I concluded that first relation between a man and woman permanently alters part of their Genetic Code. Thus, subsequent relation outside the first creates addiction. My one advice if anyone would think they can change this disease that attacked the family is never ever date or have relation with a divorced, married or a parent. This ruins it for the children and all of us. No fault divorce is contrary to nature design. You can read my book The Ultimate Goal Of Life: Sacred Genetic Code Theory.