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  • Really helped me <3

  • GO TO EAT PLEAZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!­!!

  • "you're" not "your".

  • can you guys relly blame me being competely surprised by this?

    he has talked about feeling like a woman in many videos !!!

  • you are completely right about this love subject though...

  • you are strong by becomming a boy all of the sudden, after you explained about yourself NOT being a boy???

    i'm sorry but you have said you feel like a girl... and now this???

    strong???

    wtf...

  • That's life law. I'm engaged and my ex bf was messing arround until he realized I'm in love with my fiance and that I forgot him. But sometimes, he says stupid things like I dont have a fiance, that Im lieing, that Im still in love with him, but actually, I never fell in love with him, that's why I broke up with him. The point is, they will never acept that we're moving on.

  • im going through that right now :(

  • why the fuck are you suddenly a boy????????????

  • @Neytiri563 why the fuck are you suddenly noticing this???????? (he's been like this for at least a yr now.)

  • I love you! :)

  • Thanx my ex bf just pleated for me back after he cheated on me and I just thought," Wow, he must really love me." but in reality, he just wanted to keep me on a string. Thanx Chris ur amazing and I look up to u as a role model thank u so much u've helped me with so many of my relationship problems and I just wanted to thank u and just say ur an amazing person

  • you speak alot of sense :)

  • Wow. You are so right! This video has just opened my eyes to my own situation. Thank you so much!!! I LOVE your videos!

  • I think I need help. I love my ex and I cry when ever I see him hurt but I don't know how to get over him. He doesn't see how I feel. I don't mind him being with other girls but I get pissed off when they're a bitch to me and they act like they know everything about him. I'm not sure if he feels the same way. I'm keeping my love away from him, so what if he's doing the same?

  • @XXDEMANDEDXX

    You could tell him how you feel. I dont know but its far better than actually starting something with a person who just sees you as convenient for the time and then they cheat on your and/or leave you for the next best thing that comes along. When you truly in love with someone you need to be careful because it is the greatest hurt you will know if you think you finally had it and then lose it. But then again, we always lose all in the end.

  • @XXDEMANDEDXX Try not to hold on to the idea that he might love you back. There's someone out there for you who will love you with their whole entire heart! So go find them. Love is precious and should only be saved for someone who wants to give it back to you just as much! So pick yourself up, brush the dust off your knees and find someone or something that makes your life better, and not worse :)

  • Chris, your so right. So many men cry after me when i move on after they dumb me, i forgive and go back with him but in the end the relationship is already been broken. I broke up with one guy for 5 times in 3 years and I never wanna do that mistake ever again. Love ya!

  • well fml...why is love so complicated!!

  • Intuitive, wise and humorous = Intelligence. Yep! Chris Crocker Show coming soon to a media channel near you!

  • true!!

  • This is so true my bf brook up with me about a year ago and after a long time when I was over him he kept calling me hot and saying he liked me

  • You are a sexy sensitive man, and damn I wish I had a chance! :*(

  • Right on! Right on.

  • i agree with the end to a point, your true love will/does know he/she loves you always but, that doesn't mean spending time apart is a bad thing. even married couples spend time away from each other, as do bf/gfs and engaged couples

    all i'm saying is if u (both or just 1) feel u need some time apart to sort your feelings either for the other person or in general, then calmly explain it to your significant other and do it. if they leave you because of it, then imo it wasn't gonna work out anyway

  • @mudra136 didn't have enough space to say it clearly. by "it wasn't gonna work out anyway" i mean, if the other person can't let you have SOME time to yourself or can't be without you for even a day (not referring extreme love)...or the right word would be "unable to be without" and they leave you because you're not with them 24/7 then honestly i don't think you're in a very healthy relationship, you will be drained if you don't get "alone" time, which means you'll prolly do things you shouldn't

  • damn chris you are very wise 

  • Very good advice! This made so much sense. :)

  • exactly what I'm going through right now. My ex who broke up with me hated how I would always call or text them saying I'm annoying. Now I have turned the tables around. I haven't talked or texted my ex, now they keep calling and texting XD whatabitch :O asking they need my help or advice :/

  • really really good advice : )

  • Most Def Needed To Hear This ., I Love That Youu Keep It Real Babyboy . Forreal . My Ex Is Putting Me Threw Hell Right Now And To Know Im Not The Only One Facing These Challenges Of Love Means A Lot <3

  • you are very well spoken !

