I live in a house like in the video, I can tell you it's most likely mental illness. My sister used to do it on a worse level than this, but now she just screams and hits occasionally. So my opinion is one from living in this type of environment is that the mother may need medication, seeing as the dad or step dad says she's "broken". Though I could be very wrong.
You are very young and have a good way to promote material, but when both sides are not being identified and secretly taped, it leaves one to wonder about the other side. I heard him say the F word to her, I heard him swear at her, I heard him being a control freak because he got her upset before taping the nonsense! This was so intentional, and you portrayed him as a victim! It is sad when one tries to glorify themselves under false and misleading pretense! I know what a victim is and he is not
@cathryn1959 You're basically doing the same thing. However, you are correct that both sides aren't represented. But within that nine minute video, do you think at any point, the mom could have showed some civility in the process? The kid even offered to give the mom some of the money and yet, she doesn't work. So, how exactly is she pulling her weight without the need for the boyfriend of hers? That's problem number one.
@cathryn1959 The whole story? Madam...the video wasn't told through the voice of someone else. You *maybe* correct, but honestly, why would anyone react the way they did to their child in such a vain way?
Well, I agree with this for the most part, I mean if someone was screaming like a maniac at me, I wouldn't do shit for them and I would tell them ''stop screaming, stop calling me names, and come and ask me like a halfway decent human being for the money and then I will give it to you" and I am close to being 26, I was screamed at like that when I was his age and unlike the kid who holds his emotions well, well when one screamed at me, I screamed back 10 times louder.
Wimp is back & has been back for quite some time now. I oh yeah. The other guy in the video I thought was the kids friend because the mom at one point said "You can call you fucking father" & she didn't yell at him, he was in the same room & I don't think the kid would call her mom a bitch in front of him.
@MrDietcokeman Normally it would lead to a dramatic breakdown of the family household and eventually becomes a broken home. Compared to some situations, this one is medium-bat shit crazy.
I first saw this video on EBaumsWorld. The guy did (in 2007) say he & his mom are getting along alot better & still lives with her. His username is TheTwinTowers.
@MrDietcokeman I agree with your sentiments. But there are other children who were in this predicament before and have done things similar. So, the updates about the boy is unknown. However, it could very well be a good deed.
I'm sure the boy was only trying to pick a fight to catch it on tape, but since the mother was easily provoked, it may mean that she screams at him at a regular basis. Whether he stays calm all the time, we don't know. But I can truly say that all that yelling that the mother did will get them nowhere.
I agree that this (Mom) needs to watch that craziness for herself & maybe become enlightened! Don't know how much it would help though... she's definately bipolar, probably skitzo as well & seriously coo coo 4 coco puffs! please know that as a "MOM" myself of 3, 2 being teenagers almost grown, that I find it real hard to call that awful woman anyone's mom! That was just evil plain & simple. God help the children that have to endure such treatment.
Hahaha, that's a common reaction from all the videos I did, until I moved the webcam in a different direction. The sound you heard came from the webcam being placed on a desktop and me lacking a headset to muffle the sound.
I need a laptop. And you're not looking at the situation very carefully. The son wasn't acting like an asshole at all. The mother was the one screaming like a wailing banshee. If he neglected to do anything, then the actions were justified, but the kid works and makes money. So, how is mom in the right?
im looking at the situation just right. the boy is a teenager with an attitude problem and no respect for authority. Hes mother wanted 50 bucks for transportation and he wanted to be a sarcastic little fuck. i dont know if your mom raised you...but i know if i ever second guessed my mom or talked back my ass would be on the street you seem to be in favor of the boy because u might think the mom is being overly aggressive about the situation but your not taking into account the abuse shes feeling
If the boy had no respect for authority, then perhaps he wouldn't be working now and like any high school kid with a bad attitude, he would most likely just do whatever he pleases.
Now of course observe the mother. Why would she demand the keys in a very harsh manner? Normally, people like that, especially in a dysfunctional home, she could be doing some illegal activity. Did you ever take that into account? (continued...)
(...continued from last post) Just because she plays the role of the mom doesn't mean respect should be automatic. Given the circumstances they all are in, it's fairly clear that this family have its issues, but it all begins with the parental figures. The kid is doing what he's doing and respects his mother. Not once did he raised his voice to his mother at all and furthermore haven't demonstrated any hostile activity, unlike the mother who seemingly can't keep her head straight.
IMO, I think it is crazy how the camera only shows one perspective. Here Mom most likely takes care of her children without the help of their dad and you see the tv and computer and lawd whatever else he has that mostlikely somebody else provided for him. HA my mom wouldn't have yelled like that she would have just kicked my ass to the curb. Mom sounds stressed out by her children and daily shit that obviously no one in that house gives a flyin frick about. that is my opinion.
shes bored of crack and mama screams her head off for 50 bucks most likely for any other drug that will probably kill her (that be funny) or make a zillion times crazier than she is now
Oh dear.. it really does suck having to live with an unstable mother like that, especially at that young an age where the boy is probably still dependent on her around high school. I hope the mum gets better, find some therapy.
The kid set this up. I know exactly what he's trying to do. The mother is supporting him and who ever else... And all she asked was to get the car to go to work.... And to say she yelled at him for no reason, is straight bullshit. He brought it on himself, he didnt hit record until she started screaming...and for that guy in the background he very well might have been the neighbor...Who knows...But for you to take up for the teenager is complete ridiculous....
You seriously think that the kid set this up? Sure, just the camera, but not the reactions of the parent figure. She acted on her own accord, which gave people that impression in the first place.
