This man wants to be the child. Therefore, even if a childless woman carried his seed & gave birth to his child, he probably would resent his own child. He loathes being in a relationship where woman has previous kids, he would also loathe his wife & marriage after his own child is born. It takes an unselfish, community- oriented individual to be mature & realize: life is not all about YOU YOU YOU.
@mountain36wolf Spare me these shaming tactics.You sound pretty bitter & ignorance when it comes to my preference. Assuming I would disown my own seed b/c I don't want to date a woman who had an OOW child by another man? Why is ok for u to play around and end up having a child. But I can't play around? Childless men are not sitting on the bench waiting to play step dad all b/c u wanna play around and have OOW kids. That's Selfish.
It's refreshing to hear black men talk like this black man in this video. If more black men were like him there would be far less babies in the black community born out of wedlock, thus more black children would be born in two parented loving households.
As a black man-- I see soo many single black mothers trying to look at me every now & then. I'm like bitch get the fuck out of herrah. Should've been staring hard at me before you fucked up and had that kid or 3. 2 years ago that same hoe was probably walking all fast trying to ignore you when you attempting to speak to her and get to know her. And I mean DAMN you think they would know by now to stop fucking niggas without a condom if yall aint married. LMAO it's some Silly Ass Hoes out here.
There's nothing wrong with not wanting kids out of wedlock. What I don't understand is, men have this idea that, now don't take this the wrong way, the world revolves around them. Women are expected to work, do all the housework, take care of the kids AND please their husband and put him first, yet husbands don't wanna pick up the slack or help with the kids.
I think women aren't getting enough praise for doing all the hard work, where are the fathers in this? Parenting is a team effort so why diss only single mothers? Communities and pop culture are enticing sex into young minds! blame it on society as a whole. I'm a single mum, I'm not trashy my parents are first loves, I work hard for my kids I'm very offended at the remarks. A real man see pass all that, too many haters that's the problem with the world
@chaaanna Women are always getting praises so I disagree with you on that. Also who said anything about single moms being trashy, why would u bring that up? Not to mention, a real man CAN ALSO avoid all that as well. Why should u feel offended when women do the same thing in stating preferences of a man, stating who they would never date?
this is bullshit my uncle marry black woman who has two sons and she ain’t cute either lol i just keep it real but she is not hoe, don’t doing porno, have sex outside of her race so this is just was perfect to him that’s why he marry her. so this is not true about black men being selfish, materialistic and arrogant this is just bullsh’t!
a man has to be worthy in order for a woman to submit to him. these men aren't worthy neither do they really like us because most are jealous of us! its time for most blk women worth their salt to look for FORIEGN black men. that is if you want to rebuild your families and your men child grow up to be MEN.
yeah and yall giveing away the pussy to the guy that is wortless yall love that bad boy image that black boys fell they have to be in order to get a girl yall got it too easy yall are not dieing as much as us and we had to deal with yall blasting us in public saying black men are dogs i heard this shit growing up in the 80s and us real black men dont have time to play games. i agree with dragonpat666 alot of these black boys arent nothing but so is the black girl with a big mouth!
@santiagodananperry its a sad day when a man compares himself to a woman! i keep TELLIN people you are jealous of us. how sad. it is us who need to dump you sorry bastards so we can rebuild our families. your lot is through! there is no help for you. its over.
ha took you this long to reply and once again you make no logic points how can i be jealous of a women see frist off you are lesser than me i am stronger than you physically
and mentaley a man is not attimated of you when it comes to nature i can do wtf i want to you and you coued do nothing about it and rebuild your familys let me tell you one thing you never have kids with a unstable person the now aday black women is unstable
becouse she wants whats on tv and have bastard kids!
@santiagodananperry your physical and emotional violence, you use to compensate for your incompetance as a man! don't be mad at us cause we can get a job, buy a house and live good without your help. and your so dumb and brainwashed you see no way for yourself to do the same!!
your physical and emotional violence me what a joke yall try to make it seem like you can out man a man but you simply cannot and get a better job than us i dont know wtf you are talking about i have a good job and take care of my bills im not the one like you saying shit about rebuilding your family when you must be a single mother hmm no wonder why your jealous
you choose a bum so there for your are typical hoodrat with no self esteem and you deserve
@santiagodananperry monkey, i am not a single mother. you men are always talking about how we choose bum....there must be a LOT of black american bums out there for so many of us to have no choice but to end up with one! why are black men always comparing themselves to women? is it because you can't compare yourself to another man without feeling EXTREMELY insecure?
Bitch are you carzy why in the fuck would i compare myself to a women and why does it take you this long to respond becouse you can't think of real logic right off the back you are trying to compare yourself to a man i don't take dick like you and also there isn't alot of bums out there yall have kids by the same fool that haves 3 kids and you still want
him to be yo babby daddy and why are you talking about this if you dont have kids? i must of struck a nerve lol you cunt.
@santiagodananperry you are the modern day frankenstien bred black male that does not know who he is, hates his mother and every woman that looks anything like her and needs to be LYNCHED for treason. the treason of hating and abandoning your own race!
@santiagodananperry and another thing ape, there are way to many blk women with children for the same blk man to be impregnating all of them! dumb, goofy ass! the reason why a lot of us end up with a bum is because A LOT of you are simply BUMS!!! i encourage black women to seek foriegn blk men. your lot is hopeless.
@dragonpat666 Wow no wonder why GOOD black men marry other races. Its like a battle between black men and black women. Instead of fighting work together smh. I'm Dominican and let me tell you something. If you think foreign black men will date you if you have a mindset like that your in for a rude awakening. Don't believe go to Africa, parts of the DR. We don't like women like you grow up and help your community not bash it. Foreign black men are into helping not bashing
@MaritaValdez Agree on the "waiting", but that ideology u have for men can be said the same for women who take birth control or ask if he has a condom, is that saying the men she sleep with is good enough for sex but not good enough to be a father?
But using a condom isn't only about avoiding in getting her pregnant, STD's is a factor. And If your going in raw u can always pull out, so using a condom doesn't solely define her as not being good enough to have that man's baby.
I commend you for keeping it real. You have every right to choose who you want to date. I would prefer that a man tell me that he is not prepared to date me or be in a relationship with me because of he wants to be number one. It saves me time...
@cgiwattgrrl99 I never labeled anyone... The fact is that these women are getting with losers and until they realize what's real then the trend will continue. It takes two to tango. Was it the man's fault that he left her single? Yes. Is it his fault that she fell for it? No. And until women stop falling for it then it will continues. Women control the climate. If they demand better then they will get it. I know plenty of women that don't fall for the okie-doke and don't have these problems.
@cgiwattgrrl99 so true. and just who the fuck are black women having all these babies by? you got it! they just don't want the baby which is why they scorn the mother for having it. i hate to say this but when i see videos and comments coming from blk men like this one video here i tend to think that blk women are not having enough abortions. i swear...
@dragonpat666 As long as you are grouping all men into one group then you will never find the truth. Now you can delude yourself into thinking we're all the same and pretend that's somehow not racism or you can actually look at the situation from both sides and learn something. Truth is most of the problems you speak of come from women that only date losers that happen to be Black men and not the other way around.
@dragonpat666 Your problem is that you date Black men that are losers. It doesn't matter what color the guy is because you'll just find a loser of a different shade. Frankly if you are judging a man by his principles and morals not singing the "independent Black woman anthem" only looking for a big bank roll, education, what he drives e.t.c; then you'd end up with a lot less fools. I guarantee you that moral fiber is NOT one of the first things that comes to the mind of most women when dating.
@GreasemonkeyCGI is a man with a fat bank roll, nice car, big home, etc.. a "loser?" a "loser" is the too typical black man you see running around here today. so, blk womne don't have "moral fiber" sense to choose a descent black man??????? when i tell you that almost half of todays generation of blk men need to be killed off you better believe i am not playing. you came from a woman who does have a moral fiber in her body!! yet and still, YOU CAME FROM HER so what does that make you?
@dragonpat666 You make no sense. Would a man with decent moral fiber leave a mother single? NO! So what does that say about the infallible Black woman eh? And NO one deserves to die you fool. What a pathetic answer. Did I say that women did not have moral fiber? NO!! LEARN TO READ INSTEAD OF PICKING AND CHOOSING WHAT YOU WANT TO! You're older than me and you can't figure this out? Maybe that's your problem - you don't PAY ATTENTION. I said NOTHING about the fiber of the woman but the MAN!!
@dragonpat666 I'm not going to argue with some bitter old woman that thinks people need to die and I don't care what color you are. People need to be educated as to the difference between love and lust. People are shacking up and having kids thinking they know each other and don't know anything about themselves! They need HELP! And unless you're willing to help then I suggest you get back to your Tyler Perry movie pity party because your crap is not needed in the Black community.
@GreasemonkeyCGI yes, i am PLENTY bitter about the state of the black american community because i truly do love our people and want to see them aspire to greathood as a people. so yes, im very angry! we have a problem accepting the fact that we are a very messed up people. a lot of this is not our fault but a lot is. im tired of dealing with black people who have no race consciousness and is full of excuses for their behavior...especially you men who have miserably failed the whole race!
@dragonpat666 Get off the internet. You're obviously not here to do anything but point fingers. If anything is wrong with world it's people like you that would rather talk at people than with them.
@GreasemonkeyCGI i don't have to get off the damned internet!! you should be speaking out against videos that take a vice and contribute it to all black women or men too! these issues are for us ONLY not for the world but since buckwheat and bojangles don't have an ounce of loyalty to race, i have none for yall! i am here to rebuke you!
@dragonpat666 That's your problem - you're running around witch hunting and it's not doing anything for anyone. With an attitude like that people at best will ignore you simply out of spite and your voice will be wasted. And who would listen to anyone with a vendetta against a certain gender? An attitude like that only further ruins your credibility. So your "rebuking" is only as loud as a whisper. These issues are not Black issues. To think that you must only live around Black people...
