It's a catch 22 situation (no not really)... It's really up to you baby girl, if you want to help like if you feel bad for her like "what if I was in her shoes", then go for it, Karma is all over the place... If not then screw that girl, she'll get some one else to help her... That's the best I can give babez
All you have to do, is face her and tell her the truth. You will be more worried and thinking about her now, and if you tell her to stop calling or I don't want to help...then you can study more and not worry.
well, u won't be an asshole, the stupid idiot needs to try to figure the shit out on her own, instead of getting people to do her work for her. Just tell her to fuck off and try to do the work by herself. There is no reason u should be taken advantage of.
HA! well melly girl u being used by that bitch xD
believe me cause im a veeery dumb person so i should know how it is to ask ppl 4 help
and if she just says it like that intead of asking like"can u help me 2morrow?" then that bitch is just interested in herself and when ppl start saying no to her then shes gonna be in trouble and realize all that shit so for now just ignore her or tell her"bitch im busy i got other things to do 2 ya know so ask the other smart ppl ok!"
Make a study group with her, but if she is holding you back... Ditch her ass... Help those who help themselves. Maybe shes not getting it because shes NOT READING THE BOOK! She waits for everyone else to figure stuff out for her. Dont feed people like that.
She sounds like she's just using you. If she atleast attempted to create a friendship then i might think different but if she only calls you when she needs something then she is taking advantage of you.
She's not a friend of yours so you're not obligated to help her at all. Just tell her you have alot to worry about too so u can't help her. Don't feel bad. You're awesome
I like this girl you are talking about because she is doing the smart thing by not hurting her head.
Dont help her unless it makes you feel fullfilled. I teach martial arts for free( My private lessons were very expensive to)but I am getting experience teaching and I like it because its my passion.
Unless its your passion then dont do it.
Do only what feels good for you. She can take care of herself, just like u are taking care of yourselves.U both have the same capabilitys.
wouldnt teaching someone else the material be like the ultimate way of studying yourself? personally i just wouldnt answer the phone but if ya said she came to your apartment she might decide to pop in univited if she's already the taking advantage type...
dont help her, I have seen people like this (for some reason they areall girls) all through high school and Univeristy.. I have never figured out what they think of themselves but as soon as they are don with the help, they just dissappear nad may not remember your name till the next time they need your help
I hate situations like this! I guess in reality you shouldn't help her (at least not every time), but I understand that it's hard not to. I'm the same way. Good luck with all of this(:
dont help her coz it will start effecting ur grades as u will be focusing on her and im sure she will get in ur way like maybe u wanna relax or u wanna go somewhere but u cant coz u have to help her and just say to her sry but im busy or i have to blah blah blah
hmm thats a tuffy i would probably help her out but then again I am the one who gets taking advantage as well so i dont know im sorry i wish i could be a better help but i'm the same as you :(
dont do it mel. shes just trying to get a free ride, let the other group of girls help her.
and its retarded that shes asking for your help at whatever time suits her, thats bullshit. i say be an asshole. let her figure it out on her own. just get YOUR studying done and ace that mafugga!
if you're gut instinct tells you that you're being taken advantage of...do something about it...i had the same problem with a person who did the same thing totally ignored me in class and around campus but in class they were like my best friend soo i say don't answer the phone if you feel bad or just tell her straight out that you're busy and have you're own things to take care of...hope everything turns out okay for ya :)
My advice to you if she needs your help, help her.. but know your boundaries.. nobody likes to be treated like a doormat! If u do good to others and good deeds will come to you! U know, this might actually benefit u in a way..
0:36 She is the dumbest person I ever met! LOL.
I hope that turned out alright for you!
JPa311979 2 years ago
It's a catch 22 situation (no not really)... It's really up to you baby girl, if you want to help like if you feel bad for her like "what if I was in her shoes", then go for it, Karma is all over the place... If not then screw that girl, she'll get some one else to help her... That's the best I can give babez
DyceTVChannel32 2 years ago
you have big ass eyes. WANT!
Yawrrr 2 years ago
aren't you ever worried the people you talk about will see your videos? do you get recognized at school from your videos? :O
Blade025 2 years ago
Hi
All you have to do, is face her and tell her the truth. You will be more worried and thinking about her now, and if you tell her to stop calling or I don't want to help...then you can study more and not worry.
Just got to tell her person the truth.
dsharpe4308 2 years ago
she knows where you live!! you better move and change your number
MisterDHM 2 years ago
Melissa im just like u
IGNORE that bitch
they always get what they want
then FORGET u
let her study it by herself
or find herself another FREE tutor!
PainfulTruthTV 2 years ago
well, u won't be an asshole, the stupid idiot needs to try to figure the shit out on her own, instead of getting people to do her work for her. Just tell her to fuck off and try to do the work by herself. There is no reason u should be taken advantage of.
