I can see what he is saying but you run the risk of not letting her know that you are interested. Sure she might pick up on that or whatever but when its ambigous like that it can cause confusion and hurt later. And you might fall into the "friend zone."
Pure technical thinker. They guy knows how the mind works. Its all psychological and without her even knowing. Its all in in her sub-concious! Arkady is the best
What if she asks to bring a friend with her to the place where you're meeting? If you say yes then it's not a date anymore, and if you say no it's like you're trying to isolate her.
@leb3186 Say yes and pay attention to her friend. It'll give the impression that you're interested in her friend while actually trying to get to know the one that you like.
@hypercon64 well if you like the girl , talk to her more, if she ask to wait or put something away for her do it or even offer her that ull do it,. when your with her flirt with her ,touch her (in not a creepy way) if you guys hang out and end up going to a store offer a drink, theres so much stuff you can do, just be yourself,be flirty but polite ask her how is her day if she says bad then ask whats wrong to show that you care,if your goin to movie with friends invite her if she wants to come
@haloslayer1333 stick with ur hand brotha..... and start steering away from halo. but try this line out it works everytime..... "Hey do you have any raisins? (she should say no, if she does have raisins run) well how about a date"
But what if she thinks you were just going to hang out as friends? then its better to avoid that by asking them out on a date, no chick who wants you as a friend would ever go on a date with you so if you ask them out and they say yes then they probably isn't interested in you as a friend but as something more awesome. ;)
@SlaughterMezz make sure its not something too casual, like to a party, or out with other friends or something. if you really want her to think you like her take her somewhere alone, like out for dinner, or to the movies alone or something. (: hope i helped
I like a lot of your advice, but i think this peticular video might land a few people in the friend zone if there not careful. Just my opinion, keep up the great advice though!
Not using the word date IS beating around the bush, and it shows that you are trying to protect your ego if the girl is not interested in you so that you could brush it off as it was just hanging out and not a date. Be direct, stop being a little boy, and ask her out on a date. You keep tension and mystery by not revealing too much and keeping it playful on the DATE.
A lot of the time if you do the method described in this video the girl will ask you "Like a date?" a good response would be "No, Strictly business" this will make her laugh if shes not an idiot and you still haven't told her if its a date or not!
the best thing to do is wait... she might be avoiding you, because she's uncomfortable that you're going so strong.
patience is a good thing at this point. and if for any reason she decides not to ride with you... there's another dream girl out there coming towards you.
yeh, i think i'm going to take your advice and back off for a while, i think it might jut be the case that she finds it daunting meeting up with me by herself. she seems to like the attention though so if i take it away from her she might get withdrawl symptoms and want it back, thanks man.
i've tried asking this girl to join myself, or myself and my firends numerous times and at numerous locations; for coffee, at his new bar etc. but shes always busy. now, i'm not naive and i'm pretty sure her excuses where genuine (exams the next day, got tickets to a show etc.) as i've checked them out to see if they were legit (yeh i'm pretty fond of this girl). i've got to the point were i can't keep repeating the same subtle lines: "i'm going into town, you should come join me... etc."....
I notice a contradiction here. On one video he said that not beating around the bush shows confidence. And in this video, he's suggesting something that is like beating around the bush?. Tell women like it is. I want to take you on a date. Simple as that. Say it in a confident manner and it should be ok.
Thanks for your note. I don't think that simply not using the word "date" makes it beating around the bush, but adds a little tension and mystery that both people will enjoy when they go out.
yeah,my past girlfriend i never really asked them out.The only one that i did do so:The results were horroble!Now i want to ask a girl out but i dont know what and how to do it.I barely talk to her
ok guys i am only 10 and i have a HUGE crush on a girl named marli and we are in the same class but ... how do i ask HER out all my past girl friends had allready asked me out so what do i do i need answers fast so plz help me!
