Screw or Make Love - Choose

[3089280288]

Stats say that 50% of cohabitators mary & 50% of those people divorce.

[hatgirl007]

Thanks TMOT. People need to think of more than the act when it comes to the value of your body.

[publishedcontent]

But then again who wants a rocket science major for a wife?

[WilBarn99]

Very, very well done.

You do great videos

[modelchic99]

I love the way this guy talks.

[kambridge967]

why would you not recommend tossing salad?

[tmotofga]

You need to look that one up my friend. Peace, TMOT.

[kambridge967]

ok! I just looked up a prison video on tossing salad ok and now i see why you dont recommend it. At first i though it was something else.

[Redtady]

lol, Chris Rock has a joke on tossing salad. You should check it out for a good laugh.

[MissBeinspired]

Brilliant!! i love ur videos

[nancydrew5]

My bad Tmot, you did address this at the very end of the video. I should have known you would. I hope that young lady's mate listened to your video so that he can improve his sex life with this woman otherwise she just may bounce. I know I would. Life is too short to deal with trifling sex life with someone.

[tmotofga]

If you really love the person and they love you (Agape - Selflessness), you would work it out.

[nancydrew5]

Love is the key, you're right but I think that grown men should have some skills coming to the table. Just like they can learn how to play video games and other skills in life, why would a grown man not have skilz in the bedroom?

[tmotofga]

Would you prefer a virgin male or a man who's had 200 women?

[nancydrew5]

Neither, I prefer a man who knows what he is doing and how to please his mate and it doesn't have to be an either or situation as you're alluding to. He doesn't have to be a player or a virgin because I'm not interested in neither of those.

[tmotofga]

That question was just the beginning of where I plan to go with this conversation. I am going to continue to work on you with this one. LOL. Look for my drive time on it. Peace and One Love Princess.

[nancydrew5]

Good video but what about those guys who just don't have any sexual technique. Those 'nice guys' that have all the good qualities, but just don't have it happening in the bedroom and they are too inhibited to learn. I don't think you really answered that woman's concern that you mentioned at the beginning of this video. I am not interested in a grown man who has no skilz in the bedroom. Grown men should have these skills.

[tmotofga]

Yes, I answered it. If he does not know, teach him. If you don't, then you don't know that you are missing anything. Sex and romance is something you grow into. This is why you choose your mate carefully. You will know if he is the kind of guy that will let you teach him. Plus there are books, tapes and all sorts of resources for learning technique.

[kitabare76]

Awesome! Amen!

[Moknosmusik]

This is an excellent video. Even though I am single, I have problems in this area when it comes to dating. LOL! I am celibate and nothing runs most men off quicker than hearing that.....even "Christian" men. Go figure!

[tmotofga]

Christian is a term used too loosely these days.

[WONDAWOMAN]

Well, the fact that they bounce when they find out that u have a standard is just the answer you need; THEY ARE NOT THE MEN YOU DESERVE! A good man will appreciate the fact that he has to earn that privilege and will wait. If you are looking for a husband, you want someone who has self control, wants to protect you & build something more significant than a physical relationship. By all means, let em walk, show them the door. You don't want MOST men anyway right? Just ONE good 1. Hold the FORT!

[MissBeinspired]

thank u for that comment it has really encouraged me :)

[bs0u31c3]

I feel you sister.... happens to me alot.....

[Evens1]

BRAVO!!

Teach Elder, Teach!

EV

[Jabbaro123]

Good stuff my man. Good stuff.

[lundyncanada]

LOL!

I don't know what to say.

My ex if I would had married him before sex...I Would Be So Anger and Mad because he lied about his size and not good with having sex. He been cheated on a few times by his ex girlfriends.

I must say Im glad I found out before hand because it saved me from not marrying him.

I Love Sex...Period!

[lundyncanada]

Tmot,

GOOD SEX IS A MUST Period and you not really addressing that part.

[tmotofga]

Actually, I did, at the end. Also, there are many ways that men can overcome a size deficit. Besides, it is not about the depth and banging of the innards, but what happens at the erogenous zones. Time, experimenting and patience is how you build a good sexual relationship. It is not the size of the ocean, but the motion of the wave that counts.

[jdbexpressthis]

iDK ~ i mean it doesn't have to be an Ocean, but if its a puddLe i'mma be mad ~ LMAO

it takes Love to make Love anyway and i'm waitN on that

[ennovy531]

On Point As Usual! Stay blessed!

[LovelyLockes]

I think a main problem with sex is that people define who THEY ARE by sex. If they don't have any sex or good sex, then they're not a true man or woman. I know many folks like that and they WILL DO ANYTHING to orgasm to validate themselves. Whore, cheat, and break up marriages. They turn sex into something disgusting. Then wonder why their relationships don't work. Sex is an expression of love but what about other acts of intimacy, physical and spiritual? No one cares about that.

[tmotofga]

I wish you had loaned me those words for this video. Wisdom in action. Peace.

