- That translates into Ellis telling her, in so many words, that life is too short to go on and be stubborn about what you want, what you really want. Ellis had lost years because she didn't ask Richard to stay and Richard didn't know the lengths Ellis had gone to which in turn left Meredith emotionally vulnerable as the past seasons have shown her unwillingness to trust and love. By sorting out the past you can finally sort what is stuck in front of you.
Derek is a jerk for leaving her to deal with all these alone while he runs off with other woman. Cristina was with Owen during his therapy sessions. He almost killed her but she stayed. Meredith has issues and Derek broke things off with her and kisses a scrub nurse...and got all serious with the nurse.
ok 8:36 i don't really think that the writes got this part right cause in episode 3:14 she keeps telling Meredith What happened to you when she said she had a boyfriend and was happy then she drowns in the next episode
@AsksOneThing the therapist says "that you get to learn form her mistakes " meaning she gets to love someone
"Be extraordinary" is what the mother said but in season 2 episode 14 she (her mother) tells Meredith that she's ordinary when she tells her that she's happy with Derek .So does it mean that the mother WAS talking about surgery or love ?
@BlackWolfie66 Now I see what you're saying, but I think they're different things.
Ellis cut her wrists after Richard left Then "Be extraordinary" may have meant, or "Have a career AND a great love."
She calls Mere ordinary after discovering that she (Ellis) has lost her greatness and it looks like Mere is "wasting" her gift. She is not talking about the same thing she was when she cut her wrists.
Also...it's Grey's. Is it ever entirely consistent?
'When are you going to stop treating me like someone who is suicidal?'
'When you start acting like somebody who wants to be alive.' Very true,
I truely feel like i've gone on a journey with Meredith in Grey's and i didnt love her at first, too whiny and annoying but over time i understand her, i respect her and i love her! X
I think this video ought to be a compulsory watching for Mer fans. I still am a sado in crying when Mer talks about her mom. Thank goodness for the great ending with the house of candles. S5 and S6 just show how much Mer is continuing to grow :)))
This is a very good thing.. I love this.. IT makes more sense of understanding Meredith.. I love it... Ellis didn't want to die and it made utter sense... I get meredith I feel sometimes that I am in the same situation, emotional wise..
who stated: ''Mer had problems, but Derek NEVER owns up to any of his shit.''
I have to say, Derek did actually own up to Addison, saying he was distant, and that he was working on it.
As far as Meredith is concerned, when he met Lexi in the bar he told Mer about it, Derek doesn't need to explain his actions because it's pretty obvious why he does it all. :)
Well, except for the shit about having a wife when they first met (granted, separated) and not telling her for an entire year. And then choosing his wife, who he claimed he doesn't love, over Meredith, who he claimed he did love.
He didn't know he loved meredith until he got back with his wife at christmas, choosing Adisson wasn't the problem, it's the way he wasn't really trying that was bas and he wouldn't let Meredith go
im just gonna say this because your insurance only covers 20 sessions and i feel we should get right tot he point, that was load of crap it was not a good day
agreed...best example is in season 2 when he calls her a whore. She tells him that he's the one who walked away, that she made no apologies for how she glued herself back together when he chose his wife [whom he neglected to mention to mere!] over her. and then? and THEN? he flips it so it's all about him and says that things are done with her...he's a ginormous arrogant and smug tool, mere should have picked finn!
I wish Dr. Wyatt was back. She should be there for Christina and Owen.
theathenakeene 2 weeks ago
Dr. Wyatt is one of my all-time favorite characters on Grey's.
andersonab1222 1 month ago
good therapist don't do therapy that way.
xina502 2 months ago
I've been trying to remember when did dark and twisty Mer was gone. It was therapy!!
withoutlover911 2 months ago
You are quitting! I am not quitting I don't quit things!
Kay9999p 2 months ago
I love this video :D thanks for making it!
Kay9999p 2 months ago
dr.wyatt is a GENIOUSS!
its amazing how she got meredith to figure out her moms real messagee they should really bring her backk.