um weird first off your 10 and i can see you havign a crush but having a girlfriend at that age isnt usualy a girlfriend and second girls dont usualy ask guys out like in your case your past "girlfriends" asking you out is ratehr weird because they probably mean a play date or something, and if you wanna ask her out find out mreo about her, hobbies favorite food kind of movies, reply back to me and i can give much more detailed advise on how to ask her out based on what she lieks, bye bye
I get the part about camouflaging the question . . but why always trying to make mystery? I understand an open book wouldn't be that romantic but why do I have to kinda 'hide' the fact that I like her?
best way I've it's ever been put is that women are like cats and a ball of string. Dangle the string in front of the cat and they go crazy and chase but if you just give them the string they tire of it quickly
I have an imporatant question that driving me crazy. on the first date and also your firt phone conversation (these can both be very awkward situations) , what do you suggest as conversation starters, and how do you keep her interested throughout the date?? do you flirt a little or do you show more of your serious side???
i appreciate your attention and all suggestions are very much appreciated.
lol . this guy is halarious but good." i like it when he said Hey they sereve great coffee." its just halarious because im a muscular dude and for me to say something so modest and humble like that. it would make me seem like a giant teddy bear and i could just imagine me doing that. thats why its funny. wow lol.
Dude, how the hell did you figure out all this stuff? I already know some of the advice you give to be true from experience, but some it never even occurred to me. What do you read?
Well actually, those two words are intimidating. Also, his example statement also implies that it is a date, though it does not say the two words. You should really analyse the words the speaker chooses before you call him or her an 'asshole'. Also, please do not flame me, because I am merely stating the facts.
Thanks guy. Absolutely right. Because girls are used to saying no automatically even before you even ask. So, If you say something different than that, than at least automatically there is less chance for her to say no. Great advice!
hey there's this girl i like at school she is into the same stuff as me and i've talked to her on msn just recently and got to know each other and i sometimes talk to her face to face at school and i dont have the guts to ask her out i need tips more tips on how =S
Burrow a book from her and give it to her back after 3 days in a cafeteria, then make it a friendly hangout. Do ask her some questions related to the subject. Oh yeah, I know is very scary when you actually do it, but don't make it a big deal, stay relax and look like you are determined to get an A. And when you are around with her do not focus entirely on your interest on her. Remember women is just 1/4 of our concern. LOL 1/2 is to our career the remaining 1/4 is about our personal problems.
also zack3mire, if you wait to do it, you are digging a hole for yourself because you never know if you might get a chance to ask her out again. what if shes not at school on the last day? your next chance to ask her out is the next time you see her, and pretend like its the last chance you have so be a man and ask her out. dont make excuses or say ill do it later. u make excuses becuz u r scared and no girl likes a guy who is afraid and a wuss. the choice is yours. do it now, now or never
Don't Be Shy And Act A Little Older If she's older than you and don't try to be taller just go with the flow and ask her out at a right time like when you 2 are alone talking but NEVER interupt hercand then ask her out
i kinda like this girl in my school whos around 10 cm taller than me.. she's from the other class and i dun think she know my name. So i plan to ask her out at the last day of school, what do you think ? kinda late? pls reply asap
if she doesn't know your name she will probably won't go out with you but hey if you speak to her often and try to have like this kind of connection most importatntly eye contact with her then you will be able to ask her out.
u r a really cute guy and u should smile more in ur vidoes u would look even better :) Btw ur advices are great but do u have any for girls? I mean for approaching guys?
What if I'm not friends with the girl to begin with, then is it more likely that she'll see it as a date, and is it more likely that she'll reject me?
guys a good way: Hey me and my mates are going into town at the weekend, want to come along?
It ensures that you're not forcing a woman into a relationship, because you are offering, not asking, and it takes the tension, because it's a social gathering.