@dragonpat666 These problems have only been amplified in the Black community due to the constant reinforcement of negative themes from Black entertainment. When the only Black man kids see on tv is a rapper payed to talk of shallow subjects then unfortunately people start to believe it. For a few something is ok if a celebrity does it. Black men were not walking with their pants low before rappers started to do it. Conversely it was not "cool" to skateboard before some rapper said it was.
@dragonpat666 Now the women talked about in this video are a product of the glorification of this lifestyle. Some women want "thugs" not simply because they seem to be confident in themselves but because they are what Black women are "supposed" to date. Thugs are what Black men are "supposed" to be. This concept of "good guy" vs "bad guy" is brought up more in Black communities because the mentioned problems with society have amplified it for young Black people.
white man made the bad boy image and you still eat the shit up you can not get mad at black men becouse you want to fuck with a thug and we as the real black men sopose to sit back and let you fuck these thugs and than you want a good black man hoodrat bitch please i am so tired of you black bitches mouths shut the fuck up and act like a women you are not going to out man a black man you as a women sopose to submit
not the other way around but you say you want a real black man lol!
@santiagodananperry negro please. first learn to be a "real" man. oh but wait...you have to be TAUGHT and RAISED to be one to began with. you need an example as in a FATHER that was a MAN. you never had that so your just a lost little boy trying to figure out how to be a man in anyway you can. now not all black men are jacked up and lost like this but way to many are.
and thats the same for so called black women you think we cant put yall on blast becouse yall choose these guys and a big chance that a single black mother raised theme so you are getting a male that is thinking like a girl so you need to stop blameng real black men that want to be in there kids lives there is a verry big number of no good hoodrats and thats the truth so start putting theme hoodrats on blast there the ones chooseing a fag thug that gots 3 kids!
@dragonpat666 Black people don't even own the companies that perpetuate that image! I knew you were full of crap and had no clue of what you were talking about. And then you accuse me of something I was never been apart of. Get your pathetic racist crap off the internet. You're not interested in anything but putting people down. And the fact that people your age walk around saying stupid crap like that only confirms the fact that your generation is to blame for all this. Your credibility is gone
@GreasemonkeyCGI they may not own the companies but they willing play the part...and why? some people will sell their mama for a thousand dollars. you just don't like what i am saying because it is not said in a way that soothes your ego which is something im not trying to do anyway. i am positive around the black people i deal with for simply being someone that tries to look beyond the surface and share what i find and see with them... what are you doing?
@dragonpat666 That isn't a Black problem either! There are people that will watch the world burn if you pay them enough. And there are plenty of worse professions than rap that do just that. Again you are grasping at straws.
@GreasemonkeyCGI the point is that you are failures who have failed your family, children and women; you are the reason why blk women are messed up to a very large extent! because of dealing with you! go study foriegn societies so you can learn what a man is and is supposed to be cause obviously, your dad (if you had one) did not teach you this. stop crying all over youtube and the whole dorn internet about black women!!! what other MAN you see doing this concerning their women?
@dragonpat666 I am done with your degenerate racist self. You reply as if I am the problem and you know absolutely nothing about me. You are content to simply spew racism and I am done. It is obvious that you have psychotic issues and I do hope they are remedied. Do not reply unless you intend to debate in a civilized manner. There are plenty of racists from other groups that hold a conversation with far greater objectivity than you do. Good day.
@GreasemonkeyCGI boy quit crying! this particular video would have been ok if the fool had not put the word "black woman" in it. what is the difference between dating a sistah with kids and a asian with kids? why specify black women as women you would not date with kids? you hate your own therefore you gets no mercy from me... now as for you personally, i don't know you of course but since you want to take up for this madness, screw you too.
@dragonpat666 None of these videos are right on any account. That is obvious. However I am not the one slandering an entire gender of my race. I have said nothing negative about any race or gender in any of these comments and every comment you have made is borderline racist. You are the one with the hate not I. Instead of offering solutions you only slander Black men as some illusion of revenge to this stupid video. How are you any different then?
@dragonpat666 The reason these kids latch on to this lifestyle is because they have NOTHING ELSE! Why do you think they hold the N-word so dearly? They either have no parents or the parents aint worth shit. So who do they look up to? The only Black that seems to be "makin paper" - the rappers. And their friends are in the same boat. So they all live this lifestyle together because it's all they know. It's no different than a kid that joins a gang. The stereotypes manifest themselves as well.
@dragonpat666 I'm not old enough to be anybody's daddy so don't blame me for the BS your generation started. My generation is trying to pick up the pieces and help these kids because they're stuck in the same stupid trap. Do you know what it's like to hear a child tell you they're not smart enough to do something? I bet you don't. I see it everyday. So I am out here helping these kids because no one else is. If you want to point fingers I suggest you walk on down to BET.
you the one who made black women single mothers now you want nothing to do with them? how convenient. now you can go to other women, make them baby mamas and dump on them also....i see you have already done this to all those big, fat, and ugly white women you went after so hard. now they are walking around single pushing light skinned nappy head babies in strollers looking all busted and shit. you have a new name; THE BABY MAMA MAKER.
@dragonpat666 Ah boy here goes another emotional illogical comment filled with shaming tactics that has nothing to do with black man who are not making babies.
@macadon you cannot scorn all black women for having multiple babies by different men and being baby mamas with addressing the males roll in all of this also; and all i have been hearing on these crying ass videos is how upset black men are with black women IN GENERAL. as a group of men, your track record as family men and fathers is seriously WANTING. and yes, all the other women you been going after for decades; puerto ricans, white girls, etc.. are also with fatherless babies.
@dragonpat666 For one your directing your argument at someone who doesn't have children especially out of wedlock. How are u gonna have men in the homes when u keep choosing to get with boys? For yrs black women having been crying and whining and as soon as black men have an outlet to refute your complaints or speak on what we also don't tolerate now u have a problem. Sorry, but playing the victim stops. Since BW don't wanna confront the other issue then I will.
CONTINUE: Bw have a preference in who they will or will not date so why can't I? U talk about other races of women having fatherless babies? Again read the "Special Note" on my pic. This doesn't have anything to do with non-black women just like BW's discussions have nothing to do with non-black men so spare me the "white women do it too" BS. Because I don't do it when u talk about BM.
CONTINUE 3: U want fathers and family men? Ok then stop having sex out of wedlock, stop getting with irresponsible men AKA boys and more importantly stop being vindictive and bitter or other unknown reasons, by keeping the men out there child's lives by going to court and wanting full custody. Then lying to the child saying there father want nothing to do with him. Women make these complaints but created the situation with the choices they choose to make, Seriously, what sense does that make?
@macadon you said; "U want fathers and family men? Ok then stop having sex out of wedlock," ... you know very well that black men hate virgins! let's not lie to each other...
@pinkietinkie08 Black men or men in general don’t hate virgins, your taking that out of context. Women who claimed they are celibate are the type that men will not deal with. Virgins are very rare these days, Also the Men wouldn’t have sex out of wedlock if there weren’t women who are just as sexual as the men and want to give it up lets keep the discussion authentic now.
@pinkietinkie08 You don’t know that for certain which is why that’s a “sweeping generalization” just like I can make a generalization that all BW are not virgins, so there isn’t a need for BM to wait. Other negative attributes & traits can cause that BM to not want to pursue the relationship further. And if she was non-black who doesn’t maintain intolerable traits that BM find unattractive then of course he would stay. If BW can’t grasp that, then they will never understand
@macadon im not speaking on black men as individuals but AS A WHOLE. i don't have any children either, and??? a lot of grown black men must fit the title "boy" because most black women are fooling around with men who are considered the world over as GROWN MEN. like i said, im speaking of rules and not exceptions...and im not crying either. its your brothers on here doing all the dorn crying. black men need to work on changing themselves as a whole. protocol will make the women follow.
@dragonpat666 And... if u don't have any children then why are u complaining about my preference in who I don't wanna date? If your getting with boys then u have a very bad judge of character. And if its my brothers that are crying then direct your comments at them and not me. The black men that need to change came from a matriarch household. Work on choosing to have children with Men instead of boys then u will have an establish family household.
@macadon when was i ever concerned about how you decide to date? AGAIN, i am speaking in general terms. if you thought my post did not concern you then why do you keep responding to them? once AGAIN, if a lot of black women are getting with "boys" then their must not be to many black males out their with the intelligence of a MAN to began with.
@dragonpat666 I didn't say nothing about u being concern and u claim your speaking in general which is why u gave this perception that your speaking to all black men which is why I respond. I think its crazy for a single father or a deadbeat dad to come on my page and say they wouldn't date single mothers so why make the comment in the beginning as if the majority of male posters and myself have children? There are BW married to BM as well as non BW so question the BW who can't spot intellect
@macadon blk women are WAY to loyal to todays blk men because you ARE NOT as loyal to us. when a situation where the majority rules people tend to speak in general terms concerning said situation; example, if a majority of blk women are prone to uterine polps when addressing this issue the convo will reside take on a form that indicates black women as a whole because we are most likely affected...get it? don't try to run circles around me because it won't work.
@dragonpat666 I don’t run circles, nor do I have to try, I call exactly what it is and what u did was exactly my point, quote “people tend to speak in general terms concerning said situation” therefore your statement was targeted at all Black men. U didn’t give specifics, so that entitled me to reply to u as well as another quote “all i have been hearing on these crying ass videos” again entitled me to reply b/c u gave that perception which gave me the reason to respond, did u not?
@macadon Not every man who is in need of a change comes from a matriarch. Some learned from their fathers.why are u treating single motherhood as if it is something new;it isn't. The difference is the women today don't care, It's all about vanity. My mother and her two brothers were raised by their grandmother and two aunts,later by her mom. They are fine. My mother is college educated, my uncles are married and educated and one was in the army.again this was back in the 40/50's.
