PEASE be aware black people, regardless on the videos, there are white men and women on YouTube posing as black people and other races, starting drama within the black race!!!
U 2 look great 2gether,black is truly beautiful! & thanx for all the inside tips Crystalroselove on blk hair care; they have been really helpful 4 my hair! Bless u girlfriend!
Completely agree with everything he says. My man is the same way. Just as long as its presentable, its fine with him. He actually prefers my hair natural. =) Its sad that I was brainwashed when I was younger. I DID used to have a pre-programmed image of what I wanted my husband to look like. Then I met my current significant other, and that petty image went right out the window. =) I'm glad we've broken free from the fake images of European perfection and beauty the media portrays.
Oh and bayareagirl1000, FINE AND REAL JOB AND OCCUPY YOUR DAM TIME WITH SOMETHING PRODUCTIVE. IF YOU NEED HELP DOING THAT LET ME KNOW. BECAUSE REAL MEN CARE ABOUT YOU LOOKING GOOD AND REAL LIFE SH**, HOW MUCH MONEY YOU MAKE , ARE THEY GOING TO HAVE TO SUPPORT YOUR BUT, WHEN WILL WE BUY OUR 1ST HOUSE, IS THE SEX GOOD, IS SHE WORTH GETTING MARRIED TO. REAL SHIT. WAKE UP LITTLE GIRL
@denisedenisenow42 LOL! The term is, "Find" a job, not, "Fine" a job. Not that it's any of your business, but not only do I have a career, but I would never hire anyone like you. You can't write and most likely can't comprehend reading either. English is most likely the only language that you speak and you don't even have command of that. You need to get hooked on phonics because a mind is a terrible thing to waste. The next time that you address me, you should actually post to me directly.
@denisedenisenow42, SINCE YOU HAVE A HARD TIME UNDERSTANDING, GET A REAL JOB!, YOUR WHOLE COMMENT WAS ONE ONE WORD, FINE OR FIND, THAT JUST SHOWS YOU HAVE NOTHING GOING ON! DON'T WRITE ME, FINE SOMETHING TO DO WITH YOUR TIME, INSTEAD OF BOTHERING ME. .LITTLE GIRL
@denisedenisenow42, SINCE YOU HAVE A HARD TIME UNDERSTANDING, GET A REAL JOB!, YOUR WHOLE COMMENT WAS ONE ONE WORD, FINE OR FIND, THAT JUST SHOWS YOU HAVE NOTHING GOING ON! DON'T WRITE ME, FIND SOMETHING TO DO WITH YOUR TIME, INSTEAD OF BOTHERING ME. .LITTLE GIRL
Oh, and just to let that stupid person know who made the comment about we just don' t know. WHITE MEN AREN'T COMPLAINING. THEY MORE AND MORE MOVING OVER TO THE DARK SIDE. I KNOW I AM BLACK AND HE IS WHITE AND I WEAR THAT WEAVE WELL WHEN ITS DONE, AND HE DOESN'T CARE BECAUSE IT MAKE ME LOOK GOOD AND FEEL GOOD AND WHEN I GO TO WORK. I MAKE THE DOLLARS TO BUY IT AND WHEN ME AND HIM ARE TOGETHER, ITS ABOUT DOING THE RIGHT THING TO HELP PEOPLE NOT STUPID BS LIKE THOSE COMMENTS.
And again I must tell blackwomen if you want extension in your hair and it looks good wear it and wear it well. I have seen some that look dam good and I am like ooh her hair is look tight. I am also asking where did she get it done. Because on the real now. If you don't look good no one it going to hire you ass on any JOB. Whether a black women wear is straight or natural, the only one complaining is someone with too much dam time on there hand. JUST GET A JOB ALREADY
Question: Would she want to be with him if he had a perm? and sir your hair cant be healthy with chemicals burning the shit out of it. Is it just me or is she baiting him with the questions.lol get some balls yes man. One last thing Quan is that a pink sweater or is the hue on my laptop off. lol women stay in your lane and men stay in your lane. I think thats the problem when some women try to role reverse we can all tell who wears the pants in this relationship. "C-mon son" in my Ed lover voice
@FutureStarFitness The Happy to be Nappy movement is a fraud and is being promoted by unhappy, jealous hearted haters like you. Why are you all so angry? I think it's because Misery Loves Company. You most likely have hard nappy & short hair like a dude, so you want every other woman to do the transition, so they can be as angry at relaxed & long haired women as you are. Can you just STFU already?
@bayareagirl1000 First of all I am a man and nothing is better then being natural sweetie. My girls hair is natural and her dreads are down to her ass. You are dumb so dumb most black women hair falls out because of all those perms and harse chemicals. Anything you have to apply with rubber cloves and wash out before it burns a whole in your scull can't be good for your hair. Be happy with what God has given you not because the white man says its better. Brainwashed lil girl
@FutureStarFitness As far as you being a man, you could have fooled me. Since when do men concern themselves with what a woman chooses to do with her hair? Is there something that you aren't telling us because that is so GAY. There's nothing wrong with a person being gay as long as they can own up to it instead of pretending to be straight.
@bayareagirl1000 Women try and look good for men so what the hell are you talking about? Thats why I am concerned to inform my black queens that they are beautiful natural and they don't have to conform to white soceity's definition of beauty. For your info there is something wrong with being gay but you young people except it, so yall have alot to learn but thats another story:)
@FutureStarFitness Yes, I am young, but I'm not a little girl. I am bi-racial with extremely thick & healthy relaxed hair that is @ my mid back. I can't give your girl any credit for having long dreads because she can't comb them and didn't take any special care of her hair, they just grew like a fungus. I know how to take care of my hair, so I didn't have to cheat with dreadlocks to grow my hair long. My hair can be touched and your girl has fleas.
@bayareagirl1000 How can you say healthy and relaxed in the same sentence,lol yes u are young and dum. The reason women lose their hair is because the chemical damage, I said if you have to put cloves on to apply it to your hair how can it be good for ur hair.White society has black women thinking that their hair cant grow without chemicals.Just because u might have to take more care in mantaining ur hair if ur black dosent me its better to take the short cut with chemicals,Stop being lazy lil G
@FutureStarFitness Yes, my hair is healthy & relaxed because I stretch my relaxers and I use Aphogee & Fantasia IC products. I have never burned my scalp because I base it with vaseline and put reconstructors on the ends that I don't want overlapped. I do pre-poos, co-washes, scalp treatments, massages, leave in conditioners, heat protectors, molasses & honey treatments, my hair doesn't break and sheds lightly. My Grandmother even has healthy thick hair because we know how to take care of it.
@FutureStarFitness Ignorant people like you who don't have a clue how to care for relaxed hair are the reason for the Big Chop. My hair grows an inch every 5-weeks and by summer it will be closer to my waist level. My hair looks like fur. When I'm at the club, women actually follow me into the bathroom to get a closer look at my hair wondering if it's a lace front wig until I part it out so they can see my scalp. There is no hair prettier than well cared for long hair that fingers can touch.