THIS guy is so right i mean when i ask my girl friend out i didnt even think of using date or out because it doesnt soud right, i got her to admit who shes likes then ask hes to be my girl friend like that
that will happen just if she dont know your intention and she thinks you are just a gay friend or don't really like you
you NEED to be a man and show interest since your firt met her in life
but you dont need to pick her up, i have A LOT
of friends that know i could make out with them, but i always be friendly and still get sexual tension on them b'cause she knows I'm not afraid and I'm a confident guy, girls WANT that
Well I'm going to be asking a girl out that I just got her phone number. She is shy, but I will invite her to go walking with me on such and such avenue and hit up some of the shops. She will love it!
what if they say "no i cant im busy" or make a shit excuse, how do you face them the next day if you really like them, do you do the same thing again or just ignore her. i need to know the answer to this
just dont act like it bothers you she that she cant go, there could be many reasons why, just blow it off and then continue as normal the next time you see her, its only a big deal if you make it a big deal.
would saying " What about if we go to the movies on friday?" be considered like a question i shouldn't ask? or should i say "let's go to the movies on friday"
I love how Arkady presents his advice, this style allows me to feel good about dating as I'm young and inexperienced. These videos present it as it is, the most natural thing in the world, lets me feel good and safe in my own skin about dating, . . unlike advice from some of these pickup "artists" which just feels creepy.
dude! you are a genius! I am subscribing :), what if after I told her to go to this cafe and whatnot and she asks "Kinda like a date?" how/what could I answer?
i watched most of your videos arkady39 , and all r great & i love your simple advices , very thanks mate , i hope i will be like u in the future and giving ppl advices , hehehe
Hey Arkady! Just wanted to say I watched many of your videos and checked out your website. You're doing some realy great work and your advice is very concise and helpful. Thanks a lot for all these videos!
If I happen to catch an interesting story about all of this later I'll drop by the forums. Be well!
hi arkady! ur so handsome! :) anyway, I like ur simple tips and they are very true and effective... ur tips finally makes me think that my guy friend is interested in me... lol..
I personally dislike "hang out" term very much. It suggests something very passive, it suggests boredom and ... lack of spice if I may say so. "Hanging out" sounds like sitting and wasting time. Put a positive spin on it by avoiding those words. "Lets go to this place, pick something up to drink and take a walk together. It will be fun" or something like that.
excellent points again, and let's be honest - I'm also very envious of your great looking apartment furnishings! Great stuff, even I have learnt a few things. Ciao & good luck Arkady and all readers/viewers.
got it
DannyBgo 1 week ago
This only works for smart and mature women Lol. Tried this on a girl once and she brought her friends Hahaha
RodyPolis 1 month ago
I can see what he is saying but you run the risk of not letting her know that you are interested. Sure she might pick up on that or whatever but when its ambigous like that it can cause confusion and hurt later. And you might fall into the "friend zone."
rowsdower12 1 month ago
Pure technical thinker. They guy knows how the mind works. Its all psychological and without her even knowing. Its all in in her sub-concious! Arkady is the best
Fong21051 4 months ago
i asked this girl out and then a friend of hers overheard it and wanted to join us.... ugh, just my luck
dtihkse 8 months ago
What if she asks to bring a friend with her to the place where you're meeting? If you say yes then it's not a date anymore, and if you say no it's like you're trying to isolate her.
leb3186 1 year ago
@leb3186 Say yes and pay attention to her friend. It'll give the impression that you're interested in her friend while actually trying to get to know the one that you like.
TitanSubZero15 1 month ago
Makes sense thanks
cricket4ever123 1 year ago
A girl talks to me at school and if I go near her she talks to me and if I'm in front of her she asks me to wait for her... Does she like me?
hypercon64 1 year ago
@hypercon64 most likly, ive had freinds that do that and later on i find out they like me
370046Byakuya 1 year ago
@370046Byakuya What should I do now then?
hypercon64 1 year ago
@hypercon64 well if you like the girl , talk to her more, if she ask to wait or put something away for her do it or even offer her that ull do it,. when your with her flirt with her ,touch her (in not a creepy way) if you guys hang out and end up going to a store offer a drink, theres so much stuff you can do, just be yourself,be flirty but polite ask her how is her day if she says bad then ask whats wrong to show that you care,if your goin to movie with friends invite her if she wants to come
370046Byakuya 1 year ago
hahaha
sexual encounter
kaizerakh 1 year ago
A girl I know talks to me alot, waves at me from other sides of the room and comes up too me, is she interested?, what should I do?