I don't necessarily want to be number one in a relationship because I want my space as well. All I want is respect and something the opposite of me; feminine. That, and the chance to be good to a woman that I can experience raising a family with on like-terms, i.e we both never did it before...
the # 1 problem in the black community = BW picking bad boys/thugs....of for those that don't know the new codeword for these kind of guys are "swagger".....you can blame BM all day long but unless he forced you to have sex with him that's the guy you picked
the number # 2 problem in the black community = men running out on their family......ladies if you want to solve the problem then see number 1.......men chase but women pick and it seems like your all picking the same guys
..woman that you can grow with mentally, spiritually and physically via the experience of marriage and a first child. It's both genders fault but what could you do? I guess my point is that as black men we can hold out and wait for a nice, educated sister with no kids to present herself in our lives but finding her is fast becoming like trying to find a needle in a haystack. smh
Touchy subject for me here in New York. I understand where you are coming from but on this side of the fence young men don't have many choices in mates, as the percentage of women (in urban areas and cities) already come to the table with a child or two, and sometimes three. The black women here are promiscuous and are starting to have children earlier and earlier. Many of them who are in college already have 1 or 2. My last 2 ex's had a child and its getting frustrating to even find a quality..
@AtiwiSaka@AtiwiSaka Man I fell you son. Like for real. My last 2 ex's had kids as well smh. I'm from New Orleans(Lotta of women already with kids), now I live in Houston(lotta women with kids lol) and the kick part about it is half the women without kids be on their high horse. And I cn relate to what macadon said about the woman having feeling about her babys father cause looking back, I think my ex had feelings for her youngest child father. He was barely a year old so I shoud've knew.
@cgiwattgrrl99 I agree 100%! But unfortunately the men that these women get with weren't really men to begin with so what can they really expect? Unless he has some random epiphany then she's going to be a single mom. The educated Black man isn't the one that's leaving moms single.
At the same time I'm torn about the situation. My dad wasn't around when I was a kid but another man stepped in and filled the spot. I don't know how he made the decision. Something to think about I guess...
@cgiwattgrrl99 Men and women aren't the same and they aren't going to be judged by the same criteria. A woman whoring is in a whole different league than a man whoring. Get over it
@cgiwattgrrl99 no u simple-minded idiotic black trash. im celibate typical guilt talk... you are disgusting to think im gonna let your ass know my sex life? i didnt called them whores, i called them trash or roaches just like you. faceless skank... im glad us brothers are waking up to deceptive sewer junk like you black roaches in amerikkka. Honestly, i dont pity NO single mother at all (unless she was widowed or molested) i got "STANDARDS" which u "DON'T" Have =\
There is no such thing as a single mother. If she has a kid then her ass isn't single. Women with bastard children shouldn't date, they should give their full energy to properly raising their offspring. Avoid "single mothers " at all costs. As childless men, we shouldn't have to lower our standards so much.l There are plenty of good, childless women, there is no need to settle.
@9737417275 I see, so based on your logic, stating a preference in a companion makes that person gay? So would that idea apply to women who refuse to date single fathers? Or women who refuse to date short men, men who are non-athletic; men who are unemployed are they gay as well when they state their preference in men? I would luv your input
@9737417275 These shaming tactics don't work anymore. Your mother wore them out 30 years ago. We can't get laid, we have small dicks, we live in moms basement, we can't handle a strong woman (castrating witch) etc, etc. Yawn.
@limacalev1 How am I creating single mothers when I said I don't have any kids to begin with? I'm not married so what reason do I have bringing a child into this world? Seriously keep your emotional comments to yourself you sound foolish with your rant
@limacalev1 Just because a man has his own preference doesn't make him a baby. There are some men who are willing to accept kids but the woman has to put an effort in the relationship and try to focus on making the man feel important rather than bashing him for things that doesn't go her way.
@tazamack Yup my mama always warned me about females like that,and taught me not to get caught up in baby mama drama,and always told me remember when you fucked a females,well she didn't say it like that lol,but told me to always keep track in case they try to play games and say you got them pregnant,and if a female get's pregnant and you want a blood test they will look at you like you crazy,hell our black mother's tell us to get DNA test when we are younger just in case that happens.
@tazamack Damn right this country is screwed up,and for the woman basically.And most black mother's that are single have major anger issues,and other personal issues and they may make it look like shit is sweet at 1st,but eventually their true motives will be exposed,and you will be like damn what the fuck did i get myself into lol.If they will get their baby daddies locked up,then you know they don't give a fuck about getting you locked up.
@tazamack You are so right about that,the problem is,is there is so many black single mother's hell you will see more single mother's than mother's who have a full family.In my neighborhood almost every black woman is a single mother,and i really can see why b/c of their attitudes,every last one of them is bitter as fuck,and get mad at the world b/c they need some dick lol.I can't fuck with a single mothers,im not about to be playing step daddy.
I feel the same way. I'm a back women who dont have any kids. I would not choose to date a man with kids because of the baby mamma drama. I dont want to put up with a women who cant accept the fact that her baby daddy has moved on, so I choose to wait for someone whos had enough sense and respect for themselves to refraim from reproducing until they are in a meaningful married relationship.
Nice vid but I wish ppl would stop catergorizing ppl by their actions is it right to say all BM are thugs etc..etc.. All single mothers are bad and will always run back to the BD sometimes mistakes happen condoms bust, BC fails and always poor judgment. I mean i'm a single blk mother with 1 kid got prego at 13 now 20. Poor judgment-NO Stupid for sneaking around parents back-Yes learned from my mistakes and have no problem with men and great judgmental skills are in affect always dated nice BM
@1oftxfinest09 Poor judgment-yes because if you were smart you would have waited to have UNPROTECTED sex until you were at least able to drive and have the guy or guys take care of the kid.
@robertjosephgreen if you see it that way then thats your right but how many 13yr olds have great judgment when you find the answer let me know. 2. I have one child so it would be guy 3.Who really knows if a man will truly take care of their kids men walk out all the time for many of reasons they may have good intentions in the beginning or even half the kids life but hey it's life. 4. Stupid-No. A single mistake doesn't mean I lack intelligence especially again at the age I previously stated.
whatever no man in his right mind going to raise your kids from different daddies unless he has kids himself. You should live off welfare forever. All yoll black women the same and promiscous im 21 and a virgin. All yoll black women are thug lovin niggas @Honeygirl 1234
Sir if a single mother needs her kids taken care of, whats the problem? I have five kids, and yes their fathers have left them but, I'm letting men who I date to take care of my kids. It is the right thing to do.
@macadon Your judging single black mothers. How dare you? When your disrespecting single mothers, your doing that to your own mother. Single moms have goals and dreams as well. I dream of moving to Cali for school, but I can't move because my kids live here in NJ. If I had a man to take care of them, maybe I'll have a shot of going to Cali with my kids without a relocation trial. If I take my kids out of state, it would be kidnapping, and I could go to jail for that.
@Honeygirl1234 For one point out where in the video I disrespected single mothers. Two, the comparison of single moms to my mom is an invalid argument. For one my mom was born in the 50's and not the late 70's early or middle 80's. She had me when she was married to my dad and not out of wedlock. I don't know why u have this idea that majority of these single mothers were married before they had kids. No one didn't say anything about not having dreams & goals. U just refuse to understand
@Honeygirl1234 lol, This is exactly what I'm talking about, your looking for a father figure why u didn't think about that before u had children? And then u expect a brother who doesn't have any kids to pick up the slack? um black man did not sign up to be picker uppers for the the black men who avoided responsibility
@macadon I do expect who ever I'm dating to help with the kids. That is expected of him. I don't understand why you won't date single mothers. If you find a good woman who has kids, you would do whatever you can for them, even help them relocate. Right now I'm trying to leave NJ for Cali. If I don't have a father figure for my kids, than who is going to take care of my kids if I leave NJ?
@Honeygirl1234 Your expecting a guy your temporally dating to help with the kids?? really? Before u had kids did u ever date a single father? Why should I jump into an already made family when I can make one for my own? Espeically if she had kids by more then one man. If u don't have anyone to watch your kids then unitl u do, u have to sit their in NJ. I already see your motive for finding a man is just so he can babysit ,has nothing to do with being in a relationship. Self exclamatory
@Honeygirl1234 If u don't have the luxury of going to cali because your kids have to stay in NJ then it shouldn't be that difficult of a decision. And shipping them off to some guy your dating is not gonna help.
@macadon I have goals in life and I wanna father who will take care of my kids while I do that. I wanna go to school in Cali but me and my kids are in NJ. If I take the kids out of state but if I do, the fathers can take me to court for taking the kids out of state. That's why I want a real man to take care of my kids, so I can do these things
@Honeygirl1234 First, Cali is OVERRATED, take it from someone who lives there. Second, shake that "a REAL man would take care of my kids" nonsense. To be blunt, you chose the wrong man to have a kid with in the 1st place, therefore you have no right to make a man take care of another man's child.
@Honeygirl1234 no the right thing to do is not let every well hug thug you have sex with nut inside you when he will be locked up and not support your kids and the next 50 thugs you sex up one will give you HIV.After the thug dick then you want a "nice guy" who you ignore before try to raise your bastard children.Who is that desperate and or stupid?
@robertjosephgreen hey we all make mistakes. Yes we as women do make the wrong choice in men but we make mistakes. Nobody is perfect, not even you. So don't judge me or my kids. My kids are smart, beautiful and loving and they deserve the right father now, and I'm ready to give them the father that they need. I've learn and grow as a beautiful woman and no one can take that from me. So I say again whoever wants to be with me needs to understand to take care of my kids as well.
@Honeygirl1234 join a church, bring your kids there every chance u get. teach ur daughters to save themselves and ur sons to be like their fathers but wear condoms. do NOT constantly complain to your sons about how bad men are, how it's their fathers' faults for your mess. your sons will become betamales - a.k.a LOSERS - if you teach them to sympathize with females. teach them to be strong, smart, to work out, to play sports, to be MEN. and most important to use contraception
@Honeygirl1234 My advice is that you wait for a few years before you get the guy to take care of the kids because the first thing you want to do is figure out the type of guy your man is. You'd really want to find out if he'll be a good father or so. Get what I'm saying?
