wow.... you and i relate so much.. there isn't one difference i can find about our dads and the pain thats its caused. I've done what you've done, and feel exactly what you feel... :( im sorry, be strong and hang in there..
i started crying to this. i grew up without my dad he didnt even want to see what i looked like. he has never seen me so all my life it has just been me,mum and my grandparents. there will be times your sad but be happy. when you feel sad do something that makes you happy. sometimes its better without dads xxx but dont make him think your not perfect you are xxx
he will not even talk to me anymore!! and i cry everyday and night about it bc hes basically telling me that he dont want me anymore! he hates me. and idk what to do,i didnt do anything to him at all! i wish hed be there more and talk to me):
i don't know my dad... only one who does is my mom, he left when i was born and never came back, it sometimes makes me think i was an acsident, not meant to be on earth. i really don't talk about it cause i don't like people feeling sorry for me, though i don't think anyone would because they probably have worse probloms in there life, there are only 2 or 3 of my friends that know this. but i have survived what will be 11 years (as of this month) of my life
i never saw my dad ever he wasnt there when i was born my mom told me about him and stuff but i really wish i could meet him eye to eye and i wish if i possibly had a "dad" or if he is alive if you are reading this please come back i want to meet you
This is how me and my dad are when i watched this i just cried cuz it seems like no matter how much ive tried i just wasnt good enough to make him proud
I want everything back to normal I want my dad back nd my mom im lossing everyone in my life I only got my brother nd wah I did to my dad waz bad but he didnt have to treat me like this for a long time im sorry for everything I got nothing else to loses
I only wanted to make my mom proud. after every time she threw me around and abused me i always said, im sorry i cant be perfect. all i ever did was for her but she only treasured my brother. now that shes in jail and my family is dead all i want to do is impress my foster family but thats never gonna happen. my foster dad throws me around, gets drunk, and hurts me some more. i get into trouble for attention from him but that never works because the only attention is a bear bottle thrown at me
my dad really hates me =[ he never loved me never...he always insults me,always threating me....he always treats me like shit...he always yells at me...and he calls me a mistake...i don't know why he is so mean with me...i still love him...even though he destroyed my life..i can't hate him...i just want ro know why he hates me so much..why? what did i do? =[ i'm not perfect..but i think i deserve his love...all i ever wanted it was to love me for who i am...but that will never happen...
I can't really relate to this because my dad died when I was ten. But I can say that I am sorry, I know I got it easy knowing he didn't want to leave me. Its not right for a man to choose to leave his family. Hes honestly not really your dad if he didn't raise you hes your father the one who gave you life that's it. Hope things get better for you and you are loved, one of my favorite songs. I don't think anyone could be mean about this its not right.
I can relate a little bit. My dad used to beat my mom, me and my sisters. He also used to drink alot. Almost every day. (That is why I don't really like to drink.) When my parents got divorced, he found another woman. He said, he never wanted to see us again. He lives really close to me, and it kills me every time I see him. Out of me and my sisters, I'm the one who looks most like him. I don't want him to be a part of my life again. I just want to understand.
I can relate to this so much. My dad left me the day before my birthday last year.. without a hug.. a bye.. or anything.. He just got up in the middle of the night and left.. I remember watching him just walk away with a bag full of alcohol and insulin.. (He's diabetic) He'd always threaten to overdose or just stop taking it.. and I still haven't heard from him since..
@StuckOnReplay96 my dad left on my birthday i wasblind folded hittin a pinata n then i heard my mom and dad fightin then a engine started n he drove off never saw him again
I can relate, my dad is an alcoholic and a former drug addict. He left me and my brother when we were little for the drugs and alcohol. For a while I turned into him, got into drugs and I've been arrested a lot. I look at myself everyday and I'm disgusted but at the same time proud. I have my father's temper, but I have more heart than he ever will. I love u Kevin but I despise u. You're not my dad anymore, and I won't cry a single tear for you from now on. Your Daughter, Niko.
i cant relate 2 this cuz my mom kicked my dad out when i was little and my stepdad beats me , and my mom is a jerk ! but i know how it feels to be lonely and full of regret and hate ! im sorry
I texted my dad half this i ammmm so sorry dad im not the perfect Daugherty you wanted im sorry i cant be better and i'm sorry i cant make you proud and im especially sorry for all the times i lied :""""""""""""""""""""(
omg this made me cry! and i rarely cry! i always feel the same. that im not good enough, not smart enough, not perfect for my father. But we have to stand tall and live our lifes for us.