hypercon64 1 year ago
cool thx
haloslayer1333 1 year ago
any advise for a 14 yr. old? lol
haloslayer1333 1 year ago
@haloslayer1333 stick with ur hand brotha..... and start steering away from halo. but try this line out it works everytime..... "Hey do you have any raisins? (she should say no, if she does have raisins run) well how about a date"
mbrown5380 1 year ago
@haloslayer1333 I'm 15 and this works great aswell.
senhordasempadas 1 year ago
Master, what if she asks if it is this café thing is a date? What do I answer?
Saulo2006 1 year ago
i concur
cornholio777 1 year ago
I used out. She said no :( lol
Limie316 1 year ago
@arkady39 but what if she says something like "as a date?" or "just as friends?" what do i say ?
mruntouchable3 1 year ago
But what if she thinks you were just going to hang out as friends? then its better to avoid that by asking them out on a date, no chick who wants you as a friend would ever go on a date with you so if you ask them out and they say yes then they probably isn't interested in you as a friend but as something more awesome. ;)
SlaughterMezz 1 year ago
@SlaughterMezz make sure its not something too casual, like to a party, or out with other friends or something. if you really want her to think you like her take her somewhere alone, like out for dinner, or to the movies alone or something. (: hope i helped
jezusnumba2 1 year ago
so i cant ask her out got it
kimimaru34 1 year ago 17
@kimimaru34 lols
KidProper 11 months ago
I like a lot of your advice, but i think this peticular video might land a few people in the friend zone if there not careful. Just my opinion, keep up the great advice though!
Acydwater 1 year ago 2
@Acydwater You're sooo right!
The person must ask in a way it looks like a date invitation, but not saying the word.
Saulo2006 1 year ago
Not using the word date IS beating around the bush, and it shows that you are trying to protect your ego if the girl is not interested in you so that you could brush it off as it was just hanging out and not a date. Be direct, stop being a little boy, and ask her out on a date. You keep tension and mystery by not revealing too much and keeping it playful on the DATE.
MaicoMoon 1 year ago
A lot of the time if you do the method described in this video the girl will ask you "Like a date?" a good response would be "No, Strictly business" this will make her laugh if shes not an idiot and you still haven't told her if its a date or not!
AvoidingtheQuestion 2 years ago
arkady the pimp.
chocolatefuzzz 2 years ago 28
.... is there a good way of asking a girl out directly? if she says no then atleast i know my answer and will just have to deal with it.
nettoblaster 2 years ago
@nettoblaster
the best thing to do is wait... she might be avoiding you, because she's uncomfortable that you're going so strong.
patience is a good thing at this point. and if for any reason she decides not to ride with you... there's another dream girl out there coming towards you.
dothedamnthang2 2 years ago
yeh, i think i'm going to take your advice and back off for a while, i think it might jut be the case that she finds it daunting meeting up with me by herself. she seems to like the attention though so if i take it away from her she might get withdrawl symptoms and want it back, thanks man.
nettoblaster 2 years ago
i've tried asking this girl to join myself, or myself and my firends numerous times and at numerous locations; for coffee, at his new bar etc. but shes always busy. now, i'm not naive and i'm pretty sure her excuses where genuine (exams the next day, got tickets to a show etc.) as i've checked them out to see if they were legit (yeh i'm pretty fond of this girl). i've got to the point were i can't keep repeating the same subtle lines: "i'm going into town, you should come join me... etc."....
nettoblaster 2 years ago
when people ask for equal rights they often only want the good shit, i doubt many women are to keen about buying a man diamond engagement ring lol.
nettoblaster 2 years ago
I notice a contradiction here. On one video he said that not beating around the bush shows confidence. And in this video, he's suggesting something that is like beating around the bush?. Tell women like it is. I want to take you on a date. Simple as that. Say it in a confident manner and it should be ok.