Last, I hear a brother who is willing to give his all to a good woman who deserves it; and I pray that you get that opportunity. I would just offer to not become too cynical of the situation because of dealing or even seeing those who did not respond to the state intelligently. This will affect your own outlook in terms of this, and hurt your chances if not limit them in finding that woman you need despite if she has children or not. Keep your head up brother, in time your Queen will come.
@DavidBrayboy I respect what your saying but the different scernaios I mention did not come from the same type of a backwards thinking woman. Some relationships ended on a positive note as well as the negative but where I’m at in my life there were too many cons then pros when I would deal with a single mother.
@DavidBrayboy I never concurred that all situations on this issue were like mine I was speaking from experience its titled “Why I can’t date” not telling other not to date. Also its not crude when I said I wouldn’t want her to place me above her child. Yes the 2 states are not the same but in the end she will choose her child that she had a baby by someone else over me, a child that I didn’t create with her. (continue)
I understand your wanting to be number one in her life, but your position is indeed number one in context of you being her man. But, to imply that her having a child, robs you of that position is a bit crude, respectfully speaking. I feel that you should respect her more seeing that her main priority is her child, and her main priority in terms of a man is you. The 2 states are not the same and yet in them both, are bond inside of her.
I understand what you say in wondering if the person that you are with, still harbor feelings for the other, but that is unavoidable in regards to the past. This does not imply that those feelings are the same of the past. Coming into a womans life when she has children has nothing to do with the substance of the union. The way that we choose to respond to this is what will determine the outcome despite who else seems to be involved. Communication with her is the key to your peace of mind.
This is very narrow in terms of the situation as a whole. There are plenty of people who are able to have a good friendship even after things do not work out. I am very good friends with my kids mother and her husband. They also stayed with me with my 2 sons until they were able to get another place, believe this or not. It is about not being self-centered and cynical. This what you say is understood, but not all situations are the way that you imply. Things are complicated, but hopeful.
Also a real women puts God first and then her husband. A women shouldn't never put a man first. God says cursed be the man that puts their trust in man and not him first. You don't even sound like a "real" man anyway. Who says things like this. Unrealistic expectations. You should stop having sex if you don't want a baby mama intill you find your wife.
@mjrevjohnson12 For one spare me the shaming tatic. Women are the last ones to mention what is "real" when they keep up with physical lies anyway. Second I'm talking "physical" who is number one in your life. U should speak that message about sex till marriage to those who had kids out of wedlock, your speaking it to the wrong person. Until I become a broke, jobless, homeless, deadbeat with multiple kids by different women, then your opinion of me not being a "real man" would be valid.
Number one brother, if I may call you that. Don't throw stones in your glass house. This is life and things don't always go for the fairy tale state of mind.
KEep fooling yourself bro..youll go find some chick who aborted ten children and cant even get pregnant anymore...and she didnt tell you.. Virgins dont exist anymore
Thats when all this single mom drama of yours will finally sink in!
Guess its better to be a drug addict these days..seems thats more acceptable.
Great video my dude... you put well in so many ways... you have your whole life ahead of us... what a single mom doesn't realize is that 18 years is a very long LONG time knowing you will never be first in her eyes... go through wit that wit you own kids in the future not another man's kids... if the baby father is not in his own families life, the changes are he probably left for a pretty good damn reason.... i just subbed yah by the way...
I see what you mean because personally i wouldn't date a guy with a kid. their is too much baggage and then you have to deal with the baby's mother and whether the guy has feelings for her or not. Then, when you help discipline the child, your going to hear "you can't tell me what to do u ain't my mom". and on top of that i want my OWN family. i don't want to have to deal with another person's child. if the child didn't come out of me then he/she is not my problem
@chlowean1 So in your mind, my reason for not dating single mothers is because some guy took over the role of fucking & then leaving and I said "Damn too late, someone already did what I was planning to do"
@chlowean1 I'm sorry i was being malicious i don't know you i cant judge, but there are men out there that thrive on this culture a life style of escape and loss of responsibility which lands these women in this state and i'm talking about men of all races.
@froufrougirl15 Ladies & gents this is a classic example of an imbecile who can only throw ad hominem attacks that is nowhere relevant to the topic at hand, this is the best her little brain can muster up, Isn't it sad?
@froufrougirl15 Its the audio but thats cool, but its pretty sad that people who actually have a lisp problem u find very funny or couldn't take them serious that says alot about your character
with that type of thinking, unfortunately, u will be identified as such if that is ur fundamental perception. america has failed and sooner or later, in the event of civil war or a new diaspora, there may very well be a new gov't/regime u will be subject to. those that promote certain behaviors within the camp will be subject. no doubt.
as it regards 2nd chances, sure, everyone deserves them. but in many cases, many don't get them. when someone does and takes full advantage of them, great.
@sifurball You do know you didn't post a 'reply' right? It's only out of curiosity that I came across your comment. I assume it's addressed to me. Civil war, diaspora, new regime, etc... I'm living in reality, I am not perfect but I try. Who the hell am I to demand perfection out of anyone. We do not reside in the same society, I'm an islander (not Jamaican as my profile says) that's probably why I don't solve all my problems with a gun like you do. YOU my friend have the mindset of a warlike pp
I look at it like this even if the woman don't have any kids you still shouldn't be number 1 in her life. If she is a real woman and if you are a real man you
This man wants to be the child. Therefore, even if a childless woman carried his seed & gave birth to his child, he probably would resent his own child. He loathes being in a relationship where woman has previous kids, he would also loathe his wife & marriage after his own child is born. It takes an unselfish, community- oriented individual to be mature & realize: life is not all about YOU YOU YOU.
mountain36wolf 5 days ago
@mountain36wolf Spare me these shaming tactics.You sound pretty bitter & ignorance when it comes to my preference. Assuming I would disown my own seed b/c I don't want to date a woman who had an OOW child by another man? Why is ok for u to play around and end up having a child. But I can't play around? Childless men are not sitting on the bench waiting to play step dad all b/c u wanna play around and have OOW kids. That's Selfish.
macadon 4 days ago
It's refreshing to hear black men talk like this black man in this video. If more black men were like him there would be far less babies in the black community born out of wedlock, thus more black children would be born in two parented loving households.
kimmie6209 1 month ago
As a black man-- I see soo many single black mothers trying to look at me every now & then. I'm like bitch get the fuck out of herrah. Should've been staring hard at me before you fucked up and had that kid or 3. 2 years ago that same hoe was probably walking all fast trying to ignore you when you attempting to speak to her and get to know her. And I mean DAMN you think they would know by now to stop fucking niggas without a condom if yall aint married. LMAO it's some Silly Ass Hoes out here.
theright1allthetime 1 month ago
There's nothing wrong with not wanting kids out of wedlock. What I don't understand is, men have this idea that, now don't take this the wrong way, the world revolves around them. Women are expected to work, do all the housework, take care of the kids AND please their husband and put him first, yet husbands don't wanna pick up the slack or help with the kids.
:my 2cents O:
MoosicallygGifted 1 month ago
I think women aren't getting enough praise for doing all the hard work, where are the fathers in this? Parenting is a team effort so why diss only single mothers? Communities and pop culture are enticing sex into young minds! blame it on society as a whole. I'm a single mum, I'm not trashy my parents are first loves, I work hard for my kids I'm very offended at the remarks. A real man see pass all that, too many haters that's the problem with the world
chaaanna 1 month ago
@chaaanna Women are always getting praises so I disagree with you on that. Also who said anything about single moms being trashy, why would u bring that up? Not to mention, a real man CAN ALSO avoid all that as well. Why should u feel offended when women do the same thing in stating preferences of a man, stating who they would never date?
macadon 1 month ago
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this is bullshit my uncle marry black woman who has two sons and she ain’t cute either lol i just keep it real but she is not hoe, don’t doing porno, have sex outside of her race so this is just was perfect to him that’s why he marry her. so this is not true about black men being selfish, materialistic and arrogant this is just bullsh’t!
swagboi7 2 months ago
a man has to be worthy in order for a woman to submit to him. these men aren't worthy neither do they really like us because most are jealous of us! its time for most blk women worth their salt to look for FORIEGN black men. that is if you want to rebuild your families and your men child grow up to be MEN.
dragonpat666 2 months ago
yeah and yall giveing away the pussy to the guy that is wortless yall love that bad boy image that black boys fell they have to be in order to get a girl yall got it too easy yall are not dieing as much as us and we had to deal with yall blasting us in public saying black men are dogs i heard this shit growing up in the 80s and us real black men dont have time to play games. i agree with dragonpat666 alot of these black boys arent nothing but so is the black girl with a big mouth!
santiagodananperry 2 months ago
@santiagodananperry its a sad day when a man compares himself to a woman! i keep TELLIN people you are jealous of us. how sad. it is us who need to dump you sorry bastards so we can rebuild our families. your lot is through! there is no help for you. its over.
dragonpat666 2 months ago
ha took you this long to reply and once again you make no logic points how can i be jealous of a women see frist off you are lesser than me i am stronger than you physically
and mentaley a man is not attimated of you when it comes to nature i can do wtf i want to you and you coued do nothing about it and rebuild your familys let me tell you one thing you never have kids with a unstable person the now aday black women is unstable
becouse she wants whats on tv and have bastard kids!
santiagodananperry 2 months ago
@santiagodananperry your physical and emotional violence, you use to compensate for your incompetance as a man! don't be mad at us cause we can get a job, buy a house and live good without your help. and your so dumb and brainwashed you see no way for yourself to do the same!!
dragonpat666 2 months ago
your physical and emotional violence me what a joke yall try to make it seem like you can out man a man but you simply cannot and get a better job than us i dont know wtf you are talking about i have a good job and take care of my bills im not the one like you saying shit about rebuilding your family when you must be a single mother hmm no wonder why your jealous
you choose a bum so there for your are typical hoodrat with no self esteem and you deserve
to raise your bastard kids alone!
