It makes a lot of sense this comfort thing.....I've experimented with night game and day game approaches and levels of attraction and comfort. Their truly needs to be an emotional comfort connection besides attraction for her to answer the phone...
follow this stragedy ask her about something, direction for example and talk a little about the place where youre going then whe its done say thanks a lot, by the way you knwo any good place to eat? she suggests then you say ok lets go, im inviting you then smile a little as if youre joking she will give a funny smile or look then say in a sarcastic way are you on a diet? and smile then introduce yourself be vibrant , ask her something little about herself thats one way that could last 5 minutes
wow some things i totally agree with you like asking her questions.....but man if a guy started talking to me about that dog story id get bored as hell...proly think ur sumwhat gay....and try to stop talking to u cuz that story is boring as hell and not attractive....plus i dont give a shit bout ur dog
Well this guy is a pro, he knows what he is talkign about, three days ago I couldnt approach I looked at these videos and used his method , im getting phone numbers from almost every girl i approach, my look does help but it didnt serve me before. Thank you alex.
I just saw all his videos and followed his notes, most important thing is to create the entire conversation before going there, i even practiced it on males before going to the hot females haha. The answers girls would give are obvious just think of all possibilities and keep saying the same thing over and over and it gets better, especially if you look good it will be too easy, then you got the perfect package.
well u must look real good cuz seriously this storing is soo boring.....but if maybe u said an exciting story then id be interested or maybe the girls u approach actually arent that attractive....just saying.....cuz im a "hot girl" and this just doesnt do it for me....and i think i'd know....im a girl
That is why he tells the story after he builds attraction. Its not about building attraction, but about creating comfort with a girl who is already attracted. If one would start with the comfort story obviously he would not attract the woman.
well that story was boring as hell...plus im a "hot gurl" so since im a girl i think id know what attracts them......so maybe ur looks make up for the lame ass story or maybe the girls u think are hot actually arent....cuz for a first impression im looking for excitement not this.....so w.e. dude
This is the trial: men have loved darkness more that the light, because their deeds are evil-Gv 3,19
Now I want to meet you and all the good in a universal and permanent prayer all good for your heart and all that is good for the world every Monday of your life, from 20 to 21 I will be with you in spirit, with my love until the end of the world!
No matter your religion or your atheism I am still near you in your prayers! God bless all mankind, protect you and help you throughout AMEN ALLELUIA
Thanks Alex, another awesome vid. But...a lot of the stories you suggest are too..well farfetched for me to tell a girl, I don't mean that in a harsh way, but I wouldn't want to make up heaps of stories and be lying. What if she asked about my 'little dog' later on when we're dating and I admit he's not real, she would then think I'm not trustowrthy. Also, I'm only 15 :)
Seems like a good Joe, always make sure you're in good physical shape when approaching girls... I still don't see how fat ass guys who are'nt rich get cute girls.
Well and about you are not rich = you don't get girls is basicly non-sence. Ofcorse, it is maybe big bonus if you have cash to spend. But it is not the main point. Just go to work, earn money, dress cool, make new haircut and go to the night city. Then just pick up girl.
I have a good friend, which are little fat. He dress up a suit, make new haircut, and he look like millionaire! Way much better than Bill Gatest! GO ON!
@Samuraiul1 Alex learned a lot from the mystery method including this. Mystery says it in his book, exactly what to do. I highly recommend his book. There is the attraction phase, then comfort, and then seduction.
through the use of stories that will touch their hearts ...
"You know what, babe ... I once had this dog named Bruno ... I had him for like 8 years and got really attached to this dog ... playing with him ... feeding him ... taking him to the beach .... he was such a great dog... but one day he died.
That same night, we ate him for dinner ... Gosh ... I miss that doggie ..."
Holy shit bro that's awesome, I'm gonna use that! It'll show her you're sensative, but have a quirky sense of humour. You gotta make sure you have a big smile on your face at the end so she knows it's just a joke though.
Nice talk Alex. I was just telling this girl about my childhood cat that my brother and I were secretly hoping it got mixed up with a "panther" at the pound from where we got 'em. Expressing vulnerability is pretty strong masculine thing to do, because it DHV implicitly that you are in control of your own past and emotions associated with it.
