why get married if you want to have sex with others?marriage should mean commitment to each other. no way you can give that person 100% if you have a side piece of which your probably thinking about way more than your husband. all thes ammendments of the constitution of marriage is dispicable and unorthodox. I dont like how people always think there is NO WAY for two people to be fully commited. we all sometimes see another we may be attracted to but for God's sake im married to my wife not them
i support open marriage im in one it was my wifes idea because she is bi-sxual we had one 3some 14 years ago and she nor i could find women interested in being with a couple so she wanted it this way now its this way its no differant we are still sexual & its great when it happens but neither of us have found anyone to be with on our own for last 2 years so its still open that part sucks but hey what ever.
This woman is fooling herself. What's going to be her next trick...1 + 5 = 12?
1:51 Yeah, fine one to talk. This woman hasn't connected ANY of the dots. Her marriage is a piece of crumpled-up paper on the ground, covered in dots and random scribble all over the page.
All christians can go and fuck themself. Me and my girlfriend, we're thinking of having an open relationship again. But my problem is that I can gather guts to tell her what I've done with someone else! If I exercise that, then I think we'll be okay.
@oratadin exactly, most of couples cheat, that's for sure, and sex and love are two different things, so having sex doesn't mean you're in love with that person, if you have sex with a prostitute, you're not in love with her, are you? it's just sexual pleasure. Being in love is to be deeply emotionally attracted to somebody you really love and you don't need sex for that
Think about it from a numbers standpoint. The chances of a Woman having sex with a Man she approaches are astronomically greater, than a Man approaching a Woman. Dude, while you are taking your first out of the bar, she is headed back in the bar for number three. Guys do not play these games with women. YOU WILL LOSE EVERYTIME. I can guarantee it. Be the ALPHA MALE in your relationship and you will NEVER have a problem.
Yeah open marriages work all the time and there is no bitterness at all between the parties. I think you are respecting yourself if you choose to stray from your spouse who does not meet your needs (by the way I hope everyone has their sarcasm detector on). Honestly, this chick is a loony. And what's worse is she has a daughter. Yikes. Thank God this woman is NOT my daughter
because the guy is secure in his relationship with his girl and know that the foundation of their relationship is more than just sex. not to mention it allows him the same freedom to pursue the same without having to cheat. most men who object to this idea are (1) insecure and/or (2) territorial and view his girl more as a tree he pissed on than an independent human being.
It is the jealousy. EVEN animal, almost all animal have it except PIGS.
So, refusing open marriage is a normal thing, so please stop finding reasons for the pigs.
My advice for you if u r a guy, if you found your girl play around, let her go, there are many reason, but I mention one, born babies have the right to know their father.
It's one thing to be in an open marriage, but to open up about it online is also ignit as well. Thur's no point of being married if u want relations with other people.
Thanks kind of funky that you think marriage only means exclusive sexual relationship and nothing else. Obviously there is a reason for her to be married, it could be that her husband is the person who understands her the most, is super supportive, loves her, is the person she loves, and they have a close emotional bond. If the only reason you get married is because you want to cut off relationships with other people, that marriage is going to have a lot of problems.
I totally agree, creativewind! I'm in an open marriage. My wife and I love it! Sex equals marriage to most monogamous couples. They can't see or think outside the box.
The key understanding they lack is the flow of jealousy and compersion. They say, "I'd love the freedom, but hate the jealousy." So basically they want to be able to do as they please, but they can't phathom giving the same freedom to their partner. It's a shame. Polyamory is such a beautiful thing!
If it works for them, who are you or me to say anything? They are not harming anyone and they are not living under your roof, so it should not be bothering you. People should mind their own business and leave others alone every now and then!
I don't think I know any couple celebrating their 50th or even 30th anniversary in an open marriage.Why get married at all if you are going to sleep around?
Oh, you stupid little people. How close minded you all are. Half of you are probably single with kids. Another part are probably gay, lesbian, or bisexual. The other part of you are close minded imbeciles who wouldn't actually say the things to her face. Then a small part of you are intelligent and defend her. Brava.