santiagodananperry 2 months ago
@santiagodananperry monkey, i am not a single mother. you men are always talking about how we choose bum....there must be a LOT of black american bums out there for so many of us to have no choice but to end up with one! why are black men always comparing themselves to women? is it because you can't compare yourself to another man without feeling EXTREMELY insecure?
dragonpat666 2 months ago
Bitch are you carzy why in the fuck would i compare myself to a women and why does it take you this long to respond becouse you can't think of real logic right off the back you are trying to compare yourself to a man i don't take dick like you and also there isn't alot of bums out there yall have kids by the same fool that haves 3 kids and you still want
him to be yo babby daddy and why are you talking about this if you dont have kids? i must of struck a nerve lol you cunt.
santiagodananperry 2 months ago
@santiagodananperry you are the modern day frankenstien bred black male that does not know who he is, hates his mother and every woman that looks anything like her and needs to be LYNCHED for treason. the treason of hating and abandoning your own race!
dragonpat666 1 month ago
@santiagodananperry and another thing ape, there are way to many blk women with children for the same blk man to be impregnating all of them! dumb, goofy ass! the reason why a lot of us end up with a bum is because A LOT of you are simply BUMS!!! i encourage black women to seek foriegn blk men. your lot is hopeless.
dragonpat666 1 month ago
@dragonpat666 Wow no wonder why GOOD black men marry other races. Its like a battle between black men and black women. Instead of fighting work together smh. I'm Dominican and let me tell you something. If you think foreign black men will date you if you have a mindset like that your in for a rude awakening. Don't believe go to Africa, parts of the DR. We don't like women like you grow up and help your community not bash it. Foreign black men are into helping not bashing
aero398 1 month ago
@aero398 shut up you stupid fool! use your brain and stop allowing another to tell you what to think and believe!
dragonpat666 3 weeks ago
@MaritaValdez Agree on the "waiting", but that ideology u have for men can be said the same for women who take birth control or ask if he has a condom, is that saying the men she sleep with is good enough for sex but not good enough to be a father?
But using a condom isn't only about avoiding in getting her pregnant, STD's is a factor. And If your going in raw u can always pull out, so using a condom doesn't solely define her as not being good enough to have that man's baby.
macadon 2 months ago
I commend you for keeping it real. You have every right to choose who you want to date. I would prefer that a man tell me that he is not prepared to date me or be in a relationship with me because of he wants to be number one. It saves me time...
maskelah 2 months ago
date a white mother
they always put their boyfriends needs before the needs of their children
JamaicanCutie18 3 months ago
@JamaicanCutie18 Wow what a sweeping generalization regarding white mothers. But no I wouldn't date them either.
macadon 3 months ago
@cgiwattgrrl99 I never labeled anyone... The fact is that these women are getting with losers and until they realize what's real then the trend will continue. It takes two to tango. Was it the man's fault that he left her single? Yes. Is it his fault that she fell for it? No. And until women stop falling for it then it will continues. Women control the climate. If they demand better then they will get it. I know plenty of women that don't fall for the okie-doke and don't have these problems.
GreasemonkeyCGI 4 months ago
@cgiwattgrrl99 so true. and just who the fuck are black women having all these babies by? you got it! they just don't want the baby which is why they scorn the mother for having it. i hate to say this but when i see videos and comments coming from blk men like this one video here i tend to think that blk women are not having enough abortions. i swear...
dragonpat666 4 months ago
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@dragonpat666 As long as you are grouping all men into one group then you will never find the truth. Now you can delude yourself into thinking we're all the same and pretend that's somehow not racism or you can actually look at the situation from both sides and learn something. Truth is most of the problems you speak of come from women that only date losers that happen to be Black men and not the other way around.
GreasemonkeyCGI 4 months ago
@dragonpat666 Your problem is that you date Black men that are losers. It doesn't matter what color the guy is because you'll just find a loser of a different shade. Frankly if you are judging a man by his principles and morals not singing the "independent Black woman anthem" only looking for a big bank roll, education, what he drives e.t.c; then you'd end up with a lot less fools. I guarantee you that moral fiber is NOT one of the first things that comes to the mind of most women when dating.
GreasemonkeyCGI 4 months ago
@GreasemonkeyCGI is a man with a fat bank roll, nice car, big home, etc.. a "loser?" a "loser" is the too typical black man you see running around here today. so, blk womne don't have "moral fiber" sense to choose a descent black man??????? when i tell you that almost half of todays generation of blk men need to be killed off you better believe i am not playing. you came from a woman who does have a moral fiber in her body!! yet and still, YOU CAME FROM HER so what does that make you?
dragonpat666 4 months ago
@dragonpat666 You make no sense. Would a man with decent moral fiber leave a mother single? NO! So what does that say about the infallible Black woman eh? And NO one deserves to die you fool. What a pathetic answer. Did I say that women did not have moral fiber? NO!! LEARN TO READ INSTEAD OF PICKING AND CHOOSING WHAT YOU WANT TO! You're older than me and you can't figure this out? Maybe that's your problem - you don't PAY ATTENTION. I said NOTHING about the fiber of the woman but the MAN!!
GreasemonkeyCGI 4 months ago
@dragonpat666 I'm not going to argue with some bitter old woman that thinks people need to die and I don't care what color you are. People need to be educated as to the difference between love and lust. People are shacking up and having kids thinking they know each other and don't know anything about themselves! They need HELP! And unless you're willing to help then I suggest you get back to your Tyler Perry movie pity party because your crap is not needed in the Black community.
GreasemonkeyCGI 4 months ago
@GreasemonkeyCGI yes, i am PLENTY bitter about the state of the black american community because i truly do love our people and want to see them aspire to greathood as a people. so yes, im very angry! we have a problem accepting the fact that we are a very messed up people. a lot of this is not our fault but a lot is. im tired of dealing with black people who have no race consciousness and is full of excuses for their behavior...especially you men who have miserably failed the whole race!
dragonpat666 4 months ago
@dragonpat666 Get off the internet. You're obviously not here to do anything but point fingers. If anything is wrong with world it's people like you that would rather talk at people than with them.
GreasemonkeyCGI 4 months ago
@GreasemonkeyCGI And if you really want to blame someone then blame the losers in YOUR generation because now mine has to clean up after your mess!
GreasemonkeyCGI 4 months ago
@GreasemonkeyCGI i don't have to get off the damned internet!! you should be speaking out against videos that take a vice and contribute it to all black women or men too! these issues are for us ONLY not for the world but since buckwheat and bojangles don't have an ounce of loyalty to race, i have none for yall! i am here to rebuke you!
dragonpat666 4 months ago
@dragonpat666 That's your problem - you're running around witch hunting and it's not doing anything for anyone. With an attitude like that people at best will ignore you simply out of spite and your voice will be wasted. And who would listen to anyone with a vendetta against a certain gender? An attitude like that only further ruins your credibility. So your "rebuking" is only as loud as a whisper. These issues are not Black issues. To think that you must only live around Black people...
GreasemonkeyCGI 4 months ago
@dragonpat666 These problems have only been amplified in the Black community due to the constant reinforcement of negative themes from Black entertainment. When the only Black man kids see on tv is a rapper payed to talk of shallow subjects then unfortunately people start to believe it. For a few something is ok if a celebrity does it. Black men were not walking with their pants low before rappers started to do it. Conversely it was not "cool" to skateboard before some rapper said it was.
GreasemonkeyCGI 4 months ago
@dragonpat666 Now the women talked about in this video are a product of the glorification of this lifestyle. Some women want "thugs" not simply because they seem to be confident in themselves but because they are what Black women are "supposed" to date. Thugs are what Black men are "supposed" to be. This concept of "good guy" vs "bad guy" is brought up more in Black communities because the mentioned problems with society have amplified it for young Black people.
GreasemonkeyCGI 4 months ago
@GreasemonkeyCGI rap music pumped up the bad boy image! now you want nothing to do with it? blame yourselves.
dragonpat666 4 months ago
white man made the bad boy image and you still eat the shit up you can not get mad at black men becouse you want to fuck with a thug and we as the real black men sopose to sit back and let you fuck these thugs and than you want a good black man hoodrat bitch please i am so tired of you black bitches mouths shut the fuck up and act like a women you are not going to out man a black man you as a women sopose to submit
not the other way around but you say you want a real black man lol!
santiagodananperry 2 months ago
@santiagodananperry negro please. first learn to be a "real" man. oh but wait...you have to be TAUGHT and RAISED to be one to began with. you need an example as in a FATHER that was a MAN. you never had that so your just a lost little boy trying to figure out how to be a man in anyway you can. now not all black men are jacked up and lost like this but way to many are.
dragonpat666 2 months ago
and thats the same for so called black women you think we cant put yall on blast becouse yall choose these guys and a big chance that a single black mother raised theme so you are getting a male that is thinking like a girl so you need to stop blameng real black men that want to be in there kids lives there is a verry big number of no good hoodrats and thats the truth so start putting theme hoodrats on blast there the ones chooseing a fag thug that gots 3 kids!
santiagodananperry 2 months ago
@dragonpat666 Black people don't even own the companies that perpetuate that image! I knew you were full of crap and had no clue of what you were talking about. And then you accuse me of something I was never been apart of. Get your pathetic racist crap off the internet. You're not interested in anything but putting people down. And the fact that people your age walk around saying stupid crap like that only confirms the fact that your generation is to blame for all this. Your credibility is gone
GreasemonkeyCGI 4 months ago
@GreasemonkeyCGI they may not own the companies but they willing play the part...and why? some people will sell their mama for a thousand dollars. you just don't like what i am saying because it is not said in a way that soothes your ego which is something im not trying to do anyway. i am positive around the black people i deal with for simply being someone that tries to look beyond the surface and share what i find and see with them... what are you doing?
dragonpat666 4 months ago
@dragonpat666 That isn't a Black problem either! There are people that will watch the world burn if you pay them enough. And there are plenty of worse professions than rap that do just that. Again you are grasping at straws.
