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  • @MrsAlecLightwood dear,you shouldn't have to apologize for asking for help.You don't want to get addicted.I thought that I would "only make a few.." a few turned into every night.Even cutting at school.I was and still am a prisoner to my addiction.You need to talk to someone.ANYONE who will listen and help.I've had close calls with going too deep,lost friends,broke ties...you don't want to end up that way.If you EVER need to talk,you can always talk to me.:)

  • @thestargazekidxx thanks for replying. I guess I'll try to talk to my councilor... I really hope you fight it: I am trying now! It's so strange.. I don't know why I made the first cut, or what made me...

  • I really love this song. I want to stop cutting before I get addicted: I've only made about 18 cuts total in a few weeks... It's terrible, really. I have a lot of fresh cuts, and my dad walked in and I'm pretty sure he saw them uncovered. But he didn't say anything. It makes me want to cut again, but it's SO hard to resist. I want to talk to my councilor but I'm afraid she'll tell my parents. Any suggestions? Sorry to bother you

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  • I started cutting 3-4 years ago and now I've overcome it through the power of Jesus. You can do it, all of you can. Message me if you need hope, prayer, or someone who just needs to hear you. Im a good listener and encourager. God bless. - Chelsea

  • My boyfriend sent me this, it's so true-3

  • im clean for 2 days now its hard but im getting through it. stay strong and dont give in never give in theres a better lige for you out there. dont worrie bout what people think of u u r perfect no matter what they think. <3

  • I was clean for 2 months... then about a week ago I started again. I can't stop now, but this song gives me hope. I'm going to listen to it even time I feel like doing it now. thankyou :)

  • Hey, guys? This IS Hawthorne Heights...um....they have an alternate identity called Between the Trees....

  • better by hawthorne heights

  • 47 days and counting :) God, this song, my amazing friends, and awesome boyfriend have helped me make it through this. In another three months, I'll be able to get the tattoo covering my scars, can't wait. If it wasn't for this song, there are definitely days I would've cut, thanks so much.

  • @crimsoneclipse5795 hey there was no Hawthorne heights version, someone mis titled the video it was just the acoustic version of the song *which to my ears it sounds way better than the full version*

  • Story Of My Life. I've Been Clean For About 3 months now.(: I'm so happy!-3 last night I was about to... But I thought to myself.. I'm the bigger person & I shouldn't. Thank God-3

  • God is bullshit

  • Someone help me out of this. I hate being a cutter. I hate it. It makes me feel sick inside, i just want someone to talk to. Someone to care about me.

  • @juliet66719 Inbox me.. I will try to help

  • Two months and counting. <3

  • My girlfriend cut like crazy and was suicidal when i met her. We've been together for 4 months today and she's thrown away all of her blades and removed all sharp objects from her room, she knows she always has me if she feels that way again, and i'm always there to comfort her. This song describes how our relationship happened, and it's amazing.

  • @cutebraineater

    My razors are hidden in a box under my bed. I like to think about what I could've done to not cut. Now I look at them thinking, "Why did I even try to kill myself in the 1st place?" Suicide is my secrete addiction. I'm 13. Now I might just start drinking, but I'm not sure.

  • The razors are hidden in a cupcake shaped jewelry box.

    There are seven of them.

    If it wasn't for this song, I would have used each of them to end it all..

    Stay strong, you are BEAUTIFUL.. Believe me.

  • I cut... I promised the girl I love I wouldn't... an I gave in an did... she made the same promise.. I find out a few days later after I did.. that she had... we were on the phone.. I was cryying.. what should we do...

  • jb and his recording place is disliking songs again

  • This songs deep

  • its horrible wat did u do to it?!?!?!?!?!

  • This song depresses me:((

  • I was one month. But now I'm holding steady at about a week :( was about to break it again tonight but my boyfriend and this song really helped me. Hopefully I won't ever have to do it again.

  • When I was only 13 my sister tried to kill herself. She used my belt. But thanks to God she survived with only scratches. She got the treatment she needed and she is 21 now. As for me I went through a deep depression, but now I am 19. I used to cut but God saved me. Just give your life to God and he will save you like he did my sister. If you need prayer just send a message to me or recomment me. God will save you.

