR!!!!!!!!!!
Dude, get over it. He is who he is. You are who you are. Do you see him bashing you on how you talk/dress/act?
He's a kind, intelligent young man who is trying to make a difference. He's trying to save a life. So why don't you GET ONE, and then maybe, after you've learned your lesson, we'll consider hearing what you have to say. Until then, back the hell off.
Love,
Me.
DiabloGuapo 1 year ago 3
Nice. Calm, concise, and sure. You did a great job.
skeever 1 year ago
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Fuckin fag......
AHHHHHPKER 1 year ago
@AHHHHHPKER Wow Do you have a life? Do you write this on all the "its gets better" Videos What A fucktard (:
ZotiiAtHiddenbelow 1 year ago
@AHHHHHPKER seems like that "fuckin fag" has more intelligence, maturity, and wisdom than you do. hmm...i wonder if it's because he's grown up having to deal with idiot bullies like you?
DiabloGuapo 1 year ago 21
@DiabloGuapo hahaha Kudo's for the lovely reply !
upainuly 1 year ago
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What will happen to you when you die? Have you ever told lies, stolen, used God's name in vain, or looked at someone with lust? If yes, then you are a lying, theiving, blasphemous, adulterer at heart. When you die & stand before God you'll be guilty of breaking His law. The bible says you'll end up in Hell! But God sent God his Son Jesus to die for your sins, & He rose from the dead on the third day. If you'll believe the Gospel(Jesus died for your sins & was resurrected) you'll be saved!
gramosjr7 1 year ago
Good job, man. I'm also 20 and gay, and I've got to agree with you. I may just do a video of my own. :)
pkmnTrainerZach 1 year ago
@pkmnTrainerZach i'll be sure to laugh at it, you little fairy
markm856 1 year ago
@markm856 Laugh at it all you want. The video I want to make isn't for you, anyway.
pkmnTrainerZach 1 year ago
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I heard you like dicks...
GothamWriter91 1 year ago
So young yet so mature and thoughtful, thanks.
icarrus4u 1 year ago
thanks for doing this.
PaulLeary 1 year ago
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I could tell your a fuckin faggot before you even you opened your queer mouth!! now go lick some mans asshole queer boy.
NSA666999 1 year ago
@NSA666999 You took the time to watch the video AND reply with all the details of a homosexual act. Seems like somebody may be projecting.
mekales 1 year ago
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@mekales I would like to project a shotgun down your throat queer
NSA666999 1 year ago
@NSA666999 Nice innuendo there dude, he's a bit young for you tho.
grenadier33 1 year ago
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@NSA666999 someone needs to beat the shit out of you
jayschrader666 1 year ago
I'm gay, 21, and approve this message. Anything after High School is not only better, it's great. You just have to be yourself. Even though that's cliche, it's absolutely true.
<3
infinitex2 1 year ago 13
@infinitex2 how do I get to be myself? going away? I want to leave my country, I think. I'm not gay but I still feel I'm somehow not myself, like I can not really be... me. yet.
busybeingbla 1 year ago
You're awesome.. and such a handsome guy. Many thanks!
solidjavablend 1 year ago
thank you kevnramser!
kylezhu2009 1 year ago
Moving to a liberal college=FREEDOM!!!!!! Thanks for sharing your experience, it really does make a difference in people's lives.
lickmynose 1 year ago
Thank you for the heartfelt video! Make up your bed, young man! :0)
badwater 1 year ago
Kevin ur sweet, and thanks for the positive video
Gordyjb 1 year ago
Good job!
Greetings from Alabama.
bobbyandlane 1 year ago
Thank you for your young wisdom.....
RPoshekGladbach 1 year ago
You're really cute, I wish you would make more videos!
mrjellyglaze93 1 year ago
Well said!
Love from Sweden!
Chrishka 1 year ago
Love from Sweden!
Chrishka 1 year ago
Well said
scotzone 1 year ago
You are a star!! beautifully put. Thank you SO much!!!
mapse8 1 year ago
Thanks Kevin. <3 You're adorbs.
