You mentioned using code words in the video. I have used very specific code words for this which play off of the D/S initialism. Using the words "Darling"/"Dear" and "Sweetie"/"Sweetheart" are perfect to me as they're completely vanilla, but play directly off of "Dom" and "Sub"
my collar only comes off when i take a bath or swim.. folk ask all the time about my collar and i am fully honset and tell them what it means--when vinlla friend are around nothing changes-- Master said "tea now slave" i respond " yes Master" i wear jeans and hoddie when folks are around-- thanks for your videos
i have been around Owns with kids before still nothing was diffent but W/we did tell the kids in the old days the Man was always hoh and should be respected & yes Master showed that
It isn't difficult to live a D/s relationship in a vanilla environment. Once you have a complete understanding of that specific dynamic then you compare the vanilla relationships, you will see there really isn't much of a difference. We don't normally curse at in public. We are adults and should use common sense. With collars, there's a vast selections that would look like normal vanilla collar. What counts is that the Master and submissive know it's true meaning.
Not trolling, making a genuine request; Please look into a better microphone. I had headphones on, with my computer volume cranked to maximum, and I was still having trouble hearing you over the static and background noise. Apologies in advance if I offended by accident, and thanks in advance for hearing me out.
collars should be able to be removed just for safety some of the collars have real locks on them and feel very kinky. they re not for everyone but look cool on the right people i suppose
@kinkykolumn first off cease my annoying dribble? whhaaat? second want me to build you a castle with a witch statue in it? also im sorry and you are very right.. i would be willing to try this.. wanna meet up and do it? because i think that if you talk to strangers on that site, this is far less creepy.. maybe you can teach me the basics so i know what my next girl expects..
@rainmouse2 No, dear. Also, you will cease your annoying dribble. You have your ways of expressing love and/or sexuality, others have theirs. Deal with it.
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lmao my point exactly.. everything about this has to be hidden.. dont you think you ever think this is rediculous? if your so into this BDSM BS, then why dont you let me beat you up and stick needles in u and get off on you? maybe ill drag you behind a ford excursion, wouldent that be a turn on? and ill just tell my gf im going on a buisness trip.
I looked at the tiffany style lockables but they are too flimsy a metal or leather collar is better and is more durable. can be with ot without lock it does also depend on the subby u have.
One thing I would add, is that the Master/Dom decides the name. Also, he sets the meaning to any words to be used in a vanilla situation so she understands fully to the meaning of 'sweety, get me a glass of lemonade' or 'a glass of lemonade, darling'. Both meaning two different things to the sub/slave.
when it comes to collars, what works for me is that i have a collar we wear in private, but in public Master lets me wear a pearl necklace he bought for me.
I have a 3 year old she isnt at the age yet where it really is an issue but fact of the matter is I dont do the things really around her. Now I am lucky most of my friends know what I am into and if they come over dont say anything when and if my Master comes over and he doesnt shout it he will tell me to come to him and then say "Get me a drink slave" but he has yet to have a chance as most times I automatically just go get him a glass of water and keep it refilled constantly drop me a message
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if you are so sure you want it and it's what you like to do..being in a 24 h D/s relationship, so why to hide it?maybe 'cause inside you think it's sick?are you so afraid of what other people might say or think about you?
No, because it's my private life and I prefer to keep it there for the most part. I don't advertise my sex life to the general public.
I can't speak for others, but some might prefer to keep it from the general public due to other's preconceived notions regarding BDSM and slavery. Is that bad? No. It's privacy.
Welcome back for starters, congratulations on getting this vlog off the ground.
Also an idea with the eternity collars if you look around there are locking anklets, rather thick, unless you want to break your ankle it isn't coming off without a key.
Of course, chastity belts are another good reincforcer for understanding status. Or of course, symbolic jewellry.
But i like collars too, nothing to me feels more owned than having that around my neck.
They have their own freedom to do as they wish when they are out of my presence, but they tend to wear "Tokens" of my ownership, by their own mind, even when they are out of it. But when they are in my presence, at my home, or as a group together, the collars go on, and they are mine to control, as I see fit.
It was suguested to them, and after getting to know each other on the "Scene", they themselves approached me, to ask me to be their Master. Which I happily agreed to, although I was a little nervous about doing so. But things have worked out fine, and we are a "regular thing".
I like the Channels... and I am sorry to hear about you and your Ex-master.
I myself am a Master, and I am lucky enough to have 3 slaves "Under Me".