even though you dont know me im saying this as a friend your dad loves you with all his heart he may not act like it or show it but deep down in his heart he does he just dont want you to know and i hope my words help you im 13 and use to be like this and now im 14 cause i had a birthday 3 days ago and i help people like this and i wish ad hope there is a way i can help you all you have to do is inbox me im here for you and just know your always loved by some one no matter how far or near
More than likely your dad did love you. I've been there and I'm there right now. This has been my song to my dad since i was sixteen. My dad bought a bar and became an alcoholic and I hardly ever see him and when i see him I might get two words from him. I know how it feels... You'll be okay don't worry this will make you stronger
I dnt tlk bout my probs persnaly, but shit girl, u got courage to stik up to ur old man, shit if i had da fukin ballz to tlk to my pa for he fuckin split and got hiz fckin self locked up, i think we wld nt hate eachoth, shit itz been 5 years since i tlked to my old man, i ccry bout tha shit each nite, fuckin it hurts you know what im sayin, growin up in oaklands fukin hood wit out a dad in ur life, suckz fukin hard, fighitn and getin locked up, shit coulda been diffrent, hope u du well lil one
OMG! This video is my life. On thanksgiving day of this year, my dad (an alocholic) went out and crashed his truck. The truck I grew up in. He used to pick me up from daycare and take me to Dairy Queen in that truck. Well, my parents are divorcing now because of it, and I just wanted you to know that this video meant everything to me. I showed my dad and it brought him to tears, because I do write poems about him. Everything you said, its sooo true. This will definately be added to my favs.
wow, this really moved me. i know someone who doesn't get along with her dad, and it kills me to see him upset her and take her for granted all the time. and anyone who is low enough to judge you or give you abuse on this video will answer to me!
I really adore this video because even though its kind of yourself speaking - this video speaks for sooo many other out there and thats why all ur vids are extra special. And it doesn't matter what other poeple think of you - don't change yourself to make people proud, be true to yourself and thats when your inner beauty will shine to your dad
omfg this is a very powerful video and i love it 'cuz it says so much and it doesn't if it somethin' 'bout sum1 or anythin' it just matters...well it does 2 me anyway!!!!! thank u!!!
How could anybody make fun of this? Anybody that low and shallow is a jerk. Nobody deserves to be treated this way.
I hope things get better, as Famous Last Words states, "I am not afraid to keep on livin'" DON'T BE AFRAID TO KEEP ON LIVING! Nobody would want you to die, I wouldn't want you to die. You have such a creative mind; don't pay attention to those hurtful things. Headfirst for Halos (though it's a suicidal song) states, "Think happy thoughts."
all I can say is, thank you, thank you and thank you. It's so sweet of you to say these things and it really means the world to me. It's just wonderful to know that someone out there would care if you commited suicide, so thank you...so much.
@MCRisMYGUARDIANANGEL i went through alot i had to leave school when i was 19 to watch over my dad who went crazy at the time my mom was in a home allready they were in there 40's when i was born i wish i had been a better son to him but your vid makes me think in a good way thank you and bless you
@MCRisMYGUARDIANANGEL i went through alot i had to leave school when i was 19 to watch over my dad who went crazy at the time my mom was in a home allready they were in there 40's when i was born i wish i had been a better son to him but your vid makes me think in a good way thank you and bless you
Oh Rhia I'm sorry to hear that. i hope things will get bettr for you. I don't have any problems like that, the only real problem I have is that my mum has cancer, but I used to make my life seem terrible, but then there are other people like you who have REAL problems that you can't control.
Oh my God, Im so sorry about your Mum, I really dn't know what else to say other than sorry, it must be really terrible...Im always here if you need to talk.
no no I'm fine but I wouldn't worry about trying to make your Dad proud. He obviously doesn't care about you or your Mum if that's the way he treats/treated both of you. I guess It just hurts more that he wasn't always like that.
it made me think about my dad, i mean, he was awesome, but he died when i was 9 years old, n i miss him, and i can't make him proud because he isn't here anymore, that's really sad...
i think its wonderful that you're opening up to so many people. im sure it takes a lot of courage to come out about this. your a good person rhia, and i hope things are better for you
thanks Valerie :) I mainly made this vid so people that are going through the same thing as me can relate to it, I never want any of my friends to feel alone, because thier not :) thanks for your kind comment valerie, it means so much :)
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Wendy8473 1 month ago
wow.... you and i relate so much.. there isn't one difference i can find about our dads and the pain thats its caused. I've done what you've done, and feel exactly what you feel... :( im sorry, be strong and hang in there..