@SHoward152 I usually relax my hair 3-times a year and I pamper my hair with hot oil treatements, pre-poos, co-washes, deep penetratrating moisturizers, overnight baggy methods for moisture, leave in pro-vitamin conditioners, leave in moisturizers, reconstuctors and heat protecting serums as well. Also, I comb gently with a wide tooth comb always starting from the ends first and instead of protective styling, I wear protective clothing that my hair won't snag on. It's work I know, but worth it.
@FutureStarFitness Does your girl even wash her nappy dreads? My friend has the same length dreads and confessed to me that she only washes it twice a year. My hair is so clean & fresh smelling because I wash it every 2-days making sure to use my Fantasia IC deep penetrating moisturizer. Also you are an idiot if you think that just because hair is nappy that it is healthy. My strands are so strong and my hair glissens in the light, so don't even try to compare your girls dusty dreads to mine.
@bayareagirl1000 Stop lying lil girl your friend is just dirty. If a chemist didn't put those chemicals together u wouldn't have that fur ur bragging about and natural women don't have to use that poisen to make them feel better about themselves.u do all this shit to have ur hair look straight or relaxed lol your brainwashed and you don't even know it.Don't feel bad you have lots of black women that feel european texture is "better" than their own so they do anything to be like them. Dummy
@FutureStarFitness You need to learn how to read because anyone with the good sense that God gave a billy goat would see that my hair care regime works. Just because you come from a bald headed family, don't assume that others are the same. I always keep it real and you should too. You need to do your research before you post because you are such an ignorant jerk. We just agree to disagree and don't contact me again you Troll.
@bayareagirl1000 I've gotta say that this whole argument is one of the reasons we are constantly separating ourselves. Hair is dead the moment it grows from your scalp, so all you can do is maintain it...its not really healthy. Now, whether you choose to use relaxers as your damaging tool of choice or not, hair gets damaged overtime naturally. I've seen beautiful women with long relaxed hair as well as those with long natural hair. Wear it how you want and don't put others down for how they do.
@jackalo34 Wrong, Hair Is Alive. Each Strand of Hair has it's own individual life span, once that's over, it sheds. How do you think? I've heard so many silly people say that. How do you think that hair is able to absorb nutrients, proteins, conditioners and moisturizers? Duh. Most people who I've heard say that hair is dead do not have any.
@mochacreamdoll I honestly don’t care anymore. I thought I said this before, but I think I might have forgotten: hair isn’t alive, but it’s also not necessarily dead…it’s weird lol. I do have hair so that had nothing to do with it.
@bayareagirl1000 Yes, I am young, but I'm not a little girl. I am bi-racial with extremely thick & healthy relaxed hair that is @ my mid back. I can't give your girl any credit for having long dreads because she can't comb them and didn't take any special care of her hair, they just grew like a fungus. I know how to take care of my hair, so I didn't have to cheat with dreadlocks to grow my hair long. My hair can be touched and your girl has fleas.
@FutureStarFitness Your problem is that you've only seen bad examples of the damage that relaxers are capable of if not properly cared for. Before you keep arguing your opinion against my results you need to check out other examples of healthy relaxed hair here on Youtube by typing in"Healthy Long Relaxed Hair" then you will see women like Ateyah, Ms. Kabibi, Meg, Lisa from Kiss, etc. Then maybe you'll STFU. If I could send your ignorant ass a pic you'd be speachless & see how wrong that you are
Race" is a lie, but you use racist terms taught by the pale European racist to describe yourself? Do these "Blacks" follow the teachings of Hitler and other racist Europeans? RACE IS NOT SCIENCE! "White" = Pale/Devoid of pigment <-Does pale skin make one superior? Well, when one calls a person "white" or "black" it only goes to support racism.....the dark, ebony, brown people of the USA have surely been indoctrinated into racism and they help to perpetuate it. All dark people have kinky hair?
Videos like this are funny. Cause men say they like neat looking hair but will go for a chick with some jacked up looking weave, lol. So whatever. He loves a woman that keeps her hair natural but the chick in the video has a perm, lol.
Actually not just for sex but more as a trophy or something to show off. Like look what I have thing. A man walking around with a chick with natural hair is "regular". Just like a black guy walking around with a fat white woman is "regular" it doesn't catch your attention. But if that woman was good looking with long blond hair and blue eyes, I bet everyone would be looking.
I really like this video. You guys really seem to be very educated. I agree with every point in this video. I feel the same way about black women hair and I'm Black.....as long as its neat thats a really good point it doesnt matter if I wear my natural hair I'm confident so that will show, if I decide to wear a weave as long as none of tracks are showing and my hair is blended well with my weave.
this is beautiful, nothing is more beautiful than two blakc people together. BLACK PEOPLE UNITE. TRUTH IS MOST BLACK MEN LOVE BLACK WO,MEN AND BLACK WOMEN LOVE BLACK MEN. MY GF IS BLACK AND I AM BLACK AND WE PLAN TO MARRY AND HAVE TONS OF KIDS
@creditgirl, i still get the same comments from the same group. But i notice that guys will still holla if youre cute or have a nice body. People are still ignorant and confuse about my hair.
All women are "fake", some white women have curly hair too and have to straighten their hair with an iron. All females make up theirselves like make up, fake hair, contacts, plastic surger, and et'...
he just gives the most honest clear shout out answer ..............that's to show you that typically not all men are shallow or narrow mind .....we black women need to pull out our-selves together on those 2 issues hair and skin ..........i myself is getting my self together and it took 25 years of my life yes society as done lot of damage on me as a little girl i mean specially my own family ..........but like these guy said is all about how you present yourself all neat on the platter
men like women who know how to style their hair... it's not just about having natural hair. i have natural black hair.. i style it well and i don't get judged!!
the problem is: black women gotta learn how to style their hair :)
@LadyEpoch I'm sure he means put together. You can have neat afros, twists, and all kinds of other natural styles. Same with relaxed styles. It's those broken, knotted, unhealthy hair that I'm sure he dislikes (which is understandable).
@ajgurl23 The healthy stuff was added as a bonus so it really has nothing to do with his statement about neatness. Curls/coils need more product than relaxed hair to lessen frizz, so they don't appear like a "bird's nest." An example or two, rather than sarcasm, would have better clarified his definition of neat natural hair vs relaxed hair.
@Washanen07 Well, I wear my "pubic" hair the way it is. I don't care what men think I was or was not blessed with. Either way we wear our hair, we'll be viewed in the same light so we needs to do what makes us feel good, because who cares anyway? Oh and by the way, since I've got pubic hair on my head, at least consistent in both places. I'm all for being blessed with consistency - no surprises.
@Washanen07 If you feel a woman is mariage material based on her hair then you will have a rude awakening. Just because a black woman has straightens her hair, it doesn't mean she wants to be white. I think she's trying to be conservative looking. Aboriginal women have straight hair and they're black. All races have straight hair.
