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  • Not much to ask for.

  • She reminds me of Angela Bassett in this video

  • Real talk, Even when we say we want a real man we never know what the heart is drawn to. It's hard and we can't help who we fall in love with, if we could then there would be NO! Real LOVE!!!

  • MJ should have kept dating this woman =).... My man is a real man tho =) <3

  • this my song

  • The little lady sing this song with so much power. Great song!

  • Leon. Wilson

  • LOL u too...

  • yeeessssss!!! OooH Me III DOO

  • Ms. Mills you ain't never lied!

  • back when singing about sex wasn't so dirty....

  • @valbabes10 this song isnt about sex. The comfort of a man or a woman is about more than just sex.

  • This was music, They can sit and sing, Not a porn show with less the singing talent. Beyonc????????

  • @Rapturereality Beyonce is a no talent bum.

  • @Rapturereality Beyonce is a no talent bum. Amy Winehouse, had more talent than Beyonce and all those jokers of that genre.

  • This makes me want to go out and eat some chocolate. Only - I'm not sure if Stephanie would come before or after the chocolate!

    The older she gets, the hotter she becomes.

    All of a sudden... I'm hungry for a Mills Bar.

  • only lesbians would dislike this song.. or of course a man himself.. but why even listen to it? but whatever i absolutely love it.. it brings out my sensitive side!!!

  • @missblackb I'm a lesbian and I happen to think the song is great...a good song is a good song

  • @kookoo78 Is it safe to say when you go shoe shopping you are more intrested in comfort than style?

  • @valdostastate77 Depends on the shoe...but yes I prefer comfort ;-)

  • @kookoo78 You have a great sense of humor, I bet your an awsome girl.I wish you much happiness!!

  • Who would dislike this video?! Even the strongest woman in the world cant say they wouldn't enjoy the comfort of a man....

  • @JaguarPride3 I know thats right! We all want some comfort! lol

  • Sometimes you ladies FORGET, He Did THAT not US!

  • When I was a little girl, I liked this song but didn't really understand. Now that I am a big girl, baby I know JUST what she is talking about! God is our ultimate comforter but let's face it, He designed us so that we need each other. Listen to how soulful they get at the end.

  • Stephanie is so sexy and underrated it aint even funny

  • Many women today are too proud to admit they need the comfort of a man.

  • @chri8067 Many women today will proudly admit they need the comfort of a woman..lol

  • man does not comfort, that is a lie. don't expect me to watch this video.

  • @MrGodkid WHAT! DO YOU NEED A WOMAN TO COMFORT YOU? ARE YOU LOOKING FOR JESUS TO COMFORT YOU? NEITHER OF THE TWO WILL BE ABLE TO COMFORT YOU; YOU NEED A MAN AND A DAMN GOOD MAN.

  • Oh no !! Stephanie Mills and Robert Brookins....Where is the Love? This was the jam back in the late 80's.

  • I love me some Stephanie Mills....I use to blast her music thru out the baracks !!

  • She was Michael Jackson's girlfriend!!!

  • @crazy4corbinbleux For a short time though

  • THIS IS EVERY DRAG QUEENS FAVORITE SONG TO PERFORM....I PROMISE.,..LOL

  • This song is so sexy but classy

  • Wow totally remember this song. Back in the day when music was good. Filled with emotion. True R & B at its best.

  • sweet and sexy 19, tresgirl,poison 597 all in one

  • My first love...Stephanie Mills

  • I always knew Stephanie was a petite powerhouse but I never noticed she had such a banging body. Perfect dimensions and beautiful legs.

  • Stephanie has 217 teeth.

  • @darylclayton ..THATS FUNNY BUT I THINK ITS MORE..HE HE HE HE

  • PURE CLASS

  • I'm such a sucker when this song comes on. This is good stuff!

  • soooooo true!!R.I.P. TO MY HUBBY!!

  • FEELIN THIS SONG RIGHT NOW, LOVE STEPH

  • this is a sanging gal..SANG GAL!

  • Now that's TALENT...loving me some Stephanie Mills always have always will... Never really thought she was given the high class showcasing she deserved which is absolutely crazy because now they showcase HIGHLY the rediculously untalented as if real singing was never worthy....She more than likely would still put an unlimited amount of these made up stars to shame with her voice alone....

