You Guys Rock Thanks For All The Support

[timtheloner]

you call that room a disaster? You never see my little sister's rooms and my nephew's! argh! It's like a tornado just hit it. lol.

[ydna20003]

im gay i want like 10 kids, lol

[timtheloner]

@ydna20003 10 kids? i seriously doubt anybody could handle ten kids. You do realize how much strain that would be on finances and physical activity. it'll be far too much. if you want kids, i suggest taking on one and go along with that until you're sure you can handle more. start out small.

[Lepewhi]

You guys now have 5kids!!! You don't need money, you need REST!!! Seriously, you are truly inspirational and it's nice to see people especially gay people(I'm gay 2) being so selfless and living their dream of having a family. If I and my partner lived near you, we'd totally spend an evening with the kids so you guys could have a date night, it's important. Be strong!

[LinSF03]

OMG Guys!! you are doing and amazing!! job it must be really exahusting!! Great job and God bless you for that!

Saludos!!

I have a silly question....Does dad Brian stays at home and take care of the kids or does dad Jay is the only who works outside of home?

[aquamarine705]

@LinSF03 Bryan is a stay at home dad

[aquamarine705]

@LinSF03 Bryan is a stay at home dad

[depfox]

@souljaboi7898 They arnt adopted they were my nieces kids who were removed....We were taking care of them for the courts.

[MultiEmmarocks]

CRAP!!! That's a lot of kids to mingle!!! Hang tight, broham. Check out my videos, too.

[edaj84]

Just wondering, did you still have most of the baby stuff? or did it "come with the baby" (if u know what i mean) or did you have to buy it?

[depfox]

@edaj84 we had to buy most of it ;O( but we have a great bunch of youtubers that really hooked us up with a high chair and other things that the baby needed

[edaj84]

@depfox that is awesome :) do you still have the 5 of them? hope it is all going smoothly and you are not going too crazy lol.

[SharinByakuGan]

Everything looks chaotic but kinda fun, maybe I don't know what I'm talking about...

[MysteryGreenTea]

Love your videos so much! They can brighten anyones day! =) Wow, and I think it would be awesome to get a mug or something that represented people on youtube. LOL!

I enjoy the people on here way more than anyone you see out there in the media world.

[LeonSKennedy828]

Don't you guys get a fair bit of revenue from youtube? (being partners and all)

[depfox]

lol I wish

[APhoenixReborn3]

maybe one suggestion would be to take the money for merchandising and give it to a charity that would be good for the betterment of gay familys :) just a thought :)

[valital]

Thank you guys for letting us into your home and sharing your journey with us out here.

I don't comment much on your videos but I regularly follow what's going on with you and I think you really are inspirational to a lot of people (me included) who look forward to one day having a family like yours.

Good luck with this latest challenge. I can imagine it can't be easy but it will be all the more rewarding for it.

Hugs x

[MojaKarum]

I love u guys this is the kind of family I would like to have some day!! I know it's a ton of work but a big family is something I would just love to have!!!

Love you guys and keep up the great work!!

[AlvaroAndfriends]

You guys are so incredibly awesome you got an awesome family.

Watching your videos makes me feel all comfortable and happy.

Thank you so much for showing us your remarkable video.

♥Gay Family Values Does Matter♥

Hugs and kisses to all of you.

[freakreloaded]

You guys are amazing!!!

[ALVINPGTM84]

We rocks and you are awesome! We support and you are very motivating!

Thank you for sharing and posting all your valuable videos.

Love You (Jay,Bryan,& family)

[KowaiTori]

aww, Brian, I think you look at this "Merchandise" thing a little different then I would. That merchandise would help get the word out of what you guys stand for. "Oh what's that"---"oh it's Depfox, these amazing people on youtube, check them out"

and bam, more popularity, and in no way would I see it as being a sell-out of any sort. If I were living on my own, my cupboard would be full of Depfox mugs xD

[MalognaSandwich]

I never had any interest in watching your videos before I heard about this one. What you guys are doing is incredible. There's so much hurt and suffering in this crazy little world and you guys are a glimmer of happiness. My parents always had foster kids in our home so I know how much it means for kids to have a stable home. You guys are true heroes. Thank you. I hope that when I get older and settle down, I will remember what you have taught me.

[bcritcher]

You folks are awesome for letting us into your lives. It inspires. Every time I watch one of your videos I just long for the day that I, a gay man, can have a family of my own. It is a dream that I hope comes true very soon!

