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  • LOL! he said she look like she owns four cats!

    i never had a problem wit the bonnet/scarf issue cause my babe has dreds to his waist line... shyt, he got his stocking cap to go to bed too && i got my bonnet.. we do not play.. we know its to PRESERVE our hair. lol.. so we have no issues with that, thank god.

  • LMAO TruleyBlessed5 story of my life

  • hey loved your video! :) my man loves my hair bonnet and scarfs he likes seeing me all natural no makeup and everything. it definitely makes a huge difference when your boyfriend or significant other is supportive. its cute because my boy friend get curious and i answer any questions he has. since going natural he love running his fingers through my little curls and we have interesting conversations about hair, you guys should check out the movie "GOOD HAIR" by Chris Rock. its amazing! :)

  • My ex used to tell me that he didn't like the scarf because he couldn't play with my natural hair. I told him that if I don't tie it up then it won't be soft and he wouldn't want to play in it anymore. So I cut him a deal. When it was time for bed, I'd let him play in it for a lil while and then tie it up.

  • my daughter doesn't wear a bonnet cause she's married and now she has ring around the head, to me that's stupid cause he was the one who encouraged her to go natural, I guess she's not like me, I would tell him to fuck off !

  • Ispencer21 lmaaaaao

  • wow, u have a really beautyfl skin! i'm jealous

  • Mayb her face isnt that pretty..... Or he just needs to date another race or stfu as bout it

  • jtfo my bf told me girl i paid 470 for that damn hair tie dat shitup lol

  • lol yahll got som ashy ass thighs & feet xD

  • /yall are so cute together

  • I think you look cute without the ring.

  • Does he like your ring noise? Dats ugly you look like a cow with it.

  • wow , sounds like a good idea , never seen this b4 , can u tell me more about it ? thanx :)

  • lmbo your boyfriend cracks me up

  • Ken you are one lucky brother. I like the bush lady look!

  • lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!!!

  • You're going TO SLEEP. End of story. 

  • guys find it UNATTRACTIVE, but ithink they find BALD-HEADED women unattractive too, so ithink men need to just SUCK IT UP AND DEAL WITH IT!

  • Any man concerned with something so trivial, is not worth anyones's time... real men aren't concerned with such things... :o)

  • My hubby calls mine a "Mario Cap".

  • i felt weird wearing my scarf around him and still kind of do. but he doesn't care and always tells me he doesn't care. he sometimes watches me go through the night time process of my hair. he is interested in my recent natural hair journey because he loves how curly it looks. im lucky to have a man so supportive about what im going through with figuring out my hair.

  • @missdesigner91

    My boyfriend also likes watching me do my night routine (I do braid and twist-outs). It's another bonding time.

    He never says anything about me wrapping or putting my hair up in a scarf because he truly doesn't care.

    I find that people who matter don't care about what you look like when you go to bed. Only people with one thing on their mind (sex) complain. Your boyfriend is not only understanding but also sincerely cares about you as a person which is awesome!

  • it's funny cause my brother doesn't like for his wifey to rap up my niece's hair.....she is part white but still her pretty curls has to be protected at night and he doesn't get it

  • @cl0verness awwww that's cute

  • first time i whipped out my bonnet my boyfriend stared at me for a whopping minute then started laughing, he finally stopped and asked if i was serious, i said indeed it is LOL and he proceeded to kiss my forehead and called me his brocoli-head

  • @cl0verness aww :3

  • My boyfriend is the same but I really don't care it's my hair! And when it's a mess he still gone have something to say either way it goes. So he will be ok I don't say nothing about that condom lookin wave cap!!!

  • LOL this video is too cute

  • Nope - never had a problem with hubby not liking my head wrap - I've been fortunate because he luvs and supports everythang about my natural hair - errythang!

  • shes so gorgeous

  • my hubby didnt like me to wear my satin cap either. he said my head looked like a mushroom, or chef hat or something but i didnt put it on one night and the next morn my hair was OMG horrible and now he reminds me to put it on.. lol

  • ugh..my bf hates it! He says it's not sexy...he doesn't understand. lol

  • Funny bf:) They just don't understand...maybe the older Men generation understand, cause they had Afros and waves back in the 70s, 80s. So this new generation only focuses on the new, protect your hair gurl<3

  • Girl yes!! My hubby tell me that I look like a granny lol! I have the exact same one you have. I'm like anyways lol! He just makes me sick some days.

