its just hair!!! if you think about it....hair doesnt matter, it doesnt help people out, or is something useful like hands or feet, she looks the same with or without, she is verry pretty
When I shaved my head back in august I went to a bar-b-que and this boy from my high school came up to me and said "I prefer girls with long hair" I was so taken back by his statement I couldn't say anything. I wish I could have said something. I think about that all the time
I totally get how you feel. The exact same thing happens with me & my cutting. Personally I think you look amazing with long hair & short hair. Don't listen to people's shit, you don't need that
You are an absolutely beautiful, inspirational person. I wish my uncle could have seen your videos. Maybe then, he wouldn't have felt so alone. He had trich, too, and nobody really noticed, for some reason, how sad he was, or that he pulled. He killed himself on July 23, 1977, and was only 18 years, 3 months, and 13 days old. If only he was born later. Maybe you or someone else making similar videos could have saved him and maybe I could have gotten to know him. ...I'm going to cry now.
I don't know why people say that, but you're beautiful! Even with short hair! Cuz you've got a beautiful face and surely a beautiful heart... Don't let people get under your skin with their stupid things, honey . :) <3
fuck them haters, your beautiful, amazing, inspirational, and shouldn't give a flying duck about what others say, it's not 'just hair' it's a YOUR mark of courage. Keep that in mind hun, your beautiful and don't EVER let anyone drag you down. Stay strong!! Sometimes the easiest way in life just isn't the right way!
I didnt know of this disorder till I watched your video, you answered alot of questions and I am so sorry it has to be that way.. you are gorgeous take it for who you are someone will love you for who you are.. be strong I see you as gorgeous.
Hmm.... I think I may have this. I wouldn't have even thought about it till I seen your videos.
I'm a guy and quite a hairy guy at that, lots of body hair, with big bald patches in.
Anyway, I wish you luck! I've honestly went through your videos for the last hour and I can see how wonderful a person you can be, so smile as much as you can! (As well as nail biting, my fingers are terrible, usually bleeding and the tips are calloused. But I have been trying to stop, unsuccessfully)
Hmm.... I think I may have this. I wouldn't have even thought about it till I seen your videos.
I'm a guy and quite a hairy guy at that, lots of body hair, with big bald patches in.
Anyway, I wish you luck! I've honestly went through your videos for the last hour and I can see how wonderful a person you can be, so smile as much as you can! (As well as nail biting, my fingers are terrible, usually bleeding and the tips are calloused. But I have been trying to stop, unsuccessfully)
I think you are extremely beautiful with long hair AND short hair. Ignore the haters, because there is only one of you and you very beautiful. Just remember that :)
as you say..its just hair sand i personally think that you are pretty which hair or without and people shouldn't care what you look like, you look pretty, but its whats in the inside that matters.. and people who say that to you( nasty comments) are just stupid and i would laugh if they went through what people with trich or wrose....dont listen to those nasty comments cos they r just trolls with no life
These must have been horrible and degrading to here. I'm sorry that you had to go through this. But, as a question, what are some trich responses that you like to hear? If it's hurtful when people tell you to stop pulling, do you want people to tell you it's okay to pull? I'm confused/curious.
@BobJoeIsSex96 telling a person with trichotillomania to just stop pulling is like telling an alcoholic to just stop drinking, it isn't as simple as that. it is a involuntary compulsion that we cannot cure. you probably mean well by saying it but its hurtful because it sounds like you aren't being understanding/empathic about what the person is going through. if we could stop pulling we would have done so already y'know?
@elunora I understand that it's something that is a far greater force than the word 'stop', but I'm wondering what kind of responses people suffering from this condition would like receive. With the 'pulling' response, would they/you rather that it was just not mentioned? I just want to understand better. I'd like a better idea of what to say if I met something in this situation.
You are beautiful no matter the length of your hair, never let anyone say to you different -3 people don't realise the affects on people of the things they say, they are just stupid, to be quite honest; they don't know how you really truly feel until they have went through the situation you are in. I believe you can get through this and I'm sure millions of others do :) xx
Dont listen to them stupid idiots, they only want to make you react to them. They dont understand what its like for you at all. Just keep going and I wish you all the luck, I have short hair and I hate it but I think your face and eyes got perfectly with your hair or not:)
ok ive figured it out.. if there isnt one, they should invent a cream that causes rapid facial hair growth and then one could be weened off pulling head hair and begin pulling the unwanted facial hair.. the urge to pull the hair is fulfilled and the head stays warm. no but seriously my gf has this on not such a severe scale and its crap :( you beckie are an awesome person
Regardless of your feelings towards Beckie and her choice of emotional outlet, you clearly have little to no understanding of the disorder. Call it "attention seeking" if you like, but coming across her blog gave me a little peace in knowing I'm not the only one, and I happen to like the way in which she does it.
"This disease is as big as you make it be": untrue.I have trich. I've had it since I was 12, I've rarely discussed it with friends or family, It is my secret. I have tried to ignore it, tried to keep busy and get on with my life in hope that I would just stop.. that doesn't work. To simplify your argument, your quite clearly saying "jut stop it" ..Wow if someone had just told me that sooner!
ConeRulezZ as informed as you may wish to come across on the subject, you clearly are not. trichotillomania is not a disease, it is an impulse control disorder, therefore your " faculty of reason" argument is simply irrelevant here, and considering trich is one of many impulse control disorders, are you suggesting that "faculty of reason" should over ride hundreds of scientific studies.
Oh honey, I'm with you. I get it. Been suffering since the age of 6. I know far too well the shame others try to saddle you with. You are brave and beautiful and I so wish I'd met someone like you when I was growing up. I'm proud of you - keep talking, people need to hear this.
you're inspring and beautfil, wise and creative and amazing in every way possible. I'm a mega fan of yours and i truly look up to you. you inspire me, move me, drive me to keep going, make me stop, think, do. allt hsoe people who don't understand why and what youre doing are just stupid and shouldnt even be taking notice of it anyway. it's just what you do, and you can't help it and i aknowladge that. never stop being yourself because i (and lots of other people) love who you are <3
people are ignorant and close minded. WHO NEEDS TO SHUT THE FUCK UP. you are beautiful!!! long, short, with or with out you hair. you still look amazing, but inside and out. hair does not make a person, so why should it matter in the first place. just keep your head up high!!!