  • @MrTeddy12986 that's an incredible testimony, man. :)

  • The dislike bar is the size of Justin Bieber's dick:)

  • This song helps the emotions come out and not bottled up. Thank you for creating this video and good job on it.

  • Clean for three months♥.

  • I love reading the comments for the ones who say they've gone so many days. Sadly I can only say its been about two hours for me, but reading the comments show me there is hope.

  • @CelesteMoonChild Congratulations, the decision to stop is a victory in itself. :)

  • This song is helping me to stop cutting I'm 3days clean

  • @MsJesusfreak98 Good for you :) I'm currently at one day, but before that it was almost a week.

  • I have a post-it note on my bookcase. Every day I go without cutting, scratching, puking, hitting my head against a wall... I put a smiley on that post-it. Every day I hurt myself gets a sad face. When there's no space left on that post-it, if I've got more smileys than sad faces, I'll buy myself a present. In theory.

    This is the first step.

    Because the deeper I cut, the deeper they hurt. I know my friends feel like I ignore them sometimes, but they mean the world to me.

    This is the first step.

  • @0sexiest0nerd0 That's actually a really good idea! I might try that one! Thanks! :)

  • The last word of the song is LIFE not knife!!!!! Awesome video, though, I love the font :)

  • If your a acu

  • nothing good can come of this.

  • @Rawrgoesthekaiyabear I remember being the best friend doing the ratting, I also remember her being a total bitch to me........made my pain even worse.....

  • I've cut myself cause of the pain from my past. It helped. But listening to this song... In a way makes me feel strong.

  • Hi, to the person reading this. Your probably thinking of all your emotions right now. It may seem like all to much. But I want to let you know, you are beautiful. You are loved, even though it may not seem like that. You are handsome, kind, smart, pretty, and nothing short of amazing. You have so much left of your life.

  • .... v.v

  • The cuts are so deep.....I cry myself to sleep.... When will the pain end

  • music=life its as smiple as that

  • I hate it when they say "you need profesional help"when i will never tell them the real reasons why,or actualy tell them how i feel.then they go and say "find a friend"when the only friend who understands me gets mad at me for nothing,and ditches me every 4 months or so.yeah,they're realy helpful.

  • Its been a year since my best firnd ratted me our to the councelour. and I made my parents cry, they think ive been fine since... if only

  • Nobody understands how much music can help heal you

  • The song makes me cry. .3.

  • I cut myself and my mom saw it she shouted at me cause I had promised I wouldn't do it again and I did... that's awful to have an argument with your mom about it coz she doesn't understand and you can't explain... I love you mommy ♥

  • They just explained my entire life in 3 1/2 minutes -3

  • I can't stop crying . The slow tears keep coming . I dumped him . So why am I the one hurting ? I wanted us to be friends ... He hates me now ... He won't talk to me . He won't answer me . We agreed to be friends ! I miss him .

    I hate that my tears keep getting in my way and blurring my vision so I can't see ... I miss you-|3

  • @jamiejeanbean He needs to get over you,love. The best way to do that is to distance your self from the person. Just wait sweetie. He'll come back to you.

  • i dont need my love to stop cutting he helped. I now live for myself. So i can give my life to another, Remember you have to find that you are the source of your own happiness. Hang it there it gets better

  • If I didn't have him I would still depend on the knives and razor blades

  • this song legit tells my life...

  • i heard this song a million times and i still cry when i hear it.

  • My friend sent me to this video after my cutting got out of control . If you go to my channel I made a video for all of us . If you ever need anyone to talk to I'm here because I'm still trying to recover . Remember , you are BEAUTIFUL .