  • absolutely true

    i just wish i didn't love him so much that he knows i'll still always be there for him when he needs someone

  • exactly what i am goin thru now

  • this is 1000000 % true.

    believe it or not your videos do impact some peoples lives. thank you

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  • good advice

  • u're not famous anymore !!! and u not been in any movies like u dreamed...hahhaahahh

  • This is so weird because I'm going through this right now and I went to watch his vids and after a few this one turned on and I was like wow. So stop hating cause Chri does help a lot of people ^^

  • So what do u do or say to them when they're asking u back?

  • @jennycasi  You say no.... I've been through this... Chris is absolutely right!

  • Chris, u just helped me in every single way, since i NEEDED to know more about love. u are awesome! don't let anyone tell you gays are faggs, cause u guys are the most courageous ppl on the face of Earth. it ain't easy admitting that ur gay, especially if ur making videos on YouTube, since there may be thousands of haters who would love to kick ur ass just for what u want, like and believe.

    :) good luck in the future with ur relationships!

  • I wish I'd had these videos available when I was a teen... it could have saved me so much pain. Your advice is solid, and it crosses all lines- age, gender, whatever.

    I'm sorry you've had to hurt so much. I hope things are better now.

  • well, this is too true. this fucking sucks. 

  • ...You're*

  • You're completely right. =/ And I officially love you for making this video.

  • :( bad memories

  • for once you are right.. jealousy isn't necessarily love it's control all right

  • Speaking the truth here Chris! I like it!

  • I know what ur going thru Chris. I broke up wit my now ex cuz he was a real player and i felt like i really thought i found love. But i was wrong. Now he is wanting me back so much.

  • Chris this is exactly what I went through about 2 months ago with my ex! I am so glad that I wasn't going crazy thinking it was uncommon, you are awesome by the way :-D

  • this explained me a lot, it actually made me tear up. it's so true.

  • I wish my ex would want me back..lol

  • he always shakes his hand like giving a handjob

  • I totally know what your saying here. I've had issues moving on from an ex who would text me on and off from varying numbers for over a year. I tried to be direct, but it was very hard for me; so recently I ended up changing my phone number. I tried to give him time and hope that we would eventually drift apart yet it seemed he didn't want that. I still feel rather guilty over it but I know it was for the best, and I agree moving on is very hard and we all just have to work on getting stronger.

  • I agree Chris! Great advice, for all his viewers that would like to get back with their ex however check out Attract Your Ex Blueprint @exbackblueprint

  • I agree Chris! Great advice, for all his viewers that would like to get back with their ex however check out Attract Your Ex Blueprint

  • so true!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • Dear Chris. Love your sincerity, and admire your wisdom beyond your age. It's brilliant, because it's very entertaining too. Thanks, and best wishes to you.

  • GOD your getting depressing now...come on...wheres the unny stugh.?

  • chris crocker, i am disappointed. people don't watch your videos because you give good advice. they watched you because you were batshit crazy. man up, put your girl outfit back on, and cry about something so we can hate you better.

  • I needed this today. Thank you, Chris <3

  • you're*

  • Thank you chris! this video really helped me :) xx

  • I never thougt you would vlog about something that was this relevant to my life... :D X O X O Straight girl!

  • @ChrisCrocker you should start a podcast & take people's calls for advice; I bet you could help a lot of people.

  • Not hating but if this is the basics of emotional Intelligence then I must be really emotionally developed because I'm only 16 and could have told you this but nice vid

  • i think he studies psycholoy or something cause he really knows the basics of emotional intelligence.

  • Word.

    Jar of Hearts <3

  • What happened 2 your makeup i want something to laugh at!!

  • i love youuuu the new chriscrockerrr <3!

  • THANK YOU CHRIS ! this video really made me stronger ! <3

  • @GreatxAshley Fight me

  • @ALEXANDER66616 LOL ! OKAI !