If anyone who says those things to Rebecca is looking - YOU ARE AN INCONSIDERATE TWIT. HOW WOULD YOU LIKE IT PEOPLE WENT UP TO AND SAID "Baldy!" NOT A NICE IDEA, IS IT? SO GET A LIFE.
If Becky sees this - you are amazing for carrying on like this. I know you said you don't deserve sympathy, and I'm not trying to coo over it, but I honestly don't believe anyone in their right mind should tease you about it. If they do, they're only hurting their reputation. You'll come out on top, believe me.
I'm sorry if I made a few errors there, but I'm just so MAD that people would do that to Becky! She's a good honest person and she doesn't deserve to be called names or teased!
Trichotillomania or not you are beautiful no matter how u look, people that say things about u are losers and don't deserve to live, there should be more people like u in the world you are my role model xxxx after seeing your hair i to cut mine short xxxxxxxxx
Every time I see this video,I cry cause I hate see people go through things like this. Things they can't stop and they get hate for it. It makes me upset to see someone who is as lovely as you go through something like this. Don't listen to the haters, they are jealous because someone as beautiful as you can be strong and get through things (and can pull off anything - loving the short hair by the way :)). You are beautiful no matter what people say. You inspire people. And I love you <3 :)
you are such a insparational person i am zahra and i am 12 i think you are amazing , kind , funny and SO many more beautiful things ! you are amazing to be able to tell the world about yourself ! and i love your aksent (im not good at spelling lol) YOU are MY rolemodel
I can relate to this video so well and I find it inspiring how you get out there and talk about it and how you can speak about it to people all around the world...
I could never do something like this... I had something similar going on recently in my life... When I told my parents about it they called me pathetic and didn't even try to talk about it afterwards...
Your video has made me feel better.... I can't thank you enough for being the person that you are...
It is impossible for someone without a compulsive condition to understand. I do not have one and I most certainly do not understand. Good luck to you. Truly.
I never knew about this disorder, it is out of the norm and I figure that's why people act this way. But of course the people who act in a foul manner or those that aren't very bright and lack intelligence. I know what you mean I had an impulse to scratch my gums until they bled.
i know how it feels when people say stuff like that but i take the high road and you are buetiful just the way you are so dont ever think your not and that goes to everybody else love girl who should not be named
think of it this way any one who can critisise a beutifal girl like you for a single flaw obviously has far more probs. than you and dont give up hope jusst look at all these coments there suporting you are an amazing person
F**k anyone who says that to you, they are absolutely ignorants. Don't think of this as a sympathy or something, for I truely love you the way you are (with hair or without hair) doesn't matter, you are absolutely beautiful! Absolutely inspiring and probably the first western girl I liked so far!
Much respect and love to you, from Pashtunistan :)
I don't have trich, but I do have moderate (severe?) OCD. I have also been a nail-biter for six years and can't control it. I get the same comments all the time.
No, I can't "just stop" doing things a certain number of times, spending hours redoing assignments over and over again because they're not good enough, biting my nails until they bleed, etc. If I could stop, I would. I don't care if you ask questions, no matter how ignorant. Just don't tell me to "quit it" like this is all my fault...
Your videos are so good! Its great to see you sticking up for yourself! Your videos are funny at times too x Well done you, and screw the bitches who said that stuff!
i love you your hair your eyes your smile your beautiful dont let any other bitchy person tell you different if they do give me their adress and i will kick their ass!ps;<3
I had a girl come up to me in front of everyone and ask if I had cancer , and a boy asked me "where did you get your ugly hair cut at?" things like that Hurt, beckie your not on your own. I've considered suicide but, watching your videos made me stop -3
@Samylea100 do this is about your suicide thing, 7 months ago, I ended up homeless, beteayed, starving, and alone, I passed a car doing almost 50, and I rammed a truck, it was bad enough that the drivers thoug I was dead, I got up, and rode tje the brigde and passed out in the middle of our abanded brigde, the next day, I got a place to live, foos, friends, amd hope. It left me scarred a.but Im glad I survived. Its not wortj it... I cant use my left shoulder much anymore, Im 20...
@Samylea100 it was but look at me now, I finnaly did it, and Im more or lesshappy, Ive actuually got a job application, U hope my shoulders better lol, I feel like I may finnaly get things in order lol
such a vibrant and talented young lady....growing up while learning to cope with a disorder she has no control over seeking/discovering a sense of self and normalcy (whatever that may be)...growing up isn't difficult enough I suppose? hang in there Becky, one never knows what life has in store ...the video expressions are great and will serve you! you are developing a talent that might have otherwise gone uncultivated....small consolation!
I looked this condition up some time ago, as I often find myself fiddling with my eyebrow hair when reading particularly complicated paperwork. Even if I can't remember reading something, I can tell that I must have, because there are eyebrow hairs amongst the pages! Thankfully, that's the extent of my impulse. Thanks for your wonderful videos.
i have Trich, and i've heard everything that you said in this video...but honestly, the one that hurts the most for me at least, is "why can't you just stop?". people don't understand that IT'S NOT THAT EASY!
You. Are. Beautiful. No matter what you look like. Bald or not, who the hell cares? What matters is the person you are inside. And from what I've seen on here, you seem like an awesome person (and I love your accent :-P ). So try not to worry about what others think or say. Easier said than done I know, I'm a victim of bullying myself, but just remember whenever you hear/read a comment that upsets you what my mother says: you are beautiful because and in spite of everything that happens to you.
You are the first trichster to make me cry. I have it too, but am mainly a skin picker. Every time you said "just stop it" is where it really hit hard. I know the pain and disappointment you see in someone's face when they catch you and even worse your own pain and disappointment. Its always nice to be reminded that you're not alone in the world. <3
oops you have trichotillomania, I got that confused with Alopecia {involuntary hair loss} sometimes i get the 2 mixed up. I still wonder if the auto-immune diseases are not related?