[LovelyLockes]

Thanks! I "loan" you these words gladly. LOL! I think you should make a follow up video or videos.

[Spiderwoman74]

Gr8 vid  !

[PinotNoir1975]

You are rockin' that hat TMOT!

I think people keep sex at such a base level that they really don't know all that is involved in 'love-making'. Our basic understanding is sex on a physical level but it goes so far beyond that but most people don't get past that and the media doesn't help it keeps us locked in that mindset. We need to explore the REAL aspects of love-making which is 80 percent spiritual and mental and only 20 percent physical.. my opinion only.

peace TMOT

[tmotofga]

You are right. My sermon today was on how we miss the spiritual meaning of scripture because all we can see is the physical. Great comment.

[QUASARS920]

I agree with most of the thing you said, and btw aint nothing wrong with eating a recyclable meat thats stay fresh all the time, lol

Nice vid...

[nastyblock]

you said funeral like that\s the wrong path uncle...me and my wife worked out just fine....we make love, and get lose and screw..i guess it worked because we both are educated and put alot of our positive energy towards buildin a black family..i dont suggest that everyone jump out there blindly..but it shows that god has someone out there for ya..so i guess the people that dont have themselves together should take this vid very seriously.. i understand uncle, your getting them to play safe!!!

[tmotofga]

I am sorry that we had a misunderstanding. I just wanted to make sure that we were on the same page. You see, there are those that are not as fortunate as you and your wife, who understand the message. When young people here a young man say, Test drive first, they go for it without having a clue of what you meant.

The dialog between us was beneficial because now they see the real deal.

Peace and One Love Nephew. TMOT.

[nastyblock]

if that ways directed to me thats silly...i met my wife in college we had "get down" on the first night and been together for 6 years... very smart woman... what you stated probally work for hoodrats and misguided kids..i say if you got your game right do you...

[tmotofga]

I was not sure of you comment. It suggested (without clarification) that one should test drive which is what the video speak against. I try to be clear and when someone makes a comments contrary to the point, I like to respond so that maybe we can find common ground to either agree or disagree amicably.

[newyorkowner]

great!!

[nastyblock]

test the car b4 you drive...

[tmotofga]

It's your funeral.

[jdbexpressthis]

and i dont Like when guys do that cause you can teLL when they do it a Lot cause it's good !!! but if its bad i wont Like em anymore ~ DANG ~ men are whores thats why i'm ceLibate

i hate men ~ LoL

[tmotofga]

Not all men and those that are is because of how they were raised and the values they have had instilled in them. I know plenty of faithful brothers.

[jdbexpressthis]

i gave up on sex a Long time ago ~ maybe because i'm a narcist ~ i hate to say it but i feeL Like i don't even need a man ~

i do want to procreate but i hope i don't end up Like those women doing anything to keep/get a man ~ women Like that are gonna be the death of evoLution ~ i hope i aLways stand my ground ~ i'm afraid of being afraid ~ hope u get that...

i refuse to be a woman thats married just to say she's married ~ that sucks

[tmotofga]

That attitude will keep you safe and ensure that whomever you connect with is worthy of the gift that God gave you share with a Man. Peace and One Love. TMOT.

[QUASARS920]

hmm great if it work for you, but u can always enjoy the pleasure of life without having a license to own a slave. lol

[tmotofga]

I meant not to amuse.

[QUASARS920]

I think I miss something, What do you mean by not to amuse.

I thought it was love, did I get it wrong is it war???

[tmotofga]

"ut u can always enjoy the pleasure of life without having a license to own a slave. lol".

It is not about slavery, but respect.

[QUASARS920]

Huh ok, I did not get it, but respect can be confusing a weird example 'if you call a christian a muslin or a muslin a christian' some ppl are offended by that.

I said slavery because I don't think you can own someone or that the person belong to you only. Hey Maybe I am the one who got it wrong.

[tmotofga]

We are good either way.

[Femaledoll]

Good video & I agree whenever making love, man and woman should always reciprocate. 5*

[RiGolettoMicFiend]

Too many youths rush into sex without the knowledge of what it truly means. I was guilty of that. I have since stopped doing it, if only more people stop trying to act grown by having sex.

[magirecords2004]

Salad tossing is an insult&may cause worms

sooner or later lol!

[boyoedge]

youre a wise man with a great message

[Rmkb1]

tmot, i really enjoyed this vid. This is something i take very seriously in my own life. Thanks for posting this video!

[JSharmaine]

Very true! Great video, and great points!!!

[RestlessZion]

I'm not sure if fellatio and cunnilingus are pro or con the bible...but if that is what it takes to please a spouse, by all means. Selflessness is good in some relationships also. My last husband was impotent and viagra gave some help but I loved him and was with him for many years. Sometimes we have to take the good with the bad when you love someone. shalom elder.

[magirecords2004]

Fellatio and cunnilingus is foreplay for most sis.

Main course is kinda taboo I guess lol!

Shalam,

K.