THIS MOVIE HAS THE GREATEST "DAMN IT YOU FOOL KISS HER AND RAJE GER AS YOURS" MOMENT IN FILM...EVER! A FILM THAT MUST BE REMEMBERED FOREVER. AN ABSOLUTE CLASSIC
I wonder if the Mrs Kenton character, taken as she is, would really have ever been interested in Stevens. However, if you allow a suspension of disbelief and watch the way Anthony Hopkins and Emma Thompson engage with each other it is affecting and you really get that sense of two people trying to reach out to each other across the void that seperates them, and failing in the attempt almost right until the end where they touch briefly, physically and emotionally, and then are gone forever.
I have just read the book for the second time - understand it better now. There have been many films/books on this theme - dedication to duty, professionalism - Stevens takes that principle to its limit - the sacrifice of personal happiness. He admits, at the conclusion of the book - to feeling satisfied - but speaks nothing of happiness. He cannot even permit himself full emotional involvement with his father's death - he cannot - the smooth running of Darlington Hall is more important.
This movie (and book) killed me. I'm so much like Stevens and even though I recognize that I'm throwing away my life by acting that way, I just seem unable to change.
The most moving exchange in the film, in my opinion, was deleted from this scene. Mrs Benn tells Stevens, as she did in the book, that she often wonders about a different life she might have had. "I sometimes wonder about a life I might have had with you, Mr Stevens." Stevens, heartbroken, his head bowed, replies, almost in a whisper "Oh, Mrs Benn." (Worth the price of the dvd on its own).
I didn't like the liberty they took with this scene. They combined the bus stop scene with Ms Kenton and the pier scene with the stranger, giving Ms Kenton the stranger's profound lines. It's still a powerful scene, but I thought having a complete stranger saying it was a better choice on Ishiguro's part.
hopkins face at 1:30, the way hes looking away, he knows that it's all too late and he's let her slip away, how sad is that. i wonder if he won an oscar for this film? power house peformance, the english truly are masters of the stiff upper lip
Hopkins is such a great actor. When she is sitting down talking to him, he is looking away and thinking about the missed opportunities in his life and is so sad. She doesn't even notice how sad and regretful he is. A very frustrating story, but one many people can relate to if only in a small scale.
Just curious why you cut the scene there and not just a little bit later where they are saying goodbye and she gets on the bus? This abbreviated piece is sad enough, but the bit just after always gets me. I was on that pier too in WSM in the 70's when I was a little girl. Great memories. Hopkins is kind of dressed like my grandad too. If he was wearing an Englishman's cap, he would be just like him.
This ending is a little sad, but I guess everyone can wonder how their life would have been if they had made different choices. Mr. Stevens and Ms Kenton did have great chemistry, but I think their personalities were worlds apart. I love this movie!
OK, my previous comment got lost somehow. I just wrote that for me the emotional climax of the movie is missing (sadly), coz it's only in one of the deleted scenes that Miss Kenton actually tells Stevens she sometimes wonders what her life cd have been - for example - with him. It is somehow like a symbolic kiss in the end that they never gave to each other. But it's in the book, so I recommend everyone to read "Remains of the Day" by Kazuo Ishiguro. It's excellent.
That said, it's a wondeful movie with outstanding performances, thrillingly beautiful music and just the atmosphere I imagined while reading the book. Thx for posting!
This is, for me, the emotional climax of the film -- so difficult, poignant, tender, subtle. That look is given to us, but denied to Ms Kenton. Thank you.
That would be to entirely miss the point of the film and the book.
The whole point is Stevens is a man who has become an entirely flawed person due to repressing his feelings at all times. That he fails to find redemption at the end is what makes this so special. That it lacks a "Hollywood" ending makes it real.
I know this is 3 months later, but, revisiting this scene, I have to comment: finding redemption or not is out of place here, and he isn't flawed, as I read it, he is a simply a man of his culture -- that is what makes it anti-Hollywood: sometimes love simply is not possible, even as hope, or dream. You can't underestimate the enjoyment produced in repression, submission and loss! I think Stevens is, as much as he can be, "happy."