I just watched the time lapse and wondered what the motive behind the baldness was. But I didn't really care I just kept thinking how stunningly beautiful you are! You are really really lovely. I'm sorry that you have tricho, it's an auto-immune disease I know. Does lupus or any other auto immune diseases run in your family? They seem to be genetic and change forms. Lupus and or celiac or MS etc. what a fun gal you are keep it up! HUGS
@gdgfhgffjedsgf How the fuck can you find anything funny. Its not funny that she is hurt by these comments, in fact YOU are just as bad as the cunts posting the original comments!
Ms Rebecca..please please please dont listen to these cruel,heartless,thoughtless, uncouth,and classless assholes on here that love nothing more than to cause discord and heartache,you are a beautiful (yes i sincerely think that) inspiring and wonderful human being with loads more courage and heart than most of the people i have met in life. What you do on here counts,your words,your thoughts count to many that suffer this condition along with you please remember that.be cool and god bless=)
Its like biting your nails. Hurts like hell and is unsightly but you get addicted to the buzz of pain and its hard to describe why you do it to those that dont.
1:03 if I went that way, i would love to have you as a girlfreand :) u r so much more real then any of the other girls i know and im so glad that you do these videos. personaly, i like your hair just the way it is, but i judg u by your heart, not your hair! u are awsome, hang in there :)
and, I honestly think that the short hair suits you better than the long hair. You are so beautiful and cute and just let stupid people talk... that's the only thing that they can do. I know how it feels to be called an attention seeking person. It is horrible but after a while you know that you are.. well.. better then these people because they are just fixed on the look of a person and not the inner beauty.
@pie0eater For the first, I think you look very beautiful, Beckie!
And for the second to you Pieeater, you should be ashamed of yourself. Beckie want's to be bald and you can't stop her when you say that's she's ugly, cause she aren't, and I think a lot of people would say that she's prettier than you.
you amis me with your attitude your absoluttli cool beutiful and cute i wold love to be your friend and never stop huging you i just saw exactli 20 of your videos and liked them all besides for this on for seing you so saad and upset i will give thumbs up for all your videos and i wish you best luck for your futher live and carear sorry for all the errors in this litthle message
i only had englich for 1year and out of free will so all that isent wirten wrong is du to me and not to school it must be horefic for you to reed this as e Librerian that for once again i'm sorry XOXO <- this maens hugs an kisses or kisses and hugs if you dont want them just dont mind i realy Like you and wath you do and how you have growen up to be and preety sure how you will becom again sorry i'd Love to be able to wirt error free but that woldent be me i gues :-) keep up the great job
"No one wants a bald girlfriend." Wow. That is possibly the most callous, despicable thing someone could say to someone as beautiful as yourself. I'm sure you'll meet someone who loves your hair shaved. You do have a lovely shaped head, after all. ^-^ If I didn't know what trich was, and I was your friend, I think my initial questions would be about your emotional well-being and if I could do something. Can't believe- well, actually, I can- some people would say these things. Stay strong! :)
When you said that "Did you get a haircut?" bit, I actually loved your hair. You are one of those girls that look beautiful with any type of hairstyle, whether that involves hair or not. (:
Beckie, I think you look adorable with short hair. With the shorter hair, we all can see your gorgeous blue eyes and your amazing facial bone structure.
You should move to my town. Everyone here shaves off half their hair and has these buzzed cut words on their scalp. They do it purposely. You'd fit right in :D
gosh people who say crap llike this just have no right she is realy nice no matter wat if somebody said something like that to me i would knock them out
Your absolutely inspiring. Your an amazing person, and you have a beautiful personality, and appearance. Keep living your life in the best way you see fit, and please remember that most people are just ridiculously ignorant.
I just found your channel the other day, and I can't believe some of the things people can say to a complete stanger. As far as I'm concerned, from what I have seen on your videos, your personality is incredible, your editing skills are outstanding, and hair or no hair you are beautiful. So don't listen to what anyone has to tell you. You are perfect the way you are!
To be honest, when you record yourself with shiny tears on your face and over-expose your issues to the Internet like this, one has to wonder whether you're attention-seeking. Obviously you would not be "bullied" (i.e., asked a number of understandable questions) if you didn't pathologically flaunt your baggage to thousands of people who don't know you.
Feel sorry for yourself, call me mean, idgaf I'm way crazier than you. It's just hair.
"Are you a boy or a girl?" Christ I'm glad I'm not the only one whose got that...I've got alopecia, so inevitably I get a heck of a lot of cancer comments - often from strangers in the street or while Im waiting at the bus stop or something. Very bizarre.
it is not the way you look or what people think but what you do that defines who you are. Beauty is the person not a hair style. The fact you have the courage to do these videos in the first place should tell you alot about the person your becoming. Your a beautiful young woman inside and out. PERIOD!
do teachers or bosses ever tell you to stop playing with your hair? i dont have this but i play with my hair alot and when i was in high school my teachers would ask me whats so interesting in my hair and just the other day my boss told me to stop playing with my hair at work so i figured must be the same but worse for you... this is a very pointless coment i think ill stop now
Hey, um i have this thing where i physically can't stop biting and riping skin of my lips. i'm 15 and i've been doing it for years, i can't stop. i don't know what it is
@EmiilyxIiI I also used 2 do this, there are many ways u can stop it, 1 way is 2 put a elastic band on ur wrist & ping it every time u bite/pick ur lip, this psycologically makes u not want 2 do it, however it hurts & I did it so often it didn't have an effect. Its normally caused by anxiety, stress or boredom. My mum help me by telling me 2 stop every time I did it - in a nice way - & distracted me when I did. The best thing is to wear lipgloss/vaseline all the time as its hard 2 pick ur lip.
i have a question please if anyone reads this reply !
i got kind of scared watching this i always like to pull my lashes together and play with them when there is mascara on my lashes (btw i dont pull thhem out)
Your perfect just the way you are!I know exactly what your going through,it's not a disease,or a mental illness,I don't know exactly what to call it,but noone should be ashamed of it<3
I think your mild Trichotillomanioa is just a side effect from a much worrying acute attention whore disorder, just switch off the camera and you'll be fine.
I have this and I always try to hide it. I know how you feel. I wish I could look as pretty as you wish no hair though ;)
TheTARDISCatcher 7 hours ago
Chin up girl. You're beautiful! Also, you're very talented. If you haven't thought of a career in the film industry, you should.