  • sing it, girl. my theme right now

  • Like going 2 church,she is a bad lady.

  • for reel! I'm feeling this song! lol!!!

  • Love this song thats just what i need a comfort of a man. Yes sing it Stephanie. Beautiful, classy video.

  • TALENT. I would hate to be the singer who performs after her>>>>Stephanie Mills STOPS the show with her. They say dynamite comes in small packages and she just blew me away.

  • i was 12 when this came out..20 years later..it has a whole different meaning!!!

  • I saw her last night in Oakland - she is still THE BADDEST CHICK! She gave a great show - I need her to comeback soooo bad.

  • Phenomenal voice! Want a (another) treat people, go watch her live video of "Home" performed at the Apollo--she tears it up! Chill bump city ya'll for real! This is ALL DAT!

  • When I was 12 , I had a huge crush on Stephanie Mills . I knew she was short enough for me . I thought she was so sexy on her album covers ,they would give me an erection . Im totally serious . I was a pre-teen in love with her voice , her body , oh my god her mouth ! Seeing this make me feel young again . Im yours Stephanie !

  • Yes yes...I need the comfort of a man....and NOT a man that's been locked up for 10yrs...or 1 that smokes weed all day

  • @RLC8093 LMFAOO

  • she is a super singer. wooooooooooooooooooow

  • sexy stuff great.

  • Damn...Im in love again listening to her sing

  • Angela Bassett?

  • @ arablevon, I agree. Women f/ my generation dont want a man, dey want "niggas". When I was a child, I learned how 2 do d 2 step dance & be romantic w/ it. I was bold enough 2 approach a man around my age 4 a dance. He say he dont dance. When I did dance w/ someone, he was girating all on me. I felt so violated. A real man kno how 2 treat a lady, protect her, dress nice w/o sagging, & respect himself & others. I need 2 b comforted by a man!

  • @MoralOrder1 GIRL I know what you talking about!!!!! I had a gentleman get upset with me cuz I told him I dont do these clubs today. I may be 21 but Im COMPLETE MILITARY/OLD SCHOOL RAISED!!!

  • @MoralOrder1 I wish I grew up back then. These girls are all crazy now! Sadly the guys arent much better, but the women are the ones who choose so, it is what it is I guess.

  • Yes UNSUNG is still on they're just recording and making more documentaries based on the peoples votes. I saw the advertisement that in Jan they will air all new shows but they didn't say who they are gonna feature....i think they said if you want a sneak peek go to tvone.com and click on UNSUNG to find out.

  • DON'T ALL THE LADIE'S DO

  • she was fine!!

  • It funny how she has on all her cloths and i find her extremely sexy..!

  • @ZadiLady: I think your are wrong about that because so was the OJays and Angela Winbush and several others they featured. I don't think being critically acclaimed has anything to do with it. I think 'UNSUNG" focuses on those who just like died out and are not really heard from too much anymore. Or perhaps it's more like,whatever became of type deal.

  • you shouldn't need for anything, trust me!

  • When is UNSUNG gonna do a piece on her? This girl was the real deal back inthe day. Yall remember her in the WIZ on broadway?

  • @DaStr8Truth

    I dont think Stephanie qualifies as "unsung" she is a critically acclaimed singer who has accomplished much in her musical career.

  • @DaStr8Truth is Unsung even on anymore?

  • this is such a sexy song with out being over the top seductive or sluty... just enough hmph to tell you what she means and her sexiness is JUST right!!!

  • Remember when women could say what kind of sensual affections they wanted from a man, and still be sexy without being a hoe? Where did those days go?

  • @wurltee31 Blame MAINLY trashy Hip Hop/Rap with unmanly agressive lyrics opressing women.boys grow into men feeding on it and acting unscrupulously Jungle.

  • I can feel the COMFORT of my man. My life would be empty without him.

  • I hear you Stephanie a MAN!!

  • I know what you're talkin' about Stephanie...I love how just sings so effortlessly ...just sitting on a ledge or laying on black silk sheets..MAMA Steph SANGS!!!!

  • Sing it Stephanie !!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • No 3-D effects and big dance segments needed...

    just Stephanie, some dude, some black sheet things...

    oh yeah...and Stephanie's voice!

