Yeah my best friend started dating my sister about two months ago. All he cares about is hanging out with her. Im not protective over my sister really at all, he is a good family friend. I am 18, and an old soul, so I really don't get many friends my own age very often. He is seriously my best friend in the world but all he cares about is hanging out with her and I constantly feel disrespected by him, I really dont know If i want to talk to him anymore. Dont want to lose a bestfriend.any advice?
That one is a little stickier. I dated the sister of a female friend of mines. But my female friend was the one to tell me her sister wanted to date me. But I honestly think my case is not the norm. Women are a little funny and I would do the same thing Vanae said, but I would gauge how your female friend feels.
this kinda falls for me.. since im falling for my best friend's sister... but.. i got a girlfriend right now... --why or how did that happen..? since my girlfriend's too dramatic.. too childish.. and too controlling... she wasnt like that before.. but then,, things change.
I hope you can make a video regarding "liking other women while having a girlfriend" or something. lol cuz really.... like hell.... lol
@puset00 break up with your woman and pursue the new one! I was in a situation like you, I ended it with her and started dating the other girl. Been with her 4 years.
Vanae, here's a topic: I recently met someone online and we've been chatting for a few weeks. Also been video chatting online for many hours at a time, sometimes even 6-8 hours almost every day. We have SO MUCH of a connection/chemistry, it's insane. I feel like I have met the love of my life, my soul mate. And believe me, I don't throw those terms around lightly. They make me feel SO special and important. The only problem is, this person lives in a different country. Can this work? Any advice?
I wanted to date one of my best friend's sister for years. He was always strongly against it, which pissed me off a bit, but I valued his friendship enough to let it go for a while. 10 years later, he's ok with it and we finally date. She's was extremely jealous and abusive and just a horrible girlfriend all around. My friend finally confessed that he wasn't trying to keep us from dating to protect his sister, he was trying to protect his friend. He thought I knew what I was getting into.
I noticed in your earlier videos (2007ish) you spoke more softly, and quieter, I like that kind of presentation rather than the energetic personality you have now. I am not saying its bad, just giving a comment. When you spoke softer and quieter, I feel like I am listening to a mother or older sister giving advice.
@robertplant634 WTF?! 41 people really thumbed up this dumbass comment. Vanae is here as a life and dating coach. She's not fuckin here for your perverted fantasies. Obviously these 42 people (including the douche bag who wrote this comment) need to get the hell out and stop watching these videos because you're not here for the right reasons.
Had a couple sisters who were in love with me-- and I smartly stayed away. If things get misinterpreted in a love relationship-- now you've got a friend against you. Friends are priceless. Love relationships come and go.
Bro's before ho's, as they say. Seriously, you're right. You would never want to screw up things with the best friend. Hopefully, they'd be cool with what adults do, but family always makes things...difficult. So, I agree with you. You got to respect your best friend. Then the question becomes, I suppose for your next video, is can you go to your best friend for relationship advice/problems after this. Like I said...difficult.
I'm in the same boat man. She interested because she flat out told me she liked me. I like her but i didn't say it. But now its been more then months now since i seen her. Hopefully she stills feel the same way still. What you think miss Vanae? what should i do. Do I still have hope...
Yeah my best friend started dating my sister about two months ago. All he cares about is hanging out with her. Im not protective over my sister really at all, he is a good family friend. I am 18, and an old soul, so I really don't get many friends my own age very often. He is seriously my best friend in the world but all he cares about is hanging out with her and I constantly feel disrespected by him, I really dont know If i want to talk to him anymore. Dont want to lose a bestfriend.any advice?
kristofferpence 1 week ago
Sounds like great advice. Good video!
paul02144 3 weeks ago
What if your best friend is a female and she has a sister you like? Does it still apply?
Kiraku27 4 weeks ago
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mostsincere 2 weeks ago
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@Kiraku27
That one is a little stickier. I dated the sister of a female friend of mines. But my female friend was the one to tell me her sister wanted to date me. But I honestly think my case is not the norm. Women are a little funny and I would do the same thing Vanae said, but I would gauge how your female friend feels.
mostsincere 2 weeks ago
this kinda falls for me.. since im falling for my best friend's sister... but.. i got a girlfriend right now... --why or how did that happen..? since my girlfriend's too dramatic.. too childish.. and too controlling... she wasnt like that before.. but then,, things change.
I hope you can make a video regarding "liking other women while having a girlfriend" or something. lol cuz really.... like hell.... lol
puset00 1 month ago
@puset00 break up with your woman and pursue the new one! I was in a situation like you, I ended it with her and started dating the other girl. Been with her 4 years.
ThePantyDroper 3 weeks ago
Happy Tet
CalStateChico 1 month ago
@CalStateChico chuc mung nam moi!
vanae12 1 month ago
@vanae12 need a New Years date? I'm all yours baby
CalStateChico 1 month ago
I'll share something with you! It's a big mistake dating best friend's sister!!!!
Fret01 1 month ago 2
Yeah vanae jet setting the world!! :D
meditautomatic 1 month ago
9ers!
LandSnipe415 1 month ago
Everyone's moving to Asia. Hard to think of anything that isn't easiest to accomplish in Asia.
heroineworshipper 1 month ago
I really like you're videos there great. thank you
28danimal 1 month ago
wow life lesson the comfort zone ah yes !
bladeofhades86 1 month ago
Vanae, here's a topic: I recently met someone online and we've been chatting for a few weeks. Also been video chatting online for many hours at a time, sometimes even 6-8 hours almost every day. We have SO MUCH of a connection/chemistry, it's insane. I feel like I have met the love of my life, my soul mate. And believe me, I don't throw those terms around lightly. They make me feel SO special and important. The only problem is, this person lives in a different country. Can this work? Any advice?