I would consider your argument if not for the fact that the kid actually works and makes his own money. And why would the mother yell or have to ask? That there is something you should consider.
I'm not defending the kid, but looking at it on a practical level.
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You don't know anything about the family in the video, neither do I, but how do you know that the kid doesn't have a job for HIMSELF. Also she wanted the car keys to go to WORK. I would've just gave her the keys. The kid picked the fight and the mom only tried to DISCIPLINE. The step dad gave the kid $50. Does the kid really have it tough?
Well, he actually mentioned in the video that he does work. Where? No one knows. And regarding the mother, she's clearly not using it for work as she would claim, but rather ranting as if she's the victim. It's not much one sided when dysfunctional families are at stake.
He does work for his own money. If he was a spoiled brat, chances are, he would've kept it to himself altogether rather than contributing to the household. The stepdad would most likely grow agitated from it all.
Plus, did you ever ask yourself why the mother never got the keys in the first place? Pay close to attention to the way she expressed herself. Didn't sound like she's there to go to work on a normal means.
Again, if you paid attention to the video the kid is the one remaining calm. Not once was he demanding, hooping and hollering whatsoever. He even offered to give the mom money.
Has anyone ever found the original source of that video? I'm sure that boy will go far in the world, he clearly has the ability to overcome. To remain calm as a child in the face of such an environment is truly remarkable.
Well yeah, I agree with you all the way about it. Before I got your opinion, I thought the step dad was okay, but he was just siding with the mom.
Now I think that the step dad is trying to stay out of it... I think that the step dad should just tell his wife how crazy she is acting or something. He has to take responsibility, tell her the truth, and just settle the situation.
BTW everyone I showed the book and authority so to speak on this terrible dysfunction(BPD), had multiple epiphanies and recognized this trait in folks around them by just reading the back cover, I never heard so many OMG OMG OMG's that I responded "Oh your God, Oh your God"
the book(BPDbible) is SWOE short for
Stop Walking on Eggshells
incredible revelations on how it is often misdiagnosed as Bi-Polar Disorder because they have the same letters but WAAAAAY more serious!
this is a clear case of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) for short and this is a particular severe example. some BPD's can function somewhat normally and have "some" redeeming qualities like my wife is an engineer scientist and excells in her professional life but when it comes to interpersonal relationships she's a total control freak bitch. sorta of a "fruitcake/savant" I have seen many and I am sure we all have recognized some of the symtoms in the many people we meet.
Not quite sure if you're being sarcastic or not, but if you're not, a nuclear family is generally considered to be a household consisting of a father, mother, and two children. An extended family would include grandparents or aunts and uncles living in the same household.
Well, all I have to say that when I was growing up my mother acted like that on a daily basis except even more extreme (that was through her actions) Now that I am moved out and living on my own she continues acting that way. When dealing with her in such a state, I usually belittle her fit by making calm, sarcastic remarks in an attempt to make her realize her behavior is ridiculous. This does not work, but it is far better than taking her tirades seriously (they are not rational at all)
I'd like to say something real quick. This video could have been taken from my teen years. No one deserves that kind of abusive behavior. I hope he(teen)was able to get out of the situation safely. My mother sufferes from schizophrenia. It has only been in the last few years that they found out. but my Dad now thinks, based on memory that she was suffering from it as early as 16. for someone who is 50. thats a long time.The woman in the video needs help. I hope she gets it before it is too late.
This is a family with no reasonable adult incharge. If she has to work a low-pay/hi-stress late nite job to pay the rent the video games and electronic etc. should not be there in the first place. She recieves some kind of child support. Who is that man. He should take her to work. NO financial planning and she uses her son as a whipping boy for all her stress. The son is in psych pain and so is she. Intervention please. These problems didn't start just yesterday.
Look for what excites him and what makes him feel good about himself, especially if he doesn't seem to notice. Comment on the fact the he's having a good time,'Chances are these will be times when the child is involved and feeling sure of himself. Once he experiences confidence, he'll be more willing to try other things.''
...but perhaps he has the good reason to, i know if my mother ever talked like this to me i would probably be unhelpful to her as well. anyways NO MATTER WHAT, a parent should never talk to their child like this, its just unacceptable.
the kid seems to be spoilt, with all his electronics etc. and if he has a job, youd think he would have the money to give to his mother in the first place. (im just curious if he bought the electronics or his mom did). the kid could have avoided this whole argument if he just gave in right away, but he continued to ask to be "asked politely". the kid was being inpractical and unhelpful towards his mother.
Your not getting the point at all. The mother is acting insane nobody in their right mind acts like that, the son was trying to get the mother to calm down and act normal she needs professional help, maybe a room with padded walls if you know what I mean.
well because she demande dit she didnt say please when i have money and the banks closed my mom asks to borrow mine till the enxt day and i get it back the next day but mabey for this kid she never gives it back maby he didnt want to keep losing money and i dont think it cost 50 dollers for gas since 2 years ago gas was alot cheaper maby for drugs maby he found out she was using drugs and didnt want her wasting his money
Look cyrus, does it make any sense that a woman would blow up like this over a credit card. Why would he say that she should ask him nicely if she already did. From what I gather, she loses control quickly after her snide remarks don't get results. The mother is to blame. The quick way she lost control suggests that she worked at demonizing her son. Because frankly, even murderers aren't yelled at like that.
makes me wonder i look at his room he has a pretty nice looking compand 360 games which im assuming he has a 360 in his room a nice TV and well a video camera at the least i would like to know how he attained these things probably from working but i don't really know what to say about it i wouldn't say that im trying to make him look spoiled or anything but it just seems like well i don't know but you can see what i mean kinda so thats pretty much what i think thanks for posting vid
Yeah, that kid was really just trying to be nice and she just goes spider monkey on him. If I had 100,000$ I'd give it to the kid so he can live on his own without dealing with her. Yes we do live in a fucked up culture.