GreasemonkeyCGI 3 months ago
@GreasemonkeyCGI the point is that you are failures who have failed your family, children and women; you are the reason why blk women are messed up to a very large extent! because of dealing with you! go study foriegn societies so you can learn what a man is and is supposed to be cause obviously, your dad (if you had one) did not teach you this. stop crying all over youtube and the whole dorn internet about black women!!! what other MAN you see doing this concerning their women?
dragonpat666 3 months ago
@dragonpat666 I am done with your degenerate racist self. You reply as if I am the problem and you know absolutely nothing about me. You are content to simply spew racism and I am done. It is obvious that you have psychotic issues and I do hope they are remedied. Do not reply unless you intend to debate in a civilized manner. There are plenty of racists from other groups that hold a conversation with far greater objectivity than you do. Good day.
GreasemonkeyCGI 3 months ago
@GreasemonkeyCGI boy quit crying! this particular video would have been ok if the fool had not put the word "black woman" in it. what is the difference between dating a sistah with kids and a asian with kids? why specify black women as women you would not date with kids? you hate your own therefore you gets no mercy from me... now as for you personally, i don't know you of course but since you want to take up for this madness, screw you too.
dragonpat666 3 months ago
@dragonpat666 None of these videos are right on any account. That is obvious. However I am not the one slandering an entire gender of my race. I have said nothing negative about any race or gender in any of these comments and every comment you have made is borderline racist. You are the one with the hate not I. Instead of offering solutions you only slander Black men as some illusion of revenge to this stupid video. How are you any different then?
GreasemonkeyCGI 3 months ago
@dragonpat666 The reason these kids latch on to this lifestyle is because they have NOTHING ELSE! Why do you think they hold the N-word so dearly? They either have no parents or the parents aint worth shit. So who do they look up to? The only Black that seems to be "makin paper" - the rappers. And their friends are in the same boat. So they all live this lifestyle together because it's all they know. It's no different than a kid that joins a gang. The stereotypes manifest themselves as well.
GreasemonkeyCGI 3 months ago
@dragonpat666 I'm not old enough to be anybody's daddy so don't blame me for the BS your generation started. My generation is trying to pick up the pieces and help these kids because they're stuck in the same stupid trap. Do you know what it's like to hear a child tell you they're not smart enough to do something? I bet you don't. I see it everyday. So I am out here helping these kids because no one else is. If you want to point fingers I suggest you walk on down to BET.
GreasemonkeyCGI 3 months ago
you the one who made black women single mothers now you want nothing to do with them? how convenient. now you can go to other women, make them baby mamas and dump on them also....i see you have already done this to all those big, fat, and ugly white women you went after so hard. now they are walking around single pushing light skinned nappy head babies in strollers looking all busted and shit. you have a new name; THE BABY MAMA MAKER.
dragonpat666 4 months ago
@dragonpat666 Ah boy here goes another emotional illogical comment filled with shaming tactics that has nothing to do with black man who are not making babies.
macadon 4 months ago
@macadon you cannot scorn all black women for having multiple babies by different men and being baby mamas with addressing the males roll in all of this also; and all i have been hearing on these crying ass videos is how upset black men are with black women IN GENERAL. as a group of men, your track record as family men and fathers is seriously WANTING. and yes, all the other women you been going after for decades; puerto ricans, white girls, etc.. are also with fatherless babies.
dragonpat666 4 months ago
@dragonpat666 For one your directing your argument at someone who doesn't have children especially out of wedlock. How are u gonna have men in the homes when u keep choosing to get with boys? For yrs black women having been crying and whining and as soon as black men have an outlet to refute your complaints or speak on what we also don't tolerate now u have a problem. Sorry, but playing the victim stops. Since BW don't wanna confront the other issue then I will.
macadon 4 months ago
CONTINUE: Bw have a preference in who they will or will not date so why can't I? U talk about other races of women having fatherless babies? Again read the "Special Note" on my pic. This doesn't have anything to do with non-black women just like BW's discussions have nothing to do with non-black men so spare me the "white women do it too" BS. Because I don't do it when u talk about BM.
macadon 4 months ago
CONTINUE 3: U want fathers and family men? Ok then stop having sex out of wedlock, stop getting with irresponsible men AKA boys and more importantly stop being vindictive and bitter or other unknown reasons, by keeping the men out there child's lives by going to court and wanting full custody. Then lying to the child saying there father want nothing to do with him. Women make these complaints but created the situation with the choices they choose to make, Seriously, what sense does that make?
macadon 4 months ago
@macadon you said; "U want fathers and family men? Ok then stop having sex out of wedlock," ... you know very well that black men hate virgins! let's not lie to each other...
pinkietinkie08 3 months ago
@pinkietinkie08 Black men or men in general don’t hate virgins, your taking that out of context. Women who claimed they are celibate are the type that men will not deal with. Virgins are very rare these days, Also the Men wouldn’t have sex out of wedlock if there weren’t women who are just as sexual as the men and want to give it up lets keep the discussion authentic now.
macadon 3 months ago
@macadon how many men would be willing to wait FAITHFULLY till marriage for sex ?
that's right.
but i see where you're going.
pinkietinkie08 3 months ago
@pinkietinkie08 For one, the women would had to show more then just being a virgin as even being wifey material, keep that in mind.
macadon 3 months ago
@macadon even if she was/is, no black man is going to wait faithfully.well, maybe he would if she was/is non-black.
pinkietinkie08 3 months ago
@pinkietinkie08 You don’t know that for certain which is why that’s a “sweeping generalization” just like I can make a generalization that all BW are not virgins, so there isn’t a need for BM to wait. Other negative attributes & traits can cause that BM to not want to pursue the relationship further. And if she was non-black who doesn’t maintain intolerable traits that BM find unattractive then of course he would stay. If BW can’t grasp that, then they will never understand
macadon 3 months ago
@macadon im not speaking on black men as individuals but AS A WHOLE. i don't have any children either, and??? a lot of grown black men must fit the title "boy" because most black women are fooling around with men who are considered the world over as GROWN MEN. like i said, im speaking of rules and not exceptions...and im not crying either. its your brothers on here doing all the dorn crying. black men need to work on changing themselves as a whole. protocol will make the women follow.
dragonpat666 4 months ago
@dragonpat666 And... if u don't have any children then why are u complaining about my preference in who I don't wanna date? If your getting with boys then u have a very bad judge of character. And if its my brothers that are crying then direct your comments at them and not me. The black men that need to change came from a matriarch household. Work on choosing to have children with Men instead of boys then u will have an establish family household.
macadon 4 months ago
@macadon when was i ever concerned about how you decide to date? AGAIN, i am speaking in general terms. if you thought my post did not concern you then why do you keep responding to them? once AGAIN, if a lot of black women are getting with "boys" then their must not be to many black males out their with the intelligence of a MAN to began with.
dragonpat666 4 months ago
@dragonpat666 I didn't say nothing about u being concern and u claim your speaking in general which is why u gave this perception that your speaking to all black men which is why I respond. I think its crazy for a single father or a deadbeat dad to come on my page and say they wouldn't date single mothers so why make the comment in the beginning as if the majority of male posters and myself have children? There are BW married to BM as well as non BW so question the BW who can't spot intellect
macadon 4 months ago
@macadon blk women are WAY to loyal to todays blk men because you ARE NOT as loyal to us. when a situation where the majority rules people tend to speak in general terms concerning said situation; example, if a majority of blk women are prone to uterine polps when addressing this issue the convo will reside take on a form that indicates black women as a whole because we are most likely affected...get it? don't try to run circles around me because it won't work.
dragonpat666 4 months ago
@dragonpat666 “blk women are WAY to loyal to todays blk men because you ARE NOT as loyal to us”
How are BM not loyal when majority of BM that are married or in relationships are with BW?
In what aspects are BM not loyal?
macadon 4 months ago
@dragonpat666 I don’t run circles, nor do I have to try, I call exactly what it is and what u did was exactly my point, quote “people tend to speak in general terms concerning said situation” therefore your statement was targeted at all Black men. U didn’t give specifics, so that entitled me to reply to u as well as another quote “all i have been hearing on these crying ass videos” again entitled me to reply b/c u gave that perception which gave me the reason to respond, did u not?
macadon 4 months ago
@macadon Not every man who is in need of a change comes from a matriarch. Some learned from their fathers.why are u treating single motherhood as if it is something new;it isn't. The difference is the women today don't care, It's all about vanity. My mother and her two brothers were raised by their grandmother and two aunts,later by her mom. They are fine. My mother is college educated, my uncles are married and educated and one was in the army.again this was back in the 40/50's.
someone2sayit1 1 month ago
@someone2sayit1 Who said anything about motherhood being something new? I’m not understanding the point your trying to make.
macadon 1 month ago
I don't necessarily want to be number one in a relationship because I want my space as well. All I want is respect and something the opposite of me; feminine. That, and the chance to be good to a woman that I can experience raising a family with on like-terms, i.e we both never did it before...
AtiwiSaka 4 months ago
the # 1 problem in the black community = BW picking bad boys/thugs....of for those that don't know the new codeword for these kind of guys are "swagger".....you can blame BM all day long but unless he forced you to have sex with him that's the guy you picked
the number # 2 problem in the black community = men running out on their family......ladies if you want to solve the problem then see number 1.......men chase but women pick and it seems like your all picking the same guys
vanityrose12 4 months ago
@cgiwattgrrl99 I dont have any kids. And if i did i would lovely take care of them.
MRbossman1982 4 months ago
Marriage is not a plausible solution to the black community as long as matriarchy is apart of that union... Just won't work.
AtiwiSaka 4 months ago
..woman that you can grow with mentally, spiritually and physically via the experience of marriage and a first child. It's both genders fault but what could you do? I guess my point is that as black men we can hold out and wait for a nice, educated sister with no kids to present herself in our lives but finding her is fast becoming like trying to find a needle in a haystack. smh
AtiwiSaka 4 months ago
Touchy subject for me here in New York. I understand where you are coming from but on this side of the fence young men don't have many choices in mates, as the percentage of women (in urban areas and cities) already come to the table with a child or two, and sometimes three. The black women here are promiscuous and are starting to have children earlier and earlier. Many of them who are in college already have 1 or 2. My last 2 ex's had a child and its getting frustrating to even find a quality..