It makes a lot of sense this comfort thing.....I've experimented with night game and day game approaches and levels of attraction and comfort. Their truly needs to be an emotional comfort connection besides attraction for her to answer the phone...
2Solista 8 months ago
I love that he has to clarify that he had the dog for ten human years.
PaddyMacNasty 1 year ago
trust is THE most important and disregarded element of seduction. take notes, boys!
speedybastard2 1 year ago 2
you are not suppose to tell negative stories. thats really bad PU
gongxia649 1 year ago
I concur on much of what he says,except the crybabystories.tell adventurous and funny ones instead
91Tribual 1 year ago
hhmmm. Interesting. I had no idea guys felt this way when it came to girls.
inturn23 2 years ago
cool
danielharris13 2 years ago
omg ur yellow hat Is so Cool Man i want one lol
ohyeshim2 2 years ago
nigga it's all about buying hookers
XnegropleaseX 2 years ago
haha you look like a cool dude you'd be a great wingman!
mateor09 2 years ago 2
LOL! did you go for a direct or inderect?
aliwaheed1975 2 years ago
The more you listen, the more you want to know.
V8Fiero2M8 2 years ago
this stuff really works and im 16
JohnDman16 2 years ago 3
Story about the dog is kind of depressing and long, but if it works for him, then great.
hoytfan 2 years ago
follow this stragedy ask her about something, direction for example and talk a little about the place where youre going then whe its done say thanks a lot, by the way you knwo any good place to eat? she suggests then you say ok lets go, im inviting you then smile a little as if youre joking she will give a funny smile or look then say in a sarcastic way are you on a diet? and smile then introduce yourself be vibrant , ask her something little about herself thats one way that could last 5 minutes
slaoui53 2 years ago
Yeah that's a good way to do it. I will try that soon. Thanks.
hoytfan 2 years ago
wow some things i totally agree with you like asking her questions.....but man if a guy started talking to me about that dog story id get bored as hell...proly think ur sumwhat gay....and try to stop talking to u cuz that story is boring as hell and not attractive....plus i dont give a shit bout ur dog
jasdancho 2 years ago
Well this guy is a pro, he knows what he is talkign about, three days ago I couldnt approach I looked at these videos and used his method , im getting phone numbers from almost every girl i approach, my look does help but it didnt serve me before. Thank you alex.
Regards
slaoui53 2 years ago
Wow you are a fast learner. Three days? It's taking me a lot longer than that.
hoytfan 2 years ago
I just saw all his videos and followed his notes, most important thing is to create the entire conversation before going there, i even practiced it on males before going to the hot females haha. The answers girls would give are obvious just think of all possibilities and keep saying the same thing over and over and it gets better, especially if you look good it will be too easy, then you got the perfect package.
Regards
slaoui53 2 years ago
well u must look real good cuz seriously this storing is soo boring.....but if maybe u said an exciting story then id be interested or maybe the girls u approach actually arent that attractive....just saying.....cuz im a "hot girl" and this just doesnt do it for me....and i think i'd know....im a girl
jasdancho 2 years ago
That is why he tells the story after he builds attraction. Its not about building attraction, but about creating comfort with a girl who is already attracted. If one would start with the comfort story obviously he would not attract the woman.
driescraenen 2 years ago 2
Well you better have a "hot" name too! lol
kmhf88 2 years ago
what does that have to do with anything...my name is Jasmine btw
jasdancho 2 years ago
Hi jasmine :) It doesn't have to do with anything... nice to meet you btw
kmhf88 2 years ago
well that story was boring as hell...plus im a "hot gurl" so since im a girl i think id know what attracts them......so maybe ur looks make up for the lame ass story or maybe the girls u think are hot actually arent....cuz for a first impression im looking for excitement not this.....so w.e. dude
jasdancho 2 years ago
how well did it work for you? how many girls did u approach and how many #'s did you get?
vincemcneal600 2 years ago
good advice but keep ur eyes on the road budyy
soopertramp 2 years ago
pretty sure he's not driving .. -.-
either that or he drives a tiny ass car with no backseat
himynameisel 2 years ago
That was in response to NZartfuldando...