  • @SightseerLounge thats funny oh yeah stephs voice!!!!

  • girl you better sing this song----- that good looking mAN ON THIS VIDEO

  • I dont see me hearing any females sing this song any time soon lol

  • @SapereRisin THANK U

  • this is singing

  • @silvermist1216 "TRUE SANGING"

  • This video makes me love my boyfriend so much! He's a real man. You have to know what having a real man feels like to understand this. Stephanie sings like she knows exactly what she's talking about! lol

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  • now thats a tribute 2 a great man i have mine!!!! sang it gurl!!!

  • =strong man, kind man, lovin man.....uuuummmmmmm!!!!!

  • smh she can really sing her but off

  • oh my Oh My Stephanie! sing it girl!

  • wow..i wanna do her so bad...then,she can sing to me for about 20 minutes..then, i'd her again and again...geez, stephanie mills, you are so sexy and so talented! damn, woman!...lol..lol..

  • I have the comfort of a strong,sexy,responsible,loving­,honest,trustworthy,hardworkin­g,protective,supportive,positi­ve,good guiding,funny,warm,handsome,GO­D FEARING,spoiled,helpful man that every woman in this world deserves.

  • pure beauty, pure class.

  • you are not pissing any body, but you telling the truth...Yes lawwwddd the comfort of a man...aint nothing wrong with it.

  • If you notice she said the comfort of a strong man....which means a real man. A real man won't treat you like dirt and walk away. I wish some of these same composers that make music for some of our premier vocalist would approach Ms. Mills. But they won't because they are still under the thumb of the big music execs that are still bent on keeping Ms. Mills down. Stand up spike, stevie, Prince, etc.

  • You know you are the real thang..Sang it Ms.Mills..

  • I always wished that Stephanie and Anita Baker would have done a song together. They have such beautiful voices. Not many artists can sing like this. Well Christina A. and Joss Stone (Joss being highly under rated)

  • One of the absolute greatest voices of our time!

  • 411 Facts Part 2: Allegedly, singer Jody Watley wasn’t happy about the marriage either, because she had been linked to Daniel prior to the marriage. The couple divorced a short time later.

  • 411 Facts: When singer Stephanie Mills married Shalamar singer Jeffrey Daniel ), a lot of people were reportedly against the marriage. Mills, a Broadway star, marrying a former Soul Train dancer was unthinkable, it's even rumored that a friend of Mills, allegedly tried to block the limo from leaving the church after the wedding. Mills once stated in an interview that Daniel’s friends were very unfriendly towards her and reports of domestic violence surfaced shortly after the marriage...

    *wow*

  • i need the comfort of my man (husband) i miss him his warm body next to mine so comforting

  • sou muito fa desta maravilhosa mulher(beautifull woman),extraordinaria artista americana.......conheci suas cançoes nos anos 80,adoro ate hoje....y love you stephanie........i am from brazil...thanks.

  • @arablevon - I have to agree with you on this one!

  • she sang the mess outta this song. for reals......

    Check out my vids pls

  • We need a billion more Black Queens like Stephanie!

  • 90's R&B Singer Monica.. Real R&B and Sanging.. New single "Love All Over Me"

    is Hott. Title say's it all. Video Premerie's in 3 days July15. 106&park and Vevo

    Lets support REAL r&b and vocals.

  • I know her personally! She is such an amzing women and singer!!!

  • Stephanie Mills, what a little lady with a great big voice...One of the most underated artist ever! She is like a vocal masterclass.

  • damn .. she is ONE FINE BLACK WOMAN .... LOVE HER...

  • Stephanie Mills.Ooooh,i grew up listening to her.This woman knows she can sing.I always loved her voice since i first saw her on Broadway in the Wiz back in the late seventies.

  • stephanie mills

  • Yo, on the real, this is what you call SANGIN"!!! I always loved her voice ever since I was little. Noone up to today can fuck with her.

  • This was MY SONG!!! They don't make R&B like this anymore!!!!

  • @datboi251975 So, so, true. I don't hear it in anyone, maaaaaybe we have hope with Jennifer Hudson.

  • Speaking for the Real Women we still want a REAl Man. Not a want be man. But a man that knows and don't have to be schooled thats a Real Man.

  • man, this lady can sing..