No, I would definitely say something to her face that she is defacing what marriages is. There is no point in her being married, she is just trying to justify her cheating ways and putting her kid in turmoil because of it. Don't you try and say this will have a positive effect on her child, it will be detrimental and have the child grow up with a twisted view of what marriage is and she will go down that same path.. There is a difference between being close minded and justifying adultery.
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wtf you sick bitch your nasty and your man is a dumb ass i mean seriously wtf thats nasty....you whore!!! your daughter is gonna be a whore to and your man has no balls
Also... Yeah, you don't KNOW if your significant other is going off to work and doing whatever. That's called suspicion, but that's also where trust comes in... However if you KNOW that your significant other is going on a date with their side relationship; you KNOW what's going on. You're just accepting of it.
and whats the point of an open marriage... so stupid, it will put your child through turmoil.. if you plan of having an open marriage, dont even bother getting married.. marriage is to stay true to ONE partner, not this messed up crap.. geez people now adays can't be happy with what they have.. marriage is about commitment and staying true to that one person you chose to take as your wife or husband. THIS WORLD IS MESSED UP NOWADAYS.
Now this shit pisses me off.. Why the fuck would you have sex when your married? Your goin against gods rules with that. This book should be banned. sorry...
yea I was a bit rough on that comment, but I just think it's just wrong to have sex with other people when your married. When people get married they are under a oath to god and it's like your sharing yourself with another person. Me on the other hand when I'm with someone I don't look for another woman. I just think it's disrespectful and dishonest to yourself and your loved one.
truee. but she might not be catholic, so she might not care what God thinks. I don't look for other guys either because ive been cheated on and it hurts
uhh im not trying 2 be rude or anything 2 u or what u believe in, but i dont think u should b stating that everyone follows gods rules, other ppl who dont believe in god might find that offensive
@kibasoneandonlygirl it depends on which "God" you're talking about, if you're talking about the christian God, then yes i agree with you, but if you're talking about "my own personal God" then i don't.
God's rules? God hasn't mentioned any specific "rules" to me. Maybe He's too busy making sure nobody starves or experiences senseless deaths here on earth. Did he speak these rules to you directly or is this coming from that book popular with organized religions who use fear to swipe your 10% each week? If I'm not mistaken, wasn't that written by a bunch of men with self-interests? Regardless, the only rules you should be concerned with are those associated with proper grammar.
i don't know why people are giving you thumbs up. this woman can handle an open marriage and its implications. she's responsible about her lifestyle. just because she doesn't live by your rules (notice i didn't say GOD's rules) doesn't mean she's wrong. personally, i wouldn't touch open marriage with a ten foot pole, but that's because it's how i feel. i don't attempt to impose my beliefs on others and limit their freedoms because of petty sensitivities that wouldn't affect me in any way.
and anyone who even suggests a book should be banned (unless it explicitly promotes physically harming someone) is not to be taken seriously, end of story. you're driving down the progressive intelligent path of humanity.
If you read my comment above I did say I was a bit harsh on what I wrote... The whole point of marriage is to be committed to that person and only to that person. What this lady says in this video kills the purpose of what marriage is about.
i understand where you're coming from, society generally looks down upon polygamy. however it is this woman's and her husband's adult decisions to be open. judge all you want, but when people attempt to ban books and impose their beliefs on others using religion, then "majority rules, minority rights" is obsolete. her relationship does nothing to undermine your marriage. in fact, that's a reason people haven't grown up enough as a society to accept homosexuality. but that's another discussion...
the point of a marriage is to be committed, truthful and honest with your partner. having an open marriage does not mean you go off cheating on your spouse. you are still obligated and hold true to your commitment to your spouse. the relationship with the non-spouse is fully disclosed and agreed upon by the spouse. don't confuse "open marriage" with "cheating on your spouse".