I thought this when I saw the video, all the son asked was for his mom to ask him nicely for the money and she ended up blowing a fuse, more like a fuse box, threating to have her son fired from his job and call the cops on him for no reason and she expects him to help her? She defintly needs to go to anger management. No son or daughter should have to take that kind of abuse.
I think the boy showed remarkable restraint and maturity. He demanded respect from his parent even when she wouldn't give it, which shows he has at least some healthy sense of self. He will probably grow up with issues, but will grow up better than her either way. Very good video response! Agree 100% with everything you said!
She's just a monster! I can't understand how there can be parents like that. She must be out of her mind! Something's wrong with her mentally.
I don't know if there is anything that can be done to help a family like that. All I can suggest is that she go to therapy and take medication to calm her down. Also, that boy needs to get out of there as soon as possible. That woman will only continue to traumatize him because she doesn't know how to or cares to be a mother. She'll just bum off him.
I agree with you; the adult male in the video makes a reference to the mom having supported him for 16 years, well, by law, she's got 2 more to go. I'll say it again, she should have kept her legs shut and not reproduced. Then she could be a screaming a-hole on her own, and not have to worry about anyone but her psychotic self.
She's lucky he didn't post her face...I'm betting that child protection would have a few things to say to her.
Well basicly i think that the parent has been stressed so she gets mad for nothing.
Example: Say if i just got fired fro work
i own my own house with no money no nothing.
so im basiccly saying that maybe something happend to her like at work or anything pretty much. so she takes her anger out on her son without relizeing that her son.
You can't really blame this on society. I have friends that are poor and they do not have these kind of problems at home. Some people are just fucking crazy.
Wow, you make a reallt good point. But my headache is bigger from the buzzing of the video. Really. One of the best video responses i have ever seen. Quality(Audio, visual) wasn't teh best but still. Idk
My apologies...I've actually found the culprit of the buzzing sounds, so I've moved the webcam off the top of the computer and placed it on a stack of DVDs I've bought. Thanks for the response!
I agree, I don't think that any child should be treated like thie child in the video, espically by their parents. I've just turned 16 this past June and my mother yells at me pretty identical to the 16 year old boy. I would have just handed over the keys to get the mother out of my face instead of provoke the situation any futher. though most times as a teenager, you expect to be treated with respect in order to treat others the same way thus the reason why he refused to give her the keys. =_=''
No question about the dysfunction in this particular family. I think the kid was pretty smart for recording what he probably goes through on a regular basis and I would take it as a sign that he is asking for help. It made me think of episodes like these that go on in other homes that aren't being watched or reported and I wonder how common this is.
ok let me actully comment on this video actully, after watching it. Iam 16 n my mom n dad used to do alot of yelling fighting and drugs, so from my point of veiw the problem with most disfunctional families is money problems or people in the house just dont like eachother and shouldent even be liveing together
You actually have a point there. Money could be a factor for broken families and the parents especially not really able to cope with the responsibilities of parenting. A reminder for the masses, try to avoid marriage if you feel that you're not prepared to sacrifice pieces of your livelihood.
It's not a terrible series by all means, but people claim it's the greatest game of all time. And what really bothers me is when the storyline received a higher score than Metal Gear Solid 4 from GameTrailers.
Heh, I have nothing against Canadians. I think it's better to be there than the U.S.! Halo isn't a terrible series, like I stated, just people pushed it too far with popularity even when it doesn't deserve it.
halo online is dumb, enuf said. marriage dossent just take some of youe life but haveing children does aswell, so to give sum advise to the world dont do n e thing before thinking over it and makeing sure that you are rdy
Oh yes, I definitely agree with you there. But it's always best if one gives off some advice and learn from others just in case they need a second opinion about what may become of their future.
The video is somewhat similar to things that happened a while back for me. Recently before my mother and father divorced, she would always be yelling, even though i didn't do anything. I couldn't work during the time either, so she didn't want money. They both had a decent pay. Just alot of drama. The yelling was similar to my mother's yelling.
My future goal is to become a father. I'm going to be the best damned father in the world. I will bet my life on it!
This family's past was probably a tough one. Sounds like the mother was stressed to the limit because work issues. So she must have had a bad past with schooling. That still gives her no reason to be yelling at her son. Especially when he wasn't doing anything wrong. If i was her, i would go through all of that and endure the stress. And release it using some type of non-physically or mentally harmful way, for health reasons, ofcourse.
just to clarify for you bigbrother...she is asking for his car so she can go back to work..i assume that her car broke down, was in the shop, etc...now, the problem i have with the kid in this is that as someone who is NOT paying bills to maintain the house, i.e..mortgage, water, electric...i didnt see any reference to him working..i DID see xbox games..and without knowing whether he worked to buy them or not i can only speculate..but she did overstep her bounds and she also sets a bad example
You're right about one thing...we can ONLY speculate or assume such things. I think the kid actually contributes to the household. He's 16 too, so even though he's closer to being 18, he's still a child in a sense that all he has to really do is just go to school and not screw up.
This is great. You present a video and then give your own insight and comentary.
I agree I think there's a lot to be read between the lines of what we see here.
The mom is definatly out of control and should never talk to her kid like this.
I have had an angry mom, we all get angry but nothing like this!!!
If I knew I was taping someone under cover its real easy to act all cool and calm and come off as the victim. Is this his usual behaviour? Or just for the tape.