SadAngel5449 1 month ago
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anezriafan1 1 month ago
im so so so so so sry i cried! i have one question bcuz im confused did he die?
lollipop3562 1 month ago
i started crying to this. i grew up without my dad he didnt even want to see what i looked like. he has never seen me so all my life it has just been me,mum and my grandparents. there will be times your sad but be happy. when you feel sad do something that makes you happy. sometimes its better without dads xxx but dont make him think your not perfect you are xxx
elliotminorgirl1992 1 month ago
this reminds me of my dad!</3
he will not even talk to me anymore!! and i cry everyday and night about it bc hes basically telling me that he dont want me anymore! he hates me. and idk what to do,i didnt do anything to him at all! i wish hed be there more and talk to me):
ilovebeiber101 1 month ago
i don't know my dad... only one who does is my mom, he left when i was born and never came back, it sometimes makes me think i was an acsident, not meant to be on earth. i really don't talk about it cause i don't like people feeling sorry for me, though i don't think anyone would because they probably have worse probloms in there life, there are only 2 or 3 of my friends that know this. but i have survived what will be 11 years (as of this month) of my life
jerrika7878 1 month ago
i never saw my dad ever he wasnt there when i was born my mom told me about him and stuff but i really wish i could meet him eye to eye and i wish if i possibly had a "dad" or if he is alive if you are reading this please come back i want to meet you
Roryminer45 1 month ago
<3
liv1dMALIK 1 month ago
My dad left and sometimes i feel like he never cared :/
nooneasimperfectasme 1 month ago
@nooneasimperfectasme you were i bet you were I dont have a dad but i iwsh i did
Roryminer45 1 month ago
@Roryminer45 Well sometimes its best to leave alone coz they dont care
nooneasimperfectasme 1 month ago
the whole entire begining is like you met my dad D:
airbornracing69 1 month ago
i knw how u feel my dad was never there either he found me at 12 and now im 18 and he wants to try and be a dad to me
1babylesha 1 month ago
THIS IS SOO SADD :( !!!!! I CRIED
doggy12112 2 months ago
This is how me and my dad are when i watched this i just cried cuz it seems like no matter how much ive tried i just wasnt good enough to make him proud
crissyfuemmeler 2 months ago
im crying right know thats sad
pintofbud1 2 months ago
now I know im not alone wit this problem
prprrrr 3 months ago
I want everything back to normal I want my dad back nd my mom im lossing everyone in my life I only got my brother nd wah I did to my dad waz bad but he didnt have to treat me like this for a long time im sorry for everything I got nothing else to loses
prprrrr 3 months ago
I only wanted to make my mom proud. after every time she threw me around and abused me i always said, im sorry i cant be perfect. all i ever did was for her but she only treasured my brother. now that shes in jail and my family is dead all i want to do is impress my foster family but thats never gonna happen. my foster dad throws me around, gets drunk, and hurts me some more. i get into trouble for attention from him but that never works because the only attention is a bear bottle thrown at me
aokska 3 months ago
storie of my life...
hunterlolo0109 3 months ago
my dad really hates me =[ he never loved me never...he always insults me,always threating me....he always treats me like shit...he always yells at me...and he calls me a mistake...i don't know why he is so mean with me...i still love him...even though he destroyed my life..i can't hate him...i just want ro know why he hates me so much..why? what did i do? =[ i'm not perfect..but i think i deserve his love...all i ever wanted it was to love me for who i am...but that will never happen...
LovelyNefeli 5 months ago
I can't really relate to this because my dad died when I was ten. But I can say that I am sorry, I know I got it easy knowing he didn't want to leave me. Its not right for a man to choose to leave his family. Hes honestly not really your dad if he didn't raise you hes your father the one who gave you life that's it. Hope things get better for you and you are loved, one of my favorite songs. I don't think anyone could be mean about this its not right.
UchihaBrat13 6 months ago
I can relate a little bit. My dad used to beat my mom, me and my sisters. He also used to drink alot. Almost every day. (That is why I don't really like to drink.) When my parents got divorced, he found another woman. He said, he never wanted to see us again. He lives really close to me, and it kills me every time I see him. Out of me and my sisters, I'm the one who looks most like him. I don't want him to be a part of my life again. I just want to understand.
TheAngel1993 7 months ago
this song fits me
1904westergard 7 months ago
I can relate to this so much. My dad left me the day before my birthday last year.. without a hug.. a bye.. or anything.. He just got up in the middle of the night and left.. I remember watching him just walk away with a bag full of alcohol and insulin.. (He's diabetic) He'd always threaten to overdose or just stop taking it.. and I still haven't heard from him since..
