Ed Tate | 2000 World Champion of Public Speaking | How to deal with bullies

[iiisuu]

Let your respective deity protect you from relying on buying advice from people like Ed. I am assuming he got money from those poor bastards for telling them things 99% of them already knew at least 99% about. Use your head. Be kind to people. Learn shit. It's not that gosh-darn hard.

[stolencheezburger]

@iiisuu

"learn shit"

That's totally not vague at all...

[windex1234]

lol love it.

[TheProjectskate]

kids who get bullied should kill themselves for being fagets

[wonkeytjuuuh]

Only if i had hat much confidence..

[colyheaven]

YOU ARE AMAZING! thanks for this!

[sushiboyjunya]

@UrbanVapo You are stupid, man! How can you even say that?! You have no idea, how many innocent lives were lost in the terrorism in Ground 0, the earthquakes and tsunamis in Japan, and the riot in London! People care about you, dumbass! You're mother, father, friends, teachers, they can all be reliable. They can help, and don't keep it to yourself, it's not your fault. However, if you honestly want to kill your self, then you are a selfish bitch.

[MrSebastiansek]

awesome !!!!

[thatkid1396]

the best speech i have ever listened to... :o

[Theultimategeeks101]

Tonight I'm going to track lessons, and tonight I'm going to stand up to the bullies there who are picking on my friends. Thank you for the confidence.

[mrmojomen25]

HEY NIGGER!!!!!!! scared me

[mas6o0ol100]

I simply did it!

your awesome.

[nicktesla45]

This is all very cute and Interesting BUT still BULLSHIT ! The real Realistic Answer is to take Martial Arts and stick to it until you get the Black Belt like I did ! Kenpo Karate is the Answer ! Get the Black Belt in that and You will Know what REAL CONFIDENCE IS !!

[melamanda100]

@UrbanVapo Don't ever consider doing something like that......I am very sorry you feel that way, just don't act on it!! There is nothing wrong with YOU, but there's plenty wrong with your Bullies!! So remember that, they are sad people on the inside and looking for someone pick on to make them look better and feel better!!

[UrbanVapo]

so you just fight fire with fire?

wouldnt work for me

theres a whole classroom against me, channelling all their negative energy out to me

i honestly feel like suicide

[gavinspwnsall]

@UrbanVapo Don't do that get an adult to help you kick their ass. Just kidding don't commit suicide just get an adult or a friend to help ya out

[gavinspwnsall]

@UrbanVapo Don't do that get an adult to help you kick their ass. Just kidding don't commit suicide just get an adult or a friend to help ya out or the police u can do that to

[XXthebioshockfanXX]

thanks man 

[lunick32]

i cna't excactly beat the crap out of everyone though can i?

[TEST99able]

Best advice of my life, if i had a dollar for this advice all the time, id had a dollar

[614grind]

I'm sure he's had his fair share of bullies with those plucked eyebrows.

[PokerVertigo]

When this guy got to the 3rd bully, he just turned completely full of shit... You CAN go to the police and they will intervene... They ask you "Did he threaten you?"... You say "yes.. this is what he said".. They intervene... Maybe in his day they didn't, but I doubt it.

[sweetdreaming4u]

no no no you never solve anything with violence my best advice is let god deal with it, he'll help you.

[ilovekaiana1]

@sweetdreaming4u god doesnt exist dumbass and he cant help you beat someones ass who deserves it

[ArmyRangerish]

hey nigger!

[persianwarrior02]

Hire an assasin. :)

[FarmGiraffe]

From experience, the best way to deal with a bully isn't necessarily to punch him in the face. Psychological tactics work best. It is most effective to scare the bully in a metaphorical or indirect way. Eventually, you'll learn how to do this by yourself.

[zhetya]

when it comes to payback?

make sure you leave a mark for them to remember in his lifetime

like broke his leg or poke his/her eyes till it ruptured :D

[sweetdreaming4u]

@zhetya uh...no.

[zhetya]

@sweetdreaming4u why not?

you can worried about jail later anyway

[tobysoter]

Beat em up

[kotsio4]

i have been bullying by a stupid 16 year old.. thats my age too.. i am 53 kg and i try to ignore him but he keeps bothering me... i do everything he says and i take it as a joke but he is always crossing the limits.. i am known in my commuity and everybody are strong.. but he dowsn't know!! i cannot face him because he have some strong pals too... i am not a man of fights and i want to go away from him!!! what do i do??? :-(

[cwalktalk1]

It takes 17 muscles to frown but t only takes four to hit em in the face.

[TheRockbunny11]

thank you! :')

[KiropLokiIncarnate]

punch em in the fucking teeth

[AltamontKiller]

try thinking like a bully instead of hating them..............

[gat0rbball]

Best handling of a bully I got...senior year of high school. A guy cornered me with 2 of his football buddies b4 a basketball game(we were all on the team). He said he had watched a boxin movie and that he was jacked up and would fight me now(he had been talking crap the whole day). Well I said no...waited till after the game told him to wait in the locker room(after his buddies left). told him if he tried that again I would hospitalize him, didnt care what happened to me in the process either.

[ixtapa180]

just tell your self its not right repeatedly and your mind will solve it trust me it works every time

[AbercrombieRockkz]

Im being bullied nd the bully has told eeryone rumors about me nd no one believes me nd no one can help me . Nd the bully is like , she would txt me saying " Dt be fake with me , if yu are going to be fake with me ill tell everyone yur stupid secret" Nd iyt makes me think about suicide more nd more...Nd iim just so scared because this has been going on for 2 yearrs now . Nd i am so scared...i dnt eat alot , ii dnt get enough sleep at night...ii dnt cmmunicate with people. Im scared....