@Washanen07 What a silly, discriminatory thing to say...it's neither true, nor nice to make such a sweeping generalization about any group of people. I hope you get to a point where you learn more about the black women around you. It'd probably shock you.
Question, are you proposing that your man's view is representative of how all of black men feel about black hair? That's just not right girl. BTW, he looks a little intimidated and saying what you want to hear.
@vuvopd I don't think that's the case at all. This man is giving his personal opinion, and offers how he thinks the majority of the men he encounters probably feel. And he definitely seems confident enough in himself to speak his own mind.
When I was wearing my silky straight wig, more guys to notice me. I have twist now, more females are giving me compliments at work. The white men and women love my hair because its natural. I agree with him, immaqture black males like the thug types are going to be ignorant to naturals.
@lightshorti , I realize your post was 5 months ago, but it is all so true. I decided one day to wash my hair, put it in small braids. Got to work the next day and got compliments from white women & white men ...........Not a word from the black men. Not that I was looking for their approval or something. But some of these ignorant negglits like the guy posting on this channel**Washanen07"** callg BW all kinds of filthy names just make me sick w' there immaturity.
I enjoyed the video.I however disagree with the point with the media.I have noticed that on most tv ads all the sisters are wearing natural "looking" hair.I love that look personally...but check it out.Most times its afro or natural twists...Just love it...looks sophisticated to me.
Nice looking couple...lady really looks good and intellegent....a bit jealous...lol..lol
The truth is men r extremely visual. There's no getting around it. It sounds shallow and maybe it is but I totally saw a difference when I was natural and when I wore a weave (I tried it as an experiment). Guys were coming out of the wood-work to talk to me when I had long straight hair. Put it this way, you can try to "stay true" or whatever but if you want to b married and impregnated before you're barren, have a skinny waist nice legs and long silky hair. And smell good.
Great video! I say be yourself and people will either accept you or they won't. When my hair was long and relaxed people thought it was a weave. Now that it's in a medium length afro, some laugh and point, some compliment me, either way, I'm wearing it natural. Please yourself first!
I have a nice head of hair, It's naturally curly & nice. It's down my back when straight (thanks to my maternal white grandmother and my paternal indian grandmother.)
I asked my husband if he liked it straight or curly. He said straight & it hurt my feelings. It seems black men don't like natural hair even if it's considered good. I asked him is it b/c he likes caucasian type hair. He said no but I don't buy it. So now, I won't straightened my hair again, at least not for awhile.
@rumblegrill do not see it like that. My ex BF begged me to not relax my hair, because he loves the curls. So not all men think like your husband. And also he just stated what he preferred you wearing. It is nothing major. It is not everything he wears you love so.. do not let this get to you like that. it is just his preference but he loves you.
@brownheartxxx well it defeats the whole purpose of clicking on a video about hair don't you think? It's a bit redundant to do so. Why not ignore the topic?
as a black man i think black women who have relaxed is that its cool. afro or natural hair style is not for everyone. i like both styles. i just hate girls or women with colors in their head like yellow, red, blue.
I think that what is natural is beautiful. Having relaxed hair can be nice but a black woman would be more beautiful with her natural hair! also relaxers are to chemical and actually kill our scapl and hair!! Can you imagin a white girl with afro hair??And when u see one of them trying braids . What do you think, Boss? Is it nice??
Great video! Y'all are so cute! And, I appreciated Kwan's opinions. I agree that w/ men it comes down to personal preference. I also think that most black men, if given the option, prefer permed non-weaved hair like yours. And as a natural, I don't begrudge this! To each his own is what I say. Also, as Kwan pointed out neatness & confidence matter a lot. So much that a man will ignore his first hair preference and date/marry etc a natural head if everything else about her is compatible.
God put all these people in my life,so I could love everyone. If I didn't love the people in my life,then I would be hating myself,and i love myself.
You ask what i want to be,I want to be the best person I can be,so I can show others that its okay to be different. People stand out more & shine more. I love people not because your hair is nappy,straight,curly,but because I do. I want the same kind of love in return. That is who i want to be. Smoochez
furiousrai" you asked me : so what do u want to be ??????????
Are you talking about race ? I am african black.
My grandmother is half black & white,so I love Biracial people. My Great grandmother is white,so i love white people. My grandfather an Asian background,so i love asians. My mother's black,my father's black,& my dogs is black. lol I love black people.
Lovely video BUT I hope there are other men in this series besides your boyfriend, so we can get a more representative viewpoint. Im not say quality but more quantity...But good vid
i must admit i never went with a sister with fake hair. i guess because the sister i meet is sister of conscious. not that i will turn down a sister with a weeve, it just happen i have not went with one. Iam attractive to natural beauty rather a black woman or not. I love the natural look of any woman.
if ur goin 2 say that black women arent original then u need to also say that white women arent original either. everyone copies or borrows from everyone else...
you definitely have a white supremacist attitude, bc if you are intending to refer about straight hair, many Asians and many hispanics also have straight hair! why DOES it have to be aaalways refered to as "trying to be white"!? Also, black girls actually do not wear stuff that many white girls wear, so ur point is invalid.
This comment has received too many negative votesshow
u must be a Black african. for ur information hispanics,asians,and whites all have almost same type of hair except colour difference.only the Blacks have ugly looking hair thatsy they always have barren head.lol..lol....
I like being who I was born to be, I love people of color,and I like mixed people too. I like white people,but I don't want to white at all. I like my brown complexsion & my nappy hair. I can braid it,curl it,and wear an afro. Black guys love me with straight hair or relaxed. The black man invented the relaxer,so I will wear it. I got my own hair, sometimes I wear the weave,and I have a pretty smile. Shout out 2 my Kinky sisters !!
finding a girl like this is like seeing a unicorn sitting next to a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow with a pink elephant drinking out of the fountain of youth.
lucky lucky lucky....
I wish you both the best, so far you guys look like you have good communication.
i'm lots of fun lol. and i love my natural hair b/c i don't have to worry about sweating it out during certain activities *cough cough*, i let my man run his fingers all through it if he wants, and it doesn't take a million yrs for me to get ready to go out.
as they say: if you're bored that means YOU'RE BORING. maybe women w/ natural hair don't like you enough to want to have w/ you... i know i wouldn't have fun w/ someone who judges a whole group of ppl based on a few experiences w/ some (and you've probably never been w/ one just pulled this "boring" notion out of your ass)
@gronaldo6 precisely you are a dulllard. I entreat you to educate yourself on the word. Hey how about making it a homework project. An no sweetie I don't need a weave to be sexy. Unlike you I am not programmed. Good luck with that sweetie happy reading!
true... i've caught men when my hair was nappy or straight or weave or my own hair...if your cute your cute..I think men care more about your body 1st then face then hair...lol I know i've caught more men smaller than bigger it is what it is!!! and when ur confident a man will like you.