[canadianhumility]

Bryan and Jay,

To both of you I send my thoughts. You have, once again, sacrificed so much personal energy and time for the benefit of others. For the benefit of showing love. It is a privilege to watch. I just wish I could come over and take the kids away for a couple nights - you both look exhausted.

Bryan - I really appreciate your refusal to make money off of your family, and your steadfast focus on educating people about what a gay family looks like. It seems 'right'.

- Love.

[amb0]

Definately reminds me of my step moms house.

[mattvbernstein]

All I can say is that you guys make us so proud. I'm really at a loss for words other to say that I hope you feel the love and support from all your youtube friends out here.

[BlackCatCrossingXXX]

You guys are amazing for opening your hearts and home to these kids during a difficult time. Daniel and Selena seem to really enjoy being big brother and sister to them. I come from a rather big family myself, so the "disaster zone" seems pretty normal to me. lol

[sleekcartim]

good luck boys.

I might like if anyone wants to sponsor a poor bear boy meh

[dingdongqt]

you are all sooo sweet, you should come to the UK its cool here

teeheehee

xxxxxxxxxxx

[BearGuyPaul]

You know, for all the extra work you've taken on, you guys and the kids seem happy. I don't know, I was expecting chaos with three new kids in the house and that's not what I saw here. LOL!!

Take care!!

[orangegoblin82]

I am glad you didn't sacrifice the star wars room :D

I would just like to say here for anyone who doesn't know that you can donate to the Leffews using a donate button on Bryan's blog.

There are links on the Depfox page.

The donations are through paypal and it works really smoothly.

[caciquepadilla]

its always hard with a young child, you have to learn their habbits and stuff so. it takes time and once you get used to them ur good.

[Poeboi]

YAY you guys so rock!!!!! Thank God for you two!

[Ali68C]

Yeah, at both of my 2 houses (college and my mom's) everything looks a lot more of a tip than yours' - and the youngest people in those houses are 19 and 17, respectively.

Don't worry too much about trying to get all the stuff online you had planned - not always being able to shows the reality of being (gay) parents as much as posting does.

I love the sound of a full house! Make sure you tell Daniel and Selena what an awesome job we think they're doing as big brother and sister!

[Fightdog]

You guys are so awesome. Opening your hearts and home, truly inspiring. damn, I'm getting teary eyed again, thinking about it. I wish I had a Fightdog coffee mug or underwear to send you! Stop shaking your head Bryan! :)

[orangegoblin82]

@Fightdog I would definitely buy a Fightdog coffee mug. I would get a full set!

[TOMKNN]

You guys are so sweet. You need to come to Provincetown during FAMILY WEEK. I bet you would love it. I am new to your channel but looking forward to getting to know your vids.

[woonsocketrocket]

You guys are truly amazing !

[consideritt]

Wow! 5 children... You must have the biggest hearts ever! I truly admire what you're doing for that kids. Greetings from Poland!

[MarcusHBP7]

you guys are awesome! be sure to get some rest! ;)

[tifcooper82]

your family never fails to inspire me!

i just wanted to say that i agree w/ bryan: just stick w/ the educational aspect. besides, i think you have enough going on right now w/o having to worry about merch! lol

love you all and, for the love of pete, TAKE A LONG NAP!! ;)

[mazajaria]

I think it's absolutely fantastic what you are doing for these kids. It must be so hard, but you're doing it anyway. Selena and Daniel are extraordinarily kind and compassionate children to share their home without a fuss - I think a lot of kids wouldn't be able to stand that.

Your family is an inspiration. If there were more people like you in the world - willing to step up and make a difference for people in need - it would be a better place.

[LivingOutinOKC]

you two are such an inspiration to glbt people everywhere!!!!

[mazajaria]

Oh, you both look so tired!

[tatertotification]

I personally would love to see a movie or documentary of you guys! But I completely understand how u don't want to be "sold" I come from a Latino home and pride can sometimes get in the way of me accepting gifts.

[korisx]

Zjemptv rocks!!!

I admire you guys, so much.

[stich91]

Im excited for the gay youth video!!

[Xersex2009]

Hey guy @ 0.58 to 2.26

May I tell you are sexy?

[ccm800]

wow. Bless.

[TaltosGirl]

You guys are AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!

[BDRoland]

I completely agree with Bryan. Stick to educating people. And understand that fame and such can be a dangerous drug. Rosie O'Donnell has even said that! So stick to what you guys do best; education, because when you start merchandising you already know that you have reached a VERY bad point.

