Hey Janie, So happy to have found your channel and l couldn't have summed up what you said any better. This journey is bittersweet anytime you change things in your life that you've always done it can be very hard and difficult. But my new found life is beyond my wildest dreams l never want to offend anyone but like you said sometimes our words don't come out the way we want them to. Comparing ourselves to others can be dangerous just like you said We are All Not the Same
Oh Jane,The Lord Blessed You with such wisdom to help others .You look beautiful and look at that ponytail.I am slowly coming back,and can't wait to reconnect with all my peeps.Cha cha cha Diana
As always, you are such a gracious, caring, voice in our community. When I finally met you last year, I was amazed all that wisdom is carried around by such a tiny person. Sending a virtual hug your way, Janie. Thanks for always keeping it real.
I loved t5his video in so many ways and appreciate the genuine caring and support that you give to your friends and all of us in the wls community. Proof that you are comfortable in your own skin and a genuine person is your ability to make this video out in the open with your family in the same room listening. No one batted an eye so they are obviously used to hearing their mom's wisdom. Thanks for sharing from your heart.
Miss Janie, Loved your video. I really took in alot of what you were saying. Thank you for posting. Also, loved how your hubby came over and gave you an embrace w/a kiss. So very loving. Have a great week! Be blessed, Susan
I was so happy to see you made another video! I love watching you and your wisdom! You always give me thoughts to ponder! THANK YOU MissJanie...You are very wise!
In one of the parts I had to watch you again because it looked like a naked boy hid behind his lap top in the backgroundd lol to funny great video your awesome
OMG - I FORGOT about those bullies! Can you believe it? Good riddance to them! Our community is very strong and we are all allowed to speak our minds. i am now really grateful for my surgery family and that they flag bad comments and stick up for each other. I love our group!!! Great point!
So true and very well said! Been through all of that and it is part of the journey. Doing something this extraordinary really takes it's toll on you! OXOXO Love you you both!!
Oh Miss Janie. Are you an angel? I certainly think - no - I know you are. You are God's gift to this community. Always a kind and encouraging word. You are truly God's mouthpiece. I think I can speak for countless others and for myself - this community would not be what it is today without you. I hope that someday I can meet and hug you!!
One of my "aha" quotes is "Just because you think it doesn't mean you have to say it" and for me- whose mouth can work faster than her brain sometimes- it is a valuable lesson...I am glad to know there are safe places to let go. I also wise enough to note we have a broad spectrum of people and life experiences, and we can learn something from everyone if we are open to it.
All have a piece of the truth (their own) but none have all....(because we all bring our own sliver to the whole) <3
@cabernetqueen Hey, Sally! I know that, like myself, you love every single person in this community. Its ok to put your foot in your mouth... I don't know a person alive who hasn't done that! There are no perfect people here...so don't sweat it. Let it go. Take a breath and feel how beautiful it is to be alive and in the place in your journey that you are. So many people would love to be where you are. You have a good heart. Thats all that matters... I wish you a very happy Wednesday!
. I was just in a winter funk and didn't have the tools to process and behave properly for my own good mental health...My emotions got the better of me, I shut down and the pressure built up and I had a blurp or stupid response, I am as ashamed of my 'response" behavior as I was concerned for others feelings....such a big community- so broad reaching, no one of has all the answers- but I applaud people who have the courage of their convictions, I alone robbed myself of a good week- TY <3
We were gifted with TWO videos from you today?! Squealing with joy! Such a great video, Jane. I totally agree with you. If Sally was uncomfortable saying something, she should voice her opinion. We all have sad days. Even the strongest of us can't be strong all the time. <3
@losingitwithrebecca Good morning, Becca!!! Well, I got a call about these two lovely ladies and when I hear that people I care about are in trouble, then I feel the need to let them know that its ok..and since i've been getting messaged by quite a few people lately complaining about some videos. I figured I might as well stick in my two cents. After all, I don't do videos because I think I have power or popularity, I do it because I care. Always have, not gonna change now.
Hey Janie, So happy to have found your channel and l couldn't have summed up what you said any better. This journey is bittersweet anytime you change things in your life that you've always done it can be very hard and difficult. But my new found life is beyond my wildest dreams l never want to offend anyone but like you said sometimes our words don't come out the way we want them to. Comparing ourselves to others can be dangerous just like you said We are All Not the Same
NYCCHOCOLATE7777 1 month ago
Oh Jane,The Lord Blessed You with such wisdom to help others .You look beautiful and look at that ponytail.I am slowly coming back,and can't wait to reconnect with all my peeps.Cha cha cha Diana
1cruisedirector 1 month ago
You are so kind MissJanie.
