My Coming Out Story

[katoria1234]

I KNO WHERE U COMING FROM MY BROTHER IS GAY AND EVERYBODY THINKS ITA A POBLEM MY MOM SAY ALOT OF SIDE SHIT TO MAKE IT LIKE A JOKE BUT I DONT THINK IT A JOKE I BELIVE IF U THINK U GAY THEN U SHOULD NOT HIDE IT CAUSE U DONT KNO IF IT WILL HURT U INSIDE

[BEzyKid]

Oh man.. im 22 and since I went away for college my mom has been throwin lil hints ever since.. i feel like i can tell her now but im too nervous.. my mom had the nerve to ask me if i had a boyfriend.. and i mean i was single so my answer was no.. Lol.. I dunno if i should come out tho.. but anyway love the video and i will be watching!!!

[jalvarezmonroy24]

Do you think that the rape you suffered influenced you to be gay or did you always know you were gay??

[betosrose]

@jalvarezmonroy24 I THINK THIS IS A GREAT QUESTION. I ALWAYS WONDERED.....WHEN A BOY IS RAPED OR MOLESTED, THEN LATER TURNED GAY, IS THE RAPE OR MOLESTATION TO BLAME?

[Xaivier2000]

@betosrose Not a Chance, That is an excuse, not a reason or an answer to my question which is...

Just wondering , as you are gay, how do you have true sex / intercourse?

A gay person can only "simulate" intercourse....never the "Real Deal"

a gay person is living a life or a battle they can "never" win.....

Your rectum is not and will never be a vagina.

[betosrose]

@Xaivier2000 i wasn't talking about your question....kinda dum question.

i was asking about jalvarezmonroy24's question.

[takoboi]

@betosrose If a female is raped she doesnt necessarily hate men and become a lesbian does she?

[Xaivier2000]

Just wondering , as you are gay, how do you have true sex / intercourse?

A gay person can only "simulate" intercourse....never the "Real Deal"

to me a gay person is living a life or a battle they can "never" win.....

to me a gay person should not have been the sex they were born, they should have been born the opposite.....

[takoboi]

@Xaivier2000 stop trying to figure it out then… you're making yourself seem foolish.

[Xaivier2000]

@takoboi Its just a simple question, All I want is an answer.



[takoboi]

@Xaivier2000 shut up. question solved.

[Xaivier2000]

@takoboi U shutup

[takoboi]

@Xaivier2000 I wont. have your toothless mother shut up.

[Xaivier2000]

@takoboi Put a sock in it

[takoboi]

@Xaivier2000 No, I wont put a sock in it… and you cant make me!

[UnCensoredSean]

I just get a good give from you, I trust you.

[LolaBunni96]

"i would call and she'd think i had AIDS" O.O

"yea mom it doesnt work like that" LOL <3 <3

[justanote7]

It's about education of parents who aren't aware of what's involved with being gay, coming out, the gay lifestyle, health issues, etc. It's all awkward with parents, as it would be if we had to come out to them about ANY sex issue. I think all gay peeps start out being homo-emotional, then the sexual component developes ... as it does with hetero peeps. It's really an emotional orientation, and because we are sexual beings, it later becomes sexual. Few seem to understand this! Kudos ;)

[oishitomoro]

shit you CUTIE <3

[shlyanth]

"I kinda want some chicken"...haha...Thank you for sharing your story.

[llluv2travel]

Your so sweet XD

hope all is well!

Wait what you were raped?!!

[jenna120s]

You chose to be gay and it's wrong.

[Suckey2]

@jenna120s that has to be THE most IGNORANT comment I have ever heard... Why the hell would someone CHOOSE to be gay? "Hey, let's go be hated and discriminated against!" STFU

[niggitynignig]

@jenna120s u choose to be hateful whats more wrong than that?

[AfricanJoint]

lol...i kinda want some chicken.

[niquea03]

I DID check the info box first, and I didn't see it, so now I feel free to ask what the song is at the end of the video?