why get married if you want to have sex with others?marriage should mean commitment to each other. no way you can give that person 100% if you have a side piece of which your probably thinking about way more than your husband. all thes ammendments of the constitution of marriage is dispicable and unorthodox. I dont like how people always think there is NO WAY for two people to be fully commited. we all sometimes see another we may be attracted to but for God's sake im married to my wife not them
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theolaschwi 1 year ago
her lip was annoying as shit!
davisdonnell55 1 year ago
i support open marriage im in one it was my wifes idea because she is bi-sxual we had one 3some 14 years ago and she nor i could find women interested in being with a couple so she wanted it this way now its this way its no differant we are still sexual & its great when it happens but neither of us have found anyone to be with on our own for last 2 years so its still open that part sucks but hey what ever.
1PhatHarleyOwner 1 year ago
This woman is fooling herself. What's going to be her next trick...1 + 5 = 12?
1:51 Yeah, fine one to talk. This woman hasn't connected ANY of the dots. Her marriage is a piece of crumpled-up paper on the ground, covered in dots and random scribble all over the page.
randommagnum 1 year ago
Interesting. She speaks about how this is all "ok", but doesn't tell her child about it. Secrets are usually the sign of dysfunction.
RipTheSystem33 1 year ago
All christians can go and fuck themself. Me and my girlfriend, we're thinking of having an open relationship again. But my problem is that I can gather guts to tell her what I've done with someone else! If I exercise that, then I think we'll be okay.
oratadin 1 year ago 2
@oratadin exactly, most of couples cheat, that's for sure, and sex and love are two different things, so having sex doesn't mean you're in love with that person, if you have sex with a prostitute, you're not in love with her, are you? it's just sexual pleasure. Being in love is to be deeply emotionally attracted to somebody you really love and you don't need sex for that
davlor86 1 year ago
This is wrong. Now days people are acting like animals.......It isreally disgusting.
LyricallyJustified1 1 year ago
There is nothing wrong with being a little freaky. I support open marriages. Why not?
MsGood2God 1 year ago 2
Think about it from a numbers standpoint. The chances of a Woman having sex with a Man she approaches are astronomically greater, than a Man approaching a Woman. Dude, while you are taking your first out of the bar, she is headed back in the bar for number three. Guys do not play these games with women. YOU WILL LOSE EVERYTIME. I can guarantee it. Be the ALPHA MALE in your relationship and you will NEVER have a problem.
RocketRitch88 1 year ago
Yeah open marriages work all the time and there is no bitterness at all between the parties. I think you are respecting yourself if you choose to stray from your spouse who does not meet your needs (by the way I hope everyone has their sarcasm detector on). Honestly, this chick is a loony. And what's worse is she has a daughter. Yikes. Thank God this woman is NOT my daughter
bigphil399 1 year ago
In my experience, an open marriage is a marriage on the rocks, and one which won't last that long.
ilEditore 2 years ago
why wouldn't you tell your daughter?
gijojo 2 years ago
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Tereeb 2 years ago
because the guy is secure in his relationship with his girl and know that the foundation of their relationship is more than just sex. not to mention it allows him the same freedom to pursue the same without having to cheat. most men who object to this idea are (1) insecure and/or (2) territorial and view his girl more as a tree he pissed on than an independent human being.
ultravioletcarson 2 years ago 2
It is the jealousy. EVEN animal, almost all animal have it except PIGS.
So, refusing open marriage is a normal thing, so please stop finding reasons for the pigs.
My advice for you if u r a guy, if you found your girl play around, let her go, there are many reason, but I mention one, born babies have the right to know their father.
Tereeb 2 years ago
That is unenlightened.
mjmanning123 2 years ago
@Tereeb you dont own her
FIGHTFANNERD3 9 months ago
@FIGHTFANNERD3 you dont own him
kempy1987 4 months ago
this is terrible.
people have to keep their commitments
ooglepus222 3 years ago
shes bi and i think this is wrong
devilbride67 3 years ago
I don't want to get married, but I couldn't handle an open relationship either.