Thank you for being you!
You are a woman who is always well spoken. and who cares about others.
What a blessing you are!
Hugs
Mommaof3Cypress 1 month ago
As always, you are such a gracious, caring, voice in our community. When I finally met you last year, I was amazed all that wisdom is carried around by such a tiny person. Sending a virtual hug your way, Janie. Thanks for always keeping it real.
mermaidTa2 1 month ago
Loved it plz keep it up
Natashamisscutie85 1 month ago
I loved t5his video in so many ways and appreciate the genuine caring and support that you give to your friends and all of us in the wls community. Proof that you are comfortable in your own skin and a genuine person is your ability to make this video out in the open with your family in the same room listening. No one batted an eye so they are obviously used to hearing their mom's wisdom. Thanks for sharing from your heart.
MsBandtastic 1 month ago
Miss Janie, Loved your video. I really took in alot of what you were saying. Thank you for posting. Also, loved how your hubby came over and gave you an embrace w/a kiss. So very loving. Have a great week! Be blessed, Susan
True620 1 month ago
I was so happy to see you made another video! I love watching you and your wisdom! You always give me thoughts to ponder! THANK YOU MissJanie...You are very wise!
Reddaisy73 1 month ago
U rock!!! Thanks love im so happy to have ur support. As u have so many god bless
didibailey 1 month ago
In one of the parts I had to watch you again because it looked like a naked boy hid behind his lap top in the backgroundd lol to funny great video your awesome
greenfrog775 1 month ago
OMG - I FORGOT about those bullies! Can you believe it? Good riddance to them! Our community is very strong and we are all allowed to speak our minds. i am now really grateful for my surgery family and that they flag bad comments and stick up for each other. I love our group!!! Great point!
BeTheBestMe 1 month ago
So true and very well said! Been through all of that and it is part of the journey. Doing something this extraordinary really takes it's toll on you! OXOXO Love you you both!!
BeTheBestMe 1 month ago
This is a great video and I agree with everything u say 100%. You r so beautiful and supportive. Thank u for helping up along this journey
blakkandi 1 month ago
Great words of wisdom and so happy to see you more here keep them coming my friend ...big HUGS!!...love ya...love rosemary
gastricRose 1 month ago
Great video. I can see now why so many people love and adore you. Thank you. Hugs, Robin
texasmom2011 1 month ago
Oh Miss Janie. Are you an angel? I certainly think - no - I know you are. You are God's gift to this community. Always a kind and encouraging word. You are truly God's mouthpiece. I think I can speak for countless others and for myself - this community would not be what it is today without you. I hope that someday I can meet and hug you!!
BandedSusan 1 month ago
One of my "aha" quotes is "Just because you think it doesn't mean you have to say it" and for me- whose mouth can work faster than her brain sometimes- it is a valuable lesson...I am glad to know there are safe places to let go. I also wise enough to note we have a broad spectrum of people and life experiences, and we can learn something from everyone if we are open to it.
All have a piece of the truth (their own) but none have all....(because we all bring our own sliver to the whole) <3
cabernetqueen 1 month ago
@cabernetqueen Hey, Sally! I know that, like myself, you love every single person in this community. Its ok to put your foot in your mouth... I don't know a person alive who hasn't done that! There are no perfect people here...so don't sweat it. Let it go. Take a breath and feel how beautiful it is to be alive and in the place in your journey that you are. So many people would love to be where you are. You have a good heart. Thats all that matters... I wish you a very happy Wednesday!
MissJanieHere 1 month ago
. I was just in a winter funk and didn't have the tools to process and behave properly for my own good mental health...My emotions got the better of me, I shut down and the pressure built up and I had a blurp or stupid response, I am as ashamed of my 'response" behavior as I was concerned for others feelings....such a big community- so broad reaching, no one of has all the answers- but I applaud people who have the courage of their convictions, I alone robbed myself of a good week- TY <3
cabernetqueen 1 month ago
We were gifted with TWO videos from you today?! Squealing with joy! Such a great video, Jane. I totally agree with you. If Sally was uncomfortable saying something, she should voice her opinion. We all have sad days. Even the strongest of us can't be strong all the time. <3
losingitwithrebecca 1 month ago
@losingitwithrebecca Good morning, Becca!!! Well, I got a call about these two lovely ladies and when I hear that people I care about are in trouble, then I feel the need to let them know that its ok..and since i've been getting messaged by quite a few people lately complaining about some videos. I figured I might as well stick in my two cents. After all, I don't do videos because I think I have power or popularity, I do it because I care. Always have, not gonna change now.
MissJanieHere 1 month ago