In a future video would you please address how Black Men feel about Black Woman and makeup? Specially, if Black Men prefer their woman to be natural (i.e. without makeup) or wearing some makeup?
if your boyfriend is truly saying what he actually feels........and NOt saying what you want to hear.....(with regards to the answeres to these questions you asked) then wow you have a man that has good character .......time will tell if he truly believes what he is saying......i say that because many men are superfical.....they are driven by looks.....
Can you guy's make a video on inter-racial dating (black men & non-black women and black woman & non black men), sex & dating, and issues that are effecting the black community.
for some reason i have a problem with weaves and extensions. i don't know why. but ya know that is my preference. my preference is women with thier natural hair. now if it is natural or relaxed...to me it doesn't mater but what does matter is if it looks good or not. some women look good with relaxed hair, some don't..some look good with natural hair and some don't
crystalroselove, your man seems to have a very good head on his shoulders. I It's good to see that there are some out there who know how to spot a decent man. The main point that I agree with him on is that if a man doesn't like a woman because she has natural hair he's immature and not worth her time.
hair does not make a person love you love is unconditional
Blackbeauty30000 3 weeks ago
QUAN YO ASSED IS WHOOPED LMAO
theright1allthetime 4 weeks ago
He's lying and wiped.
thinker900 1 month ago
I thought she was Cherokee LOL!
niceprince 1 month ago
This has been flagged as spam show
PEASE be aware black people, regardless on the videos, there are white men and women on YouTube posing as black people and other races, starting drama within the black race!!!
meandmyself364 1 month ago
09' , Yep HE LEFT.
caramelking2000 3 months ago
wow what a couple ,you guys should give some dating tips.
hulkachan 4 months ago
U 2 look great 2gether,black is truly beautiful! & thanx for all the inside tips Crystalroselove on blk hair care; they have been really helpful 4 my hair! Bless u girlfriend!
Fannieschild3 5 months ago
2 cent piece! Love it!
LatraciaY 7 months ago
real talk, good to hear that others understand its not "power to the people" but a choice to embrace what is beautifully our own.
pnaomilakes 8 months ago
Completely agree with everything he says. My man is the same way. Just as long as its presentable, its fine with him. He actually prefers my hair natural. =) Its sad that I was brainwashed when I was younger. I DID used to have a pre-programmed image of what I wanted my husband to look like. Then I met my current significant other, and that petty image went right out the window. =) I'm glad we've broken free from the fake images of European perfection and beauty the media portrays.
purpledream77 8 months ago
awww...you guys are so cute together and it's definitely nice to get the male's perspective on this. good idea crystal!
kkmatt 8 months ago
Ok this women basically asked him the same question every time she talked obviously she just liked the satisfaction of herring her bf's voice.
Ps. There isNothings wrong with that it just was so obvious
CornBreashaTv 8 months ago
hahaha "walking out with slob on the side of your face" tell it!
starrchaser1 9 months ago
Oh and bayareagirl1000, FINE AND REAL JOB AND OCCUPY YOUR DAM TIME WITH SOMETHING PRODUCTIVE. IF YOU NEED HELP DOING THAT LET ME KNOW. BECAUSE REAL MEN CARE ABOUT YOU LOOKING GOOD AND REAL LIFE SH**, HOW MUCH MONEY YOU MAKE , ARE THEY GOING TO HAVE TO SUPPORT YOUR BUT, WHEN WILL WE BUY OUR 1ST HOUSE, IS THE SEX GOOD, IS SHE WORTH GETTING MARRIED TO. REAL SHIT. WAKE UP LITTLE GIRL
denisedenisenow42 10 months ago
@denisedenisenow42 LOL! The term is, "Find" a job, not, "Fine" a job. Not that it's any of your business, but not only do I have a career, but I would never hire anyone like you. You can't write and most likely can't comprehend reading either. English is most likely the only language that you speak and you don't even have command of that. You need to get hooked on phonics because a mind is a terrible thing to waste. The next time that you address me, you should actually post to me directly.
bayareagirl1000 8 months ago
@denisedenisenow42, SINCE YOU HAVE A HARD TIME UNDERSTANDING, GET A REAL JOB!, YOUR WHOLE COMMENT WAS ONE ONE WORD, FINE OR FIND, THAT JUST SHOWS YOU HAVE NOTHING GOING ON! DON'T WRITE ME, FINE SOMETHING TO DO WITH YOUR TIME, INSTEAD OF BOTHERING ME. .LITTLE GIRL
denisedenisenow42 7 months ago
@denisedenisenow42, SINCE YOU HAVE A HARD TIME UNDERSTANDING, GET A REAL JOB!, YOUR WHOLE COMMENT WAS ONE ONE WORD, FINE OR FIND, THAT JUST SHOWS YOU HAVE NOTHING GOING ON! DON'T WRITE ME, FIND SOMETHING TO DO WITH YOUR TIME, INSTEAD OF BOTHERING ME. .LITTLE GIRL
denisedenisenow42 7 months ago
Oh, and just to let that stupid person know who made the comment about we just don' t know. WHITE MEN AREN'T COMPLAINING. THEY MORE AND MORE MOVING OVER TO THE DARK SIDE. I KNOW I AM BLACK AND HE IS WHITE AND I WEAR THAT WEAVE WELL WHEN ITS DONE, AND HE DOESN'T CARE BECAUSE IT MAKE ME LOOK GOOD AND FEEL GOOD AND WHEN I GO TO WORK. I MAKE THE DOLLARS TO BUY IT AND WHEN ME AND HIM ARE TOGETHER, ITS ABOUT DOING THE RIGHT THING TO HELP PEOPLE NOT STUPID BS LIKE THOSE COMMENTS.
denisedenisenow42 10 months ago
And again I must tell blackwomen if you want extension in your hair and it looks good wear it and wear it well. I have seen some that look dam good and I am like ooh her hair is look tight. I am also asking where did she get it done. Because on the real now. If you don't look good no one it going to hire you ass on any JOB. Whether a black women wear is straight or natural, the only one complaining is someone with too much dam time on there hand. JUST GET A JOB ALREADY
denisedenisenow42 10 months ago
@denisedenisenow42 lol ugly peopleget hired all the time
SHoward152 8 months ago
I really liked this video because of how honest and outspoken Quan (sorry if I misspelled) Thanks!
notyomamascharitywrk 10 months ago
Comment removed
MRbossman1982 10 months ago
I am a black man and everything he says is completely true.