Milas19962002 2 years ago 2
@Milas19962002
Thanks for your note. I don't think that simply not using the word "date" makes it beating around the bush, but adds a little tension and mystery that both people will enjoy when they go out.
arkady39 2 years ago 10
hey wassup man what if you keep inviting her out and she realizes its a date
jman0678 2 years ago
yeah thx man good advice
kemmy15 2 years ago
just simply smile and stare into her eyeza little while.. "so..will you do me the honor of goin out with me?"
lakersownsuns 2 years ago
yeah,my past girlfriend i never really asked them out.The only one that i did do so:The results were horroble!Now i want to ask a girl out but i dont know what and how to do it.I barely talk to her
drumsjm787 2 years ago
ok guys i am only 10 and i have a HUGE crush on a girl named marli and we are in the same class but ... how do i ask HER out all my past girl friends had allready asked me out so what do i do i need answers fast so plz help me!
blt1298 2 years ago
what is she into? Ask her out relating to that!
SupaAbzyBall 2 years ago
your only 10? sorry to say most girls your age want someone with a bigger dick.
L0ckp1ck 2 years ago 3
LOL
Kazzz56 2 years ago
haha. 10. You make me smile kid, You'll enjoy high school lil' playa.
dog2doggie 2 years ago
um weird first off your 10 and i can see you havign a crush but having a girlfriend at that age isnt usualy a girlfriend and second girls dont usualy ask guys out like in your case your past "girlfriends" asking you out is ratehr weird because they probably mean a play date or something, and if you wanna ask her out find out mreo about her, hobbies favorite food kind of movies, reply back to me and i can give much more detailed advise on how to ask her out based on what she lieks, bye bye
zxcvbnmjfjf 2 years ago
i can count my A B Cs!!!!!!!!!!!
gag0inviter 2 years ago
Hahaahhha Funny Sparrow ^.^ but totally right
KittyPoW3R 2 years ago
your are right!
Chriz360 2 years ago
it's either "you are" or "you're"
sparrownick 2 years ago
I get the part about camouflaging the question . . but why always trying to make mystery? I understand an open book wouldn't be that romantic but why do I have to kinda 'hide' the fact that I like her?
youbananabuoy 2 years ago
because doing that make you a smarter guy
tainle 2 years ago 3
best way I've it's ever been put is that women are like cats and a ball of string. Dangle the string in front of the cat and they go crazy and chase but if you just give them the string they tire of it quickly
randymcarn 2 years ago 2
Hey that was brilliant. Did you make that one up yourself :)
jackbliss 2 years ago
I have an imporatant question that driving me crazy. on the first date and also your firt phone conversation (these can both be very awkward situations) , what do you suggest as conversation starters, and how do you keep her interested throughout the date?? do you flirt a little or do you show more of your serious side???
i appreciate your attention and all suggestions are very much appreciated.
RADman305 2 years ago 2
flirt, but not too much, it can be weird for some girls, just be yourself
abalanity 2 years ago
lol . this guy is halarious but good." i like it when he said Hey they sereve great coffee." its just halarious because im a muscular dude and for me to say something so modest and humble like that. it would make me seem like a giant teddy bear and i could just imagine me doing that. thats why its funny. wow lol.
akdj7221 2 years ago 6
haha that would be pretty funny now that i picture it
deftoned21 2 years ago
dude you're a genius!
CRJflyer 2 years ago
i wish ive seen this vid 10 days ago
vahnfly 2 years ago 7
btter late than never :)
AxiomaticObserver 2 years ago 6
Dude, how the hell did you figure out all this stuff? I already know some of the advice you give to be true from experience, but some it never even occurred to me. What do you read?
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HEYGUSY 2 years ago
REALLY GREAT!
AidaRosariox 2 years ago
well...... i speak spanish...... so im not going to say those words....
Animalcurado 2 years ago
thx arkady!
andymegazone 2 years ago
this is spot on
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The609MM 2 years ago
near this bar.???? getting her drunk later on i see lolz :)
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msaak01 2 years ago
Well actually, those two words are intimidating. Also, his example statement also implies that it is a date, though it does not say the two words. You should really analyse the words the speaker chooses before you call him or her an 'asshole'. Also, please do not flame me, because I am merely stating the facts.