You make a fair point, though I have to admit, I disagree and do believe him to be a flawed character.
However, I'm not looking for a disagreement - lets settle on the fact that it is an outstanding film, and book, regardless of how we choose to interpret it.
Yes he is a flawed character. And this is tragedy for Miss Kenton and for him, and the loser which Miss Kenton married. The failure to which Miss Kenton refers to here is not hers, it is his - but he fails to see it. For gods sake she gave him every chance to propose when they worked together.
Actually upon reading the book, Stevens reveals that he isn't happy. When Miss Kenton talks about her husband and how she can't leave, Stevens confesses to the reader that his heart was breaking. Strictly speaking Miss Kenton wasn't sitting next to him on the pier anyway. It was an old, retired butler that Stevens had been chatting with. "The evening's the best part of the day."
Indeed. The book reveals much more of Stevens' thoughts. If anyone has the DVD of this movie, you should watch the deleted scenes, because this scene is in it. He is talking to the old butler and suddenly begins crying. Very powerful stuff, I wish they had left it in the movie! :/
Indeed. I spent an entire semester class talking about this book (and Vladimir Nabokov's confusing meta-novel "Pale Fire," but that's another story.)
listen to james ivory's commentary about that scene in the dvd - he wasn't particularly motivated to shoot it. he consequently thought he did a lame job and deleted it.
I did listen to it, and I think if they had left it in the movie it wouldn't have worked very well, but I do wish they had left it anyway, if only just so everyone could A)see that side of Stevens and B) see Anthony Hopkins show that side of Stevens.
The Remains of the Day soundtrack
stephanebodin 1 week ago
THIS MOVIE HAS THE GREATEST "DAMN IT YOU FOOL KISS HER AND RAJE GER AS YOURS" MOMENT IN FILM...EVER! A FILM THAT MUST BE REMEMBERED FOREVER. AN ABSOLUTE CLASSIC
rssfeedslive 1 month ago
This movie has the most 'DAMN IT' moments in the history of film!
calendanime 5 months ago
I wonder if the Mrs Kenton character, taken as she is, would really have ever been interested in Stevens. However, if you allow a suspension of disbelief and watch the way Anthony Hopkins and Emma Thompson engage with each other it is affecting and you really get that sense of two people trying to reach out to each other across the void that seperates them, and failing in the attempt almost right until the end where they touch briefly, physically and emotionally, and then are gone forever.
BelatedCommiseration 6 months ago
I have just read the book for the second time - understand it better now. There have been many films/books on this theme - dedication to duty, professionalism - Stevens takes that principle to its limit - the sacrifice of personal happiness. He admits, at the conclusion of the book - to feeling satisfied - but speaks nothing of happiness. He cannot even permit himself full emotional involvement with his father's death - he cannot - the smooth running of Darlington Hall is more important.
LPCLASSICAL 8 months ago
1.33 a man with a death mask, his soul has just died, brilliant delivery from Tony.
notdeadjustlazy 8 months ago
Oh kiss her! YOU FOOL. No No No! You should grab her and snog her gob off. Time is running out and you're both going to walk away from happiness...
I love this film.
johnnybriggs118 9 months ago
1:55 - and the wall goes back up
septip123 1 year ago
This movie (and book) killed me. I'm so much like Stevens and even though I recognize that I'm throwing away my life by acting that way, I just seem unable to change.
melosebrainuhoh 1 year ago
most depressing movie of all time
I can't find the whole thing here though several parts are missing
Prancer1231 1 year ago
You can find the exchange at 'The Remains of the Day - Deleted Scene'.
jwnrtj 1 year ago
The most moving exchange in the film, in my opinion, was deleted from this scene. Mrs Benn tells Stevens, as she did in the book, that she often wonders about a different life she might have had. "I sometimes wonder about a life I might have had with you, Mr Stevens." Stevens, heartbroken, his head bowed, replies, almost in a whisper "Oh, Mrs Benn." (Worth the price of the dvd on its own).
jwnrtj 1 year ago 2
@jwnrtj
I agree, it's a shame they didn't include that scene (also because then Stevens knows for sure that she loved him).
chattan258 1 year ago
Anthony Hopkins is our greatest living actor.
