You have some very valid points and i think i'm going to take your advise. I really need to build my confidence, honestly. So thank you Jen, glad i came across this video. (:
@Janey325 Changing the way you think is something that will occur without you realising it. Your subconscious believes what it is told by the conscious mind. So if everyday you tell yourself you are confident, even if you think you are blatantly lying, your mind just registers that you are confident. Faking confidence can be hard but it's easier to play pretend, detach yourself from the situation so it's easier. What's the worse that could happen from pretending? You start to believe yourself?
Your way was the same way I used to build my own confidence. Deciding to be and then pretending and then it just happened. All those issues are just in your head, so when you've reprogrammed your head into not believing those issues - you're going to feel a lot better about yourself. :)
great vid. are you from england or you're not english and you are just a great speaker?
NEGATIVEPLANET 6 months ago
@NEGATIVEPLANET No, I'm from Ireland.
Jennybabz 6 months ago
@Jennybabz oh sorry, love ur accent
NEGATIVEPLANET 6 months ago
Thank you this really helped:)
Supersavable1 7 months ago
How does this video not have more views!? :O
Amazing advice :) Thanks
loocee22 8 months ago
@loocee22 Aw thank you :)
Jennybabz 8 months ago
You have some very valid points and i think i'm going to take your advise. I really need to build my confidence, honestly. So thank you Jen, glad i came across this video. (:
ForeverRebecca 1 year ago
@ForeverRebecca Thank you Rebecca :)
Jennybabz 1 year ago
Nice vlog by Dr. Jennifer ;)
But seriously, this video is probably the best out of your uploads, so keep it up :)
RK10121988 1 year ago
@RK10121988 Aw yay thanks Rk, I love getting feedback. I'm still only figuring out this vlogging thing.
Jennybabz 1 year ago
@Jennybabz Your other videos are good too & I was just kidding about the 'Dr.' thing. I love watching your videos & you are doing a good job :)
RK10121988 1 year ago
@RK10121988 Haha I knew you were kidding don't worry about it :) Thanks a million you're so lovely and kind!
Jennybabz 1 year ago
@Jennybabz :)
RK10121988 1 year ago
Great advice! :]
itsssbri 1 year ago
I think it was a very good video. You definitly gave good advice.
Someone actually just said something to me that is making me feel self-conscious and this video was helpful.
It's still really hard though...to change the way you think. It's hard to fake confidence.
Janey325 1 year ago
@Janey325 Changing the way you think is something that will occur without you realising it. Your subconscious believes what it is told by the conscious mind. So if everyday you tell yourself you are confident, even if you think you are blatantly lying, your mind just registers that you are confident. Faking confidence can be hard but it's easier to play pretend, detach yourself from the situation so it's easier. What's the worse that could happen from pretending? You start to believe yourself?
Jennybabz 1 year ago
Your way was the same way I used to build my own confidence. Deciding to be and then pretending and then it just happened. All those issues are just in your head, so when you've reprogrammed your head into not believing those issues - you're going to feel a lot better about yourself. :)
Speilbilde 1 year ago
@Speilbilde Exactly! I'm so glad someone else uses the same technique :) Thanks for commenting and being more than a statistic!
Jennybabz 1 year ago
@Jennybabz You're welcome! It's nice to not be only a statistic. :3
Speilbilde 1 year ago