StuckOnReplay96 7 months ago
@StuckOnReplay96 my dad left on my birthday i wasblind folded hittin a pinata n then i heard my mom and dad fightin then a engine started n he drove off never saw him again
LilLadyLove21 7 months ago
I can relate, my dad is an alcoholic and a former drug addict. He left me and my brother when we were little for the drugs and alcohol. For a while I turned into him, got into drugs and I've been arrested a lot. I look at myself everyday and I'm disgusted but at the same time proud. I have my father's temper, but I have more heart than he ever will. I love u Kevin but I despise u. You're not my dad anymore, and I won't cry a single tear for you from now on. Your Daughter, Niko.
ToxikBaby23 8 months ago
i cant relate 2 this cuz my mom kicked my dad out when i was little and my stepdad beats me , and my mom is a jerk ! but i know how it feels to be lonely and full of regret and hate ! im sorry
-Mercedes <333333333
The2000May 8 months ago
yeah , im so sorry dad for punching you on your face!!!!! im so sorrry !!!!!! i regret it i swear!!!!!!!
jetherpj1 9 months ago
I texted my dad half this i ammmm so sorry dad im not the perfect Daugherty you wanted im sorry i cant be better and i'm sorry i cant make you proud and im especially sorry for all the times i lied :""""""""""""""""""""(
lukkicharm123 10 months ago
omg this made me cry! and i rarely cry! i always feel the same. that im not good enough, not smart enough, not perfect for my father. But we have to stand tall and live our lifes for us.
MeSmorez 10 months ago
Fathers like that should be took out and shot.
MySnaz 11 months ago
even though you dont know me im saying this as a friend your dad loves you with all his heart he may not act like it or show it but deep down in his heart he does he just dont want you to know and i hope my words help you im 13 and use to be like this and now im 14 cause i had a birthday 3 days ago and i help people like this and i wish ad hope there is a way i can help you all you have to do is inbox me im here for you and just know your always loved by some one no matter how far or near
TheStarrgivens 1 year ago
More than likely your dad did love you. I've been there and I'm there right now. This has been my song to my dad since i was sixteen. My dad bought a bar and became an alcoholic and I hardly ever see him and when i see him I might get two words from him. I know how it feels... You'll be okay don't worry this will make you stronger
fallenangel1269 1 year ago
be strong girl and i am sure nobody's going to make fun of this...
unless they are total jerks n u can totally ignore them!
AshLuvsWestlife 3 years ago
Thank you so much for this, you described me!!! Hugs & kisses girl!
sarajka43 3 years ago
I dnt tlk bout my probs persnaly, but shit girl, u got courage to stik up to ur old man, shit if i had da fukin ballz to tlk to my pa for he fuckin split and got hiz fckin self locked up, i think we wld nt hate eachoth, shit itz been 5 years since i tlked to my old man, i ccry bout tha shit each nite, fuckin it hurts you know what im sayin, growin up in oaklands fukin hood wit out a dad in ur life, suckz fukin hard, fighitn and getin locked up, shit coulda been diffrent, hope u du well lil one
thugalo303 3 years ago
OMG! This video is my life. On thanksgiving day of this year, my dad (an alocholic) went out and crashed his truck. The truck I grew up in. He used to pick me up from daycare and take me to Dairy Queen in that truck. Well, my parents are divorcing now because of it, and I just wanted you to know that this video meant everything to me. I showed my dad and it brought him to tears, because I do write poems about him. Everything you said, its sooo true. This will definately be added to my favs.
sheercutegirlsfriend 3 years ago
Make the ones who care about you proud by being yourself... All that matters! All the best. :)
stevegek 3 years ago
wow, this really moved me. i know someone who doesn't get along with her dad, and it kills me to see him upset her and take her for granted all the time. and anyone who is low enough to judge you or give you abuse on this video will answer to me!
xdisenchantedxdivax 3 years ago
I really adore this video because even though its kind of yourself speaking - this video speaks for sooo many other out there and thats why all ur vids are extra special. And it doesn't matter what other poeple think of you - don't change yourself to make people proud, be true to yourself and thats when your inner beauty will shine to your dad
cRaZyLiKeAdReAm x
cRaZyLiKeAdReAm 3 years ago
omfg this is a very powerful video and i love it 'cuz it says so much and it doesn't if it somethin' 'bout sum1 or anythin' it just matters...well it does 2 me anyway!!!!! thank u!!!