  • @xXMissFantastic i love this(:

  • @xXMissFantastic does your friend have a yahoo acount? cuse then i know who she is :)

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  • please, don't cut, you don't deserve the pain of hurting yourself, you're better than what anyone says, if people push you down, bounce back up and never bow down, you are in control of your life and you don't cut, i'm in love with someone who used to cut, and i myself used to cut, it's horrible, i know how it feels, and i don't want any of you guys to have to go through that either, it SUCKS, so please, find a better outlet or SOMETHING, you don't need to do this to yourself :(

  • this song would be soo dam perfect it the shes were relpased with he and he was replased with she

  • I hate how this song makes me want to cry. But I love the song.

  • luv this song just hate the last part Dx

  • this is a good song. but i like the hawthorne heights version better.

  • @TheLovelyBambi it may seem impossible to not cut without your best friend, and I'm not gonna lie it is hard but you can stop yourself on you own. You may mess up, but that is normal. If staying clean is what you want it is entirely possible to do it on your own <3

  • I don't get this: what was she looking for in her dresser drawer?

  • @xLilyEvans A Blade... To cut herself with :/

  • @xLilyEvans she's looking for her blade

  • I used to cut all the time, the only thing keeping me from doing it was my best friend, and now I don't even have her. I'm so afraid of myself and sad. I really hope I've been off cutting for long enough to stop myself...

  • No matter how much they say they love you.... You have to love yourself first<3

  • Just because you cut doesnt mean your emo. Im perfecty normal, even a cheerleader. No one understada my life at home. I live a lie. And i wish i could just feel like i have a purpose...some people need to get a heart. They show no sympathy

  • @hatinlove15 its crazy that i feel the same way.. im a cheerleader too and its hard

  • To all the cutters out there, I don't understand what your going through and I'm not gonna pretend I do, but if you ever need someone to talk to or a shoulder to cry on, message me. I care about you even if no one else does. Help me help you <3

  • For everyone that cuts you must remember no matter what your not alone. I know it's hard but it will get better. Stopping is hard but it is possible, I know because I used to cut but it's been a year and a half since I last cut. U just need support.

  • I would cut myself but God set me free. To stop cutting, you have to tell your parents even if you dont want to! Remember, God can set you free from anything -3

  • @hayloohoo12 I used to cut a lot like everyday but ever since i let God into my life I've been cutting less and less, and i'm becoming a lot happier. What you wrote is so true God can set you free from anything.

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  • @kthztl66 Try the butterfly project <3 its what I'm doing good luck hun

  • This makes me think of my life every time I hear it. Without even realizing I start to trace my scars and start to cry. I'm so ashamed. I started cutting in Febuary. I stopped in August... And last night... I lost it and cut again. I'd been without self harm for 3 months... And I just lost it. I feel terrible about it... I just hope my mom doesn't find out... When she sees my cuts it brings her to tears... I've gone through all of this on my own... I need someone to help me through this... </3

  • @SierraisBEAST you are not alone hunn, have you read any of thse comments?? theres tons of people going through this pain you are not alone. inbox me if you ever need someone to talk to. i'm a good listener.

  • @SierraisBEAST hun im here if you need someone<3 my twitter is @alliesaur69 and you can inbox me here too

  • @SierraisBEAST You aren't alone. If you want me to be, I'm here for you.

  • "She found relief in a knife" I know that story all too well...

  • i love this song, its so real. its so beautiful. i can only hope that someday i'll be over this addiction. its not worth it anymore.

  • 500 characters could & would never explain my whole story.

  • Kristaemyers@gmail.com I'm there for anyone who needs to talk about anything. I've been through t all and I do care :) -3

  • I am a cutter. You would think my friends would talk to me and try to help right? That's what I kinda thought too..then all of a sudden word gets out and I'm alone. I hate that rumors are being spread about me so everyone gives me shit about my scars.. :/

  • @TheCaszie aww i know how you feel.

  • @TheCaszie i know what you mean... my "friend" ratted on me instead of helping me through it. inbox me if you need to talk<3 im allie

  • UGH. gets me everytime..

  • I wish this addiction was so simple as just stopping...

  • that girl is me....

  • @pico2019 Me too....Question..are you addicted like me?

  • This song breaks my heart..