[JEZUSTUBE]

Have a great time ! Don't know if there's gay parents with 5 children, already in the whole world

Now you 're really DADS.

Nopbody can ignore it anymore, that gays can educate children.

Gaygreetzz and strength for the coming weeks.

Gaygreetzz from Holebis ♥♂♂,♀♀♥

[scottneumann82]

.... Poor Bryan.... lol you guys are doing an amazing job....and omg.... 5 kids i would go nuts.... messy houses? your guys's house is clean for 5 kids lol....

[hayofray]

1) Bryan is right. Do not merchandise the family.

2) Set up an email account for donations. People can buy amazon gift cards and send them to that email address. That way you don't have to give your address out to strangers but people can donate if they so choose.

[natureboywonder]

I think it's great people want to help. I would just feel nervous that someone who gives you financial support might start feeling ownership or like they are owed something. Like some crazy dude is someday gonna say, "hey, I've been helping support these kids and you should let me see them every once in a while". That would be scary. I'm just sayin'.

[velocity246]

You guys are such an inspiration!

[konrox]

why cant you guys show the kids yet? and you guys are SO kewl for doing this! :D

[hadynk90]

I love you guys, keep up the good work and good luck with everything! :0)

[Kronoan]

Depfox, is that LOTR for the PS2 that Daniel has? If so, I've got that game! Wow, common tastes! LOTR kicks ass! Let Daniel know I think he rocks!

[depfox]

Daniel has the WII ;O)

[Alenmore]

Bryan and Jay, I can ever say often enough how wonderful you two are. I, like many of the people who have messaged you already, wish I could help in some way, your family has, is, and perhaps always will be, a great inspiration to me and I am sure, to us all.

Many blessings upon you and your family Jay and Bryan, do not ever, ever, be ashamed to ask for help, sometimes, we do need it, even when we lest expect it.

Blessed Be and have a blessed day and year.

[danielzero]

I would help if I could, but I am financially unstable myself. Also, I feel bad that I'm in college with my own room and it's more messy than that room that has three little boys living in it.

[depfox]

I dont want any one to strain themselfs by helping us at all if you send you well wishes and nice comments that is plenty to help us.

Jay

[danielzero]

Then I wish you the very best. I say it too often, but you guys are amazing.  Peace.

[miamlarda]

Hey guys,

Jay, you said you need to shave, but I'm liking the hairier look :)

Also, I agree with Brian about not commercializing your family. I think though that if you gave the profits to charity, it wouldn't come off as commercial, but it would let people show their support and spread the message. Just a thought...

Lastly, it was nice to see the Rita Mae Brown quote back at the end.

-Ethan

P.S. As a young gay person, I'm looking forward to your next video & curious to see what you'll say.

[bijoukaiba]

8:00 - you know what I'd love? A ZJempTV feather boa. :D

[depfox]

LOL

[LathanJV36]

I just love you guys so much! I have such a great respect for you both and you both have became my hero's. I find you both so remarkable and such great role models for all of us!

Take care and stay safe!

[vartimor]

omg you guys are just amazing people for doing this. and i would llove to have flexy and fightdog mugs too.

[ciel222]

Very nice guys, I will be watching the videos that will be coming. Great Job.

[tattooskin72]

lack of sleep is definitely common LOL. I remember when I was helping raise my nephew and then my nieces. I don't remember getting a lot sleep at all.

The boys room is actually clean considering :)

I do wish you all the best during this... you both are so great :)

[matthewwh13]

Oh wow, things are looking pretty hectic for you right now. I really hope everything works out for the best.

[Comixbear1]

But you didn't show us the wall where you bang your heads! ;) I used to ask my boss to put some money to reinforce the wall so I could bang my head during the stressfull times! ;)

[sensoriussupremus]

I totally understand where Bryan is coming from & I support him. BUT I also get what you mean Jay, I would also like a t-shirt or something from you guys to be able to show my support. Anyways, I'm all the way down in Nicaragua, I don't even live in the states. So besides watching, rating, adding you videos to my faves & writing comments all I can do is pray for you guys. Take care.

Love you guys.

P.S: Jay, ¿do you really think you need to shave? I think you look fine :D

[summersonset]

To add, Bryan, I feel for you :). You said you love babies, I remember that, but having to go through it again, man, I feel for you :). Im sure she is beautiful, babies always are, I love them. I recall having my babysister to grow up with, something I never forget, it might give Selena a similar experience, it's really beautiful. Again, take good care all, and the children have found great 'parents' and a safe place to grow up now, for the time necessary.