[trainmaster5000]

@AbercrombieRockkz - Suicide is the easy way out. Remember - what doesn't kill you with make you stronger. FIRST define who you are as a person - Get involved with your school and your community and make a difference - stand out from the rest. Once you are confident with who you are and what you STAND FOR. No rumor or secret spilling will affect you. Ghandi and Mandela are examples of people faced scrutiny. If they had killed themselves%vice20what kind of world would we be living in?

[Valeria30]

@AbercrombieRockkz Hang in there. Bullies get their twisted thrills on picking on others that they think are weaker than them. You have the inner strength to get through this. You don't have to be physically stronger or the most popular kid in the school. Just follow this man's advice, to stand up for yourself and keep your dignity. Use your mind and your words to be the better person. Best wishes to you! There's people in the world you don't even know who are cheering you on!

[Valeria30]

@AbercrombieRockkz PS... and don't be ashamed or afraid to go to your parents or school officials about this either.

[333handsomesons]

this is the best advice ever!!!! thanks.

[fireninja529]

No wonder he's good he's Obama's brother

[TACOSDUDE123]

this is really good advice and im goin to highschool

[KazakhstanKid1994]

There is this autistic kid training with my team at the moment, and some of us are teasing him, making jokes about him. It's quite upsetting, he knows no one there, and he gets treated like shit. If I help him, I might get the same treatment. What should I do?

[dallasgangsta187]

powerful

[gamemastervideo]

wtf i jumped on the chair when he shouts "HEY NIGGER!!!!!" oh mah god hes giving me a heart attack

[crzybtch1000]

i hate life i get a group of 5 bullies picking on me everyday i just dont know what to do i know i could easily pound the crap out of everyone of them but thats only if theyre on their own if i were to smash one in they all would get on me and pummel me can someone help me? please

-reguards

[Ulwik002]

@crzybtch1000 make an attack plan, take them out one by one, on the same day, but only do this if you're ready for war, because there will probably be a couple of weeks of hell afterwards, hopefully they will stop picking on you, or at least show some respect. I had the same problem, chose violence, I never got picked on again, but it still didn't make me friends, only peace and respect. I was still alone though...

[TBSful]

@crzybtch1000 did ever try to snitch ?

[snakesnoozer]

I could have used this yesterday, but hey I know for next time...

[lancethrustworthy]

A well crafted and delivered speech. Bravo.

1. Take a stand

2. Don't let fear freeze you

3. If you have the time, think about ALL your options before the showdown.

[chee006]

OMG you're so AWESOME

[jtking2504]

Eddy, thank you a million times over. You are such an inspiration, I will watch this whenever I need reminding how to tackle the bullies in life, you have taught me this like no one else ever could.

[i4l2a6]

my bully is 5 foot 6 im 6 foot he is a short fatass in athletics who works out every day im in p.e thin and workout only when i feel like it i was scared until he hit me in the back of the head at that point i couldnt take it no more i stood up got in front of him punched as hard as i could he fell i got introuble but let me tell you something it is all worth it in the end i might have got sent to detention for 3 months but it is worth it he hasnt even looked at me any more since then GOOD LUCK

[weirdproductions09]

this brought me to tears, I'm being bullyed, and hell, it's not a nice feeling.

I've told the school headteacher, and senior management staff, and they are dealing with it.

i was punched, around the face today, hard, and hell...it hurt.

but theres two things, this video inspired me to stand up, and I'm going to talk to this bully, and hope he realises what he's getting himself into. wish me luck..

[Tranquility333]

Sometimes verbal communication alone will not be enough to de-escalate negative or violent situations. Take war for example. Bullying is a translation for "power feeding". Bullies like to use victims to help boost their ego in front of public eye to gain social status. The same concept works with politics and war. The only difference between a bully and a politician of war is education and experience. The bully gains public status, a politician of war gains votes. Makes sense huh?

[snakesnoozer]

@Tranquility333 So what do I do when verbal doesnt work?

[Tranquility333]

Bullies have power when they have successfully ingrained fear upon the victim. Once the victim is chained by fear, they will be more prone to fulfill the bullies ambitions. The government has immense power by making people adhere to the imaginary monetary system. If money is created and gauged by governmental opinion, and exerts control by this method, people will fear to disobey governmental ambitions, despite the superficial paper because money is deeply rooted into the economy.

[rifleman4life]

@weirdproductions09 So what happened? did you confront this guy?

[SuperSean32]

You made me jump when you screamed, hey nigg##. My mind was off and my volume was very loud. Thanks for the video!

[bazman2k7]

thats amazing..

[sandyman002]

Thanks for the best advice anyone's ever givin me.

[blackhorse1988]

Brilliant commen sense. Especually with the last bit. Where it seems that you can get help from no one, you might be surprised as to how much more threatening the idea of prison, lawsuits, and the loss of one's future could ever be than someone simply threatening to assault you.

[squeeky212]

I agree...I don't recommened fighting at all, but with my first bully what I did was I grabbed his wrist just above his hand and twisted it all the way around. After that, he never messed with my. Another thing I tried with a bully was to squeeze the muscle between his shoulder and neck.

[x7503d]

your words are golden.. you speak the truth..

[DeathX42]

nice