AingealGrl 12 hours ago
dont let them be mean to you you r beautiful!!!!!
GYRLZROCK2121 1 day ago
38 people are selfish and horribe
Cutelilprincessxxx 1 day ago
its just hair!!! if you think about it....hair doesnt matter, it doesnt help people out, or is something useful like hands or feet, she looks the same with or without, she is verry pretty
AJTutorials101 2 days ago
Seeing you sad makes me sad, then angry. Angry that people could say that.
To all you people who make fun of Trich, a big middle finger and fuck off.
TheWobWobWobber 3 days ago
When I shaved my head back in august I went to a bar-b-que and this boy from my high school came up to me and said "I prefer girls with long hair" I was so taken back by his statement I couldn't say anything. I wish I could have said something. I think about that all the time
mollybird123 3 days ago
Hi srry for you i whould never say such hurtful things to you just saying i with you :)
neverthurst14 3 days ago
you're so lovely no matter what. honestly.
hayhaykogo 4 days ago
I totally get how you feel. The exact same thing happens with me & my cutting. Personally I think you look amazing with long hair & short hair. Don't listen to people's shit, you don't need that
ChriissyXxx 4 days ago 6
You are an absolutely beautiful, inspirational person. I wish my uncle could have seen your videos. Maybe then, he wouldn't have felt so alone. He had trich, too, and nobody really noticed, for some reason, how sad he was, or that he pulled. He killed himself on July 23, 1977, and was only 18 years, 3 months, and 13 days old. If only he was born later. Maybe you or someone else making similar videos could have saved him and maybe I could have gotten to know him. ...I'm going to cry now.
leonardodavinci77 5 days ago
I don't know why people say that, but you're beautiful! Even with short hair! Cuz you've got a beautiful face and surely a beautiful heart... Don't let people get under your skin with their stupid things, honey . :) <3
tracytrenchcoat 5 days ago
I have tricotillomainia too and I have the hairdo of an old man. should I start makin videos like her or no like if yes
linzziscool16 5 days ago
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fuck them haters, your beautiful, amazing, inspirational, and shouldn't give a flying duck about what others say, it's not 'just hair' it's a YOUR mark of courage. Keep that in mind hun, your beautiful and don't EVER let anyone drag you down. Stay strong!! Sometimes the easiest way in life just isn't the right way!
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carlyw97ily 6 days ago
with TTM it make you special your amazing never forget that. SCREW YOU HATERS :P
moodymotha 6 days ago
I have a minor case of this, I only have small patches on the top of my head. I know how you feel. :):
TheTARDISCatcher 1 week ago
herr voice sounds like 7 of 9 on startrek voyager
crazygirl7456 1 week ago
I didnt know of this disorder till I watched your video, you answered alot of questions and I am so sorry it has to be that way.. you are gorgeous take it for who you are someone will love you for who you are.. be strong I see you as gorgeous.
ramihaygood 1 week ago
Nobody has the right to judge you EVER
Don't listen to the haters just be yourself because nobody can ever change who you are
Doctorwhofan21100 1 week ago
Hmm.... I think I may have this. I wouldn't have even thought about it till I seen your videos.
I'm a guy and quite a hairy guy at that, lots of body hair, with big bald patches in.
Anyway, I wish you luck! I've honestly went through your videos for the last hour and I can see how wonderful a person you can be, so smile as much as you can! (As well as nail biting, my fingers are terrible, usually bleeding and the tips are calloused. But I have been trying to stop, unsuccessfully)
Peace x
mohawkgarry 1 week ago
Hmm.... I think I may have this. I wouldn't have even thought about it till I seen your videos.
I'm a guy and quite a hairy guy at that, lots of body hair, with big bald patches in.
Anyway, I wish you luck! I've honestly went through your videos for the last hour and I can see how wonderful a person you can be, so smile as much as you can! (As well as nail biting, my fingers are terrible, usually bleeding and the tips are calloused. But I have been trying to stop, unsuccessfully)
Peace x
mohawkgarry 1 week ago
:-(
Pezzamus 1 week ago
I think you are extremely beautiful with long hair AND short hair. Ignore the haters, because there is only one of you and you very beautiful. Just remember that :)
Bellaio123 1 week ago
i have the same prob only with my eyelashes :-*
daisyhinojosa23 1 week ago
as you say..its just hair sand i personally think that you are pretty which hair or without and people shouldn't care what you look like, you look pretty, but its whats in the inside that matters.. and people who say that to you( nasty comments) are just stupid and i would laugh if they went through what people with trich or wrose....dont listen to those nasty comments cos they r just trolls with no life
EedieG 1 week ago 2
These must have been horrible and degrading to here. I'm sorry that you had to go through this. But, as a question, what are some trich responses that you like to hear? If it's hurtful when people tell you to stop pulling, do you want people to tell you it's okay to pull? I'm confused/curious.
BobJoeIsSex96 2 weeks ago
@BobJoeIsSex96 telling a person with trichotillomania to just stop pulling is like telling an alcoholic to just stop drinking, it isn't as simple as that. it is a involuntary compulsion that we cannot cure. you probably mean well by saying it but its hurtful because it sounds like you aren't being understanding/empathic about what the person is going through. if we could stop pulling we would have done so already y'know?
elunora 1 week ago
@elunora I understand that it's something that is a far greater force than the word 'stop', but I'm wondering what kind of responses people suffering from this condition would like receive. With the 'pulling' response, would they/you rather that it was just not mentioned? I just want to understand better. I'd like a better idea of what to say if I met something in this situation.
BobJoeIsSex96 1 day ago
How dare they judge you !
You are beautiful no matter the length of your hair, never let anyone say to you different -3 people don't realise the affects on people of the things they say, they are just stupid, to be quite honest; they don't know how you really truly feel until they have went through the situation you are in. I believe you can get through this and I'm sure millions of others do :) xx
MrROBOTARD 2 weeks ago
Dont listen to them stupid idiots, they only want to make you react to them. They dont understand what its like for you at all. Just keep going and I wish you all the luck, I have short hair and I hate it but I think your face and eyes got perfectly with your hair or not:)
I love you so much!
mylipstickwillstain 2 weeks ago
:'( *hugs* xxxx
teazekid 2 weeks ago
Your so beautiful!! I think your amazing, just believe that it will get better <3
*hug*
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ok for the people who make fun of her and make her fell really bad stop hatting !!!
beckie you are really beautiful dont let the hatters get you down :)
AnaAnxiety 2 weeks ago
I'm crying.