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wowfuckingnoob 2 years ago
Thanks guy. Absolutely right. Because girls are used to saying no automatically even before you even ask. So, If you say something different than that, than at least automatically there is less chance for her to say no. Great advice!
V8Fiero2M8 2 years ago 3
all i say is "hey i really like you and i was wondering if you wanted to be my girlfriend ;) "
ditzygirly 2 years ago
that was so great :) asking out is not always so dramatic, right? and if they think you're stupid then they are not worth it ^_^
Kultasuklaa 2 years ago
hey there's this girl i like at school she is into the same stuff as me and i've talked to her on msn just recently and got to know each other and i sometimes talk to her face to face at school and i dont have the guts to ask her out i need tips more tips on how =S
miketyson1234 2 years ago
Burrow a book from her and give it to her back after 3 days in a cafeteria, then make it a friendly hangout. Do ask her some questions related to the subject. Oh yeah, I know is very scary when you actually do it, but don't make it a big deal, stay relax and look like you are determined to get an A. And when you are around with her do not focus entirely on your interest on her. Remember women is just 1/4 of our concern. LOL 1/2 is to our career the remaining 1/4 is about our personal problems.
yxa86 2 years ago
a great way of asking her out is by saying: how about you and i get together for a cup of tea and a stimulating conversation ?
THAT IS GOLD !
xoni20 2 years ago
oh rly?
Sk8tingLearner 2 years ago
ya rly
xoni20 2 years ago
so something like : "you're ugly, i'm ugly , do you want to date me? " can be just fine!
ashliebrillault 2 years ago
lol :)
aleterra 2 years ago
also zack3mire, if you wait to do it, you are digging a hole for yourself because you never know if you might get a chance to ask her out again. what if shes not at school on the last day? your next chance to ask her out is the next time you see her, and pretend like its the last chance you have so be a man and ask her out. dont make excuses or say ill do it later. u make excuses becuz u r scared and no girl likes a guy who is afraid and a wuss. the choice is yours. do it now, now or never
tigerwoods60 2 years ago
that was actually very good
Skidmarques1 2 years ago
ok i cant drive and cant go to places my self how do i ask a girl thats taller and 2 yrs older than me please help!
fireox34 2 years ago
Don't Be Shy And Act A Little Older If she's older than you and don't try to be taller just go with the flow and ask her out at a right time like when you 2 are alone talking but NEVER interupt hercand then ask her out
videomania13 2 years ago
i kinda like this girl in my school whos around 10 cm taller than me.. she's from the other class and i dun think she know my name. So i plan to ask her out at the last day of school, what do you think ? kinda late? pls reply asap
zack3mire 2 years ago
if she doesn't know your name she will probably won't go out with you but hey if you speak to her often and try to have like this kind of connection most importatntly eye contact with her then you will be able to ask her out.
Sk8tingLearner 2 years ago
hey thx for the advice, but , she's actually 1 year younger than me ! haha
zack3mire 2 years ago
just act like your 2 inches taller than her and pop the question its really not that hard
tigerwoods60 2 years ago
He's actually giving great advice because he's assuming the close. That's what great sales people do.
Berlitz777 2 years ago
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Berlitz777 2 years ago
i say " lets chill together" or lets hang out
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Floydthefuckbag 2 years ago
Like you got a better idea? If yes..then tell us!
haixu1234 2 years ago
u r a really cute guy and u should smile more in ur vidoes u would look even better :) Btw ur advices are great but do u have any for girls? I mean for approaching guys?
Tamanna19 3 years ago 2
doll yourself up and show off your legs.. and that's it.
narcissusdark 2 years ago 6
Haha nice
maidenicarus06 2 years ago
also don't text her it make you sound weak and gutless.
gio957 3 years ago 5
I see where you're getting at, you're basically trying to be mysterious so she'll stay intrested in you. Which will set you apart from other males.