  • OMG I remember watching ur twa vids back in 09 i think....im just now seeing u ....hair is mad long and so pretty!

  • lol @ "im not care"

    yal 2 cute haha

  • hey I really LOVE your septum piercing c: I just got mines a few days go and I was wondering if you could do a vid on it? :) i'm so curious hehehe. im 16 sooo us teenagers are always curious lol.

  • @darksupanova thank you =)

  • both of you are so freakin' hot!

  • my man loves seeing me all natural no makeup just in sweats and my hair bonnet makes me feel so at ease knowing that he loves me for who i am. i have to say imma pretty lucky girl to have him :)

  • It is so much easier to use satin pillow cases.

  • @speerrituall1 i AGREE

  • mines dont care .

  • I have to lotion my feet..thats like the first thing I lotion. lol

  • My boyfriend neva had a problem with my scarf til I went natural....na he said its lik sleeping with a man...lol... like my hair takes away from my beauty r sumthing

  • my boyfriend makes fun of mine sometimes but his main reason for not likin it is because he cant pull on my hair an play wit it lol

  • u two are cute together!!

  • No problem hun ;)

  • My bf calls me Harriet Tubman when I wear my head scarf lol

  • @Tiffanysmith21 seriously?? this video is about head scarfs and why men don't like them not about a break up or why or your assumptions why...please stay on topic thank you

  • LOL. You two are funny.

  • he's smart lol

  • You guys are a very attractive couple...just saying lol

  • My boyfriend doesnt like it..he thinks it looks crazy like a big broccoli hat lol but its all in good fun its nothing serious...he pulls it off sometime if I have it on all day lol(he'll say take that crazy thing off babe)...for him he loves my hair so he feels like he doesnt have access to touch it as much as he'd like!...BIG PET PEEVE Seeing Bonnets Outside...No Bueno No Bueno!!

  • lol "chickkkkkken!"

  • my boyfriend is white...so he cant imagin how hard it is to handle that hair...

    but he says...if its good and helps you to make your hair beautifull...do it :)

  • Lol maybe she look like a construction worker!!!!! Your bf is funny!!

  • Naturallycandi could you tell me which bonnet you use if you don't mind

  • If you're not a hoodrat and he knows that then nothing you can do could ever reminds him of one. That should say a lot if a man has problem with that.

  • my boyfriend is white and he bought me a satin pillow case for his place because I forget my scarf all the time. her boyfried must just be trippin'.

  • @belleayana i think im going to get me a white man i think i need to cross over

  • Lol I'm mad

  • I've asked my boyfriend if he minds my scarves and he says it doesn't bother him. Even when it's time for "special time". I'm sure he would prefer if my hair was out loose, but I'm glad it's not a real issue to him. :)

  • Lol yall cute... Bt ma bf doesnt like it, bt its not a huge deal, he'd rather me keep it off while doin da do tho (i dnt) lol

  • my boyfriendd hates it cuz it reminds him of hoodrats lol sometimes he will put it on trying to make fun of me lol

  • And when it's time for the ;) if my bonnet is already on it stays on lol he doesn't care!!

  • Boyfriend has no problem with it! I go to bed and he says "yea it's bonnet time!"

  • Some dudes are not looking for great quality of a women, he could be wanting her because of her appearance. If a dude have a problem with me wearing a scarf I would tell him to "shut up" and if he don't like he can leave.

  • I've never had it happen to me... Now its not sexy but if its bed time and actually time to sleep... he not looking at her anyway. He should be happy that she takes the time to prepare herself.

  • Lotion is our friend.

  • @andavis50 LOL!

  • I let my hair out when me and hubs are about to do "that" but best believe when we done I put my bonnet back on.

  • ive had more of a probably with my man hating the way i have to wear my hair to prep for a style... like my twists or braids... he would love if i wore my scarf as long as he dont have to see that part lol...

  • I LOVE UR BOYFRIEND! HE IS SOOOOOOOOO FUNNY! ur beautiful girl!

  • You remind me of my cousins! They live in S.C. and you sound just like them, lol. Do you mind me asking what nationality you are? Their father is Jamaican, so they have this like Jamaican/southern accent. You sound the same to me :)

  • @ASMoineB84 I'm just black =)

  • @NaturallyCandi You should be modeling with those almond shaped eyes and high cheekbones!