    SIKE

  • my fucking ex played my heart and everyday he mgs me & txt me everyday saying i want you back I HATE HIM

    he cant even stand i am bi but he keeps asking me out

  • Its like you made this video just for me! Well said my friend, well said

  • Are u a christian....

  • a friend of mine sent this to me and DAMN this makes sense. thank you.

  • I actually needed to hear that today! Wow, you helped me alot! Thank youuu <3

  • fix the damn videotitle!

  • muting you makes you look straight. weird

  • i wish i heard this b4 and now i know he doesn't love me he only loved the control.

  • I love u sweetie you've always had a special place in my heart u r how americans should be. people r so scared to be themselves and will try to tear down anyone who is keep rockin!!!

  • Ooh my gosh, you made so much sense. Your my new hero dear. <3

  • UGH! I wish i heard this in January!

  • Before, i thought you were really annoying as you dressed up like a girl and spoke so loudly and crazily, but i really like this calm, advice giving side of you as you talk nicely to the camera. I hope you keep this up.

  • Amen !

  • Ughhh, this just made me realize how much i really love my ex... Long story short, he's as low as you can get but i still feel for him....

    Oh well, Imma still move on and live my life.

    ily chris... even when you're some crazy mofuckker ;)

  • Well said.

  • You should make more vids like this.....

  • This is so true ! God, i have to send this video to all my Girlfriends and say "seeeee THIS is what i've been telling you "

  • So true! :)

  • you're*

  • I'm so happy I found this,my ex wanted me back,telling me that we're secret lovers,in the end I told him my mind.How horrible he was to me and that my fiance is the GREATEST thing that has ever happened.Your videos make seem like we're very much alike,haters hate us for what we are.But hell that's what makes us real and strong. <3 And to all the girls that moved on for the better HELL YES,FOR BEING THE STRONGER PERSON! :D

  • This video made me cry, to be honest. Thank you. <3

  • Thank you chris. <3

  • This right here just gave me hope, im crying.

    My recent ex ignored me all the time, so I left him

    He came back a few days later cause I had started hanging out with my now boyfriend, (my Joseph<3), and I almost went back to him, almost.

    Then I took a step back and said "Fuck you dude, go find another heart to break"

    Chris, I love you, you give me so much hope that there is real love in this world <3

  • Wow u ARE PRETTY FUCKIN SMART

    i MUST ADMIT

  • i love your advice they are always so true <3

  • yeah i hate when people want you when u moved on...they should of known better

  • I need to take that in. Down to the ground.

  • preach!

    

  • i hate that your right....

  • I love this bc this fits what I have been goin thru for the past 2 months almost! I cried watching this bc it is hard.. And no one understands

  • You're totally right. I guess some people feel lonely when the relationship ends and then jump back to their ex if there is a chance, even if they know it's a mistake.

    Also, you look really hot with this look ;)

  • I wish u were straight! :( ur the WHOLE PACKAGE CHRIS!

  • @Country0gal u dont mind he used to be a cross dressin' tranny?

  • This is like every relationship I've been in. I've always felt like I need to keep distant or cause problems to keep the other person interested, but after feeling bad for what I did so many times, I finally tried to be myself, be sweet & keep communication. Now they don't want me anymore. I'm so glad I just watched this. It helped me realize that what what I really don't want is them. Now I can move on with out thinking about what I did wrong & not give a shit when he wants me back this time.

  • Thats not love , Thats regret

  • heyy yuh look bomb-ER then Before ! ! ! (:

  • @SirithHeruwen Hater.

  • My boyfriend and I got together right after I had a major break down and lots of woe... and he was the only one there to pick me up. <3

  • Good on you Chris, you said all the right things in this video :)

  • Sometimes your ex wants you back when you're moving on because they like what they are seeing. Usually when we are moving on we gain confidence and have a glow about us because all the weight that was on our shoulders has been lifted and when they see us like that they almost expect us to stay that way which is why they want us back.

    I love this video.

  • Thanx Chris, this is very helpful...and yes you are right sometimes we have to go back to the assholes to get it out of our systems :)

  • wow needed that!

  • "Someone feeling jealous for you is not a testament for love, that's a testament of control." SO.FUCKING.TRUE. A lot of people need to hear this shit.