Why is the mother asking the son for money in the first place? Isn't it usually the other way around?
Maybe the son started taping the mother because he was sick of her screaming. He wanted proof on tape that she was out of control. The roles are reversed here with the mom acting like a child and the son acting like the parent. It is amazing.
He didn't give her the money because she was being abusive. He wanted her to calm down and she did not.
I think there's a lot more to the story than what he actually recorded. I doubt the mother is like this all the time, but snapped after his continued disobedience. Personally, if my mother asks for money I'll just give it to her..I don't play the "say please" games that he did. I think it's obvious that he worked her up into a frenzy and then tried to play innocent. Also the son doesn't work. He doesn't pay bills. The car was probably bought by HER in the first place. He owes it to her at least.
That screaming banshee, poor excuse for a mother in that video is clearily mentally ill. I would say she is bipolar. The dad, or step dad is passive and basically blames the son for the mom's childish behavior. The kid is the only adult in that video. I hope something was done about these toxic parents or the kid moved out.
Yeah I totalloy agree. Im a mother and a single one at that, this is so sad. I do hollar at my children but its for not cleaning his room or school grades never get a job. He wants me to be there whenever he calls me but he chooses to disregard anything I ask. For the first time in his 17 years I punished him the other day and he obeyed
I do understand where you're coming from...and it seems like nowadays this day and age, people prefer to carry this sense of comfort. Once they have own what they have, the free-ride is still there for them.
I live in a house like in the video, I can tell you it's most likely mental illness. My sister used to do it on a worse level than this, but now she just screams and hits occasionally. So my opinion is one from living in this type of environment is that the mother may need medication, seeing as the dad or step dad says she's "broken". Though I could be very wrong.
TheMisterYoink 4 days ago
@TheMisterYoink Who knows...you could very well be right.
BigBrotherWii 4 days ago
try a better mic next time:) you're right btw
KKOPPI 4 months ago
@KKOPPI Thanks. But since then, I have a new computer with better audio quality from a new headset and all. :)
BigBrotherWii 4 months ago
:'(
BigCatBertha 6 months ago
You are very young and have a good way to promote material, but when both sides are not being identified and secretly taped, it leaves one to wonder about the other side. I heard him say the F word to her, I heard him swear at her, I heard him being a control freak because he got her upset before taping the nonsense! This was so intentional, and you portrayed him as a victim! It is sad when one tries to glorify themselves under false and misleading pretense! I know what a victim is and he is not
cathryn1959 8 months ago
@cathryn1959 You're basically doing the same thing. However, you are correct that both sides aren't represented. But within that nine minute video, do you think at any point, the mom could have showed some civility in the process? The kid even offered to give the mom some of the money and yet, she doesn't work. So, how exactly is she pulling her weight without the need for the boyfriend of hers? That's problem number one.
BigBrotherWii 8 months ago
This is a bias side...we did not see the whole story.
cathryn1959 8 months ago
@cathryn1959 The whole story? Madam...the video wasn't told through the voice of someone else. You *maybe* correct, but honestly, why would anyone react the way they did to their child in such a vain way?
BigBrotherWii 8 months ago
ur a sexy black guy
Simatary 10 months ago
@Simatary Hahaha. Thanks.
BigBrotherWii 10 months ago
Well, I agree with this for the most part, I mean if someone was screaming like a maniac at me, I wouldn't do shit for them and I would tell them ''stop screaming, stop calling me names, and come and ask me like a halfway decent human being for the money and then I will give it to you" and I am close to being 26, I was screamed at like that when I was his age and unlike the kid who holds his emotions well, well when one screamed at me, I screamed back 10 times louder.
DeathsWhoreRotting 1 year ago
@DeathsWhoreRotting Geez....and how did that effect your relationship with your parents?
BigBrotherWii 1 year ago
Wimp is back & has been back for quite some time now. I oh yeah. The other guy in the video I thought was the kids friend because the mom at one point said "You can call you fucking father" & she didn't yell at him, he was in the same room & I don't think the kid would call her mom a bitch in front of him.
HBKanedge818 1 year ago
@HBKanedge818 Thanks for the information. I've took notice of it like months ago. Happy to see it running again.
BigBrotherWii 1 year ago
@MrDietcokeman Normally it would lead to a dramatic breakdown of the family household and eventually becomes a broken home. Compared to some situations, this one is medium-bat shit crazy.
BigBrotherWii 1 year ago
@BigBrotherWii
I first saw this video on EBaumsWorld. The guy did (in 2007) say he & his mom are getting along alot better & still lives with her. His username is TheTwinTowers.
HBKanedge818 1 year ago
@MrDietcokeman I agree with your sentiments. But there are other children who were in this predicament before and have done things similar. So, the updates about the boy is unknown. However, it could very well be a good deed.
BigBrotherWii 1 year ago
ive got friends who think ther lifes are bad lmao, any way you have alot of good points im subscribin. PEACE
NW6MASSIVE 2 years ago
Hahaha thanks bro!
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
I'm sure the boy was only trying to pick a fight to catch it on tape, but since the mother was easily provoked, it may mean that she screams at him at a regular basis. Whether he stays calm all the time, we don't know. But I can truly say that all that yelling that the mother did will get them nowhere.
kittyqueen132 2 years ago
Hmm, that is a plausible angle. But, think the mother would've known?
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
I agree that this (Mom) needs to watch that craziness for herself & maybe become enlightened! Don't know how much it would help though... she's definately bipolar, probably skitzo as well & seriously coo coo 4 coco puffs! please know that as a "MOM" myself of 3, 2 being teenagers almost grown, that I find it real hard to call that awful woman anyone's mom! That was just evil plain & simple. God help the children that have to endure such treatment.
angelnmichael47 2 years ago
Hehehe, it's hard to believe that parental authority nowadays can really be...parents.