  • @ASMoineB84 When she first started talking I thought the same thing too, I have a few friends and relatives whose parents are from Jamaica and they live in the south. They have the same accent you are talking about.

  • I have a problem with the scarf ...wish I could sleep w/o it,,,,satin pillowcases don't work for me...you could wait until the lights are off to put it on..but then you have to remember to wake up before he does to take it off....Yes I've done that before...black girl problems.!!! But then that felt kinda fake...like I was hiding the real me...besides he should be used to scarfs on his mama..so just put the scarf on proudly w/ the lights on.. Never sacrifice your hair for a man.

  • My husband doesn't mind mine... 

  • omg did youre bull piercing hurt. lol & i called it a bull piercing because idk what the actual name is lol.

  • @smileybby94 It's called a septum piercing =) and if i had to rate the pain from 1-10 i'll give it a 7 =)

  • i'm a man and i ain't got a problem wit it

  • Satin sheets!!

  • My dad can't stand when my mom and I wear ours

  • LOL.....both of ya'll are silly as hell and I wear my bonnet I don't really care at least imma be cute in the morning and I feel like I have to put lotion on my feet because it keeps your skin soft

  • I dont get it! why would he! who ever her man is he has issues lol

  • Hmmf! If he don't like my bonnett he can go sleep in his own bed point. blank. period...i don't put lotion on my feet either, it's winter time in NC who gone see them lol glad to see i'm not alone..

  • My boyfriend did not care but of late he mentioned to me that its a turn off O_o but i dnt care,i love my hair and will protect it

  • You could try this: sleep on a satin pillowcase and or satin sheets. That way you can eliminate the dreaded "bonnett" at least sometimes.

  • my fiance is white and he doest really care , he likes my bonnet!

  • @TheCarleneantoine lol lol that's what I'm talking about

  • But ...she just going to sleep.. Are you going to be looking at her all Night.... I think not.. unless you got insomina.... lol I think you need to start worring when she walk out the house with the bonnet, or scarf...lol

  • lol...thx God I don't have that problem because I HAVE to wear something on my head when I go to bed. My hubby brings me my scarf or bonnet when I'm being lazy.

  • They should let us put them on at night if they want us to look good in the morning...do we even need to talk about this???this dudes are big boys they should understand (especially black dudes)

  • If he loves you for more than looks then he shouldn't care

  • When I say ya'll are soooo cute...lol! My hubby doesn't mind the head wraps at night. I'm not walking out of the house with them on so he could care less. Love your videos...

  • My husband doesn't care. Like you said he and I both know its to protect my hair or current hair style.

  • I think it depends on the maturity of that dude..if he feeling u it shouldnt matter..yall too cute btw..

  • Eddie!!! Lmbo. OHH && she look like a construction worker!!! Too cute!

  • Lol!!!

  • lol, bxcutie4life2007....you are too funny. good response Candi

  • I never had that happen but I know I've heard men say its not kool to wear them out in public !

  • her significant other is stupid & probably wants her just for her looks, it baffles me how a guy can have a problem with that, we need to wrap our hair, are you with me just for the way I look? stupid

  • She can also buy a satin pillow case if it's'causing drama

  • @floetry25 we'll if a guy has that problem then he can kick rocks because she can either have nice healthy hair or split ends??

  • @hotgirl386001 satin pillow case can also prevent from breakage and split ends, i was only doing a suggestion for her because it seems like a big issue but honestly i wouldn't care either i would rock my satin scarf anyway lol

  • My husband likes 2 poke fun @my scarf, but if I fall asleep without it, he always wakes me up with a scarf n hand and even helps me put it on if I'm really groggy.

  • @667tazmania Awww thats so cute I just teard up a lil.. now thats true love.!!

  • @MolassesMajesty21 LOL! He knows what a mess my hair is without the scarf/bonnet.

  • @667tazmania AWE!!! Now thats too sweet!!!!!!!! When I get married I want a hubby like that!:D

  • @667tazmania aww that's so sweet!

  • @667tazmania that's the sweetest thing ever. lol!

  • @dangmama820 It's the little things sometimes that u miss as being sweet until someone points it out. I'll return the sweetness 2 him later...without the scarf on of course.