SkyHigh675 11 months ago
Question: Would she want to be with him if he had a perm? and sir your hair cant be healthy with chemicals burning the shit out of it. Is it just me or is she baiting him with the questions.lol get some balls yes man. One last thing Quan is that a pink sweater or is the hue on my laptop off. lol women stay in your lane and men stay in your lane. I think thats the problem when some women try to role reverse we can all tell who wears the pants in this relationship. "C-mon son" in my Ed lover voice
FutureStarFitness 11 months ago
@FutureStarFitness The Happy to be Nappy movement is a fraud and is being promoted by unhappy, jealous hearted haters like you. Why are you all so angry? I think it's because Misery Loves Company. You most likely have hard nappy & short hair like a dude, so you want every other woman to do the transition, so they can be as angry at relaxed & long haired women as you are. Can you just STFU already?
bayareagirl1000 11 months ago
@bayareagirl1000 First of all I am a man and nothing is better then being natural sweetie. My girls hair is natural and her dreads are down to her ass. You are dumb so dumb most black women hair falls out because of all those perms and harse chemicals. Anything you have to apply with rubber cloves and wash out before it burns a whole in your scull can't be good for your hair. Be happy with what God has given you not because the white man says its better. Brainwashed lil girl
FutureStarFitness 11 months ago
@FutureStarFitness As far as you being a man, you could have fooled me. Since when do men concern themselves with what a woman chooses to do with her hair? Is there something that you aren't telling us because that is so GAY. There's nothing wrong with a person being gay as long as they can own up to it instead of pretending to be straight.
bayareagirl1000 11 months ago
@bayareagirl1000 Women try and look good for men so what the hell are you talking about? Thats why I am concerned to inform my black queens that they are beautiful natural and they don't have to conform to white soceity's definition of beauty. For your info there is something wrong with being gay but you young people except it, so yall have alot to learn but thats another story:)
FutureStarFitness 11 months ago
@FutureStarFitness Yes, I am young, but I'm not a little girl. I am bi-racial with extremely thick & healthy relaxed hair that is @ my mid back. I can't give your girl any credit for having long dreads because she can't comb them and didn't take any special care of her hair, they just grew like a fungus. I know how to take care of my hair, so I didn't have to cheat with dreadlocks to grow my hair long. My hair can be touched and your girl has fleas.
bayareagirl1000 11 months ago
@bayareagirl1000 How can you say healthy and relaxed in the same sentence,lol yes u are young and dum. The reason women lose their hair is because the chemical damage, I said if you have to put cloves on to apply it to your hair how can it be good for ur hair.White society has black women thinking that their hair cant grow without chemicals.Just because u might have to take more care in mantaining ur hair if ur black dosent me its better to take the short cut with chemicals,Stop being lazy lil G
FutureStarFitness 11 months ago
@FutureStarFitness Yes, my hair is healthy & relaxed because I stretch my relaxers and I use Aphogee & Fantasia IC products. I have never burned my scalp because I base it with vaseline and put reconstructors on the ends that I don't want overlapped. I do pre-poos, co-washes, scalp treatments, massages, leave in conditioners, heat protectors, molasses & honey treatments, my hair doesn't break and sheds lightly. My Grandmother even has healthy thick hair because we know how to take care of it.
bayareagirl1000 11 months ago
@FutureStarFitness Ignorant people like you who don't have a clue how to care for relaxed hair are the reason for the Big Chop. My hair grows an inch every 5-weeks and by summer it will be closer to my waist level. My hair looks like fur. When I'm at the club, women actually follow me into the bathroom to get a closer look at my hair wondering if it's a lace front wig until I part it out so they can see my scalp. There is no hair prettier than well cared for long hair that fingers can touch.
bayareagirl1000 11 months ago
@bayareagirl1000 how often do you relax your hair
SHoward152 8 months ago
@SHoward152 I usually relax my hair 3-times a year and I pamper my hair with hot oil treatements, pre-poos, co-washes, deep penetratrating moisturizers, overnight baggy methods for moisture, leave in pro-vitamin conditioners, leave in moisturizers, reconstuctors and heat protecting serums as well. Also, I comb gently with a wide tooth comb always starting from the ends first and instead of protective styling, I wear protective clothing that my hair won't snag on. It's work I know, but worth it.
bayareagirl1000 8 months ago
@FutureStarFitness Does your girl even wash her nappy dreads? My friend has the same length dreads and confessed to me that she only washes it twice a year. My hair is so clean & fresh smelling because I wash it every 2-days making sure to use my Fantasia IC deep penetrating moisturizer. Also you are an idiot if you think that just because hair is nappy that it is healthy. My strands are so strong and my hair glissens in the light, so don't even try to compare your girls dusty dreads to mine.
bayareagirl1000 11 months ago
@bayareagirl1000 Stop lying lil girl your friend is just dirty. If a chemist didn't put those chemicals together u wouldn't have that fur ur bragging about and natural women don't have to use that poisen to make them feel better about themselves.u do all this shit to have ur hair look straight or relaxed lol your brainwashed and you don't even know it.Don't feel bad you have lots of black women that feel european texture is "better" than their own so they do anything to be like them. Dummy
FutureStarFitness 11 months ago
@FutureStarFitness You need to learn how to read because anyone with the good sense that God gave a billy goat would see that my hair care regime works. Just because you come from a bald headed family, don't assume that others are the same. I always keep it real and you should too. You need to do your research before you post because you are such an ignorant jerk. We just agree to disagree and don't contact me again you Troll.
bayareagirl1000 11 months ago
@bayareagirl1000 I've gotta say that this whole argument is one of the reasons we are constantly separating ourselves. Hair is dead the moment it grows from your scalp, so all you can do is maintain it...its not really healthy. Now, whether you choose to use relaxers as your damaging tool of choice or not, hair gets damaged overtime naturally. I've seen beautiful women with long relaxed hair as well as those with long natural hair. Wear it how you want and don't put others down for how they do.
jackalo34 7 months ago
@jackalo34 Wrong, Hair Is Alive. Each Strand of Hair has it's own individual life span, once that's over, it sheds. How do you think? I've heard so many silly people say that. How do you think that hair is able to absorb nutrients, proteins, conditioners and moisturizers? Duh. Most people who I've heard say that hair is dead do not have any.
mochacreamdoll 5 months ago
@mochacreamdoll I honestly don’t care anymore. I thought I said this before, but I think I might have forgotten: hair isn’t alive, but it’s also not necessarily dead…it’s weird lol. I do have hair so that had nothing to do with it.
jackalo34 4 months ago
@bayareagirl1000 Yes, I am young, but I'm not a little girl. I am bi-racial with extremely thick & healthy relaxed hair that is @ my mid back. I can't give your girl any credit for having long dreads because she can't comb them and didn't take any special care of her hair, they just grew like a fungus. I know how to take care of my hair, so I didn't have to cheat with dreadlocks to grow my hair long. My hair can be touched and your girl has fleas.
bayareagirl1000 11 months ago
@FutureStarFitness Your problem is that you've only seen bad examples of the damage that relaxers are capable of if not properly cared for. Before you keep arguing your opinion against my results you need to check out other examples of healthy relaxed hair here on Youtube by typing in"Healthy Long Relaxed Hair" then you will see women like Ateyah, Ms. Kabibi, Meg, Lisa from Kiss, etc. Then maybe you'll STFU. If I could send your ignorant ass a pic you'd be speachless & see how wrong that you are
bayareagirl1000 11 months ago
This has been flagged as spam show
Race" is a lie, but you use racist terms taught by the pale European racist to describe yourself? Do these "Blacks" follow the teachings of Hitler and other racist Europeans? RACE IS NOT SCIENCE! "White" = Pale/Devoid of pigment <-Does pale skin make one superior? Well, when one calls a person "white" or "black" it only goes to support racism.....the dark, ebony, brown people of the USA have surely been indoctrinated into racism and they help to perpetuate it. All dark people have kinky hair?