TeenyDratini 2 weeks ago
You are a hero kid, beautiful in every single way <3
MissScribbleMouse 2 weeks ago 24
you are beutiful in any way those people say that because there jelous of you and there probaly having the same problems
crazycolours125 2 weeks ago
I really love your face.
LateForHate 2 weeks ago
rebecca your beautiful:)
liviiiiaaabxo 2 weeks ago
ok ive figured it out.. if there isnt one, they should invent a cream that causes rapid facial hair growth and then one could be weened off pulling head hair and begin pulling the unwanted facial hair.. the urge to pull the hair is fulfilled and the head stays warm. no but seriously my gf has this on not such a severe scale and its crap :( you beckie are an awesome person
MrHkwt 2 weeks ago
i have major respect for people like Rebecca. I honestly love how she's so inspiring and speaks her feelings about trich.
reganlawlor 2 weeks ago
:( I'm sorry. People really don't realize how much words can hurt.
Eeekxx 2 weeks ago
jerks..
venus12704 2 weeks ago
Yea some people are such shallow and insensitive.
venus12704 2 weeks ago
you are such an inspiration, stay strong <3
clearlybay 2 weeks ago in playlist More videos from beckie0
you dont look like a boy you are sooooo pretty!! xxxx
ajawesome19 2 weeks ago
I wouldn't mind a bald girlfriend.
Wildal2000 2 weeks ago
Regardless of your feelings towards Beckie and her choice of emotional outlet, you clearly have little to no understanding of the disorder. Call it "attention seeking" if you like, but coming across her blog gave me a little peace in knowing I'm not the only one, and I happen to like the way in which she does it.
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"This disease is as big as you make it be": untrue.I have trich. I've had it since I was 12, I've rarely discussed it with friends or family, It is my secret. I have tried to ignore it, tried to keep busy and get on with my life in hope that I would just stop.. that doesn't work. To simplify your argument, your quite clearly saying "jut stop it" ..Wow if someone had just told me that sooner!
TheShan501 2 weeks ago
ConeRulezZ as informed as you may wish to come across on the subject, you clearly are not. trichotillomania is not a disease, it is an impulse control disorder, therefore your " faculty of reason" argument is simply irrelevant here, and considering trich is one of many impulse control disorders, are you suggesting that "faculty of reason" should over ride hundreds of scientific studies.
TheShan501 2 weeks ago
Oh honey, I'm with you. I get it. Been suffering since the age of 6. I know far too well the shame others try to saddle you with. You are brave and beautiful and I so wish I'd met someone like you when I was growing up. I'm proud of you - keep talking, people need to hear this.
meeps10 3 weeks ago
you're inspring and beautfil, wise and creative and amazing in every way possible. I'm a mega fan of yours and i truly look up to you. you inspire me, move me, drive me to keep going, make me stop, think, do. allt hsoe people who don't understand why and what youre doing are just stupid and shouldnt even be taking notice of it anyway. it's just what you do, and you can't help it and i aknowladge that. never stop being yourself because i (and lots of other people) love who you are <3
Mexena1 3 weeks ago
people are ignorant and close minded. WHO NEEDS TO SHUT THE FUCK UP. you are beautiful!!! long, short, with or with out you hair. you still look amazing, but inside and out. hair does not make a person, so why should it matter in the first place. just keep your head up high!!!
vikvik16 3 weeks ago
you they say the attention seeker? what? anyone saying this stuff is just jealous and seeking attention. <3
MrSIMSFreak1 3 weeks ago
If anyone who says those things to Rebecca is looking - YOU ARE AN INCONSIDERATE TWIT. HOW WOULD YOU LIKE IT PEOPLE WENT UP TO AND SAID "Baldy!" NOT A NICE IDEA, IS IT? SO GET A LIFE.
If Becky sees this - you are amazing for carrying on like this. I know you said you don't deserve sympathy, and I'm not trying to coo over it, but I honestly don't believe anyone in their right mind should tease you about it. If they do, they're only hurting their reputation. You'll come out on top, believe me.
jessiejfan5601 3 weeks ago
I'm sorry if I made a few errors there, but I'm just so MAD that people would do that to Becky! She's a good honest person and she doesn't deserve to be called names or teased!
jessiejfan5601 3 weeks ago
I try to watch this any time I pull really badly.
It helps so much, literally.
It helps. so much.
I love you.
mikaellaella 3 weeks ago
Trichotillomania or not you are beautiful no matter how u look, people that say things about u are losers and don't deserve to live, there should be more people like u in the world you are my role model xxxx after seeing your hair i to cut mine short xxxxxxxxx
OMGwowzersOMG 3 weeks ago
Every time I see this video,I cry cause I hate see people go through things like this. Things they can't stop and they get hate for it. It makes me upset to see someone who is as lovely as you go through something like this. Don't listen to the haters, they are jealous because someone as beautiful as you can be strong and get through things (and can pull off anything - loving the short hair by the way :)). You are beautiful no matter what people say. You inspire people. And I love you <3 :)
AMcFlyThing 3 weeks ago
Big Like !
OrSayag1 3 weeks ago
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Rebecca, you are the most beautiful person I have ever met.
becky8088 3 weeks ago
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becky8088 3 weeks ago
my life storyy..
emipacketchu 4 weeks ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
"Less me repeace thass." Stop trying so hard with the acting/elocution and I might sympathise.
ursie1986 1 month ago
@ursie1986 She's not acting....
myaminalcackers 1 month ago
you are such a insparational person i am zahra and i am 12 i think you are amazing , kind , funny and SO many more beautiful things ! you are amazing to be able to tell the world about yourself ! and i love your aksent (im not good at spelling lol) YOU are MY rolemodel
MsCheekymonkey007 1 month ago
I do not, and never have had trichatillomania (I hope I spelt it right) but I can tell you that I'm so freaking proud of you!!
dannidisasterful 1 month ago
I can relate to this video so well and I find it inspiring how you get out there and talk about it and how you can speak about it to people all around the world...