[mikwid]

Wow! I am in awe of you guys. It's a wonderful thing you're doing. Sending you love, light and right now? Mostly peace....

[summersonset]

What a big change you accepted into your lives, Jay&Bryan, and they are so young, which gives so much work. Once time passes by you will find a rythm, that always happens, but its a lot to deal with (and also a lot of pleasure from the children coming to you and viceversa).

I hope to see them one day, when your niece and court can allow it. It seems the kids get along well and quite something for Daniel to have to share his bedroom space. Take good care and take your rest, it's exhausting. x

[FruityTeen09]

i don't think its tacky at all... i want a fight dog mug too!

P.S. (the scratch is hard to see...so don't worry about it =)

[vartimor]

@FruityTeen09 fruity teen ive missed you what happened been busy lately huh?

[RickOnEarth]

Those kids couldn't be in a better place. I know it's tough but what you're both doing will help shape these little one's lives for the better. I'm very proud of you all.

[ahappygay]

bless the both of you.

those children are so lucky to have you and one day, they will be able to speak to you just how much you improve the quality of their lives.

I love you both. ;D

[debbieomi]

You guys might not think it's under control but we're seeing a different view and the love pours out of the screen. Mess be damned (and I would hardly call that a mess lol) love is what matters!

I agree with Bryan about the merchandising of your family's likeness BUT what about a logo? Design a logo that incorporates the Gay Family Values channel name. Heck, make it a contest. You know your fans are some of the most artistic around. Just an idea...

[xypowerpop]

what if you got the revenue from the merchandise that could get sold and donate it to charities? or orphanages or something? That way, you're helping others, instead of selling your family. I know exactly where you guys are comin' from ^^

[Alwakra123]

so happy for you guys ^_^

[MakeupMeLove]

that's nice of you!

[u3q2v]

Good luck guys!

[jjguy23]

Do u guys think if you came to a point where you were given the option to adopt all three children, would you?

[depfox]

Right now we are taking it one day at a time. Im not sure. The way I feel today NO WAY ;o) LOL but that changes daily.

[swampex]

**Big sexy feet**

I think bryan was hating you all way trough the video.

Daniel is awesome

Btw. I´m 20 and those guys are more cleaner than me.

Depfox is sponsered by... Something.

I want a fightdog mug too.

FIGHTOD VFLEX UNDERWARE. I want 7 pairs.

[talentguynyc]

Yeah, I think I agree with Bryan. You might want to stay away from making the family a brand. However, your subscribers wanting to help you out with 5 kids (!!!) should probably be expected. I would totally send a little something, something, too! No Target or Costco near me, but I could do Bed, Bath, and Beyond!

[xxlipzxx]

lol i love how disaster area constitutes as 2 socks and a bear...love ya'll the kids are adorable...xxoo

[talentguynyc]

I know, xxlipzxx, I was thinking the same thing. I wish my room looked that clean when I was a kid! haha

[xxlipzxx]

for real...and as for the brand i think ur right, its kind of inevitable especially since they are trying to prove what they set out to prove...

[depfox]

What can I say I am a clean freak ;O(

[xxlipzxx]

hahaha bryans socks look like he just got them out the package...now thats talent!!

[woodsofodin]

Wow, you guys definately have your work cut out for you there. Good luck w/ all the kids!

[garret166]

You guys are awesome!!! An absolute inspiration!!! I'm only 18, but the more I see your videos, the more I want to start a family!!! Selena and Daniel are PRECIOUS!!! best of luck to you!!!

[tfiorentino]

I agree with Bryan.. do not sell the family off (so to speak) with mugs, calendars etc, as I think it would completely change the image of your site. It is one thing to give away single gifts to specific individuals as your would for family and friends, but do not set an online "shop" (purely as personal recommendation) for every one and anyone to buy a piece of you.

[depfox]

I think Bryan would kill me if I put his face on a mug ;O)

[Supportahol]

You guys clearly have your hands full and are also clearly happy.

[Clonetrooper87]

Dude, I was in town today and I was gonna drop by. But yeah, looks like it's pretty nuts today. Good luck with you guys, tell Daniel and Selena I said "hi".