SereneFire88 1 month ago
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LadyLolitaJenny 1 month ago
At the end of the video when you were turning off the camera you looked like Leia "Help me obi won kenobi you're my only hope"
sr7376 1 month ago
YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES YES
sr7376 1 month ago
This girl rejected me once. Oh well. I tried.
edvhou812 1 month ago
basically invisible until you open your mouth and start speaking.. DAME.. love it.. is it a oringal vanae quote??
ballerstew 1 month ago
Vanae, knows shes making millions of cocks hard with her videos, she such a tease.
rockandstroll 1 month ago
Your advice is personable, direct and to the point. And most of all, real. Thanks Vanae.
7Dante7 1 month ago
I wanted to date one of my best friend's sister for years. He was always strongly against it, which pissed me off a bit, but I valued his friendship enough to let it go for a while. 10 years later, he's ok with it and we finally date. She's was extremely jealous and abusive and just a horrible girlfriend all around. My friend finally confessed that he wasn't trying to keep us from dating to protect his sister, he was trying to protect his friend. He thought I knew what I was getting into.
djtron1x 1 month ago
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another great vid Vanae! I one question for you. How about dating your best friend's ex?
Autofanatic28 1 month ago
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Autofanatic28 1 month ago
Great video
Vinhhotboii 1 month ago
I noticed in your earlier videos (2007ish) you spoke more softly, and quieter, I like that kind of presentation rather than the energetic personality you have now. I am not saying its bad, just giving a comment. When you spoke softer and quieter, I feel like I am listening to a mother or older sister giving advice.
dragondisaster 1 month ago
Chandler definitely could have used this advice.
MatthewLedZepfan 1 month ago
Omg Vanae you look more beautiful than ever! :) <3
Liakos256 1 month ago 4
What if you're alone at a college setting? How would you break out of a "comfort zone" if you're isolated?
liudxx03 1 month ago
This is the most easiest thing I have ever done. After all our relationship just fate away. Maybe because we were too young.
esurfer26 1 month ago
Well there's a big back story and basically I want to know if I should wait or move on from a girl that likes me but at the moment has a bf
lovelyknightmare 1 month ago
Respect Vanae, first woman that I've heard from that seems to understand that dating a friends sister situation.
TimidMC 1 month ago
great video! i was born in Da Nang, haha
Rohdigum123 1 month ago
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You should start doing porn, Vanae.
robertplant634 1 month ago 56
@robertplant634 i support this message
omgcopyritedstuff 1 month ago
@robertplant634 aye !
dias17se 1 month ago
@robertplant634 WTF?! 41 people really thumbed up this dumbass comment. Vanae is here as a life and dating coach. She's not fuckin here for your perverted fantasies. Obviously these 42 people (including the douche bag who wrote this comment) need to get the hell out and stop watching these videos because you're not here for the right reasons.
SereneFire88 1 month ago
@SereneFire88 Sounds like someone is on her period.
robertplant634 1 month ago
@robertplant634 I'm a guy, moron.
SereneFire88 1 month ago
@robertplant634 that's upsetting.
coderedstudiosYT 1 month ago
Had a couple sisters who were in love with me-- and I smartly stayed away. If things get misinterpreted in a love relationship-- now you've got a friend against you. Friends are priceless. Love relationships come and go.
carefulcarpenter 1 month ago
I wish I had a best friend with single sister!
JPa311979 1 month ago
i have a question... can we pls have some awesome sex?
ubphu 1 month ago 2
WHat about dating your own sister?
davidgsr2k 1 month ago 33
@davidgsr2k lol "faggot"
Rooseveltboh 1 month ago
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28danimal 1 month ago
@davidgsr2k My sisters Hot thumbs up if your's is to.
28danimal 1 month ago
@davidgsr2k lol wtf your doing tht or did tht
wildoneshacker123 1 month ago
@davidgsr2k are you THAT gheto?
farerse 2 weeks ago
vanae i have a question
EastHoustonTx4YoAzz 1 month ago
This has something to do with "The confession" video from TomSka?
knozos 1 month ago
Bro's before ho's, as they say. Seriously, you're right. You would never want to screw up things with the best friend. Hopefully, they'd be cool with what adults do, but family always makes things...difficult. So, I agree with you. You got to respect your best friend. Then the question becomes, I suppose for your next video, is can you go to your best friend for relationship advice/problems after this. Like I said...difficult.
captmack735 1 month ago
Me so horny, me want Vanae to love me long time.
vycaso 1 month ago
What if its a the sister of a friend you know likes you is it the same
pinchi89 1 month ago
under 300 club!
PowerNdust 1 month ago
DONT DO IT
ruumpleteaser 1 month ago
omg.. u got giant black eye circles
sexyass02 1 month ago
Could you do a video on dating a coworker ?
Thank you !!
MrSuperMikey 1 month ago
u r so cute ,thanks for all the videos
chinasweetbaby 1 month ago
sexy
Nimzowitz 1 month ago
I'm in the same boat man. She interested because she flat out told me she liked me. I like her but i didn't say it. But now its been more then months now since i seen her. Hopefully she stills feel the same way still. What you think miss Vanae? what should i do. Do I still have hope...
marinesrock316 1 month ago
Vanae doesn't like "No" people so much she actually dropped the F bomb!
jesavius 1 month ago
i love Hoi An
yoursoulandmusic 1 month ago
First! :)
Steffateetee 1 month ago