AtiwiSaka 4 months ago
@AtiwiSaka @AtiwiSaka Man I fell you son. Like for real. My last 2 ex's had kids as well smh. I'm from New Orleans(Lotta of women already with kids), now I live in Houston(lotta women with kids lol) and the kick part about it is half the women without kids be on their high horse. And I cn relate to what macadon said about the woman having feeling about her babys father cause looking back, I think my ex had feelings for her youngest child father. He was barely a year old so I shoud've knew.
NOLAPicasso 4 months ago
@AtiwiSaka My man, I'm live out here in NYC and it's getting out of hand with all these sistas having kids with unproductive dudes
razzmatazz80 4 months ago
@cgiwattgrrl99 I agree 100%! But unfortunately the men that these women get with weren't really men to begin with so what can they really expect? Unless he has some random epiphany then she's going to be a single mom. The educated Black man isn't the one that's leaving moms single.
At the same time I'm torn about the situation. My dad wasn't around when I was a kid but another man stepped in and filled the spot. I don't know how he made the decision. Something to think about I guess...
GreasemonkeyCGI 5 months ago
I would only disagree with one thing you said. The most important thing to a single mother is not "her child". It's HERSELF. Great vid man.
BobbyL5757 5 months ago
@cgiwattgrrl99 Men and women aren't the same and they aren't going to be judged by the same criteria. A woman whoring is in a whole different league than a man whoring. Get over it
gwynplane723 5 months ago
UltraDOG17 6 months ago
16 Single Mothers disliked this video!!
G1theone 6 months ago
There is no such thing as a single mother. If she has a kid then her ass isn't single. Women with bastard children shouldn't date, they should give their full energy to properly raising their offspring. Avoid "single mothers " at all costs. As childless men, we shouldn't have to lower our standards so much.l There are plenty of good, childless women, there is no need to settle.
MrShaneVicious 6 months ago
U wont date a single black mother because your gay
9737417275 7 months ago
@9737417275 I see, so based on your logic, stating a preference in a companion makes that person gay? So would that idea apply to women who refuse to date single fathers? Or women who refuse to date short men, men who are non-athletic; men who are unemployed are they gay as well when they state their preference in men? I would luv your input
macadon 7 months ago
@9737417275 These shaming tactics don't work anymore. Your mother wore them out 30 years ago. We can't get laid, we have small dicks, we live in moms basement, we can't handle a strong woman (castrating witch) etc, etc. Yawn.
BobbyL5757 5 months ago
@9737417275 - No, because he is not STUPID. Moron !!!
arelius1971 5 months ago
@9737417275 "you're" gay, not your. =/
AtiwiSaka 4 months ago
WHAT YOU ARE SAYING IS VERY TRUE. I HAVE HAD AN EXPERIENCE BEFOR
SOME OF THEM ARE VERY BITTER. MY CONCLUSION IS IF YOU WANT A GOOD WOMAN SEEK THE ONES THAT HAVE A FOUNDATION BUILT IN GOD
ANY WOMAN OUTSIDE THAT, WILL BE CHAOS IN YOUR LIFE. LIKE CHRISTIANS SAY, A LIFE WITHOUT CHRIST IS A LIFE OF CRISIS
emmanuel43 7 months ago
oh shut up ! its week men like you whom create single mothers, Be number one in ur own life.
limacalev1 8 months ago
@limacalev1 How am I creating single mothers when I said I don't have any kids to begin with? I'm not married so what reason do I have bringing a child into this world? Seriously keep your emotional comments to yourself you sound foolish with your rant
macadon 8 months ago 8
You are a big baby. what woman would want ur silly as. Grow up!
limacalev1 8 months ago
@limacalev1 Just because a man has his own preference doesn't make him a baby. There are some men who are willing to accept kids but the woman has to put an effort in the relationship and try to focus on making the man feel important rather than bashing him for things that doesn't go her way.
TheHRchannel 7 months ago
@tazamack Yup my mama always warned me about females like that,and taught me not to get caught up in baby mama drama,and always told me remember when you fucked a females,well she didn't say it like that lol,but told me to always keep track in case they try to play games and say you got them pregnant,and if a female get's pregnant and you want a blood test they will look at you like you crazy,hell our black mother's tell us to get DNA test when we are younger just in case that happens.
guttaboi88 8 months ago
@tazamack Damn right this country is screwed up,and for the woman basically.And most black mother's that are single have major anger issues,and other personal issues and they may make it look like shit is sweet at 1st,but eventually their true motives will be exposed,and you will be like damn what the fuck did i get myself into lol.If they will get their baby daddies locked up,then you know they don't give a fuck about getting you locked up.
guttaboi88 8 months ago
@tazamack You are so right about that,the problem is,is there is so many black single mother's hell you will see more single mother's than mother's who have a full family.In my neighborhood almost every black woman is a single mother,and i really can see why b/c of their attitudes,every last one of them is bitter as fuck,and get mad at the world b/c they need some dick lol.I can't fuck with a single mothers,im not about to be playing step daddy.
guttaboi88 8 months ago
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markhai2978 9 months ago
I feel the same way. I'm a back women who dont have any kids. I would not choose to date a man with kids because of the baby mamma drama. I dont want to put up with a women who cant accept the fact that her baby daddy has moved on, so I choose to wait for someone whos had enough sense and respect for themselves to refraim from reproducing until they are in a meaningful married relationship.
nayar19 9 months ago 3
I agree I don't date single moms either, not feeling the baby daddy drama or if the kid acts disrespectful towards me
Priceless5799 10 months ago
Nice vid but I wish ppl would stop catergorizing ppl by their actions is it right to say all BM are thugs etc..etc.. All single mothers are bad and will always run back to the BD sometimes mistakes happen condoms bust, BC fails and always poor judgment. I mean i'm a single blk mother with 1 kid got prego at 13 now 20. Poor judgment-NO Stupid for sneaking around parents back-Yes learned from my mistakes and have no problem with men and great judgmental skills are in affect always dated nice BM
1oftxfinest09 10 months ago
@1oftxfinest09 Poor judgment-yes because if you were smart you would have waited to have UNPROTECTED sex until you were at least able to drive and have the guy or guys take care of the kid.
robertjosephgreen 9 months ago
@robertjosephgreen if you see it that way then thats your right but how many 13yr olds have great judgment when you find the answer let me know. 2. I have one child so it would be guy 3.Who really knows if a man will truly take care of their kids men walk out all the time for many of reasons they may have good intentions in the beginning or even half the kids life but hey it's life. 4. Stupid-No. A single mistake doesn't mean I lack intelligence especially again at the age I previously stated.
1oftxfinest09 9 months ago
@1oftxfinest09 you are right.I apologize for my prejudged comment .
robertjosephgreen 9 months ago
Wow. Why not all mothers?
yannajata 10 months ago
@yannajata Read the response I made to "jessicaaudate" which explains
macadon 10 months ago
single black moms are MASTERS OF EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL, MEN RUN RUN RUN RUN FAST THE OPPOSITE WAY.
MRbossman1982 10 months ago 16
me niether cause black women will always fuck thier babyfather no matter what.........
burr864 11 months ago 17
@burr864 that's so not true. lol it depends on the situation and the mental state of the two individuals.
SoundMercenaryProd 4 months ago
whatever no man in his right mind going to raise your kids from different daddies unless he has kids himself. You should live off welfare forever. All yoll black women the same and promiscous im 21 and a virgin. All yoll black women are thug lovin niggas @Honeygirl 1234
DorkBoySwag 11 months ago
Would he date a single white mother?
jessicaaudate 11 months ago
@jessicaaudate No I wouldn't nor have I. The only single mothers I dated were black hince why the title is called Single black mothers.
macadon 11 months ago
@jessicaaudate Typical question...
blackbolt75 10 months ago
@blackbolt75 I try!
jessicaaudate 10 months ago
Sir if a single mother needs her kids taken care of, whats the problem? I have five kids, and yes their fathers have left them but, I'm letting men who I date to take care of my kids. It is the right thing to do.
Honeygirl1234 1 year ago
@Honeygirl1234 This comment is self exclamatory, I don't need to say anything else
macadon 1 year ago
@macadon Your judging single black mothers. How dare you? When your disrespecting single mothers, your doing that to your own mother. Single moms have goals and dreams as well. I dream of moving to Cali for school, but I can't move because my kids live here in NJ. If I had a man to take care of them, maybe I'll have a shot of going to Cali with my kids without a relocation trial. If I take my kids out of state, it would be kidnapping, and I could go to jail for that.
Honeygirl1234 1 year ago
@Honeygirl1234 For one point out where in the video I disrespected single mothers. Two, the comparison of single moms to my mom is an invalid argument. For one my mom was born in the 50's and not the late 70's early or middle 80's. She had me when she was married to my dad and not out of wedlock. I don't know why u have this idea that majority of these single mothers were married before they had kids. No one didn't say anything about not having dreams & goals. U just refuse to understand
macadon 1 year ago
@macadon Fine. Well who is going to take care of my kids if I go to Cali? can you help me with that?
Honeygirl1234 1 year ago
@Honeygirl1234 lol, This is exactly what I'm talking about, your looking for a father figure why u didn't think about that before u had children? And then u expect a brother who doesn't have any kids to pick up the slack? um black man did not sign up to be picker uppers for the the black men who avoided responsibility
macadon 1 year ago
@macadon I do expect who ever I'm dating to help with the kids. That is expected of him. I don't understand why you won't date single mothers. If you find a good woman who has kids, you would do whatever you can for them, even help them relocate. Right now I'm trying to leave NJ for Cali. If I don't have a father figure for my kids, than who is going to take care of my kids if I leave NJ?