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Berlitz777 2 years ago
What if I'm not friends with the girl to begin with, then is it more likely that she'll see it as a date, and is it more likely that she'll reject me?
Errol246 3 years ago
Yeah bro , I did try that .... she thought I was gay.
Attempt # 2 - Excellent success.
Keep up the good work.
krackerjack92 3 years ago
guys a good way: Hey me and my mates are going into town at the weekend, want to come along?
It ensures that you're not forcing a woman into a relationship, because you are offering, not asking, and it takes the tension, because it's a social gathering.
supergaymonster 3 years ago
so just go like "lets do something this weekend"
gyroflugsucks 3 years ago
make it specific
gammypage 3 years ago
i want to date this nigga
dapez77 3 years ago
he is mine.... lol
Almixab 3 years ago
man this guy knows everything!!!
geotk 3 years ago 16
Years and years of dating experience all at our finger tips. This guy is doing us all a major service.
mgband 3 years ago 7
isn't it kind of telling them what to do if you're like," hey let's go to the movies."
girls might not like that
jjfish64 3 years ago
no it's not
gammypage 3 years ago
THIS guy is so right i mean when i ask my girl friend out i didnt even think of using date or out because it doesnt soud right, i got her to admit who shes likes then ask hes to be my girl friend like that
wazzzupdude 3 years ago
What if I asked her to have lunch with me and she said if this is a date... How can I respond to her question?
sadamuspusta 3 years ago
just tell her.....you can put it that way.
xiongsta817 3 years ago
I did that once and the girl freaked. She tried to bring a friend and it was obvious she was uncomfortable.
krazy16dude 3 years ago
ohhh that sucks.
youngb1ood 3 years ago
No, it's not a date, why you want to date me?
PUAlessons 3 years ago
that will happen just if she dont know your intention and she thinks you are just a gay friend or don't really like you
you NEED to be a man and show interest since your firt met her in life
but you dont need to pick her up, i have A LOT
of friends that know i could make out with them, but i always be friendly and still get sexual tension on them b'cause she knows I'm not afraid and I'm a confident guy, girls WANT that
cheers
angelkratos 3 years ago
thanks man I've messed up a lot with that! holy shit, i didn't know that those 2 words when asking out could totally backfire at you.
FSERtojekantribe 3 years ago
Well I'm going to be asking a girl out that I just got her phone number. She is shy, but I will invite her to go walking with me on such and such avenue and hit up some of the shops. She will love it!
KingofZona 3 years ago
Q:
I work PT in a store and there's a girls I really like. I told a friend at work and I asked her not to tell anyone.
So she went and told the girl.
Her response has got me wondering, she said thats made her day.
I've only spoken to her 2x for a few seconds here and there. I'm totally bricking it, what do I say to her if I run into her tomorrow.
I'm sure she could do better then me ???
FoldingSpace101 3 years ago
what if they say "no i cant im busy" or make a shit excuse, how do you face them the next day if you really like them, do you do the same thing again or just ignore her. i need to know the answer to this
balleballe213 3 years ago
just dont act like it bothers you she that she cant go, there could be many reasons why, just blow it off and then continue as normal the next time you see her, its only a big deal if you make it a big deal.
Calebkoss 3 years ago
You face them proudly, like nothing bad or embarrassing happened, because it hasn't.
arkady39 3 years ago
would saying " What about if we go to the movies on friday?" be considered like a question i shouldn't ask? or should i say "let's go to the movies on friday"
MirkwoodElfs 3 years ago
"Hey, theres a few good movies out (or a certain movie) that I've been wanting to see. (We Should) watch this (time and day), it will be fun"
or something along those lines
rouninjutsu 3 years ago
Classic! Great stuff...like usual.
bdevil4lif 3 years ago 2
man your good, ur definitly my role model, i look up to you man.
balleballe213 3 years ago
Holy shit! I messed up a few just by saying those words. I'll always remember that.