Emeraldstar09 3 months ago
truSHt you
shelteringshade 3 months ago
"When are you going to stop suggesting I'm suicidal?" "When you start acting like someone who wants to be alive." BOOM
plansforus 4 months ago 3
Ah, I love these scenes. Amy Madigan is always a pleasure to watch!
ijssy 7 months ago
is there the elevator scene where they talk about life?
Tsenio 7 months ago
I wanted to punch meredith more than usual during this season.
dannonstewart9 8 months ago
idk why but I always cry when at the end when meredith comes to her therapist and the slow music starts playing
nikkibabe231 9 months ago
Bring Dr.Wyatt back, she would've fixed Cristina in a jiffy on the first 10 episodes of the season
kpana8114 1 year ago 7
what song is playing in the first clip?
Cramu12 1 year ago
@Cramu12 I'm good i'm gone by Lykke Li
MissHalfway0 6 months ago
thank you for compiling these scenes!
endorataylor 1 year ago
"Be an extraordinary woman Meredith. "
- That translates into Ellis telling her, in so many words, that life is too short to go on and be stubborn about what you want, what you really want. Ellis had lost years because she didn't ask Richard to stay and Richard didn't know the lengths Ellis had gone to which in turn left Meredith emotionally vulnerable as the past seasons have shown her unwillingness to trust and love. By sorting out the past you can finally sort what is stuck in front of you.
dicknailed 1 year ago 2
be a extraordinary woman!
viviannenascimento 1 year ago
be a extraordinary woman!
viviannenascimento 1 year ago
this therapist is awesome.
Animal13x 1 year ago
Derek is a jerk for leaving her to deal with all these alone while he runs off with other woman. Cristina was with Owen during his therapy sessions. He almost killed her but she stayed. Meredith has issues and Derek broke things off with her and kisses a scrub nurse...and got all serious with the nurse.
x3crissie 1 year ago 2
@x3crissie if you do not recall mer broke up with derek for kissing a girl a day before they got back together
cblack19519 1 year ago
ok 8:36 i don't really think that the writes got this part right cause in episode 3:14 she keeps telling Meredith What happened to you when she said she had a boyfriend and was happy then she drowns in the next episode
So who's right me or the writers??
BlackWolfie66 1 year ago
@BlackWolfie66 I don't get what you're trying to sey.
AsksOneThing 1 year ago
@AsksOneThing the therapist says "that you get to learn form her mistakes " meaning she gets to love someone
"Be extraordinary" is what the mother said but in season 2 episode 14 she (her mother) tells Meredith that she's ordinary when she tells her that she's happy with Derek .So does it mean that the mother WAS talking about surgery or love ?
Do you get it ?
BlackWolfie66 1 year ago
@BlackWolfie66 Now I see what you're saying, but I think they're different things.
Ellis cut her wrists after Richard left Then "Be extraordinary" may have meant, or "Have a career AND a great love."
She calls Mere ordinary after discovering that she (Ellis) has lost her greatness and it looks like Mere is "wasting" her gift. She is not talking about the same thing she was when she cut her wrists.
Also...it's Grey's. Is it ever entirely consistent?
AsksOneThing 1 year ago
@AsksOneThing yeah that makes sense :) thanks !!!
BlackWolfie66 1 year ago
'When are you going to stop treating me like someone who is suicidal?'
'When you start acting like somebody who wants to be alive.' Very true,
I truely feel like i've gone on a journey with Meredith in Grey's and i didnt love her at first, too whiny and annoying but over time i understand her, i respect her and i love her! X
englishgainer 2 years ago 6
I love these scenes they were awesome. Especially the one where Mer tell the shrink that her mother tried to killed herself. That was awesome.
anasmat411 2 years ago 4
I think this video ought to be a compulsory watching for Mer fans. I still am a sado in crying when Mer talks about her mom. Thank goodness for the great ending with the house of candles. S5 and S6 just show how much Mer is continuing to grow :)))
Dream57Day 2 years ago 19
Fantastic! I remember every session :-)
Serenfly 2 years ago 4
I wish I had the same therapist :D
scaredlittlesunshine 2 years ago 8
this video is awesome.. now i understand lots of things-1! thanks so much1!
ralebp54 2 years ago 3
why did mer go to therapy?? sorry is just that im just starting to watch greys.. and theres a lot i dont know..!! te
ralebp54 2 years ago 3
the coldplay song is the beginning of the song "death and all of his friends"
Lucia121 2 years ago
These scenes help explain Mer's demons very well.
dith4ever1 3 years ago 6
I loved from 5:05 to 6:06 that was my fav part!!!!!