My Wife, of 11 years... and 2 of her friends who are a Lesbian/Bi couple, who were looking for a Master of sorts, someone to take a controlling hand in their lives.
When I first got into "da life", I wanted to shout it from the rooftops. Quickly realized I didn't need to, and it wasn't always a good idea. Now have a much calmer "need to know" policy on it.
hi i recently took a interest into bdsm and have found your videos pretty cool im glad to see you have a new channel and am looking forward to learning and hearing more :)
You mentioned using code words in the video. I have used very specific code words for this which play off of the D/S initialism. Using the words "Darling"/"Dear" and "Sweetie"/"Sweetheart" are perfect to me as they're completely vanilla, but play directly off of "Dom" and "Sub"
bmak100 1 week ago
there's something so erotic about you ^^
itakegrossdares 1 week ago
my collar only comes off when i take a bath or swim.. folk ask all the time about my collar and i am fully honset and tell them what it means--when vinlla friend are around nothing changes-- Master said "tea now slave" i respond " yes Master" i wear jeans and hoddie when folks are around-- thanks for your videos
i have been around Owns with kids before still nothing was diffent but W/we did tell the kids in the old days the Man was always hoh and should be respected & yes Master showed that
cherrycoke1897 3 weeks ago
Always and foremost, we all BDSM, Vanilla or otherwise individuals know that these type of relationships are to be kept away from children.
MasterDysires1 1 month ago
It isn't difficult to live a D/s relationship in a vanilla environment. Once you have a complete understanding of that specific dynamic then you compare the vanilla relationships, you will see there really isn't much of a difference. We don't normally curse at in public. We are adults and should use common sense. With collars, there's a vast selections that would look like normal vanilla collar. What counts is that the Master and submissive know it's true meaning.
MasterDysires1 1 month ago
Not trolling, making a genuine request; Please look into a better microphone. I had headphones on, with my computer volume cranked to maximum, and I was still having trouble hearing you over the static and background noise. Apologies in advance if I offended by accident, and thanks in advance for hearing me out.
6Qubed 2 months ago
You're cool! :-)
McGengen 3 months ago
Great video,totally made me subscribe :)
Looking forward to more.
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allennyquistlas 9 months ago
collars should be able to be removed just for safety some of the collars have real locks on them and feel very kinky. they re not for everyone but look cool on the right people i suppose
stevenreiss 1 year ago
@kinky kolumn oh and damn you wake up early
rainmouse2 1 year ago
@kinkykolumn first off cease my annoying dribble? whhaaat? second want me to build you a castle with a witch statue in it? also im sorry and you are very right.. i would be willing to try this.. wanna meet up and do it? because i think that if you talk to strangers on that site, this is far less creepy.. maybe you can teach me the basics so i know what my next girl expects..
rainmouse2 1 year ago
@kinkykolumn a troll?... whats that? and thanks for telling me im cute
rainmouse2 1 year ago
@rainmouse2 No, dear. Also, you will cease your annoying dribble. You have your ways of expressing love and/or sexuality, others have theirs. Deal with it.
KinkyKolumn 1 year ago 5
@rainmouse2
the tiffany collar which is lockable is too expensive at 400usd i would think twice and get something simpler for everyday use.
stevenreiss 1 year ago
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lmao my point exactly.. everything about this has to be hidden.. dont you think you ever think this is rediculous? if your so into this BDSM BS, then why dont you let me beat you up and stick needles in u and get off on you? maybe ill drag you behind a ford excursion, wouldent that be a turn on? and ill just tell my gf im going on a buisness trip.
rainmouse2 1 year ago
@rainmouse2 Oh, I see! You're a troll! Aren't you cute? :D
KinkyKolumn 1 year ago 4
@rainmouse2
Love too my whips or yours?
venemous5 2 months ago
You have any other vids?
miket01 1 year ago
@miket01 Yup. Click my name above the video and it will show you all of my vids.
KinkyKolumn 1 year ago
hi
I looked at the tiffany style lockables but they are too flimsy a metal or leather collar is better and is more durable. can be with ot without lock it does also depend on the subby u have.
stevenreiss 1 year ago
i suppose im not yet kinky enough . we used leather cuffs and collars but only during a session !
and no items for everyday wearing: - i used normal wide belts only for everyday.
stevenreiss 1 year ago
I could certainly tell you'd LOVE to have one of those Tiffany locking chokers! XD It's was painted all over your face. (///_^)
JonofInsanity666 1 year ago
With my master near my parents, I call Him Master in Jappanese
I8apoptart 1 year ago
One thing I would add, is that the Master/Dom decides the name. Also, he sets the meaning to any words to be used in a vanilla situation so she understands fully to the meaning of 'sweety, get me a glass of lemonade' or 'a glass of lemonade, darling'. Both meaning two different things to the sub/slave.