[Supportahol]

Jay, you are going to KILL me but its been rackkin my brain ever since i met you. I kept askin myself...who who WHO does Jay look like...Tonight i got the answer!...Phil Coulter! Younger version of course. I love you guys sooo much!

[depfox]

Phil Coulter Who??? Guess I better google that is he cute ;O)

[Supportahol]

Theres nothing wrong with his looks atall, Plus, he is a genius on the piano! He aint no Jay though. I like Jay just the was he is! I know...i know... i'm a honey dripper. Your bryans hot hot HOT HOT too! rrrrr! Tell him i said that! Dont tell my Nigel though or i'll get swung around the room a bit! hahaha!

[TahrahStar]

Daniel what a GREAT big brother you are!!

[regemo]

You guys are amazing. Thats a *big* family.

[D0ug91]

You're an inspirational couple that certainly motivate me to create a life for myself alike yours. As a gay 18 year old male, it's difficult to look for Mr Right, not just Mr Right Now. I appreciate your videos, and if I could help you two out I would love to.

Btw, I love the frame around the living room TV, very cool :)

[kd1s]

Looks like you guys are all set for a big family. Best of luck to you all.

[VlogasaurusFlex]

I know it is tough right now.

But you guys are living through what you will look back on one day, and see as one of the best parts of your lives.

I admire you for building a real home and for sharing that with those that need it.

Almost teared up when I saw the baby's feet. All I could think is, "If she could speak, she'd probly say how happy she is to be in a safe, loving home."

[depfox]

So you going to be making the underwear Ill buy a pair ;O)

[mr3nos]

Daddy Brians anti-corporatism makes him 10 times more hotter than he already is for me :D

[MakeupMeLove]

did you adopt them all?

[depfox]

No they are my nieces kids who where taken away from her. We are trying to help her out while she is in rehab.

[mrwoolite]

Sounds like things are pretty crazy at your house right now. I'm really glad to see Daniel and Selena are dealing with the crowded house well.

And the game Daniel was playing is one of my favorites too. He has good taste :)

[arklightbabybear]

You guys are the best....Your love and heart inspires me...ever since I found out about you guys, I've felt like a personal friend...you share your lives with us, your struggles... I was once told, that it is a joy to share your love, let us share ours, accept those that want to help you...we love you guys!

[LeonSKennedy828]

One question though, why can't you show the new kids on camera? (if you don't mind me asking)

[oldgreymare1]

Jay and Bryan:

Thanks for taking the time to give us an update. The house look great, Daniel's room worked out well accomdating three boys. You have to remember, you do have five children in your home, I have seen worse with only two!

God Bless Grandmas,especially Grandma Ann, how did I know she would be there to help.

Take care, you are doing such a wonderful thing, so good to see Daniel and Selena.

God Bless.

Love and Peace,

Mare

[LeonSKennedy828]

I'll give you this, you've got alot more balls than I do. I wouldn't cope with 1 kid, 5 would sent me to the crazy house.

[mmb1998]

ZJ is a male.

[questionsamson]

Hearts of gold I tell you. I bet Selena loves her new baby sister. She might look at the baby as a real life doll.

[MrRomulus456]

Your house looks like one big playground! ;D

I really admire you

Greetings ;**

[Texasred63]

FootCam Love it.

This is so great of the two to take these kids in. Maybe Ty Pennington and the Home makeover team can build you a new house now!!LOL

[lailaagrado]

Jay and Bryan

you guys rocks ! :) the perfect parents ever!

[jojo20to1]

Hey Jay and Bryan

You and Bryan are doing a great job with the kids in your family and all the best to you and the family. Yes Me and my niece would be glad to come see you and your family over the summer. Yes when I talk you on the phone today I said I will put the gift in the mail on Thursday . This will help you and Bryan and the family. I can not wait to come back to Ca see you and your awesome Family! with my niece!

Your you tube friend!!!

JOJO and Sarah!!!

[depfox]

LOL I think we are so not going to do that but you would be surprised the request we get :O)

[thatoneshyguy20]

You guys are the best. You guys are really pure of heart for doing what you are doing. I really admire you guys and you guys from the begining you have shown the true meaning of family and still do. LOL hearing all the kids running around reminds me when my whole family gets together since a lot of my extended family has small kids.

[schmumpkin]

You two have the biggest hearts and kindest souls I've seen in a long time.

You two are what support and compassion for others looks like and actually ARE.

Loved the tour, and oh no! Magic Diaper Pail. :) It's great that the kids are doing so well with the changes too.