It sounds interesting, and I would love the freedom, but I couldn't handle the jealousy.
Many can, and many still want to get married, and it is nice to know that people today can pretty much do what they want.
and I liked the way she didn't seem to think that her idea of marriage is the best way.
FierceRodents 3 years ago
It's one thing to be in an open marriage, but to open up about it online is also ignit as well. Thur's no point of being married if u want relations with other people.
AceDT311 3 years ago
Thanks kind of funky that you think marriage only means exclusive sexual relationship and nothing else. Obviously there is a reason for her to be married, it could be that her husband is the person who understands her the most, is super supportive, loves her, is the person she loves, and they have a close emotional bond. If the only reason you get married is because you want to cut off relationships with other people, that marriage is going to have a lot of problems.
creativewind 3 years ago
I totally agree, creativewind! I'm in an open marriage. My wife and I love it! Sex equals marriage to most monogamous couples. They can't see or think outside the box.
The key understanding they lack is the flow of jealousy and compersion. They say, "I'd love the freedom, but hate the jealousy." So basically they want to be able to do as they please, but they can't phathom giving the same freedom to their partner. It's a shame. Polyamory is such a beautiful thing!
Devidedistand 2 years ago
If it works for them, who are you or me to say anything? They are not harming anyone and they are not living under your roof, so it should not be bothering you. People should mind their own business and leave others alone every now and then!
abdul089 3 years ago 5
I don't think I know any couple celebrating their 50th or even 30th anniversary in an open marriage.Why get married at all if you are going to sleep around?
74Gibson 3 years ago
Oh, you stupid little people. How close minded you all are. Half of you are probably single with kids. Another part are probably gay, lesbian, or bisexual. The other part of you are close minded imbeciles who wouldn't actually say the things to her face. Then a small part of you are intelligent and defend her. Brava.
ttlyunique 3 years ago
No, I would definitely say something to her face that she is defacing what marriages is. There is no point in her being married, she is just trying to justify her cheating ways and putting her kid in turmoil because of it. Don't you try and say this will have a positive effect on her child, it will be detrimental and have the child grow up with a twisted view of what marriage is and she will go down that same path.. There is a difference between being close minded and justifying adultery.
500019579 3 years ago
Calling those people that disagree with her "closed minded" or stupid doesn't make you any more intelligent than the people you're insulting.
Briichu 3 years ago
So basically you're just a cheater trying to justify your actions by putting a label on your relationship?
MaicoMoon 3 years ago 2
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does your man also fuck your whore bitch???? or does he fuck some other whore
jualez 3 years ago
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wtf you sick bitch your nasty and your man is a dumb ass i mean seriously wtf thats nasty....you whore!!! your daughter is gonna be a whore to and your man has no balls
jualez 3 years ago
Also... Yeah, you don't KNOW if your significant other is going off to work and doing whatever. That's called suspicion, but that's also where trust comes in... However if you KNOW that your significant other is going on a date with their side relationship; you KNOW what's going on. You're just accepting of it.
AllenBomber 3 years ago 4
No better way to screw up your kid later in life... Good job lady.
AllenBomber 3 years ago
I completely don't agree with it. You have to realize that marriage is a COMMITMENT.
It's very disrespectful to your spouse, even if they agree with it.
But I suppose this is America, and you can do what you want...even if it is somewhat a form of adultery..
cherrykitsune283 3 years ago
this woman is full of shit....i feel sorry for her husband...should totally divorce is dyke bitch n marry some other hotti that's normal
yiudiumui 3 years ago
and whats the point of an open marriage... so stupid, it will put your child through turmoil.. if you plan of having an open marriage, dont even bother getting married.. marriage is to stay true to ONE partner, not this messed up crap.. geez people now adays can't be happy with what they have.. marriage is about commitment and staying true to that one person you chose to take as your wife or husband. THIS WORLD IS MESSED UP NOWADAYS.
