Self harm story and the wish foundation

[MegaBieberGirls]

she tells my story <3 but a blade instead of a kitchen knife

[messeyehere]

I talk to a number of you "young uns" about self harming. This group sounds a really good idea. I lost my daughter b4 she was born. She'd be 22 in August. I'd have given ANYTHING to have my daughter ANYTHING...please dont hurt yourselfs any more!

[jadeybbz96]

i hope she realises she ent alone cuz thats exactly what im going through and 4 the same reason bullying! and depression and its hard cuz it seems thats the only way i can deal wiv bad stuff but the only thing i do is self harm cuz it gets me through it and reminds me im still here

[futureboss5555]

from 0:30 to 0:40 I swear that exact same thing happened to me....exactly the way she stated it...i can still see most of my scars...clearly....

[daphnener]

Where are all the support groups for people who aren't kids or teens. I'm twenty-six and I injure, yet I can't ever find a niche that I fit in. I always feel like I'm too damn old for this. I don't do it as much as I used to. But when I do it now, I completely freak the fuck out and it's always severe and widespread. Didn't fit in when I was younger, and now I still don't fit in. Fucking sucks.

[metalguitarguy95]

i self injure and i hide it.

when i cut to deep i staple the cut shut.

[Downtownpatrol]

@metalguitarguy95 bad idea

[TheDarrenJordan]

i really admire your courage to be so open about it, i try to but i find it hard.

[Mzcandiired]

When ever i felt really bad i would cut and it would feel really good. Until i would take a shower the next day darn it would burn but even the burn i became addicted to .

[2005blackhawkmatt]

i feel better when cutting...

[4usexy22]

Some people get a strong high from cutting themselves

[dottiedottie123321]

is it normal to devlope an ocd

after quiting cutting over a pirod of time

cuz i have i start counting to 100 and bakward

wen i get anxious

[tinkabella211]

i think ever one after they quit find something to make them feel a little bit better sometimes its counting sometimes smoking...(thats the bad habbit i got) i wouldnt call it ocd just alot better coping mechanism

[dottiedottie123321]

mm i can never b alone now i dont trust myself but i wish i could talk to my mom about it she always gets mad or i feel realy uncomfortable wat can i do if i hate talk bout it but i need to

[thisismyspacebugoff]

It's important to talk, maybe if your mom finds it hard then you can find someone else to talk to? Have you got any aunts or anything that you could speak to, alternatively there are lots of helplines etc. When I was at school there were counsellors etc in the school we could talk to as well, but I went to school in the UK i'm not sure whats available for you in your school as your from USA right? Let me know if you need help finding a helpline to call or anything.

[Downtownpatrol]

@dottiedottie123321 talk to your mam, or at least someone. It might be difficult and weird but if you feel in danger then tell someone.

[mmui124]

(Can u plz comment back)

I dont want to come off rude but i have the feeling that there is not groups out there for both genders like i am 17 now i have been cutting form about 13 - 14 but not mutch as i did but if u can tell me if there are eney help lines or groups out there in the uk that i can go to or call.

[thisismyspacebugoff]

You don't come off rude at all. Yes there are helplines, there is a helpline called supportline which helps young people with a range of issues, including self harm. You can communicate with them via phone email or post. I'll put the website in the description, the phone number for them is 01708 765200

[biggoblyds]

theres nothing like that where i live. you are pretty much left on your own.

[AChangingGrl]

QUESTION- I have scars on my wrist, deep. but not like really really really deep. they are hardly deep. but on both wrists. Does anyone know will they go away in afew years or so?

[thisismyspacebugoff]

Scars will fade, mine have. It helps to moisturise them, especially something containing vitamin e. There are also some scar reducing pads/creams available to buy but they can be expensive. Mine cost £20. Scars almost never dissapear completly, but they do fade lots and become much less noticable.

[emilyblech]

@thisismyspacebugoff i know what helped me as well as moisturizers and things is something called bio oil? u can use that but also i know it sounds nuts but olive oil reli works, like the good olive oil. hope this helps a lil xxx

[kiranblood]

i'm 15 i did not cut till 12

[thisismyspacebugoff]

i dont understand that comment, you mean you started cutting when you were twelve?

[kiranblood]

when i was 12 my friends talked me into cutting to releave stress and i did

[thisismyspacebugoff]

im sorry to hear that, have you stopped now then?

[kiranblood]

i'm still trying my friends have been helping me get thru it

[thisismyspacebugoff]

thats good support from friends is great :) Good luck.

[kiranblood]

ty ^_^

[charmelic]

great vid. and now u know at least i watched it all the way though

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[thisismyspacebugoff]

thanks for the comment im glad that you enjoyed the video thanks for your viewcount :D

[luvinme1994]

im startin one of those groups next week

andd im scaredd to speak to other people about it

butt i spose i need 2 get beta

great story xx

[thisismyspacebugoff]

are you starting the girls xpress one in harrow? Good luck with it all, dont be scared everyone is int he same boat as you and will be understanding. Yes i agree it may help you to get better. Hope it goes well.x

[luvinme1994]

im going to one in manchester...dont know the name thoo... doo yu no of any coping stratergies to stop doing it xx