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
I tried to watch your vid, I really did.
I had watched 'AngryMom' all the way though and was realy interested in seeing what you had to say about it.
But I had to stop at about 1:30 in, because the background music started to give me a migraine.
Sorry dude, you come accross as intelligent and analytical...
but my head just hurts to much, lol
DottyDotDitto 2 years ago
Hahaha, that's a common reaction from all the videos I did, until I moved the webcam in a different direction. The sound you heard came from the webcam being placed on a desktop and me lacking a headset to muffle the sound.
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
you need a new camera.....and that mom is right the son is a major fucking asshole. and the father needs to beat his ass.
Juan2009NewTime 2 years ago
I need a laptop. And you're not looking at the situation very carefully. The son wasn't acting like an asshole at all. The mother was the one screaming like a wailing banshee. If he neglected to do anything, then the actions were justified, but the kid works and makes money. So, how is mom in the right?
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
im looking at the situation just right. the boy is a teenager with an attitude problem and no respect for authority. Hes mother wanted 50 bucks for transportation and he wanted to be a sarcastic little fuck. i dont know if your mom raised you...but i know if i ever second guessed my mom or talked back my ass would be on the street you seem to be in favor of the boy because u might think the mom is being overly aggressive about the situation but your not taking into account the abuse shes feeling
Juan2009NewTime 2 years ago
If the boy had no respect for authority, then perhaps he wouldn't be working now and like any high school kid with a bad attitude, he would most likely just do whatever he pleases.
Now of course observe the mother. Why would she demand the keys in a very harsh manner? Normally, people like that, especially in a dysfunctional home, she could be doing some illegal activity. Did you ever take that into account? (continued...)
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
(...continued from last post) Just because she plays the role of the mom doesn't mean respect should be automatic. Given the circumstances they all are in, it's fairly clear that this family have its issues, but it all begins with the parental figures. The kid is doing what he's doing and respects his mother. Not once did he raised his voice to his mother at all and furthermore haven't demonstrated any hostile activity, unlike the mother who seemingly can't keep her head straight.
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
IMO, I think it is crazy how the camera only shows one perspective. Here Mom most likely takes care of her children without the help of their dad and you see the tv and computer and lawd whatever else he has that mostlikely somebody else provided for him. HA my mom wouldn't have yelled like that she would have just kicked my ass to the curb. Mom sounds stressed out by her children and daily shit that obviously no one in that house gives a flyin frick about. that is my opinion.
MrsDomino 2 years ago
shes bored of crack and mama screams her head off for 50 bucks most likely for any other drug that will probably kill her (that be funny) or make a zillion times crazier than she is now
wango911 2 years ago
Hahahahaha, good observation there!
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
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arsonin 2 years ago
Ummmm, that is rather extreme there friend.
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
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arsonin 2 years ago
So, you're comfortable letting the world know you are a hitman, right? Hmmm, the actions are still extreme regardless of certain conditions.
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
@BigBrotherWii
think what you will, whats done is done.
just thought you should know.
seeing as how you seem to care for Charlie.
arsonin 2 years ago
I'll speak no to this.
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
i think his mom wanted the money for a dildo
glitchhunter96 2 years ago
Hahahaha
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
lol so true
Epscadets 2 years ago
:-P
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
Oh dear.. it really does suck having to live with an unstable mother like that, especially at that young an age where the boy is probably still dependent on her around high school. I hope the mum gets better, find some therapy.
343PRODiGY 2 years ago
I hope so too. But sadly, we don't see people making hedgeway with responsibility.
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
The mother sounded awful young!!
cajuncurlzz 2 years ago
Irresponible outcomes are my bet here.
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
The kid set this up. I know exactly what he's trying to do. The mother is supporting him and who ever else... And all she asked was to get the car to go to work.... And to say she yelled at him for no reason, is straight bullshit. He brought it on himself, he didnt hit record until she started screaming...and for that guy in the background he very well might have been the neighbor...Who knows...But for you to take up for the teenager is complete ridiculous....
wickedcarnnie 2 years ago
You seriously think that the kid set this up? Sure, just the camera, but not the reactions of the parent figure. She acted on her own accord, which gave people that impression in the first place.
I would consider your argument if not for the fact that the kid actually works and makes his own money. And why would the mother yell or have to ask? That there is something you should consider.
I'm not defending the kid, but looking at it on a practical level.
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
brought it on himself? he said ask niceley jokingly
you dont call your son a fucker and that you hate him cause he was messing arround any ways i bet your just a troll cause no 1 can blame the child
d3athbRinger 2 years ago
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whoever gave losermountain the thumbs down is a fucking retard
IITreyII717 2 years ago
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You don't know anything about the family in the video, neither do I, but how do you know that the kid doesn't have a job for HIMSELF. Also she wanted the car keys to go to WORK. I would've just gave her the keys. The kid picked the fight and the mom only tried to DISCIPLINE. The step dad gave the kid $50. Does the kid really have it tough?
Losermountain 2 years ago
Well, he actually mentioned in the video that he does work. Where? No one knows. And regarding the mother, she's clearly not using it for work as she would claim, but rather ranting as if she's the victim. It's not much one sided when dysfunctional families are at stake.
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
What if he works for his OWN money I meant. The mom never got the keys. so... were you watch a different video?
Losermountain 2 years ago
He does work for his own money. If he was a spoiled brat, chances are, he would've kept it to himself altogether rather than contributing to the household. The stepdad would most likely grow agitated from it all.