This is a really good job...
Thanks girl for doing this!!!
CassandraBlack00 3 years ago
haha... the therapy session you missed was the one where Meredith can only think about Derek's tongue!!!
maddieo87 3 years ago 4
Really? I must have missed that
d1x1e1 3 years ago
This is a very good thing.. I love this.. IT makes more sense of understanding Meredith.. I love it... Ellis didn't want to die and it made utter sense... I get meredith I feel sometimes that I am in the same situation, emotional wise..
thetheimpossible95 3 years ago 4
LOVE when she says "Be Extraordinary"!!!...Compelling in just 2 words. Thanks!
BprimetimeS22 3 years ago
for those who are looking for the song at 8:16: it's Jon Foreman - The Cure For The Pain
BenQCat 3 years ago
have been looking for a video just like this one for ages. great video you made.
diaduit73 3 years ago 4
excellent compilation!!
thanks you =))
LuckyPMP13 3 years ago 2
cool. thanks. i wanted to see something like this. good job!
rlee99p 3 years ago
From 3.00 and up her sweater is open and closed, you see ? ;)
EmmieAndersson 3 years ago
thanks!
LindsayLoving 3 years ago
Does anyone know the name of the song at 6:17? Tried the website but doesn't list it.
redman318j 3 years ago
Its a coldplay song, but I don't remember the title.
mspeabody09 3 years ago
I love this video! especially when she figured why she couldn't stay committed. Now maybe Merder will finally work!!!!
shadesofgrey1947 3 years ago
Oh and to ''PrimetimeCS4''
who stated: ''Mer had problems, but Derek NEVER owns up to any of his shit.''
I have to say, Derek did actually own up to Addison, saying he was distant, and that he was working on it.
As far as Meredith is concerned, when he met Lexi in the bar he told Mer about it, Derek doesn't need to explain his actions because it's pretty obvious why he does it all. :)
Laura5x 3 years ago
Well, except for the shit about having a wife when they first met (granted, separated) and not telling her for an entire year. And then choosing his wife, who he claimed he doesn't love, over Meredith, who he claimed he did love.
FutureDeadPerson 3 years ago
For FutureDeadPerson
a year? it wasn't that much time.
He didn't know he loved meredith until he got back with his wife at christmas, choosing Adisson wasn't the problem, it's the way he wasn't really trying that was bas and he wouldn't let Meredith go
theletdownsyndrome 3 years ago
I love this so much.
Laura5x 3 years ago
im just gonna say this because your insurance only covers 20 sessions and i feel we should get right tot he point, that was load of crap it was not a good day
xXxShAexXx 3 years ago
ya what is that piano song around 8:30 it is killing me. please can someone just find it.
kittenO1 3 years ago
cool cool cool
dabei34 3 years ago
i was just looking for something like this...amazing you made this compilation. thanks !!!
rlee99p 3 years ago
does anybody know what song is around 8:30?
it's the piano one, the one that has been in other episodes.
hermione624 3 years ago
That's just the Grey's background score that they use in a lot of episodes--it isn't available to buy or anything.
holgolightly61 3 years ago
Mer had problems, but Derek NEVER owns up to any of his shit.
primetimeCS4 3 years ago 63
@primetimeCS4
agreed...best example is in season 2 when he calls her a whore. She tells him that he's the one who walked away, that she made no apologies for how she glued herself back together when he chose his wife [whom he neglected to mention to mere!] over her. and then? and THEN? he flips it so it's all about him and says that things are done with her...he's a ginormous arrogant and smug tool, mere should have picked finn!
cazia9 1 year ago 2
this is really cool - Dr Wyatt was great in the finale!!
Also really sweet you put the reunion of MerDer at the end, I love that scene!!!
McDreamyLover101 3 years ago