CostonHell 2 years ago
don't help her she is using u because she isn't reading the book and it asking you to do it because u did and don't worry i have the same prob
dragonire64 2 years ago
HA! well melly girl u being used by that bitch xD
believe me cause im a veeery dumb person so i should know how it is to ask ppl 4 help
and if she just says it like that intead of asking like"can u help me 2morrow?" then that bitch is just interested in herself and when ppl start saying no to her then shes gonna be in trouble and realize all that shit so for now just ignore her or tell her"bitch im busy i got other things to do 2 ya know so ask the other smart ppl ok!"
XD
love ya mely
ILikeGemoS 2 years ago
Make a study group with her, but if she is holding you back... Ditch her ass... Help those who help themselves. Maybe shes not getting it because shes NOT READING THE BOOK! She waits for everyone else to figure stuff out for her. Dont feed people like that.
andrefrbk 2 years ago
nice to see the rest of the world is as unwilling as i.
MelissaAcid 2 years ago
Short answer...eff her.
She sounds like she's just using you. If she atleast attempted to create a friendship then i might think different but if she only calls you when she needs something then she is taking advantage of you.
emo18 2 years ago
lol looking pretty !! shirt looks nice
hectorste1 2 years ago
She's not a friend of yours so you're not obligated to help her at all. Just tell her you have alot to worry about too so u can't help her. Don't feel bad. You're awesome
Lance491 2 years ago
I like this girl you are talking about because she is doing the smart thing by not hurting her head.
Dont help her unless it makes you feel fullfilled. I teach martial arts for free( My private lessons were very expensive to)but I am getting experience teaching and I like it because its my passion.
Unless its your passion then dont do it.
Do only what feels good for you. She can take care of herself, just like u are taking care of yourselves.U both have the same capabilitys.
Peace
Fastdogg562 2 years ago
If you answer your phone and it doesnt feel good, you are disconnecting yourself from your source energy.
Source energy is who you are, it is when you are happy and thriving. When you are sad you are no longer connected.
Peace out!
Fastdogg562 2 years ago
wouldnt teaching someone else the material be like the ultimate way of studying yourself? personally i just wouldnt answer the phone but if ya said she came to your apartment she might decide to pop in univited if she's already the taking advantage type...
depitydog 2 years ago
don't help her! think about your self! sorry i sound so mean!
ramonrios01 2 years ago
dont help her, I have seen people like this (for some reason they areall girls) all through high school and Univeristy.. I have never figured out what they think of themselves but as soon as they are don with the help, they just dissappear nad may not remember your name till the next time they need your help
KOGR11 2 years ago
I hate situations like this! I guess in reality you shouldn't help her (at least not every time), but I understand that it's hard not to. I'm the same way. Good luck with all of this(:
Hayley9351 2 years ago
thanks guys!
MelissaAcid 2 years ago
dont help her coz it will start effecting ur grades as u will be focusing on her and im sure she will get in ur way like maybe u wanna relax or u wanna go somewhere but u cant coz u have to help her and just say to her sry but im busy or i have to blah blah blah
rodaz440 2 years ago
i wouldn't
she's only using you for your smarts
she shouldn't go to college if she doesn't know anything
what a dumb shit
....
her not you
TheIncredibleLaken 2 years ago
hmm thats a tuffy i would probably help her out but then again I am the one who gets taking advantage as well so i dont know im sorry i wish i could be a better help but i'm the same as you :(
rgdvm93 2 years ago
dont do it mel. shes just trying to get a free ride, let the other group of girls help her.
and its retarded that shes asking for your help at whatever time suits her, thats bullshit. i say be an asshole. let her figure it out on her own. just get YOUR studying done and ace that mafugga!
jriktor 2 years ago
if you're gut instinct tells you that you're being taken advantage of...do something about it...i had the same problem with a person who did the same thing totally ignored me in class and around campus but in class they were like my best friend soo i say don't answer the phone if you feel bad or just tell her straight out that you're busy and have you're own things to take care of...hope everything turns out okay for ya :)
joedenlop44 2 years ago
My advice to you if she needs your help, help her.. but know your boundaries.. nobody likes to be treated like a doormat! If u do good to others and good deeds will come to you! U know, this might actually benefit u in a way..
DOP3NESS 2 years ago
i think that she uses people
idk
don't help her xd
she's taking advantage of you and of them too
Honguitalili 2 years ago
yeah, you should definitely be straight up with her and just.. not help out.
there's also definitely no reason for you to feel obliged.
she sounds like a bitch aaaand really stupid , how'd she even get in ?!
Tatt17 2 years ago
if u feel like ur being takin advantage of then EFF it dont pick up the phone
Jmorales916 2 years ago