Plus, did you ever ask yourself why the mother never got the keys in the first place? Pay close to attention to the way she expressed herself. Didn't sound like she's there to go to work on a normal means.
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
ok but who is the kid to boss around his mom like that? if I did that I would be beat till I fell down and grounded.
Losermountain 2 years ago
Again, if you paid attention to the video the kid is the one remaining calm. Not once was he demanding, hooping and hollering whatsoever. He even offered to give the mom money.
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
Has anyone ever found the original source of that video? I'm sure that boy will go far in the world, he clearly has the ability to overcome. To remain calm as a child in the face of such an environment is truly remarkable.
Sum1n0tu 2 years ago
The original source is long forgotten.
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
lot good points also I love the song
lordyingyang 2 years ago
Thanks!
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
Jeez, your really smart, no lie.
Well yeah, I agree with you all the way about it. Before I got your opinion, I thought the step dad was okay, but he was just siding with the mom.
Now I think that the step dad is trying to stay out of it... I think that the step dad should just tell his wife how crazy she is acting or something. He has to take responsibility, tell her the truth, and just settle the situation.
4shotter 2 years ago
Thank you for the wonderful response. I truly appreciate it.
It's a convoluted tale indeed.
BigBrotherWii 2 years ago
BTW everyone I showed the book and authority so to speak on this terrible dysfunction(BPD), had multiple epiphanies and recognized this trait in folks around them by just reading the back cover, I never heard so many OMG OMG OMG's that I responded "Oh your God, Oh your God"
the book(BPDbible) is SWOE short for
Stop Walking on Eggshells
incredible revelations on how it is often misdiagnosed as Bi-Polar Disorder because they have the same letters but WAAAAAY more serious!
karmanmechanic 3 years ago
they come in various degrees of intensity.
on a scale of 1 to 10, i'd say the BPD in your video is a 10 to the power of the square root of the Matrix.
karmanmechanic 3 years ago
this is a clear case of Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) for short and this is a particular severe example. some BPD's can function somewhat normally and have "some" redeeming qualities like my wife is an engineer scientist and excells in her professional life but when it comes to interpersonal relationships she's a total control freak bitch. sorta of a "fruitcake/savant" I have seen many and I am sure we all have recognized some of the symtoms in the many people we meet.
karmanmechanic 3 years ago
What the fuck is a Nuclear family? LOL
anmpir 3 years ago
Not quite sure if you're being sarcastic or not, but if you're not, a nuclear family is generally considered to be a household consisting of a father, mother, and two children. An extended family would include grandparents or aunts and uncles living in the same household.
Woozywill 3 years ago
Well, all I have to say that when I was growing up my mother acted like that on a daily basis except even more extreme (that was through her actions) Now that I am moved out and living on my own she continues acting that way. When dealing with her in such a state, I usually belittle her fit by making calm, sarcastic remarks in an attempt to make her realize her behavior is ridiculous. This does not work, but it is far better than taking her tirades seriously (they are not rational at all)
Fartdemon 3 years ago
I'd like to say something real quick. This video could have been taken from my teen years. No one deserves that kind of abusive behavior. I hope he(teen)was able to get out of the situation safely. My mother sufferes from schizophrenia. It has only been in the last few years that they found out. but my Dad now thinks, based on memory that she was suffering from it as early as 16. for someone who is 50. thats a long time.The woman in the video needs help. I hope she gets it before it is too late.
Marikay4 3 years ago
you basely wrote my life..
LittoMoon 3 years ago
Wish to talk about it further?
BigBrotherWii 3 years ago
sure, you can check out my video I posted last night.
LittoMoon 3 years ago
Okay...I will. Make it as a video response to my video if you can. :-)
BigBrotherWii 3 years ago
This is a family with no reasonable adult incharge. If she has to work a low-pay/hi-stress late nite job to pay the rent the video games and electronic etc. should not be there in the first place. She recieves some kind of child support. Who is that man. He should take her to work. NO financial planning and she uses her son as a whipping boy for all her stress. The son is in psych pain and so is she. Intervention please. These problems didn't start just yesterday.
likethecats 3 years ago
Sounds like my family take out all there anger on me and if I try to fight back they think I am retarted or something.
KaiserVadin 3 years ago
Look for what excites him and what makes him feel good about himself, especially if he doesn't seem to notice. Comment on the fact the he's having a good time,'Chances are these will be times when the child is involved and feeling sure of himself. Once he experiences confidence, he'll be more willing to try other things.''
UploadVidFlag 3 years ago
Hmm...nice comment here. I'll have to consider that.
BigBrotherWii 3 years ago
eddy murphy lol i would of lefp standard
NW6MASSIVE 3 years ago
LOL I didn't quite understand what you're saying, but thanks!
BigBrotherWii 3 years ago
...but perhaps he has the good reason to, i know if my mother ever talked like this to me i would probably be unhelpful to her as well. anyways NO MATTER WHAT, a parent should never talk to their child like this, its just unacceptable.
cyrusthehooker 3 years ago 3
the kid seems to be spoilt, with all his electronics etc. and if he has a job, youd think he would have the money to give to his mother in the first place. (im just curious if he bought the electronics or his mom did). the kid could have avoided this whole argument if he just gave in right away, but he continued to ask to be "asked politely". the kid was being inpractical and unhelpful towards his mother.
cyrusthehooker 3 years ago
Your not getting the point at all. The mother is acting insane nobody in their right mind acts like that, the son was trying to get the mother to calm down and act normal she needs professional help, maybe a room with padded walls if you know what I mean.
stargazerlily86 3 years ago 9
well because she demande dit she didnt say please when i have money and the banks closed my mom asks to borrow mine till the enxt day and i get it back the next day but mabey for this kid she never gives it back maby he didnt want to keep losing money and i dont think it cost 50 dollers for gas since 2 years ago gas was alot cheaper maby for drugs maby he found out she was using drugs and didnt want her wasting his money
fallensoul45 3 years ago
That's a very likely reason and a good assumption considering how a quite dysfunctional family would have so much drama.