  • Out of all Michael's exes, Stephanie is my favorite. She's got a breathtaking voice and is gorgeous.

  • Stephanie Mills is a true powerhouse singer who has been greatly missed in the music industry (As far as R & B). I know she's been doing gospel & that's great but, they don't make or have them like her anymore! Many try but, not on her level. Come on back girl! Show'em what true,pure, effortless talent is all about!

  • She's coming back baby!! June 2010 with her album BREATHLESS. she just did an interview on a radio station in Detroit since she'll be in concert there next week!

  • Happy (belated) Birthday Stephanie Mills !!

  • Lord Have Mercy Her and Angela Basset are 2of my favorite Chocolate sisters..and there are plenty of them!!

  • I dont mean to piss any women off,but this was when women wanted real men..now it seems they want comfort of a guy who treats them like shit!!.. u know what i mean ...they like dem Thug dudes now..

  • @arablevon nope i agree... as a 23yr old african american women i see more women dealing with these wanna be thugs, no education or job having gangstas.. but there are real women that are looking for real men.. like me... i need the comfort of a man.. lol

  • @arablevon

    You ain't lying!!

  • @arablevon

    your comment didn't piss me off; however, i think that might just be the women that you have met or is attracted to. I wish there were "Real Men" out here now, it is a sad state of affairs, it seems like the only thing men got going on now is making new baby mama's, driving your shit, and spending your money. I thought real men don't leach off of women, i think all real men in the past would be so sadden by the state of these men today. Be Blessed

  • @arablevon You must be talking about little girls. A REAL GROWN WOMAN understands and can relate to this song wholeheartedly. Young girls wants those Thug dudes. A grown woman that has outgrown her bad boy stage wants A REAL MAN. You can't be addressing anyone looking at this video about them wanting thug dudes. Those girls are watching the latest Wacka. If she is listening to this, chances are she wants and knows what a REAL MAN is. LOL

  • @DrikaLuv I agree with you

  • @DrikaLuv Yes tell it!!!!! I know thats right it is so hard to find a real man that is not intimidated by a real woman. I agree cause i turn this song on every time i think about how I am waiting on mr.right

  • @arablevon woman that like "thug" dudes are not looking for much. They settle for men who will never be a "MAN"..

  • @arablevon Tell me about it hunny, I am probably the only real woman that is still in search of a real man that is out here

  • @arablevon don't feel as though you're pissing anybody off, because you are honestly telling the truth! There are females out here who love the drama a clown brings into their life, until he runs them crazy or to the grave! Me as a woman was in a rough relationship with a dude who used to put his hands on me. After that, he was history! Sorry! Love ain't supposed to hurt!

  • @arablevon You telling the truth! And you notice women don't even present themselves like they used to back in the day. This video is proof of then vs. now...

  • @arablevon I enjoy a real man!!

  • @arablevon I concur!! I just don't get the whole attraction to a thug!!! Give me a smart, handsome,classy gentelmen any day!

  • @arablevon its not that women want thugs, thugs are all are we have left culturally. blk men have created a culture where they have bragged and placed emphasis on thugs being a good "real" thing. Every time you buy a rap album you are supporting that mentality. Think about that 'Bro"

  • @arablevon .....There are individuals who want a man to treat them like shit same as with men. I don't tolerate just anything from a man because I want to be with somebody that would be stupid and crazy. This generation of young girls and boys are taught how to be a man or woman in their households first and if they see mommie and daddie not being treated right they seem to go after that type of relationship.

  • @arablevon You are so right! women just want a man. any man, any body's man just as long as they have one. it's sad.

  • @arablevon ummm yea right dude, i feel yu on that and its true, but one thing i know, they got that from dey dad not loving their mom right!!!!!!!!!!!! i let them types slide by cause who eva they with , they want mostly of what we got, ima thug dude yu talkin bout but i treats my woman right!!!!!

  • @MrFor3play well now...where are u cause i am looking for a real man and not just any male that calls themselves a man! A good woman, intellegent, successful and yet can be submissive, I love the Lord and yet know who I am and love lving and having fun that equals me and you LOL....

  • @arablevon THERE R STILL WOMEN LIKE THIS...ME

  • @arablevon I totally agree my mother raised me to treat women right and to counter act that this is a time when women were women and not these misguided young girls running around today.