Kroche929 3 years ago
you are a Freakin Genious--- who inspired u to start all this?
gj4king 3 years ago
I love how Arkady presents his advice, this style allows me to feel good about dating as I'm young and inexperienced. These videos present it as it is, the most natural thing in the world, lets me feel good and safe in my own skin about dating, . . unlike advice from some of these pickup "artists" which just feels creepy.
gammypage 3 years ago 5
Thanks, I appreciate it!!
arkady39 3 years ago
dude! you are a genius! I am subscribing :), what if after I told her to go to this cafe and whatnot and she asks "Kinda like a date?" how/what could I answer?
dirx103 3 years ago
Thanks a lot. You just say: "No, it's strictly business" playfully and wink.
arkady39 3 years ago
Thanks buddy!!! OMG you genius lol!!
dirx103 3 years ago
Thx
Sadochinero 3 years ago
he's hot lol
hawtshrlyn 3 years ago
this is good advice
fatality135 3 years ago 2
Dude, i appreciate it, Keep goin strong buddy.
detroitstop 3 years ago 2
i watched most of your videos arkady39 , and all r great & i love your simple advices , very thanks mate , i hope i will be like u in the future and giving ppl advices , hehehe
milllanooo 3 years ago
arkady, those are great pieces of advice. What country do you live in??
BloopersAndSports 3 years ago
Thanks! I live in San Francisco, California
arkady39 3 years ago
You've got some great advice Arkady, I'll subscribe and check out your site.
oD3SP3RAD0o 3 years ago 3
Thanks!
arkady39 3 years ago
ur reali gud at this
lleeoonn678 3 years ago
Hey Arkady! Just wanted to say I watched many of your videos and checked out your website. You're doing some realy great work and your advice is very concise and helpful. Thanks a lot for all these videos!
If I happen to catch an interesting story about all of this later I'll drop by the forums. Be well!
Veredei 3 years ago 4
Thanks, Veredei. I appreciate it!
arkady39 3 years ago
Thanks a lot for your support and do share with us your experiences on the forum.
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punkstarmike1 3 years ago
Good for you!
arkady39 3 years ago
ur a genius and a god of relationship advice!!!!
Mattman2772 3 years ago 4
You are far too kind! :)
arkady39 3 years ago
There's a video for every situation. WTF, this is almost too easy anymore.
sscobrapride 3 years ago 3
:) Thanks. I hpe you find it useful.
arkady39 3 years ago
all the tips i get from this guy. they work nealy all the time:) thanks for the tips
luke9532 4 years ago
My pleasure.
arkady39 4 years ago
hi arkady! ur so handsome! :) anyway, I like ur simple tips and they are very true and effective... ur tips finally makes me think that my guy friend is interested in me... lol..
openskyzz 4 years ago
Thanks for your support and the kind words. I appreciate it.
arkady39 4 years ago
good...thanks. i enjoy all of your videos. quality stuff indeed.
krazzyyo2 4 years ago
Thanks a lot. I appreciate your support.
arkady39 4 years ago
what about hang "out"?
krazzyyo2 4 years ago
What do you mean?
arkady39 4 years ago
"I know this place that serves blah blah. Lets hang out there this thursday...."
I am trying to not use the word "out", but I tend to say "hang out" often. would it be ok to use "out" in that way?
krazzyyo2 4 years ago
I personally dislike "hang out" term very much. It suggests something very passive, it suggests boredom and ... lack of spice if I may say so. "Hanging out" sounds like sitting and wasting time. Put a positive spin on it by avoiding those words. "Lets go to this place, pick something up to drink and take a walk together. It will be fun" or something like that.
arkady39 4 years ago
i don't drink coffee hehe
unclelez 4 years ago
There is tea, apple cider, hot chocolate for you to choose from. I am sure you drink one of the above, right?
arkady39 4 years ago
i injected a bit of humor
unclelez 4 years ago
excellent points again, and let's be honest - I'm also very envious of your great looking apartment furnishings! Great stuff, even I have learnt a few things. Ciao & good luck Arkady and all readers/viewers.
bookmanza 4 years ago