She says I am too clingy! - What does that mean? - FOR GUYS!

[Laughingblades]

You nailed it, more men need to learn to recognize boundaries and accept the natural pace of things more. You can't possess a woman or just force things, that only ruins things.

Guys if you're like this, being all clingy, it's a MASSIVE turn off, it's smothering, you make us feel like things instead of people, it ignores our boundaries. You need to give women space. Trust me, if you do it right and don't be a stupid player about it, she'll be wanting to be around you.

[TheJonesMC]

excellent thankyou very much

[905jessica]

ughhh clingy guys:/

[Parkers233]

really helpful video, my last girlfriend broke up with me because of this and I can feel myself doing it again with my new girlfriend, I just become too attatched. BUT this video has helped alot! thank you :)

[thelifeuwant]

you really have to make a balance in your life as best you can :) - focus on yourself first and loving yourself and appreciating all the good within you... dream the dreams you want for your life.. exercise, develop some time alone to meditate and pray.. have fun with some family or friends... there are so many enjoyable things to do- then when you do return to your lover you will both feel refreshed and looking forward to each others embrace :)))

[thelifeuwant]

thanks dude. that was great :)

[wrathchild356]

Thanks alot. i asked 3 of my exx gfs if i was clingy and they said yes. but i take it as a lesson not an insult or anything like that. thanks again :)

[kurai6]

Wow this video is great, i am too clingy aswell :( this is the first time ive gone out with a girl and she said im too clingy, i feel so depressed when im not with her i keep sending emails and if she doesnt reply it drives me crazy, i keep asking why dont you reply are you ok?　Maybe this is a problem more for men than women? to be honest if she was really clingy i'd be so happy, it would feel like she really cares about me

I guess i have to change myself or i may lose her :(

[go4thus]

WOW! THANK U for this vid! I never understood the why.. makes sense now.. 5 stars!

[Silvertrine]

It means you have mother issues and that this particular woman is too selfish to want to give anything to you. Dont you know the magazines tell her relationships are about her needs 24/7. Helping a boyfriend out with his problems? Hahahahaha. If he has problems you  must belittle him and shame him of course. Way to go ladies another wounded man bites the dust.

[kitktlov]

Good lord, I want to send this to my boyfriend...He calls me just to say hey every 4 hours, and its really obnoxious, he asks way toooooo many question about nothing, just to drag on our pointless coversation, and then he has the longest good byes, i just want him to chill out. I get text messages like there is no tomorrow from him. but when we are together its fine. He just has to be around me ALLL HOURS OF THE DAY i honestly cant breathe.

[mcelite14]

Ok this woman I'm into (not obsessed) says that she's very busy..and she is a busy person I will say that but a later time when I asked her out she said that she's busy again and then went to say she doesn't know me that well. I said well that's the point of a date and i told her i had stuff to do that's why i would be around our school long then she says well it's just that i can't guarentee being able to do anything. So is she lying or being real?

[chelleBella27]

she seems like she isnt really into having a boyfriend because she is more foccussed on other things in life. I think she is being real but only from what you wrote gave me an impression of her.

[mcelite14]

Ok thank you! I've been trying to move on but that interest is still there and she's a lot more interested in my life and smiles when she sees me...she seems to want to be really good friends b4 taking it a level higher.

[rebeccawarfield]

i got dumped by 2 guys in 1 week cause they said i was "too clingy"

[Anjro0]

I feel for you, but it is no coincidence that a girl labelled as clingy would also manage to have 2 boyfriends in one week. take it slower. Maybe you should consider not having a BF at all times. Also, you probably are expecting far too much attention - guys show affection differently. Trust me, you don't need to work that hard to keep a guy once you have him. Any direct attempt to keep his attention or presence will just drive him away. Please take this advice this time, all u ladies ;)

[chelleBella27]

you shouldnt go out with 2 guys in one week it looks bad on you and maybe you are one of those people that needs a boyfriend at all times.

[starangel031785]

@rebeccawarfield in 1 week..........were u in a relationship because damn those are two fast relationships

[navyseal100]

My wife said she LIKES my clinginess!

[vitalcoaching]

maybe you are clingy in a VERY CONFIDENT way ;)

[navyseal100]

really how so?...I'd like to keep it very confident..and not turn into NEEDY clingy

[vitalcoaching]

call me! - we'll have a session on that one ;)

[nitchu]

Good thing me and my GF are both clingy...

But when she leaves town I get really panicky and upset...

Sorry but I might be one of those people who will always be clingy, but I dont stalk her 24/7, i think there's a difference between stalking and being clingy.

[vitalcoaching]

'f course - It's totally different

[starangel031785]

@nitchu gosh i wish my boyfriend was clingy. i like that

[SamIam992]

holy cow i have trouble finding a date i usually scare them off when i say emotional stuff to him, like a love you do think we will be together forever! then he runs off lol!

[vitalcoaching]

Not surprised ;)

[Tracy3686]

clingy is the kiss of death. just AWFUL.

[vitalcoaching]

true!

[navyseal100]

so is your breath

[NxNproductions]

im a girl, and boy are you right, i mean...i have had many bf's and most of them were VERY clingy, and i like some space once in a while. =]

[vitalcoaching]

thanks

[hitmans20]

good videos !

how does you giving her space create attration in what way is it best

[vitalcoaching]

it creates attarction because it shows that you are not emotionally dependent on her - On top of that it shows that you respect her which gives her a sense of security and comfort when she's with you

[eletem01]

sucha good video I need to show this to my guy

[vitalcoaching]

thanks ;) - yes! so many guys can use that!

[moolu123]

I feel this way about my boyfriend sadly...

[vitalcoaching]

get him to watch the vid ;)

[james11asian16jack]

thanks alot man:)

[vitalcoaching]

you're welcome