Deaf Children are victim and abused by parents

[ArmyGale0]

Yes I'm Victim too and I undy abt that

[isislilymoon61]

My parent didn't learn enough full sign language. I asked my mother, why not learn sigh language then she said not time through busy. That wrong and hurt to me without sign language that lack communication and afraid of my father. Parent suppose to learn sign language for deaf child make happy and more love.

[isislilymoon61]

I have same before my father abused my physical that was bad through lack communications so my hurt. My father was passed away after he gave my brothers, sister and my mother for wills beneficary then he won't give me that nothing of beneficiary and mother said, I leave my parent to moved with my boyfriend. Before I was more unhappy after I moved with boyfriend then I was very happy but I have all right more safe. I don't trust my mother never call police for child protection.

[pepse01]

Hi i dont know sign lang... but i am interested to know the content of this video...could someone please translate...

[jb55101]

i didnt learn to sign tell i was 15 i moved to the usa i was born in country where being blind deaf and other disibalty is sin and punshment from god. so i know when she was child alot time she must have got mad and upset when they didnt understand her i sure did. there was no school for disabled when i was going up.

[domesticpuke]

I have to be honest, I didn't and can't watch the video right now because when I read the title it upset me so much. It kills me to think of a parent abusing their child period but this is a special kind of low and I hope there is a special place in hell for people like that. All my hope and wishes for a future filled with love to the victims.

[JADEAV]

Yeah Just throw your dad in a large trash bin,push it down the road up to 190 mph and no brake to stop the speed!! Bye Bye Creepy father!!

[QuicksilverdotFX]

You're overgeneralizing. I'm profoundly deaf and you make it seem like my parents abused me. They are very loving and educated me the way any parents should. If anything, majority of parents neglects their deaf children.

[sun79bear]

been there done that... it painful memories

[Salticid68]

You can sue your father for abuse. What he did was inexcusable wrong! Make sure that your lawyers do right until he is put into a prison.

[LChaim2007]

@Salticid68 Hi Salticid, my dad passed away 2 years ago. I had to forgive him what he did to me during my childhood. My childhood is processing in getting a healing!

[stantheman781]

@LChaim2007 how did your father die?

[LChaim2007]

@stantheman781 he had a longtime sick - pneumonia, Congestive Heart Failure, respiratory failure, and others. He was 80 years old to die on his bed under hospice care.

[stantheman781]

@LChaim2007 poor you....my grandfather died of blood poisoning.... im still sad......

[Okieagle73]

Since my born deaf, my family don't like sign language. They took me to Oral school, I am not happy, cuz they abused me, my parents found out and took me out to hearing school. Until '71deaf school in California, I graduated in '73. I know, alot of hearing people could not stand to have a deaf child. God gave to parents for a test with the deaf child. I forgive your father and pray for you and your life move on and be happy. I wish I could hold and comfort you. God love you all! I love you 2!

[xypsilonx]

Can i hug you ?

i'm so sorry to hear that :(

[romulas80]

I am so sorry this happened to you, but please don't judge all hearing parents by what your father did. There are many caring parents that teach their children using either ASL or spoken language, or often a combination of both. Not all oral children are unable to communicate like you were. Your parents were wrong to not follow your progress and see that you needed another communication mode and your father was wrong!

[eal1011]

Amazing story, I do agress abuse can be in general due to lack of communication. Very tough case, sad to see kids being abuse.

[LChaim2007]

I agree with you. I found some deafies who are victim of the hearing parents' abusing! That is sad for hearing people won't take ASL Class!

[grlloveswim]

all Deaf children? I don't think so. I'm the only Deaf person in my family and I have incredible and loving parents. They immediately took sign language classes when they first found out I was deaf. They put me in public school, made sure I had interpreters, hearing aids. They got me a TTY, flashing lights, a bed shaker. They made sure that I grew up learning how to sign and speak to get along in the hearing world. They are two of the greatest parents a Deaf person could have. I love them!!!

[LChaim2007]

Yes that true... very rare! but I am victim to have communicate abuse with my late dad. I had tough life because of him!!! He won't learn ASL that is too bad for me.

Several deafies told me same thing they had problem with parents!

[MSSDstudent]

I admire you. What you dad did was WRONG. He passed away? Yes, its true God wants you to forgive and love everyone. You must forgive, and I know you have. But that doesn't make it right. I havent been through abuse compared to you, but my father is more into the hearing world too and its hard for me. He forced me to get a cochlear implant and he still expects me to wear it today around him. It sucks.

[RachelQZ]

My guess is that your dad wld have been abusive, no matter you deaf? He also abuse your sister? Your mom? I thought interesting that you later tried to teach your dad some sign. Amazing how we're always trying to connect to our parents, even when they've done so much bad stuff.

[LChaim2007]

Yes, my late dad had been abusive to my sisters, brother and me for some reasons. I saw him to abuse them when i was little girl. I learned how to use ASL or Gestures through workshop few times before I changed my sign to ASL from SEE/PSE to communicate with my dad.. It's working! But it is basic ASL that all.

[RachelQZ]

Getting nosy...what made you want to communicate with him after the abuse?

[LChaim2007]

It was hard on me to get along with my abusive dad but the Bible says so that I should show my love in Jesus to him no matter what it hurts but I had to win my late dad's soul to Christ before he died. It's worth for me to be patience and show my love to my dad till he died! I forgave him what He did to me in past!

[dest80]

ur father good man?

[LChaim2007]

well, He was very stubborn all his life with us and did want to control everything on his own way instead of listen us. Depending on what he did if he is good man to be kind to other people but it was depending on this situation. But at my house, he was different than outside!

[DSQ89]

Again ... Hugs. You got me up all nite. I have had an issue with my dad for many years ... til today. I saw my dad today .. he won't talk with me because I have lost my job of 8 years due to discrimination and the other issues (not ready to talk about this). It hurts. Yes I love my dad and I have to accept of who he is.

[LChaim2007]

Thank you for sharing your comments with me! I got lot of response from deafies who hit so hard by my vlogs already! They are even victims but we are all survivors and need to get recovery. I hopefully pray that we will set the support group someday!

[DSQ89]

Here I am .. I am back..... I wish I had learned ASL as a young toddler. This is how my life is screwed up after I came to Gallaudet. The boiling stuffs came out of inside of me. Going thru the tough time dealing with my family (especially my dad) and everyday life out there. Here's my hug ... I can understand your pain because I went thru too.

[JXCOKELOVER73]

im so sorry what u went through misunderstanding , being victim , and dozen list that u say were terrible thing to do at least u fought hard to win your way to learn sign lanagage than oral .. u really overcome alot tha u went through keep that way be strong and fight for your ways and etc

[LChaim2007]

Thanks! smile

[DSQ89]

Hugs -- I am very sorry for your pain. I got several flashbacks too and ... ready to cry. Not severe as yours because I have some hearing with my hearing aid on .. but still missed out ALOT anyway. I always got into fights with teachers and peers in elementary and Jr high schools. I have an HD/ADD too. I was not treated for this back then. Learn ASL when I was 18. I was very reserved and held back thru the high school years. It is not healthy. To be continued ....

[Deafpinky]

Hi, I have watched your video this morning. It made me breakdown and almost cried. I sure understood very clearly what you are talking about. Yeah, you are the victim for long time. Also now you are survive ans safe. Thank you very much to share with us. I really enjoyed so much and also very important for me to listen about your stories are about. Thanks again. Cheers!!!!

[LChaim2007]

That is good for everyone need to open their feeling to us and are in processing of healing so will get better in their life!