  • I've been cutting for idk how long... At the time my bf tried to get me to stop, but it obviously didn't work. He called me sooo much names and even encouraged me to cut, then we broke up. He dumped me. He says that he did care,(bulllllllshit) and I've lost almost all of my friends too. So no one even pretends to care...

  • This is me and my boyfriend song. He sung this to me. I told him Everything. How i got raped at 13 and a had a little girl, how my mom died, how my dad beat me, even how im anorexic. I love him. He was holding me, when i cut too deep. I went into rehab about 3 months ago. i still cut, ive been trying, but sometimes i think its worthless. iloooveyoouDerak<3

  • im 13. i am a cutter in recovery. i started cutting when i was 10. it became an addiction almost, anytime i felt any kind of sorrrow i turned to an exacto knife, broken glass, a screw driver...anything that could cause pain. i havent cut for almost a month now and i only have one wish. i wish that there was more self harm awareness and help for people who self harm if anyone ever needs someone to talk to message me and i'pp be there for you. i promise <3

  • If the deeper I cut...it only gets worse..

    Why aren't I dead yet?

  • Ive'd actually stopped for a while,one week i did it a few times,and then the urge faded away...i mean i still want to...but i just dont...

  • i cut, am trying 2 stop can go about a week without cutting.

  • Need someone to talk to ?

    Me too.

    LyssaPreston@gmail.com

  • Love life there will always be that someone to save you I use to cut myself till I passed out and my mom would find me half dead half alive everynight and than the love of my life came ^_^ I'm happier than I'll ever be and I never thought it would happen for me she caught me just in time I promise everyone that you WILL find the one person to save you ^_^

  • me and my x gfs song brings back memories T^T

  • I lost control, and gave up seven months of determination. 3 days clean :/

  • Havent cut in a week, damn proud.

  • i had to cut again...then my parents read my journal and found out. -_-

  • if i get 40 likes and 3 comments on good songs to sing i will do a cover of this and post it and the songs you say the best ones i will also sing and if they have a meaning i will say it in the video if you want

  • @iiMelisaurus 3 days is better than nothing :) I haven't cut in about 3 hours...

  • @thequietoneattheback me too :\

  • ...

    I see all these comments about how people havent cut in over a year or so.. Yeah, i havent in three days ._.

  • @iiMelisaurus thats still good when i stopped i was happy i didnt cut for a day so be happy change._. to :)))))))

  • @iiMelisaurus yea....thats better than me....i havent cut in 20 min.... :/

  • Clean for nearly a year, thanks to an amazing boy that walked into my life. I still have scars to remind me of all the pain i went through but that was my release of anger i guess

  • im proud to say my scars have faded to invisibility, clean for about a year

  • @sarah30444

    Sarah, (the girl who just comment before me.) If you need to talk feel free to message me, I'm always here to lend a hand.

  • Today was my first night cutting in 5 months. I tried telling my bestfriend, but couldn't. He wouldn't get it, nor does he need anymore problems.

  • sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do. last night was one of those nights for me. but i am not ashamed. i am proud of my scars.

  • Cutting is one of the hardest addictions to break, I've been clean since April 2011 when I met my boyfriend, it's still a struggle everyday.

    If anyone needs to talk I'm here.

    Blessed Be

    Stay Strong-3

  • i cut and no one fucking cares, im screaming out but no one can hear me, i use anything: knife, razor, broken bulb/ glass, scissors, hair clips,. i wish i cut so deep that i die. my life has so many problams and ppl say ur life will get better BUT IT FUCKING wont, i missed out on so many things and cutting is the only way i can apologise to my parents and every1 for being fat, annoying, useless...

  • @JEDIBELIEBERPOTTER

    NO one, i mean NO ONE! wants you to be or feel hurt. U NEED TO GET HELP. I dont know you, all i know is that God loves YOU and wants YOU to know that HE GOD'S LOVE NEVERS NEVER ends. Please tell someone ur struggling. and ill pray for U!

  • @JEDIBELIEBERPOTTER I CARE, someone always cares. You need to reach out to a hotline, to me, anyone. I cut too, I know EXACTLY how you feel. Send me a message, you are not IN ANYWAY any one of those horrible things you said. You have value in life as we all do, don't waste it, you can do so much.