I could never do something like this... I had something similar going on recently in my life... When I told my parents about it they called me pathetic and didn't even try to talk about it afterwards...
Your video has made me feel better.... I can't thank you enough for being the person that you are...
<3
Je5mma 1 month ago
I honestly think you are so so so beautiful. Hair or no hair. :)
DearMeNoUserName 1 month ago
It is impossible for someone without a compulsive condition to understand. I do not have one and I most certainly do not understand. Good luck to you. Truly.
coolbji 1 month ago
I never knew about this disorder, it is out of the norm and I figure that's why people act this way. But of course the people who act in a foul manner or those that aren't very bright and lack intelligence. I know what you mean I had an impulse to scratch my gums until they bled.
Ecompass4 1 month ago
i know how it feels when people say stuff like that but i take the high road and you are buetiful just the way you are so dont ever think your not and that goes to everybody else love girl who should not be named
crazycolours125 1 month ago
You are my inspiration!!!! i love you <3 <3 you look amazingly beautiful in both ways with hair or without!!!!
cyrstalgemful 1 month ago
Serously this is exactly like cyber-bulling and you should be ashamed of YOURSELF and NOT HER!!!!!!
Hippio2 1 month ago
Try to ignore them. I know it's hard, but try. They have no right to say that stuff to you, I am sorry Beckie. :( xxxxxxxx
twilight111000222 1 month ago
think of it this way any one who can critisise a beutifal girl like you for a single flaw obviously has far more probs. than you and dont give up hope jusst look at all these coments there suporting you are an amazing person
poopsymcloopsy 1 month ago
F**k anyone who says that to you, they are absolutely ignorants. Don't think of this as a sympathy or something, for I truely love you the way you are (with hair or without hair) doesn't matter, you are absolutely beautiful! Absolutely inspiring and probably the first western girl I liked so far!
Much respect and love to you, from Pashtunistan :)
MsKash50 1 month ago 55
I don't have trich, but I do have moderate (severe?) OCD. I have also been a nail-biter for six years and can't control it. I get the same comments all the time.
No, I can't "just stop" doing things a certain number of times, spending hours redoing assignments over and over again because they're not good enough, biting my nails until they bleed, etc. If I could stop, I would. I don't care if you ask questions, no matter how ignorant. Just don't tell me to "quit it" like this is all my fault...
Mingchao 1 month ago
Your videos are so good! Its great to see you sticking up for yourself! Your videos are funny at times too x Well done you, and screw the bitches who said that stuff!
Chasestat2k 1 month ago
This Hurts Me Soo Much When You Play Chasing Cars In The Background...
ShoeboxFTW 1 month ago
People need to leave her alone. She's going through a hard time. She's still beautiful even when she goes bald.
SuperBlogTV 1 month ago
can someone tell me the name of her video where shes lip syncing to a song called "Bulletproof"
KeithWasHere1 1 month ago
how do you edit it so tht thers two of you in one scene e.g. 0:17
TheBananaCloud 1 month ago
But you're so so beautiful!
RubyKaitlin 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
any person who judges you by your hair isnt worth your time
XxJuNiOrxX99 1 month ago
you such a creative and beautiful person.
singingurl261 1 month ago
i love you your hair your eyes your smile your beautiful dont let any other bitchy person tell you different if they do give me their adress and i will kick their ass!ps;<3
horrormakeupgirl 1 month ago
I had a girl come up to me in front of everyone and ask if I had cancer , and a boy asked me "where did you get your ugly hair cut at?" things like that Hurt, beckie your not on your own. I've considered suicide but, watching your videos made me stop -3
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Cmjf00013 1 month ago
@Samylea100 do this is about your suicide thing, 7 months ago, I ended up homeless, beteayed, starving, and alone, I passed a car doing almost 50, and I rammed a truck, it was bad enough that the drivers thoug I was dead, I got up, and rode tje the brigde and passed out in the middle of our abanded brigde, the next day, I got a place to live, foos, friends, amd hope. It left me scarred a.but Im glad I survived. Its not wortj it... I cant use my left shoulder much anymore, Im 20...
Cmjf00013 1 month ago
@Cmjf00013 Omigosh, Thats horrible!
Samylea100 1 month ago
@Samylea100 it was but look at me now, I finnaly did it, and Im more or lesshappy, Ive actuually got a job application, U hope my shoulders better lol, I feel like I may finnaly get things in order lol
Cmjf00013 1 month ago
beautiful.
nbrockification 1 month ago
why are they saying this cuz ur really pretty with short hair like that i think!
Tiva6799 1 month ago
im sorry i thought you were sick........ your really pretty by the way!!!
Tiva6799 1 month ago
Dont worry. Don't let those people Who say all this stuff get to you. You are beautiful the way you are. -3 ;)
pokemons20 1 month ago
if it makes you feel better i have somthing like that i just cant stop scratching my head and i dont have any lice or anything!
cyrstalgemful 1 month ago
such a vibrant and talented young lady....growing up while learning to cope with a disorder she has no control over seeking/discovering a sense of self and normalcy (whatever that may be)...growing up isn't difficult enough I suppose? hang in there Becky, one never knows what life has in store ...the video expressions are great and will serve you! you are developing a talent that might have otherwise gone uncultivated....small consolation!
try yoga!
LOVE WINS!
C3digital 1 month ago
I looked this condition up some time ago, as I often find myself fiddling with my eyebrow hair when reading particularly complicated paperwork. Even if I can't remember reading something, I can tell that I must have, because there are eyebrow hairs amongst the pages! Thankfully, that's the extent of my impulse. Thanks for your wonderful videos.
roryoryan 1 month ago
i have Trich, and i've heard everything that you said in this video...but honestly, the one that hurts the most for me at least, is "why can't you just stop?". people don't understand that IT'S NOT THAT EASY!