BigBrotherWii 3 years ago
Look cyrus, does it make any sense that a woman would blow up like this over a credit card. Why would he say that she should ask him nicely if she already did. From what I gather, she loses control quickly after her snide remarks don't get results. The mother is to blame. The quick way she lost control suggests that she worked at demonizing her son. Because frankly, even murderers aren't yelled at like that.
FromBoomTown 3 years ago
Yeah, after watching that again, i can easily see your side. This woman is a crazy lunatic.
cyrusthehooker 3 years ago
three letters explains the mothers behavior (PMS).
TBTR264455 3 years ago
makes me wonder i look at his room he has a pretty nice looking compand 360 games which im assuming he has a 360 in his room a nice TV and well a video camera at the least i would like to know how he attained these things probably from working but i don't really know what to say about it i wouldn't say that im trying to make him look spoiled or anything but it just seems like well i don't know but you can see what i mean kinda so thats pretty much what i think thanks for posting vid
forlexer 3 years ago
Yeah, that kid was really just trying to be nice and she just goes spider monkey on him. If I had 100,000$ I'd give it to the kid so he can live on his own without dealing with her. Yes we do live in a fucked up culture.
lovetosploosh 3 years ago
I thought this when I saw the video, all the son asked was for his mom to ask him nicely for the money and she ended up blowing a fuse, more like a fuse box, threating to have her son fired from his job and call the cops on him for no reason and she expects him to help her? She defintly needs to go to anger management. No son or daughter should have to take that kind of abuse.
Mhebner23 3 years ago
Well... I think he should rip off her nostrils with a boat hook! ( I borrowed a little bit of Monty Python there!)
Titan752 3 years ago
I think the boy showed remarkable restraint and maturity. He demanded respect from his parent even when she wouldn't give it, which shows he has at least some healthy sense of self. He will probably grow up with issues, but will grow up better than her either way. Very good video response! Agree 100% with everything you said!
brokenscab23 3 years ago 2
dude i would have packed up my shit and left
leeeeeroybooooy 3 years ago
theres demons inside her
JCtheunknown 3 years ago
She's just a monster! I can't understand how there can be parents like that. She must be out of her mind! Something's wrong with her mentally.
I don't know if there is anything that can be done to help a family like that. All I can suggest is that she go to therapy and take medication to calm her down. Also, that boy needs to get out of there as soon as possible. That woman will only continue to traumatize him because she doesn't know how to or cares to be a mother. She'll just bum off him.
Tabbix 3 years ago 2
I agree with you; the adult male in the video makes a reference to the mom having supported him for 16 years, well, by law, she's got 2 more to go. I'll say it again, she should have kept her legs shut and not reproduced. Then she could be a screaming a-hole on her own, and not have to worry about anyone but her psychotic self.
She's lucky he didn't post her face...I'm betting that child protection would have a few things to say to her.
adriannabannana 3 years ago 3
Well basicly i think that the parent has been stressed so she gets mad for nothing.
Example: Say if i just got fired fro work
i own my own house with no money no nothing.
so im basiccly saying that maybe something happend to her like at work or anything pretty much. so she takes her anger out on her son without relizeing that her son.
-Anthony good comment?
tonyyy6 3 years ago
You can't really blame this on society. I have friends that are poor and they do not have these kind of problems at home. Some people are just fucking crazy.
skyfire1 3 years ago
Wow, you make a reallt good point. But my headache is bigger from the buzzing of the video. Really. One of the best video responses i have ever seen. Quality(Audio, visual) wasn't teh best but still. Idk
Builderman121 3 years ago
My apologies...I've actually found the culprit of the buzzing sounds, so I've moved the webcam off the top of the computer and placed it on a stack of DVDs I've bought. Thanks for the response!
BigBrotherWii 3 years ago
Ok.
Builderman121 3 years ago
I agree, I don't think that any child should be treated like thie child in the video, espically by their parents. I've just turned 16 this past June and my mother yells at me pretty identical to the 16 year old boy. I would have just handed over the keys to get the mother out of my face instead of provoke the situation any futher. though most times as a teenager, you expect to be treated with respect in order to treat others the same way thus the reason why he refused to give her the keys. =_=''
CountLink 3 years ago
No question about the dysfunction in this particular family. I think the kid was pretty smart for recording what he probably goes through on a regular basis and I would take it as a sign that he is asking for help. It made me think of episodes like these that go on in other homes that aren't being watched or reported and I wonder how common this is.
zofire123 3 years ago
Hmm...it's always a crazy situation. No matter where you go and where you live, there will always be some discourse involving broken families.
BigBrotherWii 3 years ago
ok let me actully comment on this video actully, after watching it. Iam 16 n my mom n dad used to do alot of yelling fighting and drugs, so from my point of veiw the problem with most disfunctional families is money problems or people in the house just dont like eachother and shouldent even be liveing together
SGTgonzalez 3 years ago
You actually have a point there. Money could be a factor for broken families and the parents especially not really able to cope with the responsibilities of parenting. A reminder for the masses, try to avoid marriage if you feel that you're not prepared to sacrifice pieces of your livelihood.