HarveyDentLives 1 year ago 4
I didn't like the liberty they took with this scene. They combined the bus stop scene with Ms Kenton and the pier scene with the stranger, giving Ms Kenton the stranger's profound lines. It's still a powerful scene, but I thought having a complete stranger saying it was a better choice on Ishiguro's part.
brandon1ucas 1 year ago
cant quite see them eating candy floss can you
1960unclemort 2 years ago
I cried at this movie.
PersianPaladin 2 years ago 5
hopkins face at 1:30, the way hes looking away, he knows that it's all too late and he's let her slip away, how sad is that. i wonder if he won an oscar for this film? power house peformance, the english truly are masters of the stiff upper lip
RaikenXion 2 years ago 8
I need to see their last scene on the bus.
gdprosper 2 years ago 5
but it will make you weep all night
mahlstadt 2 years ago
@mahlstadt just the norm 4 me
clazza01 1 year ago
@clazza01 oh dear.
mahlstadt 1 year ago
@gdprosper me 2
clazza01 1 year ago
its so cute when people clapped! =)
that innocence and pristineness of simple joys =)
c1130762 2 years ago 5
0:39 is so bloody frustrating because you just want him to shout
"I NEED YOU DAMMIT!!"
MissMalone1992 2 years ago 20
@MissMalone1992 r u an american? lol
clazza01 1 year ago
heartbreaking....
largely a story of 3 men who make terrible decisions which have dire consequences that haunt them for the remainder of their lives.
The men are Lord Kensington, Stevens, and Stevens Sr.
septip123 3 years ago
not sure about stevens sr.
what bad decision does he make?
mahlstadt 2 years ago
Hugh grants character also and her decision to move away and get married to that loser. Maybe if she had stayed at Darlington Hall, who knows?
clazza01 2 years ago 2
Hopkins is such a great actor. When she is sitting down talking to him, he is looking away and thinking about the missed opportunities in his life and is so sad. She doesn't even notice how sad and regretful he is. A very frustrating story, but one many people can relate to if only in a small scale.
jeepersfreepers 3 years ago 8
Think about what he's done. A president, a seriel killer, a quiet butler...amazing talent!
septip123 2 years ago 22
@septip123
Yes, he is great !
psychkoala 2 years ago
Just curious why you cut the scene there and not just a little bit later where they are saying goodbye and she gets on the bus? This abbreviated piece is sad enough, but the bit just after always gets me. I was on that pier too in WSM in the 70's when I was a little girl. Great memories. Hopkins is kind of dressed like my grandad too. If he was wearing an Englishman's cap, he would be just like him.
jeepersfreepers 3 years ago
pitty the peir has burnt down! nice surprise to see it in this film tho
rmawatson 3 years ago
a big bravo for the choice of this scene!!
manground 3 years ago
This ending is a little sad, but I guess everyone can wonder how their life would have been if they had made different choices. Mr. Stevens and Ms Kenton did have great chemistry, but I think their personalities were worlds apart. I love this movie!
vmdct 3 years ago
Trivia: This scene was shot in Weston super Mare in Somerset - the town where John Cleese was born.
mixedgrain 3 years ago 5
And home to my grandparents :)
jeepersfreepers 3 years ago
OK, my previous comment got lost somehow. I just wrote that for me the emotional climax of the movie is missing (sadly), coz it's only in one of the deleted scenes that Miss Kenton actually tells Stevens she sometimes wonders what her life cd have been - for example - with him. It is somehow like a symbolic kiss in the end that they never gave to each other. But it's in the book, so I recommend everyone to read "Remains of the Day" by Kazuo Ishiguro. It's excellent.
principessa1121 3 years ago 4
That said, it's a wondeful movie with outstanding performances, thrillingly beautiful music and just the atmosphere I imagined while reading the book. Thx for posting!
principessa1121 3 years ago 2
This is, for me, the emotional climax of the film -- so difficult, poignant, tender, subtle. That look is given to us, but denied to Ms Kenton. Thank you.
jcdraws 4 years ago 4
does anyone know if the scene where she asks him what book he's reading is posted?
newonda27 4 years ago
I want ot see that one too! Could anyone put it on youtube?
