Thanks for sharing your story. At least I know im not the only one. I suffer from the same problem too and i hate it. Its hard in life. I get scared so easy. But we gotta stay strong and continue to strive hoping for the best. Best of luck to you.
wow. you made me cry. it was like listening to someone go through the same exact thing i go through with something as little as ordering at the drive thru.I do the same thing. even in my car I don't feel secure... if someone's behind me I start thinking about that person, if they have their window down, if they can hear me, what I sound like placing my order, if they're thinking "hurry the F**k up". There was a echo with the microphone and I heard myself clear as day, I began to stutter/shake
You know what? You did go. That's a win already. You didn't let your fear stop you from getting what you wanted, and that's how you can improve. I know that it's horrible, people will be there, and we believe that they are thinking horrible things about us. It is more comfortable to just be home, no doubt about it. But we have to go out, not to do things because other people want us to, but to do things that we want for ourselves. We can't allow the anxiety to stop us from getting what we want.
ha why u edit eveytime you take a bite dood , once you learn to eat in front of people it carries itself into other aspects of ur life believe it or nottt
but..you know what..you did go. even if it was a pain in the ass, you did it. i think for a lot of people life is a struggle. i know for me it is, i just try to hide it as best as i can. know that you are never alone. i know it must be hard, but just keep on keeping on. as they say "it could be worse". :) smile!!!!
you seem like a really sweet guy, i wish you the best of luck.
I beleive I have this to somewhat , I get nervous and give the wrong change and cant think , I Buy alchohol and I forget to take it off the counter , I was wondering how do you deal with work? At the moment I work with my father so its not so bad. But I literaly find it very uncomfortable and cant hold a real job. I start to feel so stressed and suicidal , I was so worried about , Putting my lunch in the back fridge walking to th end of the store , putting it in .. u think i have social phobia?
You're a nice guy and you are also attractive too. :] I hope you can overcome your social phobia. Going and getting donuts for yourself is a good step, maybe next time you could try to go inside.
I wish it were like getting over a fear of heights. That's straightforward. SP is different. Like having never learned social skills which take years in itself.
Getting over SP is more than just the phobia.
How old do I look to you? I've alway been curious as to how old people think I look like?
This is what every day is like.
sovereignsjust 3 days ago
Ur really cute :)
HelloKittyluve 4 months ago
Thanks for sharing your story. At least I know im not the only one. I suffer from the same problem too and i hate it. Its hard in life. I get scared so easy. But we gotta stay strong and continue to strive hoping for the best. Best of luck to you.
wingchun21 7 months ago
wow. you made me cry. it was like listening to someone go through the same exact thing i go through with something as little as ordering at the drive thru.I do the same thing. even in my car I don't feel secure... if someone's behind me I start thinking about that person, if they have their window down, if they can hear me, what I sound like placing my order, if they're thinking "hurry the F**k up". There was a echo with the microphone and I heard myself clear as day, I began to stutter/shake
whenshaltthoubebetta 8 months ago
hey man....thanks for the video
twinspeaksful 8 months ago
You know what? You did go. That's a win already. You didn't let your fear stop you from getting what you wanted, and that's how you can improve. I know that it's horrible, people will be there, and we believe that they are thinking horrible things about us. It is more comfortable to just be home, no doubt about it. But we have to go out, not to do things because other people want us to, but to do things that we want for ourselves. We can't allow the anxiety to stop us from getting what we want.
fabioeoch 9 months ago
ow ,, yehh well i got SA to so i understand ya video , try benzo. drugs ... if thats an option for you , it will completely take away any insecurites
760southernkali 1 year ago
@760southernkali I was taking them at the time. They don't work perfectly. I don't have them anymore. :/
Lithium102 1 year ago
@Lithium102 ... yeh they are a great help though i take klonopin along with other things
760southernkali 1 year ago
ha why u edit eveytime you take a bite dood , once you learn to eat in front of people it carries itself into other aspects of ur life believe it or nottt
760southernkali 1 year ago
@760southernkali Oh, in the original video I put that at the end to music, but it was blocked by youtube.
Lithium102 1 year ago
but..you know what..you did go. even if it was a pain in the ass, you did it. i think for a lot of people life is a struggle. i know for me it is, i just try to hide it as best as i can. know that you are never alone. i know it must be hard, but just keep on keeping on. as they say "it could be worse". :) smile!!!!
you seem like a really sweet guy, i wish you the best of luck.
gooseblack12 1 year ago
I beleive I have this to somewhat , I get nervous and give the wrong change and cant think , I Buy alchohol and I forget to take it off the counter , I was wondering how do you deal with work? At the moment I work with my father so its not so bad. But I literaly find it very uncomfortable and cant hold a real job. I start to feel so stressed and suicidal , I was so worried about , Putting my lunch in the back fridge walking to th end of the store , putting it in .. u think i have social phobia?
Insurgent999 1 year ago
@Insurgent999 I don't now if you have sp. I currently don't work.
Lithium102 1 year ago
lol I liked your video! last part was funny!
ilovepizzaforever07 1 year ago
lets be friends
melonovich 2 years ago
This life is fucken shitty with this disorder. There is no life behind my eyes. I'm losing myself and ppl need me.
MegaDreamer88 2 years ago
You're a nice guy and you are also attractive too. :] I hope you can overcome your social phobia. Going and getting donuts for yourself is a good step, maybe next time you could try to go inside.
basschik509 2 years ago
You make it sound like this is new to me.
I wish it were like getting over a fear of heights. That's straightforward. SP is different. Like having never learned social skills which take years in itself.
Getting over SP is more than just the phobia.
How old do I look to you? I've alway been curious as to how old people think I look like?
Lithium102 2 years ago
You're pretty hot, even if you're probably like 35 or so. I don't really know... The glasses make you look older but your face is wrinkle-less.
basschik509 2 years ago
@Lithium102 you look like you´re around 30! Am I right? like 29-30-31 something
DieToFeelAlive 1 year ago
@DieToFeelAlive I'm 33
Lithium102 1 year ago
hehehe i can not get new cloths
mgfhd 2 years ago
Nice video very calming.
CantStandIdiots94 2 years ago