EmoHartzz 1 month ago
Why are people so mean? It's a disorder! It's not like you can help it!! Have people really said all of things to you?!
cheetahluv16 1 month ago
You're so pretty!
echothechipette1 1 month ago
You. Are. Beautiful. No matter what you look like. Bald or not, who the hell cares? What matters is the person you are inside. And from what I've seen on here, you seem like an awesome person (and I love your accent :-P ). So try not to worry about what others think or say. Easier said than done I know, I'm a victim of bullying myself, but just remember whenever you hear/read a comment that upsets you what my mother says: you are beautiful because and in spite of everything that happens to you.
tika12001 1 month ago
You are the first trichster to make me cry. I have it too, but am mainly a skin picker. Every time you said "just stop it" is where it really hit hard. I know the pain and disappointment you see in someone's face when they catch you and even worse your own pain and disappointment. Its always nice to be reminded that you're not alone in the world. <3
mereSL 1 month ago
Is there a video of the clips of you in your pink & blue polka doted shirt cause I can't find it ._.
mikaellaella 1 month ago in playlist Liked videos
oops you have trichotillomania, I got that confused with Alopecia {involuntary hair loss} sometimes i get the 2 mixed up. I still wonder if the auto-immune diseases are not related?
strawberryme08 1 month ago
I just watched the time lapse and wondered what the motive behind the baldness was. But I didn't really care I just kept thinking how stunningly beautiful you are! You are really really lovely. I'm sorry that you have tricho, it's an auto-immune disease I know. Does lupus or any other auto immune diseases run in your family? They seem to be genetic and change forms. Lupus and or celiac or MS etc. what a fun gal you are keep it up! HUGS
strawberryme08 1 month ago
I just want to hug you.
Sporky0 1 month ago
i think its funny she believes these comments
gdgfhgffjedsgf 1 month ago
@gdgfhgffjedsgf How the fuck can you find anything funny. Its not funny that she is hurt by these comments, in fact YOU are just as bad as the cunts posting the original comments!
theclashrock09 1 month ago
Ms Rebecca..please please please dont listen to these cruel,heartless,thoughtless, uncouth,and classless assholes on here that love nothing more than to cause discord and heartache,you are a beautiful (yes i sincerely think that) inspiring and wonderful human being with loads more courage and heart than most of the people i have met in life. What you do on here counts,your words,your thoughts count to many that suffer this condition along with you please remember that.be cool and god bless=)
KeithWasHere1 1 month ago
who ever says these things are mean hurtfull people that dont see how pretty you are!
abbeylovespandas 1 month ago
Its like biting your nails. Hurts like hell and is unsightly but you get addicted to the buzz of pain and its hard to describe why you do it to those that dont.
truthseekers666 1 month ago
1:03 if I went that way, i would love to have you as a girlfreand :) u r so much more real then any of the other girls i know and im so glad that you do these videos. personaly, i like your hair just the way it is, but i judg u by your heart, not your hair! u are awsome, hang in there :)
artdeco6t6 1 month ago
There is nothing wrong with you girl... hell if you came over to Latvia, I'd sure have a beer with you ;)
viewer8D 1 month ago
I think your very pretty!
teddlyt 1 month ago
Oh wow you're ugly.
pie0eater 1 month ago
@pie0eater Oh wow you're stupid? ;-)
and, I honestly think that the short hair suits you better than the long hair. You are so beautiful and cute and just let stupid people talk... that's the only thing that they can do. I know how it feels to be called an attention seeking person. It is horrible but after a while you know that you are.. well.. better then these people because they are just fixed on the look of a person and not the inner beauty.
RikkuTaylor 1 month ago
@pie0eater For the first, I think you look very beautiful, Beckie!
And for the second to you Pieeater, you should be ashamed of yourself. Beckie want's to be bald and you can't stop her when you say that's she's ugly, cause she aren't, and I think a lot of people would say that she's prettier than you.
BlackActorMiguel 1 month ago
all of these responses are true tho...
haggiss 1 month ago
you amis me with your attitude your absoluttli cool beutiful and cute i wold love to be your friend and never stop huging you i just saw exactli 20 of your videos and liked them all besides for this on for seing you so saad and upset i will give thumbs up for all your videos and i wish you best luck for your futher live and carear sorry for all the errors in this litthle message
Zetugaluga 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
i only had englich for 1year and out of free will so all that isent wirten wrong is du to me and not to school it must be horefic for you to reed this as e Librerian that for once again i'm sorry XOXO <- this maens hugs an kisses or kisses and hugs if you dont want them just dont mind i realy Like you and wath you do and how you have growen up to be and preety sure how you will becom again sorry i'd Love to be able to wirt error free but that woldent be me i gues :-) keep up the great job
Zetugaluga 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos
"No one wants a bald girlfriend." Wow. That is possibly the most callous, despicable thing someone could say to someone as beautiful as yourself. I'm sure you'll meet someone who loves your hair shaved. You do have a lovely shaped head, after all. ^-^ If I didn't know what trich was, and I was your friend, I think my initial questions would be about your emotional well-being and if I could do something. Can't believe- well, actually, I can- some people would say these things. Stay strong! :)
benawisphoenix 1 month ago
eres jodidamente hermosa :)!
InuTre 1 month ago
When you said that "Did you get a haircut?" bit, I actually loved your hair. You are one of those girls that look beautiful with any type of hairstyle, whether that involves hair or not. (:
mailalbinochanchilla 1 month ago
I want you to be happy. I'm sorry; you're still lovely.
OliviaIsNaff 1 month ago
Beckie, I think you look adorable with short hair. With the shorter hair, we all can see your gorgeous blue eyes and your amazing facial bone structure.
kazzydancesintherain 1 month ago 9
You should move to my town. Everyone here shaves off half their hair and has these buzzed cut words on their scalp. They do it purposely. You'd fit right in :D
Dragonmuphin 1 month ago
You made me feel fabulous.
I'm not the only one whose gotten all of these all the time.
Getting "Do you have cancer" from my own mother is just terrible
I love you. I love you. I love you a lot.
mikaellaella 1 month ago
Hey i actually think you look VERY pretty with short hair. Artistic looking. Sorry other people are such jerks. :(
ddoverox56 1 month ago
I love your accent :)
passionsgirl15 1 month ago
gosh people who say crap llike this just have no right she is realy nice no matter wat if somebody said something like that to me i would knock them out
flyingpig74 1 month ago
Your absolutely inspiring. Your an amazing person, and you have a beautiful personality, and appearance. Keep living your life in the best way you see fit, and please remember that most people are just ridiculously ignorant.