  • @TheMaineShout You know wat that made me feel a little bit better thank you, but i just wanna say YOU DESERVE AND AMZING LIFE, but i dont if i killed myself NO ONE WOULD EVEN BE SAD, THEY WOULD LAUGH, NOT ONE TEAR AND CERTAINLY NO ONE WOULD COMMIT SUICIDE CUS I WAS GONE. ppl wwould lagh and say oh well she was just a fat ugly stupid annoying horrible freak...

  • @JEDIBELIEBERPOTTER You may think that's what people feel but you are wrong. People WILL be affected. If you commit suicide I know it would change a teacher even a someone in your class. My friend had 3 kids she never even met commit suicide and it changed her for life. Please don't do that, it will hurt someone. It will even hurt me and I don't even know your name. You're worth so much, you deserve the world for what you endure. You seem like an amazing person, you just need to realize that.

  • @TheMaineShout WOW THANKS, btw my name is Sarah... I JUSTCANT COPE, cus everyone tells me to commit suicide cus im a useless failure. How come that the ppl who are actually in my life and know me hate me, Isnt that hinting something that im bad and usless. But i respect u and ur kindess

  • @JEDIBELIEBERPOTTER Just keep strong and don't let them win. Prove them wrong by doing something wonderful in life. You need to hold on to do that. You'll come out of this hopefully with a whole new perspective and remember there is always someone who cares. <3

  • @JEDIBELIEBERPOTTER Oh and my name is Halie.

  • @TheMaineShout :DDD thanks for all ur support im trying to do it, but its so hard to be strong, I feel fragile, like if someone says something to me thats not nice i waould commit suicide im ON THE EDGE....

  • @JEDIBELIEBERPOTTER This is why I say you should call a hotline. Ask for ways to help cope so that you won't do something to that extent because I know you can make it through. I believe that if you do find a better way to cope, get treatment or therapy you can come out of this and live your life happily. I honestly believe in you. You seem so strong to have come this far, don't give up.

  • @JEDIBELIEBERPOTTER

    Dont Do It. Dont Kill Yourself For What Some Stupid Fucks Think . You Deserve Better. Please Dont Do It. Ive Cut, & Ive Tried Suicide. Please Dont Do It.

  • @missvampireex3 But wat is the point of going on... Really, everything that is good that ever happens in my life is taken away, any ray of hope is ALWAYS destroyed. How can i stop cutting and suicidal attampts when i always have my mum and dad taunting in my ear, things that are too hard for me to say. As my mother said Your death is better than your life

  • @JEDIBELIEBERPOTTER

    Thats So Fucked Up . Your Absolutly Beautiful& DeserveBetter. I Believe In You. Add Me On Facebook So We Can Talk About This :) FEEL BETTER !

  • @missvampireex3 Thanks xx I dont have fb BUT im gonna make one xxx :DDD

  • @JEDIBELIEBERPOTTER

    Alright:)

  • @JEDIBELIEBERPOTTER that has been my mindset for the last two years. but thank fucking god i dont think that anymore. you just need to keep pushing on. i beg you, find help. find someone. i know how hard it is. i swear to you. i know, i've been there. i'm still a cutter. but you have to keep fghting. i promise you. it gets better. cutting is the longest and hardesst fucking batte out there. but you an make it through. i believe in you! please, i beg you find someone to talk to. for your sake.

  • @tweetybab74 Aw thats brings tears for my eyes., i wish i could be strong. My mom is such a fucking dickhead she checks my arms and if i cut she hits me, and she keeps on threatening to take me to a mental hospital. Im scared not beacues she beats me, she can beat me till i die for all i care, but beacause deep inside i know i cant stop, ive tried but something ALWAYS happens that gets me in that fucking lonely room with that razor

  • @JEDIBELIEBERPOTTER aweh hun my mom tried to have me admtted to a psych ward if you ever ABSOUTLY need to cut do it on your back thts wht i did but im not telling you to cut please dont but if you do atleast this prevents you from getting hit by your mother ive been clean for 6 days now which is actually a really long time for me and ive been using the butterfly project (google it) and personally i think it really works and inbox me if you ever need to talk, ill be here(:

  • I'm proud of my scars and I don't care what people say they make me well me and no one can change that! I have started cutting again. 2day is my first time is about a week. My life is getting worst and I don't know how much longer I can hang on. I hate it when people that don't cut tell me they know how I feel or ask y! When u ask I want to cut because all the memory's come back. I want things to get better for ounce!