Born2Flesh 1 year ago
This video was both informative and humorous. Your boyfriend is such a great sport for answering the question thoroughly and honestly.
NaturallyInStyle 1 year ago 3
i hate weave
bigairbc 1 year ago
Ha! Ha! He's really funny and he's Keeping It Real!
ephiphany100 1 year ago
I am am Corporate Engineer,naps not needed
crpdm1965 1 year ago
@crpdm1965
fuck dat shit..
I am an engineer and i say natural FTW
franciso7 1 year ago
I dont like weave.
FrigidWhisper 1 year ago 8
Videos like this are funny. Cause men say they like neat looking hair but will go for a chick with some jacked up looking weave, lol. So whatever. He loves a woman that keeps her hair natural but the chick in the video has a perm, lol.
gmcmim1 1 year ago
MEN LIE. They will SAY that they like natural hair, but are QUICK to turn the other way and go for a chick with FAKE straight hair! STRAIGHT UP!
tdotmusiq 1 year ago 10
@tdotmusiq
yeah but just vfor sex ..like he said...self esteem thing
franciso7 1 year ago
@franciso7
Actually not just for sex but more as a trophy or something to show off. Like look what I have thing. A man walking around with a chick with natural hair is "regular". Just like a black guy walking around with a fat white woman is "regular" it doesn't catch your attention. But if that woman was good looking with long blond hair and blue eyes, I bet everyone would be looking.
tdotmusiq 1 year ago
@tdotmusiq
Or maybe they would be looking because she is hot.
Dumbass
TheAncientX 1 year ago
@tdotmusiq Some people like being lied to.
MemoGrafix 3 months ago
I really like this video. You guys really seem to be very educated. I agree with every point in this video. I feel the same way about black women hair and I'm Black.....as long as its neat thats a really good point it doesnt matter if I wear my natural hair I'm confident so that will show, if I decide to wear a weave as long as none of tracks are showing and my hair is blended well with my weave.
kikicouture10 1 year ago
this is beautiful, nothing is more beautiful than two blakc people together. BLACK PEOPLE UNITE. TRUTH IS MOST BLACK MEN LOVE BLACK WO,MEN AND BLACK WOMEN LOVE BLACK MEN. MY GF IS BLACK AND I AM BLACK AND WE PLAN TO MARRY AND HAVE TONS OF KIDS
psychoeyez 1 year ago
I'm an hairpuller in the sack. We will not work.
Efferts 1 year ago
@creditgirl, i still get the same comments from the same group. But i notice that guys will still holla if youre cute or have a nice body. People are still ignorant and confuse about my hair.
lightshorti 1 year ago
All women are "fake", some white women have curly hair too and have to straighten their hair with an iron. All females make up theirselves like make up, fake hair, contacts, plastic surger, and et'...
lightshorti 1 year ago
Thank you for explaining the lack of black men attracted to women with natural hair! Favorited!
joede1123 1 year ago
Amen. You are an enlightened couple
L281173 1 year ago
Love it! Favorited and shared, and subbed!!!
mylaylay18 1 year ago
Kwan is a good sport! Seems like a really nice guy!
Damn! Why couldn't he be a jerk so I wouldn't feel guilty lusting after his woman! You are a lucky man, Kwan, hold her tight and don't let her go!
LVplayer56 1 year ago
he just gives the most honest clear shout out answer ..............that's to show you that typically not all men are shallow or narrow mind .....we black women need to pull out our-selves together on those 2 issues hair and skin ..........i myself is getting my self together and it took 25 years of my life yes society as done lot of damage on me as a little girl i mean specially my own family ..........but like these guy said is all about how you present yourself all neat on the platter
DaffyTaffy84 1 year ago
men like women who know how to style their hair... it's not just about having natural hair. i have natural black hair.. i style it well and i don't get judged!!
the problem is: black women gotta learn how to style their hair :)
shenke128 1 year ago
What a sensible and mature conversation, Quan and Crystal. Kudos to you both. Thanks for posting! =)
1000mishi 1 year ago
It would be nice if there were pictorial examples of what he considers to be neat natural, relaxed, and with weaves.
LadyEpoch 1 year ago
@LadyEpoch I'm sure he means put together. You can have neat afros, twists, and all kinds of other natural styles. Same with relaxed styles. It's those broken, knotted, unhealthy hair that I'm sure he dislikes (which is understandable).
ajgurl23 1 year ago
Comment removed
LadyEpoch 1 year ago
This has been flagged as spam show
@ajgurl23 The healthy stuff was added as a bonus so it really has nothing to do with his statement about neatness. Curls/coils need more product than relaxed hair to lessen frizz, so they don't appear like a "bird's nest." An example or two, rather than sarcasm, would have better clarified his definition of neat natural hair vs relaxed hair.
LadyEpoch 1 year ago
bird's nest huh? >_< lol
MissLaurenB18 1 year ago
Thank you so much for posting this. Your boyfriend's maturity is very attractive.
tvkuykendall1 1 year ago
This has been flagged as spam show
Both of you guys rock!
firmingitup 1 year ago
He's a good actor. Now try to ask a AAM that isn't whipped.
thinker900 1 year ago
Hey man you have a decent woman; please treat her right. She's bright, articulate and put together.
bryanferryfan 1 year ago
@Washanen07 Oh and by the way, if pubic hair is good enough for men to put their faces in, I don't see what the problem is.
CandiedChestnut1 1 year ago
@Washanen07 Well, I wear my "pubic" hair the way it is. I don't care what men think I was or was not blessed with. Either way we wear our hair, we'll be viewed in the same light so we needs to do what makes us feel good, because who cares anyway? Oh and by the way, since I've got pubic hair on my head, at least consistent in both places. I'm all for being blessed with consistency - no surprises.
CandiedChestnut1 1 year ago
@Washanen07 If you feel a woman is mariage material based on her hair then you will have a rude awakening. Just because a black woman has straightens her hair, it doesn't mean she wants to be white. I think she's trying to be conservative looking. Aboriginal women have straight hair and they're black. All races have straight hair.
CandiedChestnut1 1 year ago
Good vid! I've had nothing but positive feedback with my fro! : )
33Kellymc 1 year ago
@Washanen07 What a silly, discriminatory thing to say...it's neither true, nor nice to make such a sweeping generalization about any group of people. I hope you get to a point where you learn more about the black women around you. It'd probably shock you.
dtp8806 1 year ago
@dtp8806 Let her stay in the dark she doesn't deserve to know how many black women wear natural hair she thought was a weave.