Honeygirl1234 1 year ago
@Honeygirl1234 Your expecting a guy your temporally dating to help with the kids?? really? Before u had kids did u ever date a single father? Why should I jump into an already made family when I can make one for my own? Espeically if she had kids by more then one man. If u don't have anyone to watch your kids then unitl u do, u have to sit their in NJ. I already see your motive for finding a man is just so he can babysit ,has nothing to do with being in a relationship. Self exclamatory
macadon 1 year ago
@macadon Well I don't want to stay in NJ. I wanna go to cali. I don't know what to do with my kids
Honeygirl1234 11 months ago
@Honeygirl1234 If u don't have the luxury of going to cali because your kids have to stay in NJ then it shouldn't be that difficult of a decision. And shipping them off to some guy your dating is not gonna help.
macadon 11 months ago
@macadon I have goals in life and I wanna father who will take care of my kids while I do that. I wanna go to school in Cali but me and my kids are in NJ. If I take the kids out of state but if I do, the fathers can take me to court for taking the kids out of state. That's why I want a real man to take care of my kids, so I can do these things
Honeygirl1234 11 months ago
@Honeygirl1234 Well then your just in a bind, stay in NJ and go to school. Why u didn't think about getting a real man before u had kids?
macadon 11 months ago
@macadon Well I'm looking for a real man now, that's all that matters
Honeygirl1234 11 months ago
@Honeygirl1234 Another thing that matters is that you teach your kids to any mistake you made.
TheHRchannel 11 months ago
@Honeygirl1234 First, Cali is OVERRATED, take it from someone who lives there. Second, shake that "a REAL man would take care of my kids" nonsense. To be blunt, you chose the wrong man to have a kid with in the 1st place, therefore you have no right to make a man take care of another man's child.
DeadSleepers 11 months ago
@Honeygirl1234 no the right thing to do is not let every well hug thug you have sex with nut inside you when he will be locked up and not support your kids and the next 50 thugs you sex up one will give you HIV.After the thug dick then you want a "nice guy" who you ignore before try to raise your bastard children.Who is that desperate and or stupid?
robertjosephgreen 11 months ago
@robertjosephgreen hey we all make mistakes. Yes we as women do make the wrong choice in men but we make mistakes. Nobody is perfect, not even you. So don't judge me or my kids. My kids are smart, beautiful and loving and they deserve the right father now, and I'm ready to give them the father that they need. I've learn and grow as a beautiful woman and no one can take that from me. So I say again whoever wants to be with me needs to understand to take care of my kids as well.
Honeygirl1234 11 months ago
@Honeygirl1234 join a church, bring your kids there every chance u get. teach ur daughters to save themselves and ur sons to be like their fathers but wear condoms. do NOT constantly complain to your sons about how bad men are, how it's their fathers' faults for your mess. your sons will become betamales - a.k.a LOSERS - if you teach them to sympathize with females. teach them to be strong, smart, to work out, to play sports, to be MEN. and most important to use contraception
AnimeNikkaJamal 11 months ago
@Honeygirl1234 i am sorry i was so blunt and mean.i don't know your situation.i just am frustrated with black people in general.
robertjosephgreen 11 months ago
@Honeygirl1234 My advice is that you wait for a few years before you get the guy to take care of the kids because the first thing you want to do is figure out the type of guy your man is. You'd really want to find out if he'll be a good father or so. Get what I'm saying?
TheHRchannel 11 months ago
Last, I hear a brother who is willing to give his all to a good woman who deserves it; and I pray that you get that opportunity. I would just offer to not become too cynical of the situation because of dealing or even seeing those who did not respond to the state intelligently. This will affect your own outlook in terms of this, and hurt your chances if not limit them in finding that woman you need despite if she has children or not. Keep your head up brother, in time your Queen will come.
DavidBrayboy 1 year ago
@DavidBrayboy I respect what your saying but the different scernaios I mention did not come from the same type of a backwards thinking woman. Some relationships ended on a positive note as well as the negative but where I’m at in my life there were too many cons then pros when I would deal with a single mother.
macadon 1 year ago
@DavidBrayboy I never concurred that all situations on this issue were like mine I was speaking from experience its titled “Why I can’t date” not telling other not to date. Also its not crude when I said I wouldn’t want her to place me above her child. Yes the 2 states are not the same but in the end she will choose her child that she had a baby by someone else over me, a child that I didn’t create with her. (continue)
macadon 1 year ago
I understand your wanting to be number one in her life, but your position is indeed number one in context of you being her man. But, to imply that her having a child, robs you of that position is a bit crude, respectfully speaking. I feel that you should respect her more seeing that her main priority is her child, and her main priority in terms of a man is you. The 2 states are not the same and yet in them both, are bond inside of her.
DavidBrayboy 1 year ago
I understand what you say in wondering if the person that you are with, still harbor feelings for the other, but that is unavoidable in regards to the past. This does not imply that those feelings are the same of the past. Coming into a womans life when she has children has nothing to do with the substance of the union. The way that we choose to respond to this is what will determine the outcome despite who else seems to be involved. Communication with her is the key to your peace of mind.
DavidBrayboy 1 year ago
This is very narrow in terms of the situation as a whole. There are plenty of people who are able to have a good friendship even after things do not work out. I am very good friends with my kids mother and her husband. They also stayed with me with my 2 sons until they were able to get another place, believe this or not. It is about not being self-centered and cynical. This what you say is understood, but not all situations are the way that you imply. Things are complicated, but hopeful.
DavidBrayboy 1 year ago
Also a real women puts God first and then her husband. A women shouldn't never put a man first. God says cursed be the man that puts their trust in man and not him first. You don't even sound like a "real" man anyway. Who says things like this. Unrealistic expectations. You should stop having sex if you don't want a baby mama intill you find your wife.
mjrevjohnson12 1 year ago
@mjrevjohnson12 For one spare me the shaming tatic. Women are the last ones to mention what is "real" when they keep up with physical lies anyway. Second I'm talking "physical" who is number one in your life. U should speak that message about sex till marriage to those who had kids out of wedlock, your speaking it to the wrong person. Until I become a broke, jobless, homeless, deadbeat with multiple kids by different women, then your opinion of me not being a "real man" would be valid.
macadon 1 year ago
Number one brother, if I may call you that. Don't throw stones in your glass house. This is life and things don't always go for the fairy tale state of mind.
mjrevjohnson12 1 year ago
KEep fooling yourself bro..youll go find some chick who aborted ten children and cant even get pregnant anymore...and she didnt tell you.. Virgins dont exist anymore
Thats when all this single mom drama of yours will finally sink in!
Guess its better to be a drug addict these days..seems thats more acceptable.
ElegantlyBrown 1 year ago 2
Great video my dude... you put well in so many ways... you have your whole life ahead of us... what a single mom doesn't realize is that 18 years is a very long LONG time knowing you will never be first in her eyes... go through wit that wit you own kids in the future not another man's kids... if the baby father is not in his own families life, the changes are he probably left for a pretty good damn reason.... i just subbed yah by the way...
TheOctavious4484 1 year ago
i agree with you 100%
Breshaun718 1 year ago
Keep this video up please, Macadon Homie.
for the rest of guys, never date roaches aka Single Unmarried Mothers.
it's painful to meet women without kids.
it's an fairytale in this sorry country & i hate it rite now.
i refused to date Has-Ben who opened her legs,
to every guy in sight, then except me to treated like an lady.
No, i treat you like an whore that you were ACTING.
I dont have no pity 4 no sluts at all
(not mention who had 2 surivive & make a living off of it)
UltraDOG17 1 year ago
The harsh reality though is that the older you get the harder it is to find someone without kids.
TheEditor80 1 year ago
I see what you mean because personally i wouldn't date a guy with a kid. their is too much baggage and then you have to deal with the baby's mother and whether the guy has feelings for her or not. Then, when you help discipline the child, your going to hear "you can't tell me what to do u ain't my mom". and on top of that i want my OWN family. i don't want to have to deal with another person's child. if the child didn't come out of me then he/she is not my problem
NaijaPrincess1989 1 year ago
"You don't want to date a single black mother because you cant make her a single black mother!"
chlowean1 1 year ago
@chlowean1 So in your mind, my reason for not dating single mothers is because some guy took over the role of fucking & then leaving and I said "Damn too late, someone already did what I was planning to do"
Am I right, That's what your saying correct?
macadon 1 year ago
@chlowean1 I'm sorry i was being malicious i don't know you i cant judge, but there are men out there that thrive on this culture a life style of escape and loss of responsibility which lands these women in this state and i'm talking about men of all races.
chlowean1 1 year ago
@macadon You're wack, and so is your little audio!
froufrougirl15 1 year ago
@froufrougirl15 Ladies & gents this is a classic example of an imbecile who can only throw ad hominem attacks that is nowhere relevant to the topic at hand, this is the best her little brain can muster up, Isn't it sad?
macadon 1 year ago
I'm sorry bruh I really can't take you seriously because your lisp is pretty funny. :/
froufrougirl15 1 year ago 2
@froufrougirl15 Its the audio but thats cool, but its pretty sad that people who actually have a lisp problem u find very funny or couldn't take them serious that says alot about your character
macadon 1 year ago
with that type of thinking, unfortunately, u will be identified as such if that is ur fundamental perception. america has failed and sooner or later, in the event of civil war or a new diaspora, there may very well be a new gov't/regime u will be subject to. those that promote certain behaviors within the camp will be subject. no doubt.
as it regards 2nd chances, sure, everyone deserves them. but in many cases, many don't get them. when someone does and takes full advantage of them, great.
sifurball 1 year ago
@sifurball You do know you didn't post a 'reply' right? It's only out of curiosity that I came across your comment. I assume it's addressed to me. Civil war, diaspora, new regime, etc... I'm living in reality, I am not perfect but I try. Who the hell am I to demand perfection out of anyone. We do not reside in the same society, I'm an islander (not Jamaican as my profile says) that's probably why I don't solve all my problems with a gun like you do. YOU my friend have the mindset of a warlike pp
xldjvista 1 year ago
I look at it like this even if the woman don't have any kids you still shouldn't be number 1 in her life. If she is a real woman and if you are a real man you