500019579 3 years ago
that is so true! what is the point of marriage then? just stay single and have relations with whoever you want to!
Jetskiiangel 3 years ago
ew it looks like her upper lips are completely numb or just an extreme case of botox. NASTY.
500019579 3 years ago 2
exactly what i was thinking
teenmommy 3 years ago 3
Now this shit pisses me off.. Why the fuck would you have sex when your married? Your goin against gods rules with that. This book should be banned. sorry...
DJEmergency 3 years ago
its not my scene, but i guess it is freedom of speech
blondeatheart47 3 years ago 4
yea I was a bit rough on that comment, but I just think it's just wrong to have sex with other people when your married. When people get married they are under a oath to god and it's like your sharing yourself with another person. Me on the other hand when I'm with someone I don't look for another woman. I just think it's disrespectful and dishonest to yourself and your loved one.
DJEmergency 3 years ago 2
truee. but she might not be catholic, so she might not care what God thinks. I don't look for other guys either because ive been cheated on and it hurts
blondeatheart47 3 years ago
uhh im not trying 2 be rude or anything 2 u or what u believe in, but i dont think u should b stating that everyone follows gods rules, other ppl who dont believe in god might find that offensive
kibasoneandonlygirl 3 years ago 10
@kibasoneandonlygirl it depends on which "God" you're talking about, if you're talking about the christian God, then yes i agree with you, but if you're talking about "my own personal God" then i don't.
davlor86 1 year ago
@kibasoneandonlygirl you got it from god
FIGHTFANNERD3 9 months ago
DJEmergency,
God's rules? God hasn't mentioned any specific "rules" to me. Maybe He's too busy making sure nobody starves or experiences senseless deaths here on earth. Did he speak these rules to you directly or is this coming from that book popular with organized religions who use fear to swipe your 10% each week? If I'm not mistaken, wasn't that written by a bunch of men with self-interests? Regardless, the only rules you should be concerned with are those associated with proper grammar.
KennieFocker 3 years ago 4
i don't know why people are giving you thumbs up. this woman can handle an open marriage and its implications. she's responsible about her lifestyle. just because she doesn't live by your rules (notice i didn't say GOD's rules) doesn't mean she's wrong. personally, i wouldn't touch open marriage with a ten foot pole, but that's because it's how i feel. i don't attempt to impose my beliefs on others and limit their freedoms because of petty sensitivities that wouldn't affect me in any way.
colinmochriesbuddy 3 years ago 20
and anyone who even suggests a book should be banned (unless it explicitly promotes physically harming someone) is not to be taken seriously, end of story. you're driving down the progressive intelligent path of humanity.
colinmochriesbuddy 3 years ago
If you read my comment above I did say I was a bit harsh on what I wrote... The whole point of marriage is to be committed to that person and only to that person. What this lady says in this video kills the purpose of what marriage is about.
DJEmergency 3 years ago
i understand where you're coming from, society generally looks down upon polygamy. however it is this woman's and her husband's adult decisions to be open. judge all you want, but when people attempt to ban books and impose their beliefs on others using religion, then "majority rules, minority rights" is obsolete. her relationship does nothing to undermine your marriage. in fact, that's a reason people haven't grown up enough as a society to accept homosexuality. but that's another discussion...
colinmochriesbuddy 3 years ago 5
I LOVE THIS COMMENT Ü YAAY
lindashg 3 years ago
the point of a marriage is to be committed, truthful and honest with your partner. having an open marriage does not mean you go off cheating on your spouse. you are still obligated and hold true to your commitment to your spouse. the relationship with the non-spouse is fully disclosed and agreed upon by the spouse. don't confuse "open marriage" with "cheating on your spouse".
ultravioletcarson 2 years ago
gross
hotforshoes 3 years ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
The only reason you would vouch for an open marriage is if you have children.
briach 3 years ago
woo! 5* great vid
kat24101 3 years ago