  • my boyfriend loves it :))

  • my boifriend dont mine silk scarf..he doesnt like bonnets..(how ever you spell it)..he says i look like a grandma..lol

  • MY BOYFRIEND DOESN'T MIND AT ALL HE KNOWS HOW IMPORTANT MY HAIR IS TO ME AND HE RESPECTS THAT PART OF ME :)

  • One time i forgot my bonet & my boyfriend ask where it was.

  • what color is your nail polish?

  • Lol my ex used to tell me I looked like a mushroom when I had my bonnet on

  • why he had to say 4 cats...lmfao...omg!

  • lol...yall are too funny yall are cute together....but anywhoo they guy better get over it its not like he looking at her while he is asleep....lol

  • a bonnet or a head scarf doesn't make the women.

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  • my boyfriend calls me aunt jemimah when i wrap up my hair lol

  • @StrawberriLust mine tooo

    

  • If around the house * Haitian moment* I wear my badu wraps.... N the hubby goes really smdh and kisses on the forehead.... And goes I love ur hair out dear... During sleep he could care less u sleeping so why would matter.... Now during xxx lol watever :p

  • awh so kute .

  • My husband doesn't say anything when I throw my bonnet on lol, he's seen it too much so he know's whats up.

  • @bxcutie4life2007 that's mean lol ... I don't think he's serious.

  • U guys are so cute and funny my husband does not like my hair in scarfs he doesnt even like my natural hair because he says it looks nappy to him some guys are just like that its good ur man or s/o is so accepting

  • Ya'll are too cute and funny.

  • u r so pretty

  • U two are so soo funny!

  • LOVE IT! whre are you two from??

  • lolll

  • i'm not 'allowed' my bonnet to bed when my S.O. is around, he doesn't mind my scarf, but the bonnet is no bueno! LOL

    

  • Ya'll are so cute and funny!! Yea typically men don't seem to like the scarf look, i think it reminds them of their moms or granny, which probably is a turn off. Maybe she shouldn't wear it if they're doing any "room activities" but if she's literally going to sleep then headwraps it'll be. It is what it is.

    Love your nails!!

  • you guys are cute! is your boyfriend haitian lol .. the way he said "I'm not care" lol #Priceless

  • LOVE UR PIERCING!! I WANNA GET ONE SO BAD..

  • Lmbo yall crazy

  • Lmbk yall crazy

  • No problems from my bf..

  • Ask my boy an he said 'u need to wrap it up. so it dnt get nappy. everybody knows that. why wld i have a problem wit that?'

  • Sugah'..i have the same thing as you on my head--hubby doesn't mind it at all--after 28 yrs of marriage i don't think that really matters--there are other things to---oh oh nevamind! [smh]

  • like I tell my husband if you don't like it then you need to holla @ another ethnicity! lol (he makes fun of me and says I look like a cone head)... it's a part of being a blk woman... if he wants me looking good tomorrow then he will accept it... i guess when they wanna have sex they don't wanna see the helmet! but o well! we have been together 11 years he must like it!

  • @NaturallyCandi i think she's talking about the girl who bf doesn't like head scarfs not yours...but anyway ya'll are so cute together

  • uh uh dnt be talking about Ken! lol Candi get ha lol!

  • Lol i'd just say if you aint gonna style it for me when i wake up without wearing my scarf, you have no say so. & lmao how do you just skip your thighs when you lotion your body. mad weird

  • I've never dated anyone who had a problem with me wrapping my hair either.

  • Yesss!!,,my boo hates when I wear my bonnet or scarves..he always says ugghhh why u always got to put that on it makes u look like a granny,its so unattractive!! lol,,but i don't care i know I'm wearing it for a good cause,,:)

  • My boo doesn't have a problem!! He has to remind me to put it on sometimes lol! I adore him! Yall are cute together btw :)

  • @dalaststeve wow, he reminds you? that's great!

  • @dalaststeve yup mine always reminds me... he be like bae dont forget to put on ur bonnett or u will regret it in the morning lol too cute

  • yall are way to cute. I think it should not matter what you put on your hair to go to sleep. the bonnet dont make the women lol..

  • @THENATURALCHOICE82 true hun very true!

  • yall funny :-)

  • No ma'am, and I'm happy for that. My love understands (3 sisters). That would be a serious problem, because I'd get "the look" if my hair was crazy and matted. I like to keep hair neat, soft and healthy. There are many things you compromise in a relationship, and that is not one of them lol.

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