BigBrotherWii 3 years ago
hello ur a fag
SGTgonzalez 3 years ago
Ah my mistake...you're a simple-minded Canadian who has no real input in serious discussions. And besides...Halo is an overrated game series.
BigBrotherWii 3 years ago
Damn! That's so true. It's disgusting how people are so fascinated by it!
Taterlulz 3 years ago
It's not a terrible series by all means, but people claim it's the greatest game of all time. And what really bothers me is when the storyline received a higher score than Metal Gear Solid 4 from GameTrailers.
BigBrotherWii 3 years ago
That is.... bothersome.
Taterlulz 3 years ago
Exactly. Think credibility's lost?
BigBrotherWii 3 years ago
im canadian so what, n what does this have to do with halo witch i agree with u on how much it sucks
SGTgonzalez 3 years ago
Heh, I have nothing against Canadians. I think it's better to be there than the U.S.! Halo isn't a terrible series, like I stated, just people pushed it too far with popularity even when it doesn't deserve it.
BigBrotherWii 3 years ago
halo online is dumb, enuf said. marriage dossent just take some of youe life but haveing children does aswell, so to give sum advise to the world dont do n e thing before thinking over it and makeing sure that you are rdy
littleman394 3 years ago
Oh yes, I definitely agree with you there. But it's always best if one gives off some advice and learn from others just in case they need a second opinion about what may become of their future.
BigBrotherWii 3 years ago
Oh, and BigBrotherWii... thanks for the video)s, and have yourself a good day, bro. You're a cool dude. Ice cold.
Taterlulz 3 years ago
Thank you very much! Hope to hear from you soon!
BigBrotherWii 3 years ago
The video is somewhat similar to things that happened a while back for me. Recently before my mother and father divorced, she would always be yelling, even though i didn't do anything. I couldn't work during the time either, so she didn't want money. They both had a decent pay. Just alot of drama. The yelling was similar to my mother's yelling.
My future goal is to become a father. I'm going to be the best damned father in the world. I will bet my life on it!
Taterlulz 3 years ago
More power to you Tater! We all go through these cases, regardless of what your background is. Ah well, to say the least, we just become stronger.
BigBrotherWii 3 years ago
This family's past was probably a tough one. Sounds like the mother was stressed to the limit because work issues. So she must have had a bad past with schooling. That still gives her no reason to be yelling at her son. Especially when he wasn't doing anything wrong. If i was her, i would go through all of that and endure the stress. And release it using some type of non-physically or mentally harmful way, for health reasons, ofcourse.
Challenges like that come as a mother sometimes.
Taterlulz 3 years ago
she was saying "You cant go to work anymore" it's obvious he has a job
DietBroccoli 3 years ago
just to clarify for you bigbrother...she is asking for his car so she can go back to work..i assume that her car broke down, was in the shop, etc...now, the problem i have with the kid in this is that as someone who is NOT paying bills to maintain the house, i.e..mortgage, water, electric...i didnt see any reference to him working..i DID see xbox games..and without knowing whether he worked to buy them or not i can only speculate..but she did overstep her bounds and she also sets a bad example
Aenema28 3 years ago
You're right about one thing...we can ONLY speculate or assume such things. I think the kid actually contributes to the household. He's 16 too, so even though he's closer to being 18, he's still a child in a sense that all he has to really do is just go to school and not screw up.
BigBrotherWii 3 years ago
This is great. You present a video and then give your own insight and comentary.
I agree I think there's a lot to be read between the lines of what we see here.
The mom is definatly out of control and should never talk to her kid like this.
I have had an angry mom, we all get angry but nothing like this!!!
If I knew I was taping someone under cover its real easy to act all cool and calm and come off as the victim. Is this his usual behaviour? Or just for the tape.
out of room-
blensign 3 years ago
i thought she was asking for car keys not money?
HerTzyu 3 years ago
she was asking for 50 dollars as well.
LoveMandy2 3 years ago
Why is the mother asking the son for money in the first place? Isn't it usually the other way around?
Maybe the son started taping the mother because he was sick of her screaming. He wanted proof on tape that she was out of control. The roles are reversed here with the mom acting like a child and the son acting like the parent. It is amazing.
He didn't give her the money because she was being abusive. He wanted her to calm down and she did not.
Gitsie007 3 years ago 3
I think there's a lot more to the story than what he actually recorded. I doubt the mother is like this all the time, but snapped after his continued disobedience. Personally, if my mother asks for money I'll just give it to her..I don't play the "say please" games that he did. I think it's obvious that he worked her up into a frenzy and then tried to play innocent. Also the son doesn't work. He doesn't pay bills. The car was probably bought by HER in the first place. He owes it to her at least.
crimsonmai 3 years ago
That screaming banshee, poor excuse for a mother in that video is clearily mentally ill. I would say she is bipolar. The dad, or step dad is passive and basically blames the son for the mom's childish behavior. The kid is the only adult in that video. I hope something was done about these toxic parents or the kid moved out.
Gitsie007 3 years ago
makes sence....keep it up! =)
khalafismail 3 years ago
LOL Thanks for the response.
BigBrotherWii 3 years ago
Yeah I totalloy agree. Im a mother and a single one at that, this is so sad. I do hollar at my children but its for not cleaning his room or school grades never get a job. He wants me to be there whenever he calls me but he chooses to disregard anything I ask. For the first time in his 17 years I punished him the other day and he obeyed
snoopgpinkpanther 3 years ago
I do understand where you're coming from...and it seems like nowadays this day and age, people prefer to carry this sense of comfort. Once they have own what they have, the free-ride is still there for them.
BigBrotherWii 3 years ago