BlackRose4Death 3 years ago
How could anybody make fun of this? Anybody that low and shallow is a jerk. Nobody deserves to be treated this way.
I hope things get better, as Famous Last Words states, "I am not afraid to keep on livin'" DON'T BE AFRAID TO KEEP ON LIVING! Nobody would want you to die, I wouldn't want you to die. You have such a creative mind; don't pay attention to those hurtful things. Headfirst for Halos (though it's a suicidal song) states, "Think happy thoughts."
BE STRONG, u'll get through this.
MCRisMYGUARDIANANGEL 3 years ago 9
all I can say is, thank you, thank you and thank you. It's so sweet of you to say these things and it really means the world to me. It's just wonderful to know that someone out there would care if you commited suicide, so thank you...so much.
x-Rhia-x
ILovesMcr 3 years ago 3
@MCRisMYGUARDIANANGEL i went through alot i had to leave school when i was 19 to watch over my dad who went crazy at the time my mom was in a home allready they were in there 40's when i was born i wish i had been a better son to him but your vid makes me think in a good way thank you and bless you
thyringmaster 9 months ago
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@MCRisMYGUARDIANANGEL i went through alot i had to leave school when i was 19 to watch over my dad who went crazy at the time my mom was in a home allready they were in there 40's when i was born i wish i had been a better son to him but your vid makes me think in a good way thank you and bless you
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thyringmaster 9 months ago
Oh Rhia I'm sorry to hear that. i hope things will get bettr for you. I don't have any problems like that, the only real problem I have is that my mum has cancer, but I used to make my life seem terrible, but then there are other people like you who have REAL problems that you can't control.
QueenLittleMissEvil 3 years ago 2
Oh my God, Im so sorry about your Mum, I really dn't know what else to say other than sorry, it must be really terrible...Im always here if you need to talk.
ILovesMcr 3 years ago 2
no no I'm fine but I wouldn't worry about trying to make your Dad proud. He obviously doesn't care about you or your Mum if that's the way he treats/treated both of you. I guess It just hurts more that he wasn't always like that.
QueenLittleMissEvil 3 years ago
God, I'm sorry. I know exactly whats it like, to have a drunk Dad and never have him around... And then have him lie time and time again
xXx13Jackson13xXx 3 years ago
I kinda know what it's feels like
and I hate it
not having your dad around for graduations, birthdays and christmas
my dad would beat my mom too
ILuvFallOutBoy4ever 3 years ago
that's sad...
it made me think about my dad, i mean, he was awesome, but he died when i was 9 years old, n i miss him, and i can't make him proud because he isn't here anymore, that's really sad...
Ldisenchanted 3 years ago
oowm it's so cutie !
don't worry one day everythings it's is right ..
mabelradel 3 years ago
tht is so sad
playboy5005 3 years ago
I completely understand what your going through, even though it may not seem like it, as I am to all of my friends, Im here if you need to talk =)
ILovesMcr 3 years ago
OMG I LOVE THIS SONG ITS GREAT REALLY (i want to cry lol)
darkfire1227 3 years ago
this vid makes me wanna cry it makes me think of my mom she left me at 3 now she is in and out of the hospital
Luvlace1 3 years ago
Im really sorry about that =( if you need anyone to talk to Im here =]
ILovesMcr 3 years ago
thank u
Luvlace1 3 years ago
:[
kinda know what you mean
my mom thinks I'm a mistake sometimes And my dad is never home sometimes i feel so alone...
falloutmcrmygirl25 3 years ago 2
Don't feel alone, I know it isn't much maybe, but all your friends including me on youtube are here for you :)
ILovesMcr 3 years ago 2
i think its wonderful that you're opening up to so many people. im sure it takes a lot of courage to come out about this. your a good person rhia, and i hope things are better for you
XxMCRmy619xX 3 years ago
thanks Valerie :) I mainly made this vid so people that are going through the same thing as me can relate to it, I never want any of my friends to feel alone, because thier not :) thanks for your kind comment valerie, it means so much :)
x-Rhia-x
ILovesMcr 3 years ago
I am so sorry for you. I know how you feel trying to make him proud. I try the same thing.
GCgurl4evr 3 years ago
i can relate to this video cuz my dad picked his drinking over his family and i still hate him for that
gypsygirl20 3 years ago
good stuff I like it alot...
dronus 3 years ago
Isn't this song called Perfect?
It's a Simple Plan song!
DarkKnightDreams 3 years ago
yup, simple plan-perfect
ILovesMcr 3 years ago
Thought so! ;D
DarkKnightDreams 3 years ago