  • I don't cut. But my bestfriend does, and it's a hard thing to go through just to know your bestfriend cuts. If anyone ever needs to talk, I'm here if you want me to be.

    Amazing song too. I love it.

  • I have been cutting for years and I've even tried to commit suicide, but someone found out about my cutting and tried to help me. But I couldn't take the pain so I tried committing suicide. I called him the day that my suicide wasn't successful and he has been there for me ever since. Also I have gave him all my blades, that was the hardest thing I have ever done. I love him with all my heart and I couldn't live without him!!-3

  • Hi,my name is Amy Bruce. I am 7 years old, and I have severe lung cancer .I also have a large tumor in my brain, from repeated beatings. Doctors say I will die soon if this isn't fixed, and my family cant pay the bills.The Make A Wish Foundation has agreed to donate 7 cents for every time this message is sent on. For those of you who send this along I thank you so much, but for those who don't send it, what goes around comes around. Have a Heart. Re-post help me

  • You can talk to me. I'm always here.

  • For all those people who have been clean for awhile but keep fighting the urge to grab a knife again, I know how you feel. I'm only a few weeks clean and I think about cutting everyday. I still have cuts on my wrist and the worst part is when someone asks you about them and asks why you did it. Whenever someone asks me why I always remember how I was in such a dark place then and how scared I am that, that might happen to me again. This song helps me a lot. It pretty much describes my life<3

  • i wouldnt undo it. im proud of my scars. not proud of myself, but proud i made it through it. my scars make me who i am today. and for the people who judge me...well... i honestly dont care. you dont know what i went through. and if you choose to judge me, go for it. doesnt bother me. i know the people who stayed by my side are the ones that are gonna stay. im proud my scars are faded. but theyre a part of me. and i wouldnt change a thing. -february 2011- im done.

  • @livewithoutlove13 amen. i feel EXACTLY the same. I am judged harshly for my scars as i am a mother but they got me here today, it helped me cope and now i am where i feel i should be in life.

  • @livewithoutlove13 thank you!! that is exactly how i feel, about my scars about everything. i'm so happy someone finally understands! and i'm so happy you've stopped. i'm so proud of you(:

    i wish you the best of luck <3

  • @lexifluffycloud I wish I know!

  • HipsterLovee1420

    Ya why is life such a he'll hole?!?!

  • @ImNormalNot you have to do an @ infront of her name

  • I feel so alone my parents found out I use to cut and all they did was tell me to stop! They don't care and that really hurts! God everyday I wish I had the strength in me to end all the pain for good but I can't. And now I'm cutting again and no one cane help me! I feel so alone! :'(

  • @ImNormalNot smae here after awhile it stops hurting

  • @ImNormalNot

    I read this comment and it was like a mirror to how i feeel. Message me if u ever wana talk. It helps just to have someone to talk to.

  • this song helps.. i used to cut, and when this asshole in my science class found out he said"im just sayin if the bitch is gonna cut herself, she might as well kill herself" that still hurts ...

  • This song is my life but no ones there to end my pain!

  • This song describes my life..

  • @Elmo95Vannah then don't listen to it and don't take the time to comment

  • @Elmo95Vannah Too disgusting to think about? What if it was all you lived for, the only way to numb the pain enough to go on breathing? Have you ever thought about the people who cut? How they feel, how people like you make them feel? It's no wonder people who cut are afraid to speak up and reach out for help. They're scared of being judged. This song, however bad you think the singing is, has stopped me from reaching for that knife. I'm a month clean. I've opened my 'new eyes.'