HenhousetheRed 1 year ago
wow some one so young with so much corage
JohannaGotTalent41 1 year ago
Good job.....:)
JDDoyle 1 year ago
@sly2kusa It's not possible for a gay person to stop being gay. God knows that and God doesn't want people like you stirring up hatred in His Name.
Also...what does the dispute with the Muslims have to do with ANY of this?
KennBurch 1 year ago
@KennBurch I'm sorry, but I disagree with your statement completely. Would you say that to a recovered alcoholic or drug abuser, or someone like myself that has had struggles with heterosexual issues in my past? You obviously do not know the God of the Bible, and have created one that is convenient to your own comforts.
As for the reason why I ask you about Islam, it's a very real issue and extreme danger to your community. You should be aware of it, because Shari'a Law is no joke.
sly2kusa 1 year ago
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KennBurch 1 year ago
@KennBurch Ummm - no. Actually, the issues I have had as a heterosexual man have nothing to do with homosexuality, but it doesn't surprise me to hear you guess that. That's pretty much a common mocking tactic by the GLBTQ community for anyone who has heterosexual issues. Mine were I just couldn't wait to get married to have sex, and I also had an issue with porn.
As for being anti-Hate, I couldn't agree with you more, but I do not embrace enemies of my country, nor their ideologies.
sly2kusa 1 year ago
@sly2kusa. I apologize for the misunderstanding. When you said "heterosexual issues", I honestly thought that meant issues with the question of whether you WERE, in fact, heterosexual. No mocking was intended on that(and actually, what you described as "issues" were basically just typical heterosexual guy things).
Also, I really don't know if anybody here was taking a "pro-Muslim"(or pro Islamist in the mythical "clash of civilizations")stance here.
KennBurch 1 year ago
@KennBurch No apology needed (I kind of thought you may have misunderstood, but I have had people in the past that have taken my honesty, and try to spin it into something it is not).
As for the Islam - it is my enemy (not Muslims). I just want to see people come to Jesus for salvation. That's it.
We've all got our problems in life, but Christ is the answer. That is my only hope for all of you.
Blessings to you.
sly2kusa 1 year ago
Kevin ,THANKS--yes people that are closer to teens are indeed necessary. It's a brave thing you have done!
tealaquarian 1 year ago
Well done... thumbs up..
freespirited2010 1 year ago 2
Your à hero
geldtelt 1 year ago 3
Kevin: impressive, and thanks. It is so distressing in many ways, that your generation is still dealing with the kind of ignorant bias towards LGBT people as when I came out some 40 years ago! But it is getting better on so many levels. Neither bigotry nor AIDS has stopped us as a community and a people, and we will not stop until full equality and tolerance is achieved. Best.
evan1276 1 year ago
Right on! Each DECADE gets better. I came out @ age 16, my sister claims when I was born.
54RossB 1 year ago
I like you and I wish I could be friends with you. I wish you the best and You're amazing :))
hikkari03 1 year ago
Thank you for sharing!!!
ChefKazzey 1 year ago
loves it
josephjuvenile 1 year ago
you're so cute :)
TheHumanPhoenix 1 year ago 4
its does get better i met someone when i was twenty and now 19 years later still together.... have loving friends..... whats funny i have more straight friends ..... also be who and what you want to do..... life short.....
kiley2b 1 year ago
@sly2kusa Hey sly2kusa ! The world is what we make of it ! To a certain extent you can always create a piece of world around yourself that suits you. Just do it and it will get better ! Cheers !
sunelav 1 year ago
So much wisdom from such a young person. Keep it going. And thanks for your courage.
prixator 1 year ago 27
nice
chenrongyao 1 year ago
Kev,
Thanks. I love your video. You are such a sweety.
dennisreplogle 1 year ago
well, i for one am sad you're gay, you're so cute ;)
Well done great vid! it's good to have a younger perspective in this (great) project too. I'm heterosexual but am appalled every day at the way gay people have to suffer in order to be themselves, and I just want to participate in saying there are lots of open-minded people out there too, you'll see :) it gets better!
BeatriceFiona 1 year ago
well said Kev!
fallensputnik 1 year ago
Well done Kevin!
XavierNinnis 1 year ago
Nice video...but dude, next time make your bed LOL! You're so cute, though, you can probably get someone else to do it for you.
perl1011 1 year ago 30