Best wishes <3
Komakii 1 month ago 50
Most of these I can understand the pain, except "Doesn't it hurt" that is a simple curiosity question that will almost never be meant maliciously
ObamaLovesMexicans 1 month ago
@ObamaLovesMexicans I guess you don't wan mentioned at all,but that is unavoidable unfortunately, curiosity is part of human nature
ObamaLovesMexicans 1 month ago
I just found your channel the other day, and I can't believe some of the things people can say to a complete stanger. As far as I'm concerned, from what I have seen on your videos, your personality is incredible, your editing skills are outstanding, and hair or no hair you are beautiful. So don't listen to what anyone has to tell you. You are perfect the way you are!
UknoUwanna13 1 month ago in playlist Uploaded videos 74
To be honest, when you record yourself with shiny tears on your face and over-expose your issues to the Internet like this, one has to wonder whether you're attention-seeking. Obviously you would not be "bullied" (i.e., asked a number of understandable questions) if you didn't pathologically flaunt your baggage to thousands of people who don't know you.
Feel sorry for yourself, call me mean, idgaf I'm way crazier than you. It's just hair.
ThisHasBeenAlex 1 month ago
People don't understand. The point is to educate.
If that doesn't work...slap them.
Darkenstarr 1 month ago 2
you sound like emma watson
AJTutorials101 1 month ago 2
:',C
UnicornParty5 1 month ago
You are beautiful, no matter what.
Big hugs.
Hieifireshadow 1 month ago
"its just haah"
JN5B11 1 month ago
"Are you a boy or a girl?" Christ I'm glad I'm not the only one whose got that...I've got alopecia, so inevitably I get a heck of a lot of cancer comments - often from strangers in the street or while Im waiting at the bus stop or something. Very bizarre.
hpmons2 1 month ago
I think you are good looking with long or short hair. You have a nice face :)
JAKEROBERTS123 1 month ago
Beauty comes from the inside. You are very beautiful person and the ones that are leaving such nasty comments are just ugly people.
danilee1980 1 month ago
@danilee1980 I couldn't agree more :)
bethy241 1 month ago
omgod! people are so mean! you are beautiful nomatter what people say! I just want to give you a looong hug! <3
lSarahFashion 1 month ago
Troll.
tucs1973 1 month ago
At the end if this I just wanted to give you a hug and tell you everything will be ok. Because it will be
pedgeman 1 month ago
it is not the way you look or what people think but what you do that defines who you are. Beauty is the person not a hair style. The fact you have the courage to do these videos in the first place should tell you alot about the person your becoming. Your a beautiful young woman inside and out. PERIOD!
DanBennetto 1 month ago
do teachers or bosses ever tell you to stop playing with your hair? i dont have this but i play with my hair alot and when i was in high school my teachers would ask me whats so interesting in my hair and just the other day my boss told me to stop playing with my hair at work so i figured must be the same but worse for you... this is a very pointless coment i think ill stop now
YellowalrusO4 1 month ago
I had a bird with that must have had that once. Don't worry i'm a guy and i'd date you any day but your out of my league
buzzy1147 1 month ago
lol that was kinda funny
gdgfhgffjedsgf 1 month ago
@gdgfhgffjedsgf what's funny about it? it's just sad to see that there's people that mean! the comments that people are living her are HURTFULL!
lSarahFashion 1 month ago
"are you a boy or a girl"? YOU certainly dont need hair to look feminine, you have a really great face!
I hurt with you, you seem like such a sweet girl and i hope that you will find a way to make life work anyway. <3
omsnaga 1 month ago 2
The first time I saw one of your video's, your hair was patchy but the first thing I thought was that you were beautiful.
Nomberss89 1 month ago
anyone would be lucky to have a girlfriend like u try not to let them bring u down
Cardiff098 1 month ago
poor girl i wish i can help, how about some pray ? That's all i can do Have a beautiful day.
frewerage 1 month ago
@rini12309 trich is pulling out hair. If your not pulling. It isn't.
Graceanneluvv 1 month ago
Hey, um i have this thing where i physically can't stop biting and riping skin of my lips. i'm 15 and i've been doing it for years, i can't stop. i don't know what it is
EmiilyxIiI 1 month ago
@EmiilyxIiI I also used 2 do this, there are many ways u can stop it, 1 way is 2 put a elastic band on ur wrist & ping it every time u bite/pick ur lip, this psycologically makes u not want 2 do it, however it hurts & I did it so often it didn't have an effect. Its normally caused by anxiety, stress or boredom. My mum help me by telling me 2 stop every time I did it - in a nice way - & distracted me when I did. The best thing is to wear lipgloss/vaseline all the time as its hard 2 pick ur lip.
BryonyTube 1 month ago
i have a question please if anyone reads this reply !
i got kind of scared watching this i always like to pull my lashes together and play with them when there is mascara on my lashes (btw i dont pull thhem out)
do i also have it ???
i dont hope so :(
rini12309 1 month ago
Your perfect just the way you are!I know exactly what your going through,it's not a disease,or a mental illness,I don't know exactly what to call it,but noone should be ashamed of it<3
AKyraFull 1 month ago
What an amazing soul to share with the world. Thank you.
JohnDoeMrs 1 month ago
I think your mild Trichotillomanioa is just a side effect from a much worrying acute attention whore disorder, just switch off the camera and you'll be fine.
derpestarzt 1 month ago
@derpestarzt Your a heartless asshole. Get a heart!
AKyraFull 1 month ago
@derpestarzt That is just messed up. Keep your nasty comments to yourself because no one wants to see that.
bethy241 1 month ago
Just because there are people out there worse off than you, it doesn't mean that its impossible to live a rough life. :'(
Chin up you purdy thing, you!
BigMowma2010 1 month ago
You're very pretty, girl ! Hair or no hair. You give me inspiration, because I have the same problem. -3
silvastarz12 1 month ago