VthatsME 4 years ago
where's teh scene where they say goodbye for the last time and Emma gets on the train and just bursts out crying. That always gets to me.
Tigerlily21 4 years ago
even though its not shown here.
frankzito1 4 years ago
Heart wrenching when thier hands let go.
frankzito1 4 years ago
I shed tears everytime I watch this scene. quite sad I must say!!
ewlalah 4 years ago 3
fuck! why they don't kiss each other for once!!!??¬¬
It remains me the bridges of madison country ending....rain and pain...¬¬ I want a kiss!!!¬¬
angiskaly 4 years ago
That would be to entirely miss the point of the film and the book.
The whole point is Stevens is a man who has become an entirely flawed person due to repressing his feelings at all times. That he fails to find redemption at the end is what makes this so special. That it lacks a "Hollywood" ending makes it real.
PaulMJohnson 4 years ago 2
I know this is 3 months later, but, revisiting this scene, I have to comment: finding redemption or not is out of place here, and he isn't flawed, as I read it, he is a simply a man of his culture -- that is what makes it anti-Hollywood: sometimes love simply is not possible, even as hope, or dream. You can't underestimate the enjoyment produced in repression, submission and loss! I think Stevens is, as much as he can be, "happy."
darkprose 3 years ago 2
You make a fair point, though I have to admit, I disagree and do believe him to be a flawed character.
However, I'm not looking for a disagreement - lets settle on the fact that it is an outstanding film, and book, regardless of how we choose to interpret it.
PaulMJohnson 3 years ago 3
Certainly.
darkprose 3 years ago
Yes he is a flawed character. And this is tragedy for Miss Kenton and for him, and the loser which Miss Kenton married. The failure to which Miss Kenton refers to here is not hers, it is his - but he fails to see it. For gods sake she gave him every chance to propose when they worked together.
LPCLASSICAL 3 years ago
Actually upon reading the book, Stevens reveals that he isn't happy. When Miss Kenton talks about her husband and how she can't leave, Stevens confesses to the reader that his heart was breaking. Strictly speaking Miss Kenton wasn't sitting next to him on the pier anyway. It was an old, retired butler that Stevens had been chatting with. "The evening's the best part of the day."
zoushaomenohu 3 years ago
Indeed. The book reveals much more of Stevens' thoughts. If anyone has the DVD of this movie, you should watch the deleted scenes, because this scene is in it. He is talking to the old butler and suddenly begins crying. Very powerful stuff, I wish they had left it in the movie! :/
osuvalpal 2 years ago
Indeed. I spent an entire semester class talking about this book (and Vladimir Nabokov's confusing meta-novel "Pale Fire," but that's another story.)
zoushaomenohu 2 years ago
listen to james ivory's commentary about that scene in the dvd - he wasn't particularly motivated to shoot it. he consequently thought he did a lame job and deleted it.
mahlstadt 2 years ago
I did listen to it, and I think if they had left it in the movie it wouldn't have worked very well, but I do wish they had left it anyway, if only just so everyone could A)see that side of Stevens and B) see Anthony Hopkins show that side of Stevens.
osuvalpal 2 years ago 2
Stevens cries!!!!!!! No way! It seems so out of character of Stevens' desire to be the perfect butler.
septip123 2 years ago 2
Its like the moment he finally breaks down and realizes he's alone in the world. Its powerful stuff. I encourage you to see it!
osuvalpal 2 years ago