Sqoodd 1 year ago
Pickofthepatch, in the time you took to write that, you could have donated $10 to
A Haitian relief org. You should be ashamed of the time you just wasted! (go bother someone else, sweetie)
KinkyKolumn 1 year ago
Do something useful.....Go to Haiti,join Doctors without Borders,Habitat for humanity,The Rede Cross,what a waste of time you people are!
pickofthepatch 1 year ago
when it comes to collars, what works for me is that i have a collar we wear in private, but in public Master lets me wear a pearl necklace he bought for me.
phantomessk 2 years ago
as i have run out of space so i can talk to you more. I dont know what role you take I have my suspicions but meh ttyl hun
ladynekoami 2 years ago
I have a 3 year old she isnt at the age yet where it really is an issue but fact of the matter is I dont do the things really around her. Now I am lucky most of my friends know what I am into and if they come over dont say anything when and if my Master comes over and he doesnt shout it he will tell me to come to him and then say "Get me a drink slave" but he has yet to have a chance as most times I automatically just go get him a glass of water and keep it refilled constantly drop me a message
ladynekoami 2 years ago
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please tell me how strong your glasses are...
hertzrouter 3 years ago
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if you are so sure you want it and it's what you like to do..being in a 24 h D/s relationship, so why to hide it?maybe 'cause inside you think it's sick?are you so afraid of what other people might say or think about you?
paperroot 3 years ago
No, because it's my private life and I prefer to keep it there for the most part. I don't advertise my sex life to the general public.
I can't speak for others, but some might prefer to keep it from the general public due to other's preconceived notions regarding BDSM and slavery. Is that bad? No. It's privacy.
KinkyKolumn 3 years ago
the sound is out of sync with the video.
lten514 3 years ago
Yeaaah I know. My computer was a little funky for a while, then I got my new one. I need to make another vlog. Gah.
KinkyKolumn 3 years ago
how strong are your glasses?
hertzrouter 3 years ago
Welcome back for starters, congratulations on getting this vlog off the ground.
Also an idea with the eternity collars if you look around there are locking anklets, rather thick, unless you want to break your ankle it isn't coming off without a key.
Of course, chastity belts are another good reincforcer for understanding status. Or of course, symbolic jewellry.
But i like collars too, nothing to me feels more owned than having that around my neck.
Atausariela 3 years ago
now read it from my first posting, upwards to this one... it will make more sence... lol
MidnightHauler 3 years ago
Oh, while I remember...
The Tiffany Collar/Choker you mentioned in the above blog, is as follows.... I have done the research...
Tiffany 1837 Lock Charm Necklace.
RRP $255
Yours,
Master Nick
MidnightHauler 3 years ago 2
They have their own freedom to do as they wish when they are out of my presence, but they tend to wear "Tokens" of my ownership, by their own mind, even when they are out of it. But when they are in my presence, at my home, or as a group together, the collars go on, and they are mine to control, as I see fit.
MidnightHauler 3 years ago
It was suguested to them, and after getting to know each other on the "Scene", they themselves approached me, to ask me to be their Master. Which I happily agreed to, although I was a little nervous about doing so. But things have worked out fine, and we are a "regular thing".
MidnightHauler 3 years ago
Hi Babe...
I like the Channels... and I am sorry to hear about you and your Ex-master.
I myself am a Master, and I am lucky enough to have 3 slaves "Under Me".
My Wife, of 11 years... and 2 of her friends who are a Lesbian/Bi couple, who were looking for a Master of sorts, someone to take a controlling hand in their lives.
(*Continues*)
MidnightHauler 3 years ago
Dig it.
When I first got into "da life", I wanted to shout it from the rooftops. Quickly realized I didn't need to, and it wasn't always a good idea. Now have a much calmer "need to know" policy on it.
--ThornDaddy
Kittyfeet69 3 years ago
hi i recently took a interest into bdsm and have found your videos pretty cool im glad to see you have a new channel and am looking forward to learning and hearing more :)
jocifer1 3 years ago
glad your back!
rosehipsforu 3 years ago