NeNaturalMature 1 year ago
Question, are you proposing that your man's view is representative of how all of black men feel about black hair? That's just not right girl. BTW, he looks a little intimidated and saying what you want to hear.
vuvopd 1 year ago
@vuvopd I don't think that's the case at all. This man is giving his personal opinion, and offers how he thinks the majority of the men he encounters probably feel. And he definitely seems confident enough in himself to speak his own mind.
dtp8806 1 year ago
When I was wearing my silky straight wig, more guys to notice me. I have twist now, more females are giving me compliments at work. The white men and women love my hair because its natural. I agree with him, immaqture black males like the thug types are going to be ignorant to naturals.
lightshorti 1 year ago
@lightshorti , I realize your post was 5 months ago, but it is all so true. I decided one day to wash my hair, put it in small braids. Got to work the next day and got compliments from white women & white men ...........Not a word from the black men. Not that I was looking for their approval or something. But some of these ignorant negglits like the guy posting on this channel**Washanen07"** callg BW all kinds of filthy names just make me sick w' there immaturity.
Creditgirl2020 1 year ago
I enjoyed the video.I however disagree with the point with the media.I have noticed that on most tv ads all the sisters are wearing natural "looking" hair.I love that look personally...but check it out.Most times its afro or natural twists...Just love it...looks sophisticated to me.
Nice looking couple...lady really looks good and intellegent....a bit jealous...lol..lol
Yahaddix 1 year ago
you guys make THE CUEST COUPLE!! i really enjoyed watchng this :)
15juicyj 2 years ago 18
The truth is men r extremely visual. There's no getting around it. It sounds shallow and maybe it is but I totally saw a difference when I was natural and when I wore a weave (I tried it as an experiment). Guys were coming out of the wood-work to talk to me when I had long straight hair. Put it this way, you can try to "stay true" or whatever but if you want to b married and impregnated before you're barren, have a skinny waist nice legs and long silky hair. And smell good.
RoxStew5 2 years ago 2
Great video! I say be yourself and people will either accept you or they won't. When my hair was long and relaxed people thought it was a weave. Now that it's in a medium length afro, some laugh and point, some compliment me, either way, I'm wearing it natural. Please yourself first!
krissybug 2 years ago 5
please stay together and continue to post vids...
Keoshia311 2 years ago 2
LIKE OH MY GAWDDD! I KNOW RIGHT?
sdLove00 2 years ago
u too are very intelligent individuals.. i enjoyed watching :)
foxyqueen08 2 years ago
What an adorable couple you guys are. I wish you both the best in your relationship!
Banksparty4 2 years ago 3
I have a nice head of hair, It's naturally curly & nice. It's down my back when straight (thanks to my maternal white grandmother and my paternal indian grandmother.)
I asked my husband if he liked it straight or curly. He said straight & it hurt my feelings. It seems black men don't like natural hair even if it's considered good. I asked him is it b/c he likes caucasian type hair. He said no but I don't buy it. So now, I won't straightened my hair again, at least not for awhile.
rumblegrill 2 years ago
@rumblegrill do not see it like that. My ex BF begged me to not relax my hair, because he loves the curls. So not all men think like your husband. And also he just stated what he preferred you wearing. It is nothing major. It is not everything he wears you love so.. do not let this get to you like that. it is just his preference but he loves you.
mynaturalelegance 2 years ago
as black men i am sick of Hair bullshit!
brownheartxxx 2 years ago 2
@brownheartxxx well it defeats the whole purpose of clicking on a video about hair don't you think? It's a bit redundant to do so. Why not ignore the topic?
AmaryllisTV 2 years ago
as a black man i think black women who have relaxed is that its cool. afro or natural hair style is not for everyone. i like both styles. i just hate girls or women with colors in their head like yellow, red, blue.
MRbossman1982 2 years ago 4
I think that what is natural is beautiful. Having relaxed hair can be nice but a black woman would be more beautiful with her natural hair! also relaxers are to chemical and actually kill our scapl and hair!! Can you imagin a white girl with afro hair??And when u see one of them trying braids . What do you think, Boss? Is it nice??
laeti25 2 years ago 3
Great video! Y'all are so cute! And, I appreciated Kwan's opinions. I agree that w/ men it comes down to personal preference. I also think that most black men, if given the option, prefer permed non-weaved hair like yours. And as a natural, I don't begrudge this! To each his own is what I say. Also, as Kwan pointed out neatness & confidence matter a lot. So much that a man will ignore his first hair preference and date/marry etc a natural head if everything else about her is compatible.
mobear44 2 years ago 4
God put all these people in my life,so I could love everyone. If I didn't love the people in my life,then I would be hating myself,and i love myself.
You ask what i want to be,I want to be the best person I can be,so I can show others that its okay to be different. People stand out more & shine more. I love people not because your hair is nappy,straight,curly,but because I do. I want the same kind of love in return. That is who i want to be. Smoochez
MarquitaD111 2 years ago
furiousrai" you asked me : so what do u want to be ??????????
Are you talking about race ? I am african black.
My grandmother is half black & white,so I love Biracial people. My Great grandmother is white,so i love white people. My grandfather an Asian background,so i love asians. My mother's black,my father's black,& my dogs is black. lol I love black people.
MarquitaD111 2 years ago
This has been flagged as spam show
Alot of ignorant comments on here.
lovepeacenappiness23 2 years ago
'Neat???'
Natural Afro hair isnt neat
coily hair is beautiful but it isnt neat.
afro hair is made of a million coils and curls theres nothing neat about it
What does he mean by neat?
does he mean straightened by any chance?
Applebaum 2 years ago 5
Lovely video BUT I hope there are other men in this series besides your boyfriend, so we can get a more representative viewpoint. Im not say quality but more quantity...But good vid
mistashaft21 2 years ago 2
i must admit i never went with a sister with fake hair. i guess because the sister i meet is sister of conscious. not that i will turn down a sister with a weeve, it just happen i have not went with one. Iam attractive to natural beauty rather a black woman or not. I love the natural look of any woman.
tonnyy06 2 years ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
black girlsof US have nothing natural.they always copycat whites.but we can say The black girls of africa are natural.
furiousrai 2 years ago
if ur goin 2 say that black women arent original then u need to also say that white women arent original either. everyone copies or borrows from everyone else...
kr4l27 2 years ago
You're an ignorant person.
howardchick09 2 years ago
I am just revealing the truth.
furiousrai 2 years ago
you definitely have a white supremacist attitude, bc if you are intending to refer about straight hair, many Asians and many hispanics also have straight hair! why DOES it have to be aaalways refered to as "trying to be white"!? Also, black girls actually do not wear stuff that many white girls wear, so ur point is invalid.
onadia129 2 years ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
u must be a Black african. for ur information hispanics,asians,and whites all have almost same type of hair except colour difference.only the Blacks have ugly looking hair thatsy they always have barren head.lol..lol....
furiousrai 2 years ago
Um I think it's the other way around. Don't nobody want to be white.