[TheXDexperience]

@TheKarinish I've dealt with the pain and have moved on.

[Izaguirreg2]

@TheXDexperience Honeeey! :( You made me a little bid sad when I was watching at you video... I saw like... Your eyes were looking at the camara with a great emotional charge... But I think that after all you got free to be yourself not being afraid about if your mother would know. I think that when you hide your feelings and the real you... You stop being free, and even being a liar with you closer people... I think your mother has an exceptional man! :) I love your vids!

[SheSingsLovely]

If you don't mind me asking...did you ever eventually telling your mother about you rape and molestation? I think this is a great video. I know you helped many people who are struggling with coming out.

[HotBoyKidd101]

did yu ever have sex?

[mowavaj]

i dont think i wud ever tell my parents

[Izaguirreg2]

@mowavaj think that when you hide your feelings and the real you... You stop being free, and even being a liar with you closer people...

I know that's hard! It matters a lot the "what would they say?" But... Anything in this life it's that easy... So, think about it! :) It's like a little tip to follow, from an stranger girl! ;) Good luuuuuck!!!

[ChrisAlexander]

"i kinda want some chicken....ok."

[EHQUNDEH]

um i dont think i have ever came out,..do straight people come out?

[RucuzUnrestricted]

Bitter sweet, bitter sweet! Thank you for sharing and I'm so happy your relationship with your mom has grown towards a more positive place. Happy pride XD!!!!

[ACONNECTIONTV]

Cool video, I am sure that this has helped someone in more ways than one.

[HarlemX12]

"I kinda want some chicken....ok...." lmao that was hilarious

[ZexyDreamer15]

thnx "Girl call me later!" LMFAO

[NiaAvila]

LOL at 3:48 !

[26Rab]

Ooh ooh ooh I'm making want to make a video about this subject. Thanks XD .......Great Video...

[therealme8484]

Why do they always cry? Like WTF? But u dumb for your response to her... *SIGH* I trully do love XD.

[chicrealness]

*Hugs Chris* this video to me was so relatable! Here in youtube and and beyond i just want you to know your one of my sheros *Mauhzz*

[Blueyedsimba]

great video :P

[OrigSupawoman]

I just took all of this in for all it's worth... Wow.

[jahforce7]

big D's in ya mouth is bad fo ya health... ice cube

[Lsean77]

That was a good video....:)

[JustJordanTV]

not want some chicken... LOL! and my relationship w/ my mother is the same way...

[soccerboy5411]

"I want some chicken." and "Well, you think God would have provided the answer." had me rofl. Glad to see that you relationship with you mother turned out for the best.

[ikkinnikk]

"Awkward...I kinda want some chicken." DONE. I cried at that. Good story.

[ZingZee123456789]

"I knida want some chicken"

LMAO!!

[souljahsoul81]

I'm so sorry you were gay bashed :-(

[SuperQuis]

That was a good video

[BrittneyJ08]

what is gay bashing?

[liquarius09]

@BrittneyJ08 making fun of people because they're gay.

[BelizeanThug22]

@BrittneyJ08 Discrimination towards someone for being gay.. Sometimes it's just making fun or hating a person because they're gay or even violent acts.

[Txguy39]

OMG YOUR GAY....No way LOL

[larrytimbojoe]

Bless Mama Dukes

[nochokin]

"i would cough,she thought i had aids"...baby bai...my mom would be that paranoid too befor ei was even having sex...lol ..wonderful story XD.

[Backatwon]

Great story ...very heart-felt and special ..with respect!

[khaleel4reel]

: ) Happy Pride To You As Well & What a Great Story : )

fyi: Girl Call Me Later & I kinda Want Some Chicken Right Now Is Priceless!

[H8RbyN8URE]

Your mother raised an exceptional son.

[qnjaairi]

I admire ur story.. n happy to know ur mom is comfortable w/ ur prefrence...(kudos homie)