  • @arablevon YOUR COMMENT IS RIGHT. THEY WANT THE NO-GOOD MEN WHO SAG SHOWING THEIR UNDERWEAR, I DON'T UNDERSTAND IT. YOU ARE TELLING THE TRUTH SO WOMEN SHOULD NOT BE MADE AT YOU. THIS IS REAL MUSIC NOT SOME MALE ARTIST SAGGING TALKING ABOUT REAL LOVE, AND JUST THINKING ABOUT FUCKING.

  • @arablevon not ALL women want a thugg thats not a FAIR statement to put ALL women into one category, such as saying ALL men are dogs, untrue....

  • @arablevon THATS WHAT THE HELL I MEAN, I'm GLAD THAT ME (AS A BLACK MAN MYSELF) IS NOT THE ONLY ONE WHO FEELING THIS WAY!!

    THANK YOU VERY MUCH!!! WAKE UP WOMAN OF 2010!! QUIT WATCH THAT STUPID ASS SHOW "THE GAME"

  • @qwandiddy sorry baby im about real men. not these lil punks that ain't about shit.

  • steffie still has those chops and shes 52 yrs old.....sining is her god given gift.... i dare any of these kids to try and take her on in a sining contest at 52, because she will blow them out the studio.....

  • I love it.

  • Oh how I love Stephanie Mills. lol. She is my favorite out of all of Michael's exes. (That's not why I love her ) I loved her since before I knew she dated Michael. But I love this woman. And I love her voice. One of the best vocalist to EVER exist.

    Oh and plz don't ask why I didn't know she dated MJ until like 10 yrs ago...I'm only 17.

  • One of my favorite songs by her. I just love her music.

  • damm her voice gives me the chills.

  • saw stephanie on the MoNique show she wasn't the same. But I still love her.@Ebbit they don't value real talent no more,I am a beyonce fan,But not too much a Lady gaga fan I think she is weird.But Angela Winbush,the phyliss Hyman and Angela bofills were the best at there crafts.Sure miss that good ole music yanno.

  • She definitely worked her body out.

  • sing it gurl...No One today can compare!!! A true songstress....please come back out & show beyonce & lady gaga how to sing a real song...without showing their asses...music aint good like it used to be. its too crazy now. WE WANT STEPHANIE TO COME BACK!!!

  • @ebbiesart I agree with you 100%. Stephanie Mills is a amazing singer and a classy lady. She is much better than Beyonce, Lady Gaga,and some of these other wannabes out in the music industry today. They can learn something from Stephaie Mills. She is a real artist. Thanks for that comment. I am 26 years old and I like real music like this.Thanks!!!!

  • @jigglegirl601 .... I know thats right. Thank you for agreeing with me. It used to be a time when you HAD to actually have talent to sing, but I guess not anymore. All you have to do is wear some ridiculous outfit, & set yourself on fire on stage, and "boom", you are a multi-million-dollar recording artist. And most of these folks cant sing ... they're screaming. Come back real singers, we miss you!!

  • @ebbiesart i totally agree with you.

  • @ebbiesart Lol! "set yourself on fire on stage".

  • @ebbiesart Stop frontin'. You act like nobody back in the day was showing they ass. Vanity was singing and show everything back in 1984.

  • @MaxMikeLatino ... Heck yeah it was a lot of folks showing their butts back then too, but its not as prevalent as it is now. Its a right of passage to show your behind more than your face now. So talent is not required like it used to be. Back in the day, you actually had to have talent to be in the industry, but today ... not so much. Most of the singers now are "Manufactured" .... Thats all I'm saying.

  • @ebbiesart True Dat! Yeah they may have showed some behind back then, but now it's ass in the face all the time! Now the camera is closer to the ass than the face. I'm not against ass showing, but if that's what they are using to make me buy crappy music forget dat! I likes my music to make that booty shake, not ass to cover bad talent.

  • @JEDI7ACEN ... Thanks boo! I had to tell the truth. I'm tired of turning on the TV and seeing black women disrespecting themselves. Its already bad enough brothers are doing it, now women are joining in with them too? This makes us all look bad. No wonder we have a bad rap as women in general. C'mon, I wanna hear a singers voice, not see their bottom ever