MarquitaD111 2 years ago 3
This has been flagged as spam show
so what do u want to be ??????????
furiousrai 2 years ago
I like being who I was born to be, I love people of color,and I like mixed people too. I like white people,but I don't want to white at all. I like my brown complexsion & my nappy hair. I can braid it,curl it,and wear an afro. Black guys love me with straight hair or relaxed. The black man invented the relaxer,so I will wear it. I got my own hair, sometimes I wear the weave,and I have a pretty smile. Shout out 2 my Kinky sisters !!
MarquitaD111 2 years ago
Ummm....
THOWEDkitty 2 years ago
ahhhh ditto!
THOWEDkitty 2 years ago
clearly the ppl who watched this vid and the many ppl who make vids like this care. why would you watch if you don't care?
mcamurray 2 years ago
Quawn, you're a lucky man to have such a lovely black woman by your side
YoungGrizzly82 2 years ago 4
finding a girl like this is like seeing a unicorn sitting next to a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow with a pink elephant drinking out of the fountain of youth.
lucky lucky lucky....
I wish you both the best, so far you guys look like you have good communication.
I like to see this
bevon17 2 years ago
This comment has received too many negative votes show
GIRLS WITH NATURAL HAIR ARE NOT FUN
gronaldo6 2 years ago
how so?
KMELIZ21 2 years ago
i'm lots of fun lol. and i love my natural hair b/c i don't have to worry about sweating it out during certain activities *cough cough*, i let my man run his fingers all through it if he wants, and it doesn't take a million yrs for me to get ready to go out.
mcamurray 2 years ago 2
as they say: if you're bored that means YOU'RE BORING. maybe women w/ natural hair don't like you enough to want to have w/ you... i know i wouldn't have fun w/ someone who judges a whole group of ppl based on a few experiences w/ some (and you've probably never been w/ one just pulled this "boring" notion out of your ass)
have a nice "fun" life =)
mcamurray 2 years ago 3
@gronaldo6 you must be a dullard yourself it takes one to know one.
AmaryllisTV 2 years ago
wtf is a dullard???
get a weave cutie if you wanna be sexy.
gronaldo6 2 years ago
@gronaldo6 precisely you are a dulllard. I entreat you to educate yourself on the word. Hey how about making it a homework project. An no sweetie I don't need a weave to be sexy. Unlike you I am not programmed. Good luck with that sweetie happy reading!
AmaryllisTV 2 years ago
true... i've caught men when my hair was nappy or straight or weave or my own hair...if your cute your cute..I think men care more about your body 1st then face then hair...lol I know i've caught more men smaller than bigger it is what it is!!! and when ur confident a man will like you.
naeemahs 2 years ago 3
Wow! You guys are beautiful and may God continue to bless ya'll with the desires of ya'lls hearts!
invisiblelinc1 2 years ago
Preach!!!!and the women is pretty
bfullilove1 2 years ago
Really intelligent guy. Appreciate his insight.
andrew041488 2 years ago
you both make a cute couple...very interesting and intelligent gist
disneychick8891 2 years ago
In a future video would you please address how Black Men feel about Black Woman and makeup? Specially, if Black Men prefer their woman to be natural (i.e. without makeup) or wearing some makeup?
Thank you. Blessings.
NikiD40 2 years ago 6
That will be our third video in this series - definitely stay tuned NikiD40! :)
crystalroselove 2 years ago
This was a very insightful video and I am looking forward to watching this series of videos.
By the way, your boyfriend is intelligent and well spoken and is a wonderful representation of you as woman.
Thanks for sharing. Blessings.
NikiD40 2 years ago 2
Good questions and GREAT answers!
Yonnea 2 years ago
mmm he is so intelligent and eloquent!
Unekwu89 2 years ago 4
I love this video!
omthomas 2 years ago
Great Vid :)
misscnr1 2 years ago
Great idea for a video! I really enjoyed hearing Quan's point of view. Kudos to you he seems like a really stand-up man.
MlleButterfly 2 years ago
you are a beautiful couple, great video
freemefromiowa 2 years ago 2
I know a lot of black men want a women with long hair, as long as its long down your back they don't care what texture it is
rm1483 2 years ago
if your boyfriend is truly saying what he actually feels........and NOt saying what you want to hear.....(with regards to the answeres to these questions you asked) then wow you have a man that has good character .......time will tell if he truly believes what he is saying......i say that because many men are superfical.....they are driven by looks.....
awsevenn 2 years ago 2
this is just ONE black male he can;t speak for all.........
awsevenn 2 years ago
Great video! I can't wait for more informative issues.
chinasummertrip 2 years ago
When are you gonna put a ring on her finger ?
rizeuse 2 years ago
Great vid. BTW u 2 r so cute together. I can't wait to see more great vids from u guys
LadyCuter 2 years ago
u two r cute!
can't wait to see more videos i enjoyed this first one
blessingsgirl 2 years ago
I really enjoyed this vid and I hope you all do more vids dealing with issues between men and women, relationships, sex, marriage,dating,etc.
TheSoctress 2 years ago 4
Can you guy's make a video on inter-racial dating (black men & non-black women and black woman & non black men), sex & dating, and issues that are effecting the black community.
Thanks!
ladybott5 2 years ago 3
Hey ladybott5, this is Kwan, sure thing we will address those subjects. Thanks for the suggestion!!
crystalroselove 2 years ago
This was great!
Nikki3100 2 years ago
I agree with this man. way to go!!!!
ilovecandles24 2 years ago
great video! :)
tianasneaddx0 2 years ago
for some reason i have a problem with weaves and extensions. i don't know why. but ya know that is my preference. my preference is women with thier natural hair. now if it is natural or relaxed...to me it doesn't mater but what does matter is if it looks good or not. some women look good with relaxed hair, some don't..some look good with natural hair and some don't
IncredibleStan 2 years ago
I have to agree with you.
ilovecandles24 2 years ago
When are yall getting married?
astephiesteph 2 years ago 5
Great Video! Thanks so much. Very informative and interesting :), I am looking forward to more videos in this series.
Steffmd25 2 years ago
i absolutly LOVE your boyfriend. He seems perfect for you(:
what a charming young smart black man.
CMHbooks 2 years ago 9
i think this could lead to a series on "what a mature black relationship/man/woman looks like"
pleeease? lol great vid, nice couple :)
cynthiarf 2 years ago 2
crystalroselove, your man seems to have a very good head on his shoulders. I It's good to see that there are some out there who know how to spot a decent man. The main point that I agree with him on is that if a man doesn't like a woman because she has natural hair he's immature and not worth her time.
kuunami 2 years ago 3
this was a great video, definately looking forward to more of this. btw lovely couple.
shallom360 2 years ago 3
I luv this video, WOW, your boyfriend is so right on and smart, btw you guys are a cute couple!!!!!!!!
anje186 2 years ago 3
I am going to love this series!!!! Excellent video!!!
MACmami25 2 years ago 3
wow, im happy you got a males point of view on black women hair and plus you guys are a cute couple>
chudrock28 2 years ago 2