Clover0987 2 years ago
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This is the trial: men have loved darkness more that the light, because their deeds are evil-Gv 3,19
Now I want to meet you and all the good in a universal and permanent prayer all good for your heart and all that is good for the world every Monday of your life, from 20 to 21 I will be with you in spirit, with my love until the end of the world!
No matter your religion or your atheism I am still near you in your prayers! God bless all mankind, protect you and help you throughout AMEN ALLELUIA
humanumgenus 2 years ago
awesome DHV story.
acpramhus 3 years ago
i wonder what the driver is thinking while this guy is talking haha
anotherteenindenial 3 years ago 21
Thanks Alex, another awesome vid. But...a lot of the stories you suggest are too..well farfetched for me to tell a girl, I don't mean that in a harsh way, but I wouldn't want to make up heaps of stories and be lying. What if she asked about my 'little dog' later on when we're dating and I admit he's not real, she would then think I'm not trustowrthy. Also, I'm only 15 :)
NZartfuldando 3 years ago
Good advice good advice!
I attract girls left right and centre, but THIS is where my problem has been! I try to disqualify, but it looks like i have to do it a fair bit more!
That was a great great story by the way Alex, I might start telling girls the story about my first dog too :)
Seabass200 3 years ago
gosh ur cute....
hnicky 3 years ago
So either you're gay or you're a girl. Why are you watching how to get with women? lol
NZartfuldando 3 years ago
So we can prepare our defense tactics ;)
btw i think i'd laugh if someone told me that story, it's too generic...
Clover0987 2 years ago
lol.. can u tell us how to get men and how they think
hnicky 3 years ago
yes please....tell us! They never call...
ariannahiggins 3 years ago
alex is awesome but let's not shit on mystery, they use a lot of the same methods
htetris 3 years ago
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Samuraiul1 3 years ago 10
Seems like a good Joe, always make sure you're in good physical shape when approaching girls... I still don't see how fat ass guys who are'nt rich get cute girls.
KingofZona 3 years ago 2
Fat ass guys :) Thats funny.
Well and about you are not rich = you don't get girls is basicly non-sence. Ofcorse, it is maybe big bonus if you have cash to spend. But it is not the main point. Just go to work, earn money, dress cool, make new haircut and go to the night city. Then just pick up girl.
I have a good friend, which are little fat. He dress up a suit, make new haircut, and he look like millionaire! Way much better than Bill Gatest! GO ON!
Careica 3 years ago 3
@Samuraiul1 Alex learned a lot from the mystery method including this. Mystery says it in his book, exactly what to do. I highly recommend his book. There is the attraction phase, then comfort, and then seduction.
alexzracer2008 1 year ago
I agree .... you gotta show vulnerability ...
through the use of stories that will touch their hearts ...
"You know what, babe ... I once had this dog named Bruno ... I had him for like 8 years and got really attached to this dog ... playing with him ... feeding him ... taking him to the beach .... he was such a great dog... but one day he died.
That same night, we ate him for dinner ... Gosh ... I miss that doggie ..."
JOELMILLIONAIRE 3 years ago 4
Holy shit bro that's awesome, I'm gonna use that! It'll show her you're sensative, but have a quirky sense of humour. You gotta make sure you have a big smile on your face at the end so she knows it's just a joke though.
NZartfuldando 3 years ago
ralph? thats my name
War4pigs 3 years ago
alex is fucking awesome. just fucking awesome. LONG LIVE ALEX and may he be fruitful and MULTIPLY OVER AND OVER!
fiendin281 4 years ago 18
@fiendin281 May he multiply over and over? Dude, get off his reproductive sack.
gaBehcuoDsuoitneterP 10 months ago
Nice talk Alex. I was just telling this girl about my childhood cat that my brother and I were secretly hoping it got mixed up with a "panther" at the pound from where we got 'em. Expressing vulnerability is pretty strong masculine thing to do, because it DHV implicitly that you are in control of your own past and emotions associated with it.
rondeline 4 years ago