  • This is incredibly helpful, thank you.

  • i went through a tough break up last year, and the guy i was with, always wanted me back, i agree with you chris (: Thank you.

  • 2:18

  • omg, this video came to me at the perfect moment. Muchas Gracis!!!! xoxo

  • Your like a world wide therapist keep it up Chris(:

  • I love when you make videos like this!

  • He/She would actually be a really cute guy...

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  • i love you for this video.

  • No I'm joking

  • Fag

  • My ex from 8 years ago-have not heard or seen him since , is sending me 4 emails per day, morning, afternoon, night, am,..this has gone on for 1 week. I have not replied, he now has stopped. unreal!

  • You know? I love you:D when I'm depressed I can watch you, and you make me feel better, your also a great therapist, in my opinion (:-3

  • This is so true, it's funny that i would watch this video at this time in my life, when it's actually happening... The guy i lost my virginity was the biggest asshole you'll ever meet in you're life. And all he cared about was the sex. I've been through a lot of heartbreak because of him, and now FINALLY after a year or two has passed, i'm with some i truly love and vice versa, and he's come back to tell me he still "loves" me. Thank you Chris, for letting me know it's all fake. <3

  • @Helloimemilyful Was the sex good?

  • So true so true

  • If your voice was deeper and you werent gay u'd be kinda hot

  • @LaurenMaiden wtf. chris doesn't care. i'm a straight girl and im wondering wtf youre thinking writing this. :)

  • dude u look wayy better as a guy stop being a girl cuz it makes u being gay actually kinda scary

  • @atreyu21e he's gay. o_o duh.

  • @flufiiii i know tht obviously im just sayin

  • Oh by the way Chris you look better as a male. (It's actually kinda sexy)

  • I love you here!

  • yhu gay no offence

  • @wizkhalifamantroop25 yes he is! <3

  • @wizkhalifamantroop25 yhu stupid no offence

  • @Lexightonportia naw som times ppl be actin gay jus 4 attention on youtube lik a vid i watch few mins ago

  • @wizkhalifamantroop25 I'm pretty sure he's really gay.

  • @wizkhalifamantroop25 Maybe because he is? O_O

  • @wizkhalifamantroop25 no shit sherlock!

  • Chris, i just want to tell you how much i love you. <3

    The fact that your gay, is what makes you, you.

    You really konw how to brighten up my day.

    So, thank you. <3

  • mmm!

    man chris is sexxay ;o

    but so is woman chris:)

  • So true!

    Not that I've ever had a boyfriend/girlfriend but your most likely right!

  • one of your best videos Chris! love this!

  • so glad I watched this...its just what I needed....you're amazing!

  • It's things like this that make him my idol -3

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  • Absolutely Correct.

  • @monochromedx watch .. what is normal by chris crocker.

    i like old chris better .. new chris looks straight though. it's cute.

  • exactly right now! I LOVE THIS :)

  • Crazy stuff..... You I never thought that you where chirscrocker until I saw the username..... Crazy stuff...

  • Wow. My boyfriend's ex is exactly like this, my gosh I love you Chris.

  • exactly what im going thru right now. Thank god for this video

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  • God, I wish you had made this video in January. That's exactly what I went through. Ex-fiance convinced me to come back after 5 months of STRENGTH. I was doing great. And then I folded. And THEN... I had to re-get over him. So not worth it. I can do better, and so can everyone else that has to deal with the losers that do this. Cut that string.

  • I cant decide which is cuter? you as a girl or a boy? okay i know I PICK BOTH LOL xoxo

  • I really love it when you do these kinds of videos, you have no idea how some of them have affected me. You've helped to bring me out of some of my lowest lows. Thankyou!

  • WOW, you look really good as a man! thought you were a different person!!

  • Thank you! Words of wisdom for everyone.....you have NO idea how much that helped me just now.....you're the man or the wo-man....whatever u want to be.

  • well you wont let anyone post a response video (boo), so i guess i'll send it to you in a message.

  • So true.

  • I have a friend doing this to me right now, actually after 8 years of not speaking, she is mad because i wont reply to her emails for her wedding invite

  • Are you and Danny okay?! I love ya'll together. What's wrong?! :(